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Ep. 24: The Rebbe's Attention to Shluchim with Rabbi Yosef Landa
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In this episode, Rabbi Yosef Landa of S. Louis, MO reflects on his early years as a young shliach, when he experienced the Rebbe’s unparalleled interest and deep involvement in a particular initiative, giving him and many others the strength to carry the mission forward.
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You think the fact that there are I
don't know 4,000 5,000 butter kabad
around the world and millions and
millions millions of Jews who were
touched by it
happens to be Labavage. Why? Because
there's some great organization in the
world of Labavich, some master plan,
marketing plan that succeeded that.
No, there probably are better marketers
out there than us and more organized
people than us.
It's this
and we have to realize it the yer of
that
and that is why labav today not
labavichba
it says that's that is why
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I'm Yasi Cayman. Welcome to among
an ongoing faban about life as aid our
vibrant connection with theb and
inspired living shaped [music] by the
way he teaches us each and every day.
This episode is dedicated
for
good afternoon Rabbi Landa. How are you
doing?
Okay. Thank you for being here. You
[clears throat] don't live here, so
thank you for making the trip
and uh welcome to Among.
>> Thank you. It's a pleasure to be here
and uh there are other things over here
that attract me as well, but this this
alone is worth is worth a trip.
>> Okay. Very good.
And um so there's a few things that I
want to discuss with you
that I know about, but I always find it
interesting to discuss the things that I
that I don't know about.
So
I've done this before when I when I talk
to others. Sometimes if we do a little
bit uh chronological
um type of thing that uh that that that
might be a good way to start. So in your
case, I don't know
um your background, where where your
parents came from, where where you grew
up. I I actually don't know. So if I
don't know, that's uh I'll be more
interested to know. Okay, I'll share
that. I actually grew up in Bora Park.
Uh my father is at the yeshiva in
Shanghai. He joined the yeshiva. He
joined Shiva at the outbreak of the war.
It's a whole long story that is is not
for now.
>> So he wasn't in
>> he wasn't invaction.
That's what it was. He came from
>> I'm not following. He was not invit
correct. He joined the yeshiva in VNA.
>> He uh he had this attraction. It's a
whole long story that he was very drawn
to
and particularly
he came from Galatian
sad. His father was a sad
but he was drawn to
and
in VNA
he was he was he was meidis
at the beginning of the war. At the
beginning of the war all of the
yeshivists went to VNA. So in one city
you had all of the
yeshivas most of the yeshivists then
were were liter some some musiki
yeshivas. was actually he was actually
in the Pinsky yeshiva
and he he thirst for cidus
uh and he also organized if you can find
it
inaded
gave a name
in all these yeshivas there were a lot
of there were literary yeshivas but
there were a lot of who ended up over
there for all kinds of reasons if they
wanted a yeshiva and the hug and
everything else went because that wasn't
the over there and this bothered him
very very much and he organized and all
of these is those who are
should get together and they should
learn whatever it was a whole it's it
was a whole operation that he kind of
and at end of that process they um they
were not very happy Yeshiva he was in
Pinsk and they were that happy
>> Nardik
>> and they weren't happy that that was
going on coming out of their yeshiva and
he was unhappy with what was you know
that that it it didn't allow for
learning of
and so he asked the about
the
talking about
>> Mhm.
And [snorts]
uh
>> what do you mean he asked if he kept
>> asked if he kept he wrote he wrote we
have the letter that the writes to him?
>> He was in America just arrived in
America at that time. Yeah.
>> And he said and writes to him that uh
don't remember
we treasure that that letter because
that's when he became
became he became aid
and the rest is history. We even have
the the
we have him a letter from him writing to
the but the gave him told him that
and aroused his heart
this he has to learn and he should be
mal that in yeshiva's time and that
became became his key. So he became that
that's that's my father. My father see
the fik
>> in America. So they came
>> he never saw the fab before
>> never saw before.
>> Yeah. Okay.
>> Never saw she before but a lot of
letters.
>> So they asked and they answered
>> um
and they my after the war tin they
arrived over here. forbidden from
Shanghai
and um my
was in America during the war
and everything he lived in Williamsburg
but this is before that whole came out
so he was here during the war most of
his family was wiped out in the
Holocaust my uh my mother and a sister
and a brother survived they were Awitz
and there were barren bells not but
galitan
uh and after the war you have to rebuild
he wanted
this was new to him this whole Indian of
a of a of aid
this wasn't this wasn't known it was a
brand of that wasn't kind of familiar to
him right
>> but he wanted an ad bordis
that's what he wanted
and so that's what happened my if you
want to hear my he lives on Wilson
Wilson Street. I was in that house in
Williamsburg. So [snorts] my mother when
she arrived, she's looking out the
window on Wilson Street and how far is
that from 770? Not very far.
So there are group of labma who walk
past the street. So what do they wear?
Had beards
and a gray hat with with with short, you
know, jackets or whatever the way the
way they looked back then. She calls her
for she tells used to tell us that she
calls her father.
She like she never saw somebody like
that and eventually they met and got
married and here we are
>> because they
>> they look funny. She never saw such a
mahalik of
>> that wear these funny American clothes.
So he explained to them
whatever it is and these are his. So
that's that story.
>> So in America your father was learned to
in
>> Batford first in Batford in 770. Yeah.
>> Your father.
>> Yeah. Until they until they got married.
They were all Elder Baka. They were
they were probably I'm guessing 27 28 by
the time they arrived here. Some were a
little bit older, some were a little bit
younger. Um and u the fed took my father
would tell her he took an interest in
each one of them. They're all the same
and he cared for them in a in a in a
very personal way and took an interest
in their and so forth and and that's and
that's that's the beginning of that
interesting time his
father was a
a gun from head to toe
um uh that uh the mass had the tradition
at that wedding of my parents was the
sat.
>> Yeah, because my father didn't make the
my zed did he was the one who made the
cast. I guess he was in charge of that
then. And so we have a picture there's a
picture that became world famous
>> because it's he's sitting there you can
see mentally
sitting around but where you see him
sitting at the head is we're familiar
with them.
>> Interesting.
So how did your parents end up in
Burough Park? The Reba gave them. So my
father was a Malam in in the yeshiva bar
park and and the Reb said to live near
the work.
>> Which is that?
>> You went to there
>> as a kid. Yeah. Yeah.
When we when we when we sat my father
from from who remembered him from who
knows how long ago.
>> So how long were you learning there?
I finished I left behold I think fifth
grade and I was the youngest of the
boys.
So and then I went to Bedford from fifth
grade on
it.
>> I went through the whole system.
>> So you were in Bedford through high
school.
>> Uh
the fire and the end of Bedford. Uh
>> I don't know what you're talking about.
The fire
>> there was a fire in Bedford indeing.
>> That was the end of Betrford. Yeah. But
the building, the new building on Ocean
Park was being built already.
>> I thought it was because of there was
too many rats in the Someone told me
there's too many rats in the middle.
>> That too. I'm [laughter] sure that too.
I remember that fire very distinctly.
The whole fourth floor. It was in
flames. You're not talking about a small
fire. There's a big fire. It was in the
middle of learning. It was in the
afternoon one day. and and for a number
of weeks maybe in a couple of months or
so we learned from different places in
Crown Heights and some shoes and
whatever and then for the next month the
ocean park was already finished.
>> So you were in Ocean Parkway.
>> I was in Ocean Parkway. Yeah medish. Uh
no third year massifa I had Rabbi Ushbal
had Rabbi Buket
had Rabbi Schwe third year MFA
over there and then from there you went
to Newark but then Newark ended and
Martown began.
>> So you remember you're at the tail end
of all the maesters.
>> Yeah. Well I I was not there the first
year of Mars. I was there the second and
third year of Marstown. Yeah.
>> When Newark and Mars were happening
simultaneously.
>> They weren't together. No, Newark ended
and there was the class above us was the
first one to initiate.
>> Oh, so you never you never went to
Newark? No.
>> And
>> and then after after
Mars down two years,
so the Reb then sent a to several
yeshivas
to
to France.
>> What years are you talking about? Um
missing missing.
