Daf Yomi Bava Metzia Daf 38 by R’ Eli Stefansky

[Music] I [Music] am the [Music] me [Music] might [Music] me [Music] oh know might know [Music] me [Music] might a good [Music] welcome welcome to all the guests a very special guest here he's very famous Michael chessel from the Everglades he walked 45 minutes to eat a meal by us this morning and walked 45 minutes back so thank you told me a lot of stories first of all I have to thank Fuego the restaurant the famous Fuego restaurant in Florida they I didn't realize they gave the entire thing they made food for 75 people and hosted all of us when when I was there so to Mark I think it is right Mark and his [Music] brother okay Mark I yesterday I showed you this video not going to show it again but there's a nice story I don't know if I said it or not if I said it forgive me because I don't remember when I said what so this guy said over his story and there's the guy that gave $26,000 he heard the story and he gave another $10,000 but afterwards the guy tells him the guy that gave the $36,000 he says you know how I joined your share oh well I joined the share because of the video of the cow so I said over the story about the cow whatever I'm not going to say the rest of it which was very embarrassing and I thought okay the year is over and then somebody said that he brought a 100 people to this year here's a guy that joined this year because of that cow video and he brought $36,000 plus he learns Target with his fair every day so it's very Kai now we go V this is one of the best I have no idea what I'm doing and I'm frequently confused but I watch every day thank you so listen there here's a guy that gave bucks for being confused and the people are not confused they give three bucks it's it's a it's a shil it's a shil just to update RI $277,000 from 738 donors I really appreciate it here's a great number this is from shabas over 6,000 6,47 people donated and this is where we're holding $1,900,000 the goal is 1.2 uh MTI bki not only did he bring two people that donated $25 $5,000 each he himself on Friday gave $110,000 then I didn't I don't think I showed you this I showed this to the to the Hebrew speakers the AK of mdy showed up here during the campaign check this out Bells Bells took a page seven people from Bells we have seven and they brought 141 donors they got almost eight $8,000 but take a look at this she bellers kabad seven teams and 141 donors let's go back Bells seven teams 141 donors you can't make this stuff up same amount of teams same amount of donors kabad Bells LX whatab is raising money for it's galic 8,792 what oh I didn't even notice their logo they they changed our logo trademark we need a trademark today he he's a trademark lawyer that's why no I I know about this I let schamy do his thing whatever gets them going 77 the americ unbelievable okay I forgot to mention this but oh that must be tomorrow I I'm showing it now but in parin is busy during his wedding telling people about this uh Shear that they have a lot on on Shas whatever something like that on the corner of muum sushi things watch the sh together okay the sponsored by Anonymous for the safe and Speedy return of all the hostages eser big part of mdy brain intact unleash your full potential success in all my Endeavors Henry in honor to rabi who do anything for money and Tyra okay listen as long as he does anything for Tyra the rest is not important AR of the month who's this guy we know him no somebody just stucked him out oh I think he oh really I think so I'll do anything for Tyra money I don't know I guess I'll go to people knocking people's doors but it has to be $18,000 a month and honor to the for easy child birth his daughter and healthier baby so in honor to rebi who would do anything for money and okay we'll read it both ways rebi Robie I I forgot to show this picture I think it's a gal picture I guess it's in the Su of Mal Mal where where the animals in the check this out beautiful okay he's chilling out he's about to lose his head but he has a can of soda over there gal okay so if you remember we had this case in the mishna where two people give a a guard they give him money one gives 100 one gives 200 and then of course when they come back to retrieve their money each one claims they deposited 200 since he doesn't remember we had a each one gets 100 and the the final 300 goes or we had who says all 300 goes to the pile and I remember CU I said the ginski had a pair glasses and he said that when M comes he'll be able to go online first he'll cut the line he'll pull out his glasses he has a question who are the guest here tonight I see some guests what's your name really Pariser Pariser from m i i i saw you recently no my dad and my brother like love you but you hate me I don't know you don't know me ah okay good they went to the you went D brother ah okay they look like you a little bit or no brother brother like okay now I know who you are okay now I know I know your D is yeah very nice s regards if he doesn't watch this year what about you what's your name also you