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Ep. 40: My Zaidy, Reb Dovid Raskin with Rabbi Bentzion Pearson
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In this episode, Rabbi Bentzion Pearson shares about his illustrious grandfather, Reb Dovid Raskin. Over the years, Bentzion has spent a great deal of time researching and organizing his grandfather’s archives, gaining a deeper understanding of his life and his incredible ibergigebenkeit to the Rebbe, which he shared with us. He also speaks about the biographical book he is currently working on, which will tell the story of Reb Dovid’s life and legacy.
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a grandfather right away told label what
happened the label growner and
label told him to um write to the rebba
right away all the details and he'll
bring it in as soon as he can and he
wrote to he wrote to very very hard to
get the pun that the doctors are not
giving her much help told me that mis
wrote to the his pan that he's giving
her over as a daughter to the reba
I'm yasi Amen. Welcome to among
an ongoing faban about life as our
vibrant connection with the rebba and
inspired living shaped by the way he
teaches us each and every day.
How are you?
>> Thank you very much for taking the time
out of your very busy schedule to be
here.
>> It's my honor and my pleasure to uh sit
here today with you.
Okay.
and um in general you've been very
helpful
to the over the years first of all
contributing
doing interviews for and also the topic
that I want to discuss with you is about
and many many times the has published
documents pictures from the from the
Rasin family archive from so that's also
a very big contribution that you have
had in the
>> Yes. Um it's a big to be able to uh
share all that information with you. Um
firstly I want to take this opportunity
to publicly thank you for all the work
you do for Labavich. The dear is a
household name in every me in every lab
house. And um I understand what it takes
to get something published. And um the
fact that you get this going out every
month for about 15 years now
is very very impressive.
Um I happen to have every single de hair
from kissive ten if I'm not mistaken
>> until
and um yeah it's a it's a real treasure.
>> Okay Benji
>> um so about the um about my grandfather.
So it's interesting I actually didn't
know him that well uh growing up. Um
he got sick um a few years after Griml
Thomas um when I was a kid and um I mean
I only got to know him after he passed
away. It's interesting
um looking through his archives speaking
to people firstly the week of Shiva
that's how it really started. Um
but uh growing up
my memories of him were more or less
um him always asking to to say the Yubis
basukim whenever he would call the house
would always uh pass the phone around.
everyone had the opportunity to say the
to him and um as well as Pes I remember
one year Pak him talking about when um
he was his parents came
I couldn't understand much because the
language barrier and I was young but um
you know I was too young to fully
appreciate uh who he was
um yeah
>> and you're saying that after he passed
away and you really started delving into
both the the archive that he left and
also talking to which I know that you
you have a knack for speaking to people
that are many many years your senior and
you know you know you know you know
their language so uh you learned a lot
about him from that.
Um yeah,
the um the interesting thing is
um
from I would say from when he
from when I was a kid I would always get
the whenever I would say say my name I'd
always get the response was an I never
understood what that meant for me was I
never got the I never und understood
what the reaction was. I thought maybe
everyone gets that. It's the way how you
you know communicate with a kid to uh
kind of praise his grandfather. But um
only once I grew up I started really
appreciating on um what people meant but
like who who this man was you know um
yeah so I want to focus on that a little
bit. So you you are right that
I mean there's something about that
everyone
every person in that knows
what's going on really talks about him
with a certain level of respect and like
he he takes up a very very prominent
role in Dashvi.
So before we get into the details of you
know I guess the history of you know
where he came from and like what what is
that what what is the if if you had to
put it in one or two paragraphs what is
it about David that makes him such a
central figure
>> firstly whenever I would approach
someone about um I'm working on this
book as you mentioned
>> I don't think I don't think we me I
mentioned the book
>> oh maybe before the podcast
>> so you you were working for the last few
years all of the archives and everything
that you had
the end result is going to be as
beautiful book about
called the David and you actually
printed a few um tatisen a few excerpts
of of the future book that people have
really really enjoyed so far.
>> Yeah. So um when I would approach people
for an interview,
it's funny. I would get a um a variety
of responses. Some people would say a
book in Abd like how's that how's a sh
put that person a larger than life
personality in a book. How can you
confine him in a book? And um other
people would say
he didn't have any other life besides
others would say.
So that that was everyone had different
responses or a funny interesting episode
and when they were B7 or they got
involved with the
interesting thing is virtually almost
every single Ber and Lababich went
through his interacted with him at one
point or another um throughout their
Baka years even you know uh the first
years of living in Crown Heights just
because the role that he the central
role that he played in the mist
um everyone one I mean I won't say can't
say everyone but almost anyone that I
approached had a memory or a interesting
story to say about him
>> right
>> which was uh
>> he had he had multiple roles
and
he's also part of I'm saying there's
many roles of many hats yeah
>> that's the famous joke right
that there was a meeting of
and maybe another organization And
there's only one person there that have
done it. Okay. So let's let's um
>> I actually heard from someone once that
he went there organized a mitzvah of a
tank parade this.
So um
because of the two roles that Mada
played he responded to him
>> what was the question if you can arrange
a mitzvah tank parade for which the
pager was. So they answered him um
um this it's not a problem but
how he would use those two roles and one
you know that was it's interesting
>> they say a story by isn't there sort of
about it that had a sim in his family
and he called maybe it was I don't know
exactly what it was maybe it was a and
he called to
give the answer from that answered you
know for let's say for the he hung up
the phone and he picked up the phone
again and as a father and said maz you
know two two different roles
yeah
these were the these were the people
>> yeah okay so so let's talk about let's
get into a little bit of David where he
comes from, where he's born, and
obviously who his parents and zedas
were. And then uh we'll we'll do it like
that.
>> So he was born on yud's niss tine.
It's April 1927
in Babroskus.
His parents were
his mother's name was Dreza and her
maiden name was Kaplan.
She was a daughter of the
Reandal Kaplan. He was known as Reando
deassid. There are many interesting
stories about him. Actually deer printed
an article uh about him which um I think
Mandy Greenberg prepared and um I was to
um assist him with uh with that article.
But um yeah, he was a legendary.
There's um we can talk about him later,
but that's on one um that's on his
mother's side. Then the other side um
his other ZA was
my namesake. Um and he was known as
Rascin.
Um both sides they go the lineage goes
all the way back um I don't know so much
about the captain but definitely the
rascan side um goes back all the way to
the times of the magent
actually
>> but the first rascan is um
bear that was his name and he was born a
few years after the magalus
>> he was a
>> he was
Yeah, I'm not sure if the yet was
kofa.
Um
I think he lived in Gork or so, but uh
yeah, both sides. Um his father
was
especially for
once he spoke about him that there's a
yid that lives not far from Moscow
um he wakes up every morning I think
maybe he said 4:00 a.m. So and he says
tell him with bitter tears
what causes these these tears is that he
asked the there's
his children and grow up to be
um in those times communism etc. It was
a very big challenge to have all your
children go in the you know
and um to have to have that um
that you know it should help that it
should be that way and see that all of
his children on
they were all
um Yeah, we still see the pers today.
So that's that's Ben Sharaskin. There
are many interesting stories about him
as well. Uh you had it here a few weeks
ago. He's a cousin. He's a relative of
ours and um he said some stories um
about I think he spoke about Bensha a
little bit but um remember he one time
when one of my interviews with him he
mentioned to me Jacobson um once told
him once told that he remembers Benaskin
once in a train station and didn't dab
him yet
and he was like hesitating if he should
uh take out this film now maybe it's a
Sakono you know going and you started
wrestling. So eventually he had he had
like you have to maybe you've seen a
picture of him. He had these balding
eyes and and like a very intense like
look of aid. He said like right now stop
what you're doing and put until now.
don't maybe it was close to the whatever
it was but he said that had in him like
don't be a spoil from your you know the
surroundings here
put on now and uh as I put on house and
film whatever it was and don't be a spo
and um yeah remember Sarasan a relative
Krab told me that she's also an she
married her first cousin Isa's brother
Mendel Kraabad she said one Friday night
She came home this lrad event she came
back from Kabala Shabas and she was she
was a kid maybe four or five years old
playing with some toys. So he said, "Uh,
good chabas." Gachabus, good chabas. And
she was, she's like, I told him, "Gab."
And she got back to what she was doing
before. So like he got up in her face
and said, "A chabas." He he wanted her
to say a chabas with with he wanted that
that relation to be in her you know in
her consciousness that it's not
but today's chabas kadesh you know we
mark it and it's and he wanted a great
mish that his kids shouldn't go to
shouldn't go to the communist school
system then they actually move to cities
it's a whole
um in order to escape that and uh to
make sure ensure that his
but but this was the background that
Misa grew up on this was the um
the uh you know life circumstances and
his you know his roots but um was born
at Pine Niss and Pine so you need to
remember this is uh it's just a few
months before the fab's arrest on Tes
Um
and um during that time in general were
really being persecuted and uh the
viaexia was really uh going down on them
and u you know
>> how they um the immish took him out one
night for you know to give on
whatever and they beat um broke his
glasses. They they really beat him. They
tortured him and the the family had no
idea where he was. Um they didn't know
if he was still alive or if they took
him somewhere. They end up bringing him
back the next day. They just brought him
in for um you know to give them
information.
But it was it was very very tough times.
Um
yeah so everything was maf's bar mitzvah
was in 1940 in lengrad
and that my uh uncle's bar mitzvah in
talam gimmel 1973 I heard on a recording
of him talking there
and he says my breitzvah was in lengrad
in tshin and is I think in the house of
his um aunt masara misara the famous
mumasara was my um ela sister And um it
was such a massive then he says we
couldn't know where where we'll be the
next day. So they were constantly on the
run and um
Ellien the family escaped Lengrad
in the summer of Topshin Alf 1941 when
Germany
was invading Russia and um before they
bombed the last tracks out of Russia the
Rascan family um
>> out of Russia out of
out of Russia proper.
>> Yeah.
>> Mhm. the Rascan family. Um Barashem
managed to escape and um the last train.
So this is and then from there
just you know we can in each section we
can talk hours about but um on each
period but um they they made it to Amata
in Kazakhstan on his toughen bays
and um they were there for the next uh
two years or so. Most of the weren't in
Alan.
>> Yeah, it's actually interesting point
you bring up. Um, a lot of I think went
to end up going to Sabre or um
>> Tashkant from that point. Um there
probably was cities in between of course
but
writes in his which I'm sure we'll get
to soon that
like it says by the sent him to be his
brothers and
that's why was sent to that's where
tells his brothers and I used you didn't
send me sent me to and he writes that to
um The greatus he had him and his family
had to be mashed the parents.
>> Okay. So they came before they came to
al- Mat before the Reb's father came two
years before. Yeah.
>> Two years before. So they so when the
Reb's father came they were already um
like they knew the territory.
>> Yeah. The reb only came after
right's parents only lived from after
>> basically after his sentence was
finished
>> in Chile then after the sentence was
finished then he moved to Mata then that
was said Pesal
>> that's when they arrived yeah
>> so from
>> he was already involved in in part of
the team bringing him from Chile to
where lived but um but yeah but he was
um he already had Yakas actually The
first time he metic I think um
>> yeah was inifason
in tish
this is 1917 or so he actually wrote the
he had a beautiful you have to see some
of his umim
he has a every letter is like an art
anyway so
asked him to write the minutes of the
meeting of rabanim
and um the minutes or abs suck that uh
whatever it was maybe the particle
whatever it was that um that was
discussed then and uh
yeah I think either maybe maybe he
copied over to so more people there was
no copy mission then obviously so maybe
he copied over the whatever it is it's
in the it's in the but the point that
was the first encounter that he had with
him first interaction and then
afterwards um yeah I mean in tandal of
course him and his sons and his daughter
had a greatus to um be there with to
serve him him and his
was um treasured very much and um
there's a lot more to talk about and
once they came to America
>> one of my few memories of I mean I had
many I had many memories of your
grandfather but the problem is that he
was physically not well when I was old
enough to remember with him. I mean, I
saw him every Shabas, but he wasn't in
his prime.
