Daf Yomi Bava Metzia Daf 115 by R’ Eli Stefansky

[Music] live from theps K from my Kos hotel from the very we have one of the world's most you know why not only does do a great job on the food but he also gives us tremendous to where to go and how to go he drew up a hand map took him 20 minutes to do it so we have we're gonna have to move on a very fast pace today because it ises and people are going to be starting to come into here although I said it's but you know you know what I mean people might be coming in in any minute and start making noise so I just uh we'll do the sponsors we'll jump right into it sponsor by Anonymous for the save and speed return of all the hostages I'm sorry that I forgot to say the sponsors the other day the two sherons mine they are not doing their job they're not holding they are spacing out that they're probably doing who knows what on their phones while the shear is going on they forgetting to tell me TOs the one who brought me to the my grandmother which we said the other day thank you very much for recording the for RAB is an amazing speaker remember that by the thank you Uncle Phil for the amazing you hear Mark tell Phil in case you didn't hear this thank you for giving me the ability to catch up on my own pace I'm very grateful to the MD team on second we are B you could put it on half speed you might be able to understand it better this is four lines from the bottom we were learning a whole about if somebody lends money to somebody else he takes from him collateral he takes from him mashin what if he has to give back the mashin at night or during the day and the guy dies he gives it back so he dies when the mash is back in his possession do the inheritors have to give it back to the malda to the lender that's a little bit of a blooper I show the blooper first okay let me show the other one then let's see hope nothing BL good morning say we have a beautiful city says like this if I can find my spot here Mish when the lender he receives collateral he has to give it back to the borrower at night the borrower dies is he's a ladder and he's permitted to take it away from his sons and what wow the guys fast anyway so you saw the blooper before the actual video supposed to be opposite way but as May a very interesting question that needs to be explained if you're taking a the is taking why does he have to give it back to so these words we're going to try to fix what do you mean the T says to give it back to the life every night when he needs it question is if you're going to give it back what do you gave by keep on taking it in the morning and giving back at night taking in the morning that's not good collateral if the guy wants he'll take it from you but what did you gain by getting it back every two minutes says I gain a lot you gain that should not be in other words we know we do a pral today so that if you have a loan you could get the loan back but comes along and wipes out all loans as soon as you get collateral then the loan flips into a p and there's no doesn't Wipe Out the loan so just for that it's worth it even though I have to give it back to the Le it doesn't matter sh won't take it away another thing is we know that you cannot go and collect movable items from orphans from the this although it might be movable object however since it's it belongs to the lender and not to the but we're trying to prove wrong it seems like because he took it back from the he keeps on taking it back then he could get it says even if it's in the possession of the and he dies he can go and take it away from him over it seems not like that problem with it says why do you give it back now it's a very strange as explains so once you're explaining that away let's explain it differently what is the question is what is the point of a mas no why do we give it back the T says to give it back but then what good is it and therefore we don't have just asks if that's the case that all the the whole purpose of a Mas is that shouldn't come and wipe out the the loan or that the shouldn't hold on to it you can take it away from so do it once and you don't have to give it you could give it back to him take the Mas give it back to him for his pajamas let him have it forever and you accomplish if comes you still get the the loan it's not wiped out so says T is unbelievable first of all T says we don't want the to deny the is alone so by the fact you keep on taking the the pajama from him he won't be able to deny another things is he's Mis you shame him you constantly go to his house and pick up the PJs so he remembers oh I by the way it's not so bad because we're talking about a person who's supposed to pay back already the loan is over I'm reminding the this is not a regular Mas that you take at the time of the loan this is a Mas that you take after the loan is due so he owes you money so you keep on reminding him nicely by returning the pajamas picking them up in the morning it says do not come to the borrower's house his house there's another person that you could go to his house who is that to take away the security you go into the gu's house you took the clothing because you were guarantor somebody you didn't even know so I I want to get do a public service announcement it's a big Mitzvah to be an AR but a person should be very very careful and think about it many times before it becomes AR especially in very large amounts of money be an AR if you could afford to lose the money because I know people that have lost literally millions of shek in AR they they they thought big deal I'll just sign a thing and then the the comes to them or the bank comes to them and they have to pay and you have to pay so you have to be in a position I have two friends first of all that lost money but I have two friends one is the friend of the guy that lost money and he tells his kids like this even though they're married he says listen if anybody ever comes to you to be an arv you say your father doesn't let and they should speak to me because I don't let you be an AR I know somebody that was really messed up for many many years because he was an AR so it's a big Mitzvah and maybe people should find other Mitzvah they should ask the if this is the right thing to say this is my feeling be careful not a m you can't pay it right one day oh right right you're helping out a friend to buy a house to get a morgage not to put yourself in a bad situation right okay exactly so in the right time the right place and the something just because I know that I was the AR of many times without thinking big deal I'll sign here there's another two people that signed what are the chances you going to come to me the chances are very high and if you can't afford and young and you don't have the money you can't afford it it could