Daf Yomi Nedarim Daf 72 by R’ Eli Stefansky

good morning round boys Mordechai Aussie from London writes mdy is like a pool and a dance you can show the picture if you want your feelings that's why I need a button Gershon you'll feel the schmuck when you jump in from London yeshu Rose I cannot believe that I found myself debating pigeon spikes efficiency with our Jewish pest control company I thought that rebellious said they don't work that's Toyota the guy explained that their belly clearly stated so here he's having the bait with the pigeon guy and the guy says I heard the sheer and that's not what he said the guy explained that her belly clearly stated that he was referring to the hospital Israeli Birds but not not in London we'll learn from that I need to listen more attently he says Takis in the house don't let him talk he's back basically you live here hello I've been watching since the beginning of supers and I'm tremendously appreciative all your efforts every day changed my life etc etc thank you I really wanted to to read this for when avi's here because avi's into this he wrote us safer about this I've been trying to recruit my father but he's deaf so it's been a bit of a challenge as I'm not always available to interpret for him nevertheless I believe that he and many others in the deaf community would benefit from and enjoy this year tremendously I can't with an idea a while ago and kept pushing it off which is always a bad idea and certain story about a bucker leaving before benching to finish shots here it would involve getting a sign language interpreter to view this year and record himself translating following this we then produce a split screen video with this year one one on one side on the interpret on the other we could then post the videos on YouTube this would likely be somewhat delayed but I believe it can be a tremendous resource for the firm deaf Community before I get started excited about that day I wanted to reach out and make sure I had your permission to use the videos in that way please let me know Isaac Freeman for sure I think cover was once working about doing it in Yiddish and in Spanish I just think it's what happened was two takes too long to do now I got a few emails about this this yeah not that we have a cheap guy he's his mom is working for cheap the guy from the from Mandela funeral he's available half price had you said that brisker told his wife the homers are for men they would have gotten the joke I got this from a few people that my punch line wasn't good I shouldn't complain that nobody left you said that men have to be mahmer you have to say humorous are for men why uh my gears in the apartment is more to the point see you in Miami see him you're not going to believe this 19 days to go over 400 people signed up so definitely going to get the 500 base maybe six seven hundred who knows oh what was this uh there's a lot of Patsy villain and raboysai here it goes let me show you what happened this is what the edited video looks like the best thing comes into place should we do this again look what Joseph did at the end the mouse it kept on going okay now this time here's another guy that sent in something he says classical Shane says the editor is having a good time question boy mine who is drunk and here it goes and what if he says I want to be Makai for a minute but I want to be made for it after the minute you see the island likes your stuff yes so if you watch it live you get one version you watch it later you get another one huh watch it twice so this is interesting can a husband of an arusa or a nasua be Mayfair prior nadaram that she had before she met the daros and her husband what's that Allah again can a husband of an arusa or anasua be made for whose phone is ringing some people yeah still ringing no so the the answer is that there's a difference between an arusa and an assur as we're going to see this is actually a big difference one yes one not now stop this we'll see in the gamara what gift did reply give all his daughters for their past mitzvah anybody asking just sent me this picture a beautiful picture of crime learning the dharim out of the khazana's gemara and if you look in the right picture you'll see the khazana's remarks it's a beautiful I would love a skimmar like that but tint if you have a million five hundred thousand dollars it would be better to be the guns that's a million or two what yeah who's safer who gave it to me another anonymous oh it's about Los Angeles is it a hint for me is it a hint I need to learn this I don't know it's not inscribed but whoever gave it thank you the coil is sponsored by Anonymous from Lakewood he's in the song Anonymous from Lakewood this is going to be a brand new song that's coming out by the Sea Invasion I heard it yesterday and this oh Mordechai sells his birthday today his Hebrew birthday sponsors award last day of success remember children Marvin Diamond has two sponsorships two completely different ones for the outside of my father Paul diamond another sponsor by Marvin Diamond yourself for my mother from I don't know what the story is you shot Curts Massachusetts huh and raboysai we have a very very special sponsor