>> One of the things I do remember is him
talking in 770 on stories of the Reb's
father. That's one thing I do remember.
>> Um, what's the story with the the Schaer
of the Reb's father that has to do with
your grandfather?
So when
his family was uh living on Mata, this
was um late Tav Shindalid or soalled
um I think he was going to Moscow then
he had to get out because they wanted
information about the father authorities
etc.
Um anyways
>> a after the histo after the so theus
itself was a
to find the the for the forb's father
>> in the cemetery. So the whole the whole
thing in Matan that was arranged by your
by your granddad or there
um
there were few Anash living there then
but he was the um he was the he writes
in to find he made he had an arrangement
with to block off the um the plots
around where
would be and um to make sure that would
take place. Were you were you ever there
amat? No, but it was ascribed to me that
it's like the middle of
>> I was I was to be there uh twice and um
it's I mean it's literally there's no
other words to describe
seeing the where he is like deep in a in
a you know cemetery and this one part
blocked off where there's a nash and
then later they built a for him but um
you know we see in that I was talking
about that he passed away in galas until
you go there you you fully you don't
really understand what that means until
like you see
so um and yeah it's a big that he had I
think he was with as well
um so after that so as he was leaving as
family was leaving
um he asked
that he doesn't know where he's going to
be tish if we'll have aher
And the Reb's father had a um black
sheer I think that belonged to the
Marash
that he actually from his father and he
asked if he could uh you know use it or
have it whatever the arrangement was.
So she was masked and then in tap
uh and it's actually the letter printed
inf
of tiny the writes to him to if you can
please send the shaer to him um through
bar kasant who was coming then from New
York
um and um as some he would give him a
handkerchief that belonged to the um vig
uh there was some hesit itation on um
end it's it's surprise item I mean you
have to remember also he never met the
and I think he was actually a year even
older so you have to put things in
context it's like obviously it's it's a
son and it's it's the reb was before but
there was hesitation and the fact that
in the reb wrote to him that the um that
the handkerchief is getting uh it's
getting thinner and thinner because I
don't either people were
uh you know material from it. I don't
know exactly what the uh the issue was
then but yeah I actually have a little
piece that kept himself saying that that
was giving a time frame for it.
>> Yeah I I I saw in a interview with my
uncle
from Morocco that how he's describing it
you can see it on Jem. Um it's actually
one of the first my encounters of uh of
Jem is the interview.
So he's mired there that um
and clener that the that the material
the napkin whatever it was was coming
smaller and smaller and basically to
with sending the and in that same letter
he actually writes as well uh to send of
his father
that's
tob
asked two days earlier the day before
to write to tell him of his father
>> wrote this is in yeah he told him he's
only 17 years old so he doesn't remember
much but the should ask
>> his father
because he definitely remembers more so
the following day the sent a letter
asking to send him the
um actually spoke in that
uh various um told him that he
remembered from his father
>> and so ultimately your grandfather your
great-grandfather sent the
and the would one of one of the various
would come down every year
>> every year
>> was that black
>> when the didn't blow from it he brought
it down just to have it on the beam
>> okay
>> in that same letter actually the last
paragraph it's a beautiful letter the
last the reb writes
I would like to take this opportunity to
express to you the great that I have may
>> from the conduct of your son and
may all the of the beam
and him and the rest of your children in
its entirety but it's a it was a very
powerful bra and it's it shows him you
know you have to remember they didn't
know what the kid is up to you have to
think about they're living there is the
son is in Brooklyn
to give a background me left uh departed
from the family you want to get into
that now
>> I just want to ask you one question
before that what is the what was your
grandfather's involvement with the dad
of his father
>> so during the time in
he was to uh put him to film with him to
help him with film he writes they wrote
wrote to the that he was very madic
that the the cashier of the should be
like Mish on the uh
>> he was very he was unwell then so help
yeah
>> um
>> they spent time together each each son I
think had another um shift that they
would uh spend time with him it's famous
story mandarin my great uncle from had a
famous story on tishab when um believe
held him for
extended period of time and real later
he realized that the reason was um
because they came looking for him the
authorities came to look to draft him
for the war and they understood only
afterwards why kept him holding him um
>> the fast already started and you know
it's a it's a lot of details of that
story and other stories from that uh
period which Mr. will be in the book. Um
>> so he helped him with film and that's
that's what I remember your grandfather
speaking about actually the film
>> but yeah film was a big one
>> and um in general just being there
preparing tea whatever it was um which
unfortunately they was very very unwell
then he remembers him talking to
constantly t was always uh his lips were
always moving
um
I think at the end he was heard saying
maybe writes about that how you would uh
you know to himself
but uh but yeah I mean it's a big hitter
tremendous him and his siblings and his
sister
um and that relationship continued with
Khan of course through throughout the
years till her stalkers on
>> and like you said throughout the years
the Reb was very very
cherished very much anybody that had
anything to to I think the way the Reb
said it people that helped inv
yeah
>> really really appreciated anybody that
had anything to do with that
um which is something that was discussed
on the interview I did with
Gerik.
Um okay. So one year actually at maybe
he mentioned this um
the Reb called over by and asked um to
ask if he was Mishamish's father
uh I think
anyway so uh went over to him over there
on the left side and he asked he gave
over the message.
So
he smiled.
So um he said like is waiting for an
answer. So like you know either me with
his shoulders and he smiled. Anyways
went back to the Reb said like no he
said so like that's how uh that ended.
But um
but yeah every would tell him to
um and if his brothers were there as
well he sent to every year of his father
went to figures he came in um and yeah
there was like you can't you can't
imagine gave the
to and his sons to uh to share anything
they could uh about his father's life.
>> Yeah. Okay. So, so how did he leave
Russia?
>> Um
>> he went with the Shalon and with
everyone else like how that work?
>> What year are you referring to?
>> When they when he when he Yes. What's
the continuation of his journey?
>> So tough shenan he was in Samraand
there his mashia was
>> the family moved or he went to yeshiva.
Yeah, you went to you know the family
together.
>> They moved to Okay.
>> Yeah. Uh his mashia there was
um were there as well. Um and there he
um this is the first you have to
remember this is the first time he was
in in the yeshiva. He was on the run his
entire life uh till that point. He's 18
at this point and this is the first time
that he was really in yeshiva.
Um, Tash
by the time it was old enough for him to
be in yeshiva, they're already running
away from the Nazis.
>> Yeah.
>> Mhm.
>> So, he didn't do the underground thing
like in I mean he didn't say but not not
in in Russia.
>> Yeah. I forgot to mention earlier when
the feed was leaving Russia on Isra
so
my name sent a letter to his all of his
children it's called gazed ab like this
is a letter you have to uh listen to he
wanted all of his children to be by the
fa there before he before he left Russia
Yeah. So as he was leaving Bengrad,
he told his um
he he was running after the train with
his children. I think Baker, his son
um as the train was taking off, look at
the smoke. Look at the smoke of the
train. He was trying to get the last
very last uh moments with the grab
because they knew this was at they were
going to see the grab again. uh
I think it was a kid then I think the
told him he was four years old that
or something like we will see each other
again and which we'll get to in a few
moments
>> did Abdavid see the child so it's
interesting
>> he's a little kid he's a baby
>> was a halfyear-old he was born Nissan
this is tish
>> um him and all of his friends they you
have to remember that I don't think this
period in general is fully appreciated
in the sense that there was a full
generation
never saw him. I mean, it's obviously
very applicable to today's period in
today's era after Thomas, but um
it's it's it's remarkable to to think
about that that Za and all of his that
entire generation never saw until
America. Mida just just saw the Fed a
month before his which we'll get into
soon. But uh if he would have if he was
delayed a month, he wouldn't have ever
seen the fed.
>> It's it's a it's a very powerful uh you
know lesson something to think about.
>> Right.
>> So he gets to he comes to America.
>> One second.
>> Yeah.
>> He's in Samarand and then how does he
leave?
>> Um so he's in Samarand and then the
family moves to Pink in Taf
>> with the with the great escape.
Okay. he goes to Zion or so he ends up
in Paris by remissim and the yeshiva
over there. Um and then he was there for
three years or so and during that period
I interviewed some of those uh his
colleagues his classmates from that um
that period and they all told me that
they all of course want to see defeated
that was their you know lifelong dream
to to be united with defeated to see him
for the first time.
But um I I remember Shan Shanovitz was
telling me we all wanted to see the but
was the one pressing Gnisen and sending
letters to remember Rashag was the one
that had to officially give the uh send
the letter to the American council and
the visa. Yeah, it was complicated.
Yeah, it's a very complicated process
>> but Mid was on it and I have dasis you
can see over here of Pan I mean that he
sent to the grab.
>> That's that's
>> begging. Yeah, some of it it's in there.
That's a gra
>> this. No, this is something else. But um
in that binder there upon him to grab
him
>> that u you know like
you know um when a letter from the came
to um wherever they were in parking or
in bino
it was like a big sim that there's a in
Brooklyn New York 77 Eastern Parkway
with They about the address 77 park.
They didn't know what that was. They
didn't know where it was if which planet
it was but u they knew there on the
other side of the world thinking about
them and giving them
and all that. So um yeah so then let's
non-stop writing to writing to America
about and then you see a letter in
Icarus that um writes to the Nissen that
there's a group of Bakim that can come
to America and was on that list and um
yeah his states he says come to shalom
with repetit and was a very states was a
ber going from France the first Russian
bakar.
>> Well, he went separately for it was a
group that he went on his own.
>> There was a group of Well, yeah, there
was a basic I think he got his papers uh
before the rest of the group that he
that was supposed to be sent from Paris
to um to New York. Um he got a letter
from the fedb uh in advance that the
should be
and uh he writes his father afterwards
that the boat ride from uh Paris to
America was very stormy and uh they
didn't know what would be. I mean the
the captain uh warned passengers that
you know of the worst god forbid and u
he writes holding the letter of the gave
me that security and calm that uh I'll
make it there
he arrived in America on
um 1949 or 1950 probably was
>> two months before
>> yeah
and
>> and meanwhile his parents already went
to Israel
Yeah. Yeah.
>> Before this
>> his parents already went to
>> and he stayed in Paris whatever
>> him and his brother Shar got married
there. Yeah. He got married there.
>> Mhm.
>> Yeah. Um but my entire
then was like the original David writes
and tell him um
that was his that was his only that was
his only wish his only dream and that's
how happened the next 60 years was um
you know
he was he was in um he was in 770 And
yeah
>> when he arrived he had wasn't there a
thing with
>> he asked about it remember such a story
>> so he arrived as I mentioned he asked um
then
Simpson for
he was granted um a few days later on
actually he went to
welcomed him and um asked him how his
father was doing, how the family was,
everything just you know more uh
and then um and then asked gave him.
So um after
he went downstairs to the Reb
and uh he was very mobile. He wasn't
sure what to feed me.
usually means like marriage. No.
>> Yeah. He came to learn. He didn't
understand. So the Reb called from
upstairs and said he'll uh there's no
reason for him to be
>> who who called
>> known as Yeah.