>> Uh I'm guessing that that was doubted
that the Reb sent three of to Montreal,
one to Montreal, one to Montreal, one
toad, one to where I ended up, and one
to Bernal
Lam.
>> Yeah, I believe that's what it was.
Could be Islam possibly.
>> So you went to Teras.
>> I was in Teras. And that was an
experience in itself.
>> So before
um you uh you were a baker
you went to first of all when you were a
kid you went into
uh my first that I remember that I had
not that I remember that I had was was
my mitzvah.
Um I went with my parents
uh and then
uh those years was that every you were
able to go in after that.
So last time I counted it's a real
[laughter]
seven seven that I had
to have. The last one was as
>> so the stopped the I think
for the
>> I'll trust your memory on that.
>> I just I happened to just learn the
>> yeah
where the announces that there will no
longer be for there there
were couple of kufus of kind of dialing
down. It wasn't in one fell swoop.
It started off I remember that you need
to have a settle from
Stom and so forth
which
I I don't remember anyone who wasn't
able to get it. Maybe my circle of
friends were all the good kids. Uh but
um
that was one dialing down
and and then was when Yeah. when it
ended and it was you know listen
it changed it changed that's that's what
needed to be done so that's what
happened even the
changed
>> I think the said that
the thought was I'm like paraphrasing
the thought was that it's going to be a
big
>> but not necessarily was it in that.
>> I'm pretty sure that's what says. Yeah.
>> I guess we didn't uh do what we were
supposed to.
What um is there anything from your
that's noteworthy?
There a couple of things in not
I'll share a few things that I think are
noteworthy and also applicable. Okay.
Useful.
That's
>> whatever you don't want to share is more
interesting. [laughter]
>> Oh, what I do want to share is not
interesting. So, what should you say?
>> No, I said more.
>> All right. More interesting. Okay. Go
ahead.
Uh I don't have anything you know.
>> So, you go ahead and what what is
going to share a little bit in terms of
the and lead into the this uh
>> Okay. I'm just I'm just trying to go in
in the order.
>> You want to go in the same So we got to
the
>> So after the no after the went to Kle
and uh
>> one second when you were a bak
>> you're not ready to jump over that.
Yeah, I have to my brain
>> take a local.
>> Yeah. when you were a baker
and when you're learning Bedford and
Dean and then in New York
>> in Marstown
>> in Martown
>> you were come you were by the fab like
all the Shabbasim
>> whenever there was a feran I don't think
it ever happened that we we were there
and there was a I don't remember that
but the clut was that whenever there was
a shabas you didn't know later on it
became that it was the shabas fbrangans
but used to be Shabas Morham and some
other time you know whenever there was
when the leopan
and you didn't always know you didn't
always know sometimes you found out they
have to shakers
after after musf
was giving a clap or whatever it is and
he was announcing min so if the waited
for that meant that there wasn't a if
the went out before was announced it
means the will be after you know that
you know that was the the signal whether
there was so sometimes you only heard
about it on Champas but I I don't
remember in the two years that I was in
Mars town if if it happened that
happened extremely rarely that we were
there
>> right
>> because there was anticipation that
there won't be a and and I have to tell
you that Shabos we were there shabas
gishmak yes shabas
bazund gishmach
before Shabas
in the morning. A little bit a little
bit of an opportunity,
you know, whatever. But those those were
very special times really actually
wanted to be there.
>> When you were in Bedford, you also were
by the FB and Chaveis or you were home
>> in Bedford. So well how old was I? Wait
a minute. So in Bedford if there was a
fabangan I would walk. I was I didn't
have a way to stay. I wasn't there was
no dorm. I was home. I walked this the
Mahalik from Burough Park to Crown
Heights
>> by myself. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. I walked I
can't even tell you how many dozen some
of times. Probably maybe a couple
hundred times. That we did that. That
was that was the usual thing. In order
for me to arrive on time, I used to hop
up a sinion in Bor Park somewhere that
happened early and and I went
they finished and I went and I came
there.
Um yeah,
I remember once arriving come to 770
after it's a long walk was from where I
where I lived in Burb was an hour and a
half. I remember um
sees me coming. There's no banging
stills quiet.
[laughter]
All right.
That was it. Okay.
Um and then you were sent on
from Maristan to
>> finished Maran.
We were going to go into
what was then called.
We actually started because the in
started after
so we we we were sitting in as Rabik
called the
uh so we learned and found a place where
we can lay down and have a bed
and then then there's the war was that
the spoke about
Hon
that there has to be an Lokim was this
of sending in these places
and that I think was shabas before if
I'm not mistaken
>> so you didn't know we didn't know that
this was going to happen there wasn't to
say and after and it was figured out who
goes where
and after
>> but the reb was sending
as before.
>> Nope.
>> And there was
>> Oh, okay. That's happened. That's long
before me. You're talking about I'm
talking. What am I saying?
No, that's a long time.
>> Thing had happened, but that wasn't the
regular sed.
>> Yeah. No, no, no. It was not the seda
for 20 years before us. No. Something
like that. Yeah.
There were hookups then.
So [snorts] the mid neffish of the
locals they hear a hookup
their mus was to get up at 2 in the
morning
>> right
for us that wasn't the mus that there
wasn't even a thought
so those kinds of things you know but
they did it some didn't some didn't some
didn't
>> so you were there for two years then you
came
>> we were there for two years and came
back and we were in 770
>> until you got married
>> in 770. Yeah. So in 770
um no didn't go straight to 770 the
first you were in Ocean Park.
Are you familiar with that? I don't
know. So we were there.
We heard him from
>> So that was your uh So that's when you
interacted with not not in high school.
>> No, I had in Ocean Park in
>> Ma. Yeah. Give
they gave him for 15 year old kids. You
know [laughter]
that was his job. You didn't
>> that was actually his job. His job was
is that he taught 15y old kids
you know
no I also learned
both one year was uh one it was two
years no two years I had 15 16 something
like that in the best mish when you were
rabbis
med had the second year of medish and
those two years you had
and there's no question about it that he
opened up you know tak back young but uh
I didn't quite grasp the young not that
older people do grasp him you can older
than not grasp maybe design but that was
that was wonderful that that was it was
that it was actually fantastic maybe
it's the opposite maybe some it's not
that when you're older you need a proper
and when you're younger it doesn't make
a difference maybe when you're younger
you need I don't know maybe maybe that
for the kids this was a great thing. It
wasn't I'm not saying that you would
think though that you know for those who
are shakist to understand more you need
someone who could be mas or something
more
>> right but then we had him a whole year
we were at that time probably 21 22 I'm
guessing when we were in Ocean Park
a little bit more shakus and
thing is like this you know I ended up
we our group ended up in Terasimus for
whatever the reasons were everybody had
their own reasons
but there wasn't anyone over there in
who
in terms of there wasn't anyone
so one of the differences between
terms of
you know good something
That's for the most part. That wasn't
their cup of tea. That wasn't their
union.
>> Uh our friends who went to
they we were envious of them. We were
envious. How that ended up I don't know.
time.
>> No, it was after some time Mendel was
there. But they had they had Mashim over
there and they had
we had Enigma, we had
Zelik Feldman
something extraordinary.
Can't duplicate that either,
>> right?
>> Okay. And uh so you're back in in Ocean
Parkway then you then you went to 770.
>> Yep.
>> Yeah. So that's where you learned.
>> Yeah.
>> So what year did you get married?
>> Lammed Zion.
Summer of Lama Zion.
>> And you're in this before the
>> Yeah.
>> Then you went to K.
>> And then I went to K. Yeah.
>> For how long?
I was there for a year. Almost finished
the year.
>> Yeah.
>> So
before we move on to the
what like you knew you wanted to be like
how did this work?
>> Yeah. Yeah. And and and I'm very proud
to say that all of our not all but
and that was a I think that was the
beginning where this became the norm.
So that was the beginning of that.
>> I think so. I think that more or less
that kufa that vintage
uh it became listen for some people it's
not
whatever I'm not making I'm just saying
in terms of numbers it became
I think what year was of so that was lit
base. So that started,
you know,
but by the time my wife and I went out
in
um it the numbers had already gotten up.
