Amazing Questions About God From Hollywood 2

[Music] great to be here another sh in Hollywood again like I we did last week last Sunday I'm actually still waiting for Jerry to show up ISM hopefully shows up he made this shoe very exciting last week um so the really is just questions and answers any questions you have doesn't make a difference what it's about if it's about what happened in the Tora it's what happened in the parha if it's philosophical questions if it's about uh Judaism or other religions what's the difference why who what when and how any questions you want to come up with as long as it's connected I'm more than happy to answer but they all have to have a purpose they all have to have a common purpose and a common purpose is that has to get us closer to Hashem meaning if you're going to ask me about what do I think of the stock market if it's going to help us if I'm if I can find some way that that could that answer to that is going to get us closer to Hashem I'll answer but if there's no word if there's no way it's going to get us closer to hhm it's a waste of everybody's time and the reason why is because the only purpose of why we're here today and I'm not just meaning in this house I mean in general in the world the only reason why you're in the world today is to serve AEM specifically says that if you came to the world already you have to do something now if what's that something that something is called Kem sanctify hashem's name honor hem why honor hem he's the king of you know king of flesh and blood if you were a servant to a king of Flesh and Blood your job would be to honor the king if the king told you to wake up in the middle of the night and uh jump up and down you're not gonna say oh I'm tired you're going to jump you say how high if the king told you listen I want you in the middle of the day I want you to come to my office say hello to me and leave you're not GNA say I'm busy you come you do it hello with a smile even though it's a fake smile because you're tired and it's hot outside but you do it you smile and you leave why because the king said so this is L this is obviously needless to say to the King of Kings so the specifically says this just the oral Torah we have two toras we have the written and we have the oral Tora the oral Tora explains details about the written Tor and the oral Tora specifically says that if you came to the world and you didn't find a way to sanctify hashem's name to honor his name it was better you didn't come to the world at all why is better you didn't come to the world at all you didn't fulfill your purpose there's no point the ant the ant on the street that just gathers grains of sand for 6 months CU it's only alive for six months served a bigger purpose and this is not an offense this is a reality and that's one of the things I want to talk about and then you guys can ask any questions you want you can interrupt me middle after whatever you want a lot of people when you tell them the truth if it doesn't have anything to do with them they like it if let's say for example I tell a woman listen wigs are not allowed for a couple of reasons one reason is because of immodesty and another reason is because of the that it's connected to you know it's a problem when you have uh real hair on on wigs it's connected to with if it's idle worship if it's synthetic recent studies actually found out that they also have real hair in them so they're also connected to and then even more so if it's a uh a synthetic wig that's not let's say you found the way that it's a all uh fake hair now you have to worry about if it's too long if it's too long then it's even the few even the few major rabbis major Dian that said that it's a it's it's permissible are still not going to allow those if it's too realistic they're still going not allow those meaning there's always a problem with them come huh it's okay huh no you're not take everyone's keys so so when you tell somebody the truth Everyone likes the truth until it affects him until it hits home you tell a woman About Wigs if she's not wearing a wig she doesn't care she actually even likes it she go oh yeah tell them tell them tell them about wigs I wear K I wear the scarf or the Hat yeah go tell those wig wearing uh people on the other hand if she if you tell a guy listen shabat you have to keep Shabbat if he keep Shabbat he goes yeah tell him about Shabbat tell him about Shabbat you tell a guy by kosher he's been keeping kosher since he was born he was born with a kosher steak in his mouth he doesn't care tell him about kosher tell him tell him about kosher but then you tell him listen you know according to the Torah when you gamble when you gamble it's considered stealing it's considered like you stole the money you win if you win if you played the point of gambling is what to win no one gambles to lose unless you're a little crazy it's better off you do something else with your money but if you gamble according to Al technically you're stealing why is it stealing because the other side doesn't want to give you the money even though there's rules to the game and everyone agrees before you start to agree with you know to these rules I win I have two Aces versus your two two queens I win give me all your money whatever it is we agreed but technically after we agreed after you won the two Aces won or the two fours won somehow because a third four came out on the Flop fine everything is great problem is he still doesn't inside he really doesn't want to give it to you he really doesn't want to give it to you which means that you're taking it against his will which according to the Torah is stealing so now the whole world just collapsed on a lot of people's heads why because this is the AL they don't like wigs everything's good yeah Wigs Wigs everything's great Shabbat amazing yeah go ahead yeah go ahead or everything else now he's talking about gamble stop right there why it hits home it hits home why because a lot of Jews like the gamble a lot of people in the world like the gamble so the key for us is to understand is that it doesn't really make a difference who who's telling you the truth as long as it's the truth now schl if you guys remember we talked about him a little bit in the past schl was gifted a very special gift when he was just before B Mitzvah he became king and he told hem Hashem I don't want money I don't want power I don't want girls I don't want anything all I want is to have I want to have the wisdom to judge your nation properly cu the meel the king is the head judge so people going to come to me they're going to ask me is my business uh you know this guy cheated on me you know is he uh can I get my money back this guy did this can I get this you know this he's the head judge so if the problem is is that if the judge makes a mistake he's in essence according to Judaism unlike the secular world where if a judge makes a mistake then you just retry and you know do the whole thing over and Judaism when a judge makes a mistake in essence he becomes a partner to the crime and he gets punished for it he gets punished in sham for it in this in this world also you're not allowed to make a mistake why that means you weren't careful enough you weren't careful enough if you didn't know don't judge un unless you know for sure don't judge don't say yes or no it's to say I don't know smartest guy needs to get used to to the to get used to saying I don't know when you don't know so said please give me the wisdom to judge your nation favorably sh don't make mistakes this is what we say when we first start learning at the beginning of the page say Hashem please give me the wisdom so I don't make mistakes I don't get to the wrong conclusions when I read thear it gives me different cases right left up down all these different opinions please AEM don't lead me to get to the wrong one meaning that I disagree with the reality I disagree with the truth let my brain be straight unfortunately a lot of people learn Tor but it's not so straight they come up with weird laws weird things that are not in the Tor that are against the Torah and they say no no this makes sense to me as if they became Ram there a lot of little Rams in the world unfortunately they're all not even the grains of sand and the rambam's feet Shalom but people have arrogance issues so now schl says please Hashem give me wisdom Hashem says look at my son what a great son instead of asking for money for power for this for all the all the physical material things that most people naturally would want what is he ask for give me wisdom not only will I give you wisdom I'll give you money and power everything else I'll give you nothing he didn't lack anything now for anyone that wants to be really impressed at the wisdom of read the mid at the beginning of even though it's not necessarily about obviously it's a different time in the beginning of the M of it says became king and he decided to picked the small little city to be his place why did he pick this why shushan who who cares about this place why did he pick this place the reason why is because that's where the Throne of schl was he saw schl thr thr was gigantic huge they tried picking it up they tried moving it moving company said we quit can't move this thing why does he want build a new one make something else more more advanced there's no nothing in the world more advanced what does have it had technology that even today we don't have first of all as soon as he came up to the throne he would say a PUK from the Tor would say a PUK from the Tor on the right side was a lion on the left side was an eagle the lion's paw would come up under's feet and raise him to the next stair Siri was already around 3,000 years ago raise him to the next stair he says another PUK raise him to the next stair raise him another PUK another eventually he gets to the top of the throne he sits down and then a golden dove no technology no semiconductor yet a golden dove would fly in the air put his crown on his head and then bring him a seph is a a king must have a seph in his arm all the time this technology doesn't exist yet today but he had it already 3,000 years ago but he also saw in his wisdom that if he Shar this technology would bring more damage to the world than good so we see that schl had extraordinary knowledge extraordinary wisdom so what he say says something we should listen so says the following you want to ask yourself who's smart okay I'm not you're not who nobody's gonna be specifically says no one's gonna be like no one so who's gon to be who's smart who is smart in's eyes if an idiot tells you you're smart it's not usually a compliment he's an idiot he doesn't know anything if a homeless guy tells you instructions of how to get rich you probably shouldn't listen he doesn't know how to get rich but if the guy has experience maybe so the smartest man of all time the wisest man of all time says who's smart he's asking who's Smart in Proverbs says the ear that hears lifegiving reproof rebuke meaning will abide in the midst of the wise meaning who's smart someone who listens to rebuke that's who smart somebody told you listen you have to change why because ABC you're doing wrong you have to change says if you listen you're wise you don't listen you're a fool simple as it gets that's who's wise you don't have to have an IQ of two 200 you don't have to have a uh different degrees on the wall you know you go to the lawyers uh offices they always have all their degrees every degree is a $100 an hour so if he has nine degrees $900 an hour three degrees he's start just starting out $300 an hour sometimes they make a photo copy just to charge more but the point is that SCH he says you don't have to have degrees you don't have to have be Einstein you don't have to finish the 20 times you don't have to know the Torah by heart no you don't have to do any of that What Makes You wise When someone tells you to change and it's true you change that's it that's what makes you smart if you don't you're a fool you're crazy so he continues what happens if you don't what happens if you don't what does he think of you if you don't he who negates discipline despises his own soul but one who listens to reproof acquires an understanding heart so someone that listens to somebody giving him instructions tell them listen you have to change you have to do this you have to do this you have to change your life you have to stop gambling you have to stop driving on Shabbat you have to stop eating on kosher you have to stop going out with the non-jew you have to stop acting like a non-jew and so on and so forth all these different things you have to change you have to stop being angry stop stop this listen relax no no he's telling you if it's true he says if you don't listen you hate your own soul not that you hate him doesn't make a difference about him doesn't make a difference who's telling you he's never talking about the person that's telling you he's talking specifically about the person on the receiving end he says if you hear it and you don't listen you hate your own soul why you hate your own soul because the soul is the one is going to have to pay the bill eventually but the one who listens acquires an understanding heart fear of Hashem is a discipline of wisdom and humility predes honor so ultimately the goal of everything that he's saying here is for all of us to get to the ultimate goal which is to have to have fear of hem so now a lot of people as we've said love the truth they love hearing the truth if you talk to them business and you tell them listen there's you know somebody ask you about business advice and you tell them something that makes sense they love it if you want to talk about politics you tell them about how there's so much corruption in this house and that house they love it it's great talk about different uh psychological states of Mind different knowledges whether it's anything they like it they agree with it it's fine there are famous coaches they call them and these are like motivational speakers whether it be Tony Robbins Zig Ziggler and so on and so forth and people pay thousands and thousands of dollars just to see them for a few hours or to go to a seminar for a weekend 10 $20,000 to go see the guy speak for a few hours then walk on uh hot coal for some strange reason somehow that makes you feel better I don't know to me it sounds insane but fine you want to go I don't know why you have to pay $10,000 to work on hot Cals but I could do you could do for free in my house uh but uh anyway people pay thousands and thousands of dollars for these gurus why because they go there and what do they hear they hear the truth you want to be a winner wake up early in the morning go to sleep late at night be the first one in the last one out be kind be generous stop being angry be loving these are all common sense things that all of us know they just say it with you know all the bravado and you know the theatrics but that's all they tell you stop being a lazy bum and be more aggressive when you're trying to get something go after your dreams don't be shy all these things that everyone in the crowd even the fools know everything there's no there's no new insights they're only reminding you of everything you already know but for $110,000 it sounds much better now how come nobody in the crowd say hey Tony I don't want to listen to you I don't want to be aggressive I want to be uh passive I don't want to wake up early in the morning I want to wake up at 12: in the afternoon you wake up at 7:00 or 6:00 or 5:00 or some other God awful hour you wake up at that early I don't want to wake up that early you wake up how come nobody argues you ever hear of an argument with Tony Robbins Zig Ziggler or any of these guys anyone in the crowd I mean five six seven 8,000 people in the crowd somebody must disagree what everyone agrees from now on they're all going to wake up at 5:00 in the morning and go to sleep at 12 everyone agrees they're going to be from now on from today on they're going to be aggressive everyone from today on agrees they're all going to be nice that's it yesterday was today were modai how everybody all of a sudden is great everybody's did chuva one day everything finished all you have to do is tell people stop and that's it how come nobody argues 10,000 they pay $10,000 to the advice and the reality is everyone knows including Tony they don't have to listen they don't have to listen doesn't obligate them the only thing that they obligated to do is pay once they paid they could do whatever they want once they paid they already feel like it's half the battle once they borrowed some money from Steve and Jerry and the other Steve down the street for the $10,000 to pay to get there because they don't have any money because they're not aggressive they're not nice they wake up at 12 o'clock in the morning how they gonna have $10,000 so finally they borrowed the money from all the guys to get there now they know half the battle's finished I paid I don't have to listen to this guy and that's why Tony himself doesn't care he doesn't called them next week and says hey did you wake up at 6:00 in the morning oh he woke up at 1200 no come on yeah no he didn't call he doesn't called them why F to call you it's another 10,000 so how come how come how come nobody argues over there if he everyone knows they're not going to wake up at 6 o'clock in the morning the next week Tony says wake up at 6 you know inside I'm not waking up at 600 I'm waking up at 1 D I'm going to wake up at two now I'm purpose I'm wake up because you're saying I'm wake up at three: now every time you keep saying other way I'm going to wake up late I'm not going to wake up I'm go to sleep for a week you know you're not going to wake up why didn't you argue why you saying Tony Tony I don't agree how come because you're not obligated and he's not obligating you either he's just entertainment so no one debates here's the real truth Factor