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Here we are. Ready, set, go. We are live to the daily Ari and Isaac show. Isaac here in the West from the state of Arizona. Ari right there from the state of New York, the East Coast. 100 PM for Ari. 10:00 a.m. for Isaac. We're excited for another showm. Welcome. Welcome. We see you live. I mean, we don't see you, but we we see that there's people live here. If you could please comment. Let me turn on the comments so me and Ari can see it. Chime in. Say hi. Say good morning. Say good afternoon. Say something smart that you want us to talk about today. Go for it. We appreciate it. Really appreciate it. We did start a minute early. So there might be the actual kiza people. How do you say? Steady. steady people that are coming that are like we we give them a minute to join. In the meantime, it's so it's and it's also my birthday. Yes. Yep. I would have done the thing, but I don't have the phone here. Wow. Oh, what is it? A laptop. Happy birthday. Yeah, now it's a laptop. Happy birthday. Yep. Um I I you should have told me in advance. I would have bought uh something maybe to celebrate. I only have a sigh. That's it. But I should have. Yeah. Don't tell your wife. Did your wife remember? Yeah. Yeah. Wow. That's always It's always so comforting to see that the wife remembers my birthday. Yeah. Because I most of the time forget. Most of the time. Mine is like a few days after Tishabuff. So it's all it's such a me you know you have to tish above it's the summer you know everything is in bar park nothing is the same in the summer it's like off time and and I I always cannot forget like I remember mama most of the time my mom reminds me and she's in Israel so so by her it's like a few hours late already so when she reminds me it's like the beginning of my birthday usually that's what happens and it's always surprising to that my wife remembered. It's such a feeling. So yeah, I have I have one brother and he's like rude like crazy and he always the first one to call and he always remembers everybody's birthday. That's so nice. That is so nice. He called me last night and it was just so funny because you know we're three hours behind. It was like two minutes before any time and he called me like he's like happy birthday. I'm like sorry you're two minutes early. Bye. It was so nice. Um I have a sister that put together a calendar for all the birthdays. Not only us, the our kids as well. So all the click and all the kids and all the anniversaries, but but to to read it is like a whole job. It's like a big big board and you have to like follow the whole time. So, I'm not so good at it. If if any of my siblings see this, I apologize. I'm not the type. But if maybe we should hire Isaac's brother to to to call us for the birthdays and make sure we all call each other. Yeah. Yeah. He'll be good at that. He'll be very good at that. It's my parents 40th anniversary on Shabas. Shabas is obviously not before. Shri is right after Shu is. So, I'm hoping I'm hoping to be in at school for the anniversary Baza show. Okay, that's exciting. That's exciting. Yeah, some some of the kids said, "Let's wait till 50." You know, 50 is a bigger deal, but today we know, most of us know over here, unless you're too young. I mean, when I was young, I didn't know. Maybe some young people do know. Um, nothing is guaranteed. You never know what's going to be by 50. My is younger than me. My was at 36. I'm 38. Wow. From a car accident. Nobody knows what's tomorrow. You have to get your good act. When I will be I will be when I h when I'll have I'll be happy. You don't know. So be happy now. Beam now. Be nice to people now. Don't wait. And if we're celebrating the 40th anniversary, let's celebrate it now. If it's your 9th anniversary, celebrate it now. Don't wait for the 10. By the time you'll do the 10, but now do the ninth. Wow. Wow. Yeah. I I say this story sometimes and people might know it, but I'll I'll share it again. I don't think you know it and people enjoy hearing it. My name my name is People know me as Isaac. My real name is, but I have a second name. My real name is Yitzko. Yeah, I heard I didn't hear. Yeah, it's my real name. And the story goes that my grandfather, my father's father, his name was Yetskman. The people called him and and my and once once he was an after he passed away my father wanted very badly to have a son to be able to give the names and went by a nice amount of years and there was no you know nobody nobody was born period. So then one one year my father went to Monrov's and while he was dabbing there he said you know if I have a boy then I'll actually add the name and if you make a it's nine months later nine months from the basically if you go four days later wow so my name is Wow. Yep. It's very interesting talking about names. I also have a I have a few stories about names. I have a few kids but two of the kids is a very interesting story. I