Not everybody was in America, but uh
could be that that was the rabbis with I
don't know what it was, but they there
were more voices and there were more and
uh
and those years
listen
I was I was sitting and I remember that
vividly and I can tell you who was
sitting next to me that first kind of
There wasn't of a kinus.
>> That's the year it was
>> the the American
>> American. Yeah. It was only American
Canada I think it was.
>> Yeah. Yeah.
>> And then the said
first international
>> but I remember sitting upstairs maybe 30
and most of them were the the older
group.
Um
few of us were the youngsters and we
were before there was a kin we were
starving for this because you there's no
facts
there's no communication
uh if you want to talk long distance you
have to pay 25 cents a minute I mean
that too I want you to know phone calls
were
that's what it was just to be able to
have a How much could you do by phone?
You were really indep not independent.
You you you were meant meant to be
self-sufficient. A little isolation,
right? But yeah, but you were meant to
be self-sufficient.
Very very hard.
There's stuff that we take for granted.
Now it's all kind of slicer
that are given to you. You have topics,
you have ideas, you can sh We were
starved before there ever was a
when we heard that this was going on the
first it was like an excitement we sat
in the front row didn't want to miss a
word.
So, how did the come about
the the backstory in terms of
specifically of St. Louis?
>> Mhm.
>> The backstory I found out afterwards
there was a group of Balabas. You need
to know this about St. Louis. St. Louis
is a
always was a
>> defa.
>> Yeah. But there were other places also
the people 10 cities that kept going.
I'm working on a book about that.
>> There's an article in this month's about
the visit.
>> I saw and some of the stuff that's in
that is from my pre-article article
that's published in.org.
>> Okay.
>> And you and it's footnoted out
>> without without attribution
>> without
>> I think so
make a correction. it that was written
already 20 years ago.
>> Okay.
>> And from then I have I have a lot a lot
more material as I share. That's okay.
That's good.
Um
so
a lot good a good number of 60,000 Jews
have rashi
it's an organized gel.
Uh there's a vada here over here. That's
the V here in over here I'm saying in
St. Louis V here of organized
shs and talk about orthodox for
um
that's I think 125 years old so you're
talking about a kah that was functioning
when we arrived there were six or seven
orthodox jewels
they were mostly
Shabas like did what they were supposed
to do. But most
very few, a small handful, a small small
handful of people who went to went to
some people, some people went to Berlin,
you know, the parents wanted them to
learn something. But those school, you
probably count them on the fingers of
your hands
and maybe have a couple of fingers to
spare.
Um, so St. Lewis was a um
was was an earl
I don't know what some ideas there was a
letter that was written to the which I
have a copy
about 10 signatures
asking the to send
>> so a city like that isn't it strange
that there wasn't till then
>> there was no no there was no one who was
called there was some who lived but I'm
Isn't it wonderful? So first of all,
Rabkin, who later on became the Ravroshi
as Barl Rifken's son,
he became he was in St. Louis as a ber I
have the letter of the there's a sh in
St. Louis called
>> so there was activity.
>> Yes. Yes. cat and one of the reasons I
want to write this book is I want to
document that this is we're not visitors
over here you know way back when there
was there was there were
used to call they knew that if they
needed the place to get
and they wrote to and he sent him
he was a I think he was 22 years old
There's um a little winding over here. I
just saw this and I noticed this
remember
it's in the back.
I think it's
makes sense that it was Tshintess
and it's everything is in in rashis so
you have to guess who it is but alipus
the guess is a correct one is Rabbi
Rifken senior went over to the
apparently
his son Shaolan was already in St. Louis
far away v
you know he used to travel by train
maybe by bus
and he his mas his son
it's a very interesting answer over
there and that's why I'm it's printed
but
says
I always or I always held youugan
you need to remind me about Shalom.
He's always in my m all the time.
And I I I think this some of the stories
that I can share with you about this is
I think this is true of
I think
that's when it was said but the em is is
true always
>> you referenced
that
and and and and many many hundreds of
can tell you stories that point in that
direction.
>> Sometimes we see it
the care
the care and the concern.
Uh sometimes we see it goi and then but
it's always there.
>> It's always there. So,
>> so you know we talked about
and we see it we feel it as a minus
felt
but afterwards kenzai always used to say
you know
that it can't be
everything that happens has to be used
go ahead
>> so the balabatim wrote a letter to the
>> so they wrote a letter And
>> what did it say that they
>> we want I have a letter in English. We
we we want to have the the teachings of
of we want
we want to raise our children to have to
have the benefit something like that and
the people who signed it.
>> It wasn't a sh
>> wasn't a sh No, no, no. It was a piece a
white sheet of paper. I have it with all
the signatures. I knew the people who
signed it. I think every single one of
them is
already um
and that's I'm telling you that's the
backstory which I didn't know because I
didn't see this letter. Someone gave it
to me. One of the signators on the
letter I had a copy of it so they gave
it to me
and Rab Shan Weinberg his munda both
on Kansas and Missouri.
So
I think the one who came knocking on my
door was Rabber
that he was looking this was about after
that period of time when this letter was
sent.
>> Mhm. So he you know
>> I imagine I mean maybe I was told I
don't remember. It's a long time ago. I
don't remember but uh that's pretty
pretty a good bet that that was the
story. That was the story. So he went
looking and uh of course went and looked
and took interest and
what do we know then
I'm I'm kidding around. You know we're
we're we're I'm coming. I'm traveling to
St. Louis. something.
>> Yeah, we went nowadays, you know, you
can you scout out the place and you get
all the stats and and the the average uh
household income and
so forth and so on and what the taxes
are, etc., etc. None of that existed. No
one thought about that.
We went very much between us. Very much
between us.
>> So you you wrote to the Reb about this
option like how how did that work?
>> No, I only wrote about this.
Only wrote about that.
Um
and um yeah,
we arrived in St. Lewis
I find something you know little things
over here here and there
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>> We arrived in St. Louis. first thing
that we discommend.
So I'm coming straight to yes from is
not going to go by without whatever and
in St. includes like I said had an of
but people who you know we can call them
some of them were those from you know so
I made
and
it was in my house in our house we had
just we we left after
two months later whatever it was it was
what we would call now a all in the you
know he fang.
So next year we resolve that we're going
to make a nice big fab
because the sh the same sh this sh
and
>> same sh what
>> what
>> one that uh
>> yeah that show that he wasn't there over
there anymore he had left he was over
there for a number of years there all
kinds of interesting stories
um
the the reb predicted when he left
the Reb told him that he's going to come
that he'll he'll come back.
>> What happened was that after Raikenstein
was nif we were in St. Louis and Ravakin
was the was was the for many years the
Raosi
unique position that St. has Rav Rashi.
That was his title and that's what he
did. And he didn't he wasn't really of a
specific sh of the Vi which represented
all the shs and all of the misters in
town.
Um
so after he was nifter,
Rabbi Schaen had
of his who who really enjoyed him when
he was there. So a few a handful of
people and they happened to be in a
position of leadership
and they went to someh
like I said
wherever they went and they said we need
a new could be that's how he came to
you know I I I I was a I was a youngster
without being perish people I was a
youngster I was just new in town this
whole thing happened I was six months in
St. Louis more or less when Ra was nifed
and right away the conversation was
let's find a new Rav Roshi and I wanted
it to be at least someone who is a you
know
there has to be
so
again without mentioning there was
who was Msugal I thought for this
and I called him up and I that you know
this is happening they're looking I
think you should submit your candidacy
I I didn't think of
cash with him I didn't think about it I
thought of this I would have gone to as
many as I can let them all submit to as
long as it's
so that wrote to the
I guess he was interested in it
and he got an answer
as long as it doesn't hurt the candidacy
of Raen.
So hast that
that's the way it was meant to be.
>> Mhm.
>> So um
that's that's
>> you're holding it when you made a
>> I made a big thank you very much. Yeah.
You'll have to do this throughout our
conversations. Remind me where I was up
to. Okay.
>> So, we had this is the lower level of
the
was Shabas Mala.
>> Yeah. It's a different and now the from
communities large that's grown that
developed. It wasn't that way. 200
people showed up. I brought Rabbi We
brought Rabbi Mosha Feller. Okay. He
regailed. He told he spoke
he had a meeting from the palm of his
hand. Uh it it was a historic thing.