don't like me that much and you just trying to check it out who Saka s s from where okay you you're new not in this world who else oh you're you're not I saw your around what's your name what Australian that's why okay anybody else that's it okay I'm telling you every time I read this I want to say don't know so this case that I just showed you or with vessels one is worth a 100 one is worth a thousand and the guy each one claims the Thousand is mine right that's where we are do you want to say Shear or what's going on here I thought you holding very we didn't get there yet that's in the Hebrews here why do we need two cases one with money one with it's the same exact thing it's a very easy say with money just divide it this guy gets 100 100 and the hund the final goes but what do you do you take this CLE it's made out of silver you just chop it right there you give a guy something that's worth 100 what do you do with the rest it gets LW it's it's ruined maybe put all of it away for to come if you just say the case of a that's why he says he put it away when it comes to money okay just a simple a one way that goes both ways Maybe by money adits you don't wait until comes why cuz easy to divide ask question makes no sense what you're saying what do we do we take all 300 put it away in a box but one of them definitely deserves 200 so you punish the guy that he deserves the 200 why says because like this will make the liar admit he doesn't want to he doesn't want to lose his 100 will come forward so what does it have to do with a CLE and and money has do we're trying to force here the liar to admit you're right you're right it goes this both cases are not into this whole R not R so yes we say the first case of money and then we say the lesser of a CLE okay you're right at the end of the day we don't have a good reason why we have two cases sometimes we we do use the we'll say one case and we don't need the second case says somebody gives his friend something to watch fruit and they start spoiling so Rashi says it could be through this let's see we have a picture here here A bunch of mice eating the food we could actually save it for but why not um okay I'll say we're a rush we'll say we'll say it on death hopefully even if you see that mice are eating from it the destroying the fruit do not touch it you're helping the guy out why why would you not take care of it he doesn't want his fruit to to spoil to rot says the gor we have two reasons why you should not touch it very very famous a lot of children know this one a person rather one of his then nine from somebody else what's says Rashi because a person loves something that he works hard for yeah I don't know I used to dabble with Woodworking and I I built uh bookcases back in Chicago I love them they were ugly my wife wanted to get rid of them all the time she said maybe put them in the basement maybe this she try to be nice to me but I worked so hard on them that you know staining it and cutting it all thing something work card on that's hard to come by have to get up early in the morning you it it's yours like that guy the video col whatever his name is worked hard onus became his so you work hard on you know it it doesn't matter somebody will give you better no I want mine and that's a Chad over here he worked hard on these fruit he rather have his doesn't want you to to to sell it okay okay there's a a porm v it's a porm stickle Tire really there another guy for the Hebrews here sh you're not late for the Hebrew you're early because we're doing the Because of the change of the clock but you're sitting in the perfect section that's the Hebrew section next to two other guys that came early thanks so much welcome back it's good it's good because now you get to hear the P Tyra so why the question is why did they why did H's daughter pour water pour the the the waste on his head so thisat is because hamon sold himself as a slave to Mori and a slave you have to do for a slave so but but he was Mel he said you don't need you don't need a mikah but it wasn't why because it was his own waste okay says says how come it says by and doesn't say by P it's coming up he says because people work so hard to to bring in the they have to do the and they go to mat you clean the house it's all so you you you're kind the happens automatically put so much effort into it it's yours you don't need you don't need the over there it's POS says the oh did I get there no we have some new guys here so we'll show you this because in you they don't really teach this if a person has if a person has 100 fruit you have to give about 2% to the that's called truma then you take 10% and you give it to the Ley what if there's no Ley what if you don't have the fruit let's say you do have a you don't have fruit so we had the story actually in the where was on a boat withu and he had to eat the fruit or he was worried that the fruit in his house didn't have Meer and truma and his family is going to eat from it and if you eat from it it's is the rice it's so what did he do he he sold the pride gave a