Siyum Yevamos - Golders Green, London

[Music] before we go any further i just want to thank uh joel elias from the jle for putting together this entire event [Applause] one of my urban reviews from boko halita said that when it comes to technology we know the dangers that we face with it but there is no doubt he said that the rabona shalom enabled technology for us to be able to disseminate and to spread terror throughout the world and there is no question that uldaf have enabled all of us here columnist simon can to be able to do that and to actually put a face to a to a voice and to a name and to meet these people in person it's a big source and a cover goal to be able to host here tonight it's also a bit frat that we've got some of our jaylee tau medium who came with us to new york to the cia mashas here with us tonight and who have continued to learn daf after death and to be here in such a kosher and my mud and we thank ulda for bringing us all together oh you rabbi elephant i sat with him this morning and he told me that ou's mission is to bring cashers to as many yiddam around the world to make sure that what we put in our mouths is looked after as many hidden as possible and what uldap has done through their technology is to also make sure that what comes about our mouth the heavel pm the fact that we all learn together that also to make sure as many years can be reached it's a huge squash to be hosting here tonight and on that note i'd like to thank all the speakers who are coming and who are here but before i die angeli here tonight who has made a special effort to come away from the simran to be here and spend a few minutes with us it's a school school to have the ave bastion of london based in diane gerry schlitter [Music] um i'm sorry i don't know the names of the other members of staff and team who've come with and we say to you a very warm shalam alaikem we thank you for hosting i see him on yavamis here in london i can feel in the room i've sat here for 20 minutes and it's palpable the affinity the the khiba to the magic shia arav maisha elephant people are so excited that this person i've listened to for so many years i've actually met him i've actually said shalom i like him to him and um it is really very extremely special i've got a new taj in all death um i know rabbisha for many years uh in a different capacity through our mutual and joint casual initiatives we work together on a lot of issues and i marvel at the organization of the orthodox union castrus bichlal it's a magnificent organization in terms of their structure in terms of how their policies are thought through and who they're aiming for and how they manage the whole country and i wish a lot of brachavats locked going vita the khidosh that i understand today from all daf that everything emanates from the torah it's all deaf that's where it starts and that's where it finishes when we come to castro's when we come to policies and come to ideas where where is the coming from what is this this is all it's all daf everything is enough there's a famous story of rebecca wasserman when uh balboas came to see him and he said he needs business advice hey he's got to make a decision that's going to possibly change his whole future his career his business and he needs a nature when rebecca says no come come terrain come and he came and opened the gamora and he started saying five minutes ten minutes he was horrified over sugiya he says no rubber rubber no my my issue here is an issue in business that's what i need to speak to you about sir said leave me another three minutes i'll finish the sugar and mitsubishi desh to be able to impart and to be able to give you well rabbi said just let me share with you a very very brief vote where does the where is the mccoy that what makes a cm when one finishes a message so the matter says me nine sin see him the gomorrah shall torah i learned it from him got up in the morning instead of asking for riches and all the other things that is that he wants and he woke up in the morning and all of a sudden he understood what birds were saying he answered what trees were saying to one another so he threw a party he made us see him know that's a mccoy but he hadn't learned yet he hadn't learned yet so learn them exactly quickly learn it and then we can see him and then they see him straight away so one shot i've heard is that the very fact that someone's got sorry an ability to be able to learn torah that himself is a simcha and that deserves a seam that deserves a fleischer suit a person a reborn gives a person the uh the ability to understand learning at daft gomorrah your vomit whereabou says the very fact that one's able to learn it in a way one previously couldn't learn it that's a simcha and for that you have a him but perhaps another chat and with that i finish the ramban in akdama to the toro says of understanding what trees are whispering to one another of understanding what animal are saying to one another what was this was this this is something the reborn kelo implanted a chip yeah trump would say so a trip in america and all of a sudden he knew the whole of torah and that's that's what was says rambam no what happened was rebecca gave slaying muhammad a new dimension of satoru with this to call him he understood everything that was going in the world why because everything comes from the torah and for that he made a seal we rabbi saying when we make a see and perhaps we've got both elements when we make a cm if we finish [Music] once you've learned the gemara in your vomits when you're going to learn a similar gemara inksuba so a parallel increases you're going to understand it because you've learned the gemara and your vomits so the siem is because the massachusetts has given you the opportunity to understand the rest of the torah but it's also a seem it's also a simcha because what you've always had the masseters and you probably learned the mistakes in yeshiva but the fact you've had a new dimension of this torah that gives you an amkus and an amcos in havana satora is a different connection to ako desparco ultimately and for that we have a cm so my rabbis i am extremely honored to be associated with this kosher museum again i thank um arav maisha and the