Its not just about YOU

to have to asking himself before he wants to do something if he can do it becomes very selfless because it's not just about him it's not just about feeding myself and giving myself whatever I want however I want whenever I want but about seeing Beyond just myself so the end game of Judaism is to love other people the way we get there is 613 ways of making us more refined people and people who are less about taking and more about giving so if I have to pick up my pretel and check if I can eat them if I'm doing that all day I very quickly that is not just about me that's the goal of Judaism