little bit to TOA a little this and did a whole trick but you could you could take Trum when you're not really there so that's the concern the concern is the guy the owner of the fruit that put the fruit by you to watch if you're going to go sell his fruit because mice are attacking it you might be selling it really something only a e not I'll ask you a question so let's think a second if you give your friend fruit to watch the friend shouldn't touch it why just said because perhaps the owner made it trumer so in fact he has fruit that's trumer he's going to sell it off and he's going to sell Trum is going to eat Trum So let's read the next word therefore it's not therefore it's because because the the owner made it true that's why you shouldn't touch it so what does it mean no not the word doesn't work here if the is that we're concerned that you shouldn't sell something that doesn't belong to you why cuz a person loves something he worked really hard on oh therefore you that don't know if he sold it or not you could go ahead and make true on it why because you know that the the sh is not going to sell it why because therefore you can go ahead make it that makes sense the first it doesn't fit well with says inside it fits right in it's you could still say it goes according to not sell somebody else's fruit if they're going bad why you're right it is because of we we're concerned that he the owner somewhere stuck on a boat made the fruit in your house true now that you don't sell it because of the therefore it's like it's like a cat 22 therefore you're permitted on a boat to make it why because the Sher is not going to sell it why will the sh not sell it cuz he's concerned that maybe you made it therefore you can make it okay wake up what's the question can I sell the fruit that I'm watching for my friend that's only when it's a normal type of rotting let's say 10% let's call it 10% but once there's some something going on here some bug attacked the fruit is a extra amount of mice whatever it is that you could sell in front of is the one that says I'm concerned that perhaps the owner without telling you made the fruit in your house so that's a big problem I don't care how much is going how much is spoiling 50% is spoil I cannot sell it why perhaps so must be maybe when it's getting up there 50% ratted maybe then I agree should sell it says no he doesn't argue only when it's a normal amount of spoilage he says don't sell somebody else's fruit but it's more than that even a guy that really loves what he produced what he worked hard for nevertheless he grees sell it and sell it quickly because you're going to save him if you're gonna be the Dy in the words he says one to nine nine could go spoiled he rather have one left for himself say no person is not that crazy it's just an exaggeration it means a person loves what he what he produced himself maybe one to two whatever it is not nine not nine times the mount so let's just go back a little bit you have the owner who gave somebody a bunch of fruit to watch the owner is on a on a cruise and all of a sudden he realizes he has to take from that pile that's in his friend's house he could do it how could he take advantage of it perhaps there's a big problem there's a bunch of bugs yeah my wife told me that I had this these uh the wheat remember the wheat I kept on bringing the shear back and forth I no they had small holes in it I said oh good they had bugs Once Upon a Time bugs left they left a bunch of holes and each piece of weed each kernel had a small like a she say no when you in America don't ask they came out they were all over the place so she had to take it and throw it out I'm very sad I really wanted the wheat I use it throughout okay a lot of bugs now somebody from America is going to send me like a truck of wheat no no just three stalks that's all I need okay I rather they donate to the page send me the thing yeah so maybe there's a bug infestation and the Sher went ahead and sold it how could the guy in The Cruise make those fruit TR maybe selling it to is whoever buys is going to eat what ah correct that is true yes the balab who doesn't know he's in on a cruise he's making Trum he's using the fruit in his house and the himself is eating very good we don't have to be concern for something like that let him meat let him on the cruise eat what he wants to do that's what we do like I don't really do it but people hear when they they get something that they're not sure of was Trum So they say oh I'm doing Trum on something I have over there they have a pile of cash a pile of whatever it is they do a whole so you could eat stuff here and take Trum from somewhere else that's what he's trying to do but at the end of the day he didn't take Trum didn't work because it's already sold don't worry about it it's very rare that there'll be an infestation that the guy will sell what if it did happen the guy the is going to sell off all the fruit to save the owner something the guy in the cruise he took on it he made it the the pilot you're trying to sell is already