Day 20 - Private time with G-d - Hitbodedut

[Music] [Applause] [Music] [Applause] we are in the 20th day so by that we are concluding on the second quarter of the forty days journey so the first quarter we were focusing on action corresponding to the world of ASEA to the world of action next quarter we were focusing on prayer corresponding to the world of its Eva now we are concluding this quarter and tomorrow starting the third quarter which will be corresponding to the world of Korea and I will explain later what we're going to be focusing on since this is the last day of the second quarter we're gonna we went through many different types of prayers that we added and today we're going to add the last type of prayer that is kind of like a link to the next quarter and it's not an official prayer that you open from a book rather personal prayer that you deal with your own heart and this is called hitbodedut hittable the dude is the way you isolate yourself from anything and you talk to the calash Maho now many think when they hear the word hittable they do that this is associated with me not one from breast level and the constitute of breslev which yes they definitely put a lot of focus on this type of prayer that is called it Buddhahood but it was it already was in our nation for thousands of years we know that the album it's like a knockoff you still do it buddy dude and many other great leaders would isolate themselves now hittable the dude if you looking at the translation it's coming from the from the word in Hebrew be dude we do this isolation what's the whole point here is not that you necessarily go to a field or to a forest and you sitting there there's nobody there you can do it but it is also in England in the middle of a very noisy place the idea of in Buddha dude comes from the word in Hebrew be Judah nefesh that you isolating you're sniffing your soul from any type of distraction that's really the main point here of course it's much much easier to do it when you're in the middle of nowhere and there's no distractions the idea behind it is that there's so much distractions all day long that most people can focus on one thing most people are extremely unproductive because they don't know how to focus their energy and and of course they get distracted the problem that we have with distractions is that that's the theme of Peru so o is not necessarily just the king of Egypt that was ruling the land of Egypt at the time of a while we were slaves there o-o is also a clipper a negative energy that is called pearl oh there's many different types of clay pots clipper the translation is a husk or shell and really a clip eyes the type of an energy and there are different types of energies especially when we're focusing on negative energy there are different types of clay pots and one that we are familiar with that we are battling everydays phlebotomy lake but there's also many other clip boats clip at Midian and so forth and one of the clip oh that is a harsh clipper it's called the Tahoe why's it called Tahoe because if you were taking the word Tahoe and spell it out para shine hey you switch the order of the letters you will get a word in Hebrew that is called ha ha ha means the distraction that something is buzzing in my ear and gets me to be distracted it's not gonna come in the form of a buzz in my ear but it's a certain energy that will get me off my focus why that's what he wants now or wants me to be unfocused why cuz when I'm not focused I'm not productive when I'm not productive I'm useless when I'm useless then what am I doing here so this clip specifically fur will come and bother me all day long now this clip I will be dressed in many different ways by the way so I'm gonna come necessarily in a blue this is a one way how the clip ID manifests into this little box sorry that I'm touching your precious precious stone ah precious stone but this is a perfect example of parole that comes and distracts you seventy times a minute with all so soon right that's what they do or ding ding dang dang dang that's distractions if you're checking your email 50,000 times a day that's a perfect example of distraction I need to check the email everything check it once a day twice a day so every time this Idol goes and that does ding ding then you turn around to it you bow down let me see who sent me now a message that is irrelevant probably stupid comment of some Roshanara or some yellow face with his tongue out or some other way of expressing something that I don't even know what do you want from me right now Sao Paulo is dressed into a iPhone 11 and is distracting me all day long and then of course I have many other distractions you driving the street these billboards everywhere everywhere you go you want to see you want to see a video online then they'll be pop-ups and all sorts of related videos that are not really related by the way I don't even know how they're related maybe they both start with the letter A that's it but the point is that we are constantly distracted with so many distractions now when I really want to focus on something I need to isolate myself and some people know the focus without being isolated by the way but most people don't have that ability so when I want to have a straight connection with the colosseo whole to speak to the master of the universe from my heart to thank him for everything that he does for me to apologize for when I was rude and disgusting to say sorry when I ignored him you have to have a personal conversation with a shame on a daily base and we learned that from all our sages look how much agua when I was talking with a collage for all day long Muhammad inna was in a state of with what to do 24/7 talking with the Shama not because he was a prophet because Hashem was his a guide a shame was his Shepherd and everybody else so what we want to add to our arsenal is a daily meeting with the master of the universe I like calling it private time with God that you find five minutes a day ten minutes half an hour whatever you can handle where you isolate yourself from any distractions yes if you want to go to a forest and be there by yourself is that screaming good didn't scream that that's what the helps then scream but the point is that we're going to talk about it much more in the near future how you do it it's not that you just go to a forest and you just sit