Ep. 36: I Received a Brocha to Chazer Chassidus Clearly with Rabbi Shlomo Zarchi

and does whatever wants and all the corners and all everything they find a way you have to have to get into whoever find a way to every well you have to be [music] and not be busy heading and devotion to do whatever you want to find the I'm Yasi Cayman. Welcome to among an ongoing faban about life as aid, our vibrant connection with the Reb and inspired living shaped by the way he teaches us each and every day. Today's episode is brought to you by Karen Hakamish. is a fund that was started by theb right after in honor of the rabbis. Stay tuned later in the episode to hear more about it. How are you? >> Okay. Thank you very much. Um and I appreciate you making the time >> for you and for if anybody will have a benefit from it, I'm always welcome. Yeah. >> Okay. Huffen that people I'm sure people will benefit. So the first thing I want to ask you, we'll start off um before you maybe you could tell me a little bit about your mishba from where you come from your your zas your parents maybe we'll start like that. So I come from both sides proceeded. My father learned in in Turkish nurkish commas in Russia and underground yeshivas. My mother's Arasin. Her father was Arascan and his father was bent Arasin. And my mother's mother was my mother's mother was a daughter of the famous but my grandfather my great-grandfather used to marry his children young. So my great-grandfather was by the shop. He gave him 10. One said that's not for your son because she's not going to cover her hair. The second is that's not for you because she knock her children on the right way. One of those daughter is you think about she came was 18 years old. She came to >> you learned in lab. Huh? Huh? >> He learned in lab his brother learned he didn't learn. So my son my my my said first of all I'm only 18 years old. I'm young still. Second of all they'll take me to the army. Third of all I don't want a girl from a village. called the and there was behemoths there and there was no people there a few people there he went back to the son says this says young son goes away he'll get older he says they'll take him to the army can take him to army he went from moat is a special and his and he's a and his wife is a nephew of the he was the famous all the letter the goes to him >> who who's wife's wife he she comes from and he come from the niece or something he was the robb And [panting] I came back to my lady and my lady will do this. She came back to she said, "Okay, you're going to the pass anyway was next to you. come in before the give to the my great grandfather I ask him to b asked asked him what are you doing there in middle of the day was was sitting in his and two too old watches and a vest. A vest. >> So get very serious. So everybody should go out of the room. Put his could come in. He put his hand on his head and he said, for 50 years. There's a famous and naron I play you have to think about the face on the nob. So this is from where he comes from and and was quoted when my great-grandfather was by the rabbi and he said that he's going away from Russia. She walked to all his children and to each ask him that the problem of Mary and and the other children he's telling they must come now the is going away so everybody has to be goes away even though m was just now by the but he came and all the kids came there And run away. >> I mean the And >> your father was there too, >> huh? >> Your father was there too. >> Who? >> Your father. >> He's too young. >> He was born afterwards. >> He was born before. He was a young kid then. >> And then they say that my grandfather took my grandfather when the train left already. He said, "Let's run." You see the smoke the other. So they ran after the train till the smoke from the train went away. You asked me before if my lab said no did not learn in but he was around. So he makes light the whole canada the whole area around Gorka where he lived. The whole area is is bal because of him and he took took my father. He had all all he had all the famous and Aaskkin the father of and bent his son-in-law his sister was the woman the famous everybody knows and so forth there's more I don't know if you want to know all about his children aids and so forth so this is the story and everybody knows that his house was an open house in Gabes know the old he saved them in the hungry years they were from Poland and took him to the house there was a in England always to kind of come to see us so he had the best place in Ma's house was a small house his feet were swollen so he put him under the table so no one could could step on him and made the children wash his feet and soak it water and so forth They were alive just because he saved their lives. There was a jail not too far from my house. They all went out of jail. The ladies came to take their husband. They all ended up in my house. All they all told me how he gave them everything that they needed. And my mother and sisters all take away of of everybody. This is about the family part. >> So this is all your mother's family. >> Yeah. >> What is your father? >> My father's family is my father's father. He supported the init I saw the letters from the pagan to the poem that my great my father's father he he was ah but he supported the whole yeshiva in in the was my father was the best friend with kids himself when he used to come from England he's always stay in our house Yeah. >> And your your parents got married in Russia? >> Oh, my parents were married in Russia. And my father came here for for a few years. He was a shad. He went around whole America. He whole America. >> And where were you born? >> I was born in Ping. >> So you born after the war? >> After in parking. Yeah. >> In Ping. >> And And did your father have um a connection with the Reb's father? And once told me he doesn't know where people are going when my father he was a he opened up the doors of Msiah in America. father. >> Yeah. >> But my father once told me that with basi of his father in in Moscow, he as he asked him to come in to father. >> So So the Reb's father came to Muska essentially. >> He was there. My father throw him outside. He used to come in and to abandon a little bit. Your father saw the Reba's father. Yeah. And asked him to come in. >> Okay. There was the old and all the young guys they listen my father told me a lot of the words that father said them by and I heard all these things from these pieces a lot of cha were around the same in since my father knew him the told him the other's father is sent away and Mexico all these places. He told him never to eat, not to drink. My father send him two packages, three circus as you call it in Russia, you got two packages and this >> food >> food and anything whatever two big packages. So there is mak shahim that was written by by what you call it by in in the in the shahim that and she miss Gordon wrote 10 articles in the shahim this article she said they got six packages from people she writes the names of four four packages and two packages is from a person that from a good friend you still don't know who he is my father before he passed way. He told me the story. I didn't know it either. I said he never wrote to the Reba. I should write to the Reb, but he helped his father and fine. Could be that's what the Reba gave me my brother Mashki. My father passed away even though he didn't give nobody any mashk some people. He called me my brother to give us mashki. He passed away the sh. >> So your father never wrote to the >> he gave it. No. >> Mhm. >> Yeah. Why? >> So you're saying maybe that's why >> and then the Reb's mother we were very close because my parents and her we went in the same train going out of Russia and my father was very devoted to help a lot. >> One second but they met they met in parking. >> Yeah but on the train going >> I shouldn't they weren't in parking at the same time as