not a problem they're selling it he's selling it only to that that's able to eat this so if so whole problem why can't you sell why can't the fruit because maybe it's a pile of truma okay so truma that fruit will go bad is very rare when it does happen it takes a lot of time fast forward you have to go forward a lot yeah until you have infestation takes a month let's say oh but when we allow the guy in the cruise to take from this fruit before with a me not with a l means very far ahead Mame means even before the guy in the cruise doesn't have unlimited amount of time he has to do it quickly why because he he wants to use his fruit that he has on the cruise he wants to get rid of the devil okay so he has a limited time the the problem occurs later on down the line that the fruit get got infested says when there's a big problem of the fruit going bad when it does happen later on in the line now I I'm concerned that the guy on the cruise he took truma from it a month earlier so now just s it's not true it's something that happens and when it happens it happens right away if there's a problem the problem jumps in immediately doesn't wait and if you say he'll run ahead and sell the owner that's on a cruise he doesn't know that it was sold so quickly and he ends up eating because he's using he thinks he has a pile of fruit somewhere the pile of fruit was already sold he's using that pile of fruit to make true on the fruit that he has on the ship and it's gone so he's eating b a person gives his fruit over to his friend to watch and they spoil the wine became vinegar I looked it up on Google don't worry about it oil could go bad it says oil went bad is a problem a little bit cuz everybody knows honey could stay forever so in fact we're not even talking about bees honey we're talking about date honey because otherwise doesn't fit into Su you don't have to take Meers but even Bey could go bad if you leave it exposed and could get the fungus and all sorts of stuff the bottom line is the honey went bad this is important to remember do not touch don't get don't don't sell it don't try to do anything you got to do you got to be nice to the owner the owner would want you probably to sell it no so sell it in [Music] B when you sell it don't sell it to yourself you sell it to other people why what's the huh you can't do you can't do stuff that people are going to suspect you yeah you're around the you're collecting money and you start as the says in a second you're watching somebody else's fruit all of a sudden it becomes convenient for you to sell to yourself and you start eating his fruit don't worry I'm putting money inside no people going to say it's not it's not spoiled you're just doing it because you need fruit there I I forgot to say when we're talking about the the the honey it's interesting there's a famous story that people say that's a medish and uh they looked it up here in the KY nobody can find it in the med they can find it the the furthest it goes back is 150 years that's it but it says like this that when he was a kid he saw a woman coming out of sh's Palace and she was crying why you crying crying because she she gave somebody a whole jar of honey to watch and when she got it back it was full of honey but when she looked inside the honey was all honey but what happened was she gave the jar was full of gold and she put a little honey on the top and she was very sad so as a child said okay let's break it open they broke it open and they found a piece of gold stuck to the side and then they realized that she was right cuz sh said no the reason why she's crying said there can do about it's like that coffee jar with the diamond you bring a that was gold there you can't bring AA then the problem is that first of all was 28 years old that when sha was a king and says he was a kid and nobody can find in any Med it's like it's brought in books that maybe 100 with a lot of swarm bring them okay fine Z when doesn't have poor people to give money to rash says the money the cash could go bad the coins go bad so you give it to other people to to to to get larger denominations but the himself shouldn't deal with the again those in charge of the food for the poor don't don't sell it to yourself the bottom line is and what does it say don't touch it don't sell it of the opinion that according to everybody if there's a large spoilage sell it and B over here it seems like even though there's a large large spoilage you don't we're talking about that there not such a big problem when wine goes bad that's huge so why shouldn't you sell it say sh keep the come come yeah like um sometimes something something falls on the floor the floor is D dirty so you jump you get it it's too late it's on the floor floor it already got dirty you sat down on a on chocolate that's it it's finished it's so just cuz you jump up it's not going to make it less dirty that's it once the the wine is spoiled why are you going to sell it today spoiled finished don't don't touch [Music] it what about the iselis are starting to come in what can you do