>> He um he called upstairs and wanted he
said there's a just arrived
>> and um he wanted to know what the just
told him. He has some you know he's
little difficulty understanding what the
was. So told him that there's no reason
for him to be move. The rabbi told him
that um he wanted to know how his father
was doing and
he doesn't necessarily mean work mean
you know to be settled
um
>> settle in.
>> Yeah. And was a young baka then he was
already 23 years old. Mhm.
>> born
and um
yeah um this was the first
this in his first his first interaction
with the Reb that he records in his in
his im and his letter to his father
afterwards.
Um
>> there was a story that the rest of the
group came from from Paris from whatever
from France. So on um onat a few weeks
later the rest of the group arrived. The
group was um
>> sharunic
and gdali.
The group was five bakim. They arrived a
little earlier but it was five boys and
um they were known as you have to
remember this was American Ishiva and
you have these five uh Russian boys
arriving. the Russians arrived
>> which is the whole so how that worked
out but um and it did work out it was a
revolution that till today we the is
because of that group that arrived then
but um
when they arrived um they asked for
right away remember this is the first
time seeing the gra in their lives
besides who basically grew up in the
grab's house because of his father
so what happened was um the rebba them
was um prepared them for. They had no
idea what meant. They never went in. He
said to put on a gartle under their
jacket uh
um
they asked a few other things and um
they went into they asked
was in I think it was in Florida uh
fundraising. It was a shad as well. So
um Misha was a massacre for that
when he brought them in.
Um so they asked me for um for
and they arrived on th let me go back
again. So they arrived on
and they wanted this is on Thursday and
they wanted to go into right away.
told him that's not the seder the say
there is first we heard and then he go
into that's the say of
they told him respectfully that the is
not saying anymore then a few this is
literally the week of the of the
so um they said the is not um is not
saying at this point said he said it's
not gaya um we hear if you don't hear
the rebidis
and uh those who hear or hear whatever
the lion was
>> and yeah
and then you go into after that. So they
talk about on Sunday which that was
their tradition for years afterwards
that was their like you know
um told them then um you know welcome
and um it should be well everything
should go well
and he told them today we see each other
and from time to time um each one of you
will go and um come in separately into
Um
told them then um wanted to know what
their seda was
everything like that Spanish before
the told them that
sorry
um we have to learn we must but we have
to learn as So they understood that to
me and of course before dabing dabing
and then nigla after ding um and yeah
until that point I think then was only a
half hour or so only started later maybe
8:30 to 9 and they introduced a whole
new system in the yeshiv system um said
there should be an hour there should be
time for Spanish for dabing mik before
the entire spill how it was in Paris and
wasn't in the original
and then there was a gustman. I don't
know if you want to get into that now.
>> And if if I recall correctly, there was
a dilemma that your grandfather had if
he's allowed to go to with the group
because he already went before
>> he had already but he has a he's part of
this group. So he asked the Reb, right?
>> He asked
okay
>> if he's allowed to if you can go in. He
didn't.
>> Okay.
>> Didn't ask him told you're not going. He
already went in a few weeks earlier but
he this is was mid's nature that he
didn't didn't take no for an answer.
um
you know action that he wants to go in.
This is the part we were all sent
together from Gabb to come here and
we're part of one group I technically
got the papers early but it's not we're
all part you know and um grab
acknowledge each one of them when they
came into when it came to shalom grab
like gave a little
>> yeah was was the famous maser and then
uh for each one uh theme from
like there was a a beautiful between
each uh between each bak and a very warm
welcome.
This is how it was uh for the first kufa
or so and then the alkus came to the
shock of everyone knew the the health
condition of the grab but no one was
expecting
morning that shabas they went in Sunday
night that shabas was
I think it was 10 to 8 in the morning um
this matire describes in his exactly
what
And it was a devastating shabas um learn
about the the salus can't imagine the
yeah
feeling of the bakham then finally came
to fba you have to put you know trying
to imagine yourself in their shoes
>> and all of a sudden this happens it's
like
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So maybe talk a little bit about the
after the
and when the rebba you know that year
before the reba accepted the nas
officially openly.
Um
I understand that the bakarim played a
very big role
in uh in that process because the bakim
right away
>> connected very much to the to the
grandfather
was part of that.
>> Yeah. Um so from the moment of um
um
the brim u instantly attach instantly
attached themselves to the to the there
was a there was an automatic um
attraction between the bakim to the
especially the Russian bakim
um which is a fascinating fact for its
own
um
and
>> oh so showed up that's another element
>> show up I think two weeks later
>> yeah right right after this Oh yeah,
after the sh even.
So this is um so already during the leva
I know my my grandfather was uh little
involved over there with the u the
morning of I think he was sent uh to
help prepare the the caver
um
during the week of Shiva. you know the
him and his friends made sure to be
there at all the minimum and to hear all
the would say after each uh after each
day of
which later printed into
>> the stories
>> stories etc. Yeah.
Um
and then
about uh
about what was this was based
me this just two two months after the
Bed and his friend Korf um approached
the Reb
to Febank for the Bim on uh
Reb.
Um so the asked them why didn't they
asked
Jacobson
so they told the uh they ready for the
night before now they want the which was
a strong
>> yeah
so um asked him a few questions for all
the Russian for the There was a few
questions. You can see how serious the
Reba took them that he was actually um
inquiring who the fang was for. Then the
Reb took out a calendar from his u
drawer from his desk drawer and um
looked through it and said and sight ear
would uh make a hold of
>> Yeah. Marash
>> for Yeah.
is uh
this but um but that was the f this is
the first time the rebang on a weekday
I think when he arrived to America he
but at that point only
but this would be the first time that
the rebang on a uh on a weekday
>> so as a breakthrough
>> yeah
um in general There was a lot of
breakthroughs in that the
friction also of course from the regular
you know structure and standard how
things were before but um was actually
then of Gustman
um who was actually a very talented
mager
enjoyed his children very much but he
didn't grow up with the uh you know
culture and you know for and Marik.
>> Um, and basically this this new hanhaga
didn't uh didn't fit well with him
>> and he's in the the new Hanhuga of the
Russian.
>> Mhm.
>> Um, yeah. And he didn't stick around for
too much longer. Um, Rabbi Picarski
later took him over and he stayed as
shiv until his passing I think in Gimmel
or so. But um but the bahim then created
a revolution. No, there's no question
about it.
So Biss
the was uh was very interesting that
they got the Reb to be Masim and the
Rebang B's ear then and in that
uh the Reb really laid out the work in
that ear the Reb really laid out the
work for um what he expect from Bakim
and what he expect from this young new
generation that he was now molding to be
his soldiers in the army that Reb
envisioned to build. This is um
this was you know literally day one from
uh from you know everything that
everyone wanted to create later on.
Okay spoken about the concept of
that that has to know the the
invests in
the has to repay that um those with his
own
and um the rabb spoke very strong about
and learning with
this was in the beginning of you know
today in you have
you know, thousands and thousands around
the world.
This was literally the building blocks
of uh what would become the the whole
concept of you know reaching out going
out of your comfort zone and uh
connecting Eden to the Reb then talks
about what a is
there was a a came to
and he wanted to know what a wasb
described him what the the concept of ab
is and he was taking notes the told the
in in the Fangan that they have a that
that guy had a Reb on paper.
>> That's not what a Reb is. Of course, uh
something much deeper and much more
personal. But um that was at Febang of
Bir. And then um on base seven a month
later um Maza had ais
I think his first with
um and then a followup
was months later but um those in general
from Ba's ear until um in those few
months was addressing many of the then
to the
bir there was a uh very
then about uh the say this of a of a of
a ber and they say of and all that that
was educating a generation of what is
and um those few months really um
molded my zen all of his
for for the rest of their lives in a
very um fundamental and uh personal way.
So
went on
B. And the reb then spoke to him about
um he asked then he clarified a few
things from and he he told the rebba
then that um there's some issues when it
comes to think before dinging he always
uh he has he he doesn't he was asking
the for of how many times they think
about a certain things the answered him
on that then he then the told him
something very powerful he he told the
rabbi he complained that not complained
he just as he said that he learned
and it's not pale on him.
So the Reba answered him that now it is
as if you're walking with your eyes
closed.
Um this is uh in the that I'm reading
now from the Reb adds in his
>> he gave in the transcript of his
>> so yeah actually after the of the
second
the mis went to the afterwards and the
in The Reb told him basically um to make
sure there's a copy of that um with the
with the and um make another copy as
well. I'll bring it in when the
opportunity uh comes up. Unfortunately,
stock has happened a few days later. But
me I think learned from that from the
then to um always um to send into a copy
of the
So on that
>> so that
um so wrote gave him tob
and um he wrote to the then doesn't
always feel that this is pale on him. So
wrote to him that now it's as if uh
you're walking blindly.
Um then the Reb adds
but the sun is shining
meaning to say is you know sometimes we
feel that we learn and we stay the same
as we were before. Deb is basically
telling him the the effect is happening
um whe whether you're conscious of it or
not
>> the formula is working. Yeah, it's
working you know and um yeah sometimes
we have uh we feel it more than others
the other times but
MS is and it will eventually uh you know
hit home.
So this was B7.
He went to again ones
to uh discuss to follow up from that and
to discuss things that were said in
Fibbrangas in during that uh period.
This this was his whole life basically
just to carry out what the Reb spoke
about by Fangians and this this was his
guy for the next uh you know 60 plus
years. his whole life really consisted
of just um pua after pua of just
carrying out the Reb's will um to the
best of his capacity
and u yeah
>> so
is there anything else from that year
that you want to share in particular
before I go to my next question
>> ten um I mean there's so much there's
it's a it's an entire at least 50 pages
more probably even 100 pages in the book
just about this.
Um there's so many interactions with the
Reb that everyone didn't know about
certain people. How come he does he come
to Makas? Does he's not did come to you
know he would check in with him about
the different people and different uh
things that were happening updates
um and then there was the
that was established then.
>> Okay. So my next question was the asus
of your grandfather I believe started
when he was a bak.
>> So how did that how did that start? What
was the first thing? And uh I guess
that's the
>> Yeah. So there was this uh committee of
Bahim of course um called
um they were responsible uh to send out
yeshiva students from 770 to
>> who established this committee the
>> um himself
>> the himself did it. So this is what you
were talking about that is speaking
about
and you know teaching and others so the
made the vad to implement that. Yeah.
>> And your grandfather was
>> So, um, my grandfather was part of it.
Um, Pes Goldman
and could be one of the Bumgartens. I'm
not sure, but um, but yeah, I
interviewed Reel about this um,
extensively and he shared a lot of
interesting uh, details about that.
There was a there was
spoke very strongly. He called them once
more or not. I'm getting a rashima of
those who uh they're kaf boys in zal and
I'm only getting you know a very small
percentage of that are actually going
out on uh on shabas afternoons to
>> so what were they doing they were they
were going to show
>> like and then also going to to others to
teach
>> both yeah they were going to Berlin
um there were you remember you have to
remember this also there was yeshivas in
crown heights
on president's street there was yeshivas
they were the kaos or but yeah they
would go to uh various yeshivas in
Williamsburg and bar park and laride
many many an families
um I personally interviewed a few that
were to labavich from these um from
these bahim from these
>> yeah I'm saying that's the story of
everyone
all these people they talk about
>> um the bakim and the yuds that would
come to their ishu that we just
interviewed Rabbi Seroda and the
magazine talks about Shiv coming to
teach Tanya in university. So this is
all part of this that was much later
though. Yeah.