they met in parking but before they was on the same train from leaving Russia. We helped a lot. We helped her labor in Germany also. I'm not sure that she saw me outside. She used to call me over and speak to me. She used to send me to ask to take a package and put it by by the door. She go to pick up a package. She very my pa. I went across street. She called me over and she spoke with me. I once swallowed a nail in Germany. It was very dangerous. She always swallowed a nail. >> Yeah. She always reminded me about the nail bed swallow the and twice a year she made a kittish in her house with and both times she used to come to her house to help her put to the table above the throat and mashka had always like a young kid helping her out in her things and always was a very interesting story once we were outside and me a few friends of mine and the mother asked us Niggan did learn that was she said oh my niggan but she want to go to the so we walked up to then the ladies were also downstairs those days the ladies were saying they sat in the back on benches and so forth we took her downstairs she ran on the bench so we asked if we told the ben she says no >> she stood on a bench 2 minutes after she was standing turned around his head and looked to her back and we both eyes met. Then she said she could go home already. She saw the other already and so forth. But the other false right away that she came in into the shoe. Yeah. >> This was by this was in the morning after. >> Yeah. >> So very early in the morning. >> Yeah. >> So um so you born in parking and like Yeah. But everybody most of them left. We also send a package every we should go towards. But then it's just the other said to a few family that they should come to America. We never went to Paris. We went from Germany. We came to America. >> Straight to America. >> Yeah. >> But the were later in Paris were there like the Niss and they were >> they left from Germany to Paris. They all left to Paris. Most of the people as much neighbor but we stood bomb and behind the families they stood in Germany until wasn't that different I should learn by >> I remember four years old and four years old we to learn >> so you come to America And uh right away your parents went to Crown Heights. >> Yeah. No, we were in Brownville to >> Yeah. Who night? People had money. We were very poor. We had no money. We lived in Brusset. He used to live there also. He also walked. I used to walked together with him. My father left earlier and I left later in Shabas but we always woke and tish time we were always by our cousin Maritkin he had big house in on Kingston the park place and later on 682 eastern parkway we always sleep on the floors in his house every home we were make house until we moved to we moved to crown night >> so when you were a young kid coming to 770 the by the Fabangans. Where would the kids hang out? Where would they sit? >> First of >> You remember the You remember the Fabians in the small z? >> Sure. But the question this wasn't until you t this was in the later years. >> So where where were the kids hanging out in the >> first of all when we came I didn't know no English no nothing but better than being English. No other we just get on there touch and test. How old were you when you came to America? >> Huh? Four four years old. She already knew how to speak but not >> before we went to we know no English nothing but then they spoke to cried a lot that they wish children the first thing they do was crying and gave out a thing till 9 years old is that you shouldn't learn no English till 9 years old he's asking not too long about 29 years old. So the next day everybody went out of the English grades. They made a clear special for us not a special grade kids from the class higher class lower the met with the whole class and we learned the whole deal with the Kesh >> but you didn't move to Ala was not there yet. >> It happened then. No huh >> didn't it start then? >> No a year too late. I know what happened. >> And and and this is how how it went. Then we came 9 years old. Some kids went back to English. Some kids stayed the whole time and certain people went to high school like went used to go down to the parent with them speak with them. His father used to go collect the South African money. He he made he told his son to go away to his father. It was a whole year start over everybody they should go to English never high school for sure that it became became a whole became a whole thing went to English he went down to country special he went down to country he m 9 years old nobody went after 9 years old the Russian lady the mother saw the children the parent the husband not No, they don't know English. They didn't want their children to to grow up that way. I and this house how was how house how house how house how house how house how house was one >> that's what the rebba was trying to address this >> that's what the rebba was trying to address this whole concern >> and preoccupation people with spoke about it times >> that called it spoke about it that it says the m in the time of Mai because they they were they they been supposed to one of the spoke about this from go later in the room cry yourself Even if you going to be proud of it later go to a a room is good very sharp. So that's what we learned the whole day. And so until 14 we learn then we went to Yale we learned by >> okay so before you got to I want to hear about that but I want to ask you certain things that you remember from when you were a kid in 770 >> there's many things we g the famous spoke about the the I Remember he spoke about what you call it. It says in the Bible [clears throat] that you learn said you and you learn and later you go to Eve. You you look for mana you have a good portion miss and later you look for the portion is missing salt you sp and was very cried a lot of but there's many times like this especially there was a famous time when the bes was very poor going should be like a shabas by day Friday night and Shabas was too take away the the mash. It wasn't the big crowd but the dirt people used to rain downstairs and it was cold. There was no heater especially shalash was cold from outside. So Gordon was upstairs. My dad have to go down to him gracious said maybe we should say kill him upstairs but everyone went downstairs. that was spoke by by the social was recorded that was there after the know was doing by Eden they send the was laying on the table he was crying the not he's just a messenger Eden that was crying so much and so years later was Hanukkah time also the Mhammed B was so cold everybody was in coats so also the frost >> he said maybe upstairs went downstairs to sit down to the only time when he went to he kept telling the time of the sparing they had his foot was hurting and he couldn't even walk you have to hold on to the side going out of the side of the thing to hold on and your foot said it's not from this it's look like nerves it's not his phone so what we call this for the other side story the B which we call it a lady wing and she read the story and his brothers and she cried and his brother sold and this and that the next year she read again again the story of Y's brother why you go again why do you go again he knows from I'm not going to cry this year that once they took it to But now I'm not going to cry. I'm not going to take it to my heart. So it was very accomplishment. So the other kind of words of aim it should be warmer and the truth when they build the downstairs they said the cloud they should build in such a way they could open up for a roof that's named for there should be a suk down and later when the whole story was sukis the mar got hurt came to the hebr this way they want to all the people can't walk so so high up and they could be here and they go there has to be a place that everybody could go to not to restrain and I beg when they build the show they said so they entered