other arbonnian who've come that uh give prestige to our town this simcha that we can feel that everybody was nearness so many years from uh a claw kite in learning i understand that she is given with uh even and all the added things are put in and other things are not needed or kept out etc i'm told it's absolutely magnificent shia and my era for the ou has gone up as a result um it was it was pretty high where it was but it's all death by rabbi said hashem this khashev organization should go mikhail verhail foreign a big thank you to dyngeli for his divrei bracha and we now come to one of our international guest speakers who's flown in tonight says in tehillim himself in torah when he himself is of asura that is the ashrae me so to have the makhacham here from america who've disseminated torah and the director of uldach it's a big source and cover goal for us to ask ramoshashv to say a few words thank you robin morgan nice meeting you this morning for a few minutes and i got to learn that you're an american yeshiva grad just like me so i felt at home thank you very much for hosting like to thank joel i learned something this hasn't happened yet in the united states of america i think i had three five-minute zoo meetings with the director of operations here and you put together this event as they say here brilliant [Applause] and thank you to the shopkin ashley for being mushad us and the jle for hosting this event tonight ashley's been a town river elephant for 17 years and is the first time they've met oldav is dedicated in memory of mayor benjayim wakneen may the thousands of hours of torah learnt daily being ealer for his neshama and his host for his wonderful mishpacha our past human and this seam has also been dedicated by the goldberg family in memory of yitzchak isaac ben haravaliezer i've i've talked about him at different human he's somebody the doctor said he could live for five years and through 250 hospital visits he persevered and what's yet to do i live till 47. i always say it's a tremendous lesson for us the perseverance that's needed it will give ourselves enough credit for the perseverance that's needed to learn day after day after day especially in the staff like ivanka's wherever you deaf i have to admit publicly i was sitting with her by howard at the beginning of the vampires i said ibam is i think it's a little bit overblown and then i get there because i think okay i got that's the hard part and then you get to the next peric and you get to isha and it's again it's coming again we're we've made it almost to the end and everybody deserves a lot of credit for the perseverance i'd also like to mention we had a few people that sponsored here local rafi elephant and john greenwood in honor of the rabona mugif inspiring shurim on aldaf and yo strauss in memory of jakov then leia i also have to thank all the rabonan and the staff that came along with us from the ou it's very exciting to come visit london we're going to manchester i was waiting for that i wanted to hear i wanted here we'll send the feedback tomorrow night back to london okay howard who's the executive vice president of the ou the elephant who besides being daffy magazine is the ceo of ou kosher and mr brandorfer executive director of all the different torah projects that the ou is involved in usher tesser and jeremy chernikov who work behind the scenes i i stand within the front when you see my face but the apps don't happen without people like them and the developers and everything else gracie i should cry after them and i must mention i think he's one of the main reasons we're having to see him in town he just walked in rabbi simon taylor a london native who currently lives in the united states and as a colleague of mine at the ou and one of the initial ideas of making a cm here was from rep simon so yeah [Applause] many of you may be wondering why on earth would a bunch of americans on july 4th leave the united states of america and come back here at the united kingdom traitors traitors but someone was telling me if i listened closely there might be a few people shooting off fireworks like the americans are hiding underground and the answer is i mentioned ashley before the first time i met ashley in person and i feel it's important to mention this story ashley emailed me and said he has a friend who's also autonomous elephant who's very very very sick could we arrange a zoom meeting for this talmud tamira elephant and we arranged the zoo meeting i think we spoke for around half an hour and this person passed away two weeks later so we want to dedicate this evening as a host ben shmuel and we've kept up since then and i have to thank ashley for taking us around today no we didn't go to the big ben tower on another mccaiman segregation we have to come back for that survey morgan said that i'm one of the international guest speakers i'm not one of the guest speakers i'm just here taking care of all the technical work but one one short variety before i turn it over finished putting up the mishkan and then i see him started the imac of the cabanas and rashi brings the famous khazal that in that word of kehalois is the remnants that claudius role was safer asks on the pasek rahib samiska and moshe actually finished putting up the mishkan he brings famous khazal rashii impressions the kudai brings it the maestro rabbino didn't put up the mishkan maestro rabbenu first claudius royal tried they weren't able to put it up a tried and he wasn't able to put it up and hashem you do the asic you do the work and the mission will go by itself pretended to do the work in the mission going on by itself so what does it mean the moisture of bingo put up the mishkan one up by itself dr hassam cypher he says it doesn't mean that he finished putting it up he says it comes from the lesson of khalsa nafshi and the yearning to put up the mishkan that's what gave him the kayak to put up the mishkan and the mischievous went up by itself because of that and i was thinking you do the asic you do the melakas what it's a famous varth mainland and our icara void is the melos but what does it need it needs the the khalsa it needs the heisek it needs the smack yearning day after day to be able that that itself nitsyat ismaya