Elvis Burg [Applause] kensburg sorry skinsberg uh Elya skinsberg it says Elvis but let's do this again the boys a special sponsored by Elvis gansberg [Applause] the curse might be strong hell yeah we have a schwarrier the famous Magic from gateshead unbelievable he's a great guy your son-in-law you'll see during this year in honor of my father-in-law Bianca of prices 70th birthday from all his children with long happy life the art this month is sponsored for complete before shlema of sweep and Leon we have a very special we're starting to go in a certain direction now the special uh animation for absolutely at the end of this he's finally engaged one of the founding members of mdy Chabad you know the guy you're shaking your head from bro all the way from Brock is that base Mazel Tov and also Moshi Hirsch the editor of the oremer Kaz our newsletter just had a baby girl a few hours ago so mazel tov my uh base they should all finish us maybe no later I don't want to put you on the spot you probably never spoke in public before he's not a Gazette and that's bad so talking about who Garrison is a get like what does that mean so here's the here's the if you want to see it in a in a picture the guy heard the nether and we want to know if after the nether he gave a get and immediately afterwards he they got engaged again so the guitar is going to explain that but what does it mean is a get similar to being quiet and not doing anything or does it get like he's saying okay this is a good nether so the round explains since a guy understands that you can't do anything after he divorces his wife so it's as if and he and he wasn't made for right now so as if he was making it as if he said okay I'm not gonna have another option after the get so let me do it right now it's as if he's he's being Mayfair foreign because Elvis I want to say see what you started this pass for Ellie's jokes I'm not I'm not saying it's a joke this is what the kind of stuff that he sends me once in a while he likes to send me jokes he didn't send this one but this is his style so save it there's a guy that he's a monk he went off to the the silence Temple for monks you know those places you know how to speak at all every three years you'll have to write in three words so after three years he writes in mattress not comfortable so they give them a new mattress he waits three years he goes food missing salt they put that a little salt after three years need to go home so the guy says get out of here all you do is complain all day fun you see he liked him I know it's his style all right something tomorrow what's the case so that's the case we have over here of the shama Bala she made another and her husband the auros heard it the gershow and he divorced her bahaduraime in that same day it was Makai in the Mitzvah magazine if you hold then nothing happened you just quiet but quiet doesn't do anything it doesn't make a sticker it doesn't do a kium so in Mela he could go ahead and be made for the nether the Omar how come it on me but if you hold that it has Allah in the nether so if he remarried her foreign once heard I'm just throwing this out there I once heard a guy that does a lot of Sean bias he said that if a couple comes in screaming at each other it's a very good sign that means they still have some feelings for each other but every once in a while you have a couple that comes and they don't say anything they don't care nothing she said this thing said nothing that means it's a lost case xiaomi Israel if this is Chico it's not it's not a good sign okay foreign now I just want to point out that the ram goes into the whole thing here and I was going to see later on in the sugya this kind of encapsulates the city what Iran says they're very very important Allah that this is talking about an Engaged guy a guy that's aorus in the time of the gemara again we're not talking about engaged don't copy by the word we call it engaged but it means they gave her a ring he gave her cast of kadushan and there's an Eros in here what if she's married says the run over here on the bottom of Bangalore public base then what happens is once she's married she leaves the domain of the father she's no longer in the father so even listen to this and this this is actually the gemara later on but even if he marries her later you know what kind of problems he marries her a second time now it's a prior nether it's another from before his marriage ah he was married to her before no it was a get and the set it's prior to the second marriage there's no there's no how far as nandorem and prior nidarum to a marriage this is how far is the army so again just to hop what's going on here is that far is prior to engagement remember we asked the question how can an Engaged person have more power than a married person the answer is what that's together with the father he doesn't have more power but it's in conjunction with the Father the children of the father okay so that's the cop here we're talking about an arrows because if it's a nasua and he's he's married to a married woman he wouldn't be able to know the nether okay so is it get like as if he's mikind the nether he said it's a good in other