with this stuff oh the famous sponsor here the new one kidovations in honor my uncle official DRT foror for continue learn this is too long we got to we got to slice it down a little bit ficial is a man of many words good he knows how to make this more K says what what can you do with this stuff you could use spoiled oil for tanning hides the G you could use honey to put on the wound of a camel if he has some they sell the stuff today check this out Camel honey somebody mentioned that it might be the Camel cigarette logo so it's not but look but on the side they also have it over here you know like on the side looks looks legit okay so they they knocked it off the Camel cigarette okay says it's spoiled honey what are you gonna do with it you're right you're not going to save the oil you're going to save the jar do I have to worry go to bz to save a small jar yes you have to go to bz for that opinion you sell the fruit the spoil fruit because you're doing right we said the whole is all about helping another Jew has a loss prevent him from A Loss you're allow to sell it to prevent a loss you're not allow to sell it but why saying this is a famous Concept in anytime is mentioned in from the famous three things and our Miss not one of those three three things says no it's not so simple did he really say that that like in all these in the entire or not perhaps this it's not so simple and that's why say specifically in this case says from the fact says you could go ahead and sell somebody else's fruit to save him we learned from this the that you're permitted to go and put a relative inside the belongings of somebody that's captured I'm going to bring it again but all the way at the end of says because what's going on we even started off the sh saying that the the H should come back they just found the body today they were able to retrieve one body says when somebody's captured there's a big big concern that they're dead because we know too well that even in nowadays they torture them and unfortunately I believe they they're saying that there's 33 bodies right now right out of the 133 there's 33 bodies it's a problem so do you have somebody go in and start dealing with the field with the orchard with the vineyard whatever says we got to save whatever we can say he's gone he's gone let's go in there Say No don't touch it what's the connection maybe there's no connection maybe when the fruit are getting destroyed they're they're going they're losing value every minute the principle is going but perhaps when the guy has a Vineyard okay okay so you lose the grapes but you still have the whole Vineyard is going to come back next year don't do anything because we have the because perhaps the owner made a Trum but when a guy is in he's captured he's a hostage maybe we should go and help him out oh so here's a little bit of a chart we don't really need it but fine what you see over here when the fruit gets spoiled says sell say don't touch when a guy is in captivity say don't don't let anybody touch it says you go ahead and you work the field so perhaps the two greens line up and The Two Reds line up says we help the guy out for the fruit we help the guy out on his field is it the same logic or not perhaps it's two different Logics says that on the right side that what that you sell the fruit we just said it before you sell the fruit when they start spoiling beautiful hair green and green they line up isn't because it's one one logic it's two two different Logics why you don't let somebody sell the fruit so on the one hand you have red all the way to the right that looks like all the way to the right and that looks like all the way to the left so it's green and red they don't line up you see it's two different pieces of logic it's a good was captured whether or not you help the guy out when you hear that he died everybody agrees that you go in there you take care he's dead it's a rumor yes no a it's a rumor one of my favorites now top favorite from one of my f the other one of probably my favorite story about a go is about this is also coming down an elevator the elevator stabs on the floor doors open up in walks a young guy he sees he says re you're not going to believe it after all these years that I'm married I had a baby boy oh I'm so excited hugs him and kisses him they make a Rec whatever he did you know very very happy for him why not the guy just had a kid elevator continues down doors open up and this young guy he sees all these people standing there and they're all crying and this and that so what happened so some's wife was just LIF her he just came down from a room he's like oh so when the guy was so happy and telling him about his kids he paused he he stopped doing what he had to do and he went away from that veos and he and he hugged this guy because that's what this guy needed he needed to be happy he didn't want to hurt his feelings oh I I can't be my my wife and then when he was downstairs he he cried it out with this m that's a typical story he heard he died I just thought about it here this is in the back