The A. I. Daily live show #10

Good morning. Good afternoon. Good morning, East Coast. Good afternoon, East Coast. Good morning, West Coast. I'm in Baltimore, so I don't know what it what is what is it called? I left at 5:00 a.m. today. Arrived here at 9:00 a.m. I went to some shield. Whoever sees my status is going to see. By the way, if you don't know where to sign up, my status is 347-4204995. Um, I did see that LinkedIn does take a minute or two or three to start the live and I do I do agree with what you said yesterday that it takes people time to realize that you are live and click the link and actually see it. So, we rather start maybe a few minutes in. Um, I'm in a very interesting location. I could have given you a tour of probably an hour just to see the place. It's humongous. Very remote location. People don't know about this, but he's not allowing me to talk about it. And I took a break with him. I said, I have this live. I have to go for this live for few minutes. So, um, life is very very colorful. Life takes you so many different places, so many unexpected places. Especially in this field, it has ups and downs. Some people would say, "Oh, wow. He's going everywhere. He's flying everywhere." It comes with a set of challenges of its own. You never know what's going to hit you next moment. Some people like it. Some people don't. Some people sometimes they also don't. Even the people who it looks like I'm seeing the status of Zans. Okay. This guy, it looks like he's on a plane three times a day. That's what it looks like right now. I think he's in Riad with President Trump. He was yesterday in DC and a day before in somewhere else. Like he's literally on the plane the whole time. That's what it looks like. I don't know. Maybe he puts up status. I I'm not sure and I don't check all his statuses, but what I'm saying is I'm sure he also pays a price. It does look exciting when he is in the place. Right now I'm enjoying. But the the ride here from 5:00 a.m. to 9:00 a.m. I'm not complaining. I'm just saying don't ever be jealous. Take the full package. Don't ever be jealous of anyone about anything. You see someone with a big giant car. You see someone with a bunch of kids and show them somebody has challenges or anybody you see everything has a good and bad. Um I I once heard a very good quote. You know what? This is a good this is a deep one. This is a good way to start. Um, it's called choose your heart. Yeah, heard that one. We spoke about that, right? I think we spoke about it. When I heard it, it shifted my mind in a good way. And and this is every everything in life. Choose your heart. Not having kids and having kids both are hard. Which one do you want? Not being married and yes, being married both are hard. So always usually it's what we don't have that's what we want more. But remember one is harder and you choose which one everything in life comes with challenges. So I'm glad I have this heart. Talking specifically about this but if you have something hard think about what the opposite of it. Would you want it different? You probably won't in most cases. I think I said a long monologue. You have something to add on this topic. I do. Um, and I was like so curious when I saw that background. At first I was like, was is that like some fake background? Like a virtual background or something? No, I don't do these virtual things. I don't I I I He's not allowing me to talk about this place. But it's humongous. It's and it's so quiet and it's like a perfect place to to do a live with no, you know, nobody disturbing. There's several perfect places in here, but it's it's Baltimore. I can't I I can't move here. Um it's too far out. It's I'm not going to drive four hours for the live every now and then, but it's a perfect place. Maybe we'll do something together here one day. Who knows? Yeah. Yeah. Um, so yeah, challenges, life challenges. Everybody has challenges. We spoke about it a little yesterday. I did want to finish um if you didn't have anything specifically in mind. Remember what you wanted to say? Remember what you wanted to say, but I just wanted to say about that one thing, you know, you were saying how people look at it and look at this guy and he's traveling all over and you know, Zans and whatnot. So what the way I look at it another like you know way to look at it is let's say if you're watching remember here in the audience is watching Ari and saying oh wow now he's in Baltimore now he's there I would say that you're someone that likes travel you like exploring you like know some people don't get excited they want to just like sit in an office but if you're that person that liking these stuff you might have in you that you like traveling you like these type of things and then you know might be something to look into that it's it's like a like a hint that maybe that's what you like doing. Um you know obviously one of the things that I like doing is talking live. So I'm enjoying myself right now and it was something that took time for me to learn um that this is something that I like doing and you know maybe sitting in an office was not the thing that I like doing but um yeah if you like the idea it might be that you know like a hint that you like travel or and the opposite