So what wanted to tell you is so I sent
invitations. I didn't make invitations
for this kaplop. I went to a printer and
the prince of types. That's what you had
to do then. [laughter]
And there's an invitation and I had to
have a description explanation of what
you tuskis is. You sent it out stamps.
whatever. We had a couple hundred people
who came sent. They had never seen
something like this and uh uh
so we sent invitation to the de
with a return envelope, you know.
Uh I think it was with a return
envelope. Yeah. What came and as far as
I know that wasn't the
3 $36. That's what it was. It was $36
for a couple. Come. It was a 20 and a 10
and a five and a one cash and it was me
client's handwriting.
>> So that's what I have
was you know you get something like
that. There's there were a number of
stories maybe we'll get to
>> right when you saying right when you
come
>> yeah it's all the way at the beginning.
for is being part of of your
>> that too. I hope
I I'd like to think that those were
moments that I was to cause the
and
were other such moments.
>> That's what we're about.
>> Yeah.
>> We think we're leaders and we have
visions.
That's
I'll share with you this M if we can get
to talk about the
>> we have time. Don't worry.
>> So I'll tell some stories. Okay. So
we'll get to it. No, you're taking the
local.
>> What were the what were other such
instances that you saw?
>> Well, Arab has to do with the
so but if you can put it off later I'll
share some of those things.
>> You can start you can do the and then
we'll you can always go back.
>> So
>> I think now we're no longer
chronological order. We'll uh
>> it is pretty much chronological. The
murder story happened very early on. Oh
yeah,
>> it was it was I wanted to do something.
>> You went
>> I went no by the time we landed No. No,
no, no, no. We arrived
me Olive.
>> Yeah.
>> So that's I believe that first such long
my wife was teaching in Bka. They didn't
want her to leave.
It took a little bit time. From the time
that we got the answer from the till
actually going, it took some time. Not a
lot of time, it took some time.
Um
and
um so I I wanted to do something vision.
You know I would if if anybody today
said today they can understand this. You
came to a town
99% of the Jews in the town never heard
the word
not what's that you have to explain. So
maybe there was some old old-timers and
new
maybe some of the old-timers in this
they were there but that's what you're
talking about. You had to literally
explain you met somebody what are you
here for?
You know
fellow
in one way or another the questioner
says what are you doing over here? You
have a school you're teaching in the
school. You have a sh didn't have either
one of those things. So what are you
doing?
it it
they they couldn't grasp the concept of
what we were doing and it was I wanted
to make a impact in town other than the
few people that I was learning with or
teaching. You didn't have prepared
lessons either. You had to do it all.
You know what was the one book that
wasn't available in English about think
Jewish
>> by Zman Posner?
>> That was the book. Yeah, that was the
book. So I I'm just trying to
understand. It was very clear that
you're not you're not there to make a sh
>> It wasn't mu. No, it wasn't mu but
you're coming to a community that has
established you have to be very careful
not to be seen as hurting anybody
because
even you know what I'm talking about. So
granted they didn't do the work that we
ended up doing and and
end up with six that we have today.
Yeah, granted that that wasn't that
wasn't the case but uh you can't do
anything to hurt them. So we had to be
very very careful and go about it in a
judicious way. There was a day school.
There was a a day school
um
and um and shy
I wanted to do something that
happened in the community
uh something up the they so at that time
there was the tumul my friend
had this thing I think you wrote about
it t last year you wrote about it. No.
>> So those letters those letters
>> how would we see those letters? I don't
know. Mr. I heard about it somehow. I
asked them to mail the letters to me. I
mean
>> the letters to the federation.
>> Federation wrote I'm just saying there
wasn't even a place where you would
automatically find this. You can't go to
it wasn't a website. It was you have to
understand how out of the loop everybody
felt. Your mamish had to call somebody
and hear about it. If you're in you
called the right person and he didn't
have it then and how was he going to get
it how was he gonna get there's no fax
machine either he has to mail it to you
I mean just appreciate that
>> blood mailed you the I don't remember
now but yeah
>> so I saw I saw that this is a thing that
wanted
>> see you're saying even the fact to make
a public then wasn't like okay this is
what you do it was like an idea that
they heard that
was I know that Rabbi Shiff from
Philadelphia had up and then there was
who was the fellow San Francisco where
Drizzen. Yeah. Yeah. Big one. Maybe I
saw pictures of it after.
>> Okay. I had a schle guy whoever was
coming. You always the first 10 20 guys
that you attract are always a little bit
interesting when you go. Uh and I
mentioned to him what I want to do. Oh,
as he sits down and he and he designed
them 15 feet, two halves, four branches
and and the middle is with the two of
them are brought together. So you have a
so it's three pieces of hakle there
the the brackets on on the bottom so
keep it standing upright and two halves
of the four and four attached in the
middle and 15 ft tall a gamaka design.
No, we found up a fabricator, a metal
fabricator.
It was a Yam Gelt back then, probably
which I didn't have. You're talking
about a long time ago. 500 bucks. He
wanted
um so there's a metal fabric. Okay. So
then where do I put it?
So I'm driving around. There's a
government center Clayton. Clayton is
St. Louis is St. Louis city is the city
of St. Louis where everybody lives is
St. Louis County and the county has a
county executive. He's like the mayor of
the county. Same thing as a mayor and
the government office building they had
a big nice plaza
and I had a young man over there from
who was
in politics and he knew the county
executive. I gave him this idea. All of
this was whatever. It was news to him.
He never Okay, next idea. Uh, you know,
let's do something for the Jewish
community that time of year. You know,
that's basically what it was.
It it seemed that he didn't think it was
a problem legally or anything. He didn't
have any problem. The county executive,
sure, masking.
And uh what happened was I come there
delivery. were bringing it the morning
of
three pieces of are there and
>> it was an event or just you wanted to
>> I we were going to make an event. Yeah.
Yeah. Yeah. But that was the plan and
come to that put the first thing is
we're putting it up is a few days before
Kaneka first things we're putting it up
we had I had
that I knew that there was an issue over
here that the Jewish community here and
there they have their separation church
state and whatever it is that they think
this is bothering them so much I had you
know something I'm not going to make a
big tum beforehand let's get it up
we'll get it up they'll come it'll
already
you know it's up already. So you're in
the disposition. I didn't imagine anyone
how it would break out. It was a
terrible.
>> You knew that people locally had an
issue in the people?
>> No, I didn't know. I didn't talk to
anybody about it. But I better keep it
quiet until we get it up.
Which saved the day actually.
>> I come there, it's delivered.
No one in the community knows about it.
But the county executive's office sent
down a guy saying, "Oh, stop. You can't
put it up."
That was year number one. In contrast to
year number two, when all you know what
broke loose, but year number one, year
number one, a county executive sent
somebody down. We have to have our
county, the counselor's office, the
legal lawyer of the county needs to take
a look at this, whether this is okay.
And then there was no there was no
rulings from the Supreme Court.
Eventually there was a ruling in
Pittsburgh and a few other things.
Whatever that all of that they ted that
this is unconstitutional.
They always ted that
to listen to their understanding of the
constitution. If the courts will say
that it's unconstitutional
you know that's basically what my
approach was. I didn't. Anyway, guy
comes down, says you can't put it up.
Wait, the account county accounting
counselor is going to study this and
we're going to decide. Oh, I'm Mania.
I took out 10 cents from my pocket. I
went to the pay phone [laughter]
and I called Mosquito.
I told him what was happening. Want to
put up
and these are the This is nothing
to do with the Jewish community yet. I
don't know how long it took. It took an
hour, two, three, whatever. I'm waiting
over there. They come down. They said,
"Okay, give us they gave us a bra. This
is
>> a matter of a minute or an hour."