the reason why everyone debates with the Torah is because the Torah tells you the same exact thing it tells you you have to wake up early it tells you that you have to be aggressive after your dreams it tells you that you have to make something of yourself it tells you that you have to honor and follow all of his rules it tells you a lot of different things and it obligates you it obligates you not by waking you up the next day someone's knocking on your door every day at six o'clock in the morning say you have to wake up no one's going to wake you up Hashem is not gonna suddenly talk to you like he did to m say hey he's not going to talk to you he's not going to say anything but every one of us knows Torah has a few words here and they're not so kind to those who don't follow it says that if someone violates Shabbat as we talked about last week not only are they putting themselves in a very difficult status as far as putting their Judaism on suspension in the eyes of the Creator but Hashem decides that at some point he's going to have to make sure that they pay the bill how do they pay the bill takes away everything from them why because all of the she all of the Shea that you get all of the reward that you get in this world is temporary no one lives no one needs to be a genius here to know you're not going to live here till forever everyone knows that at some point you go my uncle died last week he didn't think he was going to die last week none of his family thought that he was going to die last week my cousin died last year 23 years old no one thought he was going to die 23 people die every day no one thinks they're going to die but they die which means that whatever they got in this world whether they left the world with a 100 million or 100 cents it's irrelevant it's useless now comes real life real life that's eternity there's a different currency system and the currency system in that world is called mitv thank you it's called mitv so all the money in the world that you have you can't take with you your Israeli identification card that says you're Jewish is worthless because paper stays here it's material can't go up there the only thing that's going to identify you as being Jewish or not is whether you kept the mitv or not so if you show up to Sham and you say to he hasem here I am I'm the uh your son he's going to look he said you're not my son you didn't keep Shabbat and every time according to thear a person violates Shabbat instead of being a partner to Creation with hem because there was no Witnesses obviously to Creation Hashem created the world in six days and stopped creating on the seventh so every time we keep Shabbat in essence we are Partners to this creation we're testifying that he did that even though we didn't see it we're taking his word for it he did it he did it he created the world which means that if we don't keep Shabbat according to the Torah rabz says you're screaming to hm heym I don't believe you created the world you didn't do it turn on the car I don't believe he created the world I don't believe it he didn't do anything I wasn't there I didn't see it I don't believe it that's in essence what we're saying it's a big deal so you're coming to hasem and say I'm your son oh you're the one that you're not my son you're the guy that's been screaming for the last 30 40 50 60 years that you don't believe in me welcome I have a different suite for you it's a different section so now we have a problem I have this one have a cup now we have a problem so the tah says some awful things about someone a violate Shabbat on the other hand if someone is intermarried today intermarriage most people think that intermarriage is a problem that only resides with the secular people anyone that follows my shim knows that it's quite different meaning that inter marriage where Jews marry non-jews is not just a problem with people that are not religious it's actually also now a problem with people that are religious it's a problem for all right now I'm working with a half a dozen half a dozen different couples where one is religious from birth religious ABA has AET ABA is a rabbi IMA is a raban whatever it is and a boyfriend all the husband's a nju or the opposite uh you know the uh guy is W Isa girlfriend that he wants to marry is a nju so this is not just a secular problem don't feel alone if you're in this situation don't feel like your friend that you know oh he's marrying the non-jew he's Al no he's not alone it's it's a problem now what does Hashem think about such a problem he doesn't say nice things about it he doesn't say nice things about it at all inar says anyone that's with a non-jewish woman and obviously the like if it's with a non-jewish man in the eyes of hem it's considered as if they are a partner to idol worship to Bal pill considered like they're part not that they're just oh he just has a girlfriend that doesn't believe in hasem or she believes in JC peny or whatever other else or she leaves in Buddha or she believes in some stone or she just created a religion whatever that's not the problem she has her own problem or either Idol worshiper has his own problem that's not the problem the problem is with the Jew the Jew has a problem because the Jew now officially in the eyes of Hashem became a partner to idol worship that's it's not a good status to be in it's not a good status to be in and it says each time that they're intimate together each time they're intimate it's as if he brought a Corban to the idol instead of bringing you know mdash bring no bring sacrifices to hem honor hem or if we made a sin whatever the case may be we bring Coran to hem to honor the king each time the Jew brought a Corban to hasem he got a mitvah problem is if the Jew is married to a non-jew or the Jew is just dating a non-jew he not even married he's dating her every time they're intimate together in the eyes of hm according to page 82 a says it's like he brought a quban not to hasem but to her Idol the worst not only you're going against a it's not good hey hasem doesn't like me oh yeah I'm not doing I'm not the greatest Jew no no no he says not only you're not doing so good you're actually giving honor to their Idol so imagine I used to have a lot of employees gave me a lot of headaches now there was one time this one guy I hired was one of the mistakes of my career I hired this guy and uh always complained always had different strange ways of how he conducted himself always looked at the grass being greener on the other side always talked about another firm up the street I kept telling the guy listen you want to be here be here you don't want to be here don't be here it's not jail you're not obligated to be here but stop talking about the other firm because you know you may lead some of my guys to leave because you're making like the grass over there is much Greener they're going to leave no no no one day anyway it didn't work out I fired him I fired him but I didn't fire him for no reason why did I fire him because he talked so much about the other firm that one day some of the guys asked them hey what's this other firm up the street that you keep talking about where is he you know anybody there he's like yeah I'll show you I I'll introduce you to him he takes my guys to the other firm and in one week I lost 14 guys in a week in one week I lost 14 guys to the other place and he's still working for me he still has the to come to work a big isn't idiot I don't even think he gets that status you have to have a certain You Know M it's like stupidity the guys I lost 14 guys in a week if they left on their own that's one thing but you brought them over that you brought them to my competition you brought him to my competition it doesn't get worse than that now you guys all understand business right it's no different with hhm it's no different with Hashem he says listen the fact you don't keep Shabbat it's a problem the fact that you don't give enough it's a problem I gave you up 10 you're supposed to give one I give you a 100 you're supposed to give 10 I give you a thousand supposed to give a 100 I give you a million supposed to give a 100,00 you don't give nothing fine you don't keep fine you don't eat culture fine you don't do a lot of things but why you bringing K to my competition why you bringing K why you bringing sacrifices to their Idols Made of Stone made of wood every time you make relationship with your girlfriend you're bringing K to sack to to Idols why why is Nota you think you can have a good good report when you go up hey hasem I'm your son I'm your son so the gar says a lot of things that are hard hard to hear but it's to you tell people that are not an into marriage issue they don't care yeah yeah tell them tell them tell them but he tell somebody it's in the issue they don't like to hear it so it brings us back to the point the point is when you go to Tony Robins and Zig Ziggler and all these motivational speakers ERS you're going to hear the same truth obviously in a different format but same M to become a better version of you you're not going to go against them why because you don't have to listen doesn't obligate you if you listen you don't listen doesn't make a difference in their life as long as the check for $10,000 you sent them cleared doesn't make a difference listen don't listen as a matter of fact it's better you don't listen because then you're definitely going to come back next year if you listen you're probably not going to come back you have your own seminar you become competition so it's better you don't listen come back next year come back every quarter have a personal uh coach one-on-one because you're really a and you need help every day $1,000 a day just m you know come on you can't do yourself you can't wake up on time every day you can't be aggressive on your own you can't do everything on your own you need real help $1,000 a day okay fine $1,000 a day you need to uh mortgage your house just to get help so now you're not going to change but it doesn't make a difference you're not it's not obligating you what Tor says obligates you why does it obligate you it says the same thing it says you have to wake up early it says you have to go to sleep late it says you have to work hard it says you have to make a better version of yourself it says you have to perfect yourself because even if you keep all of the mitv all of the mitv you keep Shabbat you keep this keep kosher you keep everything everything else but you're still an angry little Gremlin you're still cheap you still uh have bad midot bad character traits you're gonna have to pay for that why hasm didn't give you the Mitzvah to be a robot he gave you the mitvah to perfect you as a human being and specifically says with badid someone that's a scholar we're not even talking about someone doesn't know anything just started do talk about someone who knows a lot of Tor has bad M he gets angry after 5 Seconds you tell him hey you parked in the wrong spot he flips the table you tell the guy listen the guy came for the oh you go get a job get angry because the guy wants the poor guy wants the not everybody is fortunate his wife put extra sugar in his tea wants to pour it in our face why oh why' you put too much sugar he's a little angry little gremlin for any of you guys are too young for know what gremlin from the 1980s little show little monsters you guys are young you don't know what Gremlins are I forget they have some young people I feel you know Gremlins not the only one so now the guy still has bad has you know has bad character traits he's cheap he uh his eyes he can't watch his eyes he gets angry all these bad character traits the the oral Tora the found of Judaism says a dead animal in the middle of the street is better than him what do you mean he knows all this T he knows the he knows he knows he knows all these things by heart why because he gets angry after 5 Seconds that's it a dead animal is better than him yes why because at least with the dead animal that's what theim say with the dead animal you could do something with it you could take the skin make a jacket out of it or something it's still useful but if after learning toah you're still the same rotten human being you're completely useless to is supposed to make you better if after learning to you're still rotten there's no dead animals better because we can make a jacket out of it so hearing some stuff like this sometimes he hey relax that's what the says it obligates you obligates you meaning that to unlike everything else unlike all these motiv ation speakers Tora says that if you listen good if you don't listen there's a consequence they talk about mad mad what happened in Al everyone knows the famous story all of is left Egypt the slave became the master the first and last time in history we were slaves for many years years 86 years out of 210 years we were there we were slaves all of a sudden the Egyptians which were the America of their day much stronger than America is today because they had control over the entire world without using Twitter they uh all of a sudden they're begging us to leave but not just begging us say please leave no they're giving us money leave today don't leave tomorrow leave right now we'll give you you extra we'll give you go go go the The Master is begging the servant to leave in essence the master became the servant and the servant became the master the first and last time in history such a thing happened even fairy tale stories don't say such a story so now we went all the way from Egypt we got to mount saai the famous Story Goes that we got to mount saai and we got the Torah the part that you're not going to know unless you study is the details of what actually happened in Mount saai in Mount saai it says that the mountain went against nature Mount saai went against nature and actually covered all of am am was three miles by three miles so nine square miles and the mountain went up in the air and became like a on top of them covered them like a as if to portray a marriage sounds nice sounds romantic but here's the kicker Hashem says in Mount Si today I'm here to give you the Torah if you take it good this is our marriage if you don't this will be your burial ground because the roof will collapse on top of all of you and kill all of you so the the commentary is like what kind of marriage is this this is not a marriage this is a uh he's forcing us it says Isis what's going on here says forcing us he's forcing us to accept the to that's not like we accepted it out of love so tosot one of the Giants one of the uh giant commentaries is several of them obviously TOS say the reason why hasem made sure that am knows that they don't really have a choice they accept the Torah good they don't they're all going to die is because if you remember every time you do K you read a verse of the Tor remember that is actually a verse from the T it's from Genesis it's from Genesis and if you look at the first day of creation Hashem created you know the uh the heavens and the Earth and it's a uh before the you know everything came from nothing at the end of the first day it was evening it was morning and the first day second day he did his creation it was evening it was morning end of second day third day it was evening it was morning end of third day and so on and so forth but with the sixth day it says it was evening it was morning end of the sixth day there's an extra word there an extra letter really in Hebrew it's one letter in English it's one word extra the now we all know there's no such thing as extra in a this is written by God it's not written by Harry Potter this is written by God so there's no extra letters there's no mistakes if you find one mistake in the Torah it's not the Torah it's not Divine so commentaries are asking again are asking why is there an extra letter why didn't you just say end of sixth day like everything else end of first day end of second day Third Day fourth day fifth day end of sixth day why is there an extra word or extra letter here says in something extraordinary he says that extra hay represents the deal what deal the deal made with the Mal with the angel that should charge of Earth every creation has an angel responsible for it the grass outside that all of us parked on and are ruining right now there's an angel there's an angel on top of all the grass says grow so tomorrow he's goingon to have a hard job grow he says says to the he says to the grass grow Earth has an angel sun has an angel everything has an angel responsible for it not because needs help Shalom because that's the way of a king a king has servants so now one of the most famous balet chuva in history says this represents the deal this extra letter represents the deal what's the deal the deal between the Angel that's responsible for Earth and Hashem he made with him on that day on the sixth day and what is the deal he says listen before today before today there was nothing there was nothing before I created everything there was nothing now I'm going to create man which eventually from that is going to come the only reason why I'm creating all of this is because 974 Generations before I created Earth and before I created even the angel itself I created a Tora the purpose is for this and T to combine so now Shabbat the next day the day that comes after today he's telling us is the day they're going to make the deal that's the day I'm going to bring him to mount sa we're going to make the deal if they accept the Torah good we continue if they don't I'm bringing it back to how it was before you I'm bringing it back to to I'm bringing it back to nothing so the extra hay represents what the numerical value of hey is five representing so says why did Hashem put us in such a circumstance that he told us if you accept the Torah good if not I'm going to kill you because hasem is not an irresponsible God he's not going to leave the rest of creation up to a bunch of people that may change their mind tomorrow