me it can't and you can't everybody has it and they were very upset came that year 9:00 in the morning >> what year >> after the story of m >> okay >> so the also being in the UN without game was a special also but without wine without this was and so like this like yeah >> you remember um the neonim the rabbit teaching the neonim >> sure I was there all old all the neonim since we were kids we lived in brownville we used to live by mekin and we I rolled around 70 I didn't have a house then so we should be in d is a cousin of mine so I stood in his room we had some food there to eat later we were downstairs so I was old >> which wasn't >> it I mean I mean the first was the first one maybe was the second one. Yeah. So I remember how came down and sat down got up on a milk box. Nobody knew he's coming and sat up. He looked in the sky about the is getting light outside. sing. [clears throat] Nobody knew. So like sing back before you go on the steps of a table and everybody >> this is on in the shalash. >> Yeah. Everybody was around. Yeah. >> Among is brought to you by we live in a chaotic world. [music] A world where for us is au we do not have the ability to hear and see the on a daily basis. Yet we know that theb is very much with us and is alive and thriving more than ever before. One needs to only tap into it. provides you and your family with the tools necessary to tap into all of this. Whether it's the monthly magazine, the way it all began, whether it's their hair books, their hair online content, and so much more, men, women, and children throughout the world benefit and use these tools on a daily basis. 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The first niggan sang on the be was what you call it was um was uh >> saying first was on a milk crate and then the be first >> and and and and it was on the famous dancer >> on his first that was sang by the beamer and people should say he came from said did not take him so much what took him the most was I've ever told the story it came down with with doesn't say no >> yeah it's also >> I remember every single time then the last when they came down to learn the niggan they became very sharp became the truth it wasn't at the time teaching was the time they were able to give mask and meantime he sang a but it was not made this whole thing he said the m is and many people go so I'm going to stop it. It'll be the last time if people go over that and make it. It's not going to be anymore. I'm going to stop the whole thing all the kids to take. They don't know what nobody controlled. Nobody this and and and also meaning till then always start first people were pushing to get a good place by the and then they start appearing in middle of mashk then another time but first started so everybody was pushing close here they start giving mashka first so nobody want to take the mask because you take mashka you have to go away they're sitting by the by the both side they'll turn around Even you took it was no that other guy that was pushing the people. It was all very upsetting but told that you give me five more minutes. He has to be making a funeral. Then there was such a like today. So the not giving a mask people went home. that was for stealing the people at home but the dry we stood called we stood so he sang the king next morning they always sing the night before sang he thought that the And then he sang some s and that guy were there. So that was the good and that's it. Next year [laughter] he say no nothing became his mother. That's why but that was the last time mentioned one say B before people came there were few things they stopped one of the things was learning a new niggan even though this morning they had in mind to teach everybody but since then they stopped said the few things they stopped He wouldn't and people write to him said you have to write also because reason [laughter] [clears throat] and so forth and so forth is the last thing to speak about for the years. So what do you want to know? So you you remember also what about the other nug like Shamil? >> Sure. Shamil was the never cried so much in the Marshall when the told the story of the marshall of Shamil the way the T want to capture him and he couldn't get captured. He fooled them. He told him come down we'll make peace. Then he arrested him and he put him into jail in in shackles and unchained. So sitting in jail the first he's thinking about the good day high mountain driving a horse was on high was feed and and and second is the way now he's sitting in chains and they was crying so much but the first two f in the story the third f is the hope good days will come down again we'll be again on top of the mountain driving and so forth. And Sham is pulled down and he comes down to a group. The first problem is he's thinking about the good days and now he's jailed into a group. And the third problem, the good days will come again. Here did not cry in the Nim. He cried by the and cried very much by the people was going happiness and was screaming and it was it was it was very in the way the way to the face and his crying was it was something special to see and to hear. which was was very it was very special you know >> which is a good >> what about um I think I heard from you about this was before but The next night was again told again the story about the two spoke the whole then the sang the again sang the again the oh got with Ben He stopped singing was in Vegas. Then he opened his eyes. He pointed on himself. He went to he was looking for he stand next to us. And that year that they said that come everything that you learned the whole year before should be the one for no good. But the pay always used to pay the he paid him to come. This is the most serious thing in time said he was in his for two weeks and scream. Nobody wanted to go. Then a time later, for a long time. Yeah. And also very and the same thing uh what's called it again said the first P is where Shamil is thinking the way he's in the mountain with his guys with the horses. You got to hear not here with the first pile the way he's singing. He's on top of the mountains in [snorts] the same action. She says action it doesn't let go. So just like we spoken there's two found the first is one the second says everything two times >> but the most interesting thing he once said the highest this is the highest the same thing maybe in something. >> So let me ask about um other father's >> Yeah. Then she asked you about it. >> Yeah. And this was her father's mission. You know, >> what about other non tish like where like Napoleon's Napoleon's march's march was was like this always should dance Napoleon march on the floor was on the floor. We were kids always the keeper behind behind the you referring to the shalash the whole time. >> Yeah. Mhm. was already stood behind me because the crowd knew to to sing what we call it was hand but nobody saw there was nobody close to the other to see it kids behind the we told the crowd but one time turned around to just stop that me I look at him the whole time she was at least the longest 4 in the morning. I went to 5 in the morning. They told me you're a kid. >> Yeah. A young man was a young kid. >> So you say Napoleon's march, >> huh? Huh? >> Did I did it on the floor? >> On the floor was bunch of shabas. Shabas. that came to a mumm start to cry. You're able to hear in the whole shoot that was crying. had to cry and I like you're able and the whole shoo look like somebody screaming and yeah with the question which we stay at that m is also interesting sometime but he stood there you couldn't get into the march behind the mish but knew us he stood there then asked us to let to let us in he got in the front and we we let him in. >> He had both. >> Yeah. He he he was out on Mashia when he were young. Yeah. So it's cool that then they were still crying from the volcano. There was crying as solace over his head and there was dent on the