Achieving Your Goals - Part 4: Become a Blessing - Rabbi Paysach Krohn

[Music] just one one thing that I want to talk about and that is what the essence of every year is all about now I believe that the essence of every year is something that Shen says to bhrama be no right in the beginning he said to him a lot haha that qualify God longer makes you two great nations vara and I'm going to bless you violet Romelu and listen to these two words write down these two words this should be on every refrigerator to read every school very a drop become a blessing responsible it says most people make a mistake they think that behavior means that you should be your be Richard thanks no no no very April all become that person like we're between rooms in the back who inspires other people are LSU man who inspires people who lives on my to other people that fraction said that Rama be no become a bracha encourage people build people do fathers not only to yourself the a proper that's the organization here we're doing for each other that's what the WJ x is all about everybody's together anybody could inspire who little column a lamb oh my gosh remains any turbinates and bi ba richards ella that s what this is all about with love and friendship and connection and no jealousy and bring out the potential each and every one of us that's the beauty of WJ x WJ s is going to be the World Jewish experience I'm only women you'll see right one day the wall start right here Roman ready six things to be humble abode and it'll be the World Jewish experience that's what it'll be ready WWE world's women Jewish experience right so how do you become a broth what do you do so I think one of the ways that we can repel abraha is that every single thing you should do a facet for somebody else don't only think about yourself now I want to give you a guarantee if you do this 30 to 40 days in a row keep it in a spiral write down one cutter that you did that even if you did 20 just write down one because otherwise you get so hard you'll feel better and those days that you need is one until you finally got to do that one you will see Hashem will enhance your life you know why cuz the perfect says I shouldn't feel gosh I'm is your shadow now what I do and every one of you that's what gave you these cards today when you get home just write an email to daily excessive a terrorist shipment devil is a wonderful person is name is really what I groner and his show is very technically savvy so three times a week including today Thursday it comes sunday tuesday thursday i give a two-minute voice encouragement about doing a cuts of the day and doing it after every day you get there there's no charge whatsoever you just subscribe to it you can have your friends describe to it every three times a week you'll get that facet message how to do handset the importance of during sunset create a pleasant all different types of way to press it and you will see your life will become enhanced you know white but you will have a cow abroad you're not only thinking about yourself you're thinking about others and that's what then he a bra is all about I'll give you a small example of somebody who thought about others this is such a beautiful thing probably as a guild seller never lost his life in a bus accident when he was taking some widgets area to swell but he was once energy shell with a group of his tongue made them and they were going to visit many technical and then they decided he pierced the base I love there was a big topic various and he wanted to go and Nicodemus follow so all the kids are getting off the bus and one kid is staying on the bus he said how come you staying on the bus you don't want to go on to domin he says Rebbe I'm a client I chance to win I feel bad so now they're let's say 40 boys 39 got off in this kid is here listen to what Raquel tell assess him he said today we're all going inside the year remaining outside but when the base hamikdash comes you're the one who's going to go inside to do the operator and we're going to be that holy is that genius only a shelter put that in intent and his kid was so happy right you make somebody feel so special shimshi Cheryl is not taught for me it's all did such a beautiful story about his father Oliver Shawn Russia sheriff he said that they were once and a half enough out of town and they were going they knew the family and all of a sudden in the middle of the wedding of Russia who knew that his father had not been well he thought he would be sitting by the day we can't find so he's looking around with such fun it's a big wedding what would he can't find him then finally he sees that he's in a private room with another young man so when its father came out he went up to the young man and he said Mike who are you and she said did you see how everybody was holding me and I'm not the husband that everybody was lifting me up and they were dancing with me he said yeah I know that that my father asked me like who you were that's why I felt maybe he went in to speak to you he said no I have he said himself he said he had Hodgkin's disease and he's recovering from it and all the boys was so happy that he could get out of the hospital that they paid for his ticket to come to the friend's wedding he was awesome everybody held off center but then they all this guy's good they was so happy that he was able to come he said so what did my father tell you he said you won't believe it my father took me into a private room of your father from a sheriff and he said to me look at me how do I look now we all rush era looks fabulous even so meticulous and he's always dressed a little he says I'm a share you look wonderful so rabbi sherry says I want you to look at me you see how good I look see I'm recovered from Hodgkins and every day when you dive and refine and think of me because just like I recovered you're gonna be able to recover is that amazing the man goes to a hospital is going to a family wedding out of town you see the kids is being elevated and lift it up and he find out that the get out now it's not it's gone it's not as grants I never saw the kitchens life said that to be a draw you go over you arm around somebody to give them use if you make them feel special that's what we hear you brought us all about so I take one more fabulous story your mom she need a sequel to this story and then we're going to review quickly and then I'll tell you turn the climax the end witches spits underly listen to it last year I was in camp or Heather and rubber usually be is the head of the camp I was sitting in talking shabbos I go to different camps of showers and the academic leave you to China such a riot couple hundred girls in Stan's such a big camel if you let me tell you a story about the power off the poker / of Greenwald had to champps a voice camp and a girl skin volcom Livingston Manor and every year from four o'clock on monday the boys would go up and I'm Tuesday the girls withdrawn ok so now one year he said this hot season I want the boy should go in the morning when they wanted and the girls were on the air everybody was surprised they always thought that the reason that he has avoids the one day the girls another day fishin visa room but you know one book on ways another girl comes early so like this thing on since every day oh now that the river said that the boy should go monday and the girl should go monday afternoon like everybody was wondering but you can't just go over to a revenant but there's always one guy who goes home right so this one guy goes over to the row he says rev I hope you don't mind my asking why did you change listen to what the represent Oh cry from it he said every year when the children go off to camp I sensed that day now that I'm older I can't fess two days in a row he fasted because they go on the bus and he's the follow that they should have a healthy summer no accidents coming and going so he would transfer Monday for the boys and tuesday for the girl but now and he got older he could defense two days in a row they said that let us all the senses you go go crazy there to april and he didn't tell anybody all these years nobody knew that's when they brought that's an honor is that suggestible coming to stop thinking about yourself you think about others