Naso 5786

Welcome to weekly sharim. It's Thursday. We are still standing in the seven days post which are called and many don't say in these days because you can still bring carbon that a person didn't bring on the and refer to these days as days of the great the great celebration that we were to get married to the It was a it was a wedding. We united with the and most foreign tell us that the was the and we are the is the and we are the and we had to ready ourselves prepare ourselves to be a good and that was the nice of an total ourselves to the of the but there's other sources that we'll see here in the Zerion that say that we are the and the is our color and there's a a said that if you want to know after who was really the who really had a meaningful so they say a mole if you go to and you're looking around to figure out who's the there's many people dancing and jumping and in the middle circle that circle how you going to know who's the real the answer is wait till the end of the whoever takes home the is the real and the same goes we all stay up night and we hear and we eat the sudas and we but who is the real the one that takes the kala home that takes the and he rededicates himself with a stronger dedication than before And then he has the that we are standing in those days now. And then you have the whole and you have to make sure that the bias is it okay? Nobody gets ignored. We give enough attention to our new found kala. We make sure that we provide her what she needs and we make sure that we look at her and we learn her and we involve in her life. wants us to learn it, to be involved in it, and to embrace it and to cherish it. That's how we normally understand. But let's learn a piece here in which seems that he has another understanding and we didn't walk home with any necessarily. So here he talks about other topics but in the middle he talks about this idea of getting married to the and he says like this a famous medish when a person finishes you make when a person finishes then we celebrate and we make The Torah is called thea like tell us like the adorns herself with 24 types of pieces of jewelry. We have 24 have a problem. So when do we make a suda? When do we celebrate this? When you finish the When you get married, when do we celebrate? When do we make the whole the whole wedding, the whole party? When do you do that? Day one before you finish. The first day you get married, we start off the with a suda. So why do we only make a suda when we finish learning? Why not when you're beginning? This is now the this is now a reason to celebrate says in a person will say to a woman I only want to be half of you half 15% of you I want to be mad she's not mad says you tell a I'm going to work for you. So, I want to be a cat with the work that I'm going to do. Sorry, doesn't work. When you do the work, then come back until you've actually finished the you don't have the once you finish then the So we learn when a person learns he is marrying that becomes like his wife you have to first finish it if not you don't have your wife the wife is the ma and this brings to memory the famous story that brings in about this person that was nifa nobody knew who he was and all of a sudden Sudden they heard a a voice of a woman whailing and crying that this special person was nifa and this person said you don't know that this nifa was a very harsh person he took care of me he fended to me and he cherished me and as a result they made a big la and a hespert and then they asked this person it was a woman and what's your name she said kaga khaga she says Yes, I'm called. They thought the name of and they said she said yes this is because I am that and this lured me from cover to cover day and night and therefore I became his wife and therefore when he passed away she was there to give him the honor that he truly deserves. So one is a marriage. You get married to the ma before you finish the ma then that's there's no wife over there two paragraphs later a person should only learn what he desires when when a person gets married you have to find that this of yours finds favor in your eyes. If before a person sees the color, you can't get of of convention and that has to find favor in your eyes. So first make sure this has that means you see the you see it's compatible to you like it you enjoy it then go ahead and marry that says when is learning he says don't ask others I'm learning I'm learning don't ask why not ideal to marry two wives here too. I'm learning this is an absolute marriage. A is a marriage. There's a very deep connection. A person should eat with the sleep with a think about the bond with a that's called the marriage. So in the world of was not yet the marriage. You first have to finish the was the commitment the we upon ourselves to be our connection and then we're going to be to learn in our eyes and then to have happily marriages