A Fleeting Moment | Rabbi Moshe Tuvia Lieff

Marriage is a wonderful thing. Everyone gets married But what happens if a person gets married conditionally? You have a person who's a despot, a degenerate, a Roshoh, and he says הרי את מקודשת לי בטבעת זו He's a Rasha. says the Gemorah In Kedushin 49B - He is married maybe he was Meharer Btshuvah He had a fleeting thought of repenting to Hakadosh Baruch Hu and because of that he's married. The Kedushin is Chal. Now the Rambam says tshuva means, that the Yodea Talumos, the Ribono Shel Olam who discerns the heart and minds of mankind can testify, can be Mayid that he will never return to his foolish ways. So how could Hirhur be anything? how does the Msadeh Kiddushin under the Chuppah tell the two witnesses be Maharer in Tshuvah if they’re Kosher witnesses they’re kosher. And if not, not. What does a fleeting moment of Tshuva mean? Says R’Tzodik Hakohen of Lublin an amazing, astonishing thing: that when a person really wants to do the right thing, He’s automatically considered a Tzadik and he will never return to the negative lifestyle. And if indeed he does, that’s because the Yetzer Horah turned a Tzadik into a Roshah But for a moment, a fleeting moment of a hirhur of tshuva a thought of repentance. We believe that he's married. R Tzodik and Chazal were teaching us what it means to have one good, pristine thought to regret, to have remorse, to train, to control to think that you are a good person. the Ribono Shel Olam considers you a Tzadik and in Shomayim its recorded that you’re a Tzadik Let's strengthen ourselves with those moments. Let's work and realize our potential. Lets take them for what they are Hirurei Tshuva - moments of greatness we’ll be Zoche to greatness in this world, and the next.