>> But it's uh it's it's very important I
think that Baham Chau that the
revolution of Labavich really started
from you know Bah undermined his his
underestimate his and uh his
capabilities. Everything ultimately um
started from the bakim and their hashbah
their sense of influence is tremendous
>> right when the wanted to get it done
>> that's how it was always every mitzvah
every pull everything started from the
bakim
>> they were the um you know center nerve
of labage
but um they still are but in in regards
to the vat
um yeah was there was very on top of
that. And then um
um the Reb in his room for the Reb then
was turning 50
um
and uh the Reb wrote on Rishima
um who was allowed to enter the room for
the mimer about 20 people or so. So my
za and were on the uh
told me that noticed him like on the
zero
you can you please come in as well.
>> Yeah.
Um
it wasn't clear for him if he was on he
was under beforehand but um he was
all the time but I guess it was a kov
that um that he got then but yeah then
that year it was actually that same day
on
the called in I actually have the
original original right over here of
that and the said before the leave for
you PES break for the
um I want um you to give over to them
that they should use out the time to
citizenships
and I want to hear from I want to hear
back from you what was done and uh etc
etc on that uh on that subject. It was
it was really was that was the k then
anytime someone was going home from
Montreal the the whole then or buffalo
whatever it was stop in this show stop
in the sh in in who in in upstate New
York wherever it was um the always asked
people to to stop in various to
that means anything from
the you remember there's no then only
started in so
>> well That's how the started looks.
That's how
>> brother was was involved with that.
>> Yeah.
>> And that's how the started to be the
this project.
>> They told
a famous story.
But um but yeah, that's how things
really started. Uh so was a like you
mentioned he was a really started and
the first moments of when he um arrived
in America.
um he attached himself hard and soul to
the Reb and the Reb's causes and um
that was his um
until his last breath.
>> So when did he get married?
>> He got married in on Zion Nissen Tany
>> and the Reb was mad. The
>> Reb was Msic. uh was actually the first
kassa
in uh at 77
that was the first the stopped um the
before the stopped uh traveling to um to
him. Yeah.
>> And um was the very first to take place
in Kits. It took place in the where with
the kaos today in the fban building
later it was called the fata building
that s purchased but you see the roots
already few years earlier
um it's actually a year or so before tak
was in the we got to soon but this is
inalid um his was upstairs and the and
on the way home
um the instead of taking then lived on
New York and Brooklyn in apartment
building there
346 uh New York Avenue.
So the rabbi took Kingston that night
instead. Um and when he passed through
the the forbound building that made with
his hand to theatim of the all went to
the window of course also and that was
the um
asp
>> she said that um was there was she
wasn't but that everyone didn't know how
she came who she going back with this is
only two blocks away from his union to
the president block away. But the Reb
wanted to know how his mother got there,
how he was going how she's going to get
back, which is something I didn't get to
know to get yet about his relationship
with Repan in America.
>> Can you talk about that?
>> Yes. So, Repana of course arrived uh in
Tshin in Tshin Z
um
three years before Misa came. Uh but
from when Mada came in and tiny, he
started the
reconnecting with the Rebbitson again.
They of course knew each other from uh
you know six years before that.
>> Yeah. I'm talking
>> but um the Reb told him he want he
encouraged him encouraged him to visit
her and but he told him not to mention
the um period
because it's going to be great nephish
and that's one thing of course we know
how careful there was in regards to his
mother. He didn't want your grandpa to
talk
>> from that period about that about that
period.
The Reb never asked his mother what time
the happened. It was it was suffic if it
was
um no the always marked from of course
until that point but the never was never
sure if it was oral. So
he never how do we know this? Because
when came on, he came for. So when he
entered on
the asked him um what time the stalkus
was and was able to tell him basically
the candle was still lighting it was um
it was on um
and um the thing that even told him that
I never asked my mother because uh I
didn't want to be
such an important factor
um so he would visit her pretty often
And I heard from Krinsky that one time
said that told his mother if she ever
needs anything
um she can always ask three people
uh himself
and
um those were the three uh I'm see they
were the three closest uh to the to the
I'm saying any physical uh help
assistance that she ever needed. The
three were always and me was there uh
pretty often. You visit her pretty often
lay migill for her every year and uh she
would host a fing I think twice a year
on
a few times also
and uh was the one that would arrange
that
and um
yeah many interesting uh encounters uh
and interactions during those visits.
interesting conversations.
>> For example,
>> um I know for example um she would write
letters her and Yakab had a
correspondence going on. Many of the
letters were already printed and one of
the letters that she wrote to Yakab was
Ms. Ms. man, I see your two children uh
Dove and Lee Z and his brother Label and
Ka they're she she's very impressed from
their aunt Huga and uh you know she she
wants to update the uh father how their
kids are doing and um when it came to uh
Kitz they helped her then also that one
time came in um while they were visiting
her and they you know they hid either
they hid in the closet or he you know
just backed out of the house and went to
give him the privacy and the said
so u I think this when visited actually
so
>> so your grandfather was there with his
father and says you have you have guests
okay
>> this was yeah
um
what else I There was a lot there was a
lot of uh interesting um she wrote to to
that was I think or so whenever it comes
I think about those who were with us and
that uh you know those times and just
showered him with for him and his
children.
Um yeah,
it was a great they had and um it's a
that um you know we don't take lightly
in the family.
>> Mhm.
Okay. So
your grandparents got married and
so he stayed in New York because
did ever give him a position in the
yeshiva like what happened then?
So he was already working in the yes is
yeshiva as mashk and learning with bakim
um from I would already say from yiml or
so maybe even earlier
um not in official capacity as a hollow
that was only later after the whole uh
episode and tavis
their episode might mention that hollow
but um
he was he was a younger man him
they were Um they were helping out just
you know with with the when it came to
when it came to uh assisting learning
making and all that. They were they were
like the of the
um
yeah I mean this was um and then I think
he asked the rebba later on before his
before his after if he should continue
and the encouraged him to continue his
work in isha
and um yeah at a a few month a year or
so later that's when his work in sah
began which took on a whole new chapter
in his So talk about what is
>> so on.
>> Yeah.
>> Youth organization.
>> Correct. So on
>> I remember once
>> Mhm.
>> we used to give out pamphlets. I don't
know whatever Bab youth organization
>> and
we gave a woman some one of the one of
the brochures and it had like an
advertisement for like an event and like
we told you you could come to the event.
So she looks at it, she says, she reads
Labavis youth organization. She says, "I
wouldn't call myself exactly youth."
>> But uh actually addresses that
youth not only in in age but also in uh
knowledge knowledge
>> about something said a lot
>> I think if I'm mistaken. Okay. So what
happened started? So on um
end of love at the end of the
um end of the by saying there is a
organization
by the name of
um and spoke about the work that they do
spreading
>> right Gansburg from um Toronto spoke
about it when I interviewed him there
was a
which are the younger younger
task them with various
and I guess there was success and the
Reb then spoke about we're going to do
the same thing here in America
>> interesting
>> if I I'm paraphrasing my memory what he
said something along those lines
>> yeah so the Reb says in that uh they're
doing the work that they do and that u
said it's a that for some reason um it's
not being done here yet. So he asked
that it should be u that a me should be
established here with the same name and
not that it should just be another uh
stationary letterhead you know but it
actually should be an active
organization with pulas
um spreading
um
and um
this is
his organiz is a meeting. This was
actually in the it was briifica down in
eastern parkway. So that's where the
meeting was just a historic fact. Um
Gman was describing it to me. So a lot
of uh you know the light that were that
cared for the causes uh participate in
this meeting. um who should serve, you
know, as director, who should, you know,
just um what, you know, how to split up
the different various um tasks
and um at that meeting, Rabi Goldman,
Mr. Pis Gman who's passed away recently
a year or so ago.
He um he was chosen to be the mascar and
um Mida was chosen to be the um manal
just you know the person to get it
running keep it running
>> to that the original board of t was
created then also and
>> whoever a lot of people moved out Barl
Bumgarten was extremely involved um the
early stages of tak later moved to
Argentina
um was was a there was a lot of you have
to see the documents of those meetings.
Later on, it became more of a official
VOD. But then it was whoever was willing
to, you know, contribute time and um you
know, effort into making this uh cause,
you know, up and established. Um you
know, everyone was more than welcome to
join. There was no official uh VA or
anything like that. That's everything
started as a grassroots effort. you
know, anyone that cared for, you know,
the Reb's call and whatever it was that
he expected from
were um invited to participate
and um it's very interesting actually a
few people who wrote about I know for
example
Gansburg was a nef
many years and was also on my
grandfather. both of them um they both
wrote to the Reb about uh potentially
moving and said is here and the wives
would get involved with
um it's interesting was the first me I
think that was
and then
in America I think was the first
so um it's interesting rabbit sahana
actually had a very very strong. She
wanted to know what was going on the
activities
um
who served as the first
of he opened up the first office. So on
the first day of his um appointment
my grandfather took him to
he already knew Rabbit before and his
wife was very close with her. It's
actually a cousin as well. Um she's a
her her father Zama say their first
cousins.
So um Sakana wanted to uh was very u
impressed about this and she wanted to
know how you know she would want to be
up uh updated all the activities and
believe would bring her the reports and
the and she would have a lot of that was
I think that was her son that was me and
other meases you know were of course
running Marcus and uh Mahna and Kahus
but Sak was the first mea himself
established. Um
>> right and that and became the vehicle
for any I mean was being done through
>> but any new initiative that theb over
the years would launch the or or any of
the you know the
all of these things that were happening
that were new they were all being
launched under the banner of
>> yeah already from um
the First, one of the first big pool was
the
was called
convention on where representatives um
guests that were coming from around the
world to spend with they would report
about the
in their um in the locations where
they're from there and um
from Australia all around America from
Canada you know you name it And everyone
would talk about what are they doing in
the of uh of
which was under the umbrella of
um for the first the idea was the reb's
idea actually to make a convention where
people could report this is before the
of course this is uh
was the first one this is 1956
and the rabbi told
uh goldman
then that the reb that
himself would really have to you know
participate in this um convention you
know
he's sending his
and for the rest of his life would
address
twice a year on B's year and on tok is
the two events of
and of course later on the kinus but
throughout all the years that was the um
you see the to was in the sh
was 60 years of the
then made a big
was calledishim
I think the himself named it
when money came in in numbers of 60 the
one time wrote sh the karan hashishim
which was a huge huge breakthrough
because they weren't sure how should be
marked never forb
and he wouldn't for another 10 years
till
so um I think led those efforts and
still the idea came up
>> the idea came up basically every
would have
where the community would come and
everyone would pitch the ideas and how
to continue their work and you know what
uh what needs were u what what things
you know what what was necessary um
steps to take etc. Anyways, um
when it came close to Yapness and
so uh you know they were taking the
steps very very slow how the would uh
would react you know they were getting
to uh to learn in mounts 60 60 minutes
60 hours um send in money in the month
amounts of 60
and then uh finally um the letter
arrived 770
addressed to um for this for this
initiative and the wrote
in and the was
is you know the however was actually
accepting their mat
>> and
because of the
um yeah which was a big breakthrough
Um and that was that was the early
stages of uh of s and the pishas like
you mentioned earlier that's started
then
62 63 64 when college students one of
the big uh initiatives
was um sending
to communities and campuses
uh for shabbasim
you need to remember then there were
So, uh, you know, let's say you wanted
to a place in, uh, in a community in
Maryland or New Jersey, wherever it is,
somewhere on the the east coast, um, who
want to experience the Shabas or campus
throughout anywhere throughout America
who want to experience what Shabas is.