but that's what gives us the yakato matasa if every day we come with that simone we get up in the morning whether it's early in the morning whether it's late at night whether we're walking we're driving and we're able to tune in with the heishik and simone to be able to learn torah that's what gives us the agata matasa and like i mentioned i'm still behind so today i learned i had a supposed to learn with ashley for a few minutes today while we were waiting for some other people so i learned to come out today of command partner upon him and they noticed rashi says on the gemara that would be who that says i hope with the retirees and rashes lost in but the zika goes into words of rashi the lathe and punim you give to the terrorists so terry will give back to you that timayan that that interest that drive that yearning the torah is what you'll get back from the torah so i just want to end off with the bracha with another incredible vote i just saw some cypher we that we have and we stay every night have a salem basis foreign he says what are the hukim that you taught us he says means the abridged that gave us after the ganache he says over here means we have a mitzvah to go out every day and bring it upon us to support our families in the morning in the evening [Music] just quickly what the program has in store for us i would like to invite yeshua hartman to speak for a few minutes and introduce ramosha hauer and then we're going to have ramosh elephants going to speak i'm going to make to see him there'll be some singing and dancing and then there'll be a dessert buffet that's my before i have to introduce yeshua ray hartman i can say we've become very close rabbi hartman every week gives for those people it's people who know morale also but for people like me who haven't had this host to be isaac in the morel we could get a taste of the morale every single week we have another platform called ol parsha and abe hartman sends us a beautiful beautiful zisa piece every week on the morale on the parasha 15 minutes 20 minutes and you get a flavor and a good smack and a real understanding of what the maharal havamara learns of the parsha so i'd like to ask yeshua to come and introduce rabbi howard shikaya [Applause] the question that you asked what are americans doing in england i'm asking it already for the last 16 years i can just tell you when i first came to england 16 years ago i heard maybe it's my joke maybe i heard it no copyrights everybody could use it if you want gash mia's live in america if you want rukhnia's live in naruto's israel if you want neither live in london bit rabbi said bamas these are only jokes it's kadai to know it's it's a beautiful beautiful kahila full of torah full of ghasset full of call me those terrorists she swallowed his boko bomb that's the ms i would like to introduce ramon shahar by indeed nefesh of mine and maybe the islam doesn't know him yet but i'm going to say already now we're looking at someone who's going to be him yet hashem one of the manhikim in the asconim of the door like remoisha shares that's all i'm not exaggerating i promise you where marcia howard is someone who was a rav in baltimore for 25 years or something like that in a school and he was the ultimate rub of what it rubs about i remember once revel yoshizal told me you know what defines a rav that he takes the kahila medarga ladaga that's what a rub is that slowly but surely the kehillah learns more does more mitzvahs my sim toy beam and constantly growing and i never have seen this like i've seen i have come very often to baltimore and see the school with power had khaburras with his with the bottom of the shoal and i would say how they're going me dargah that ladagha they started learning kumishwashi and then they started learning morale and then one safer after another with the balabatim and just it showed that you could take a oil and just elevate it not just to give a nice russia but to grow together what's unique about rev is his understanding and of people and to find that sadashive with many many people the higher the bala madriga you are the more you could communicate to more people like the two outstanding mindless of many many milers of her power is his emus don't even know how to say the image in english what would you say pleasantness and it's combining so many different worlds in such a beautiful way as you know there's a big mach like this in the world not so known between as does makshava and musa do they go together in the argus well it's brought down but it's like it says the secret muslim also but if they're divided to two there are those who learn muslim and they're those who learn makshava do they ever meet okay [Music] hauer is the ultimate example of being a tremendous baal muslim and a tremendous baal mahsava he brings to the table so many virtues great meet us and as i said and the imus he now is not only a rub of a shul he is a rav of many many shows on by side you see oh you is it has 19 departments i just learned it now we know it for the casual side but there's also very much involved in torah with shows in america with schools in america and it's a whole big network of habits is torah the da fiomi is part of it of which rabbi howard is in charge of alberta just maybe to conclude before we call up how we're up listen to what he has to say he's going to be in hashem someone that we're all going to know belichum suffolk just to bring out the what does this seem here that we're here in london the gemara says that if a person's in a place where he sees another year dying so he has to do kriya kisepha turishin israel ron shabas in the grand moon cotton says that two why is that every jew like a savaterish in israel so russian the gemara says and i'm sure rev elephant could correct me if i'm gonna misquote it please do that every jew is mullen mitchell's and therefore he's like his separate torah because all the myths that he did till now the past the tour and see manchester and the morale bring another rashi which is points out the bach it's rushing on the rift not because what he did till now but what he could accomplish more and if he died he cannot accomplish it it's a potential which is not materialized every seam is these two rashes mikhail