if you don't if you're not liking it then it might be a sign that you that's not for you. I just wanted to add that one point. Yeah, I think people should also clarify to themselves, do they really like it? Because sometimes just because it looks glamorous on the side, oh, I want that once he comes in one travel, I'm never doing this again. I took a ba along with me last year to with onia trip for four days. We were sleeping on a bus, no shower technically. I mean, there was breaks. We did have Shabas a normal place, but technically you're on the bus the entire time going, it's it's a disaster. Um, traveling wise, some people do enjoy it very rarely. Most people, even the ones who say they enjoy it, they don't enjoy the process. The process too to too to too um long, dreadful, heavy. So, it it's a bigger price to pay. I personally do not like to travel. I don't like to travel, but I find myself time and time again needing to travel. When I do come to these exciting places, at the place I'm very excited, but the travel is very harsh on me. It takes me time to recover. Every time I come back from Israel, takes me roughly two weeks to get back to myself. Wow. Mam mash. A good balance again. I would say people watching your stuff might might think that you're always in in Israel every two days. I I I always look for reasons to not go. Wow. But when it works out and I do go, it takes me a long time to recover. Bet people that know me, the first few days when I come back, I'm knocked out and then it takes me time to like feel okay, I know where I am. Um it's in Israel. I mamish almost don't sleep. So uh that's about travel. I wanted to finish the topic of yesterday. We mentioned in one sentence how just one second. Yeah, go. No, I just want to say first of all, welcome anybody that's that's logging in now to the live. I see we have a number of people that are watching this live. If you have any comments, just write it in. We would really appreciate it. We're very excited with anybody's comments, even just to say hi, even just a nice love emoji. Just go for it in the comments. We'll see it and we appreciate it. All right, go ahead, Ari. You said a love emoji. I did. Um it's so funny that it works. Um yeah, I yesterday we mentioned happy wife, happy life. Also from me I heard it I mean publicly in a in a strong way. Um I wanted to touch on that as much as my stomach is turning and it's not a topic that's usually discussed definitely not by I do want to we still have a few minutes. I do want to say um I'm a very big fan and it took me time to realize this that the b the blessing of your life is your wife is the source your father and mother also if you can strengthen the connection with those three people in your life your your life will be blessed in most of the challenges comes with these close people. Probably there are people here cringing, jumping, uh one is smashing the phone or the screen because he has something with either of the three or all three and that's all within him. The work is within ourselves and getting close to these people is critical for your mental health. Um, shifa, abundance. I think abundance is the right word for sha in your life. And not many people know this. It's not discussed. It's not popular. It's more popular to run away to the bismet from two hours and then and then chitchat with your friends. And it is more popular to go with your friends to a restaurant and with your friends to Europe. What I'm saying it should be the right way is to spend as much time as possible with your wife um in in in I call a date night at least once a week. Every relationship needs to be watered. Every relationship in the world, including the one with Hashem and you can't have a good healthy relationship with Hashem without being connected to those three is more respectful kind of and a wife is more your avoid and and leveling and find a way find something once a week at least hour or two three to go out. Not in the house. Not in the house. Doesn't work in the house. You need to get out. So, you need to get out of your regular thing and go around. I've said this to a few of my friends that actually are um makid. How do you say makid in English? And they're very strict about it. Yeah. They're very strong with it that they go out once a week with their wives. It doesn't matter by hook and by crook. Just what like we do this live by hook and by crook. I had so many excuses to not do this one today. Okay. First of all, I'm in the middle of an important tour with someone um which if works out is a very very nice big thing and he's an important person and I I felt very awkward to tell him I have this live on LinkedIn and then there was no reception here. We're in the middle of nowhere so I had to create a Wi-Fi put up a it's a whole thing. I had all the excuses to tell Isaac, listen, I'm in a place it doesn't work out, right? I committed to this, and I want to push this as long as this goes to see if this grows. And this is a hint to businesses, organizations that want to be mentioned and discussed or topics or being invited to host uh together live somewhere. But what I'm saying is being committed to a relationship is not the same as just being married. I was for a couple of years just being