there and stare at a tree there's a way there's a certain a pattern what one needs to do for now we're just gonna focus on the fact that you want to take a few moments a day I don't want a court to meditate because you can be very quickly associate meditation with idolatry but yeah to meditate on a shame to talk to shame to create a connection with Hashem and that's where my ultimate level of powers of prayer comes when I'm directed to the cashier to opening a direct direct connection to the Kadosh before so we're not going to talk about right now how it's done and mainly what you need to do is you just need to be focused on the garage before so you do not come to the this session with the phone and you do it in a time that you know that nobody needs you and not your wife not your kids not your boss not anybody else and the whole idea is that you need to isolate yourself and not yourself physically it's called be doodle nefesh that my soul is isolated that my soul is not distracted by many different things and that I can focus on building a stronger connection with the kadosh before now if I do not do that on a daily base then even when it's time to pray from a book I'm not going to be focused on just ask yourself last when when was the last time that you prayed from a book Falacci oh nicely and you were focused on every letter and every word you may be focused on the first free paragraphs and then your mind starts wandering and you don't even know how you got there you just wake up in the middle of the prayer you were your thought was somewhere else there's any real quick how did I get to Berlin notation I thought I I skipped a few our paragraphs so the idea is to know how to focus your thoughts to be focused on most people they were doing like seven things at the same time and they can't focus on one thing you can't do so many things at the same time if to do one thing finish it completed move to the next one so what you want to do is start finding a time of day even if you start with five minutes a day that you go somewhere quiet and you sit quietly you isolate yourself from any distractions and you talk to the kadosh below and as a start again we're gonna go we're gonna explain much more in depth what not one needs to do but as a start you'll tell you a shame how was your day you start by thanking like a toast oh cool that's really the best way to start it start by thanking him for that you woke up this morning that you have two legs that you can walk that your lungs work and you can breathe that your eyes work and you can see and he gave you a mouth to thank him thank him for your parents for your kids for your wife if you don't have for their a husband either way and whatever it is you start with two three minutes of thanks to the Kadosh Abajo and by that anyways this is we're gonna go now for the next ten days and a lot about things like this and especially in the last quarter of building my relationship with Hashem most people don't even have a relationship with a shame the fact that you have a yarmulke Neha doesn't mean you have a relationship with God so now just to conclude the last quarter we're gonna have to add to our daily schedule you can start with five minutes it doesn't have to be half an hour some people do an hour able to do it but that's really the therapy for their soul you definitely want to do it as early as possible in the day that is really your session with the Kadosh mahal where Kadosh abajo massages your soul it's a therapy for the soul to relax to be focused you get your thoughts together you start by kidness by opening a line of communication with the shame after thanking him you start saying your desires and wishes I wanna be better father I wanna be a better student much bothers me that I can control my it's a lie whatever you talk to the calash born-again we're gonna learn more in details how to do it and then of course you focus your your your thoughts for this 5-10 minutes or what you want to achieve this day what's what are your goals for the week whatever it is and you talk to the kadosh before like he's your coach your best friend your brother your partner whatever it is only to build a very strong connection to the collage because that's the time where his soul gets focused and the collage people can also give back his blessing and his energy and his lifeforce if you don't have a connection to a shame then shem can't give you too much even though he can do whatever he wants but nevertheless lodge bajo will call it now a projector he's projecting 24/7 with no stop the problem is asked the receivers if i'm not receptive to receive a Shems energy and as another how much I will try it does it's not gonna work so to conclude now 20 days of hard work which we're actually going into the 21st days we literally halfway through that's already a big big achievement so we're gonna link the quarter of a lot of prayers to the next quarter that is taking us to a much higher level and we can start working on ourselves and refining ourselves and we'll leave it as it that now till we go on a dive deeper to explain about the type of meditation that is called it but they do it and later on we're going to focus on other types of meditations but there's a lot of Jewish meditations that most people don't even know exists all they they connect them to other things and now we're just gonna find five minutes ten minutes a day better in the morning or at night whenever you have time where you focus all your energy in one place and later on we'll elaborate more how to do it but now just first find the time and a lot of people say I don't have time for this well get off Facebook you'll have a lot of time or if it's very hard for you to get off Facebook then be on Facebook instead of three hours a day then be on Facebook an hour and 50 minutes or two hours and 40 minutes whatever it is but if you monitor how many hours a day you're on Facebook you'll see you have a lot of time just still depending where you're putting your energy so wish us all good luck on the new journey and there's other shame we'll be able to build a stronger healthier connection with our Creator that will help us elevate to a much higher level to be able to continue this journey and to achieve all the great things that we're desiring to achieve [Music] [Applause] [Music] [Applause] [Music] [Applause] [Music] you [Music]