The A. I. Daily live show #9

Welcome everyone to the daily AI live show. And by the way, it takes a few seconds or minutes for LinkedIn to realize, hey, I think they clicked live. Oh, maybe we should start loading them because every time I rewatch, sometimes I do. Most of the time, no, just the first few seconds, it always is in the middle of some deep conversation already. So I think it takes them a long time. LinkedIn's and okay with all due respect and um so we're live. It doesn't matter how many hours before I say Isaac today we're going to be on time. This happens that happens. live has challen you. I'm on the highway so mine is shaking probably. Um that's how we do. Yeah, we're losing you a little bit here. There in and out. Really? Yeah. All right. Little blurry right now, but Reception is semi fine. Okay. So, I'm on the highway back from a break. Did you have in mind a topic? Oh, me. Yeah. Um I think you go you go this time. Okay. So, I'm going to say I had a mind to talk about Kahuni yesterday, but I had something more more important. And today also I'm putting it aside. Maybe tomorrow we'll talk about it. my story with Kyle Tuni. But what I want to mention is taking a break. I'm just on the way back from taking a break. Whoever saw my status and I try I I try not to share breaks. Um when I say break, I mean getting out of your daladamas going an hour, two, three, four, five, vacation, you name it. Um I don't like to post things from a vacation. I don't like to post food. I think um getting people jealous is not a healthy thing for nobody. Um I'm not a fan of sharing family members on you'll never see my family members. It's it's a it's a different thing. It has nothing to do with social media. You should keep your social life separate, professional, clean. If you're here because you need to that, by the way, that was not the topic, but we're already here. If you have any comments, any questions, go for it. If um if you hear, stick to the pan, okay? Don't get carried around. Don't put up your steak and whatever not. Don't do it. Don't do it. I I won't tell you why not. If you have a brain, you'll figure out why not. Don't do it. Okay? It's not healthy for not for you or not for them, right? Um, so yeah, just before you jump in, I did post one thing. Just before you jump in, anybody listening, if you're live, please comment. We figured out the comments and we would love to hear what you have to say. Even if you just say, "Hi, we have the comments open. We're waiting and ready for your smart things to say." All right, Ari, go. If I would get the link at some point, I don't know. We're going to figure this out one day. I don't know how many days it could take tomorrow. It could be in a year from now when we figure out how to do my LinkedIn live link on my status which has a couple thousand people probably there would be a bigger audience here and it would be easier but uh I know that a lot of people watch it later so we talk as if this is uh Hish. So, I did post one thing today, uh, showing a little bit of of where I was. And whoever has my status knows I'm not I I want to bring out one thing because I wanted to bring out that if you're debating, if it's time to take a break now, usually what comes up for you is, ah, it's not a good time now. You know, I'm busy with this, I'm busy with that. There's always excuses why not to take a break now. There's always like, maybe I'll do it next week, next month, next year. There's never a good time and never the best time to take a break than right now. If you haven't had in the last few weeks a break, a break can be a short thing like one night, two nights, it could be a longer thing, 10 days, do it. And and and then I'll tell you that even more importantly, if you have a wife, so you should do it with your wife. That's even more critical. And I've heard interesting was audience said um happy wife happy life and I know it's [Applause] not a hot topic but popular topic right we don't cannot go into the bisa mikdash without being married and probably needs to have shul bias. They can't be fighting if if he's going to keep at this. So taking the break with your wife is even more important. Maybe there's someone here laughing to himself saying, "Hey, the whole point is to get away from her. I'm sorry for you if you feel that way, but I'm telling you the whole point is to get away with her and get into a bond and get out of this heavy kind of noise. Taking a break is critical for your mental health, for your physical health, uh for your well-being. And if you care about you, I know you care about your surroundings, if it's your brothers, if it's your kids, if it's your no time. But what about you? When was the last time you took care of you? Are you waiting for who to take care of you? Who will take care of you? There's one guy in charge to take care of you, and that's you. and Hashem demands it from you to take care of you in several different versions. One of them is if you keep running, running, running, running, that's not that is madness. So, this is coming out better than I expected. I didn't I I don't I'm a true believer that when you get such a Hashem puts the words into you. It's true. So here we here we had one of the I just put up one of the comments from someone that in the beginning of the show asked what is this live about. So I hope that that question got answered already. Harry came in very clearly about you know it's all about taking a break and you need to take a break from the daytoday and especially with your spouse. Um so I'm going to remove that comment right now. I'm going to hide that. And then we had another comment here from someone else that said after hearing your wise your wise words said this is an important topic. Too many people burn out because they don't know their limits. Know your boundaries. Okay. Hashem made us limited. Our body is limited. Our mind is limited. We can only handle this much. And we should not wait for the emergency lights to go off. And we should now just the other day I'm not gonna say a name but Abel's 65 years old on the Palisades just he went into the gas station. That's it. It was over. Um people walk around with stress these days today. Everyone has stress. Everyone in a different level. Everyone on a different uh a lot of people think they're alone. This is also very important to stick this in. You're not alone. Every single person around you has stress of something. Everyone today when I was a kid they used to say a lot of people walk around with it. Today we say everyone everyone has a different challenge in life. Everyone has something that's stressing him out. Everyone has this challenge of telling himself I'm okay and having the and whining up or turning on the volume turning higher the volume of a and trusting that it will be fine and it will work out. Um, so you're not alone there. And take a break. Take a break. Even though you think, "Oh, I'll take a day off, then I'm not going to be able to do it, but I need the consistency." Trust me, the best consistency would be if you take one day off at least once a month, I would say, is is is a good number. Even