words nothing it's part of plasma type of iron base are balanced striking resource lab and this we all had it's easier draft today so when do we say that the father gets full custody and he's able to do whatever he wants with another this man actually show my bowel here so I just I did a little list here stop this it makes the sugio that much more simple it's a simple soya it makes it even simpler we have a ratio we have a safer the ratio says what are the what are the cases that there's no Kim that the the husband was not Makai in the Nether and what are the cases that he was Makai in the nether okay very very simple in the in the column the blue column that he wasn't Makai either he didn't hear obviously if he didn't hear the nether he wasn't Makai or he heard and he did the opposite of Kim he did hafara so there's no Kim or he heard and he died what's missing from the list is that he heard and he got divorced that's our case the second column is it is a queue what's the cube he heard it the Nether and he's makayan okay that's the obvious case or he heard it and he died the following day okay what's missing from the column is that he heard it and he got divorced in other words in both columns there's no divorce divorce could go either way it's either a Kim or it's not a Kim so the gamar wants to say well if it's not a kiom then why is it not in the in the blue column foreign I could tell that you're feeling much better today you volley Okay so on the no he's writing some jokes to me well you guys are looking this way I have to put up with these jokes that way yeah they won't do it what's missing from the column that says it is McQueen if you hold it again it's Kim I divorce so put it in that column why is it in neither of the columns at the end of the day it's in neither of the columns that means you can't bring your Riot to this you can't bring it right to that the gamar starts off as if there's only one column there's only the blue columns only the column of Aunt Kim how do you not be mikayan you didn't hear it you you were Mayfair you died he died so put garish in there Soraya The Garrison is not a cube something more says okay so then why is it not in the other column oh good cash therefore it's not all right one washes out the other so am I used to throw there's no riot here that's all that's all the gamers saying start from the top impossible um the the husband didn't hear no kill oh he heard but he didn't do a kill me did aphara he destroyed the nether God he heard and he was quite um of nothing listening it's nothing even if you get divorced he wasn't Italian why is it not in the in the column s obviously get is powerful and it is and therefore it's not in in this list oh I'm a safer but if it belongs in the safer list how come it's not in the safer the next day only two things in that cow hey here I have a case that he cannot be made for oh yeah but if get is like Kyo I'm listening so how come Garrison get is not in the second gown hello so I want to bring a riot I'll say that get is like being quiet in other words belongs in the First Column Elementor says okay A little bit of a connection here you want to says I can't write that he's mcgarish in the ratio right in in the blue column I can't put get so once I can't but get there so the word get doesn't belong in this whole Bryson you're right it might belong in the safe on the red column but since I'm not talking about it so it's one of these things it's that I want I want the words to match so you're looking at over here we're talking about everything lines up nicely if I'm going to put the word garrison in the first column so what I'm going to put in the second column that matches it so just as uh that should be written well and it should flow nicely and everything should rhyme we took out the word garrison Erasure uh and if you want to say that it really belonged in the safe one not in the ratio not the racism that's why it's not what if it doesn't belong in the ratio which one love them all if I can't write it in the ratio so I'm not going to write in the safe and if I can write in the safer I'm not going to write it in the ratio you save it from safe okay this is our mission now so again what's the question if somebody gets divorced when he heard that his wife went in there maybe that's why I got divorced he found out she's cuckoo she keeps on making crazy in her daughter you're out of here he warned her one more nether you've got sees he divorces her is that a Kim did he just make the nether in a way that nobody else could be made for it let's say she gets engaged right away that day let's see in his garage and she got engaged that day I feel the mayor Avia ubalo or Akram ethereum I'll just show it to you again well we have the most gift here you didn't see this really so I'll show it this is our first I'm going to remember this I wrote this down the Dark Knights was the first day that Yoshi made an animation we're starting a nice little clip or something but here it is you have a bunch of rings there you could buy for puto and you have a Kala under hopa and the Hassan starts showing up one after another and then the person shows up and then the red goes by shama