floor then and crying. You could have heard the other crying from the toilet. The whole place in the middle of of denting and crying baby went on top of the chair. We were so afraid. We stood mold. He went up with solace still here and went and jumping on the chair and the chair is a rubber chair look and everything but I remember I had a fright but that was the first time they went on the chair from then he went every year on the chair and years later years later he made a higher from the chair he went higher >> steps up on him it was the first time they went on the chair with mommy Yeah. So, um, so you meant this is this whole thing. came that with Russia Becker Main's father you know and he came with a hat the person there said with a casket I said left home he said a clash should go home and get his casket meantime you could put a tick a napkin on his head and he went and got ket asked him every once in a while to go give him mashk he went up to drink a lot of and then there was a leader here from leader one didn't accept you saw that the first time accepted and and thinking a lot of mask speaking about the Russian Eden a lot got up that Eden should go out of Russia they were saying it was a go the whole thing and then the whole thing was saying but Then they also said that's what should give mash. So people ran out. There was a mask store down there in Kingston probably 150 to buy mask. The whole line from the other table to the door people give mask and everybody give big bro. They said there was big bro and remember saying certain people you have merced you know. I mean it was a home was a home. It was very and gave everybody mashk every put something in his fil and he put m so to the watch to go over to the drink helicopter. I'm afraid to start up with him. I heard from Mhm. He doesn't know what he's talking about. He he doesn't know what he's saying. says like this one here in [laughter] I'm not I'm not involved here >> but so was a lot of thing. Then the two people came to the light to buy furniture. And it was like with his hand on his head itself was a long was live outside and wrote later he sang to such a fain then from the barbage it was such a whole night and yeah it was a a big a big >> and you stood in the same place by with me and Yale we all stood under the lamb didn't want people I not in the first one they were not feeling good because we s and there was against his arms I saw the other face turning white I told Le's face I told and was white I never saw person so white like like the like the shing so white and then they saw when they finished about to turn on was not turning around. Then not only that they have a sat sat down later. So then the sit walks over right away to the want to give a little bit a word to say and right away guy broke all the windows in the sho behind the should be air coming in. They told every to walk out of sh I didn't go out. I was in the corners standing and they told up on finish you know with the fifth he made fast to our office by the seventh went in the middle of the shoe went one time around and stopped that one back to his place went up maybe with his hand when he when he came in he went kish want to give him grape juice said grapes mish kdish They told they should bring wine and what we call a father bumping the doctor and this doctor and that doctor and upstairs the nurse. So I told the what would you do somebody with is in such a case would you go to the hospital? She says yes but here they can make the hospital here I don't have to go to a hospital I'm by me different than my any other person. So the whole thing they didn't know what to do pass they have to go to a hospital all the big doctors ran away they wanted they wanted to be in the place but the person doesn't go to a hospital till the other fell asleep and this major heart attack came later 5 6 in the morning a whole bunch of guys went to the ale y went to the ale they say that was by the ale They told they're giving away their life for for the giving away. >> Mhm. >> You give your life. Give away. Yeah. Everybody get away. Yeah. But they gave away their whole life. >> The attack died. >> Huh? >> They died. >> Die right away. But they died young. Yeah. when J walks to the hospital to to the air on him and there was a big nest like they actually said to a major heart attack this time and they said they should take the to a hospital now doesn't know which world he's on they can take him to hospital now the she say we should take the hospital said she never did anything in her life that does not want to not want then she walked over to Robert Kinsky Rainsky you don't have a doctor for my husband think into Chicago we would know there was a young guy a doctor Dr. W called up into the phone right away we saw calling a lot of times she pick up the phone it said what happened here and you know you're having the guy Dr. Dr. wife. So call him up. He should come right away to the Reb. He called him and didn't enter till he entered. He didn't have money on his house even to come here. He has to wait till the bank opens up to buy money buy the ticket and we he came. When he came but started told nobody you don't have a doctor for my didn't understand. >> Yeah. Nobody gives the to bring somebody you know that will do what they ever want and build and the big box. So the build this how started the the home and always used to go in the mask Joseph from the gasket they told Dr. wife saying what does the blood come out when you give the needle is it from the vacuum it's in the hand or from the needle so says he thinks it's in the vacuum >> and said he also think about he said and then they told that we should sing That was able to rest that she doesn't hear the denting the denting makes him healthier but not three hours later but by that was operating and pedas and by held on to sitting down on the bed but by he got up I think and there was a minion in he said Matthew this something miraculous happened in the next 2 hours from 5 to 8 the doctor said 5:00 and expression don't go to hospital something has to happen you want it to happen here >> did I ever say that >> so let me go backwards Um the kid I think >> so so not disabled words if you enter >> from 13 14 when you young before so you were young before before you walk over with a drop of wine. >> All the kids would do this. >> How many How many kids? Eight kids. Nine kids. >> Eight kids in the whole >> We said go dance by the rabb's room. >> Mhm. >> We ran out. We said >> you stood. >> How many kids were six, seven kids? One big rain with four kids. Who are the kids? >> Meowski system. There's no more kids. The captain came later from England from Manchester but there was no kids and what is we used to go to the so winter time upstairs winter time. >> Yeah. was very cold downstairs. You couldn't fall in. So how do you go over to the her upstairs you have to go from the shi open up the door. So when you open the door you you were bouncing on the floor and there was mish >> right there >> and by the tree. So I used to go I was happy with upstairs. I know up up down you the side you try but with up to here you have to speak louder you would bounce here and there was higher up you know >> and remember >> see in the shalash you'd walk on top >> then go over to here you're down >> and I couldn't talk then come out >> you couldn't talk then >> I couldn't talk mommy so look at me >> you say mad you're >> the way the way you speak >> if I said I couldn't talk who I am what >> this was a clear >> yeah but then I couldn't even talk by the I have to go from it's too loud I'm fine. >> So that was the braha that you got. >> Yeahve. >> So that's what you're doing, >> huh? >> That's what you're doing the last >> I'm trying to Yeah. >> The last 50 years. >> Yeah. Yeah. >> 60 years. >> What? >> How long are you teach? >> I'm talking about >> Okay. >> You never came to 770 to learn. He came 10 years later