So, Tak would either reach out to them
or they would reach out to and they
would send a couple there um, for uh,
for Shabas, for Yamiff. I know uh Sean
Bipsker Abel Harour and his wife would
often participate on these um shabatones
and a lot of people
>> there's a lot of I mean that the whole
pagisha started from that I think and
>> yeah that's how they found
university in
>> right
>> Gurak went to spabas there and they
brought him back and I think he asked
why don't we do this on a larger scale
or something like that and
you know Pikisha became what it was. Not
just Pikisha for example these shops you
have of sein and with thousands can hund
thousands of uh
>> so that was the beginning of on campus.
This is the first time people groups are
coming to New York and it was it was you
know it was a huge breakthrough
to connect with. So throughout this time
your grandfather become since he's the
manal he's the one writing to the
getting and getting the answers and and
from everything that is doing
everything every
would send out
general letters to the um labavish
community and uh every one of them
um at least till Midlammed. I saw a
letter in Zak
um full of but um but I think even
throughout throughout all the years but
in the early stages every single letter
that went out um
it said on on the stationary the
letterhead
of so it was you know everything that
went out was really um
what was the money from then what was
what was in thing to get involved with.
They did it um very often before every
Yam before every
um or many to get an involved with with
that it should be
and I mean anything that was happening
then I mean was a
endeavor and all of every time the
launched the mah right your
grandfather's always getting the mus
>> yeah so sak was the address to every
time the rabb spoke about something out
of s was the address to go to
>> to implement it
>> to implement it. Yeah. Um they would
give resources they would
>> so every time the launches something
your grandfather goes to the gives them
you know for the mashk for that it's
always anything that
>> sometimes yes it's interesting people
told me that sometimes the would talk
about a certain thing
>> then like after the would turn to his
left
this place was the left for all the
years and um it was like almost like an
automatic uh you know think if you can
say that cuz whatever I mean either he
was the one that you know
he really took you know the rebu's uh
very seriously and that trusted him to
uh to get it done and he had his unique
way of of doing things you know
um but at the end of the day this was
very trusted and heard from a lot of
people that um they didn't like the fact
that you know his position of power and
you know how he was the one that uh that
that got to Zash. He was the one that
was in charge of implementing the RBI's
causes.
But they told me that later on in life,
I heard this from multiple people. they
started appreciating who he was
that you know everyone knows what it
entails to um put together a program to
publish something
um to fund a race of something to get
and he was willing to do that for every
single pulb
said
so so how many people came to everyone
who I mean it wasn't that you know no
one was interested it just was this part
of life this how the would always end
Vida would take a bottle mashka and make
a ring and that that night or the next
night I organize everything in archives
according to topics. There are many
documents. I'm not even sure what topic
is under
today. I organized a
according to the Reb's instruction to
the Reb.
>> Yeah. And uh this amount of people and I
hope
which organization is that
he want to implement the Reb says. So he
wrote in that he so this was his um this
is was how he um operated everything his
whole life just consisted on just you
know this what this was his fuel this
was his energy just whatever the wanted
was his
and
what you're describing is like uh you
maybe if it makes sense if it's a that
has that you know enthusiasm
that we can understand but He's a person
that uh has responsibilities
and he's married and I understand also
that there was many hardships personal
hardships that he had and a he was you
know so again maybe you can talk about
that a little bit.
So another main reason why he's so
respected
um in my opinion um is because people
who knew um him up and close his
personal situation
um knew that he his entire life
literally his whole life was um he
endured imaginable hardships, personal
hardships.
um a number of his uh family members um
dealt with uh health issues which he was
constantly um involved in dealing with
doctor's appointments etc. Um
and Deb was very very uh aware of it. He
would update the de and everything.
um
one of his daughters who wasn't well
passed away um uh a few years after he
passed away. All the Baham knew who she
was to show up to Zal and
the Bakim told me that when she would
make a fuss he wouldn't lose himself if
he was talking to Bakr
his place was always about the beimma
and zal he would have his hands on top
of the beimo or you know about sed about
was always dealing with another matter
we can talk about that soon how he dealt
with and how he juggled juggle the two
but Um
but he excused himself from the bahim
and dealt with it if this was an issue
if something happened whatever it was
and this is these are zas and al is
telling me that they get older they got
older and they're dealing with their own
uh you know issues whatever it was
it remains such a strong on them how
level-headed he was in in dealing with
these issues of not losing himself
holding his composure in the sense that
this this this is my life. I need to
deal with this. He wasn't embarrassed.
He wasn't ashamed. I mean, obviously, it
was it was very uncomfortable for him to
deal with these things, but especially
in a public setting, but um
but he didn't he dealt with it very
maturely and very um and very fatherly,
you know, and people recognized that and
really really had a strong,
>> right? And a number of his kids passed
away during his lifetime.
>> Yeah, he had six children. Uh, four of
them uh four passed away, three in his
lifetime. Um,
and yeah, I mean it was it was
you can just imagine what kind of uh
what kind of life uh life that is in his
public life on the side or not on the
side but literally on the same uh you
know same period.
Um it's actually amazing to see how
in the midst of big polls in lab I'm
talking about when tanks were were
taking off for the first time
updating the about different um
destinations were going how many tanks
getting minus non-stop the same exact
day he wrote he obviously he wrote dates
on every letter so the same day he was
also reporting about um how he was
dealing with uh doctors and uh and uh
appointments etc for his for family
members
And it just it it's it really hit me
then of how amazing this this man is of
that you know it wasn't like you know
often a person is dealing with something
his whole life is on pause can't deal
with anything else you know this is
>> the same day he was reporting about you
know
it wasn't a it was happening at the same
time and it was a it's a very um
was a very strong uh
>> it's amazing I
Um,
you know,
but
I recall once having like for a few
weeks I had to deal with something
personally with one of my children, a
health matter, but Hashem everything is
okay. But I remember that during that
small period, it's like your life is on
pause.
And and for me, that was my experience.
And to hear I mean to hear about
somebody that was able to carry that you
know for life
and yet what does the Reb write about
that's what wrote he's all about like to
juggle all of that
is
outstanding. Yeah. Did he ever speak
about it to anyone?
>> No. Um I mean I'm sure he had his he had
his very closeman
Gansburg. Um I don't mean like talking
like
>> no they knew they knew what what he was
doing.
>> Did he ever did he ever like in a way of
when he was talking to people about how
to conduct themselves speak about his
own experience?
There's one story I saw that they
printed a um the family of
printed a uh booklet of stories that he
would say in the memories of him and uh
they write there that he was once
dealing with a certain issue. He was the
cook in 1414 for many years
um and for many years he um
at a certain point he had enough of the
work. he he was dealing with a certain
issue there. Anyways, so he told Mea who
was now that he's done
um and find someone else to replace him.
So they right there Maza took him out.
This was Ma's office in 770 right down
the hallway from the Reb's office.
So he um
he calls him out to the
and tells him,
"Cook my look at my eyes.
is uh however you translate that
um daft but you know we have to we have
to do the work you know it's not going
to it's not life's not easy it's not
going to be a easy ride but you know
he's described to him what his you know
what his job the importance of his job
and how he has to continue and he writes
that that gave him tremendous to
continue
until until his last day mish was
believe to the um physical needs of
the the food he prepared all the meals
>> ask
but yes talked about the physical needs
of the bak physical needs my was always
very on top of getting the bakim the
medical care that they needed um um and
getting them the um doctor's
appointments and making sure they get uh
if they were sick in the dorm I know
personally if you guys told me how he
would deliver chicken soup to them
um and how they're doing and you find
out how they're doing and all that. And
he he really cared for Bakim. He really
really cared about. And another thing
that people often describe to me is that
he really knew how to read a bakr. He's
not known for his scholarly uh
accomplishments. That wasn't his
he which one of the reasons why I think
that wanted him to be a man. He knew how
to read very well. He knew what it means
not to be to harden yourself. He knew
you know he knew what it means. what
too. He knew how to delegate positions
if it was something that Abak was needed
for in a different department which was
um another interesting trade that he had
uh trade that he had was he knew who
would be good for what and um
since he was a man of many hats, he was
able to use one guy from one Met to help
with another. And because you worked
with that, maybe you can now work with
that. he was he was a center uh figure
um of many of the organizations. So he
was able to um
to work it out that way, navigate the
mist and uh you know
a lot to talk about on that.
Um and I'm going back to his personal
hardships that you know ultimately also
he himself
um the last long period of his life you
know he was very unwell Parkinson's like
he suffered a lot tremendously you know
you know himself personally not only
with
his family members.
So yeah, um the summer of 1984, Tashal,
he was diagnosed with um
a type of on his skin on his foot. Um
and um he had a number of uh operations
to deal with that. Um it's a lot of a
lot of dates and a lot of answers
from that period.
um every single um
thing that the doctor told him, he asked
them to and how do I know this? Because
I have all these all these um papers.
Dear dear Robish ner with the on the
doctor's letterhead updating the reb
with his condition
came into the office today and then
we're thinking about doing this
procedure and this treatment. He wanted
every single thing to be written to the
Reb and he um of course brought it in
right the first opportunity.
Um a lot of lot of answers to which
which doctor to use and and a lot of
many
said
and he's worried about a
upon him is
whatever it is.
there's no reason to be um
>> he's worried about the
>> he's worried about
was let's talk what he was going through
then
and said there's no reason especially
since it was already done and it was
about
um we're at was time
there's no need to to look this way
especially in chabas especially in such
a such a holy time like now um and it
was just a very powerful whole statement
a few times throughout the years that
after testified on his um character.
>> Yeah. Can you can you mention some of
them? The one I mentioned about medicine
maybe talk about that. First thing that
I can remember is um told me was
and I think the rabbit was speaking
there very beious about uh
those who were asking him to beas. This
is a few months before the mus it was
very hard to get my was crying a lot. So
people were shushing him to he was was
sober noticed this and said
yeah
he this a few times to me he's not
disturbing anyone me he's not disturbing
and it's only
that he's um disturbing himself
whatever that could have a lot of
meetings. Um, and another time
was once blocking somebody out of
Fangan.
Um, I heard this from someone who was
there and um, the said
and either he repeated it a few times,
whatever the heard overheard this,
wasn't too far. It was only a few a few
feet away from the
and the Reb said,
"Dove doesn't block."
Um
and then
>> I remember uh we did me and you together
did an interview with the deer I believe
with Rabbi Gari in Detroit
and he had a whole thesis on this vart
that the Reb said that David
that David doesn't block
>> right
>> was explaining the way he knows how to I
think a 25 minute explanation that
there's different types of B there's a
Besh
and then there's there's there's all
these things and the highest level of B
is David the whole mits of David was
that he was so given over to the Reb
that he's not even a mitis he cannot he
cannot be a mitz that that is blocking
he's only he's totally but to the he was
going on about that
>> it's interesting that you mention about
um about the inab Evid uh in addition to
the title Bin Ribel would often talk
speak about when he would talk about him
that you have to remember who he was in
his mus was a remnis he was educated by
him that was a real prop first proper
the god under's uh influence was
and remiss was of course inelcafia
and
marikus
and all of that. Spain before Davening
um to be able to say what touched him
very much. what he noticed um that Misa
was able to channel that of
and you know
and to channel that for the
to carry them out without any asking any
questions to to you know it's not it's
not uh if we can do it it's how we can
do it you know that that's how that's
how my my Rafal operated.
>> He was doing the
>> Yeah, he was Yeah, exactly. Well, very
well said.
So, um that was uh I mean that's that's
a that's a pretty good uh
was good at that.
But um
>> so what else?
