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In the Yeshiva
there was a little boy
>> [music]
>> that apparently came from a uh newly
religious family.
And this little boy, his [music] name
was Philip.
And he was wearing short jeans pants.
And he didn't look like everybody else
in the Yeshiva.
>> [music]
>> But this little 5 6-year-old boy
was confused, was looking through his
pockets. Some of the kids asked [music]
him,
"Everything okay?" He didn't answer
anybody. It's okay he didn't answer
anybody, but he moves on.
Eventually Reb Moshe Feinstein is
walking down the hall. He sees [music]
this boy.
He says, "Hi yeled. Hi Hi Hi boy. How uh
I'm Moshe. Can I What's your [music]
name?"
He says, "Philip."
He says, "Philip, can I help you with
something?"
He says, "Yeah, I'm looking for a nickel
so I can make a phone call to my
parents."
He says, "I can help you." He starts
looking through his pockets.
"I don't have one. But one second, just
wait [music] here. Philip, wait one
here. I'm going to get it for you."
5-year-old, 6-year-old says, "Okay." No,
he doesn't know what Moshe Feinstein is.
He doesn't know that this is
>> [music]
>> Gedolah Dor, this is the Moshiach ben
David generation that's going to get him
a a little 5-cent uh little nickel. He
just knows he needs a nickel.
Reb Moshe Feinstein goes to the room.
All the bachurim are learning over
there.
And
uh
he taps on one of the bachurim, "Yaakov,
you have a nickel?"
And Yaakov knows who Reb Moshe Feinstein
is. He says,
"No no no, kavod haRav, it's in the
room. I can go get it." "No no no, bitul
Torah, bitul Torah. It's okay. It's
okay. It's okay." Then he goes, "Moshe,
you have a nickel?"
"No, but I have a no
Bitul Torah, bitul Torah. It's okay.
It's okay. He goes from one bachur to
the next the whole class. Nobody has a
nickel on them.
>> [music]
>> He says, "You know what? Let me check in
the stocker box. Maybe somebody put a
nickel in there." He opens the stocker
box. He sees there's a nickel. He takes
a quarter out of his pocket, he puts it
there, and he takes the nickel. And then
he goes and he's walking as fast as a
90-year-old man can.
Philip! Philip! I got it! I got it!
I got it for you. But Philip is not
smiling.
Philip is sad.
By the time he gets [music] to him,
he says, "Philip, I got it! I got the
nickel!"
"Ah, it's too late.
You took too much time."
"Why? Why not?"
"No, you don't understand.
Finally, after all this time that I'm
here, I found a boy, David, that wants
to play with me, [music]
and I really like him, and I wanted to
play with him. But he was waiting for
me, cuz I realized that if I go play
with him, my parents are going to worry,
so I wanted to call my parents.
But by the time you brought the nickel,
David left already.
That's it! Now I don't have any friends
again!" And the kid starts crying.
Now, between us,
if you
just gave the kid a nickel, [music] and
the friend left, what do you say? "Okay,
so find another friend."
No, what? David's the last kid in the
world? That's the attitude of a normal
person.
Normal person is, "What? The boy left?
David left? Okay, I'll find you 500
other Davids."
That's [music] the normal attitude.
But Reb Moshe Feinstein is not a normal
person.
He says to him,
"Philip, [music] you're right. It's my
fault.
It's my fault. I took too long.
But
I don't give up. Let's go find David."
"No, he left! He left!" The kid is not
doesn't care. He's upset. He's crying.
"He left!" "No, no, we'll find him. Come
on. David, let's go together." [music]
He takes the little boy by the hand, and
they walk out of the building, and they
start going from playground to the
90-year-old Reb Moshe Feinstein
and a little 5-year-old kid with little
jean shorts, they're walking from
playground to playground.
Is he here? No, he's not here. See, you
took too long. Okay, okay, we'll find
the next one, next one. By the time they
got to the third playground,
he said, "Yeah, he's here, but look,
he's playing with somebody else
already."
>> [music]
>> Wait 1 second, wait one here. Reb Moshe
Feinstein goes to David. David is
hanging out on the swing. He's already
playing with somebody else. He's living
life. 5, 6 year-old, it's the best thing
in life. He's on a swing.
He sees the old man coming up to him.
He says, "David,
Philip is here."
>> [music]
>> "But I'm playing with somebody already."
"No, no, no, David, you don't
understand.
It's Philip, he's a really good friend.
He wants to play with you. He really
wants to play with you." "Yeah, but he
took too long.
Oh, what am I going to wait for him? I
already found somebody else." "Okay, so
play with him, too. The all three of you
can play."
"I don't know."
"David, Philip is the best friend YOU
COULD EVER HAVE. I'M TELLING YOU, I KNOW
HIM."
"OKAY, FINE, FINE, I'll play with him."
He brings David along. Now, while this
is happening, there's some adults and
some other older kids that know Reb
Moshe Feinstein is. They think [music]
maybe it's his grandson. They don't have
no idea. Why is Reb Moshe Feinstein in
the playground? No one knows. So,
[music]
David and Philip start playing.
Reb Moshe Feinstein asks David,
"Where is uh Philip? Uh what's the phone
number so I can call your parents and
tell them that everything is okay." He
gives him the phone number and he
leaves. After the Reb Moshe Feinstein
leaves,
the other kids come up to this kid. He's
like, "Is Reb Moshe Feinstein your
grandfather?" He goes,
>> [music]
>> "No." He goes, "Do you know who he is?"
He goes, "I don't know. I think he's
Eliyahu HaNavi."
Now,
to Philip, that's what it was. That was
Eliyahu HaNavi.
The reality is, Reb I
>> [music]
>> there's a difference.
What's the difference?
When we look at [music] a story like
that about only said before we saw the
conclusion,
the average person says, "Listen,
Philip,
you lost your friend, find another one,
tough it out, go find something else,
figure it out. This is not the end of
the world. Stop being a crybaby. Don't
make it a big deal. Everything's going
to be okay." Whatever other explanation
we're going to come up with in different
words, that's generally the way we look
at things as [music] regular people.
Gedolei Yisrael didn't just hear what
people said
and want to [music] help them.
They felt their pain.
And this is one of the greatest things
that a person that wants to do better
can start looking at things from a
different perspective. Because how
[music] can I feel
the next person's pain rather than just
do good for the sake of good or do good
to [music] make myself feel good because
I did good?
What can bring me [music] to feel the
other person's pain? Because that will
change the whole equation.
That will change [music] the way we look
at things.
>> One, two, three, four. One, two, three.
One, two, three.
>> B H S
>> [music]