All Of Heaven Cheers For You

Being older and [music] single can be deeply painful. The loneliness, the uncertainty, the self-doubt about whether I should have made different choices, the fear that maybe the perfect person will never come. And when you see your old friends that are your age that are walking with their husbands and their kids, they're all perfectly matching. I can't even [music] begin to imagine the amount of pain that that can cause you to feel inside. Just stop and remember. It's really just the opposite. Because the very fact that your life is so hard shows that Hashem decided that you were the only one who could handle such a hard role to play. And Hashem only chose you because he believes that only you are strong enough to overcome such an incredible challenge. And if you could see out the shamay right now, they're not watching your friend. They're all watching you because you were chosen to play the game of life on the highest and hardest level possible. and they are watching you because you are a fighter and you are a warrior and they are all rooting for you. And all you need to do to win this thing is to keep reminding yourself every single day again and again, Hashem loves you. Not one drop less than your friend who's married with kids. And this life is not a race to see who can get married first because every single thing that happens to us is directly decided by Hashem who loves you. and he only does what is the absolute best for you. And the second that Hashem decides that it's best for you to get married, you will get married. Not one second later, not one second earlier. And so even if you can't understand why, but you trust that the situation that you are in now is the best possible situation for you to be in. So the next time you're feeling down and you start to think about the fact that you're single, just lift your head up and say to yourself, "Yes, I'm single because Hashem singled me out to be the star of the show. And Hashem singled me out to give me a massive opportunity to reach the highest levels of Ghana." And yes, you are single because with a struggle as hard as yours, you are singlehandedly holding up the entire