he has to tell them that whatever decision they make has consequences because it's not just it's everything it's all the bugs all the birds all the cows all the go all the mountains all the water everything if there's no to there's nothing else it's meaning that created us created creation created everything with consequences so when I tell you anything that's written in the Torah it's not my opinion and that sometimes when it hurts to hear some of these things it's not to be specifically offensive to you to hurt you or anything like that Shalom but this is what hasem said and he said it because he needs you to hear it so unlike the motivational speaker that's going to tell you whatever you want to hear and you don't want to hear and it doesn't really make a difference because if you don't change it doesn't make a difference to him because you still paid him $110,000 here you don't have to pay anything but if you don't listen there's consequences not with me with him now most people don't like to believe it they say who went to the next World and came back who went do you know anybody that went to Ala and came back well there are plenty there are over 30 million people over 30 million people Jews and non-jews obviously mostly non-jews that have had something called near-death experience near-death experience means that technically you're clinically dead you're clinically dead clinical death means that your brain stopped working if your heart stopped working it's not considered death if your brain stopped working it's considered death they consider you dead some people died for a few seconds some people died for a few minutes some people died for a few days and they were already in body bags they were already some cases even buried and they all reported that when they came back to life they all reported very interesting stories very common stories they all saw a light sometimes they heard certain voices told them to change and so on and so forth point being is that there's plenty of stories millions and millions of documented stories of people leaving this world and testifying that there is something Beyond this life so as far as whether there's Life After Life it's not really a question you could even ask scientists it's been verified that there is Life After Life the question is what's it going to look like now told us that we have two options we have G and we have G GED gets to we get there if we do what he says get we get there if we don't do what he says now if someone tells you the truth like schl says if you want to be smart you listen if you want to be stupid you don't listen simple but now what a lot of people try to when they don't like what they're hearing what they try to do is they try to Kill the Messenger blame the messenger it's like it's like blaming the mailman for the bills you're getting you're the one that spent all the money on American Express not the mailman if he did you suu him but the reality of it is that it's not his fault now in the um Exodus in the beginning we're going to hear about mhu and how was suffering but before that the mid says that M's father was was the biggest Rabbi in the world biggest biggest Rabbi was amazing but when he saw that was killing all the firstborn babies he told his wife honey it's finished we can't be together anymore because if we're gonna be together that means I'm gonna have to be with you intimately if I'm with you intimately we could have kids if we're going to have kids p is going to kill them anyway why now I can't not be with you if I'm I'm married to you so let's get a divorce so you divorce his wife so a little six-year-old Miram his daughter comes to Aba the biggest Rabbi in the world says ABA ABA I just want to let you know ABA that you are worse than par imagine little six-year-old daughter comes to you ABA ABA you're worse than po go back to kindergarten what are you telling me talking to me like this go go to your mom go make me coffee go make me tea go back to your room you're punished for a year you're punished until you're 27 worse than par imagine six-year-old little girl says you're worst you want to hear what she says you're going to ask your sixy old your six-year-old daughter says to seven seveny old seven she says to you ABA ABA because you play with your phone you're worse than par what are you going to say you're punished for a year two years or 500 years two years two years two three years okay he's lenient he's lenient am he's too cute he's cute mam was also was a prophet also soam says to says to she ABA you're worse than what does am say why why L teach me why am I worse than po six years asking the six-year-old to teach him why am I worse than po why she says ABA is's killing only the boys by you divorcing IMA you're killing the boys and the girls it's not going to be boys or girls coming to the world because now everyone's going to listen to you everyone's divorcing their wives also so it's not going to be boys or girls now is so in sh they made allow what he says to go through or may not cuz he's a you aik so what you're saying sh going to say it's going through that's why you're worse than ABA do matter where it came from is it true or not it's true what did am do says you're right do a between me and your mom I pay you $1,000 $1,000 from each side of the family oh today 10,000 who knows how much it is do he did got married to his wife again did it make a difference that she was 6 years old didn't make a difference didn't make a difference she six didn't make a difference later on we hear about this was the prophet of theim tried to destroy all of he was like m Nemesis he tried to kill him since he was born andash tried making a deal with this other rash named balak and balak says listen you're a prophet why don't you curse the Jewish people tell God to kill all of them and he'll kill all of them he tried cursing it didn't work he tried cursing again it didn't work he tried cursing again it didn't work it didn't work he's like no I'll pay you even more money goes and this is what he says a famous line he says because what do you think I can do something that God doesn't want what do you think God changes his mind what he think that he's a human being this is a verse in the Torah that actually destroys all of Christianity because Christianity believes that God's a human being and they also believe that God changes his mind he changes his mind from the Jews to the Christians and somehow he became human so the point is is that this verse comes from one of the most wicked people in the world someone that wanted to destroy but it's still included in the Torah why is it included in the Torah because we still have to learn from it because it's still true the fact that it came from a rash is irrelevant it's still true the fact that Miram was six years old is irrelevant it's still true there are many examples in the Torah of such things where you see the most important things come from unusual places doesn't always come from mosu orav all the wonderful people that lived sometimes it comes from strange places some of the most valuable lessons we've ever had came from the most unusual places for example there used to be a person that hated rabbis but hated rabbis to such an extent where when he saw them he wanted to kill them not hated them like is like ah you know write a little f Facebook comment on them when he saw them he says I want to bite them like a donkey bites a person it's like you mean when like a dog bites a person goes no no like a donkey when a dog bites he bites the flesh when a donkey bites although it's not often when he bites he crushes the bone that's how much he says to his T that's how much I hated rabis that's how much I hated but when is he telling the story he's telling the story after he became the biggest Rabbi in the world and his name is RAB aka before he became RAB AKA he was an it's a complete ignorant and anti anti rabbis he hated Judaism this is page 49 and it's a very interesting story his whole story of how he went from nothing to something extraordinary to the biggest balua in history but he says before I knew the truth I hated the truth I hated it with all the passion you can possibly have reason it obligates you it obligates you to change you can't know the truth and continue going against it so now this goes back to a question we had last week what kind of people go against theem there are only two types I know a lot of people like to give it you know 30 types 500 types like it's coffee it's only two types only two types one is a person who doesn't believe doesn't believe simply does not believe in God he believes he came from a monkey maybe he did we didn't he did maybe or he believes we came from nothing although that's even the people that said we came from nothing still said that something had to create the nothing because nothing can't create anything but the point is is that sometimes the person just simply does not believe the other is a person just doesn't know most of am believes in a Creator believes in a God so why does 80% of am do not keep Shabbat the foundation of Judaism what the one of three things that hasem says this is the breit this is the deal breit is a deal AIT is not like just AIT means a deal an agreement this is an agreement between me and you there are three things in the Tor that are calledit one is two is the um and three is the Shabbat these are the three things that are in essence a Jew has to have every day I'm sorry three things that hasm is a covenant between me and you every day we have to do them every day we have to do at least two of them so now we can't do all three because for example every day we can't do Shabbat shab is only on the seventh day but we have and we have we can't do every day so what does it mean means watching your breit meaning protecting your breit you can't waste seed you can't uh be with a non-jew you can't do a lot of things that are not allowed but simple five minute mitvah on Shabbat you can't do not allowed to do on Shabbat so what do you have to replace it you have the Shabbat so now when we have one of these agreements that's in a Torah and we violate it we're in essence violating the agreement between us and Hashem so when we come up to Hashem and we ask him for stuff sometimes we don't get an answer and the answer for why we don't get an answer is because sometimes the answer is no why is the answer no says you're not keeping your deal why should I you have uh you have cancer you want a cure doctors don't have a cure who's going to cure you the Healer the doctor of of all wounds the doctor of all All Flesh he has a medicine you want a medicine do your end of the deal I had a guy tell me uh listen I want to donate to for CDs we first came out with our CDs a couple years ago and you want he's like I want to jump in I want to donate th CDs I said okay no problem we're trying to raise money so donations are always welcome I don't take I don't usually ask too many questions especially if the people are doing it on their own I definitely don't ask any questions so they don't change their mind so anyway he donates the money and uh a week later he calls me he tells me listen I got to tell you a story extraordinary thing just happened I said what happened he said a day after I donated the money I had a uh appointment for my son my son had a growth in his head had a growth in his head we didn't know how what his growth in his head is he been going to doctors for six months little son three four years old he had a growth in his head they saying you have to do this scan and that scan and this scan and that scan the last thing in the world you want to do a surgery open the kid's head three years old what does he know in his life and I wanted to uh you know do it for I wanted to the next check is going to be better who knows but I didn't really think much he tells me I didn't think much thought hopefully the surgery is going to go through why because the check that happened the next day was the last check before the surgery surgery was supposed to be the next day says my wife took my son to the doctor and the doctor says where's your son he says he's here he's the one that you're checking goes no no no the Sun that has the growth in the head where's the sun with the growth in the head goes no this is the one with the growth in the head he goes no it's the wrong head cuz this one doesn't have anything this one doesn't have anything is nature he can change it you do your end he does his end and one guy was working for AT&T big company doesn't change their rules very often and I told him listen you have to keep Shabbat you have to keep Shabbat he goes keep Shabbat I told my boss keep Shabbat he said you keep Shabbat on your own fired a different job keep Shabbat no keep Shabbat you already signed an agreement with us you work every Shabbat you work every Saturday so I'm going back and forth with the with the guy I'm tell him listen hashm doesn't care about AT&T he go I'm not going to eat starve sh will provide you P other way because that's a big company this company that doesn't make a difference no excuse unless you are saving lives if you're saving lives it's different story doctor for example is allowed to work on Shabbat under certain conditions not by default not by default like I had one guy was telling me listen I don't need to come to shim anymore I said why not he goes I keep Shabbat already I said really you keep Shabbat that's say that's the only sh is only about Shabbat I don't teach anything else I keep Shabbat so I can't am I going to put a G said to come to shim so one day I see him on a Saturday afternoon and we start talking and uh I see has a phone on him Shabbat it's a phone on him I see Shabbat I say you know you're not allow to have a phone on you it's m it's Shabbat goes no no it's for my patience I said for your patience what patient he goes I'm a dentist I said you have to come back to the shoe a dentist is not allowed to answer the phone on Shabbat no one's dying from a toothache no one's dying from it and if they're dying call 911 not you especially since you're a child dentist pediatric dentist the six-year-old is not dying from a toothache you could just pull out the little tooth that's not doesn't you know that goes out on its own anyway people make up their own rules so anyway this guy works for AT&T tell him listen Hashem doesn't care about your job doesn't care about AT&T doesn't care about anything else he cares about Shabbat that's the deal he says I'm going to do how I'm going to do it I work on Shabbat I do this I said it doesn't make a difference you have to you could quit or not quit either way you can't go to work and if you trust Hashem and you really believe hhm is the creator you should have no doubt it's big test it's not an easy test so I'm not trying to make it like it's an easy test one two three just finished it's not an easy test it's a big test he took the test he decided one Shabbat he's not going to work let's see what happens Shabbat he sees a million and a half messages on his phone why don't you come he thinks he's gonna get fired he goes to work on Sunday he gets yelled at a little bit but still has his job next Shabbat comes in again Shabbat is not only once a week it's every it's not only once in life it's once a week Shabbat he doesn't go to work Shabbat sees the phone a million and a half messages why don't you come Sunday goes to work still has a job next Shabbat again half a million messagers not a million and a half now they got down still has a job and this continues for seven months for seven months he keep Shabbat and every Shabbat they call this eventually they stopped calling they always threaten to fire but they never actually fired what happened after seven months I helped him start his own business and he left AT&T on his own point is is that runs the world no one in the history of mankind has ever lost as a result of doing what Hashem said sometimes it looks like you're losing you know in the beginning you give something it looks like you have less now you do something it looks like you're doing something you don't want now it's in the beginning it always looks different you have to look at things in the long run you have to look at things in the long run investing into hm is the best investment in the world and I don't mean I mean investing into MIT investing into learning to investing into changing and the reality of it is that it doesn't make a difference who said it whether it's or it's or it's or or if it's included in the Tora if it's true that's all that matters that's all that matters now I'm sure you guys have some questions so go ahead and ask go okay well the handful of rabbis that permitted wigs did things that people are not considering number one they permitted wigs that look very different than the wigs of today they permitted wigs that were looked like wigs they actually looked more like uh brooms than they did wigs that's one two no Rabbi in the world not even mosenu not even mosu can permit not even mosu can permit idol worship and that's the second thing the third thing is that anyone that wears a wig has to determine why are they wearing a wig are they wearing a wig because it's a mitvah they want to cover their head cover in their hair mitvah or are they wearing a wig because they want to look good for Carlos and Steven from from a supermarket if they're wearing a wig for Carlos and Steven that it doesn't make a difference what MOS Feinstein or say or anybody said doesn't make a difference because you're wearing it for cars and Steven so it doesn't make a difference it's an a anyway it's a sin anyway even if you're doing it because some Rabbi said you're allow it's still a sin why because you're not doing it for the Mitzvah you're not doing it for the Mitzvah you're doing it because you want to look good you want to look like your hair is already made you just came from the runway so it's not a Mitzvah anyway if you're