a short thing, and then a longer thing, maybe once in six months. I don't know. I'm guessing this is this is something that I would say for me. Maybe you're more stressed out than you you more running around than me. So you maybe you need more or or less. Some people need a little less, but not too much less. You need to take a break. And it's it's a blessing. And and when you go out, like I went close to nature, saw some nature, saw something different, it clears your mind. The first hour you still you're still running. The second hour, it takes a good few hours for you to tone down. Zone in. Put away that phone. Put away that phone. Put away that phone. I could speak hours about put away that phone. And just be. Just be. Hashem put enough good things within you that you don't really need. You don't need. It's funny that the young couples that go out usually, they need attractions. They search for attractions near me. Let's go to the Boeing. Let's go to the roller coaster. Let's go. With the age, you figure out you don't need all those things. You just need to sit. What? I'll just be by my Yeah, you'll just be by yourself with a book like a grandpa. You don't even need a book. You'll be fine. Just watch whatever scene you went to and just be there. You'll see. Give it give it a give it an hour. You'll see. You You will tone in, zone in. You will reach a healthy state of mind. You will your battery will will feel like it's refilled and you're going to come back as a fresh man. It doesn't take much. If you're debating if to take a break or not, if you're debating when should be your next vacation, book it right now, brother. Book it right now. You will not right now. Shut up the live and book it. Exactly. So, here we have one comment someone wrote from LinkedIn. Maybe we need a break instead. Um here another one someone chimed in also like knowledge and news and knowing about everything happening in the new forbidden is the new forbidden fruit. Hashem did not design us to be all knowing. It's too much. I like that. Maybe another day we'll speak about with your wife is actually good thing and I've learned it in an interesting way. I whatever this is too long already. This is already 11 and a half minutes. We're going to cut it for tomorrow. But if anybody wants comment below and we'll see if the pop if the topic is popular, we'll continue this. If not, we'll go to Kafuni tomorrow. Rab Isaac was a pleasure. Was an absolute pleasure. One second. One second. One more comment. just came in. Just want to honor everybody's stuff. He's also from LinkedIn and he's writing a nature is a serotonin booster. What's that? Nature is a serotonin booster. Well, it's a something good booster, I guess. That's for sure. That's what he writes. And to put the phone aside, that's for sure. Cheap dopamine at the palm of the hands. Cheap dopamine at the palm of the hands. I I I'll say a story. Let Let's maybe drag this another two minutes. I'll say a story. I was on vacation uh a few years ago. Um and I came to this beautiful place. It was close to the water and day one I had three nights. So on day one when I arrived I got a phone call from a big marketing agency and they wanted a series of six videos plus 18 actors. It was like a big thing but they wanted a quote and I putting together a quote for that takes time. Um I need to figure out how much it's going to cost the actors. is the locations it. So they go, "No, no, no. We need it now. We need it now. We need it now." And I'm on vacation. So what I should have done and I know only now and you'll learn in a minute is I sorry I'm not in the office. I'll be back next week. We'll talk. But I had my not enough. I said, "Wow, this is the biggest job I ever got. I know I'm on vacation, but let me This is good. It was worthwhile to come. You know, all the excuses, all be able to be more rested if I get this job. Yeah. And then I went for it took me almost a little more than 24 hours to put together the quote. An enormous amount of phone calls. I did not enjoy the vacation at for a second. I didn't I I wasn't there. I was talking talking. Finally, I got the quote in. I was waiting. They It took them a few hours to answer me. So, I'm already on day on the last night and and and I'm still waiting for an answer. Still waiting and they're back and forth. Yeah. Another question, another answer. Finally, they give me the final answer and it's a big no. Oh, man. Brother, you have no idea. I can feel it in my stomach right now as I'm speaking about this. You have no idea. It was such a patch in my face and I learned the hard way for the rest of my life. I took the phone. I slammed it into the corner of the hotel. I had three hours left to the to the to the flight. I had three hours left. I went down to the water. I put the I put on a had and I sat staring at the water for three hours with nothing. And it was the best three hours. So, I won't say it was worthwhile, but the lesson the lesson was so hard. When you take a break, do not touch that phone. And it doesn't matter how tempting. And the most tempting things are going to come then. Yeah. Do not do not put it away. Put it away. The will do anything to get you away from your vacation, from your break, because he knows when you have a break, you go into sanity. You go into to a a better mode of yourself, a a higher mode, a higher self spiritually and physically. Don't mess it up with this stupid cheap dopamine in your palm. Yep. Yeah. Unbelievable. So true. Wow. when the that no that no after all that trust me it was such a lesson since then every vacation I couldn't care less the president should call me I'm not available y I'm not available you know it's funny I have it on not on such a big scale but a little bit like I found almost 16 minutes yeah I just want to finish up with this one thing very similar to what what you just mentioned that I just like found myself with a little extra time and I'm like you know s maybe I should take in the middle of the day and I did that. I did that and it's unbelievable. As you know, every day that as soon as I scheduled for a half hour in the middle of the day, there's always stuff coming up. Always stuff coming up. The clever thing to do is put it away outside of the shield. Sit down, forget about the world. You'll see things are going to work out even better. That's one of the things I'm put on. It's not to brag, it's to teach. So, if one guy is going to start doing this, it's going to be amazing. And that would that's all worth it. this whole thing. I put away my phone always outside the shield. I never take my phone into the shield. It's not only disrespectful. It's it's it's how how crazy can I be? I came to Davin. I came to learn I I still need Well, come on. Come on. The the the few minutes. Let me not be a slave to this plastic or Thank you so much for buying. This was a good one. Yeah. Yeah, I think I think when you're driving, you're you're in the right mode. Yeah, maybe I should try driving more often in the live. You guys, I think I'll start driving. We'll both be driving next time. All right, Reaix, see you tomorrow. Yep. See you. Take care. Bye-bye.