he donated to the campaign 3,000 I said I I told Israelis I I don't want embarrassing like that no I said we just started the shear I don't want to like sh we're doing a shear and also you have to give money wait a year or two until we do it to the Israelis okay is when you didn't hear he disappeared I don't know he's he's in captivity T says it's a a great chance he's dead you put somebody in there what are they going to do they're just going to use the field and they're not going to fertilize they're not going to take care of the field they're going to ruin the field why he gets paid let's say a third typical is to get paid a third he's not he's gonna take good care of it listen to this if you cause pain to a widow or what does the say I'll be very upet you I'll kill you so if hem kills a person what happens to that person's wife she becomes a stickle Widow no and the and the kids what do they become so then they become a SLE that's obvious right so then why say that your wife will become an Al and your kid will become they'll be a terrible one called she won't be able to get married here this is our case the son is going to want to inherit the father but says you do let if you if the guy disappears you let the sun go in there this says you don't let the sun go in I don't understand I mean and I can't imagine today where somebody disappears for a while that his son is they're going to tell the son don't don't take care of the father's uh belong don't take care of his his his business what most fathers who wanted I don't know okay lat the LI it's talking about The Next Step it's to sell it of course the sun could go in there and work it it's a little bit of a as the is going to say soon what we mean to say the son shouldn't sell imagine the father shows up two months later out of uh out of captivity what happened to my business what happened to my factory oh I sold it it's bad news a story he said the sun shouldn't go in there what do you mean he shouldn't go and work the the business maybe what it's meant to say is he shouldn't sell it listen this is a very very sharp language maybe you come you from Pisa over there they like to take an elephant and put it through a needle hole in other words that here we got a picture actually oh this this is good and I ruined it okay here's Pisa you can see from thisas boom try to take elf and put it through a needle I also show this this needle this is real there's a guy that does like art he's able to in a the hole of a needle and makes this whole stuff okay but this is better I think on his hat we could do he's from Pisa okay says it goes together like a like a like a like a wife who can't get married you can't get atile married to somebody it's completely not you don't go in you don't you don't deal with the field at all not just selling you can't even go in there and do we have any time fine what am I going to do stop here can't stop here huh what you say but it's not you gota be lumon says like this whether or not you let a relative go into the captured people's possessions is once he goes in you let him in this I love this guy this guy he hears that his father's coming out of his father's captured in Gaza he's been there for six months he's coming out tonight what does this guy do instead of bringing the band and making a whole suda he runs real quickly to the to the tree and he starts grabbing fruit like he's hopping around right before he comes home entire thing everything he doesn't pay for it what's considered a captured person if you hear that he he died he might have died that's a let me just show you over here oh here we go so say we have three things here we have something called a shi something called n and something called ran okay now you go back to know these things is somebody that we heard that he died in captivity nin is somebody we didn't hear that he died but he he's he's captured Rin it happens unfortunately it happened recently in England it happened to somebody I know that the father disappears on his own just disappears one day he's gone what's an in they went away on business we don't know what happened to him never came back but we don't know if he's dead that you allow to have a relative go in there and deal with the field if somebody goes in there you rip him out of there this guy just disappeared now if he's running away disappeared is going to say why he ran away he should have told somebody go into my field take care of my business from the fact he didn't tell anybody obviously he doesn't want somebody to touch it what's A's based on the two lines it happened forcefully that just like takes your field away from you by the way it's the king away from you if somebody in says do not come into my field we have here the you know the do not come in if you come in I'll be very upset so whether you allow to force yourself in there and it's based a little bit on this right here saying it's not yours you have no right to tell someone not to go into your field means I left on my own have a wonderful even evening a we'll see you tomorrow at [Music]