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A Father's Love - Likkutei Torah Matos "Veshama Aviha" #1 - By Rabbi YY Jacobson
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matters receive a Shama vs nedra for
Shama vs need the beginning of passions
mattresses a daughter we're not talking
about a daughter was an adult of buggers
a younger daughter died losses the Homer
says if she makes her nether and when
you make her nether you have to fulfill
the nether but the father hears about
the nether and he knows it so then she's
good to go
even if she didn't turn all her nether
she take makes an ED there
she's never gonna eat cheesecake ever
right the next week there's a beautiful
Bar Mitzvah great bris is unbelievable
cheesecake and she wants to eat the
Cheesecake your father says don't worry
my tired I heard you make the nether and
I said so to say that whenever he hears
about it he could be Novato the nether
and it's fine she doesn't have to
anything of course this is a concept
called a tourist nerd arm anybody could
do a tourist Nidoran right you go to a
Bezdek will you go even to one expert or
you go to three and they could do a
tourist and on they could have no almost
not almost not every but almost any net
that you make when they consider the
circumstances that's the look with some
heavy isn't it
those off to another Union is gonna come
back we'll have an onion the Duke a
cipher to understand the whole concept
of the piece of the cookie size room
literally means the meticulous
instructions of the sages and the
rabbits on Orion commands we see Kamat
Shekhawat Alma's almost the entire
Gomorrah the entire body of talmud of
chaos bobbly your shaman male is filled
man washes with homeless men who shall
come in as acronym of rock it's filled
with halacha sand stringencies that the
castle instituted by Sifu comma the
Daruma cemetery of itself
they added many fences and many
parameters around turnip itself any suit
being tomorrow that you're learning any
Sookie learning right we learned today
in the SEC debate sir I Marilyn ah
Christmas I'm a lot Carmela to do myself
on Shabbos I don't tell are going to do
for me on Shabbos I mean I tried it's
not a problem
common it's a major issue in Hooksett
Shabbos major it up and it's a whole new
definition it's a whole new fence around
those choppers well take all that losses
of Mook
sir and the same is true so many other
areas right we don't eat chicken and
milk you lie to eat chicken and milk a
lot of cooked chicken and milk it's not
possible all of chicken is not Muslim
really Lamar says he used to do it it
was giving one example but there are
hundreds and hundreds and hundreds and
thousands the whole Gomorrah and asougi
and Gomorrah is about this concept we
learned today young commercial goalies
we're celebrating the second day of Yom
Tov right this is what the rabbi's added
we don't have to make a second day of
Yom Tov we know when young turf is we
have a calendar they said min ago they
said can be a day so the whole body of
Talmud the whole body of Yiddish guide
is filled with guitar and extra fences
and homeless that are common mate in
terms of mitzvos weather washing your
hands before bread or saying hallelujah
a dish or saying Ruffus or diverting
three times a day shackles men summative
or making blessings before you eat etc
etc or or Haqqanis institutions or
Gazette is decrees don't do this because
it's similar to this you may come to do
this for Indian mover the question is if
this is what God wants so why didn't he
say it why didn't he say it good
question yeah well Indian Movement
abstract is as Mohammad Reza because
I'll tell us our pasta kitto even they'd
ask me I doesn't share I shared in the
beginning of Sheridan you sure came him
in a shaker spiel kiss me with a kiss of
your mouth kitto you made a cameo in
because they definitely your love is
better than wine smack of the wine jug
the Gemara i'm knockin sec struck the
jewish people said are they from Malaya
David is so from Yosemite National
Taylor the death are refers to delay
safely the words of the sages are more
sweet to me me yayan than the wine of
Tyler what does it mean given a
suffering are sweeter than the wine of
time Peter should means as follows yeah
initial tight opening me ascertainable
say they say they don't say yeah Tyler
Quito today that from me yayan why
Nevada represents the internal core of
Tyler the situs of Taylor the depth of
their the secrets of town commissioner
as I listen a sign yet
site kumari says in the second say even
when wine comes in secrets come out we
all know people get inebriated or
toxicated by wine and they say things
that usually they would not say the