>> Minutes, hours. It took a couple of
hours. Guy came down says, "Yeah, you
can you can do it." So, we put it up.
television stations were there and the
county executive was there and took a
nice picture with us and it was al also
gang good it made it to the news in fact
in including the the the suffic that was
by the county and the solution was that
it's okay but the Jews didn't like that
but it was too late it was already up
and we had a ceremony
number of people came
and but the icky is that it was it was
visible and a very visible place the
plaza of the county government and
as far as I'm concerned I I you know
it it it was the presum that the wanted
the television stations and newspapers
in fact the controversy ended up being a
on this whole thing so there was nothing
negative about it uh and the Jewish
community didn't get their act together
to even voice their opposition to it
which I'm sure if they would have known
about they would have and then it would
have been a controversy and it would
have been mired in the in this and you
know come across which eventually we did
as as balas you know I didn't do
anything wrong I did whatever the county
you know gave permission for we did
everything kadasica did but anyway
that's the way it
afterwards.
>> So, was there an answer from the
>> Oh, so what
>> in that original thing?
>> Yeah.
So, listen. This is a mask here.
I didn't call back to say good.
That's not the way it should have been.
I had a kasa that I came for a day or
two after Kaneka
and I'm here in some 70
and label grown comes over to me there
was a settle from the leo
first of all I felt very very bad
[laughter]
what
>> I he wanted to tell Mah you over.
Oh, but the Reb asked already translate
what that means. Translate what it
means. What was the conclusion in St.
Louis?
So, I went to work as soon as I got home
as the next day, whatever.
I took all the articles and the letters
to the editors and people wrote and I
responded. Uh most of the lines that I
responded were from the Reb's letters.
Mameish took out paragraphs from the
Reb's letters
to the Tene story
that are appropriate if if it worked in
Tex work in St. also whatever but they
wrote they wrote very harsh things very
harsh things and there's also an element
over here to beame and them I'm an
unknown to them and they had no idea
what was coming next you know here's
this is this new guy comes to town
nobody knows which synagogue he belongs
to nobody knows what he's doing and and
and what is end objective of his and he
comes and he upends we this longstanding
position of the Jewish community against
these things And it comes this young guy
mamish you know new in town and
so you know I shook up it shook up their
their so I'm being malus a little bit
why they felt the way they felt. Uh but
so I wrote piled in a whole pile of
stuff that I wrote but I sent whatever
little piece that was on it and that's
when I got that answer afterwards.
>> What answer? So the answer that I got is
not the answer and it goes along this
it's it's a
you know did something and we we hold
this both my wife and I was very
difficult time
we didn't realize it that was going to
happen next year the real difficult time
was war that broke out namish the whole
community against us practically
>> I want to hear about that
>> but that's so But this answer was
prepping us if I was going to come next
week, next year.
>> The answer was as follows. I asked a few
things. I
>> That's the um it's a copy or that
>> No, this is my handwriting.
>> You copied from Mosc.
>> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah.
>> Okay.
>> I have it. I have in my wallet all these
years. I carry the caviat kishov of of
mine.
>> Can I see it?
>> You're not going to see it?
>> Yeah. Okay.
If I can find it over here, it's here.
Yeah, it's
the stuff sitting around over there.
>> So, you keep this in your pocket always?
>> You keep this always.
>> Okay.
>> It's It's
gonna probably break into pieces because
it's old.
Let me show this.
[snorts]
the host.
>> I I found it amazing that you carried it
in [laughter] your pocket.
>> I put it in there. I never took it out.
It wasn't like
>> Okay. So, how
>> So, so the answers were
>> Yeah. Can you read it and and translate
it also?
>> Yeah.
>> I'm looking at it while you
>> Reb writes there were three parts to the
answer. One was the and then there was
the answer to the question. I I thought
I was hoping I you were able to get from
the on how to respond to their
tightness.
see if we can get a little bit more and
they also called a meeting and they
wanted me to come to the meeting which
actually never materialized. So [snorts]
what should be the position at the
meeting? I wanted to know anyway but the
was
what
circled my words and here circled the
words
>> so those were answers to one and two
>> that's the way it went. Those are that's
the way the answers were. So he made an
asterisk and then wrote the answer to
that question. These are
>> I those are my words and the circled it
because the Reb circled it and put an
asterisk next to it.
>> So if you you're asking what to answer
to the article on their article
>> that makes an asteric and then
>> number two out of the position we should
take at that second aster. Okay, that
was the second actually the first answer
is before and probably on the other side
probably if you could flip it over.
Uh praise is his portion and great is
his
that he sanctifies Hashem's name.
Um
let me just read it in translate
etc underlined twice
and he was not
um
was not embarrassed before those who
scoff
who dismiss
or any anyone who's a a malik is anyone
stands in the way and
um of a good thing
yahadus
and he disseminated
Judaism
actual
river among tens of thousands
underlined.
So there weren't there were no tens of
thousands who actually saw the but the
story hit the media in such a big way
that they heard about it. And so I there
are a few things over here. A few things
over here.
Uh the
the the there's no hakama over here. The
reb wasn't maximum of course.
So but you understand how the importance
of these things are and how the level
was
um
and this continued I'm going to share
continued afterwards also for weeks and
months later also
and the value that the reba put on media
that time that wasn't so was common in
the Jewish community in the f community
>> the media
>> was not media media
This is you know what's the what's the
usees that there was no appreciation of
it. It could be that even among anu
there wasn't you know this is secondary.
Yeah it's it's not the tlas but it's it
delivers the tlas
you you inform people and and and and
you present it as a a celebration of
yiddish kite. It's all these are all the
things that the writes in those letters
to tene and the media was something
which was which was a big deal otherwise
I don't understand what
was tens of thousands
um and the
is not only did this thing die down
I'll tell you some stories it died down
but uh it really
catapulted us
>> it put us into a position that everybody
now knows knows about us
>> to be reckoned with.
>> Yeah.
>> What's there's the other the other half
of the
>> Yes. It's coming. It's coming.
>> Okay.
>> So, the article how to respond to the
article and how to position to take at
the meeting which was going to take
place one and two. See that
>> other any other questions? And here's a
a wonderful example of how uh the Reb
get the same thing in what's
the book the same sentiment
that there are a lot of things that need
to be decided on the spot
and and and that's the way he wanted it
to be.
It's not a call.
There some things as you'll see some
things that need to be uh kept kind of
uniform but nevertheless you know
there's there are things that are local
in nature and uh anyway let me read this
one and two
any similar questions
there should be a conversation among the
who share that these kinds of situations
in parenthesis
the one who is familiar with the
situation in Washington
and what's the purpose of that
conversation
to prevent contradictions from one to
the other.
and quite to the country that one should
help the other. So at that time it was
very easy for to feel that this is his
little world
>> a local
>> and the repercussions of that that
the JCRC for example in this town Jewish
community relations is going to hear
what somebody else did and was matter
was matter wasn't matter so forth and so
on and then it becomes you don't
understand the precedent that you set
and But this concept really is a very
good one to keep in mind. Essential that
things that one person does
really establishes you're not only your
local rabbi of your local little house
big or little. You are representing Gans
Labavich and that's the Reb. And you
need to make sure that you're not
creating precedents that the Reb would
be displeased with.
And that's a grace and it's something
for everybody to keep in mind. So we did
that. What happened was this
>> ask
right
>> uh
>> you say you did that. So the opportunity
to when was there an opportunity to
speak to
and who were in this mass or were
potentially in this mass who they were
preparing to have him and and whatever.
So I went over to to to Rabbi Kinsky and
by the way Rab Kinsky was a great
support there that this when that when
all of that broke loose the second year
you have no idea what I mean by that
[laughter]
it it was there were two Jews who met
that Kaneka and for a week afterwards
who this was not the topic of
conversation
it was
and
they very
artfully made me the the the
bad guy,
>> right?
>> Because until I came to town
>> and all of a sudden I come to town,
there's a big problem. What did I do?
Absolutely nothing wrong. Whatever they
had a problem with was their own
interpretation of the constitution
>> without any. And it turned out that
years later, a couple of years later,
that's exactly what the Supreme Court
said. Um,
so there
uh
>> you're saying you went to Krinsky.
>> What was that?
>> You must that he was mid a lot. He was
mided a lot.
>> Um,
and both he and Rabbi Groner as well.
The rabbi wanted to know blowby-blow
what was going on
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>> second year to to to get down to the
poish.