so the oil learned ibumus which is myra dick and gevaldik and like reb schweitz mentioned a perseverance of daffy dudaf but by army swell nothing ends it's always just the beginning of the next step of bringing out a potential fighter so without any further ado i'd like to call bakasha indeed navsauer [Applause] if only one possible response to that introduction is that i have to tell a joke so there was a a rabbi a priest and a minister that were speaking with each other and misha shayla zubih they asked the following question what do you want said at your leviah and the priest said i hope that at my funeral they will say he was a truly holy man and the minister said i hope that at my funeral they will say there went a man of great kindness and the rabbi said i hope that at my funeral they'll say look he's moving of yeshua i'm moving it's a great house it's a really great privilege to be able to be here to be here to celebrate this this seoum which means so much to be able to be here to celebrate the sea first just as a as a as a statement of appreciation uh it is a beautiful kahila it's a ir malaya safran i arrived this morning at six something in the morning and hashem the opportunity to meet many people throughout the day and london is blessed with people who are talmide who are involved in such outstanding dedicated work creative work to bring torah and to bring good things to this kehillah i don't know and i i shared this with those who were with me i don't know that i've ever seen such a group in any city any place and ashreich hashem we should continue to be such a wonderful wonderful nourishing ground for such things i have this host to davin afin minha with rabbi elephant and today was a first that i dive in with elephant and he wasn't it didn't have half his his his self after he finished davening in in the da fiemi gamora every day in the o.u when he's darkening uh i hope it's okay for me to say this but when he finishes davening out comes the da fiemi gomorrah today we're here for that yeah me see him no daffy migamor but to watch and to see this transatlantic rebor i i can't imagine what i would give to be able to understand what rabbi elephant feels as person after person comes over and says shalom aleichem to a rebuffer 17 years for 15 years for seven years who they never met i i don't know how you know rabbi elephant together with rabbinachanganak had the largest kasras organization in the world and somehow on the side he manages to give one of the most popular if not the most popular daffy mishire quality of yamashire in the world who should continue to give him the craft to do so and to get nachas to look around the room always and to get nachos from what he is doing it's a siem al messer vamas and you know you know you're in trouble when you hear people like reminiscing about the good old days of aravind ivamis yuvamis is not just a a massage how do we know because we know that the aside of malchus be israel lay in the mitzvah lay in the midst of from judah and tamar by azan rus to a certain degree even laitube naisov was a certain a certain level of this kind of a hakama how is it what's the idea that it's it lies in this mitzvah you know that in the beginning of time cayenne killed hezel and when akarishibara who confronted him he pretended not to know and he offered a strange defense not even a defense rather a strange deflection and he said i don't know and am i responsible for my brother how should i know where i have where he is why should i know am i responsible for him he said it with a question mark later we would learn in the torah in parshas kadaishan that you don't say hashem with a question mark that there's not just an israel of ritsika of killing someone but there's also an israel of lai samid al-dhamrayah you're responsible to look out for each other to protect each other to not watch while somebody else leolainu is harmed so dargah number one is the one who kills a level above that which we're taught which is a mitzvah that stands on all of cloud israel is that we have to be shimer we have to protect people well they know lest they be killed but there's a third madrega and that madrega is the person died he's gone you didn't do it it just happened but you're going to bring that person back to life a level of acharyas which is the torah's mitzvah of ibum which says that the person's gone and they're gone without leaving a trace and it's your responsibility shame hamas to perform hamasim in a certain extent that level of acharyas which is the mitzvah of ibm that level of acharyas is the assad of malchus be israel malchus which is supposed to be leva uma that cares leads builds a nation of call israel it's not even enough to protect one has to go further to resurrect to rebuild it's possible one might say you know that it's a minig by um that you tie the end of the massage in the beginning of the maserta together we all know we're still holding in it most of us are still holding in it the end of this year is that it was the area of aloha which perhaps occupied the gedaile paisuke claudia sril from of all the diarists that they put the most effort into of anything why it in itself was to be a girl is a person whose curva to the person moves them to try to bring them out not protect them but to bring them out from the depths of the of difficulty and that gail we might say with a small gimmel is the hashallah is the imashel malchus is the beginning of the gooloola that acharyas beyond that each of us feel for each other the great that i think that all of us who have i think you say crossed the pond to come here i think that we have from being here is that this seem as an example of something which was unintended believe it or not when ramaisha shwed together with rabbi elephant together with rabbi weil and when they built this app i i don't think we were thinking transatlantic i know apps go everywhere but you know there's a hebrew which is felt here i i know it sounds maybe like a little corny i don't know if that's an expression in england is that an expression it sounds a little corny but it's really something we don't know you we haven't met you but there's such an energy in tyra of tria that claudius was experiencing were the tires being