after she came to I gave away my my and that's all. >> Now I just see Tanya after that but today there's a lot of B this place for everybody I told to bring chapl to bring in everybody >> right >> more people is possible should should bring in should go but >> but you were in this with your family I'm assuming you were in with your family when you were a kid. >> Yeah. When was that? Like when were you in with your family? [snorts] >> Beginning in the days later, you know, every year my father was mitzvah. >> Yeah. And then for days every year I went to >> So can you tell me about >> what? >> And then a certain age not by heart. What up? >> Why? >> Fine. I know. ask but I never became but people have to ask the web this is my birthday that's nobody want to take time from from theb even to said why he just writes down I want to write tob this man I s all the time special. They just wrote for you. They have something to write about a witness. Yeah, the everybody was working what what to write what to this course we were close with before but then started in a situation he starting wasn't gone and started a little bit called in I want to get the soon. But in the neverba never there's no you ever got you know we're always looking myself included for ways to stay and be connected to the and not just anyway but something tangible the way to do it especially around is a little bit of the background which is the is [music] a fund that was opened by the Reb immediately after the passing of the Rabb during the Shiva. In fact, it's the only corporation that the Rebba himself opened and the idea is really for communal needs that relate to women, women's education, women that are struggling financially and the general welfare of women and girls. And here's the interesting part. that the Reb gave instructions how how to give. Reb said to give in increments of 470 which is the gamatri of the rebbitson's name whether it's $4.70 $47 470 or $4,700. Giving in these increments is how the Reb directed us to support this fund and honor the Rabbit. This past year, [music] Kamish gave out over $1 million to Kala, to women and girls programs, and to McVice. To me, when we do this, we're not just donating. We're fulfilling a specific request the Reb made. We are connecting ourselves to the Reb and the Rabbit. [music] I will be donating to Kamesh and you can too at Karensh.org. That's ke n h a c h o m.org I should think I should think before before I go to sleep and and this and this is only go to sleep at night thinking how the day went through the he didn't think how the day went through so you have to have every day is but then this is the whole thing when they said he has always and then I heard the first time probably about 16 [laughter] 15 16 years old then I saw So that's when you know you're >> um you mentioned before. >> Yeah. >> Fine. was the last time he gave in. So we didn't know to go. We didn't go our did not go. Okay. So what's what's the question? >> Yeah. And but was before me and other people he was invaded. >> So we didn't go. >> She didn't go. So later we could have learned why didn't you guys go but we didn't push myself to go because that was very marked with only these people that are and was only right put his hand over. Yeah. >> Yeah. I think certain people they were here without told them your dollar is so >> by the way. >> Huh? >> A random question. Nothing to do but you mentioned that you didn't learn >> why is it that kids don't learn any >> how come children don't learn any >> now? >> Yeah. Something I always wondered. I'm [snorts] also wondering why I asked kids over you not yet when you start next when next year always >> I'm saying even younger I learn with with no right I don't know anything so why how come >> I don't know I felt very surprised and I gave one to the I said one of the big now is mom year was 15 14 16 today for the young kids They give up a guy that has a job in England. He need another hour for salary to come to Latania. So the guys he doesn't prepare good. The guy stopped coming now came better. But years ago kids didn't learn and 18 19 they went out of course they didn't have for their age. So I once spoke about you shall have the best people for the younger old get the biggest mashim has to be for 14 15 16 this is the most critical age to give and this would be where I spoke they didn't take me to serious now it became better I hear from they had better people for >> that's what it was in your time was when you were 14 was excellent for He more excellent than for older. >> Why? >> Because he had a certain way out of our brain with young. >> So maybe maybe tell me about when I remember when we were a were young kid 14 years old. It's like we closed the windows and the doors. He has to speak a serious thing to the 13-y old kid. He sent out the room for the old heel so she go around the table. He spoke to us about was a very serious and he used to do he had a certain lang and car come early which places but his be closer to him for the guys were close to him he take him around and it was it was excellent for kids 14 fiction he's the best the way he way and the way he told stories and he he he would never send me those years >> his own bam later he went to park with some time because did we send up Bham to park where they finished in better than but he was very devoted to us and that told to Yale he's told which class is I'm going to this kid with kid with good heads with them. Yeah. >> But your class >> because the first normal clear was one guy from here, one guy from there. There wasn't a normal 1520 B after the war. There's a guy that went par didn't learn. It was not uh it was the first a whole bunch of kids together. Normal kids came from Cleveland. Then he became better than the der was a kid with a whole bunch of guys with good heads. So was very devoted to us and we were to him very devoted. He went to us he was the famous with us all night till the morning. Yeah. >> What about >> huh? What about everything? We went once to he said he said and he sang about he was crying right there went around the tables of he went around the table every kid and told him he went the woman nature and I mean it wasn't only that he even was in 10 to 8 we had a problem 8:00 we just sat down to which all got up to run to sun which wait for for a young kid then with 10 minutes you can make it fast and that didn't be until 77 we came on Sunday exactly 8:00 it was empty on Sunday because they were married that night in Cleveland all the sand went to Cleveland and there wasn't a lot of sand that was 100 90 all together 80 so we had a baby place next to sing that is going to be 150 years from his focus and said that should be given out right into separately and separately of course Hakan started a new thing. You all think what can be was a very special was a very special thing. Waiting the whole time with that day was that night was so forth. Another spot we were very much let down. This is the whole were waiting a half year from we were standing and waiting for the bank tonight around before 10:30 came down 25 and a little bit before 10:30 to then it came down to that was white like the goat I'm going to say like the story of that was white he was not that white sick white but was very white very pale and we never saw how serious the reb was this mar the time of the reb it's known the famous letter the priv So, from the ask for the wife and the children, so forth. Give me a pan to the g so seriously came with me. She said we thank all the very serious serious didn't rip you I don't see such a thing we didn't see him I'll come on him fine Sunday night we were playing with and bet but we stopped to finish early 11:30 so we were going home from bet home let's go on you go you you don't go home straight al you go straight to sand walk are running around nuts what's going on the is going to bring in 2 minutes was empty 11:30 12 at night had a dinner