also never spoke about it not publicly. It's a cool it's cool that these topics come to life to life without us like doing anything. So interesting story. My second son my first son it took time. So on the second son, we were looking for like a to make it more easy. So there's a famous that if you put 40 days a candle, it actually helps for the one thing you ask. It's it's like a famous very powerful. Got it. Yeah. So don't ask me for instructions. I'm not a rabbi. Skills have no rules. Let by the way every day. What what's that skillet that they nag us about every year? The the thing. Yep. So, so here's the the essence of agilla. The way I see it, agilla is just a it's not a trick to bypass Hashem. It's not a okay, you know what? I don't need to dive and learn and do and be. It's just I'm going to find a way around all this. I'll do my thing and I'll do this G. I'll go to and I'll be a millionaire. So asgil is just just like you would be in and a mitzvah asgilla is just another another merit that you're looking for to connect on a deeper level to make the only reason you lack anything in your life including money including happiness including health including um kids the only reason we lack something and everyone lacks something is to keep that connection. It's like a leash in the after. It actually says clearly that you hold the money as a leash for us. I said this in my latest talks podcast that you can now see on a loud flight. It's very cool. I'm going to hope to see it me when I go. But uh you holding us close to you with a leash like not to run away too far as a reminder constant reminder by money mainly. Some people have other challenges and make sure the challenge is not too heavy so you can still handle it. But the only reason we have a challenge is because we went a little far. So by getting closer we connect again to dash. Dash bu come anyway. the the the abundance keeps coming from sky to us the entire time. Yep. From from Hashem to us. So the only reason it would there would be aim there would be a a junction is only because we step out of our soil is just a way of connecting again. It's just a way to bring you back to who you are to your mission to your real self. Um when we say real self is real real self like and part of it is being and being connected. If you did some deepening if you did some self work if you didn't you're going to get there one day one way or another. Yeah. It's uh the life teaches you and this this is the challenge. This is the way this is the the the the reason we're here uh as humans. So how did I get into do it? One second. Let me track back. Oh, so when we say asgil, it's not to trick Hashem, the system, God. It's not to trick it. I'll use the power of the Tadic. It's just I'm getting closer by doing this Gil and I mean well and I'm asking in the of theadic. I'm still asking Hashem. I'm not asking the Tadic to you know what protection as a shortcut. You know what? You're you're closer to him than me. Get a get get me in a good word. No, it's it's it's a cohesive. I bring the into the conversation between me and Hashem and I say please, you know, let's I I want to be connected. I remember it's all you. Um, so it's same for so it doesn't have a rule. If you put the paper and if you eight times and if you put it on the right side, y works if you are looking to connect to Hashem. That's it. That's when it works. So the way it goes that you put on a candle 40 days, you can you can tweak it. It doesn't have exact rules. It's when you feel it, you put on a candle, you ask and we had a very everything worked out very very nice, better than expected. So we decided to give the name what happened next is going to shock you. Wow. My next son was born. Wow. But that's something nobody could have thought or planned. And if you know is one day after so we gave him which I to this day try to light a candle every day for them. Wow. Wow. Beautiful. You remind me actually one of my my my first boy was born on um it's like it's a big day in S. Yeah. So you are as well. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Um it's one thing. Okay. You don't want to go into it or what? It's the same. So you should be fine. rights for that that I actually agree to. Okay. So the we agree on that much I can agree. It's both I was by the show of Satma. Satma has a a pleasant but I don't think it's a word. Um a pleasure. There's a English vibe like a a welcoming vibe. That's the word I was looking for. There's a very welcoming vibe that I had by the show. Mash. Mhm. Yeah, that's true. The people, it's just like a it's it's a very no tension. I was in other places and I'm close to other places that there's tension. You know, there's Yeah. Yeah. I won't say names. You know exactly what I'm talking about. Yep. Yep. Relax. Yeah. I I think Hashem likes the let's be relaxed and and and Poland is I think we we this generation needs more. Yeah. I think now it's it's like that