Israel I heard this by the way I wouldn't say this joke if I didn't hear from a uh average in the coil yesterday I heard this from African he said why is it that Karim durability doesn't exist anymore in other words was only done for a thousand years thousand years are over okay so there's a whole neither do we re-accept it or not but today there's no official care in the urban Garrison he says because today you need two wives to support one coil guy [Laughter] so the joke from a cruel guy I didn't I didn't say it and I have a kylo I learned in the Carlos I'm not anticoil but okay some of your best friends some of my best friends all my best friends in that kylo IDs [Music] that's the that's the the big over here that the last guy in this picture the last guy is made for a nether that had nothing to do with him it was a nether that the first first husband saw the first artist and and what happened there's Garrison right look it says on the sign over here each guy gives the Harrison and then divorces Harrison divorces but if you're telling me the divorce is equal to be mikaim again so now you have the first guy that made a get so the nether mccoyam everybody after him cannot be made for the neither how could the last guy be made for another that was McQueen already it's a strong nether so what do you see me know stick is nothing by the way there's a we learned English I don't know if you remember and it's a beautiful remember we learned about katlanas a woman that kills three of her husbands died so you shouldn't marry her there's a Shiloh three four ready but a woman catalanas Cafe says that even a woman who's divorced three times shouldn't get married again so how does how does it okay so maybe I have a person that was overrated them I don't know it's interesting maybe somebody that divorces so many times in one day actually wouldn't say it's not like uh I'm thinking out loud catalanas means she's a dangerous woman every time she gets married two years later she's divorced but over here is like you know she set up a booth and that's why maybe it's different huh yeah well she's not making any money there's no soup over here yeah maybe Rings this is a pretty ring huh yeah okay it's just a theoretical case it never happened never will happen What happens if somebody's over and dies what happens for sure it's not good according to Russia for sure I'm saying even divorce no I hear I mean she doesn't cause she doesn't cause the divorce I hear it's interesting wants to know if a woman gets divorced then her husband dies then gets divorced is that according to Rashi that's three in a row or it's two different things and maybe they don't add up okay when we get to that took you we'll remember your Shiloh okay fight foreign okay so the rain goes into the whole thing here I'll show you this oh no not that um it says an apostle that you have to hear the nether boy bye so who heard it the father or the Hassan so the bigger criticism right only the cousins on the father why even though the Hassan heard it and another guy stepped in this is that we're talking about we're talking about an artist over here Durant just wants to prove that we're talking about an Engaged guy we're not talking about the father hearing somebody heard we have an option who heard you tell me who heard the nether the father or the guy that got the the hustle obviously the Hassan says the Run of course that we know it's a possum but that boy by you in the same day a second guy could step in and take over with the first guy left off that's used MMA law I understand they were talking about artists and we have a great riot says the gamara no your whole assumption that we're talking about a big a big Kiddush and and remember talking about an Engaged guy is off we're not talking about the the engaged guy heard otherwise if nobody heard it then you couldn't know it a hundred days later no okay somebody did hear it the clock starts ticking by the moment that one of the two here either the father of the Hassan we thought it's the Hassan because it's a major now says the ran it's the father and the zero haddish okay we're not saying you're just saying Mayfair so I still don't know if a get is equal to a cube of another foreign yesterday and I told the Michael Russo last night told him about John 3 that he um he got me he said that uh sticker is also Kim according to Gamora maybe get is also Kim we don't really have a thing we're gonna see at the end that demonstrated no but then I started asking Michelle I didn't I didn't prepare I asked him what's enough Community with in a millisecond he told me that I've came I was very very excited a 12 year old he's not 13 yet he's gonna be 13 for three days four days but as a 12 year old listening to share no no that's right it's beautiful the other child is ask them good another baby that what it says if the arrows divorced her and he took her back that day Matthew can no longer do that for us what do you see that Garrison has a cube that's what the round was saying before the father but a a married woman and Iran says it doesn't matter any way you go a married woman her her husband cannot be made for her even so we have like this