of yeshiva that day [clears throat] and said him when comes back was a big and there was dancing and singing was going on then said just like He says every should give $200. But that learn give $20. Only people that work should give $200. Everybody should give $150. Everyone get $150 m the one they gave already. What they didn't do in Americ now people bring all over them all over >> yeah then a little bit later he said what you call it I'm the you say the was sensed never left money left over in his pocket cuz the money you have in your pocket for today tomorrow is another day and he said everybody had should give envelope empty out all his pockets with pants said give man all over everybody empty out their pockets said today it's easy money empty your pocket you have no money today people have the bank and they have insurance this They [clears throat] still have money, >> right? >> But so everybody should empty out their pockets. They give them next just borrow $300. Everybody gave away everybody empty out their pocket. As long had a lot of money there. He want to pay to people. No one want to take from him. Everything you have, you have to empty out. And now I said singing America somebody is thinking that this is it shouldn't be a I heard story later I don't know if it's true no there's a guy that works on this come from a little bit north Parkway what's his name again his father live in Florida what's his name uh he works in the the money department >> huh Yeah. So he wouldn't tell the bar. He had a whole story one years before he had an accident and he got killed by child of his. Then another was dying and did a big mess. He got saved became my mother was not and he he he works in jewelry. He $30,000 for jewelry. He came that night on Sunday. They met there and he paid him up the $30,000. He was there and there was a knife. Let me hear what's going on here. He heard the rebet. He knows he should $30,000. Want to see what he's going to do. >> Mhm. >> So he just put him in his pocket going back and forth. He was watching. He wanted to see what did he not. They say this what the could be meant. He start singing all of a sudden in shouldn't be a you should do what you have to do. They said he gave the whole money he put put into a manila envelope. >> He should put $30,000. >> Yeah. It wasn't his money. The money he has to pay for jewelry. It's not money. It's his profit. Fine. I'm not saying there was a special and those days because it's and we spoke to the first sing the thing now. And then they made the push in the hallway before you going upstairs. That was called the [clears throat] pushka. They had to put a lot of money there to print the mid everything. So this was the the famous pushka. The people in the whole world put their money on that pushka. That was that was the special pushka and they haven't spoke about it any time. They didn't go that year to put a parade even though it was Sunday cuz there's no money this not going out. It's not so come not going to come out. He didn't come out that year with the whole throne. It's not under 15 years because getting gas I don't see the way the streets flooded with all memorial days I was upset how the people took the seriousness over 150 years this was a special a special not that's what Um, so I think in those years you were by the by the sudis upstairs. You were by the sudas. >> I always went up even though it stopped then show what what what you talking about before the >> No, by the sudas. Huh? >> What stopped >> the sudas? That way they wanted could come up to the suda. >> Mhm. And I always ran through to this as a young kid by mid for I like to be there hear whatever says it was a very small crowd. Nobody come to man but this from this whole was always there. They should tear papers from before every them written down how many spoons you took from the fish you took from the soup and they put in piece of paper for every >> side it's hard to eat the cook so big everything so he could come to this learn better so I stopped going that night only went behind the you know >> besides besides the su the stardom people still >> they came he came to the went in the kitchen they were working said they should move on this me could go >> that was even though we stopped the whole union then they broke tables and chair so next year didn't want people to come and no one should come but I got in they told the going back should come this should come that can come I go I I was good to be the gun but even before he came my brother-in-law so he let me in it was a was every time there was a whole the whole situation >> so >> but interesting thing all the used to come for before pes and say for three months six months even came a year from pesa to pesa But the so the the people every other isn't that they can't be tish they could be two tries two nish are more than two t >> two nian are more than two dishes >> yeah you can see why >> you're saying because the kutza that that stays >> they can't be for next year or can't petition stay for the petition next year that is there two n more than two t >> so we didn't know why it could be n there or could go to I don't know could be the opportunity to be here but call upon him it's better for them two years later to come the k should change changes all time >> and better say they changed >> it's like the story you said so place later. >> That's why they never stopped for me. >> It was a local world could hear, >> right? >> Okay. >> It was a local Yeshiv local Yeshivas that wrote. >> No, no. >> So, back to the sudas. You remember things that the Reb spoke then? >> Would ask all the questions how how would it work? >> Yeah. >> He was a [clears throat] >> Yeah. And he came and maybe he went back and came again back. I just spoke about it. He wouldn't have you want to know what to ask. Yeah. >> So wanted it. >> Yeah. Yeah. So that's >> there's a lot of like Yeah. benching and like the kids who were crying the seriousness and crying. It was very serious that his face is serious crying face. He said like there was one that was there but somebody was sick said he never heard and every time he sits by you say where he is he imagines how they said to say that the it's back to the bottles the whole way and the cost about took five minutes to here to the whole this it was a special to me but to say the talk she made the whole barbarian coming down by his door coming I wasn't there >> okay but spoke he spoke a lot of him no >> I think I remember >> I can tell you what >> that's it >> huh gave a few get to pub. They broke the in high school there. They broke the the keys, but they had the the test of the every year the government test. I call it the >> STS. >> Huh? SATs where you wanted the guy should finish high school. So our guy they they called the guys the whole story. Yeah. >> What the the Baham broke it because they >> they wanted to have the enters the enters on the regions was called regions. He said they enter the region they should be able to to finish they should be pulling them with the cers all day >> then he spoke to you give a name after the child or the name with the or his name whom he's named after mean's name the two people names after everybody has spoke to everybody and then had them advance with men. He spoke to my Yale. Y did not go to Pondovich when the C closed down in T. Everybody went nothing. Everybody left then because home then there's more people that went he didn't go was for the son you know. Yeah. So there was many many many of these things there was many stories then it was a a story cameish wanted to hear the rashi before she able to look over but that happened many times when he came he was sitting by the dorm came home he told them which she was there if he was there he told for came down 10:00 bench table and there should be this and this was he wanted to be a was not supposed to be a so he sent to me to go became today. So he seems like