doing it for the mitzvah then you have to get a wig that has a kosher certification right you have to get a kosher certification now there's actually a group in Israel that brought something to my attention that I never knew when I first started this whole fight against wigs and this aod thing a few years ago something came out that is M extraordinary now everyone knows there's only one there's only one place that certifies wigs as kosher one there's no like in kosher meet there's like a new one every week There's a new OU and you and this one and O RB and this B and that b every week there's something every week somebody else is a new that's in in Kosher meat or in a or in a what's or in a what's called par all different types of koshering uh institutions but for wigs there always has been one run by a famous Rabbi in Israel by name of gross now he's known as a very big well-known and he said after R Yash Shalom 14 years ago said that wigs that come from real hair are coming from AAR and therefore they're not allowed rigs that are coming from real hair are coming from a source of idol worship and therefore they're not allowed gross said Rabbi gross said um well we'll make a kosher institution to kosher these wigs that's the part everyone knows no K here what's the K that came out recently is there's a book and I don't have the name of the book on top of my head it's in my phone is a book of and of questions and answers this they work off and he writes himself gross writes himself that when raash came out with this P of saying that all the wigs that came from India are not allowed because a he disagreed with them he says even if they come even if they come from the tanser from the aod from India it's still not it's still okay meaning even if it's coming from it's still okay so what does this mean the grand scope of things this is like someone that eats pig for breakfast lunch and dinner but he's the guy that's certifying your meat kosher how can you kosher something if you don't believe in it in the first place how can you kosher a wig if you don't believe it needs to be koshered if you don't believe there's any problem in the first place the r yashi was wrong what's the koser certification doing the second thing is is that something else that I never talked about before I guess wants me to say it now the kosher certification industry is a complete joke how is it a joke unlike previous years and this doesn't have to do with all of you obviously probably most of you does not relevant to but hm wants me to say it anyway because you asked this question Hashem has rules there's everything allowed everything not allowed and so on and so forth now in the old days if you wanted to get going into the uh any business that involved a different country you'd have to fly there you have to fly to China you have to fly to India you have to fly somewhere and negotiate maybe pay a few politicians under the table it's not it wasn't easy if you wanted to go into the wig business for example 30 40 years ago you had to go to India or China or some of one of these other countries negotiate with a few people you know agree on a container every several months they're going to ship you and so on and so forth that's how business was done today you don't have to go anywhere today you just go to your computer you go to alibaba.com you press you type on alibaba.com kosher wigs you type kosher wigs you'll have a slew of Manufacturers right kosher wigs kosher men wigs kosher women wigs kosher this wig kosher that wig sometimes it's kosher sometimes it's not Kosher and some of them actually were stupid enough to put the kosher certification on which is they print themselves with his name on it with gross's name on it but it's upside down like the English is is right side up but the Hebrew is upside down because they obviously don't know what it says and they even tell you oh by the way the wigs are Kosher because the rabbi comes here every few months how could it be kosher if he comes here every few few months has to be here all the time it's like saying the restaurant it's kosher and the rabbi comes here every few months to check the meat what do you mean he has to be there every day he to check that the meat that you're selling is not pork it's not uh dead animals from the street it's not uh some rats he has to be there all the time that's a m it's not there once in a blue moon for a wig to be kosher that means you have to know the source of the hair it means from the time it gets taken out of the head all the way to the manufacturer when they clean it then to the next part of the of of you know if they dying it and so on and so forth so the point is is that you have a m for kosher supposed to know exactly the source of the hair from beginning all the way until it lands on some woman's head so if you're telling me that he's there every few months or that the kosher certification can come or not come it's up to you if you want it we'll print it for you if you don't want us to print it it's less paper shows it's a complete joke and last but not least we spoke to a few um more than a few uh people that deal in the wig business and we asked them listen you've been in it for 20 years 30 years 40 years however long they've been in it after this uh koshering came out did anything change for you said yeah we have to pay a bill now an extra Bill like no no aside from paying the fee for koshering the wig is there anything else you have to do did you have to change supplier because maybe your supplier was from India maybe you had to go to China now or to Brazil or to jenam or to wherever you have to go somewhere else no no no same supplier okay did your supplier have to change something maybe that have to send a rabbi there or or somebody or you had to go there no nothing had to change did the prices change did it go up did it nothing changed nothing changed what changed I have to pay a bill every year and whatever I buy is kosher by default it's like saying I go to McDonald I show a piece of paper and by the way from now on guys you're kosher give me the pork sandwich with the cheese on it please it's the biggest joke in history but people are fooled why why are people fooled by this it's a convenient lie it's a convenient lie to believe because it allows women to look like they're single it allows women to look like their hair is already made at all times it allows women to get away with a mitvah that they're obligated to do by covering their hair with either a hat or a scarf instead by looking like one of the runway models and it looks better than natural hair and it's a mvah that they could say Rabbi so and so said it's okay they could blame some Rabbi that said it's okay 20 30 40 50 100 years ago even though what he said is okay and what you're doing today is two different things so that the main reason why the mssiah hasn't come yet and a reason why is because if the Messiah came now he'd have nobody to save that's the truth he'd have nobody to save when we left Egypt what the meim say is extraordinary it says that when we left Egypt only 20% of am Israel survived 20% 80% died in the plague of Darkness some say 99% died in the plague of darkness and the Book of Jeremiah says that at the end of days hasem is going to save is from the uh land of the north land of the north and is is we know what is what's land of the north land of the north is North America that's where you see the majority of Jews is United States and Canada this is already written 3,000 years ago Hashem already knew we're all going to be in Florida and a few other places so he's going to save us from the land of the north but the the uh the commentaries also say that whatever happened in Egypt is going to happen again the darkness plague all of that craziness that happened back then is going to happen again it's going to be 15 days of darkness and so on and so forth now what Hashem doesn't want to happen is for him to punish as many Jews as he did back then the problem is that if he came right now if the mashiah came right now it'd actually be worse than it would be worse than uh than Egypt and the reason why is because the problem 3,300 years ago was only with the secular people 3,300 years ago was just a bunch of people that didn't want to leave Egypt they didn't want to leave they want to stay the rest of the religious ones left today it's not a problem just with secular people today is also a problem with the religious people they also want to stay in Egypt so there's a lot a lot of religious people or they do certain but they're not 100% ready for mashia many of them if you ask them what would you do if mashia came they really wouldn't know what to answer you and the reason why is because many of them don't want him to come they're having too much fun in this world so to get ready for mashia all of us have to do chuva whether he's religious not religious doesn't make a difference all of us need to do Chua and Chua starts with accepting the truth for what it is regardless of where it comes from if it comes from the books if it comes from the rabbi if it comes from a criminal if it comes from a six six-year-old daughter doesn't make a difference that's also why page 49 it says that at the end of days the truth is going to be hated truth is going to be hated but for the first time in history the children are going to help the parents do chuva the children are going to help the parents do chuva this is unlike every other generation every other generation ABA taught the child sabba told ABA and ABA told the son in the end in the generation before mashia the six-year-old is going to help ABA a lot of parents do cha because of their kids so for anyone that's still unsure of what to do and how to do there's plenty of resources out there of where to learn now for anyone that's dealing with one of these problems whether it be into marriage or Shabbat or anything anything else I know it's not easy I was there it's not easy don't try to become mhu tomorrow but don't stand on standstill don't do nothing can't do nothing because if you start doing CH at least you may have a chance MH comes sooner than we expect you have a chance but if you do nothing then you have a bigger problem so you have to do something now for example if you shabbat Shabbat is not exactly the most difficult thing in the world but it just seems difficult because it's the day you work let's say if you're in a car business that's the money day if you're AT&T you have to work on Shabbat that's the day it's not it's not your uh it's not up to you I have uh two or three guys that were in the car business both in Florida one guy worked for Hyundai and the other guy for um some other car company both stop working on Shabbat both still have jobs and both are doing actually better after not working on Shabbat it took a little negotiation with the bosses it took a little talk it took a little commands it took a little guts but they did it they stood up to the test they told them listen I'm not coming in you want to fire me fire me you don't want to fire me don't fire me but I'm not coming in Hashem saw they serious and not only do they have jobs but they actually ended up doing really well after so you have to sometimes you have to do something like that you have to show Hashem you're serious by putting everything on a line showing him listen hhm I believe in you okay I need to keep Shabbat this what I'm going to do on the other hand when it comes to inter marriage it's a little more difficult and the reason why it's more difficult with inter marriage is because it's not up to you it's up to the other person now inter marriage is an issue where you have to decide number one are you happy if you're not happy get divorced you don't need my help if you're ha if you're not happy if you're miserable get divorced why you still married you're not going to ruin the statistics they're already 80% there's already an 80% divorce rate in the world make it 81 enjoy if you're not happy why why you married money money's paper means nothing if you're not Happ if you are happy because this person is wonderful and he or she was with you through thick and thin used to be sick like I used to be and she was there for you used to be uh I don't know had so many problems and she was there for you or he was there for you then you have to decide how much do you love this person if you love them like a lot if you love them a lot then it's your obligation to show them the truth your obligation to show them that the truth is not what they believe in and the reason why is because if you fail if you fail to show them the truth it's not just a punishment on you if you fail to show them the truth you're both going to be punished for eternity you'll be punished for going against the breit ofu as a Jew if you're let's say a male you'll go as a uh as a sinner against abah ainu which means that abah ainu will not be able to save youm will completely send you out you'll be excluded out of the nation all types of other punishment is not the time to talk about but her on the other hand if she's not Jewish she's committing murder and the reason why is because when someone is not Jewish there's no other religion there's no like Christianity is not a religion Christianity is idol worship Islam is not a religion it's just heresy uh Buddhism is not a religion it's just idol worship there's either Judaism or there's no hide meaning that you follow the seven laws of Noah and the Seven laws of Noah are seven logical mitv they're all logical they're all things that you don't even need the Torah to know that you need to do them don't murder uh have a court system don't eat an animal while still alive okay you want to eat the horse enjoy the horse just kill him first it's not nice to you know have the guy walking with three legs you know have some mercy I'm serious have some mercy some of these people eat animals while they're still alive if you go to if you see videos or you uh have a kapar you actually have to go to China um and uh you see how they eat over there I mean they literally eat everything that moves while it's still moving I'll give you guys a joke why did I kind of ruined the joke though but why did hem why did hem not make Adam Chinese because they would have eaten the steak and ruined the whole story so the thing is though is that you see sometimes these go have no mercy and they eat animals while they're still alive so hasem wants you to have mercy why you're you're you're a son or a daughter of the king you have to have mercy no mercy you're a mercenary so you have seven mitzvot seven logical mitzvot one of them is do not murder now do not murder doesn't only mean don't kill somebody do not murder also means don't kill their soul not just their body now when a non-jewish woman is with a Jewish man she's killing him in sh she's considered 100% a murderer which means there's no geden ever so if a man that's Jewish is with a woman and he's not leaving her I'm telling you're not allowed to be together don't ever think hey RAB youron said it's uh you know you're allowed to be with her not allowed to be with her but if you're not going to leave anyway like I wasn't going to leave there's and there reality there and there reality if somebody would have told me listen leave your wife when I was still before everything I would tell them you leave why she's the only one that was with me when I was bleeding out of every part of my body she's the only one that was nursing my wound she's the only one that stuck around where were you so I wasn't leaving I wasn't leaving but at the same token I knew I couldn't continue living I couldn't continue living like that so I have to find out is Christianity real or is Judaism real when I found out and confirmed that Christianity is 100% false it's a complete fairy tale it's complete nonsense it has so many mistakes in it that anyone that investigates it for more than just a few minutes knows that it's complete falsehood there's errors in it beyond belief to such an extent that there's literally errors in every single page in the New Testament every page no exception there's over 100,000 letters in the New Testament in comparison to the Old Testament to the Torah that has 304,000 letters so it's a third of the size yet the Torah has only one version there's a single version of the Torah in all over the world there's a single Version New Testament has over 200,000 versions 200,000 versions what I mean 200,000 versions if let's say for example we write a book and I misspell one word I take one word let's say uh instead of that I useth I change a word instead of that it's thee instead of t h a t i put t e it's officially a new book it may say the same story but I changed the word it's a different book technically now after 2,000 years it's more than just the it's to such an extent that the New Testament has versions that have completely different verses completely different names completely different stories even in some cases it's significantly different it's 200,000 versions of them now the most common version is called the King James Bible and even that one has human errors that are childish I'll give you an example that's my personal favorite they have a uh their translating obviously parts of the Tor and the Tor in nine places in the Tor has a animal called is was a giant animal no smaller than a dinosaur but it was it looked like a combination of a bull and a deer look combination of a bull and a deer when is huge in inm says that uh David was with his sheep climbing a mountain and he only and he actually realized that he's climbing a r it a huge huge animal anyway this mythical mystical animal this huge animal existed 3,000 years ago it's obviously no longer around but the point being is is that everyone knows in the T anyone that learns to knows what is the New Testament translated the word to instead of some I don't new word or I don't know a um a deer or a bull or something similar it translated