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Purity and impurity - When, why and how - Important information you need to know - Part 19
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How do we gain purity and how do we bring impurity on ourselves? Very important information you need to know! This is part of the questions and answers from a long lecture of Rabbi Alon Anava about his personal near death experience. You can see the entire Near Death Experience story at http://www.alonanava.com
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when i go to pray i like
not to be seen not to be heard not to be
talked to
and when the same way then when i learn
when i if i if i don't close myself i
don't learn people come to ask me
questions and you know there's too much
of fraud
when you put yourself in a corner
then
nothing bothers you then you then you
really learn
everything
there are there are the words you mean
one of them is
that
any bias any forbidden relation you know
it's not so common in our day but people
cheat on their wife their cheats men and
men women women
it's all under the same category
for being with agoya
you have to you the major tikkun for the
major sins is to getting other people to
stop doing it
yeah like of course you stop but let's
say i was shemi rahim with such and such
amount of goyot
mighty kun is to get a person away from
his
to convince them
yeah but it's not enough you can't just
say you're critical everyday and say i'm
out of course i can give you a whole
you know
menu what to say what to do about the
vatara and no doubt you dirty
connectedly every day but a lot of
people say okay i'll do the technically
every day tonight i'll go out through
with my goya and tomorrow i'll say the
correctly no no this is just to fix you
know how many times you have to
technically to fix the damages
so there's many many things one a man
needs to do to fix the pass
but the the highest level of fixing is
reversing other people doing it so if a
person if you a person was with a lot of
sixes then you have to go and make a lot
of other people
stop if a person who is doing a lot of
zera with the internet and this is this
he has to
help other people to get off it or for
no doubt to stop himself
but you know he has to do mikveh every
day no questions secretly every day
shiroshi remember every area of shabbos
a big big big school is reading a
perk shira every day he has so many
things
yeah where's the whole thing it takes
five minutes ten minutes
huh
it's very short it's very short it's it
takes me maybe i read it every day when
i walk from show home takes me like
seven eight minutes
for the rest of your life you don't know
uh
it takes literally seven eight minutes
make way you if you would know it's a
migraine you would sleep in the
microwave
if you would realize what's a make way
you would not go out of the milkweed
we can do one next to you i'll teach you
everything about mcveigh i promise you
that you're going to live in the midway
if you would know it's a migraine but in
the general concept of the migraine
every other that you do you bring on
your
even the smallest avara
you know the little thing you can be 100
totally from
you looked for three seconds at the
wrong you looked at a beautiful woman
you enjoyed her beauty for three seconds
on your body
yeah but if you
so much more if a person is not
religious there's different different
levels of
the worst is too much met but they also
have to from beyo
you have the work
is forbidden relations
from kosher stuff you each
cautiously is one of the worst
that a person can bring on himself
you eat all sorts of animals that you're
not supposed to
no boy if you eat something grocery i
don't have a problem but you know how
many people
there they don't eat meat and dairy they
don't eat all certain animals but
they'll go to a restaurant that doesn't
have a good hershey and the
and the puerto rican in the back doesn't
doesn't really check the leaves and you
eat on your in your salad you hear his
joke sharma is a joke you know that's
why you know
kosher is not just the meat and the
dairy kosher if you really
this is the secret if you want to be
mama
perfect or you you become super strict
with kosher to the point that you don't
eat any you you don't you go beyond and
beyond and beyond
huh
i eat meat with very very little and if
i made meat only from a certain
chocolate that i know in the certain
type of shrita
the shrita that i eat is actually a
shrita
only
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mainly because lubavitch the vehicle
they also bet yourself
they do all sorts of things that most
share other shims they don't really do i
usually don't try to not eat meat
because you know we're not hmm
mainly the thing is that
even in even we're not in in a
generation that our body can actually
handle me too much and the meat in our
generation especially in america is
injected with all sorts of steroids with
all sorts of proteins and literally the
meat will be fat the meat is not healthy
here my wife buys meat from a grass-fed
a private farm that we know the chochet
that the meat is good you eat the meat
you're like wow this is meat but most of
the meat in this country is bad meat the
chickens are bad if you see how they
grow them
yeah that's why you have to be very
strict with your diet and all these
things they mess up with your brain
before three year old the thing is that
it's not a halacha
it's a mean hug
but the rizal was so mahmir about it
that again if you want to go by you have
no problem this is not a halacha
the the rizal
made a
whole union with this whole thing he
didn't let anyone if anybody would come
to him and talk to him about the hair
don't touch the hair
that's the result but it's not
what's the reason
why there's
simple reasons you can understand
but like other reasons others mitzvot
voted we don't have a reason you don't
really understand it there's a certain
kedusha that the child has
it comes in the hair hair
in
hair is a very very special thing that's
why women cover the hair that's why men
don't touch the hair there's ah hair is
a very sag
it signifies something very very big
for hashem to create the world he had to
do a tim tsuma he had to contract the
light and the biggest contracting the