married. I know what it is. I know a lot of couples. I was a manager in Fer. I'm going to try to finish off. It's already 12 minutes, but I think you mentioned that it takes at least 15 minutes for LinkedIn to push it for the contacts. LinkedIn recommends when they talk about lives, they say that it's good to should exceed 15 minutes because people start takes some time to realize. Yeah, that's what it Yeah, that's what it say. By the way, if you comment now, we can see it and we can mention it and we can respond live. Yeah, I think also we have we have some comments. We'll you know, maybe we'll take a break later before we finish, we'll bring them up. Yeah. Okay, good. Okay, good. So, being committed to the relationship is not the same than just being two managers. I was a manager at a wedding hall and I kept seeing a lot of couples come in and they're marrying off their child and this is supposed to be the peak and of the excitement of the we we're they're achieving something. They they had a child for 18 20 years at home, invested so much money, you know, it's a couple million dollars just if you put together all the money that went into this child and the time and the energy and running to the doctors and the diapers and whatever not you you you put into a child. And now you're coming to the peak. You're putting him in a new home with a wife or vice versa. And this is a big big moment. This is a time of celebration of of happiness of I'm trying to use cleanish words to who knows which audience but what I'm saying is you you definitely understand. I've seen a lot of couples at that stage even when they were marrying off the last few at home couples just being so grumpy and so not connected. I've seen nasty as well like cursing that really shook me up but even just you know upsetness and where's where's the why are we alive why are we bothering why are we married why are we here the whole thing we're working so hard investing and watering that relationship is critical I can't stretch it enough I could talk hours about this but Date night. Date night is critical for both sides. Even she has a lot of excuses. She can't right now. This week it's too busy. Nah, forget it. She doesn't really mean it. It there is excuses. Life brings you excuses. And you the same thing. You're very busy at work. Extremely busy. You have the most important thing to do. You're meeting President Trump the whole week. Give up a few hours for your wife and call your mom and mom and dad. Try once a day, even for a few seconds. If you want to know the importance of that, talk to one that lost a father or a mother and he will tell you with tears in his eyes if you get him to discuss it openly like we're trying to do here how important it is to talk to your mom and dad, even if they're not too old. I finished my piece. It's been a while. I'm holding up this guy. I'm going to run. Tell me the comments first and then I'll uh hop out. Yeah, I see it went a little longer today. We'll just bring up one thing before we finish. No, I just wanted to just finish on that topic before I bring up this um Yeah, what what you said is really unbelievable and really I think we could talk a lot about each thing about you know you touched on the wife, you touched on the spouse, you touched on the parents. I think really maybe if there's people give it give it like a thumbs up if you want us to discuss that Ari should bring out, you know, some some insights about that. each one could probably be, you know, on at least one show. Um, and also I I once heard a very good quote from someone that he said, you know, why is it that sometimes you could meet a friend that you didn't see in four years, five years and you feel best friends and oh, how you doing and this and that and then when the people that you're so close with you, you see all the time and you don't feel that way. So, you know, he said it's very the when you meet people people that you're with the whole day, you're really doing withdrawals all day. So, you need to do more deposits. You know, it needs to be equal balance. But someone that you didn't see for years, okay, there's no withdrawals done. Okay. So, he's not expecting that much deposits. It was very line that always stuck in my head. Um yeah, it's like, okay, just we'll bring up one. Someone one of our excited um followers is asking Ari where you gonna be like okay so I wanted to be in Israel did not work out apparently you need a month early to plan this because everybody is in yumpt mode in Israel l is a real yumptive over here we won't to that yet so I'll probably be in bar park I'm thinking of going to a special coil that they learn and zoyer throughout the night um but I'll be in bar park regular Hashem. I'll put on some candles. I'll dance around the candles probably privately so can actually hear me and Hashem. That's going to be my like boy. That's what it looks like for now. Beautiful. I never know what's going to be in the next minute. I never know. I could get a phone call right now. Come right now. I I I never know. Um but uh thank you guys for being here. Please comment, share, like, subscribe, and we'll see you tomorrow. What's today? Yeah, tomorrow. Yep. Hopefully back in Bor Park, right? Yala. Shabbat. Thank you.