to a unicorn a unicorn is a mythical character made by cartoonists for child stories was a horse that has wings on it and a horn on his head but it's it's it's purely for like it's fictional Tales it's not like a real like no one actually believes that unicorns ever existed so this is like one of the translations it's a complete joke on other hand last you know this week's we're going to learn that came down to Egypt with 70 Souls 70 people it's mentioned in the Torah no less than three times three times it says that Yu came down to Egypt with 70 people 70 souls and New Testament it says 75 meaning that Hashem forgot five people in essence what they're saying is that the god of the Tor somehow forgot five people if the god of the T forgot five people it's not Tor you understand so this is a numerical uh issue another problem is also you remember a couple of weeks ago we had said that and they have the wrong address in the New Testament to difference they have it they have it in the wrong in the um nais instead of meaning they have it in the wrong City they have it listed in the wrong City meaning this is something you can prove right now you look at the New Testament you see where they have in the New Testament where the you actually go to because it still exists you go there you deal with a few terrorists that run the place but you go there you see see hey it's the wrong City so this is not like a difficult proof this is not a theory this is not like my opinion this is like this is archaeological proof you could prove now and there's countless other ones that are out there I made a whole sh about uh disproving the New Testament obviously ra mrai made a a very famous debate uh about disproving the the New Testament the point I'm trying to make to you is that there are several major resources ra mrai Rabbi tovia singer rabbi skull back Myers perhaps that are extraordinary extraordinary resources for you to give to anyone you love even if you're not if not if it's not your spouse even if it's just your friend even if it's just I don't know somebody you know you care about them give them this stuff and tell them listen I'm not going to say anything check for yourself you're you're after the truth you believe JC Penney is here to save you whatever just in case you're wrong in case you're wrong you got to double check right well double check your book you have a new testament that's what you believe in right you believe in New Testament so that means if there's a mistake in the New Testament you have a problem because if the New Testament says that JC Penny is going to save you and then you find out New Testament is fake it's fake somebody wrote it some I know somebody created it it's like Harry Potter nothing changed like it's it's not a real book that means JC Penny is not saving you doesn't matter how many times you say JC Penny doesn't make a difference you could believe in him you could pray to him doesn't make a difference if he's fake he's not going to save you doesn't exist or he's in G like the Jews say either way you're in trouble so if you love this person show them you give them these resources if you want come to me I I'll bring you all these sources and you could help them identify the truth and the reason why you would do this is for two things number one if you love the person you should at the very least try to help them because the way that they're going even if they're not with with you they're in serious serious trouble you're not allowed to be an idol worshiper regardless of whether you're a Jew or a gentile on the other hand if they are with you you're also saving yourself since you're not going to leave them anyway might as well save them and live a kosher life this is not Judaism 101 this is just reality 101 Judaism 101 you're supposed to leave them tomorrow that's Judaism that's what you're supposed to do but you're not going to listen I didn't listen but there's another way you could give them a chance you could try to help them if they still if they still don't want to leave you're going to have to leave on your own but that's going to be easier and the reason why is because no one wants to be with a crazy person if you show somebody that the sky is blue you show them eyewitnesses they all poin to the sky hey it's blue it's blue it's blue it's blue everyone says the sky is blue it's like no no no I think it's green doesn't matter who they are even if you love them and everything else as soon as they're one in a million that say it's green you don't want to be with that person why cuz they're crazy once you've confirmed the truth you found out the truth you show them the truth if they still after that don't want to do it the choice is easier it's easier to leave why because now you're not leaving the person you loved now you're leaving a mental patient so one way or another it's good next next question insting people's intelligence in general with the Unicorn or with everything unn with everything stay the same nothing changed everything say the same so they just keep going on people basically it's not I mean no no one no one's caught on to it other than the Jews so it's not a uh and anyone that caught onto it leaves well I mean everybody knows basic geography knows that you have to okay let I'm going to ask you guys a question I'm going to ask you guys a question I don't mean to insult anyone here and I don't mean to embarrass anyone here but this is a very serious question before we judge others we have to look in the mirror right okay how many of us by a show of hands read the entire tanak 24 books entire tanak from beginning to end once with commentary okay next question how many of us read it without commentary next question how many of us read the five books of Moses once okay you see the point I'm trying to make here we're obligated to read the toah and not necessarily all of us read all of it they are not obligated to read anything so if they didn't read it we can't necessarily hold it against them most of them are falling for the falsehood not because they're stupid not because they're mean not because they're bad not because of any other reason other than the fact that they just didn't read it they trust the leaders they trust the reverends and the priests and whoever is leading just like unfortunately some of us trust leaders that are fake leaders so if the guy says that so and so died and he here to save me if it doesn't obligate me why should I not believe it if it doesn't obligate me to change and you're telling me that as long as I believe some idiot died 2,000 years ago I don't have to do anything why should I not believe it if anything where where do I write make the check payable to he just Justified all of my sins I could be I'm Hitler ham and theet are all in once and I'm still okay if I believe in their belief so it's it's it's judging them for believing it is wrong simply because they didn't read it just like we didn't sometimes and we're obligated to read it on the other hand they're still going to get punished for it just like we would get punished for it and the reason why is because ignorance does not disolve you from crime if let's say for example somebody sped went 150 M an hour on the highway and the cop pulled them over and the cop says okay you're under arrest because you're a psychopath and you drove 150 miles per hour tell wait I didn't know what do you mean you didn't know I didn't know there's a speed limit here you're still under arrest but you didn't know doesn't make a difference the fact that you didn't know doesn't make a difference it's your obligation to know it's not their obligation to teach you just like you spend time to learn about your business because you want to make money because money was important to you you have to spend time to learn the law because the law needs to be important to you even more so the purpose of life you can't go up to sh and say I didn't know I didn't know doesn't work that's why there's a mishna part of the oral Torah specifically says someone who makes a sin accident L accidentally because you didn't know if the accident is a result of lack of knowledge in sh they count it as a purposeful sin meaning if you didn't know because you just didn't get to it yet you're studying TOA every day but you didn't get to that particular that it's considered shog meaning an accidental sin but if you didn't know because you just didn't feel like studying you wanted to watch the game instead you wanted to have a couple of beers with the guys play a couple of uh hands of Texas hold them instead you wanted to watch the stock market instead you want to go out with your girlfriend instead you wanted to go play with your kids little games instead and you never got to learn you just never had time ever to learn they said that sin is a purposeful sin why because you purposefully didn't learn you purposefully didn't learn meaning that in sham they consider as if you you did it on purpose there's no accidents why because you're obligated to learn just like you're obligated to learn your job you go to job whatever job you have you can't tell them Hey listen I didn't make any sales this year why didn't you make any sales you I didn't know okay you're fired no but I didn't know you're supposed to know that's what we pay you we pay you to know I didn't know I didn't know how had to make sales okay so you're fired you're too stupid to work here too because you didn't know that you're supposed to know you say you can't that that excuse doesn't work in this world why do you think it's going to work with the King of Kings you cannot know you can't just come here and be a cow I didn't know even the cow knows that they're supposed to do something you can't just not know it's it's not oh I didn't know I was supposed to what do you mean you know so if Hashem put you in such a circumstance where you really had no ability to know meaning you were born in uh the Greenland where your next door neighbor was the polar bear then you're not judged why because you're a polar bear but if you were born in the world especially the Western world where there's pretty much a Jew in every single corner you can't say I don't know I don't know what Judaism is everyone knows what Judaism is even the anti-semites know what Judaism is everyone knows what Judaism is everyone knows it's something everyone knows is a seventh day something I'll give you guys a I'll give you guys a trick question and this is something that I know for sure for sure is going to hopefully ring a bell everyone that's been to my shes before don't answer because you already know well if it didn't answer does anyone know what means or wasting seed know what it means I don't mean all the Deans and all the laws and everything else do you ever you ever heard of the term wasting seed or if You' ever heard it and you know in essence what it means practically raise your hand okay in essence everyone knows did you study it no but you know what it means though how do you know what it means if you never studied it because says it's in your mouth it's in your heart to do it the entire Tor you know you know the entire Torah you know everything you know you know all the laws you know everything everything was already already taught to you when you already in your mom's stomach everything you know if I tell you do you guys know what a uh the uh I don't know um the PE Ratio is most people are not going to know unless they invest in a stock market does anybody know what algorithmic trading is unless you invest in the stock market you're interested in finance you're not going to know what it means if I told you guys do you know know what the am Municipal bond is most people unless they invest in the market they don't know but tell you something even stranger I tell you do you know what wasting seed is everyone knows why but you never learned it you never learn about wasting seed if you look in the English language there's a total of six or seven hours worth of wasting seed lectures 75 or 80% of it is me and then two other rabbis it's almost unheard of in English language so how do you know it Contin Contin you you know what's right and wrong this is just a reminder these shim are just a reminder of what's right and wrong the shim are just a reminder of everything you already know it's no different than the Tony Robins it's no different than the zig Ziggler of the world Le this is Torah the difference is is that this obligates you the difference is is that you don't have to pay here but the big difference is that if you don't listen there's a consequence that's it that's the difference it's free but not really it's free but not really free you have to do something what else we finished all finished everybody knows everything else no come on come up with questions mention that everyone knows everyone knows before even I was that religious I just started I spoke to this guy in New York who just come out of jail MH tatto go not even Jewish we started joking about about hell about wasting said yeah if you Wast you go to hell said like what do you mean oh says I'm going to hell I've been in jail for two years okay even he knew what it was everyone knows what wasting seed means everyone knows why because naturally you know there something wrong with it naturally you know it's you're not it's not what you're supposed to be doing naturally you don't need to be a genius so the point is that you don't need to know what the consequences you don't need you already know there something wrong you don't need to know what Judaism is to know that there is something special about this nation there's something special about a nation that every major civilization has tried to destroy whether it's the Turks or the Germans or the Romans or the Greeks or the uh whoever else came in between after before whoever it is the Babylonians everyone tried to destroy us yet they're all destroyed and we're still here you don't need to be a genius to know that that's the case anyone heard of a Roman living somewhere in the neighborhood anyone heard anyone heard of of anyone from uh you know from from Rome no Italians but they're not connected the Greeks are not connected to ancient Greece you know it's even the Nazis the of past not the same as the Nazis of today it's not the same all the major civilizations were destroyed the Babylonians does anybody even know what Babylon is it's Iraq ween heard of a Babylonian Babylonian talmud that's the only thing that has Babylon on it today you know so it's you don't have to be a genius to realize that the Jews are special the Jews are chosen the Jews have a special mission in the world you don't have to be a genius you don't have to be a genius to know that Jews live a different lifestyle than most now if you choose to go against it that's a different story that's Choice that's your free choice but there's something very interesting that Blazer said Shalom he was one of the major students of said in which is the first half of all the letters that were published from in the second chapter he says man Mankind in general naturally is scared of everything it's very easy for mankind to be scared they're scared of animals they're scared of bugs they're scared of inflation they're scared of economy they're scared of cockroaches they're scared of spiders they're scared of heights they're scared of uh the future they're scared of the past they're scared of what people think they're scared of what they see they're scared of what they don't see they're scared of Darkness they're scared of too much light they're scared of being sick they're scared of everything I mean what are they're not scared of is there anything we're not scared of we're scared of friends we're scared of not having friends we're scared of being popular or not popular we're scared of what people think and don't think we're scared of everything what are we not scared of there's only one thing we're not scared of naturally and that's God we're scared of everything everything naturally there's even certain fears that have become phobias like it's beyond fear it's fear Beyond a person's control where you even say the name of something and already scared of it so for example if you mention an elevator just mention an elevator somebody that's called claustrophobic that's scared of small spaces just the thought of an elevator make them uncomfortable if you even just say a certain a snake say the word snake to someone that has a phobia of snakes just saying the word snake makes them scared of makes them scared of snake they're looking somewhere and so on and so forth with everything else natural fears sometimes can become unnatural to such an extent but yet the only thing that we're not scared of naturally is God which really is the only thing we're supposed to be scared of why is that the answer my friends is is that that's the Perfection of the designer the designer decided and knew that if he made you afraid of him naturally if naturally you were afraid of him just like you're afraid of a cockroach just like you're afraid of the lion just like you're afraid of whatever else you're afraid of if you're afraid of him naturally then you would never ever sin if you afraid of naturally you would never do anything wrong therefore you have no free choice you'd always do the right thing then there's no point for you to come to the world you're an angel there's no struggle there's no battle there's no nothing you're afraid you realize what's above you you realize who's looking you look you realize writing you realize what's going to happen you're afraid of the Creator you're never going to go against them and if you go against him after being afraid of you're P You're crazy anyway so the point is is that he literally plucked out from your heart and the only way you could attain It Is by intellectually getting there you can intellectually get to now what is how valuable is that's his treasure meaning that he created the entire world