brought back to life the last procurement of yavamas what was the last time they were learned by thousands and thousands of people and it's it's the there's a feeling of being violent for each other everyone's doing together everyone's doing together ramir shapira zakhaina livraka had a vision of a da fiemi that would be israel as a path to gaula may the torah that we learn together that we have this huss this house to learn together just build our sense of just build our sense of acharas of care one for the other we should be shaming for each other we should be gailim of each other and be zechabeas to the good [Applause] thank you rabbi howard i just want to give one big thank you to swilly weisbaum as soon as he saw a sign that is trying to make a see him in london he reached out what could he do to help and thank you he did tremendous work [Applause] i'd like to call upon rabbi elephant who's going to speak now then we'll make to see him and then we'll have the dessert reception hashem rav zimmerman will be coming to speak during this desert reception rabbi elephant as everybody said tonight the incredible reception that we have received here in london all day i had this close to meet many rabonim and many dionym and kihilis and with the incredible warm reception i know it's not in my own skulls it's in disgust that we at the ou work so tirelessly our area is kosheros it's not just kosheros it's tyra and all the myriad programs that the ou does the mana share man tyrosi there are so many people that i need to thank and it becomes difficult to thank everybody because you start to forget and then you it's better you shouldn't have started but i have to thank ashley cohn a person who until last night we never met personally but there's a there's a connection even if we never met personally and his dedication to our program and his dedication today to be such a gracious host was very very appreciated of course i have to thank my colleagues from the ou starting with rabbi hauer the executive vice president of the ou and rabbi shwade who has taken uldaf to where we never expected it to be and then we started all parasha and started all mishnah for oijade nature for plans all the time to continue and rabbi branstaffer who recently joined the ou in these efforts and rabbit tasha and jeremy chernikov and of course simon taylor all of these people who came and traveled i'm sure you know sunday we don't work monday today was a holiday in the united states and nobody thought about that if we could come and we could do we came and all these people deserve much credit [Applause] the truth of the matter is it's really very hard for me to speak tonight so many people today all day from chakras this morning through the culmination tonight came over to say i've been listening to you sure him i hear you devrey tara the people i don't know to be honest i'm not sure if i'm going to remember everybody's name by tomorrow morning but i will remember what every one of you said and i will remember the physique that you will give me you know what you say shir people ask me where do i say mesher i say i say my sheer at my dining room table they ask me who is your audience i said my audience is me because i look at a mirror sometimes so that's my entire audience and you're speaking and you don't know to whom you're speaking and you don't know if you're putting in the kaisers one of the rabonum came over to me here earlier and asked me how many how long does it take to prepare a sheer i said hours and you put in the kayakers and you say this year and maybe you just sang it to the small tape recorder and that's the only one listening and then when you come to the other side and you hear so many people coming over and they say we listen and we remember this fart and we remember this godly you mentioned it's such a physic we're not here for you you're being the kazakhstan and i will be eternally totally grateful to all of you for that the gemara the last memo i was really scared i have to tell you because being the last speaker is a very bad place to be in because you don't know what anybody's going to say before that and how do you know they're not going to say your speech and now you're stuck so i have to thank robert howe and rabbi hartman you didn't say my speech hashem discuss why is this the last memory of the ivamus that's some cipher i met some wonderful people this evening who are dana clark from the some cipher from the talmudics i'm sorry for tommy howard i appreciate that i say a vert from the cipher that some cypher says a very interesting mahalak the samsuf says that everything in the world every characteristic every behavior in the world was brought to the world for a reason even what we look at as negative is not always negative so if there's machoices in the world there's good about mach like us what does it mean what's good about much like it's good about war good about battle when it's much like in tyro so if hakura spark who said that the world needs mahleikas let the machetes be in toronto because what happens we know what gemara says as vahe basufa affilou a learning torah and it gets a little heated nasa even zealous there they get they get into serious disagreement and because of that serious disagreement afterwards we all end up at the seem we end up with shalom at the end and that's why dr sam saif it says marbem shalom because they keep on making shalom because every day we wake up and there's another machetes in the gemara and there's another macholic is between the rebbe and his talmud but every day we make up so we have the machis but we have many mahleikas and we have many and we have much shalom that's the kind of shaolin that the ivista wants in the belt another explanation that i saw is that truthfully message the ivamus does teach us much about shalom the best you saw that gary rebbe said that the first question that the gemara asked all of us who learned from the sector however we should remember the first question the first question the gemara asked was we started with tesla various 15 arias and the gemara asked there should be 16 anus of if the mara answered that case wasn't mentioned in the mishnah but plucked the the mishnah doesn't want to speak about makhalakis