really mess you up says my son you became guarant to your friend you stuck out your hand to stranger you were caught of being caught with your the words in your mouth as see you said something not nice to somebody do this to be saved you came into the the hand of your friend make him he'll rule over you in other words if you are the guarant you have to pay you're not you're not so what did happen you bothered somebody said something really nasty to somebody so for that you make sure that there's a lot of friends he get him you get friends that know him and they could convince him that he should be because you really don't want this to go on long with somebody having titness on you and not being and there's another point that we can learn here you do not go into the house and this is the point that we're trying to get to you don't go into the house of the you could go into the house of let me see if you can find it here no again slight oh here it's a little bit better than before you hire a guy to carry something for you on a shoulder or there's another picture H him he could go in and get it you can go in and money oh so if you hired somebody to to do something for you here in this hotel somebody to paint your house so but you could go in to get all this stuff they're allowed to come in they're P they you owe the painter money he come to your house and and take stuff from you you're this is not a loan this is you owe somebody but not in a Lo I think but what if I turn this into alone here a new A New Concept I hired you to paint my house I don't have the money to pay you so now say you know what let's flip it into loan now I become a borrower I borrowed money from you I owe you $100 he should be able to go into the house what does that mean uh no wrong Mas means that any type [Music] of so means I cannot you the painter before you able to come to my house but now since we turned it into a Mila into a loan that's any type of loan even though didn't start out as loan that's also something that you cannot go into my house and take your money and interesting because I wanted to tell the story to you guys because we mentioned a certain person and uh it's not the greatest story about myself but I said this in the past that somebody um took stuff from my daughter very valuable stuff like a few thousand worth of stuff so I decided to do D me and I went into a seminary dormatory when there no there's nobody there my daughter another girl and we videotaped the whole thing and we found all her stuff stolen goods and we took it the head of the Seminary saw me on video and he called me up he knew me we we we were good friends and he said listen you do that one more time I'm calling the cops on you he very upset at me it's probably right uh I probably wouldn't do that today but the Sha does say that in such a case um when you see your stuff in somebody's else house somebody else's house you are permitted to go in and take it it's your stuff you just go in and take it says the the that you shouldn't take ay thank you Mark you should I love this guy he's switching back yesterday I'm I'm on this chart for 10 minutes I'm on three Su later it's still the same chart he remembers he's a pro from Chicago anyway Mark's on for doing all the other nights now it's already so what are we doing with time how much time 6:45 ah okay so we'll finish in 15 minutes but okay so T says you shouldn't take a mash from an Alo what kind of Alo what are we talking about whether she's very wealthy you can't take from her you shouldn't take beg it's not everybody talks about it's not beg it means her car any item you cannot take from some say go as far as to say that perhaps it's not even talking about a widow it's talking about any single woman even a divorce even a woman who was never married perhaps you can't take a from her so this is a famous we brought it down a few times in terms of likes to understand the reasoning behind the Mitzvah and based on that based on understand the reason he could extrapolate and say it doesn't apply to this in this case and here's a few examples you could take a mash from a wealthy woman why the whole point is that if she's not wealthy she needs her clothing for the night she needs her plow for the day so she going to go back and forth to her house you're going to pick up the the clothing and you're going to deliver to her at night and you're going to do it over and over people are going to talk about her so she's single and there's this guy coming to her house every night and every morning so people going to stay stuff the me so you want to tell me that is the one that doesn't dar the reasoning in the does and the is going to say yes at the end the is going to say yes exactly we learned the famous the exact opposite says that a king should not take many women what's many [Music] women he's allowed to have many women EV you serious as long as they don't take his mind away from Hashem and talk him into bad stuff is not many it's even one if she's made his heart he's not let him marry her so why does it say that even if you have a wife as good as AIG who's the wife of who and why do we take her as an example because she was one of the seven very very can't take her as your 19th wife if you're the king in fact it's like we thought doesn't reason it's only here because something special the actually gives the reason don't take many ways because we don't want you to steer off the way relative ones I think like to understand ah yeah yeah yeah you're right so it's interesting because I over PESA in the last few weeks I've been discussing with younger people that are struggling with certain mites we don't understand said why do you have to understand no we need time of the cow so I said no but you know we don't really have reasons for everything yeah but they start proving me from different Rim likes dire of the but it's even better if we don't dire time of the and we just take Miss for whatever says whether we understand or not yeah but we want to understand it so that it'll be easier to to do I hear there such a thing but don't focus on it don't let it like take you away from that you have to do when you don't understand you have going there and he gives a lot of reasons and a lot of this there's a lot of a lot of we have we do have a lot of explanations but it's not I don't think it's the focus of to really understand every single M of why and when has to be that see time the and based on his reasons he can say well it doesn't apply here and it doesn't apply here I think it becomes a little dangerous personally start saying well was very hard to make a fire in the time of the but you know today we just go like this we push a button and we can drive maybe should drive you know that's sort of thing no become subjective