for you to get to this goal for you to get to for you to get to a point of actually being afraid of him now I tried going over this verse last week but we forgot this verse that we say every it says Israel saw the great hand of hem Israel saw the great hand that Hashem inflicted upon Egypt and the people feared Hashem and they had faith in him and in Moses's servant so in essence this verse that we actually repeat in every day is an instruction set instruction set of how to get to the truth so first it says that am saw the hand of God meaning that saw that hasem is in control of everything he's in control of nature he is nature he destroyed the Egyptians he made them go into nothing he drowned them and let the Jews pass and so on and so forth he controlled everything meaning that finally paid attention to the hand of the Creator but as soon as they realized that everything comes from the Creator it immediately says everyone became scared as soon as they realized that everything is in the hands of Hashem they became scared why if everything is in the hands of hem why should I be scared because if you think about it it obligates us when you say you say a verse such as that you're in essence making hasem a king above you blessed is Hashem king of the world you are making Hashem a king of the world in essence you are testifying that Hashem is a king of the world right if he's king of the world that means he's King over you butovich said the most foolish thing in the world that people can do is make AEM king of the world except on themselves accept on me accept on me he's the king of the world except me he's king of you you you accept me if everyone would have said he's the king of the world except me he'd be king of no one so when you're saying that he's the king of the world he's the king of everything it obligates you it's a scary thing to think and the reason why is because that means he's in charge of everything that means that everything that I do I have to consider his opinion what does he think forget about what I think if you have a servant and you want to wake them up at 3 o00 in the morning and they tell you I'm tired the next word is you're fired you can't be tired when you're my servant why because you're my servant you're not allowed to be tired I pay you not to be tired if if you're a servant you have no opinion I didn't ask you what you think of me I ask you to do something so when Hashem is your king in essence that means that you're a servant if you're a servant that means you care about his opinion and only his opinion so when you say the king of the world in essence what you're saying he's the king of everyone including you so that obligates you and am as soon as am realize that this king of the world is our King also and he's the one that's his hand is the one that's running everything that obligates all of us why because each and every single one of us depends on him in every single moment of our life for example each one of us wants P page 16 and also page 16 one is a the other one is B it says the same exact thing in both bothar it says that decides what your is going to to be on until he decides what your p is going to be it doesn't matter whether you work on Shabbat or you don't work on Shabbat it doesn't matter if you work seven days a week or six days a week or three days a week or two days a week or no week it doesn't matter if you go to the K or you go to the insurance company it doesn't make a difference if you work for a garbage paale company or you work for a Q-tips uh you know company that sells it to hotel chains doesn't matter if you're a stock broker it doesn't matter if you're a president of the United States it makes no difference he decides how much you're going to make and from experience I can tell you there are rich and poor people on every profession I dealt with a lot of rich people in my life and I can tell you that people make millions of dollars from the strangest businesses in the world most people think that the rich people are lawyers or doctors or these famous types of uh popular type of professions the reality is that most really rich people make money from strange things things that most people don't want to go into whether it be garbage or it be different types of products that you use in your house in your in your in your uh in your kitchen or in your bathroom there's one guy that I had uh as a client he made I somewhere in the neighborh of maybe at least 150 to $250 million selling dog food dog food from ksas people love their more than love themselves irrelevant there's plenty of people that sell dog food and they're broke they're broke there's plenty of people that were in the stock market business just like me and they were broke meaning that your profession is irrelevant it's irrelevant AEM has to sign a check has to sign a check andar specifically says he signs the check ahead of time he signs a check ahead of time he decides you are going to make x amount of dollars this year you're gonna make 50,000 100,000 200 200,000 200 million whatever it is so somebody came to um the bmov one day and he says how are you he says how are you how's everything you know I have everything and the guy is a very pachute person he's carrying water that's his job he's just carrying water he makes his living He makes his couple hundred dollars a week and he says everything's okay so the B Shalom says the next day he sees the same guy carrying water it's still just as hot as it was the day before it's 900° the day before it's in Florida I'm sure in the story so it's in in it's 900 Dees then so it's hot over there it's hot over here he's carrying the water the heat hasn't changed the water hasn't changed it was Heavy yesterday it's heavy today says how are you life is so hard it's so hard this job is so hard the heat is so hard everything is so hard what happened yesterday was good today is bad but nothing changed the water is heavy it was Heavy yesterday the heat is there the heat was yesterday also nothing changed he's in the business for 20 years not a new job what happened the B says thank you sir thank you sadik for teaching me finally a CL in the T that I've been looking for for many years he I taught you something in t the famous B I taught you something in says yes what I teach it for says you know in the also these two books it says that hasm decides what your Pai is going to be and he judges you already on once he judges you but the mishna which came before the it's part of the oral Tora that the is based on says the same thing hasem decides what your p is going to be from but he Judes you every day so one says he judges you once a year and the other one says he judges you every day was well we have a difference of opinion we have two what happened here I always wondered why is he judging me every day if you already judged me you already decided you wrote a check $200 million finished say amen amen so he said so he said so he said he judged already on you already judged on I to wake you guys up money usually makes people wake so he judged on why you judgeing me every day what's what is he way of nothing to do Hashem says you Tau me Mr water you Tau me something what he judge says he teaches he tells us how much we're going to make but every day he decides how we're going to make it every day he decides how we're going to make it meaning sometimes you guys ever noticed that once in a while you wake up the sh you wake up in a bad mood nothing happened but you're already in a bad mood never happened to you it happened a few times to me a few times a few times it happened to me I woke up in the morning nothing happened I'm already mad at everyone nothing happened you see the wife you're already angry she didn't do anything me SC now she didn't do nothing you're already angry oh it's your fault what' she do nothing she just woke up that's what she did you're already angry you see the kid you want to beat up the kid the kid didn't do you're still sleeping you're already angry what you ever have something happen to you what happens when you go to sh when you go to sleep the in says that going to sleep is 160th of death it's 160th of death meaning you're partially dead that's why when you wake up you say telling hm thank you for bringing back my soul why because you're partially dead so your actually goes to sh and in sh there's no uh fakeness in sh they tell you exactly what happens you're telling them everything that happens there's no lying so in sh your soul goes tell goes and tells on your body goes to hem and says hem don't return me I don't want to go back down there the guy is he's stealing from his customers he looks at every woman that moves he looks at every he does this he's a rash don't bring me back look at me I was pure I was part of you created Man In His Image meaning the soul is partially a piece of hem so the soul is pure so the soul is telling hem hm don't return me to this impure body he's a sinner he doesn't learn Torah he doesn't do this he yells all the time he's angry he's this he's a thief don't return me Hashem hem says I have to return you have to go back but tell me first what he did and she tells on you he says you have to go back no I don't want to go and he forces the soul to go back now before he forces the soul to go back he finds out the news of what you did not that he didn't know obviously but somebody told on you on the body part of you and he says okay so I decided in r that he's gonna make $100,000 but because he did this this and this tomorrow he's gonna make is 500 bucks he's gonna make the 500 bucks he's supposed to make but he's goingon to make it with the worst customer in the world the customer is going to annoy him for at least six months over the $500 do you ever have those customers it's a customer from G he came out of G and he come T you just have the custom you rather not have the $500 so yeah you good from The Nightmare says okay I'm going to give him the $500 but I'm going to give it to him in a tough way or sometimes Shem says okay tomorrow he's gonna lose his job tomorrow's gonna lose his job yeah but you said you're gonna give him $100,000 he's going to get the $100,000 how is he going to get the $100,000 without a job because after he gets really upset that he got fired from the job he's going to speed on the highway and after he speeds on the highway he's going to get into a car accident and from the car accident he's going to win $100,000 so he's going to get the $100,000 just from an accident still of a job now your soul gets the news it doesn't like the news the soul knows you wake up in the morning it tells the body the body's the body is upset already in the morning he's upset why is he upset he find out today's going to be a bad day today is going to be a bad day today's going to be a bad day why the solders told me today I'm going to get my head handed to me so what's a smart person do what does a smart person do a smart person says okay I got bad news for what I did yesterday let me at least not have one tomorrow either let me do Chua today I didn't go to sh yesterday I'm gonna go sh today I didn't learn yesterday I'm gonna learned today I didn't give s yesterday I'm gonna give s I'm gonna I'm gonna turn things around I can't continue I can't continue this vicious cycle of having a bad day after a bad day after a bad day every day it's not happen stand it's not just happening for no reason there a reason of why all this is happening it's a reason why I'm waking up upset at the little three-year-old kid he doesn't even know how to talk yet I'm upset at him because he's crying what do you want him to do give you a calculation of what the stock market report is he's three what do you want him to do he's three he's crying what else do you want him to do that's what they do at three what else is he going to do but we're upset we're upset at the wife she just woke up M what are you upset about oh the coffee wasn't made yet okay so make it for yourself well your hands are broke you understand so we're already upset not because of her not because of him we're upset because of us we're upset because of us because we got bad news why do we get bad news because of us because of us we got bad news we did something wrong and that's hard to admit so now when you realize that when you go to sleep you're going to meet your maker when you realize that every single day that maker is giving youa when you realize that when you're married to a non-jew everything is on the line gives you a certain amount of time to fix yourself if you don't in actually Proverbs specifically says you want to lose everything you have the houses the cars the millions the everything go with a excuse me go with a non-jew you're bound to lose everything you have the houses the cars the kids everything you have you want to continue I'm gonna give you time I'm gonna give you a year two years three years four years how much you going to play with fire it's like Russian Roulette eventually the bullet Works how much you gonna wait how much so for anyone that thinks it doesn't work it works I don't know how much money anyone else here has but $20 million is plenty of money if I can lose $20 million everybody could lose whatever they have and I did because the only way I did CH is that way do you understand it's the greatest thing that ever happened to me but reason why it's great is because I see it from this perspective now you don't have to go through the same thing you can learn without going to the same tun that's a smart person a smart person learns after he gets rebuked learns okay if I continue being a Shabbat I have a problem if I continue going out with a non-jew I have a problem if I continue going against AEM I have a problem if I continue waking up every single morning and every day I'm in a bad mood he's telling me I have a problem if every day I'm in a bad mood I have a problem it's time for me to listen it's time for me to change and if I'm working to such an extent that I have no life I also have a problem why because I didn't come to this work to be a cow I came to this world to serve hem so when realized that is running the world they feared him they feared him because they knew that everything depends on him the cells in your body that decide whether they're going to work or not work depend on him also each one of us have something called a DNA everyone heard what A DNA is yeah okay DNA is an Essence like a book of instructions that tells your body how to survive how to create certain cells how to continue operating if you took all the instructions in essence all of the words that are on a DNA even though it's only four characters and you stretched it out across it would reach from here until the outside of our galaxy beyond the sun beyond the planets Beyond everything outside the planet that's how many characters are in a single DNA and all that is in a single DN and you have plenty of them all of that didn't come from nothing it didn't come from an axd didn't come from a monkey it didn't come from just a happen stance you have an instruction set if one of these DNA decides that you know what I don't feel like working even more so not the whole DNA just one of the proteins you have a protein you have trillions and trillions of proteins in your body every time you eat meat you have proteins different food has proteins each one of these proteins has to fold it has to fold in a very precise way just like you would fold a paper they have to fold now if sometimes you fold the paper pretty quickly you're not crumbling it but you're folding it quickly it doesn't go straight it's like a little bit to the right now in this world you do it it's not really a big deal with the protein if the protein doesn't fold exactly like it's supposed to that's when someone loses the ability to do something ability to see ability to breathe ability to walk ability to do something one protein and you have trillions of them every one of them has to fold exactly precisely in a single way there's no two ways there's no oh it's okay you're still okay you're still in we still like you they have to be precise that also depends on the Creator and as many many other the scientific proofs of how many things you depend on this Creator knew from this verse the hand of the Creator and they feared him and after they feared him after they feared him it says after they feared him it says they believed in him meaning that only after we fear hasem then we can say oh we believe in God and the reason why is because you can't believe in something that you don't know what it is once you know that is in control of everything he's in control of your marriage he's in control of your kids he's in control of your P he's control of your future he's inol control of everything once you realize it's in control of everything you have to be scared if you're not scared you're scared you're you're scary you're crazy if you're not scared when you realize that he's in control of everything you're still not scared there's something wrong with you so that's when we believe in hem that's because we know that he's in control of everything and once we believe in Hashem It also says we we believe in M meaning all of the people that are pushing people to see the truth to do Chua to fix ourselves because if we don't do Chua there's no point now each one of us came here for a certain reason Hashem sent every one of us here for a reason some people need to he to hear about some people need to hear about inter marriage some people need to hear about Shabbat some people need to hear something different whatever everyone everyone here is here for a reason it's not a happen stand it's not a coincidence it's not because you had nothing else to do today and you want to you know burn two hours there's a reason of why you're here if you're here that means that both of us had to hear it that means what all of us have to change all of us have to do something now we're not all going to become