married engaged you hear that you're the shy layer interesting Shiloh you have a woman that was married what happened in stage marriage she left her father and now you have that you got engaged afterwards could that engage guy you hear the shy Allah an Engaged man could be Mayfair the nadarim of his wife of his kala even prior in the Darwin before the engagement so I'm asking you a question this woman happened to be married once upon a time and now she's engaged to a guy could that guy and all her and her daughter and that were prior to the engagement the answer is no why because once because once she was married she already lost the father and the only way arus could be made for a nether prior is together with the father we said you need the power of us and she already lost that shot of that's why it could only be an arus that goes backwards and over here we're talking about a nasua shama Israel no no no no no no doesn't go back to the father now typically the rat over here brings the ramban that when it goes to only dharam and he says it all throughout the way we don't know what to do so is it get a kium or a get a sticker so what would you do if you were a rabbi what would you pass again it's a good nether but Iran says something beautiful that might have been bothering a lot of people as we're learning here what happened to yesterday's I don't know what happened but I know that Gary is in a very good mood today I can tell you yesterday when he was collecting his DACA he was limping through the basement oh and he's making noises and that's why he didn't hear from him today he's feeling beautiful I can tell you right now you probably do jumping jacks fine what's going on Gary no still hurts I don't believe it okay but listen with Iran says remember we had also yesterday shmuel shmuel got from his Rebellion that what [Music] if there's uh shama arose yeah and even if she got divorced 100 times the last guy is made for the nether so what do you see that a get is not kium don't go like the ramban small heard us from his rebbe Maybe huh no it doesn't scarves you know huh no no they didn't before shama Sean the artist heard we didn't know it was the artist there but we said we'll heard that's the oros divorced no you sure look it look again and tomorrow here huh and he's going on the mission no smells like says how do I know this right all right Define based on the base sponsored by Greg Haber for broker for his entire family and everyone learning the death and let's talk about the members of the HBA group and their families on Maine plus we have a brand new sponsor for the mishnais his name is Joel Friedman Lili Lili nishmas my dear father Ben Israel he wrote not me d-u-v-i-d when the his daughter is about to leave him by bad girls or marriage you know like uh the the Dominic is to go to kala bend down and then whisper something so maybe that's what they used to whisper today or whatever they say maybe that is like a secret they asked him what did you get your daughters mitzvah I told him that all the Nadine my muffler but then they said no that you get them like a sitter and a grave sitter fine thereafter means you should also do it why not it's a great minute actually I used to beat the joyceum before I'm not joking there are people that are made for the daughters and dorm every day you know what I'm talking about um and the husband also foreign once because they're engaged yeah by the way in person maybe I shouldn't say this right now okay we're running late but in departure we have Joseph told the paroi Jacob Joseph to take his at Thomas and he said I'm being much better you because what's going to happen Parry will say don't leave and be mad at the nether so then you'll say okay then I'll be mad at the show I made to you then I'm not going to tell everybody I know one language more than you so this idea of Atara but somebody pooped yesterday asked me the child last night how could Joseph do that how could you be matter another because he has to go to the best and say best then I know one language more than pirate and I want to be matter that nether how does he like to tell the best then he swore he's not going to tell anybody okay you have to because you have to be fired together before you hear this but that's a Salah that came on later fine anyways it's a nice stick it's a nice hop boy Robert I'm a bow Mouse she offered below do you need to hear the nether when the father bends down he has no idea what he's talking about maybe he never heard that his daughter made another can he be made for only dorm just in case you made one who live with Africa now it says in the positive twice I have it but I don't want to show you know what don't show the screen yet here we go it says twice the word husband is around and the husband why as you say he is why the double lotion says is that what I'm talking about here or did I show the wrong thing a lot of school okay does the husband have to hear it now I'll tell you this and when it comes to marriage I want to give you Joseph before you go I want to give you a great tip in marriage in marriage you're a ladder apologize for something that you don't even know what happened you just say I'm