thing like travel to Arizona that type of relaxed and nice vibe. So it's not running away. It's balancing out. And you know what? I'll say from the more the guys also need, you know, if you'll be too much, so you'll be outside talking, laughing, hoping on the beam. No, no, no. Too much, right? But you need more. I'm sorry for the only English- speakaking people for not understanding a few of the terms. If you are here, please comment. Tell me that uh I should translate. But yeah, guys, comment. I see people are here, but they're they're very they're shy. Guys, come on. Chime in. Chime in. Chime in is like a chime in. It's a shortcut for chime in. Chime in. So, so both both of us can balance it out. Both of us need more of [Music] it's good. Okay. Okay. Oh, wow. Do I know them? Um I don't know. So So that's the idea. So, so they they I enjoy their aava because I come from more background and you enjoy more Arizona because you come but somebody that comes from aava background is going to need a little bit more. He might go into Brisk and get excited where he doesn't feel that always. So there is a balance. We all have to balance out. But for now, Hashem has um this piece from this piece from this piece from this piece from bells and we're all going to be one big right. I also just wanted to finish up um from yesterday. You know, we we mentioned whoever was here live and Ari was having his uh his dosage in the morning and I was and really I didn't see a way out. I did not see a way out. It was it was crazy and it was just like amazing how like in the middle of that whole thing I went on live and all I can say is you it it sorted itself out and noo-noo you know it ended up in a noo-noo situation. instead of like it was chaos really like with the amount of things that were just like every text that came in was like bang bang bang and we're here. It's it's I think it's interesting that every time that we get chuckled up for for small or for big at the end it's a no-noo. Sometimes it's a very happy ending but even even worst case scenario it's a no-noo. It's never as worse as we thought. But the problem is a day later when it hits us again, we don't remember. Wait it out. Give it a few minutes. Give it a few hours. Give it a give it a few days. You'll be fine. And and that's scary moment. You know, people maybe this is also a good opportunity to call out to people who are in rough decisions, in rough situations. Don't make any rough decisions. you know, give give it I learned lately to sleep over a um an argument or if I needed to answer somebody and I felt like I got to tell Wait, wait, wait, wait, give it give it at least one night. I love that. I I may I I was in the talks of a deal with someone and everything looked so okay. So, let's sign. He says, "Yes, everything is ready. Everything is perfect. I'm ready to go further. I just want to sleep over it." So Munic by me I sleep over it and I and I to it's it's very clever but it's for bad also the worst of the worst happens. Give it a night. Give it two nights. Very interesting because I my mom started doing that a couple years ago. I realized what a night sleep does when you give something a few hours. And it's funny like I I I really stick to it. I had this marketing company that called me over here locally and it sounded like a very good opportunity to advertise like they would give me the slots and really sound good. I was ready to say yes, but also this one thing you need I don't respond yes until I sleep it over and they were like, "Oh, whatever." I was like turned off. No, no, no. We're looking for someone that can make a decision right now on this call. Like get out of here. Usually that's a sign. Wow. I have that in the show. Somebody told me there's three signs for bad customers. I'm going to try to remember them. But it was so good. I hope it's on the episode. I didn't see it in the episode. The three signs are one. He wants this second right now. Get up and come right now. Can you come right now? Film something right now. It's never going to work out. Even if you're going to run and do it, it's not gonna Even if he promises you a million dollars, it's never going to work out. Never. Yeah. Um the second one is um you come and you'll have a a bunch of exposure. If you this one, you're going to get 15 jobs. I'm telling you right away. Everybody It never works. Never works. Never. Somebody that's asking for a real big discount. Mom, something that's going to hurt you already like like you feel like you're giving yourself away already. It's never going to work. Never going to work. Wow. Never going to work. So true. So true. All right, we're closing up 20 minutes. Say everybody and I'm gonna go relax, bro. Yeah, relax. I hope everybody enjoyed the show. If you could still like and comment, you can still comment after, by the way, it stays saved on YouTube and on LinkedIn. And hope to see you all tomorrow again. Thank you so much. And