all of a sudden our mission is avoiding machukis avoids mach like us and then we continue we learned fundamentals to get married they made it work even though they disagreed they made it work and then we continue learning the massachusetts rabbi harold discussed about khazal was so concerned mishimiguna kilaba rabbanon because i was so concerned that a jewish woman should not remain in laguna i had a great great grandfather the max avrom the brother of he used to say akhala moid he wrote truthers to be mata ragunas an heir of shabbos right by this man he still was writing troubas to yamato aragonas and that domitius charles of trovis he writes that he was zoika in his lifetime to be matter of thousands of goonas agunus bringing shalom to the world and that vert goes even a step further i have to tell you rabbi if you listen to the you heard the vart the gemara says that if somebody drowns in my alam safe in water that you can't see all the borders his wife cannot get remarried because we have to be concerned that maybe he came out and we didn't see what's the likelihood that somebody drowned in the atlantic ocean that he survived wouldn't it be better mishimaguna kilabarabanon that we should say that his wife he certainly didn't survive and let his wife get remarried the svar magdoshim say you know why hazal said it because had said differently we can never have a situation that a person drowned in mayan shalom's site and he would be saved khazal put into the creation put into the real that a person could survive my inshallah himself isn't that ralph the last suggest that we had in the massachusetts like tunnel dallas smith and they love him that we could trust innate echoed that people should want to help each other why so he said it eight echoed we don't have to have a drishva kakira we don't have to ask the adam so yeah amazon does speak much about shalom but i want to concentrate for a couple of moments on one other lesson says there are four misers that end with this neither your vomits crisis and arachner says why dafter these former sectors says represents ben adam lamoccum where we make a bronco and we have to be besolem with the abysster your vamas represents being admirable as raf howard described how one person does for the other person initially and creases is being your guff and the shaman that we should show not have creases your vomits represents the concept of being adam lachawi i was today in the london basin and i saw a beautiful portrait of kraskolabramsky the rough here in london rafhasa lebronski said what means that their existence in the world when you have in the world people who are tamida kaham when you could observe and learn from people who are it has such a profound influence it has such a profound effect on every person who meets them you don't have to talk to them you don't have to know them well seeing them greeting them learning from them that's their existence and my eva rabbi sai if i may say the people who learn the daffy me you don't have to be rabbanam and you don't have to be russian yeshiva you are the tamidek member of the world the people who learned that affirmative every day and we all know what it means the commitment of 365 days a year every day there's no day off what a lesson that is to our families i have not yet met in the over 30 years that i've been learning the daffy i mean saying a family who has not been incredibly positively affected and influenced by the s by the husband by the father learning daffy me this chat is what haskell obama said because your entire existence changes people's lives it changes people's lives that you are different and i have to say this because it's a question that i'm asked very often you know they say to me it's so hard we just finished with sacrifice how much do i remember why should i continue rabbis i i'm not a musliger i'm not a i'm not a navi everybody who learns the deaf if you remember one percent or 100 and even if you miss a day it happens even if you miss a day learn the next day it will be the biggest crush for you and your mishpacha i'm not talking when you'll come up to shmaim after 120 years i'll talk about in this world and nobody should say they can't do it i have to mention a number of people have told me that they heard me and they heard that i had a brother-in-law his name was rafael wallastine she was just sniffed recently with heideshire so i knew my brown lure of sky wallstein for over 45 years rabbi said this was a yidd who was not the best booker in yeshiva this was a person who didn't even go to cuddle because he wasn't holding by it but he decided i want to do something for claudia's role and he did everybody can do there's no such a thing that you can't do there's no such a concept that daf yummy wasn't said to me it's too hard i can't learn everybody has invalved and we need to take those cautious that the abyss that benches us with those kaikas and use it for lehman our torah you're not doing the abristar typer and you're not even doing yourself a typo you're doing your family a taivor you're doing everybody you come in contact with we live in a world the ou is very involved with this with children trying to bring their children at risk there are so many people that have different inanim and the tyra is marbham charlemagne the baraka of the torah is the bracha the gemara at the end of the vampires quotes i was once going on a boat verisi svena akrichen isbra and i saw a broad that drowned via mistreasing star altamonte and i was so upset about how much him was on that boat umanu who was that talmud rochon rekiva was convinced that not survive came to me amelie bernie shapiro says derbykiva lived in a very difficult time in the history of claudius role kiva lived in the time where jews were persecuted how did you survive how did you survive those difficult times and rabbi said we all know we live in very difficult times we live in a gofer look at gullis all of us who are here i often say this in shurim i am a child of survivors it was hard to relate sometimes to parents who are survivors and i grew up in america we had everything we needed but now you know rabbi say everybody sitting in this room as a survivor everybody who borrowed hashem survived covet is a survivor