secrets come out some people drink just
to be able to speak openly mrs. Sonia -
so some people drink for other reasons
the Gemara says ein is the gamma 3 of 70
you'd you'd known as 7 d soit is also
sama from of dollars in 66 and 470
because wine and secrets have a common
denominator and the reason for this is
also partial thing - miss wine is a
secret it's concealed in the grave you
have to crush the grape and get the wine
out it's not on the surface so when we
say llena shelter they were referring to
not just trade on the surface we're
referring to the wine of Tyler the depth
of Tyler the yaw in the core of tighter
the situs of Tyler that which is beneath
the surface of Titan nonetheless divin
is safe from male vimar classicism aside
this Italian more than the wine of Tyler
is the sweetness of divination safe from
of the words of the rappers of the saint
of wine she call her get out of our
homeless shipment in Vienna by saying
whose acronym live rock because all over
the guitar and all of the fences and
astringent sees that the kazow
introduced into you describe the dark'
Musa and the ways of ethics Shabab God
is so pretty others which fire are found
in all the a goddess of shots of course
in chassis our halacha never God Allah
who deals with xavius and the homeless
and attack on us and them in hug him and
this bosom and so forth but then you
have all the a goddess all the mad
Russian like pre-clovis which teaches
various ideas of ethics all over this
Coulomb named shock him a penis
available all of them come from a
vertebra which means from an intense
obsessive love commercial cause of the
passage says are half the Eskimo Masha
the Navi mal a key and it's important
who said it
the Navi mulaskey was from the last
nerve iam in Jewish history this is the
beginning of bias Shanee which is the
era of most suited era bottom by Amyas
we'll see so the beginning of that by
shaming Malathi says I want you to know
something
a half the Eskimo Marcia I love you and
Oh
the homeless come from this album was
shot Komodo marshal marshal take a
medicine album a human being
Maximus avisail binoy because he loves
his child medaka keema yes sir so he's
more meticulous he's more cautious to
nuance law hi Sifl of schmira mullah he
guards him much more than he would guard
anybody else because of him oh god Aaron
making egg and parameters or fences Oh
garden and bow injuries but far left
Shari balcarcel area manuka makovica
because he wants him to be completely
clean because he wants them to be
toxicity toxic free because he wants him
to be cleansed
if he doesn't care so much about a child
you want to eat this eat this cotton
candy cotton candy you already had 29
lollipops
one more you already finished three ice
creams why not one more it looks good
you had one piece of cake take another
piece of cake but char C wants his son
to be completely healthy cleanse me Luka
he should be cleansed he shouldn't have
any toxicity in him so he's more
cautious he's more sensitive and he
wants him to stay away from it the pain
Huff it's my dream sustained the sacral
BSS ace and he has a deep desire that he
should be able to develop a life in
which he finds grace and which he
develops his life is with his mind like
a glimpse of canvas we say in vanilla
Fame the sacral type vanilla Killa are
them but yesterday's more Okamoto
Marshall Margolis when you have a gem
when you have a Margolis a diamond
mocchi you Carter be I said the more
precious it is shame to be oyster you
guarded more schmira moola better
schmear kliebert I flee in the
expression of Cazale I'll put it to one
vessel within another vessel something
within another vessel in other words you
guard it much more
why are you guarding it so much you're
guarding it so much because it's so
precious to you it's so powerful to you
you did not want it to get lost you
didn't want it to get tarnishing I
wanted to get ruined you don't want it
to get dirty why why so paradoxically
the schmira the fact that you say no
stay away from this stay away from this
is why because I'm so sensitive because
I wonder you should be after you should
operate on your most optimal
optimal level and because I want you to
operate on your most optimal level and
to be as healthy and as powerful and as
robust and as have as much as energy and
enthusiasm and alacrity as much as
possible therefore I am very sensitive
to the details of what goes into your
system what doesn't go into your system
what you eat what you don't eat what you
do what you don't do
all mossad the rubber Karma's going to
lava sea is Baruchel a new because of
the tremendous love of our sham tours
Marc Mero Murdock de colina bd2k safer
therefore you have the various
