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went ahead and went to the mountain. So Abra went and he traveled and when he got to his place of that he wanted to stay a he went ahead and pitched his tent and this was it gives us where it where it was there's an interesting on that oh means his tent but rather than having olive he lit v which mean his tent it's lit it's ice oh so this is a cross example it's written one word one way but it's read another way it's written oh hello but it's it's it's pronounced oh but it's written oh her tent so what is it was it his tent was it her tenti goes ahead and points this out Oh with a hey as shal. The terror is trying to tell us over here that first au pitched her tent and after he pitched her tent he pitched his tent. Now why is that? So one of the commentaries on Rashi called the lavusha says the reason Aroma pitched her tent and not her first is because Sora was a senua a very very modest person a very private person a person that uh did not show off uh did flaunt did not flaunt her beauty or riches or anything else and was this that was the essence of sor that's what the basik uh in fact says that our Romanu didn't realize realize how be beautiful she was because she because of her sne for to for to have to wait for him to pitch his tent and then her tent means she'd have to stay outside that was uncomfortable for her she's such a senua such a private person that she didn't want he he said she probably didn't want to do that and Therefore, he went ahead and pitched her tent and then put up his tent. Now, I've never put up a tent in my life. Uh, but I assumed that this is not something that takes several hours. Maybe it takes half hour at the most, if that much. So, what's the big deal? So, Sora has to wait outside without shelter for whatever it is, half hour, an hour. The answer is because Aroavinu was so sensitive to his wife's needs and among all the things that we're supposed to learn from au in these paras is not only to be the etc etc but it's to be the sensitive spouse and Aroma knowing how sensitive Sor was going to take care of her needs and her tent. and her privacy before I go ahead and and and take care of mine. And that's a lesson for all of us, both men and women, to be sensitive to our spouses and especially men have to be very sensitive their to their wife needs. You know there's a Gomorrah in the south. Person has to be very very sensitive and careful about the cover of his wife. You want braha to be to reside in your house in every in terms of everything in in health and everything you want to reside. Who doesn't want brahas in this house? says because of her. So, you want to go ahead and bring to your house, take care of your wife, be sensitive to your wife. Be careful with the covet of your wife. That's a schooler. You know, Rabbi say we lived in our day and age in the in the era of of schoolers. school for this, school for that, school for this. You know, this is a gamorra. This is a PK. You want to ba? You want to have in your parnosa, in your whole house, in how you raise your children, here's a schooler. Take care of the of your wife. be sensitive to all of her needs and then will follow because of her.