and we could start appreciating because we all know i'm sure it's no different here than it was in the united states how so many people were very sick and are still suffering and how so many people the frat goddale yisroel didn't make it and we survived and rabbi said we believe as rakhiva said akodaf def i grabbed on to the daf so sino i grabbed onto that daffy me and i connected my life to the daffy young me and it's not daft you have to learn the sector if almost now you have to learn myself exuberance but you have to learn every day and that changed that caused me that i didn't drown in the yam that's marvin shaolin by islam means that we could be mad but we could bring to our lives slayness as rascal bramsky zatsal said i saw interesting sheila and the safer khashoggi he discusses that there was a home and that's a stroll we know that the houses and at this row are apartment houses and they have a va bias they have a committee that runs the home and there was a bad bias that the person who was running it was a difficult individual and in that house there was a talmud hochum living in the house and they came over to this time of gokham maybe you should take over and run divides you're such a wonderful pleasant person and he says yeah but it takes away from my learning so he said but isn't shalom such an important concept as we're discussing and they said maybe not reversible state says people looking at him you look at a talmud cohen it's marvin shalom by islam it brings shalom i recently saw a geval de gevarte you know every morning it doesn't make a difference what we davin we say kula mahuvyan cool and brewing we speak about the malachim so what does cool mahuva mean what does cool and brewery mean surbani young explains ahuva means that all malachim love each other there's no kinna amongst the malachim cool and bururen means that everybody has the clarity of knowing what is their place in the world but the question is wonderful mallochum ahuven brew rim but why are we speaking about malachim when we're about to dive and we're not malachin the answer is if we want to be mespau in a havaraba la shmaya little murderer lishma velazis we need to learn the lesson of malachim we need to be kula mahovin and kulun berurim we have to be marbush shaolin last week the ou we recently moved in to new offices downtown manhattan and we had a cavias mesuzzo and we rabbi ganak and i were asked to put on the mesozas at the front door and the question came up how do you put up the put it up straight or do you put it up slanty it's very interesting last week we we read about parish's kairak and everybody knows that what was the mitzvah that kayak was focused on why was kyrok focused on the mitzvah mezuzah so i recently saw a beautiful vart the passage says mia somebody built the new home and didn't inaugurate it yeah look for yoshi if he shouldn't go out to war that he didn't put up a mezuzah the question is why is the mezuzah so incredibly important that for that you have to go back so you put up the muzuza when you come home it's a long vert i don't have the time to say the whole story but the bottom line is the mezuzah is the only mitzvah that we make of sharon rashid says you put the mesus up straight the urban time says you put it flat and we decided we'll put it up on its slant the lesson of the mezuzah is that we live to learn to agree with other people we make a compromise every time every shamanism we end with oysters and we bow to the right then we bow to the left and we bow to the middle we're ready to learn and learn from every person and we're ready to give in to every person and that's the lesson of tamriel that we bring shawn to the world that we with our behavior and again i say it's not just it's not the magidi showroom i get to assure him we have a special skus and a special pleasure in giving the sheer but the people who learned the daffy me those are the true heroes of tonight's seam and of everything and every morning when you get up or every night when you learn every day when we say i have rabbi and with this i will conclude we say lishma lishma and the question is of course we all have to be lishmaya we all have to be little might we all have to be lassies we all have to learn and do the mitzvahs and learn the torah but means to teach is everybody in classroom a malama torah is everybody in class or somebody who teaches torah most of us don't teach taira most of us are students not rebellion but that's not true every morning we declare with our behavior how we live our lives and we live a life of torah that we're not just la shmite we are people who are made we are people who teach torah we maybe don't teach it on all daf although you could call it maybe you'll put your shirt up you need a lot of protection every one of you are the lami you teach your families and you teach your neighbors and you teach everybody who you come in contact with and those that and for zoicha to be the people who learn the torah so we will have the same hat sloka as a rekhiva had a khalda for daff a every wave that attacks us and all the challenges of life i hold on to that death and all the situations in life that there are the situations that we have as a community and that we have as individuals to satire the schools of the shaalamatara will be with us until the next time we meet each other very soon foreign [Applause] foreign [Music] foreign [Music] is [Music] potato is [Music] oh [Music] [Applause] is oh [Music] oh [Music] tell me [Music] all right [Music] oh [Music] say [Music] i [Music] oh [Music] foreign [Music] me [Music] say [Music] oh yay [Music] oh [Music] oh [Music] oh [Music] hello [Music] oh [Music] no if we could ask everyone please to take a seat marvin and i think uh tonight is testament to the fact that if only the founding father declaration in 1770 1776 on the 4th of july if they would have seen that there were going to be a group of three rabbonim from america as the guest speakers hosted here in london and her majesty the queen but then to have the final speaker to be someone who was born and bred in america but also the av basin of london that is testament to the tamil description so it's a great course and a covenant privilege for us to have that have based in