a guy came today and he said that hey base came in and on the table turned around what? Who said such a thing? Who's playing with me? until the to the person that said this I did it. The said he ran away right away. Lucky went down who he is. He knew it's not him. He didn't think it up but on the spot he said do the guy that this whole thing and then the a few days later but it was very and I saw he wrote to he didn't know he was him that always tells you he tells him a new guy came before was dear didn't the age of maybe the age of a person that's made a ton didn't take the tun with fire even though transformed people told him with fire with the up and such a situations we also had a story huh we're sitting upstairs and some sudden Are you talking about? >> Huh? >> What? >> Who had a story? >> Ask our >> when we went to public, you know, Mlaski's older brother. He died in Mont 19. He sat he was now when he was younger. He sat down. So Shapiro said if there wouldn't be no longer we would take some mask to everybody was here. Let's write to the rabbit that was wrote for Joe to the rabbit. He took off the ex from tonight. He took a piece of paper on the table. a joke. There's all the stupid things written on whatever was written on that piece of paper and found the table the whole day. He was in between the found he was a wild guy grabbed the paper and gave him the night of California. It was a famous well going to and he looked at he gave it to him to give to in the name of the park 3:00 in the afternoon. He's here. a country called me and you know that's true they gave it and had that set put it on the table right away and if you call it that is for questions for being on their own without question which you don't do anything wild in some for all the jokes >> one of the integral components of being a [music] whether it's oram these days give us an opportunity to connect with ourim to connect with each other and be better. What is the story behind each of these days? How did the Reb commemorate and celebrate these days? And most importantly, what are the lessons, the takeaways, and the action items needed for each of these days? All of this and much much more are answered in the new set recently published by Our Days is a journey through the Kabad calendar in story, meaning and practice with over 700 beautiful glossy pages with elevated content, beautiful, beautiful photographs. You, your family and friends will enjoy and live with each. This book is a must for every labamature home, for every schul, for every school. It is a perfect gift item. This will not collect dust. It will be used day after day, month after month, year after year. You can have the set. Go to deher.org/ org/ourdays. Order your set today and start living with that we didn't fine that why you write a trailer you don't do such a thing. Why the story? I told the story. >> How old are you then? >> Huh? >> How old are you then? 17. >> Oh yeah. Yeah. And that was a story with we were 17 years old had the cop called the meeting and there was a friend that we shall also add. a overly they didn't give in should go over to what is it? He went and I was laughing the whole time. Young kid, you know, and we said we went to all places. The mother said we come. We should go with the violin. sitting on the other side. We should go we have to go over all the tables to Yale and sit next to him. Everybody should drink a whole glass of wine from the poor kids. So it was a whole the whole thing that he want to work with doesn't want to work with you. What >> so moved over to you? >> We went to him said later he moved over to us a year later but in the beginning we went to him >> fine. So you go to the b is not reciprocating to this whole >> yeah but later so we started we were super made I made them for four years. >> So you're saying you started doing independently? >> Yeah. Yeah. you want to do anything but you could never want to yell to ask for >> I think the one told when your head hurts you so much you can't work with the then you could work on >> what >> when your head hurts you so much then you can work on the till then you can't work on you have no permission to work on >> when your head hurts >> hurts you so much you can't work normal so much on then you can So it was going to play like we were his friends and we have to do it all [snorts] the worked with a prime I said he wrote but he right good and I went to I never wrote I'm making a memorial I'm writing my mom but I didn't want to like I'm making them with that feeling but kid then to write about yourself but this one to get married then the next generation took over and everything yeah um there was a few in your time there was a few um surprise me >> yeah one time so 8:00 clock but meaning by us it was >> that was earlier that was in the US. >> Yeah. Yeah. >> Yeah. But then we always means the end of the surprise. used to come down table. They used to eat there and keep to come down with wine and bra that everybody left home. Nobody was there. A year before also Fman was here with Fman Hollings to bring we had some people we rep everyone home me about the upstairs and thinking should go go for some place. Nobody's coming. Y nobody's there. And we recorded all of a sudden we see brother going to his and Pes walk to his table upstairs. We done Friday night. No. >> Huh? >> By the window. >> Yeah. And he sits down. What should we do? Maybe on the city. Maybe we need something. Let's go slow foot by foot, step by step. Look at us. We're going step by step. Never say go away. We'll go away. Better than say nothing. We truly reach the table. Reach the table holding his his his handkerchief without saying there's a masal to go to the car. the wall outside basketball and the guys were here then they saw there because his light in the room the waiting five minutes they were not coming to the car one was going on there called the light and he saw everything going over the table yeah and there about 30 people and then show me s came back with a tape recorder don't mind me was 12 minutes he came up with tape recorder And he had the tape and and and this and Beck came into room and Becca loves jokes they all said they app 17 years old >> you and Shamb. >> Yeah. But then it came across. >> So who wrote the mment? So we all had good heads and there's a tape from the second head came out. >> Mhm. always um so that was only you two were in the room when started the m >> they saw the going through now I had this little his father was there nobody there came later everybody write stories about him >> they saw a fish there huh >> saw >> in middle he came in Yeah. Um >> the one people were outside and they came in, >> right? So you wrote So you two wrote the >> we there was a there was a there was a paper from there was 12 minutes from >> Okay. I have a question. What about some of >> Maybe you can share a little bit. was was very hit his own went to >> Mhm. He's the only person and he always been the car of me because he said who came to by day but he gave me from the first said you're always told me they told his ankle your baby so a good excuse to give his ankle gave her the cane but he was always close and he always sit down next to million told stories but people had much more to say it's almost like all the older people I'm only got 500 stories we got to know they had 50 stories and by the end they had 13 stories and he had five stories told the same five stories every 10 years told the same story that's I say things and still fine >> even though and you know more stories but what's on your tongue >> but from a lot of the things you heard from >> is like this but to come the story like this and story story like that and he heard that under pressure not happy that Shaz not counting the whole situation he couldn't believe it who nothing but come doesn't come in the hallway is it true that the coming he said yes I want to go into >> this the whole