mosu we're not all going to become Perfect by tomorrow but that's not what is asking us to do only asked us to change once we hear something that actually hits home and what you want to make sure to do is that you're not one of these people that the book of Isaiah writes that they said a lot of wonderful things lip service they paid lip service they said a lot of wonderful things about me all these nice things they said nice things about me they said I love you hem they sang songs you know whoever believes is Never Scared you all these nice things they said about me they say blessing they go to they go to onat they do all these nice things they give me honor in their lips but their hearts far from me the hearts have no connection to me inside empty Hollow like a tree that died inside why they heard the truth and they didn't change they heard they have to change they heard they have to change something they have to fix their Mido they have to start learning toah they have to get married they have to do something something you came here for a reason you didn't come here to be entertained you didn't pay a fee you didn't have to do anything you just had to come here sit and listen that means hasem sent you here for for a reason you lived in this world for 20 30 50 60 70 years however long you've lived in this world Hashem sent you he picked one day in your life to come here today it's not for no reason it's not for not a coincidence you can say you love hem as much as you want you can say as much as you want but if the heart is still far from him it's all worthless any more questions yeah we can go in the front same price oh say know it's a to put down license for people to curse or use curse words um just freely okay so the question is are we allowed to curse at a now thear specifically says in regards to cursing because you are the son of of the king of kings in essence you're considered a prince or if you're the daughter of the king of kings you're considered a princess means that everything that comes out of your mouth is significant if a joeo says something nobody needs to listen to them who are they some homeless guy some bomb some drunk some uh alcoholic some uh guy that uh you know just uh doesn't know his right from left says something no one really has to listen to them because maybe they're crazy who knows but if the prince says something okay we should listen it doesn't even matter if we agree or not we should listen now when a Jew says something it's significant not only significant for what it creates what words come out of your mouth what they create they create Angels or demons they create certain worlds and so on and so forth a lot of mystical parts of the Tora but in essence they create an impact just logically psychologically they create an impact there's some type of image that's created in the minds of people as a result of your words people see you talk and they think of something so if they see you talk and you talk like a truck driver or you talk like someone that just lost their house on a poker table or you talk like you uh you know you're you just you you work at a garbage pale everyone's going to think oh Jewish people are a garbage pale Jewish people are truck drivers Jewish people don't know how to talk why because words that curses came out of your mouth it's not good so first and foremost it could lead to something called which is the wor sin in Judaism meaning desecrating hashem's name instead of sanctifying his name you desecrated his name so that's one you you in essence misrepresented the honor ofm instead of honoring him you Dishonored him that's one two even worse is the specifically says someone that was given a blessing on decided I'm gonna give him and I give him a lot of money and all the shef all the great things in the world for 70 years seven years worth not just for this year I'm going to give him good things for seven 70 years one curse word can turn everything around and cancel it all out one curse word just saying the f word once regardless of what the issue is regardless of whether it's against idol worship or against your husband or your wife or whoever else now that's also one thing that all the guys need to know if they're not married one of the reasons why you should never marry a woman that's immodest is because of of cursing and the reason why is you'll notice I heard this from laii say statistically is something that makes all the sense in the world but no sense at the same time and what is it every time you see a woman that's not modest always M an abnormal number an abnormally High number you'll see that the woman that's not modest has a filthy mouth she curses a lot doesn't necessarily mean she curses every two seconds but she has a filthy mouth says don't marry her because she'll curse your mother she'll curse your father she'll curse you as soon as you get on her nerves she'll tell you how she really feels with some extra adjectives so the r says what does one thing have to do with the other what is the fact that she doesn't know how to wear clothes to cover her body have to do with a filthy mouth what do one thing have to do with the other what does one thing you have to do with the other how could not wearing modest clothes have to do with a mouth IM modesty has to do with shame when Adam and ate from the Tree of knowledge immediately it says the next verse and they were ashamed they were ashamed why were they ashamed because they realized they were naked so when a woman walks around half naked or nearly almost naked in essence she's lost that sense of Shame once she lost that sense of Shame there's no protection that you know that puts a line between anything else including what comes out of her mouth so if your girlfriend doesn't know how to wear clothes either teach her how to wear clothes or find an actual modest girl same goes with PE with guys if guys want to make sure that they lose every single penny that they make every single blessing that they make we're not even talking about not wasting seed or wasting or or or violating Shabbat just continue cursing continue cursing like you just came out of some garbage pale you lose all the shef that hasm wants to give you why because every single time you're cursing you're desecrating his name every single time you're cursing you're you're misrepresenting where you're supposed to be you say something nasty like inappropriate doesn't have to be a curse well something specifically that's you know it's obviously inappropriate yes inappropriate but it's not a uh inappropriate by Def you know by uh a certain perspective it's inappropriate by all perspectives because inappropriate to certain people would you know is not really inappropriate next man have questions we know everything else I'm sure as soon as I turn off the camera there's a million and a half other questions new from the women's side I'm sure you guys you guys finished the whole tah already over there you're Qui the whole time Qui the whole time good s coach you know they know everything already it finished all the in the shabat how do we this how do we how do we that everything else we know watch pretend like I'm going to turn off the camera there's going to be 500 questions I have to stay for another three hours he probably has some question you have some questions what are you learning this week little boy knows more than most of us to his parents teach the kids gave all of us a chance to be here gave all of us a chance to do CH uh but again it all starts with how we started this sh the way that someone can confirm that they're smart is by listening to to listen to a rebuke to listen to some type of thing that makes them obligate themselves to change change something if it's modesty if it's if it's if it's generosity if it's Shabbat if it's into marriage if it's whatever something has to change something has to change no one's perfect there's no such thing as a perfect person that doesn't sin there also there's no such thing everyone has to do something if you didn't have to do something then Hashem wouldn't have you in this world you just be just be in still here that means there's still work to do and that's one of the things that is the biggest poison in the Jewish world today is that a lot of people are Comfortably Numb meaning there used to be a song by Pink Floyd or anti-semites by the way but uh at least one of them is um so there's a uh song and it's called comfortably Nam more there the lyrics in it comfortably n unfortunately I see this a lot in in the religious world the uh gar says that the Satan enjoys torturing the religious people much more than the non-religious people he benefits much more from the religious than the non-religious meaning it's better for him to make one religious guy keep Shabbat five minutes less eat something that's not Kosher look at the girl that's not his wife be inappropriate cheat this that it's better for him to get a religious guy to fall on something than 10,000 non-religious 10,000 non-religious why it's the price possession why because the non-religious are already doing a job for him they're already doing a job for him they don't know what to you know Unfortunately they don't know the truth yet they don't know what to change they don't know what to do yet they haven't given the instructions yet no one has ever told them yet so they're already they're they're already working there the religious guy is pretending like he knows and he starts falling why does why does a religious guy fall why is it sometimes that when I used to go to the casino forgive me when I was secular and I used to see black and whites in the casino religious guys in the casino and I would justify me being not religious by them being there not excuse me by me doing anything by them being there it would justify me being there why why is it that to a secular mind that makes all the sense in the world because in essence they're by that clothing the way they look the way they're supposed to behave they're in essence representing Hashem so in my eyes if they're representing hm I'm also representing h on the same table I'm even a better player you know like it's just you yet works on you but how does it get to that point how does somebody that's soall religious get to such a point that he does such a big such a desecration of aem's name where he goes to a casino or some other place that he's not allowed to go to or he does something that he's not allowed to he cheats and he lies and he does this and he does that how does it get to that point they get to that point because they get Comfortably Numb they start doing MIT they get used to the mitv but the mitv become you know mundane they become like habits they go to the because that's where you go to pray they pray because that's what you do once you're in a beet they say words because that's what happens when you pray they have noav whatsoever they have no intention whatsoever and they don't really care what they're saying and sometimes they forget that they said it sometimes you'll see a religious person repeat the same blessing a couple of times because he forgot that he said it already because the first and second time he said it he didn't see he just said it out of reflex same concept with other mitv we get desensitized we get to a point where we're so accustomed to all the mitv that they've become one with us and that's one of the biggest poisons you can have because little by little they lose their value they lose their meaning and little by little you get to a point where you're no different than the guy that doesn't know anything he actually at least has an excuse so the issue that we have today is not just with the secular world the issue that we have today is also with the religious world and there's a lot of questions that people have that get them to have certain doubts whether it's what happened before this world or what's happening now or why the wicked huh or why some people that are righteous suffer and wicked prosper and so on and so forth people have questions the beauty of lectures like this is that you have an opportunity to get answers for those questions every one of your questions has an answer the questions that don't have the questions that don't have answers you're not going to ask anyway lecture like this is for you to get all your questions answered because if if your question is really important to such an extent that it's causing you to believe in hem a little less to doubt AEM a little more to serve AEM a little less to do less if you have a question that's making you doubt certain things then get an answer to that question if it's that important then get an answer if you're not really looking for an answer then it's just an excuse if you're not if you're not if you're not actively looking for an answer for that question that's causing you to doubt AEM for that question that's causing you to question AEM for that question that's causing you to not keep something then in reality if you're not looking for an answer then it's just an excuse it's an excuse that you're using to justify your sins and really all it means is that you're spiritually lazy you don't feel like doing it bottom line just don't feel like doing it you may believe in Hashem you just don't feel like doing it but don't feel like doing it means that you don't know the consequence of what that means not to do it you don't know enough and we're not going to go over it today but there are some scary things that it says in the Tah of what happens when we don't do it what happens in this world what happens in the next World and so on and so forth we'll leave that to another sh or that today but the point I'm trying to tell you guys is there's really only two reasons of why you're not going to do what hasem says either because you don't know anything which hopefully by now you know something at least what I said today if you came here as a complete sheet of paper blank sheet of paper at least you have some knowledge now some so at least you know something or two because you don't believe so the next question should be up to you what's causing you to continue violating Shabbat what's what's causing you to continue being inter married what's causing you to continue doing whatever sin that you know inside your heart you're continuing to do right now every single one of us myself included knows there something that you're failing at every one of us let's not pretend we're all mhu here every one of of us can look deep down inside no I'm failing miserably not just a little bit if it's a little bit you don't need to sh go home you start do but every single one of us that's looking at a virtual mirror knows that right now I'm failing miserably miserably in at least one thing why why is it because I don't believe I'm going to get punished for it is it because I don't care for the punishment is it because uh what why why why are you feeling why but why do you continue falling for it hopefully you stop falling for that and you start working right but how no but there certain thing no there that's common will never be a time perfect always be missing we're not talking see you guys are finally after three hours of hitting home uh you guys are steering the conversation in the wrong direction I'm telling you each one of you that you have something that's wrong and you're saying yeah there yeah everyone's okay yeah we're not going to be perfect I didn't say perfect I said there's one thing one I didn't say all your flaws or all my flaws if we do that the world would end and we still wouldn't have enough time to list all of them and that's just talking about me I'm talking about every one of us has one thing one one thing me I have more than one thing but you guys are one thing that you're failing out miserably Shabbat into marriage stinginess anger you look at every woman that walks you don't know how to be modest you're a liar you're a gremlin what every one of us says something something something one one thing not me more than one you guys one or maybe combined one I don't know one sikim fine one thing why is it because you don't believe or you don't know the consequence that's what you have to ask yourself if I believe if I believe that it's not allowed to look at every girl that walks and I still do it that means I don't know what the consequences are so I should I should read there a book called read it it tells you the consequences talks about the consequence you don't even need to come to just go to that you become talks about consequences you're scared for the rest of your life if it's a and you don't believe that it's significant I'll show you verses in the Torah where it says this is a covenant between me and you not me and the go me and you meaning AEM and forever not for the time M was alive and there's many many other verses that talks about Shabbat there's 12 places in the tah in the five books of Moses where it says that Shabbat is the worst possible sin you can make places so if you're doing it if you don't know that it's significant then let's show you that it is if you know that it's significant and you're still doing it then you probably just don't know how significant is or you just don't believe it but something is missing here you can't continuously make the same sin knowing there's something wrong with it maybe you just don't think there's anything wrong with it and that's why I find out a lot of people really have a saf everyone has some type of doubt they believe in God to a certain limit they believe in God to a certain point the point of Sho like this is to put that point to a test if the question how much do you believe in God if God told you jump off the mountain would you jump told you jump on a mountain no parachute would you jump if he told you jump off the mountain I'll catch you would you jump it's easy to say no we're not on the mountain I would say hello deps so the point I'm trying to make is that every one of us has certain level of belief