biggest theme zone had to be to remove
the orange off and to create
to remove a
infinite and to create in it a finite
existence
so that's in tsum the contraction had to
be the most strongest symptom
and it corresponds to our hairs in this
world everything in this world is a
chain reaction
what we have here originated in above so
what we see here the lowest level of
hyut in our body is hair hair and nails
it's it's alive hair grows and nail
grows
but
the amount of
life force in it is so
minimum that you can cut the hair you
don't feel it
so this corresponds to the highest level
of tim tumelo ki because it was in the
level of removing
the infinite the the infinite and
bringing in it the finite it's
two complete uh contradictions having
something that it's infinite and finite
at the same time
this is like the highest level of the
locate and daft the sarot
comes from that there what goes
there's a concept of kabbalah
with matamata whatever goes all the way
down whatever you see in this world that
is in the lowest it originated in the
highest
so the lowest part in the body that has
the least coyote is hair
and it means that there what the hair
originates from oh it originates from
the highest highest level
that's why women cover the hair they can
allow it even to see a piece of the hair
that's why we don't cut the beard you
asked before about the beard this is
another reason it's such a tim tsum in
the hair that it originates from such a
high source so the same thing with the
kids i don't know i'm not um to explain
to you but there's something in the
sarot in the hairs of the child that the
rizal was like fanatic don't don't tear
touch it and only for child yeah
the three are the three years old
the words
yeah man has to go
a man is good to constantly shave his
head not to have too much hair and have
a haircut it's not good the clipper they
get carried they get
they grab on the the hair white people
don't do a long-term childhood why
because a child is kadosh he doesn't
have a sin it's pure totally pure
yeah we're talking about a third
three-year-old
child is kadosha yellow
if you wanna if you want something to
happen you bring up why did why did for
example mordechai how did he break the
gaza he brought all the kids he didn't
bring they didn't tell the people to do
shiva he told the people going fast
but he brought the kids you know
he put them in one big synagogue and
made them say the torah their mouth is
so holy kids are holy kids doesn't have
a sin a three-year-old is a kadosh there
you know he can't do sin so his hair is
his hair is totally holy now if you have
an issue which long bite if a wife wants
to cut the hair
shlombite is more important than you
know kabbalistic explanations on the
hair you go to rav and you tell the rav
what's the problem and the love tells
you it's fine this is not
you know it's not a sin you have nothing
to worry about if you need to cut the
hair because the wife is crazy about it
and she doesn't want the hair for
whatever reason strong bite is more
important
oh if it's just for that you put the
hair in the ponytail on the top and
he'll be fine and you turn the air
conditioning on if it's something minor
don't don't take the shot from the from
the kid
according to kabbalah everything that
you do has a
reaction an act
the more dusha you take away from a kid
when he grows up he's lacking it it's
harder for him to do about hashem
that's why you know
all when the husband and wife are
together to do a child
the more the act is in kudusa the more
kadosh the child goes out that's why you
sometimes you see this big rabbanim the
children are like
why because when they conceived it was a
hundred percent kosher not one little
not kosher thing in it and the thing is
within when the husband is doing the
mitzvah
he's cooking the sperm the sperm comes
from the brain
and when he is about to finish the brain
the sperm comes from the brain out from
the spine all the way down the spine
through the organ and goes out and the
father is the mohin
we're not going to get we can do a whole
sure about that too the father creates
all the levushima of the of the child
the mother is bina
banim
she creates the the she cooks the body
for nine months but the father cooks it
in his brain for two three minutes what
the father is saying
thinking or doing during the act oh
you can't even imagine and the father
dresses in the shama with all the
so if the father is now picturing in his
mind i'm going to go to to talk a little
bit more free if the father in his mind
is picturing the act and all the good
things are going around it oh he's
dressing the kid with the vushim tsoim
with disgusting
garments and if the father during the
act is not looking at his wife he's not
doing it to enjoy he's doing it because
he's bringing in a shema from shamayim
and his you know his mind is somewhere
else he's thinking diverter
you think of many things
there's a lot of things to think yeah
you you laugh but you know it sounds
when when i'm cooking my child up huh
it's complicated
it's not complicated if you if you know
if the thing is like this
you have to deal with the child for at
least 20 years
to bring him up
so it's five minutes of cooking the
rights
you have a child that is easy to raise
now the thing is if the father is
thinking during the act when i was
when i'm cooking a child i'm thinking of
i'm memorizing in my mind
and you know and i see with my children
i know where i feel when the child comes
down when you if you elevate to a nice
level you feel the sperm coming out of
your brain and you feel when is it when
it's a child
that's why you
that's why you have to constantly
the only time that one would maybe allow
you not to concentrate is when the wife
is already pregnant and even then you
still have to look at this
but yeah you don't know when your wife
is getting pregnant so every time you
have to leave kadosh
right
it's not simple to be a jew
no
but i'll tell you who's standing next to
the bed
la medulla medutap is standing next to
the bed waiting for one drop to come out
that's why
is only not only sitting in watching a
movie or going with a goya or whatever
is how you with your wife
because lame dude is standing there
there's all sorts of you need to know