thing when when the shazar's people pressured that he came was able to go into whenever he wanted to start media I'll call tomorrow I call upon him the next day said he went to yes it's true it bo who they are this whole group of people but I said yeah it's not because of me because of the deeno it's not come to me it doesn't come to me that I have to come here the beno's here so that She told the rabbi, "Send me to him. I'll bring him to you. Make me to rabbit send three people to Shaz I think Yale maybe." And said the story they came into Shaza. He told So >> she knew it. >> Huh? He came to the PG also. He told him the same as what he was saying. You know that this turn you'll make and there's he was a writer a scientist writer writing the for this lady wrote among he was they became a cry became a writer he was close with he told Shazar go these guys going to forget about you'll be sorry your whole life you didn't go to these >> guys will forget about you >> so he had a effect on him by the way. >> What about he just they just told me you can't go out of Russia and you say no after a year to give papers again three days later he got you go right and more things like this >> so I know you live through um tish and of you live through vish the of the his mother. >> I think a lot of things changed then. No. >> Huh? >> A lot of things changed then. No. And what what was the >> most rec came saying the rabbits fall down from bed and she couldn't get her up which we do so I ran right to Zelix's house connection with it there was label bindman we sent him to house >> who's the bahim Yeah, we send him. >> Mhm. There's no me and went to the other house. So every fine but so sick have a stroke came down. He went to far brain and you can talk back and forth with the m and cried twice by by crying was the nature go to yeshiva why learn yeshiva You know 20 years you learn like this she went to learn the focus then cried was crying parach actually went to a basement said it's dog that someone said not so dark this is the whole thing you think the darkness is not dark I was crying my eyes how do you go through the I was crying very much later came with Dr. is the where he is already finished by bringing right away and anyway rent his room he ran out of his room holding the coke still in his hand he put it on by the step going outside he went he ran down the step mish van to his mother's house mamish ran he came he went to the house right away I saw no am took him into a low ambulance he went into ambulance Mrs. Khan went into Khan's wife's wife and also be a lady. So they both went to the hospital and went the famous then we heard that they went to the hospital. Everybody ran away from they gone to the hospital. Jewish hospital was here and collapsed in the Franklin by prospect place. Everybody went to the hospital then came there evaluation here and then say she check her with a feather to see if she breathe window cry then did everything to she around you the in the in the floor in the room nearby >> the big wise They were born. They didn't know what to say. Maybe they told him to get this into her house said he should put straw under the head of night. Take a broom and rip it up. So then by so >> you were by all the everything was different for the >> and you call it here and they made a g who could go into the here then the question is there was this people with only small ship should go to nickeeper. Nobody know what to answer on the other end. I think the Fman said the Fman called a few time his biggest business is now before him come from all over him come down they say you could come whenever you want he came night he came we called 10 times he want to come now more people came the early down he went on the table wasn't there yet. He went up to he didn't hear the bro again on the table the again and the son of a master that was crying in that every time he say cried he never cried but didn't he cried when every time they cried by there. What's interesting >> before the stalkus, >> huh? >> Before the stalkus. >> Yeah. It was also with a chair and with the other side with the old cheer and way used to walk. She used to come to the meals upstairs and talk her there and and used to walk her home from upstairs to her house. The other used to wave and Kingston neighbor in the used to work with 70 month king and we walked to the house. Even when she passed away country meals by Kingston and union on the way out and used to walk home together >> president. >> Huh? >> The president >> by Union Street. >> Oh, they would walk on down Union Street to Brooklyn. >> So you got married in Tshin >> Lammed. So what happened with your by your huh? >> There was a There's answers from the about your huh >> there's answers from the about your >> sure what anything you know. So, how did you become a be. So I used to go to I came to I want to go and everything. I paid a price for it. I've got very serious means completely away. I know I was not. >> Didn't you ask the later about going? >> Yeah. >> What happened? >> I feel it's not not for me. Say it again. Say it again. I wrote to the open. Mhm. Understood. This is it. >> Can you say the whole thing in English? >> Huh? >> Say the whole thing in English. >> How do you think we should horror work hard that should be and not and this what you're right not that you are in this. So what do you say about the bakim teaching by all these years of the such a good I'm telling you today cities there's not enough places to go it turned around a lot the last two three years a lot of lot of good a lot of good a lot of good these the only thing A lot of baked sen from money but nobody was not free from the money that they made when they went to work and this become they turn out there's so many good bak today so many good today. So what do you say to the bakim that uh we we spoke a lot about the things that you saw by the what about those that that don't >> that what >> the of today that don't don't have this same thing you had >> that didn't see the so is very devoted to the e that works in that way that it gets into his head and got into his heart and becomes of the people by The spoke once a whole passion when the first went to Australia in Mars understood if I have appointment by doctor broke all the windows in the kitchen. The question is, "How do you have what to eat? When you get a garden, the garden doesn't come into a garden. The speaks about this thing they were planted before and the seed or on the ground and then the girls that was called to heaven they want to go send them memorial and letters no time thinking here is going to send people more often contra letters and then what we call And that's what you find. Then he said and I says may say that he saw only from the back. If he in the front he would more. So he spoke about that they take everything. Today if you messiah play har you could get everything and so forth here you'll come back again was forever you not forever for two years it was very and then spoke all about the and then he spoke about the whole Indian that's called cities and so forth. And he said, >> [snorts] >> special how much we come to 8:30 and next week they came into he looked around every person that was there to came a very small crowd You could a lot of want to sleep by by the children you'll be tired looked around behind behind him and the Australia went to Australia they they thought they had only they were small they cut them and say you saw they older had no effect on You give a to the crowd. They saw the other because nobody of them saw that yet. Maybe s when they were young and you're a crowd that people know. >> So what are you saying? >> Huh? What are you saying for the bakon and all everything finds a way? You have to have to get into find a way to every behead and do whatever you want. Let find the way to reach every you see that you see that special very special. >> Okay. Any time for you.