Uh they understood from everything that
I said. I want you to know I never had
I'm not taking a great deal of credit
for it. This is how we were brought up.
never entertained for a minute
not to do it with all the lut that was
brought first year from the first year
to the second year. Um but they saw this
as a as a that this is destroying
everything that the Jewish community
built for who knows how long. I mean
that's the way they saw it. They saw it
as a real threat to them. Uh and they
also understood
>> that this is the way it's going to be,
you know, you know,
so they uh we tried the best we can. Try
the best we can.
>> So what was the heart of it? Is it
opposition to Labavich or they're afraid
of something?
>> It's on the outside there there were two
two because it's probably a combination
of both. They're uncomfortable. These
are people who were very accustomed to
keeping Yiddish shash not in the street
outsiders
type that that's the attitude wherever
Jewish is they said these things to me
you know
some of it they were malish of kadusha
by saying you're commercializing
like the other holiday
No, it's meant to be. The family is
together in the home, you know. So they
they saw this as offensive to whatever
preconceived idea they had of what Khan
is supposed to be, which wasn't exactly
the same as ours. And so so that was
one. The others, there were some who
were kind of principled. They called it
the slippery slope. You know,
you have to you have to protect this
separation of church and state. You have
to keep religion out of it. This is a
mandate from the constitution. The kesh
and their mind what
>> it's not in the constitution.
>> It's not that's correct. The law of
separation is not for sure not.
>> For sure not. There is a an
establishment clause. We're not going to
go into the the sh of the law. Yeah.
So um so some of them were principled
about this matter and they saw this is
slippery sl you do this today next thing
what's going to happen is they're going
to force kids to make you know to to say
something on
Jewish kids and whatever
argues that
if you don't utilize the the the rights
and the freedoms that America that
America is is is giving us then you lose
them. The way to exercise the the best
thing how to preserve it is to exercise
those liberties. That's when Malashin
whatever
you know I I think I I I said when we
when we last spoke I I kind of said this
there's a all of them including this as
well.
Yeah. ever wanted to be.
He wanted people out there to see he
wanted to see a robust and a proud and
an open celebration of Kaneka and he
wanted to get American Jews a little out
of their you know the thing that this is
something we do still a hate and private
hate he want yes that's for sure but he
also was us it's the same with I'm
getting off a little
you know
you stand in the Millions of people have
put on film. Millions of partial to
reason these Jews this one was a
other whatever he asked to put on today
and here you are
with
is happy the is happy
is happy or whoever is doing the is
happy. So it's a good thing.
There's a much much deeper nuda which
the others who are into
cure for hok so some they they they they
miss that
which is why they don't do the kind of
stuff that our guy is standing out there
and it's hot in the heat and in the cold
and he's standing out there uh
taking off time from learning
and most of the answers that he gets are
rejections. And he goes and he continues
and and if he's and he gets
the
every you never met him before. You're
not going to see him again. You're not
going to get a donation from him. You're
not going to get whatever. You're not
there's no long-term relationship over
you don't even get his name in. Donald
he would say I don't know if they take
the email addresses nowadays maybe they
do but but even that garnished all you
did was you did a mid and for them is
and you stand in the street that gets
baked in the is natural to us because
the Reb taught us that
is natural to us
[clears throat]
you know uh we can we can rekindle that
to others it's it's completely strange
completely strange
and you think the fact that there are I
don't know 4,000 5,000 but kabad around
the world and millions and millions and
millions of Jews who were touched by it
happens to be Labavage why because
there's some great organization in the
world of Labavage some master plan
marketing plan that succeeded But no,
no, there probably are better marketers
out there than us and more organized
people than us.
It's this
and we have to realize it. the yoker of
that
and that is why labavage today not labav
that's that is why
we we are who we are and the others are
still scratching their heads and
wondering how did they do it
come learn some they'll learn how we did
it but that's the is the anyway where am
I up to in my story
>> I mean talking about that position of
the second year.
>> The second year was was it was was huge.
It was intense. It was the front page of
the Jewish light which is the the weekly
newspaper over there. It was the
editorial of the Jewish light. Um it was
sashed.
What happened was he didn't realize the
county executive he approved it but he
didn't realize and he got 40 letters
from Jewish letterhead organizations
almost all of them in opposition. And as
soon as we heard that they're getting
letters written, so I also hopped a few
letters, people to write whatever in
support, but it was mo overwhelmingly
against it. And he's getting that and
he's confused. He said, I I did this for
the Jewish community,
>> right?
>> And and and it's the Jewish community
that's so riled up uh riled up against
it.
So he didn't he thought he had time to
make a decision because in his go mind
he thought that falls out on
which was a few weeks away
all of a sudden two days before three
days whatever is we let him know that
it's decision time we have to do this so
he made the mistake of calling a meeting
of all the people who wrote him letters
big conference room in the government
center.
Probably 40 people against it.
It was me, Rabbi Rifkin,
and other one or two people who showed
up and it was nasty.
And all we wanted to do was not
this is not there was no one who was
smart enough and at hand to the county
to to let him to the county executive to
let him know this is not a good idea to
bring to bring these parties together.
But there was no time. He basically told
his secretary at the end of the day,
call all these people and come to the
meeting tomorrow something like that.
So we had and that was nasty. The people
who now are my good friends [laughter]
who got up and thundered against this
and they said, you know, if this is what
they're going to do in our community,
I'm going to do I we announced the
building campaign already at that point.
So I'm going to do whatever I can. This
is former rabbi of a leading
congregation, probably the probably the
largest one in town and St. Louis is
predominantly reformed.
He got up and he I'm going to do
whatever I can to to to make sure it
doesn't happen. And there were people
who withdrew some pleasures, some major
pleasures.
I did whatever. This wasn't I never did
complaint. I informed whatever happened
fast things happened blowby blow. Every
day there was five things that happened.
So I call in and I'd say this happened.
This is what this one did and this is
what that one did. There was some
interesting gurus which I I I cannot
share but there's some interesting
>> throughout this thing.
>> Yeah, there was some interesting on and
how to deal with some individuals
it it'll stay for now.
Maybe there will be some time.
Um and we held our ground but the Our
leading balabat were concerned because
they were raising they meant to help us
and they saw us what's going to be with
our fundraising for you know and I you
know what I said to them said
I was the
at that time was a beautiful one but you
know over the years it kind of
dissipates that I said to them to these
are my friends who were raising money I
If I change my position on a thing like
this because of somebody's donation,
then I'm I'm the same as the others.
That's how they run their business.
That's not us.
And I owe them a gratitude that they
they they accepted it and they supported
me and all these things. U you know
everything I wrote this one that one
said whatever
it was $50,000 back then a donation two
brothers
>> that with Drew
>> that withdrew at $50,000 in 1983 1984
was a lot of money
>> even today it's not
>> yeah for a bullying campaign it's it
doesn't buy a building
>> understood it was it was it was a tough
thing but I I don't know my my meim was
straightforward. I to tell you there was
a time after that meeting where the
county executive had to do something. He
had to give in to some of that pressure.
He couldn't say. So he kind of cut the
baby in half. What did he do? He said,
you know, you can put it up
for one day.
You can put it up for one day.
Uh you can't camp out there.
be made now putting it up for one day if
it's a violation of church and state is
one day you're not allowed to do one day
either so he basically agreed with us on
principle but I can put a time
restriction on it he said and he had
hoped that that would make them happy
but it didn't really didn't make them
happy
he didn't he didn't process that that
that part so listen so Rabbi
his routine is that he used to stop in
St. Louis once a year, sometimes twice a
year. He had balabato and he would visit
and from the time that we moved there,
he would stay by us.
I come home from this meeting and I was
shook up. You can imagine that was
terrible meeting
and uh is there.
So I tell him what's going on. I tell
him what's going on.
So at the end he wanted to know what did
the county executive say? So I told him
they can put it up but only for one day.
So he says [laughter]
so he said that you could right
it has to be done in a big way. It can't
be done. Says this one day yo yo yo
he agreed. [laughter]
Anyway, so I remember that Vikit
like I said to you, no one in town,
Jews, two Jews didn't meet without
talking. This was the topic of
conversation. Somehow Bahasha brought
this. The federation,
this is the catch story. The federation
has an annual meeting. Annual meeting is
well, they bring all their big
supporters. A couple hundred people was
a breakfast that year in the Breenidge
Hotel. a grace of breakfast they have
planned it beforehand and this was I
think Ze Khan I think it was the last
day of Khan maybe the day after
and the city is still
over all these things
mostly mas
against this guy who came and caused
trouble I'm the cause of the problem
because until I came nobody
there was no arguments I'm I'm the cause
of the arguments.