the federation the rotherham basement federation someone who is the rabbinical advisor here to the jle but also someone who we are so grateful to have in our kahila diane zimmerman and all them assignment for me it's better you the torah of your mouth of hashem's mouth than thousands of pieces of silver gold and silver now to say one thing is better than another thing it's axiomatic that they have to be comparable for example a rolls-royce is better than a vauxhall how do i know that because i have a vauxhall so and a rolls-royce is better in what way is it better really they're both methods of transportation they get you there at the same time assuming the same speed the answer is there's a greater level of comfort it's a smoother ride maybe goes zero to 60 a bit quicker and that's besides the status symbol however if i'll ask you a question what is better a cow or a ballpoint pen you won't be able to tell me i can give you advice that if you want milk choose the cow and if you want to write a letter always take the ballpoint pen but like you cannot compare the two and therefore you cannot say one is better torah and money have two separate purposes what you could do with one you cannot do with the other as everyone knows before i moved to london about two and a half years ago i was raving gateshead and you should know that even in gates of the ira torah you cannot go into a bakery and buy something and pay with a piece of sacrifice you have to pay with actual money so therefore what does it mean i i'd like to suggest is as follows in fact torah and money have two totally different purposes but the methods of acquisition are exactly the same let's take money how does a person become rich now i don't have personal experience but along the way being over a quarter of a century in abundance in different continents i've come along quite a number of wealthy people millionaires multi-millionaires and yes even billionaires how do you know someone's a billionaire everyone said everyone knows he's a billionaire you ask the person tell me how many children does he have i have no idea that's personal but you know what's in his bank account you don't even know how many children the person has but nevertheless we've all met people that are truly financially successful and the question is how do you become rich and there's only two simple things one you have to think big people if you if you think big you don't necessarily become rich but if you don't think big you'll never become rich you might be as american but you'll never become rich you have to think big the second thing is after you think big you got to start working hard some people think very big and what they do is they buy a lottery ticket you buy a lottery ticket the chances of becoming a united states senator is one in three million the chance of being hit by lightning is one in seven million chances of winning a lottery are much much longer than that that's not called that you did hashtagless in fact i have a first cousin every friday he lives in new york he buys a lottery ticket now we all know the drawing is mutsu shabbos i think 11 o'clock at 10 o'clock he rips up the ticket and you ask him why he says because i know i'm not going to win why should i be disappointed so why so why do you buy a ticket he says every friday night i go to sleep aisha you know you dream differently you dream differently when you are when you you're sleeping on the winning ticket monster shop is when reality kicks in he rips it up so you have to work very hard and not only that most people who were successful in business failed many times and only the final time their success and that's what we hear about you should know torah is exactly the same the method of acquisition of terror is the same you have to think big if people think small i want to learn this a few dapham if you summon them you'll never acquire the person has to think big and then after that you have to start working hard you have to roll up your sleeves everyone wants to learn shas in one night and they want to sleep eight hours on that night it doesn't go like that you have to work hard on it and yes just like in business you fail and fail to succeed inaudible [Music] that is the way you acquire tehran said if the methods of acquisition of terror and the method acquisition of wealth are the same what do i want to put my energy into taiwan i'd rather put think big and work harder and tara than in financial resources that i believe is practical we're gathered here tonight to celebrate a a embodiment of this sakta vamas is called thinking big and yes this is part of a larger da fiemi program and anyone who has involved in da fiemi knows that everyone starts process most drop out in iran those who make it past aravind drop out in yavamas but if you've completed all of your vomits you should know that you're thinking big and you're thinking towards all of shots but it takes hard work there's dedication of a few months in a row of putting your mind to it on a give play tribute to the magazine herrev elephant everyone knows his shirum are models of clarity as a matter of fact someone just drove me here and said you know i've been listening to him for years and i said tell me what's the my love his share she says i'll tell you a secret he actually teaches the gemara he doesn't use the gemara as a springboard to say what he has stickletary that he has he actually teaches the gemara and tells you what the gemara says and this has all been augmented by the all adaf by written written by ashwaith many years ago i was a chavru service of his father or his father was marcarussa and i took a peek at it i looked up i happened to be ivamist of kofi at olive and i looked at it and you see there a presentation on the daf you have the introduction to the daf the history of the duff the mice of the duff and it was pointed off about a a construction and a deconstruction of a khalita shu all at the same time this is called the person think speak and then they start working hard at it and that's what we're celebrating tonight and iratson just like you as if to be messiahs and all of shas and with this lumidata and to combine with the limerick here of all of claudia's role we'll greet the shirts amano