>> A he would be mask him every single year
that I would I would ask for his yard
site on Z ear without fail. Every year
he would remask him. anytime I asked him
>> which was very rare. he would walk from
his house next to 770 all the way down
to Sabin at least three times and then
there was other locations to Ley's
library
but um I don't think he did I mean I
don't think anyone ever asked for their
uh you know grandfather's yard site but
um but he he felt a certain he had two
different ways of operating no uh two
minds are the same especially in that
caliber but Um
but yeah I mean he had a tremendous uh
respect. There was mutual respect. Both
of them respect each other one another
very very much. I was told by um Mandy
Groner
Le Groner's son that after the tufa of
kas
my grandfather was appointed by the reb
together with uh label and uh two others
and mishkats to serve as the bad mad
there. those who were involved with
organizing the
the structure in 770 the the say there
have it was by the Tudas and by the
Fbrillians all that anyways
so after Latiel
uh he so Rabon was telling me he was
once in my office while rebel and and uh
my grandfather were going at it about if
they shall allow people to stand behind
the by Fbrans
because back in the Okay. Um there were
windows behind Reb's uh place by his
Fangans and to allow Luftton fresh air
in um you would people would wouldn't be
able to stand there. Um
would say and people can stand there in
order to uh allow air to come in
and was saying that every wants more
people to be there and everything's
going to continue now you know
um
was not happy with people who wouldn't
show up
>> or stop people from going
>> stop there was there were very strong uh
shist about that want everything to
continue and not just continue but
thrive um as it's known but um
so finally tells him just as the gave
you the of or just like just as you were
given the
um I was given the kadam
and I had a very strong uh on
the growner he saw like obviously
there's no one compared to him is you
know but um
saw though you know
you have the and no one's gonna even you
know compete with you but the rabbi gave
me the of the and therefore and accepted
that
>> he a few you know differences between
them didn't want a lot of people going
showing up at one place in tal
wants more people see had an opinion
strategically that it's not good to have
the whole there were there were the
whole
>> landing in one
or multiple maybe only went two people
to show that's how it was many people
you know two bak would show up not more
than two whatever it was but there was
you know multiple multiple differences
opinion on many matters and how you
should be run and how different pulas
should be done but the two of them had a
very deep u mutual respect for each
other that's for sure
>> what are some of the other
um things that the rabbis said about
um on Z of TH
um
a month or so after after first spoke
about the uh
Reb appointed four new members took
to replace those who um passed away. Uh,
Misa was from the four.
Um, the Reb wrote his name then. Um, and
next to for each member that was added,
the Reba wrote like a quality
um about them,
>> like a reason why they're being added.
>> Yeah. So, for his name, the Reb wrote
merits.
He's energetic to get the job done.
And with those three words I think that
every was really uh you know Magdar his
personality um
you know very well that's uh that's who
he was. was full in energy and he didn't
stop until till the job was done,
>> right? And I think what I remember
discussing in that phone call that we
had was that it wasn't necessarily,
you know, he wasn't like building
infrastructure and a five-year plan and
you know, you know, building a he wasn't
a CEO. He was
he was the one that will actually just
do and get it done.
>> Yeah. So there were there were
complaints that about um why was he
given the power and you know all the
mistas um sai to be the
and to be the man of s this and say that
and um I know there was someone who
spoke to the about having someone
replace him as
and the told him
he's mine.
Um and then the Reba said also who are
you going to find to uh replace that? I
think they ever knew what's the ishiva
sensei uh what what it entails to run is
yeshiva especially uh
the sword of s7 but um
but um yeah and when it came to that and
then when it came to uh also some people
felt that he wasn't the most qualified
um candidate for that and um my
grandfather actually wrote to the I have
answers if you should continue in nisha
and he got positive answers to continue
and he wrote in one time he wrote to the
reba that
he wasn't sure he should take on because
he was already very involved with
and the he writes this and the told me
to uh take it on take on the uh position
of
um
I mean there's there's a lot of details
on that as well but um and also on sukus
toughen base one of the um things that
rabbit asked me to do was to um bind his
Arab minimum on sukus.
>> When
>> to bind the Arab.
>> So you said a year
>> nun.
>> Mhm. So when after my gave back the uh
the aluminium to the
>> right because was the one every year
that would make the
for the right
>> and
but um so when he gave the rabb the
minim um after he put them together the
told him
your name is David and David is uh
connected to the to Mashiach Miah and
David of course but um I heard this from
a relative of mine who told us to but he
didn't want to make a from Pearson from
it but uh in general that's history
there were a lot of uh interesting uh
you know expressions that told him I
think that told his brother label then
that uh after 40 years now and at 40
years
um
and and you know things like that to
various this is the last
I think then uh
said
yeah
I think the first time I mean not the
first time but the reb used that term
>> that term
>> there are a few things during that heard
from other people as well which was very
himic and um so those are those are a
few expressions that I think of right
now I'm sure there are more that the reb
um said about him or to him
um he was also a a very big known
she made many and there were many people
that referred to him to even even that
was Matsia he wanted to close or to be
involved with
uh
>> the wanted to be involved with
you also got answer from the about
>> uh yeah
>> um
what is the story your mother
had a had an accident a car accident
what was what was that story
>> you have enough uh tape for this
>> I'll try
>> it's a it's a very long uh
Um,
I actually had the of interviewing the
doctor that was involved with the
treating her a few years ago when the
the kinists um had the famous Zoom that
wanted for a week.
>> Mhm.
>> So, uh there was about a thousand on
when I contacted the Kun to reach out to
him. Um they're a relative of this Dr.
Rich, which we'll talk about in a
second.
>> It's the same Dr. Rich that was there.
>> Yeah, he was the first one to respond.
So yeah, I was uh it was very heartsick
when he asked me this, you're you're a
son. Like I don't think he realized it
was a ham. So I was like, yeah, it was a
very uh heartsick moment. So I'll try to
say it uh as best as possible in the
time that we have together
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So, this was um Ad Alfaml.
Um my mother then was a student at
Brifka in nth grade. Uh, Brifka then was
located on uh Stone Avenue uh near
church
um a street would refer to as Yanagas.
Um
and um
she was 13 years old at the time. uh
when she was leaving school one day um
around four o'clock
um as she was crossing the street
uh a zooming either a truck or a van
uh drove by and uh hit her
hit her hard. She flew in the air a few
feet um landed I think on her head. Um
was a terrible terrible scene. This was
in front of all the girls. This was by
dismissal.
Um
she was rushed then to um Kings County
Hospital
right here.
And um
yeah, she was unconscious.
Um
when my
represent
contacted my grandfather and told him
what happened
and um
my grandfather right away ran to 770 or
went to Mosquito who's probably in 770
already and he wrote he told Label what
happened label growner and
label told him to um write to the Reba
right away all the details and he'll
bring it in as soon as he can.
So he wrote it he wrote all the details
and that the doctors uh don't uh don't
give her much time. you already uh saw
her condition right away that uh the her
condition was um
almost uh almost done and um
so Gordon told me that's me wrote to his
pandan that he's giving her over as a
daughter to the
um story I always heard growing up but
hearing that from someone that was there
um really really uh had hit me hard
and he wrote to the he wrote the very
very hard to get uh pun that the doctors
are not giving her much help and
that he's
he's giving her over to the rabbit
entirely. Anyways um
the then when the told him um to contact
a uh Dr. Robert Richtor
and he should um treat her.
I'm sorry. The Reb told him to call Dr.
Richter and uh tell him that he wants to
meet with him.
>> The Reba wants to meet with him.
>> Yeah, I heard from Mandy Groner that the
Reb told his father that uh
but um that's interesting. Um he he said
I think he he remembers that detail but
um which is a very uh you know
fascinating thing to hear. Anyways um
so label called um Dr. he was a surgeon
at Brooklyn Jewish Hospital.
It's not called interfaith but uh just
know near Atlantic Avenue. And um Dr.
Richtor got back to him and uh he said
he'll be over in he'll be out at out of
770 very soon. He came over in 770 right
away that I was calling in the middle of
the day. It's obviously a very important
matter
and um
I basically told him what uh the report
that he got about uh my mother and told
him that he uh wants him to look after
her
for her recovery.
So Dr. told me that I told the Rebby
that it's not my um it's not my field
what uh I think was brain damage. Um and
number two it's I'm not I'm blown out
hospital so I won't uh that won't uh
work out. So um so the rabbit told him
that
King's County it's it's they didn't it's
it's done. It's over. They can't really
do uh they said they can't do much
anymore at this point. They're just, you
know, waiting for the worst. So, what
would they care if you come in just to
uh you know, look look over her
situation.
So, he um
the then told him, I want you to come in
every day to report to me.
Um
um I asked him did I ever give him any
guidance on treatment. He told me no. I
just want him I want you to come back
every day and report and um call her
name.
So he did that every day um for about
two weeks and the told him and also this
was I think on a Wednesday or or maybe
on a Thursday. Anyways, the said when it
comes to uh Shabas when after you finish
after you finish the shoo with your
family
um I would like you to visit the
hospital and then come back to me. Uh
I'll be at my office.
And he did that. He told me he kept the
uh
>> Where did he live?
>> I think he lived he lived in Manhattan.
>> But um upper east side,
but the interesting thing is he told me
when he came Friday night, he's a shame
of Shabas.
So he kept his car running uh because he
didn't want to have to restart it
afterwards. So he told me he asked some
yeshiva students to watch his car not
crime heights, you can imagine.
But um but then he told me that's when
he really hit him that he's mamaish for
her for her recovery. The fact that the
on chabas to uh see that's when he
realized basically this is not just this
is that was working through him. He
actually refused to meet with me because
he didn't want to be considered a hero.
I told him my family you're like a
you're a hero. I don't want to hear any
of that hero talk. I was making sure
this girl gets a full full recovery. I'm
nothing more than of the he made that
that point very um emphasized that point
very strongly. Anyways,
>> his relationship with the Reb started in
you don't know
>> I actually saw on Reb response a letter
to him I think from earlier from the
>> he had a relationship. Okay.
>> He's married to Mando Kunan's
granddaughter.
So it's you know so this relationship
started much earlier. Um
long story short which is many details
there are many letters in between
but on um on prim day
>> why why you making it short
grand
>> yeah by um the he approached the reb
once and the reb again till she comes
home
um
on poor Pim. So this happened on test
other
on uh
maybe it wasn't it was other Shane Mama
then on Purim a week later um Stock who
was a close family friend lived in the
same block as my grandfather and her and
my mother of course he decided to um
arrange for a minion to ask the fora for
her.
Um
so I heard this from he who was one of
the part of the minion actually have the
right over here the gave the reban.
Um there was three Khanim Shimshin
wanted himself Zakatsman and
um and another seven eight friends of my
grandfather who after Min PM day this is
PM touch
they approached they were first standing
by the door whenever left left the room
to the left his room to the um to the
for the didn't mention anything on the
way back
asked the labeler
what are they what are they standing
here for? So answer that
for
you know they're here to ask for uh for
my mother. Um
so at that point they presented to the
Reba the pan
uh with all the signatures together
within
based schol
it was corresponding to the rabbis then
and um for the main pan and he wrote in
the pan that um users signed were asking
the bra for our friend
um that he should uh
whatever it is all theas and all the
responsibilities that he has in
especially now that he has um the
situation that his daughters and that
the doctors say that it's in God's hand
they did everything they could and now
it's in God's hand and we're asking the
purim this pur to a
and all
You know, there shouldn't be no
afterwards.
Reddit.
Um
that anyone any person who stretches out
his arm
you grant him the
or it's it's literally about money. But
the Reb says in the context of Abrao
that um Sister Davis.