>> If you don't do anything, so they get
I'm sorry.
>> If you don't do anything and they don't
That's right. That's right. That's
right. No, but listen, arguing is making
an argument is not the t of our thing.
And the Reb didn't want that either. But
if it broke out, we held our ground. I
think that's was the Reb's approach.
The I'm not sure. I can't say with
certainty that you have have to go there
to this and this place of
to to spite them. don't think that
but if that was your decision and you
did it don't back down because these
guys because of all these creatinist
that they have
finished and that's
he thinks because backing down a retreat
in a Jewish is
and their position is that that's I
think I think anyway it's the last day
of the day after that and they're having
this annual meeting with a breakfast
case
and the guest speaker now who comes to
federation's annual meeting all these
letterhead organizations American Jewish
congress American Jewish committee
Jewish community relations all the
alphabet soup of traditional
establishment Jewish organizations all
the people who hold the views you know
who thought that the manura is the worst
thing in the world at that at that
moment
and they
they're there and they make up like the
couple hundred people who were there and
whatever.
So the guest speaker, I don't know how
they got the guest speaker to come. Was
the mayor of New York City was Ed Catch.
You probably don't remember ever hearing
Ed Catch, you know.
>> I'm familiar with Ed.
>> You heard of him?
>> Yeah.
>> He was a bombastic fellow. He spoke. He
had no whole sparred. He said what he
wanted to say and he said it loud and
clear and very dra
um
and no whole sparred. He whatever nishno
that's the way he was. That was the
personality.
Um he's a a brash New Yorker you might
want to say and very proud of his
yiddishkat.
And as Mata he wrote,
>> yes, I heard him say that. Someone asked
him, a reporter asked him. You hear him
saying that? I heard it. I heard it on
some station.
A reporter asked him, "What would you
like your epithet to be?"
Um,
a proud Jew. Something like that. He
answers. That was the first thing. And
then the and passionate love for New
York. That was number two. I think my
role on it.
>> Yeah, he wanted anyway. So, he's coming
to town.
>> Why he agreed to come to speak for
Stafford in St. Louis, you know, from
he gives a talk.
>> He was the he was the mayor at the time.
>> At the time, sitting mayor. Yeah. Yeah.
And he is giving this talk. He didn't
talk nothing about the mad. He had no
idea what was going on at St. Louis
about this.
>> You were at this dinner.
>> Who?
>> You were at this.
>> I was not. That morning there was a
bris. One of our anis
that morning and I remember people
coming from that to the bris and they
shared what happened. Okay. So I heard
of mama's fresh firsthand story.
>> Um
the con show
I don't know where he used to live in
Pittsburgh for many years.
Anyway, so I'm out to Bris and this is
the story I talked about. you was the
micer. He finishes speaking and someone
I know who it is, a friend of mine. At
that point, the Froom community backed
me up 100% in St. Louis. They saw this
as anti- Yiddish kite. They saw the anti
the Orthodox community and there were no
lobav. They weren't lobishes by any
stretch of the imagination, but this is
out of hand. What's going on? and they
jumped to their credit, they jumped to
whatever they were able to do in terms
of defense.
So, um, so questions and answers.
Guy who has his hand says, "Mr. Mayor,
you're a Jewish mayor of the largest
city with the largest Jewish population.
Could you tell us how you deal with
religious symbols on public property and
specifically with a manora on public
property?
When that question was asked, there was
a big gasp that went up from the whole
audience
couldn't believed. They were embarrassed
that this was brought up that this was
brought up in front of the illustrious
visitor, the mayor from New York. Now he
knows this shand that's going on in St.
Louis. There were there were a ghast
but he doesn't know what's going on
public property. No problem. He says I
am fully in favor of it and support it
as long as it's privately funded. das
let me tell you something we have one in
Manhattan here and we have one in
Manhattan there I don't know the places
that he mentioned uh the few public
manuras that we have something and I
don't have any problem with I think it's
perfectly fine as long as it's privately
funded so that alone
for the people in the room oh no he's
taking the wrong side on the issue it's
a Jewish mayor though
so basically what he's saying is at a
minimum. It's okay. It's okay. Both both
sides have a point. Whatever they can
make, it's okay.
>> You I think you you skipped the part. He
said, "And in fact, we
>> In fact, you're good. You're good." He
said, "Let me tell you something. Let me
tell something about the minora." He
says, "The people who put up the minora
in Manhattan, they're the Loviches."
He says and they live in Brooklyn
and the manora is in Manhattan. Friday
afternoon when they light the minora
it's real close to Shabas and they have
to get home to Brooklyn the in time for
Shabas. This is him telling you this for
the crowd that wanted to hear this the
least. [laughter]
He's telling them, "So what we do is we
give them a helicopter and we fly them
from Manhattan to Brooklyn so they they
can get home in time for shops." That's
the story
I heard the story. I picked up the phone
and I called the mosquitoes and I told I
told label it says the Reb smiles from I
say from ear to ear but it says the Reb
smiled when I heard that story so broad
it was a big big huge they had nas from
couch. Yeah.
And he said
is constitutional.
That's what the but the said and that's
what the label told me when he told the
story
that's constitutional. The just wanted
to gain people you know who who who
support this. Get rid of this argument
of constitution.
>> This is before the that Supreme Court.
Everything was before
tell another couple of things.
I come back to 770.
No, this is before coming back to 770.
Um, I get
I can actually see where
the date over here. The point over here
is I get a letter in the mail.
I get a letter in the mail from Bianca
JJ.
He didn't know me.
He didn't know me. I never spoke to him.
I can't ever remember going. He didn't
know what was going on in St. Louis.
This wasn't reported locally. W There
was no means of of really reporting
this.
There's only one way and you can kind of
guess at it that he writes me a letter
of support and it's you can read it. I
have only have a copy of it over here.
You can you can this is it. I think this
is it. And
somehow found it. This was December
12th, 1983.
He writes soliticism at the he ends up
don't listen to those guys all those
people who think that you have to hide
your Jewishness you know that's that's
not the way to go out there nowadays you
everybody's out there with what they
stand for not to be embarrassed and this
what you did is a great thing and keep
up the good work and may Hashem be with
you and all your undertakings a whole
lot you hear uncle he over there
throughout that whole thing. You hear
him over there?
How did this happen?
I can't say with certainty
that he didn't write this
unless he was told to.
It seems out of the blue like why would
he send you such a letter?
>> Yeah,
doesn't make sense.
was he was going around being
who heard up. He didn't hear the story
either. I can guarantee you I can't say
with certainty so I'm qualifying what
I'm saying
but
I'm willing to bet on it [laughter]
that this was Milo who told him to write
a letter
>> and he describes himself I got about the
national committee for first Jewish
education making a major organization
you know Mr. because I wrote that they
had a bunch of letterhead organizations
who wrote against it. So he's the
national committee for is one of the
world's largest educational movements
today and wishes to extend a heartfelt
congratulations on the accomplishment of
erecting a mana in the heart of St. was
doing
too long. We've shown the world an
inferiority complounds
away and get so
somebody thought somebody somebody
thought and said
went on the musk told her I'm guessing
I'm only guessing. Write a letter. tell
him to write a letter of vid
that he can show to somebody
that then a couple of months later I
think it was a couple of months
I'm viter 770 I see I think I was more
in 770 than I was in St. lo
wasn't actually wasn't the case, but
this is the story. So I see I see the
label again. Oh. Oh, he says the Reb
gave me something that I should give to
you.
He told me a buffet. The Reb gave me
something I should give to you.
Remember,
come into the office when you have a
chance.
Can't even remember what it was. And
then he finally remembered and he's
going around. I remember him muttering
to himself in his office, we're trying
to find it. And he says to himself, he
says this place over here, he says, by
the time you walk from here to there,
you have five distractions. He says
about America's office. So this is why
he I can't remember where he put it. Was
the miser
there was that Kaneka in New Jersey. The
state of New Jersey
issued a proclamation. The general
assembly, actually the whole legislature
voted on this
and it's a resolution
adopted January 9th, 1984
and they it's all about Khan and it also
mentions these words
friends of Labavich.