but there's like there's that threshold there's that line there's that boundary when you work on your midot when you work on your character traits when you try to perfect your character traits we try to find out the real truth regardless of who said it regardless of who said it the real truth regardless of who said whether it's m or one of the whether it's the written Tor or the oral Tor or it's the rabbi it doesn't make a difference if a little mouse starts talking you says it's true doesn't matter that a rat said it it's true once you have the truth you have everything once you don't you have nothing so said you have the truth it's right here you have the truth you have the Torah if you still have questions ask away if you're not going to ask that means they're not really important go the last few weeks come relatively soon now be anybody left to say today you said maybe he's not coming so fast because there isn't anybody left to save now there is some obviously but it would be a disaster if he came now okay so but the thing is here's the question do we have any n that says even though we're coming so down getting so close to that proverbial 50th level of degradation and maybe we're at the 48 or 49 so the question is if he waits too long and we get to 50 we're finished right no actually specifically says that before mashia comes we're actually going to get to the 50th level and he's still going to save us we're going to get to a worst level than we did before me right so the thing is but if we wait to get that how close I mean do we knows that well every day every day I look at the world I think it can't get any worse than the next day it does so I don't really know how much worse we can get but the point is is that how much how bad the world is is irrelevant what's relevant is what we're doing about it if if we're worried about the whole world then we're never going to fix ourselves each one of us has to concentrate on ourselves each one of us has to fix ourselves in the world around us meaning our immediate Partners our spouses our children our friends our family our neighbors our community and little by little if we keep worrying about the whole world and everyone is secular and everyone's a liar and everyone's a cheater and everyone is this and everyone is that we're never going to change nothing's going to happen we should we become depressed and shoot ourselves because the world will always be predominantly against God that's just the world hem created it that way because most people are not going to chase after writes in um also in Proverbs that the only way that you could actually get is if you chase it like a treasure if you look for it like money and if you chase it like a treasure meaning that you can't just getat by simply reading a couple of books you can't getat by simply coming to a class or two you have to the only way you're going to get to is by actively chasing it by looking for it by looking for in everything by studying for it you know it it like seriously making it the number one most important thing in your world and it's not easy to get but once you get it you have everything you have connection to the Creator so most people think that is like a curse word so again what we need to do and where we are as a whole is not good but that doesn't mean that we have a right to give up because each one of us each one of us young or old is enough of a reason for Hashem to create the world all over again that's why hasem created the world with a single person he created Adam he didn't create Adam and at once he only created Adam first and the reason why he created Adam first is to remind us 5,778 years later that really the world was enough if it was just for a single person you're so amazing in the eyes of Hashem you're so amazing that it's enough for hem to create the entire world just for you to say Amen once am in am in somebody says kadish say Amen it's enough of a reason for hem to go through this whole Bagan cre the world the Stars the moon the Egypt the enemies the anti-semites the Kim theim all of the craziness just for you to say Amen one time it's enough of a reason for him I don't know it's for me doesn't sound like good but point for point is is that we can't do can't do the accounting of hem we have to do our own accounting we have enough problems most people are very very comfortable that if mashia showed up today today or tomorrow or next week they're going to be okay you know and that's a reality most people are dreaming and there was two major people that were giants what kind of giants each one of them no more Tor than the entire world today combined each one of them no more Tor than the entire world today combined says neither one of them has were both heads of SED each one of them knew 70 languages each one of them knew the entire to more than we could even comprehend how much they knew we can't even understand how much they knew forget about what they knew how much they knew we can't even understand neither one of them has neither one of them will ever see the sight of geden why they were positive they have geden they were positive they have so the point is that positivity comes from arrogance that arrogance comes from a bad place hhm doesn't want it that arrogance causes many many sins that arrogance causes a lot of and that's what a lot of people need to understand each one of us has a job to do if the light if the fire is still on you have work to do you have to work on your midot you have to work on every single thing that you do the Torah is g to help you get there but don't spend an overwhelming amount of time worrying about the World At Large because the world large you can't do much about you can do much about you and your family and your friends and your community you want to do something about am support K it's the only thing you can do yeah because that's is the [Music] many it's enough you are you it's enough so many people many you that I know they said don't and no so when you talk with the people about keep shabat and everything say I know but they still say and no that no see that's M that's that's tainting the tah tah says that world with hem loves you so much that it would have been enough would theoretically would have been enough for him to create the world just for you but he didn't theoretically would have been enough for him to create the Torah for you but he didn't though just a the theory it's a theoretically meaning imagine in reality he created many of us why because all of Israel is responsible one another we're all considered as part of a single body part of a single soul he created Adam and all of our souls comes from Adam meaning that we're all responsible for each other we can't be selfish with selfishness destroys us so it's a any anyone that says oh I'm just responsible for me and they want to be a je Jew alone they'll just be a heretic alone there's no such thing so each person has to has to worry about his brother and the reason why is because made it one of the says You must rebuke your brother but don't come to a way of sin by doing it meaning you have to tell them the truth but don't get to a point where the way that you're telling them the truth is making you a sinner meaning like what he was saying before don't start cursing him out hey you keep Shabbat that's not going to get him to keep Shabbat and that's also not going to get you to get the Mitzvah of him keeping Shabbat either or you doing anything else so there's a way to do things there's a way to do things the way you get people to do things bring them to Shure give them a CD send them a lecture there's a plenty of ways creative ways to do it and very cheap ways to do it today but you have to do something and the reason why is page 52 54 and 56 all three talk about different stories different things different of what happens when somebody does not rebuke his brother what happens when somebody does not rebuke his brother so it says was one of the to such an extent that the Mish mishna says that if you weigh all of theim all of the Giants and so on and so all of them on one hand and on the other one all of them one and on the other is bigger than all of them combined heard a rvah rabbi made a Mitzvah they said listen if you have a cow you have a cow you shouldn't put weights on the cow not on you you are not allowed to carry something obviously not to carry but even the cow is not allowed to carry something okay that's obvious but also if it's a beauty if it's an ornament if it's an ornament it's one thing if it's she's carrying it where it's like she's carrying a sack it's something else anyway he didn't really agree with the rabbis Rabbi said it he didn't really agree with him it says that that like I just said him next to everyone else he outweighs everyone else says violated one Shabbat shabat how could it be it's like saying mosu didn't like AEM or something that doesn't make any sense what do you mean you just said is bigger than everybody else he violate Shabbat how he violate Shabbat asks he says he violated chabat with his cow says what he had one cow was a multibillionaire his M his M every year was 120,000 cows M meaning that his income was 1.2 million cows every year that's his income that's how many new cows were born in his farm I did the math based on today's math he made a little over a billion dollars a year income he's bigger than most hedge fund managers extraordinary that was M was 120,000 cows so he said one cow what one how do you violate about one cow says it wasn't even his cow so whose cow is it it was a next door neighbor's cow one day he saw the cow carrying on Shabbat and he didn't say anything to his neighbor he didn't say anything to his neighbor so in sh they said you why kept Shabbat no the said you're not allowed to carry on Shabbat you saw your neighbors cow carrying on Shabbat you didn't say anything it's like you shabbat says oily o he did CH the rest of his life he fasted every day every night for over 20 years he fasted to the point where all of his teeth turned black for one Shabbat that's not even on his cow that's not even him himself it's her neighbor's cow you understand so the dean for not telling the truth to your brother sister neighbor or even fellow Jew that lives in the in neighborhood is extraordinary another one chabbat page 54 a also goes into b as well it says that why did hasem punish all of the rabbis why did he punish all the rabbis when he destroyed bet mikdash why did he destroy the rabbis first if they're rabbis they did all the mitv rash maybe even something else that we don't know about yet L six feet you know like that video one time somebody sent me a video of somebody with it reached the ceiling like R you guys heard about r r a they said he used to carry it on his shoulder I'm that's serious he used to carry it on his shoulders AOG what they need keep if they're the rabbis at the time of the bet mikdash they're bringing why punishing them first if anything you shouldn't punish them at all if anything you shouldn't punish them at all the in Shabbat you should look at it it says initially said put a tough a tough on all of the foreheads put a tough and all of the foreheads of those who went against me and punish them first but then he decided put a tough on all of them and punish those that are the rabbis first why why you punishing the rabbis the on their everything is good why you punishing them first the says something extraordinary it says in all of the Torah entire Torah 24 books of the tan never never once made a good made a decision to give us something good and change his mind meaning every time he decided to give us something good he gave it to us was every time he decided to do something bad a punishment sometimes he changes sometimes he decide not to do it for example he wanted to destroy us at Mount sunai after we worship an idol mosu begged them hasem says okay I'm not going to destroy them hasem decided to destroy us after we went with all the Goot with balak and Bam they sent us all their uh all their girls and the guy started going out with them you want to destroy all of am send us the plague when a Pinas came and killed Z in Cosby hasem stopped meaning a bad decree turn into a good one fine okay so we see that the bad ones sometimes didn't happen but the good ones the blessings every time hasem says I'm going to give you a blessing he gave it to us except once when in the bet mikdash in the bet mikash he said originally I'm not going to punish the rabbis why they kept koser everything they kep but then he said Not only am I punishing them I'm punishing them first meaning it went from corner to corner why this change first and last time in history why this change why he says because the came to me and says hem why you punishing all the secular people like their Idol worshippers they're Idol worshippers and their rabbis are Idol worshippers why you're punishing them in the book of Jeremiah says why why did hasem decide to destroy bet the mikdash everybody says oh murder murder Mur what murder what you think that everybody was a uh Mafia oh no it was a what do you think everybody just bought a a statue in uh in Chinatown $15 nobody realized doesn't work what's the real reason why shabbat shabb God is why he destroyed mdash he says they Idol worshippers and they're Idol worshippers meaning the secular is an idol worshipper it's an idol worshiper but the rabbi is also Idol worshiper why he didn't tell them he didn't tell him he saw him driving to sh on shab he didn't say nothing he's an idol worshipper first kill him first so people have no idea how significant if it is to not rebuke your brother now if you have the ability to speak clearly without getting mad without taking things personally speak but if you can't then bring someone that can if you can't bring someone that can give him a lecture of someone that can give him a CD of someone that can the point is you have to do something you can't play like you don't know you know hasem put it in front of you for a reason if the guy drove on Shabbat right in front of you that means he want hasm wants you to know that he drove on Shabbat if the guy is your friend but he's intermarriage then Hashem wants you to be the one that's a vehicle to help him if you're actually in the in the inter marriage yourself then Hashem wants you to bring the truth to this other person why CU you're either going to save her or save yourself save him or save yourself either you're going to realize that they're crazy and you shouldn't be with them or you're going to help them actually geta someone came toere and he said you know telling people the truth is a little difficult what if they don't want to hear it they want to hear it you want to tell them listen JC Penney is not real listen hasem wants you to keep Shabbat listen you should work on your character traits listen this listen that they don't want to hear it not everybody wants to hear it not everybody wants to hear it what if they don't want to hear it so says you keep trying goes no but they're going to get upset he says the says you have to try until they want to hit you till they want to hit you and some even say you should let them hit you once and then you P so what is it like gives a example he says imagine you have a roommate and your roommate says listen I worked all week I'm really tired I'm going to sleep I don't care who calls I don't care who knocks I don't care who wants anything for me don't wake me up I'm going to sleep you heard your friend's attitude not only do you not want to wake him up you want him to sleep forever with that kind of an attitude so you leave the house upset because your friend just told you off for absolutely no reason you get downstairs and you smell a little smoke you smell smoke you realize the building is going on fire your friend's still in there even though he has a mouth on him and you're not really happy with what he said he's still your friend you run upstairs and you wake up your friend and initially doesn't wake up so he throw some water in his face now once he wakes up and he sees that everything's on fire is he going to be upset at you he not noral he's not going to be upset of you why is he not going to be upset of you because you just saved his life because he realized that everything's on fire because if you would have just kept him sleeping he wouldn't have known until it was too late he says the person that hasn't done chuva 100% is still sleeping by the time you actually wake them up they're not going to be upset right now they're upset because they're still sleeping it doesn't make a difference you keep going you keep going you keep going till they wake up you have to wake them up you have to wake them up because without you waking them up they're doomed how can you live with with yourself like that how can you say oh I love this guy I love this girl and let them be doomed how that means you only love yourself you love your own comfort you only love you know you love yourself you don't to be inconvenienced so each one of us has an obligation you have some people around you you have some friends you have some family you have some colleagues you have some whatever you have to do something you have to do something if you can't do it bring someone that can you know through lectures CDs apps websites I mean there's a million and a half different ways where you can get the truth to people but again the key is to make sure that you actually do your end and never give up and most importantly you do your ch yourself can't just work on everybody else except you you can't just make AEM a king of the world except on you you can't be except you has to be king of you also so this will give us a little bit of a wakeup call we'll get some uh other questions if you guys have if not Pi him up I think got scared I said more questions you guys probably tired all of us will do all of us get closer to amen amen amen [Music] [Applause] [Music] he [Music]