So um the following day um she opened
her eyes
um Dr. Richtor said then when he visited
her that day he called her eyes and um
into my shock and he's not an emotional
guy. He's a surgeon. He's a you know
real professional uh
orthodox guy. Um the rabbit. So he got
all uh shaken up. He told me that he
said I got goosebumps. I I did not think
there was a chance that she would uh
open her eyes and um he as the rest of
the doctors were basically basically
expecting the worst and she opened her
eyes and the sab with her then made an
um he showed her a picture of the asked
her if she knows who that is. She said
of course
um
um was writing very very hard
here
on his about what he was going through
besides for all this and especially this
yeah this s on his uh on his back to
deal with and um
there was a lot of encouraging answers
but Um
but there was continuous updates from
every time his visited her which was
every day he would that night he would
report to the reba what the doctors are
saying in the updates and that you know
there's more and more of a chance that
she may wake up that you know there was
always uh there was always hope and all
that and so Dr. told me that one thing
that really impressed me about this
ordeal was that her father, my
grandfather, um how he never lost
himself. He said whenever I dealt with
uh similar cases, parents were always,
you know, losing their minds, going in a
in a craze.
Me, he never lost himself at any moment.
And um there were times when I heard
from those who were there that the
doctors was one time especially doctor
asked him uh they need parental consent
about giving over um some of her limbs
organs to scientific research if Misa
would be willing to do that and he had
to someone had to translate for him and
say
and um and this it's not even up for
discussion obviously
it wouldn't even be possible but the
concept of uh if she's going to make it
um he he was you know very strong about
there was no other option um and Dr. I
said that really made a big impression
on him seeing this um
this mental strength that he had. And
then
so later on that month at the end of my
grandfather and his wife, my grandmother
and their son Mangalitzk went into for
my uncle's um bar mitzvah which would
take place in Zionism.
And um I have a transcript of that where
the writes that they asked the
my grandmother
say
there
um
>> she was already conscious then.
>> Yeah, she was up already. Um she had a
she still had a long journey for
recovery but also asked that he should
be at his uh bar mitzvah.
Um and that was the Reb's uh answer and
the whole block remembers her coming uh
ambulance coming up um Montgomery Street
out of Pesak after be
uh and she was carried off a stretcher
in a into the house.
Um she was with a wheelchair uh I mean a
she was a walker in a wheelchair in a
walker for the next uh few months of
course and uh as the rabbi was leaving I
saw a
wrote to the reb at the end of seven
uh when the rebba spoke a to them then
um my mother was there with her walker
and he writes to the as the reb was
leaving the sh the reb made with his
hand to her in her direction and it uh
really raised her spirits.
Interesting. I mean they want to make
sure that every was aware of that.
>> That's that's interesting detail of the
story that I know now because he wrote
that denim. But uh every was leaving the
sh
um I guess he made wave with his hand to
my mother like uh acknowledge you and
you know
Dr. They told me that um at the end
uh when the Reba when he told the Reb
that she woke up and the Reba told him
that it won't be necessary to make his
daily visits anymore. He said I couldn't
contain myself but to ask the Rebi Rabbi
did you know the entire time?
So he didn't he told me the Rebi didn't
say yes or no. father made like a
twinkle with his eye
>> like
you know I'm even
but um yeah she uh she lives for another
30 years and I'm here to tell the story.
>> Yeah.
Um but um yeah it's a it's a tremendous
story and it's a story I live with um my
family lives with and it's um you know I
wouldn't be here without it without just
very
and um it's only of course
but um I'm sure there are many there's
so many other details that um not coming
to mind right now but that's the story
In a uh
in a nutshell during that hotel kufa the
the girls were always visiting her and
saying tam at her at her bedside. Shin
stock was always uh ringing groups over
of girls to drive over and
sometimes he would shake the bed for her
to wake up you know in his typical
fashion. But um but yeah, there was um
that was a very traumatizing uh tufa for
the girls. These are 14-y old girls that
uh in front of their eyes they saw this
>> the whole recovery was there was they
weren't at ease that entire uh you know
till the end of the year till the
beginning of the next was other you know
but yeah takes care of his boys. Um
yeah uh Dr. Rar was very happy. I sent
him the picture by of him and his wife
at the my parents in the maliff and he
uh was very thankful to see that
um
I think the of the he mentions that he
was there. Um in general miser reported
to the about everything everything in
his life
I don't know if I like if this was
necessarily true but I can maybe be mish
that he probably has from the most
answers of any just from his roles that
he played and how frequent he would
report
um
what for example when anytime he had to
leave town for whatever reason if uh
let's say for aid or whatever it is, he
wrote to the his entire itinerary when
he's taking off, when he's going to be
back, and then he would always ask the
Reb to be him with the
it was like an employee employ reporting
to his boss that he's taking off for a
day or so. That's how that that was his
relationship with the Reb. It wasn't,
you know, it wasn't he didn't take off
for a week. He didn't take off for a
extended period of time. I was back at
I'll be back at the office at uh this
and this amount of time, you know, this
time.
And it's uh
you know it really it reading these
dasis really show you what it means to
work for the rebba. Now everyone of
course works under the you know we
belong to the rebba but to work directly
under the reb that's uh to see that up
and close that's it's you know it's
fascinating to see
um yeah that's that story.
>> Thank you for sharing it.
Um
it's a very special story.
>> One thing actually I want to add um
which is connected to what we spoke
about earlier about his other hardships
that he was destined to face. Um during
that port I heard this from two Talmin
who were there Goldberg who was today in
Mikame and um
Galitzki from Tel Aviv. They were both
by the Fbrangan of Fbrangan the night
before Leo Pur this is either PM or
Nissen
um was definitely the period where my
mother was in the hospital um
he was bringing was very he said was
they both described as a very hard
sickening
and he was saying
they didn't say the prophet he had a
>> it's not a it's not a it's not a speech
impediment it's an accent
>> yeah yeah his brother label that also
Yeah. So he would say let's say what
does it mean says he has problems. You
have a there's no problem doesn't have
issues. You have a everything will take
care of there's no and he was saying
this but like throughout the he would he
was repeating this theme and um they all
knew that he was referring to himself.
you speaking to me,
right? No, but this was next week that
he was mom was talking to himself in a
sense like why is it I'm doubting that
she'll have a recovery why why do I feel
that this problems the devil will take
care of it you know his was you know
like it says in navik should there was
no it was one thing was one entity and
um it's something that he really tried
to be mush and his children is in I hope
I and u embody those traits of his um
but u yeah that's one thing I wanted to
add which was a very you know
heart
moment
thank you
can't speak about
without mentioning a few things first of
all
he was the during the week and the rabba
That's something that uh
he's very known for. And also he he had
a minute to bring every year
when we stay up all night. What was that
about?
So the first thing you asked about about
his um laning for the reba that actually
already started teny
I think one time uh the regular wasn't
there turned to him
and from then on he uh started laning
was then in defeated of course so he
started laning
and that I mentioned earlier from either
wasn't Um the
the said that leaning from the is also a
school for
you know he should be able to u process
information and you know learn better
etc. So that was learning from the is a
scholar which um I'm sure was connected
to the fact that that's what he uh ended
up doing. Um he saw that as he saw that
as a schlas in the m late late years
um that he was laying in the reb's room.
This was in the mids.
Fortunately, he was going through many
uh health issues then as he did the last
15 years or so of his life. And um he
would have to go for treatment and uh
many doctor uh appointments and uh you
know to maintain his health and um
he was very careful that the appointment
shouldn't be on a Monday or a Thursday.
Um you know he didn't want take have
that taken away from him to to be able
to lay in the Reb's room.
>> Right.
>> So uh
>> I remember vividly him uh
>> him laying in the room
>> laying in the Reb's room. I mean like
with with the with the like
>> he was mish doing until the point that
the the people mamish near him couldn't
hear him here. was he was he was I think
you know before I get to the PES these
things um really kept him um together as
a person you know with all considering
his life circumstances and his health
issues um the fact that he was able to
be mali the Reb's
and his gave him
the fact that Monday Thursday he was
able to call up the Reb
which I heard he was the first one to
call up the uh with that title of
in the sense it was it was lower I think
Gordon called out the but um but still
he was calling up the ready than in
he would go lower than
in general the way he did it was very
royal
was like a
>> the
Yeah. Yeah. He would like turn to the
side in order not to have his back to
the reb as the reb would have come from
the either from the upstairs
and then Monday Thursdays and later on
when after um downstairs then later on
in the front of 70 but um but that um I
think his health started deteriorating
after
that reason. Um, of course he would for
bringing about that the Reb is still
with us and a soldier doesn't give up
his work if the general isn't uh, you
know, giving him orders necessarily at
that moment, he would bring in this this
non-stop.
Um but um
was his support system and the fact that
he knew that he's showing up every day
to work in Shiva and
whatever it was all of his
that gave him
sustenance to uh to carry on and um
as the years were going on and Z his
health was um only declining. Um
unfortunately but um he was wasn't that
old even he was in his uh early 70s
>> when it started
>> mid-60s even. Yeah.
>> Okay.
>> Um
so first of I think Jacobson for the
>> I remember him. I I was I attended one
of these things. Yeah. I mean he was
like you're describing he was very not
well
>> one of my earliest memories of him of
sitting there by his uh
>> I didn't appreciate it and then of
course I just was by and I didn't
realize what was happening like there's
nothing happening like this was his
night
>> right
>> almost anyone that I interviewed like I
mentioned earlier that I asked the
always say you
was was that was his that was his day to
shine
>> I remember when I remember when he
I just remember what happened. There was
when I was a young so he fell he came in
middle of the night upstairs in Zo
oranges there
>> oranges bananas and wine
>> something like that and he was fabanging
it's very hard to hear anything so
afterwards he left
and then
came up
he's like he want to know
like like is still going on I think it
was I or someone else yeah
We weren't able to hear so much but you
know so he like I remember
was like
when like they used to scream like a
lion by by these I remember that
moment.
>> Yes. So his main remember was once
saying at his one of the um his
all the things that was then
talks about that the talks about but
what was
that
was his that's
It's been the whole thing
>> is um I think the one of the main
reasons why it's such a like big tal
because tal is the only um
activity that we do that really shows on
the the concept of soldiers soldiers
marching
mis's entire uh mahus was a soldier
the fact that there's one aspect within
this whole framework of of which
literally um you know personify that
that idea of just of walking like
soldiers. I think that's that was one of
the things that really resonated with
him
like
he was very into saying as a when we
leave Sami especially when the was at
the front door being
all of the um
he wanted to line up down Isa Parkway as
a um
>> then there's a famous line he would say
till
>> yeah would say that the say there
would uh leaves the
so he would say he first stops you know
keeping say there
then he stops coming to then you know he
would enumerate a few other you know
things
he was very uh very open everyone's
heard that the rabb told him that to
speak about things that bah could relate
to I heard from a nephew of his that
told him told me that he once but um but
he was he was very um
he was very um that was his that was his
line he starts with um it's not coming
to say there and uh
>> he goes level by level
>> there's I'm not sure if it was in the
same sequence of of of this that he
would say or was other times basically
he would say
you eat and then you start eating good
foods then you drinkim which is soda
jumping m caves and literally mean
jumping water but uh you don't know or
coke or greenas or drill or sprite all
these different hazard didn't uh you
know wasn't he wasn't wasn't ted by him
at all like he didn't uh
>> yeah I heard from he's like soda he
never drank it
>> the whole thing meat wasn't I mean
dashmas wasn't part of his life
>> he says until no you go
>> no so he would talk about that uh all
this then
>> say we got about a bus And
until
he ate so much by by the
>> until until he stops going on
>> until he stops going on that's the
>> the cliff
>> that's the yeah most grave sin
um tal by him was was
you know there was no missing uh I heard
from somebody even after he was in a
wheelchair they saw him on Coney Island
once um someone pushing
going to a show. He he was he was just
he was shocked like really like you know
you did your time here you know you can
sit home you don't have to
>> he was
>> they say would say he hopes it rains on
>> so that could go
if you go my ways I'll give rain at it
it's time and he said this
>> so when is
when rains on
>> he would say it's time you go it's a
nice weather like what's the what's the
you go when it's pouring rain your
hats in the mall the hat the
>> the dye of the hat down and people would
come back to them standing with black
faces and the shirts were totally uh you
know full of black ink
>> um I said that's everyone give for all
those that went on was very u was a very
that didn't start the
um of
I'm sorry at the end of the before is
always Ask
that was one of the
>> came back from Yeah.