I don't know who sent him into the
letter. I don't know whether it was
friends of I don't know who it was.
Maybe it was because I think Misha
Harrison didn't go by friends of Lavage.
I don't think that was
whereas the friends of labavich reminded
us a new during the season of religious
observance of the high concepts of
ethical and righteous principles for
which we all share and to which we all
strive by consecrating a minora before
the state capital during this festival
of Kaneka in commemoration of the first
recorded military victory over spiritual
oppression. It's one of the whereas
whereas whereas and this was sent into
the Reb.
>> Someone sent that to the Reb. And
>> and the Reb made this notation there
with the Reb's pencil. You can see it
>> and told them to send it into St. Louis.
I should This is the Reb's pencil mark.
>> We all strive by consecrating. So the
Reb is highlighting this section.
They consecrated before the state
capital during this festival
in commemoration of the first recorded
military victory over spiritual
oppression.
>> They made they consecrated the state
capital
>> and this is the part
highlighted that and says
>> arrow send it to St. Louis.
>> People told you that's the handwriting.
>> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah.
Okay,
this it's it's
this is what the says about. You have to
remind me
>> what
>> you know what's going on.
>> Oh, you saying what is
>> Yeah, you have to remind
gives me goosebumps every time I think
about it.
Oh, there's upset. There's upset you man
over there who's having a problem and
this might help him.
So, these are the
It's not me. I'm I'm sure it's every
you know you do you do your work with
Mina
and
then you get a little bit older and some
of the stuff
you think that you're getting smart you
can do it in your own you have your own
whatever don't learn
you're not auding
[laughter]
which has to do more with the
the history in St. Louis
which
brother
before I went out on
it's very important to contextualize
these answers from the or these
you have to contextualize it and
sometimes we we are not able to do that
gaz
you have to contextualize it any context
and then maybe you understand it uh and
and then You need to listen right you
got to talk to the elders in your
community
before I came to St. Louis as gander sed
whatever I went in had conversation with
Rabadikov
[sighs]
now St. Lewis is unique in many ways.
Probably every place is unique in many
ways. But in this, you know, I think
we're unique should be unique. When I
came there, there's a whole of don't
want to denigrate a community of people
by calling them a snag.
They're not that. They really aren't.
But what the rebel calls
and there were even among them a couple
of people who were doing
quote unquote which was a term that the
Reb didn't
they didn't didn't seem was displeased
by I want to say because they're not
anyway spoke about that so I wanted to
know
going to say I wanted that. I wanted to
hear what Rabbi says about working
together with them.
It's nice to be friendly, not to be
accused of competing, not to be confused
of or hurting some other this and that
and the other.
I wanted to know
and this is from is it from Eden? From
Eden. So I'm reminded of the story. So I
went and I spoke to him about this and I
asked him what what do you think? It
wasn't I wasn't slanting the question
not to do it. I think maybe if anything
it was something
[clears throat] or what what would I
have anticipated? Yeah.
Can
no
that wasn't his answer.
He said this is he loved to give me
sham. I don't know if you know that he
had a mush for everything
and but he was very clear deliberate
wasn't wasn't
on the fence about this. This is infur
you have this approach to and this
approach to and there's a certain and a
certain that would respond
to this this and there's another and
another who responds in a different way
and then treats in a different way
and they both are doing good things
but to mix them up.
I don't I'm now I'm kind of putting
words, but this is mix them up. It's a
prescription for disaster, but that's
not what he those weren't the words that
he used.
So he
and I watch over the years and in fact
book has a lot of that as well and in
does she see a lot of that as well
and and it goes back to the same
question the fact that we have 5,000
houses is because of and it's because of
the and the's approach to and the's
approach to to to tan mitzvah every
single yeid
and that's what he teaches us in all
kinds of ways in all kinds of ways that
he gets us to go along with that we have
an bahamas that is resisting
but that's that's everything that the
taught us and these things are as much
for us like I said and all kinds of
polish there's a much for us I think
when we spoke about it we I talked about
you know the reb was talking about moodi
the reb talking about for the yeshiva
would talk about the would talk about
things that had no
and they were there by the hundreds and
the didn't want to be
and the answer is that this was a this
was a how you look at the world and how
you understand the world how how a ye is
supposed to see another Yid's mitzvah
etc etc etc so let me tell you
ancient history 1930s when the reb came
to St. Louis
there was a newspaper in St. Louis at
that time called Yiddish a Yiddish
language newspaper a lot of the stuff
that was printed in the story about the
Reb's visit to St. influences from there
information that he got. Why the editor
of the newspaper?
He loved
and understood the understood this big
word. I take that back. But he was
enamored. He
>> appreciated appreciated
the was going on in Russia.
He writes four weeks worth of articles
each each it was a weekly. He writes and
he the glowing terms no one writes about
anybody like that the way he writes
about the
what was his mus
by the way
he was a mis he was a
kind of guy
uh and what was the mat of American
yedish guy in 1930
So
it's interesting you'll see if you look
up his
kadesh you'll find Gilman letters long
letters five pages six pages letters we
don't know what he writes
but you can learn from the letter that
he's speaking he's speaking to the he
writes to the we have to do something
Yiddish,
let's work together.
And you should see that and this is a
friend and the Reb writes to him
ask him I wouldn't even respond if it
wasn't you who I know that we're close
and whatever he's he recogniz recognizes
his closeness and the he has forb
recogniz acknowledges it but if it
wasn't you I wouldn't even respond
basically the moral I'm I'm putting I
don't want to put words but you can see
it keshish The Reb writes over the we we
speak two different languages
as if we're passing each other like
ships in the night.
This is not a good idea like imam that
he does
the ships in the night but we are
speaking languages like two people who
cannot understand each other.
So, I love you quote unquote and it's
wonderful what you're doing and I
appreciate you know your your desire to
do this but mixing them together. These
are my words
[snorts]
and if you watch and I think if you'll
read
you'll see a lot of answers like that
also but in you see it again and again
there's one place where actually the is
disappointed in him
by the way he wrote a book which I found
this is already going off topic a little
bit
St. who's founded knows that we are from
the name of Yehuda was seagal that's
>> that's her name yeah sagal land so this
book written by Arya leman
of St. ism eventually he moved to New
York and he became the head of America
the religious book
>> that's the name of the book is
>> it's a biography of all things that he
decided to write published I think 64 is
not here for a long time already but he
was a
and um he
was disappointed in him. They were going
to do something for Shabas
something for
Shabas and the Reb was maskbre
all this is the yes
same guy I don't know if at that time he
was in New York already maybe he was
still in St.
But there were letters to him and
they're good letters. They're close
letters. But this letter is
disappointment.
The made up a condition. It sounds like
they made a condition that
that you don't make it institutional.
Yeah, of course I have to be supportive
of anything people want to say or do
shabas. Of course I would. But you put
in names of organizations
and whatever you're and that was the
condition I said that it doesn't become
institutional
very disappointed
because he saw that as divisive
ah these guys are doing it these guys
are doing it the other guys are doing
that's what happens when you work
together with other people they're only
interested in getting points and credits
and getting some publicity
that's not that's
That's not
so we have to be wary. I don't have all
the answers and to know exactly where
the lines are drawn. I'm not suggesting
>> right obviously depends on each place.
>> Absolutely. him saying that and that's a
very important thing to be said but the
sensitivity to that I I heard and I
understand and I think that you want to
know what the success of the is and the
success of lab is it's it's
and it's different than the others
>> what we bring to the table
>> and those who we bring to the table and
that's the they're scratching their
heads what's the secret of the that's
the secrets
is the secret.
>> Is the secret is the secret.
>> All right.
>> Amazing. I really appreciate it.
[laughter] This is very
>> I think I think you got more than one.
>> I'm sure there's much more to talk about
and
uh thank you for sharing everything.
>> Not problem. Happy to do that.
And uh the ultimate goal is bringing
Msiah. Amen. Kamish
isn't