that
if it leaks out after the act and the
manly organ is already down no problem
but you have to be very careful because
you don't know what's the drop that is
real and what's the drop that comes out
because the woman
takes the ducha so the water the sperm
the water the sperm comes in water the
water that leaks out that's fine but
unfortunately every time my husband and
wife are together now you think that
she's a physical this girl with this
this satan
if you
go into a mind of a of a robber a robber
well where will he go to rob he was
going to go to rob a house in a great
neck or is he going to go to rob a house
in harlem no of course he's going to go
to great neck there's a jewelry and tvs
and everything the same with the clipper
you think the clip is going to go to
rashad let's not do shot there the clip
goes dafka to the way they do shines
because there oh there's meat there
so rami dude is standing next to the bed
every time the husband and wife are
together and she's waiting just for one
drop to come out and then she grabs it
and she takes this drop and gets
pregnant with it and brings down to this
world of demon shed
a shed that's why you have all the
tourists in the blowing themselves up
they're shading they're not human and
let me do this standing next to the bed
waiting for the husband to pull out and
to to steal one drop so the act with the
husband and wife that's why you have to
have the right preparation you have to
wash your hands there's so many things
the zorro says there's also soaking from
the zombies you have to say
if you want to do it a hundred percent
this
huh
it's not like throwing your wife on bed
and yellow you know it doesn't work like
that you have this is this is a holy act
you know
why is it considered such a bad thing
because this is the only mitzvah that
hashem makes you a partner that hashem
gives you godly power hashem makes you
eloquent
you have the power to create life can
you imagine
and if you go and mash it you ruin it
why why why why
it's like your father giving you the
keys to the brand new mercedes well if
you put one scratch on it i'm gonna i
don't know what don't come home even
so this is al-khatkam of akama hashem
tells you i'm making you now a partner
here
you going and messing it all up
that's why you know you see in the torah
every time that it came to that thing
even now with
and his girlfriend
the worst came out every time the zima
in the torah you see what is what is
balak said oh no okay bilaam didn't
wasn't able to curse them so he said oh
uh
creator shallam they both shall and
their their eloka hates zima let's go
and send all the
the girls to them
this is the worst thing that hashem
hates the worst because he gives you the
keys to the safe i'm making you now a
god you can create now humans and you
can't go in now
to to to reverse it so when you're doing
the whole act you have to have the right
mind when i was preparing for when i was
a katharine i went to my love you know
what he told me oh you think it's you
when your wife goes to the migraine you
start this dog all night you study
when your wife comes you don't look at
your body you your mind is like flying
somewhere in bahrain
of course you have to you have to enjoy
it you have to wife has to enjoy it
there's but you you have to know when
where is the line that you're not
letting yourself too much to go because
every little thing here five minutes of
pleasure and 20 years of headache from
your child that is dressed in this
levushim and it's not fair for the child
why do you think people who are violate
your vote they come from harim that oh i
can't even imagine how my parents
conceived me they give you the livoshim
then you have to deal with this you have
to deal with all this yet
constantly and all these mahshav
where do you think it comes from it
comes from the regime your parents gave
it
so when you are with your wife you want
to make sure that everything everything
is pure you're saying the right thing
you're thinking the right thing he's
still in the line
what's himself with that fish
and the actor's right you don't want to
be you know
it's sad because you're like you know
the best thing out of life you're taking
away when i first became religious i
thought oh yeah i'm gonna have my wife
everything's back to normal my everybody
told me no no no no no you got it all
wrong that's not how it works you bring
your partner with hashem you're bringing
a shamath into the world
and then how you cook them how you
conceive them you are designed in the
shama you're dressing the soul right now
you the father not the mother the mother
can think whatever she wants because
she's no you know if you want to go in
in the more the level of of kabbalah the
father is the mohin
is the ab the mother is bina she is the
m and then there's the yehud zun is the
is the
the connection how do you say yahood is
the
the the unity
the father is the one who brings the ma
over the woman takes it puts it in her
body and starts cooking it for nine
months but the father has five ten
minutes to concentrate the right way and
he's designing the neshama not only that
the higher the father reaches the higher
he pulls down and the shema from a
higher place so you see sometimes
certain individual i know one guy where
where i live you look at him he looks to
you like a malach you see his kids you
never seen anything like it
you see the face like you know you can't
even you you you seem
so you know that's why the rizal says
even in the little things nafka in the
little things don't don't give discounts
because you you say oh the the boy
sweats for so he'll sweat for a year but
he'll be kadosh for the rest of his life
so you put the ponytail up on the top
whatever he's a boy he doesn't care if
he's wet put the air conditioning on
it's chavez
if you're going if you're saying okay
i'm not so particular according to no
problem you can cut the hair but if you
want to be
why why do we have kabbalah in our
generation why do we have zohar why do
we have khasidut because without the
primother torah the torah is not worth
anything
the reason why it wasn't taught for so
many years is there's a reason for that
but daft in our generation nafka we have
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