very sorry for doing it next time you tell me what it is I'll try not to do it but over here the child is could a husband Coulda do you have to hear what's going on do you have to know that there's a nether show me yourself he tells his daughter all year in the Dharma are Muffler he didn't know what it is he just said it look he says perhaps the kishama with the mafer when he hears it then I'll do afaro so okay so very good so hilarity okay so then why is he doing it twice why should he why should he even say it so it's very interesting tells his daughter listen if you ever made a nether I'm being made first she gets her to talk and she'll start saying oh you know I made this net I mean this once he knows it then he'll be made for the idea is to to start a conversation with her now Durant just points out that a father can't do that because once he hears it and we're gonna see soon once he hears it really too late fine I had a good story and say it a different time the husband also before he says I'm made for Yolanda so I didn't know what's flying you never heard there was another or Not Another fine when I hear now when I hear so that is complicated run over here exactly what this tool is showing us What I Hear means when I hear the net there is what it means retroactively I know that before we couldn't say that because it's a father and again a father loses his kayak once she gets married but over here the husband doesn't lose his car because he's getting married he's becoming more powerful what he's saying is when it doesn't tells her oh you don't remember okay later on he hears that there was a nether boom when he hears it retroactively when he said that it's more it becomes becomes muffer because he said it two days ago again on Sunday he says all in the Dharma moffer on Tuesday he hears that there's another so when he heard it he had a Shemia the hafara happened two days two days before could learn like that is um making a deal I don't know what's flying I'm going to be in America I'm going to be in another country and all the darn that you make I make him now Leo mcclum nothing happened but to be Mayfair but that's not even move forward and Iran says it's not only fine yeah but in this case there'll be Midas as the run because it already happened the only reason why they argue not to go into it there's no doubles because that's why we bring a right from it anyway how could a How could a husband make a deal with his wife that all in the dorm that you make when I'm gone in a different country should become over he didn't hear them so you see that you don't have to hear when I hear them so what I say today should be good so why does he have to do that look he shot my life a lot as soon as he hears it boom it's uh Fargo this is the what I don't know to me it happens a lot maybe it's the EDD the island can tell me a lot of times I say oh I have to uh WhatsApp a certain guy so go on my phone I I go to WhatsApp and then also I see there's three whatsapps from other people so I start looking at the websabs oh very interesting and then I put my phone away and I completely forget to and like I was like didn't I I so true so it happens you have ADD anybody says so should we have anything I'm just kidding I have no idea it happens to me a guy hears that his wife made another awesome oops he's over there he's doing something else he says I'll take care of the nether give me one minute I just have to make one phone call he makes the phone and he forgets about it so there he wants to preempt that and he says I'm being made for only in the dark as soon as he hears the nether it becomes a muffer jobs he tells the person in charge of his soul it makes us laugh all the dorm that my wife makes until I come back should become mover very low and he and he'd listen you move for him no this is where the puzzy belongs I would think it's more foreign it's only the husband that could do it again so I just want to show you this thing here don't don't go yet to the screen timeout I have to go this is I think we're all the way to the end this year for this okay okay now you can show the screen all right here is yeah I have a guy with remote control and notice the flag is uh half staff you ready here goes this is the slea [Music] he has a ring just the other finger and the flag goes up [Applause] [Laughter] just look like it's my idea Yoshi implemented okay and I never had Mario Brothers and I just saw all my friends playing it yeah Miss true true by the way so I mean we have to start diving is here but I just want to say this mice I said it a number of times oh hold on we're not even there yet we have to go back to this Castle why can't Australia be made for nether of the wife all Toya says but as we say this cash and tomorrow we'll show this uh this thing again why not you got to get a lot of mileage on it there's a I forgot the name of the guttle maybe tomorrow I'll have the name I remember the I used to know the name there's a godo that went to hasana and everybody didn't understand you know usually go to the house for a minute and a half why are you there for 10 minutes 20 minutes he said because the eager sent me have a wonderful day wait a minute