>> Yeah. He was wanted to know if
>> the officially went till till everyone
was back from
>> Yeah.
>> I mean most guys most all the unless you
revived Kaz ever missed the first chunk
of the Fibbrangan.
>> Right.
You're lucky you got to the end and most
guys a lot of guys miss that entire ring
and if you went further one time spoke
about the smart boys those who go to
closer locations to come back earlier
>> right
>> obvious
of course but yeah and him were uh were
synonymous
>> another
another major in his life was was in the
midl when was coming out with you one
after the one after another,
>> right? I would say if there was ever a
period in Dashi that he shined the most
was during those really started from
summer liml.
Um
during that period it was just a
marathon of new in the in the tanks and
theata
everything just took on in a whole new
level. Every other the week my was
coming out with new initiatives and new
things that should be implemented. And
of course like mentioned earlier was the
address for all of these um for all of
these um activities.
Um
when in the summer of Lad Gimmel that
every was talking very much in Kim the
hair has a very nice article on that. um
months before the war
uh which happened on kiper of 1973
um the revolutioning very much to do
this with children
um
to gather children to learn do learn to
with them that children should should
have they should host hold rallies
by it's interesting we printed that
article in the
the tish of October 7th.
>> Oh wow.
>> Yeah.
>> So Mida was then he went to SH that
summer. I think two of his daughters was
in uh was in school then in the there.
Um so before he went he asked the rebba
what he should speak about and the rebba
said it's a never been more of a
appropriate time to u to basically
devel
with withite in the sense of you know
mitzvah and came to talk about to you
know encouraged the various messes over
there to get involved with these pulas
um in general anytime he either took a
trip there to straw which was around
three four times. Um his there was no
vacation time was meeting one one to
another to to take care of back to you
have to see this and he wrote to but
literally step his step by step by step
of everything he did during the day um
meeting with meeting with Gansburg
meeting with Zamlski meeting with and uh
you know all the other men and
um but non-stop and making sure that
they were on top of uh of the game and
fulfilling all the all of the race. Um
so that that summer was uh the beginning
of a like I said before like a a
marathon of of non-stop
and then Khan came around. I mean that
tish was was like a further you know
about the teas and by volcano was a very
uh
very very heart uh moments and then
kaneka
was the um
was the first time that the wanted to
make for uh that there shouldn't be a
single Jewish home without the kite of
khan. So Naza then uh found this guy. Um
he's actually still around. It's kind of
hot as mid to late 90s now.
>> He came to visit our office once.
>> Oh yeah.
Um
>> was he the same one that made the Nashk?
>> Yeah. It was Tber Cooperstein.
>> He made the minus the the
>> we have today and also the Nashk
candles. So he was um
he was manufacturing equipment for the
war efforts. So he had like a metal uh
factory. So you know if you know Is that
worked? He heard of his metal and he
knows that everyone needs everyone's
mana. So maybe we can contact the guy
that does that manufactures metal to
design uh um mana kits
>> tin manas.
>> This is the manas that we're using till
today from times the same mana. I mean
that looked a little different.
>> Looked different but the same the same
idea. Yeah.
>> So,
so he wrote to the Reb about this. Um
Isaiah wrote to the Reb and the Reb
wrote a beautiful to him. Unfortunately
a year or so before
um his son was killed in a um
in a in a mugging attack. They got the
wrong guy, the people, the you know the
attackers. Uh long story short, uh he
was killed and Bab wrote that through
the
through his efforts and um making these
minus
maz
of the bay
um you know for all good things as it's
explained in ter and the reb mentioned a
few others with the name in it you
underline each uh each letter each word
of error
um
and all those who were you know involved
with that was involved with that mitzvah
it's just very uh was a beautiful bra
and then I continued and
from there uh was able to write that say
needs this amount needs this amount this
is how things operated um what started
in eventually They spread throughout uh
America and and throughout the world of
course
um I didn't mention earlier in the early
years of TA in the the 50s in the Yuds
there were different branches of T
everywhere there was T of Boston T of
New Haven T of uh Rochester T of uh
multiple places in New Jersey today you
have T Montreal in Paris in Argentina
Uh then it was in Brazil. I remember
seeing letters from Herzik then in
Brazil and then um
there was also
um missing a few locations but yeah was
a Milan
saw a few letters to Mandel where it's
addressed
Milan.
So you know was the um that was the
operating arm for all of
Morocco
>> eventually eventually things changed and
like the became and then
>> but then in New York area everything is
still till today
>> till today a few places first one Israel
of course that was the original place
but in Montreal it's remained that way
in Paris right
>> the Alabama
>> Australia I forgot to mention of course
Melbourne it's
uh Toronto
Um but yeah those uh but those years
I a few years ago for Tishra I arranged
a panel um with four or five who were
for the
of a few of them of course who were
involved with pulis and uh the reason
why I did that because reading these
and and hearing these people was Like I
felt like these was titled um when what
was it called? Msim hit the streets or
something like that.
Um Labavage hit the streets. The Ms era
when Labavage hit the streets. It's on
YouTube actually. You can watch that.
But it's um
was a fascinating uh era in Labavich
when all these things uh so one very
powerful answer my grandfather got then
was um he he wrote to the Reb that um we
had a meeting about um this was after
the incident in Malot which I think the
hair wrote about as well.
Fortunately, there was a there was a uh
school I think from it that was uh on a
field trip to Malot,
>> a town in northern
>> I just want to mention that
Pition over here that the is actually
working on a new endeavor, a new book
which is going to cover the time of
>> beautiful
>> plus other campaigns that the Reb
launched but uh
>> looking forward
>> and you mentioned Malot I'm saying it's
going to have the history it's gonna
have everything that needs to get fired
up Not the MIT.
>> Very good. I have the doing the
interviews for the MIT column which is
ongoing now
>> this year. Exactly. Yeah.
>> Yeah. It's uh
>> definitely that element of that is going
to be included for sure.
>> Yeah. Um
the nice thing about Messiah column is
not just the history but it's al also
the ongoing impact of these messiah the
>> practical implications
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So yeah, so getting back to
uh so he wrote to the Reb that we had a
meeting uh after the m of the spoke
about very strong about
um increasing in all and to go into the
streets and you know encourage for it to
fill existed from
so wrote to the that um we had a meeting
about it and we're planning following up
uh I think the following week or
writes like this which is a very
fundamental answer for every me and
every
to um you know to always have in mind
wrote as follows
until the next meeting that you
mentioned
it would be possible for those who do
York
to conquer the entire New York and its
surrounding areas in a peaceful and uh
pleasant uh manner
you know today I think one of the
one of the um areas which you know it's
kind of hard to retrieve from you know
before Gimlamas
was the sense of urgency that there was
a fire burning under every single one of
us to to get the work done. There was no
let's talk about it Monday at 9:00 a.m.
you know let's follow up about the next
everything had to happen now and here
and now there was no you know everything
obviously became much professional and
much more uh developed over the years
but this was general approach
every if it's important it has to be
done now
>> and that was and that was abd's mo
>> yeah I say that was I mean I think that
from that uh
from that day on there was just didn't
stop the reports are coming in and and
he was he was finding out how many bakar
went to various locations and the day he
was writing muzz and the be came with
five that's started and later on became
uh the whole summer the gave $5 whoever
uh whoever didn't go or stay in and did
whatever it was that ever g to uh I know
a lot of people that still have the $5
bill
uh whoever got can I get the kamish
then but uh I didn't I mentioned before
in the last day of Khan the
uh told my grandfather that anyone that
uh through anyone who was Mishf in
Mitzah
uh will receive a dollar from me. This
is before obviously
yeah 12 years or so before the started
giving out dollars
and gave out uh dollars. You have to
first get a settle from your
gave it to Mas and then you were able to
go it was like a whole process and then
you were able to receive a dollar from
um
so wrote about this on when they wrote
about when he wrote about
and the gave every person who was this
is how started and again the told
through whoever will be
in
they will receive a dollar.
So
like
the Reb wanted these things to take off
into incentive it would be to receive a
dollar from him and
um really started earlier in the army
bases would send out and couples to army
bases in the mid to late Kuffs uh during
the Vietnam war to um to be there for
soldiers.
um that would have no other way of
celebrating Pummill
was a very big and by the Feb. you hear
in the audio them saying that they just
returned from fort wherever it is and uh
and
it was a very uh it was very special to
the that guys went out to these army
bases which was obviously done under
Castell
Gazant um he wouldl was the organizers
the organizer of the he's visiting the
shabatones and uh arranging people to go
to to visit the with Arab with the Arab
with eating with kabat having guys go
over to people's apartments and homes to
learn with them um and chapatones that's
was all cast so he started working for
mitz approach once to starting when
became mitz if you would like to get
involved he was a young man then and
that's when the rest of his work in s
started
>> and there's a lot of lot of a lot of uh
that he received many many minus which
Mr. Shi printed in the book and
hopefully I can be to give the hair as
well.
>> Yeah. And I also hope to have him on the
podcast at a certain point.
>> Yeah, he would he would be great. A lot
of
>> um Okay. So
there's you actually have on the table
here a lot of binders with pictures and
answers and it's so vast. We didn't even
get it yet and we covered mean we were
here for a long time. So
um
I want to ask I mean this is act this is
why you're writing a book and there's
more there's more binders over there.
This is why you're writing a book
because every element in every area that
we covered there's much more to write
and there's details and there's
documents and
>> you're just giving really the of it all.
>> Um is there any anything else or any
closing thoughts that you want to share
that's important for those that are
going to be listening takeaways?
Everyone has what uh to contribute to
the rabbis kabana.
My grandfather was not the many people
would say not the most qualified in the
sense of professionalism
to um to run various organizations. But
that's not what the Reba looks for in a
in aid. The Reb wants loyal soldiers.
And um if you're a soldier ready to
carry out the general's command,
um you know, we need you. We need you to
uh to be there. um we needed for the
work. um it's irrelevant
a person's background the knowledge this
was the whole idea of
that um first there was no such a thing
in is getting old
that I've made it very clear in in day
one you know very in the beginning
this is a young gener this is youth this
whole is youth you know you could be
saying
and still it's still being that's not um
Kazanovski when he would talk about um
when he would speak at the
convention he would say uh you know make
with his white beard it's a fagan to
speak here at
like consider he would consider himself
for the youngsters but uh that's that's
that's a message that I learned from his
life and I think everyone can uh can
learn from him and that you know it's
it's not about capabilities, it's about
uh being committed to the cause and it's
about being loyal first of all who you
represent and what you represent
um and the are there the said that uh
countless amount of times that you have
the you know give the gives the and we
just have to uh want to like they say to
to come up the bat and uh it's not it's
not optional. The Reb said it on day one
that it's we need every single every Yid
to to participate in this effort and
health and that our efforts should bear
fruit to to the gula.
Amen. Thank you very much
and a lot of with getting it done and uh
appreciate everything that you shared.
>> It's my pleasure. Thank you.