it's only based on reasonings and subjective try to understand to give it a it shouldn't be the basis of why you do right exactly if it helps you and gives you the that out but don't not I'm saying not to focus on it and be like submerging in it not the reason to do it yeah okay we I always over here not why all I need is the first part of the do not take many wives and everybody will understand the reason I'll tell you why because obviously the dangerous they're going to take one of them is going to steer you off the way why is there the extra words it's not it's not to tell you that you got to go more than 18 it's to tell you that even one that's no good you shouldn't marry her even if you only have one wife no good I'm not telling anybody here to get the voice I'm just saying one delay no good says saysit what's this it's not for me because I'm a mute so interesting so we have a number of things I show you already this this uh depiction of a grinder a mini one we are talking about a mini one but not that many that's a little exaggeration it's for jokes here's a portable a portable one that fits in you know somebody's counter at home and it's built from two parts the is the is on the bottom the is on top and you pour the the kernels into the wheat into the hole on the top and you turn the knob that handle on top you turn a circle and it grinds the wheat and makes it into flour here here's a larger animal larger piece this is not so much a countertop one versus this one if you take the portable grinder as your collateral you take it you take it on two separate dou say top part but it doesn't necessarily mean what's a good example of microwave microwave m m good it might come out soon what else is it goodle maybe oven something like that so on another any any any clean in the world that that bring that you use to for food which sustains you gives you sustenance Grill if you take the whole grinder over if you take just I'm sorry yeah just you're right just let's start just the bottom part here let me show this again just the bottom part because but you're also the third if you take the top and the bottom have three two we have to remember these says no you only two might be a a general love but we're not so sure if you take just the bottom part if you take the top part you take both them like get two you don't get a third LA from why LC and the woman who salana who during child birth had a she got very sick she's at I and she still needs a lot of ands so the third says I don't to WR fire for this here check this out we have and r yud on the bottom R is the one that says what time is it 55 okay so we have 20 minutes very good is the one that says you get malus on for the third and rud is the one that says you don't get on that's the the ra so [Music] we're talking about yeah let's see so now we have the three you cannot eat the carbon P when it's not completely when it's raw in raw State no it's raw when it's not completely roasted and it says in the cannot eat it when it's cooked in water and then the third POS in purple he in the same POS three sentences he inate it must be roasted so if you eat it raw like get two in red in purple what if it's if it's cooked well but not raw but it's cooked in water for the green and the purple and which reminds me crazy thing I don't want to focus on this because it's a little sad but always used to tell people I don't know if you know this to tell people if you go from to for P that means you don't haveo I have a lot ofo but I'm married to my wife my wife loves going to to parents P we got to talk to her about this he says why because that means you don't believe m is coming and you're going to miss the Mitzvah of P he says not only that if you go from there people also you don't have Okay so this a few cashes on it what about what if you go to America you might miss other mes okay fine oh but we more mitz you go to America you do two over there even Israelis have to do okay two D but it's not the same thing as you miss maybe do maybe get who knows says like this I buy you all I did it one time you know I fell behind on my mikra this week it's always a bad thing I did until twice but I did all par once and I don't remember okay I get to do it tonight you get a second chance listen it's all about the you got you keep on going that's not for me it's for other people we don't have time no I skipped yeah oh no what if it's raw it's not completely cooked it's cooked but not cooked now you get three the top one in red the green the purple the purple is more is very general and you don't get you don't get malus on a generalization on a general let's see if I have this here it has to be here there's a rod that goes right through the animal from from its mouth all the way through its end and you roast it there's a CL in called that's what we're talking about you see how they line up beautifully who says you get lines up says you get says you don't get green you don't get it's like you don't get says of course class no it's not connected maybe they're saying completely different things maybe maybe understands you don't get it's very generaliz is very here I just added this little boom a little bit better say I say even like the arrow on an angle why when it says I'm taking your your soul by taking something it doesn't say what machine doesn't say microwave it doesn't say doesn't say anything why do you need in other words what we you have to understand this the understands that once the Tor says you have to roast and you cannot cook that covers all types of preparation of food there is no other way to prepare food what other way so I was thinking what about today a microwave microwave what is that is that cooking or is that roasting it might not sure cuz it's a waves it's waves waves lots of waves lots of waves waves lot ofes let's see if he follows all the way to the end of okay the is coming to say that there a lot but in other words one has nothing to the other doesn't line up with r say let me change the chart the arrow goes in the other direction complet extra a lot there's nothing extra about it's great that he came the last minute of the year we care even the last minute is a beautiful thing what's your name sh wolf wolf sh listening to you in Hebrew few months ago through Sam Kleiner yes and I enjoyed it oh I just did the Hebrew SH now we're doing you like the Hebrew you should hear the English all right thanks for participating even one minute is is better was your first day wolf what where do he live we have wow beautiful yeah what do you what do what do we do with this we have a big here it's not extra that the only time you're over on eating the is when it's the if you eat it earlier than that in other words have a wonderful day and we'll see you on Sunday a