stringencies in the keuken meticulous
details of this you do this you don't do
Shane Hamer deviate or OSA which are the
words of Tara Hannon chakra is my aviary
ABBA they all come from excessive
tremendous love this yogi Magoo darlin
with various parameters and boundaries
listeth case a new to refine us latoya
valano for our goodness tahini and the
qiam the fun of his burrow that we
should be able to be completely cleansed
completely sacred completely wholesome
completely mucky completely pure that's
the definition of all the guitar demand
all the circum in other words any black
camera that you learn any Mishnah you
learn a nice official Canara that you
learned you have to be able to see in it
a flow of endless love if I'm not seeing
within it love then I'm not seeing it
that's Kiko him the death of me yayan
vividly safe for him has something even
more than a national title because yeah
there's a tiny even the depth of Toyota
that I sham gave is also an expression
of love but the divination so friend
they were so sensitive
Zeta this later that up to this sup to
that we're worried about this you
shouldn't come to this this is similar
to this similar to that it's like what's
going on
they were so sensitive because the Alpha
the tremendous a variety neshama s-- to
neshama cicero we all understand that if
somebody has a nuclear reactor in their
backyards hopefully not you put a fence
around it you put a fence around them
but i don't have to say a nuclear
reactor you have something that can give
an electric
of course other damage so you put a
fence around it why you don't want you
or your wife or your child or a guest to
touch it so just say don't touch it the
answer is you don't want them to get
even close to it but for this tis one
condition you have to realize what the
danger is if you don't realize what the
danger is who cares if somebody touches
it when we look at a lot of things areas
of the chasm
we're not sensitive to the nuclear
danger that exists in the issue so
therefore it's like relax so they'll
come to do this so what's the worst
thing that can happen but understand if
somebody understands the home resistor
and they realize how damaging it can be
spiritually or emotionally or physically
and so on or morally and so forth so
then you would look at the fence not as
a as a fence to make your life harder
it's rather a fence because they're
sensitive that you shouldn't get hurt
and if there's another fence it's only
because there's extra sensitivity and
caution so if I'm not if I don't realize
that toxicity in this food or the poison
in this behavior okay big deal what do
you want from me just chill out and
relax but if you are sensitive to it if
you are aware of it as the Casal were to
Taylor so then your paradigm changes
your perspective changes you know your
child is allergic to milk 6:00 or
allergic to peanuts or allergic to sugar
just go add cookies crying without it
that's not cold love that's called
apathy it's called coldness and may even
be called cruelty and the contrary you
want somebody should operate on their
most optimal level that is essentially
what is behind all of the Tucanos and
all of the homeless kitto whom they met
him a young you have to be able to look
in and see a flow of lava rubber a flow
of our habit to be able to operate on
the maximum level on and everything
spiritually physically emotionally the
he may if so we have a big question
so Toyota should have been given with
all the homeless and all the tacoma's if
it's so important that you want your
child to operate on the highest level
and therefore you want them to be
cleansed and you want to guard the
diamond that it shouldn't be tainted and
tarnished in any way so it should
always been there why are they attack on
us of the huzzah he neighbors man should
be somebody to show you kion the
base--emitter stood are you sake bhaduri
rice it was sufficient with the mitzvos
of Terra
remember that Yiddish died during by
assertion looked somewhat different than
Yiddish that looks today because he
didn't have for example the show he
didn't have shot Horseman comidas you
had the basic stuff I mean you had to
man Tyrel that was a big thing that we
don't even have today of course you had
the midst of thermal and yet the Mitzvah
of Shabbos yet the Malakal subscribers
but you didn't have most history they're
abundant you had some MOOC so it
actually came from the time of David and
schleimann and some other stuff that
came then but a lot of the things we do
and we don't do and a lot of the things
were careful right if you talk about a
blast to somebody in bias tradition he
doesn't know what you're talking about
even though today it's a major element
of Jewish life I'm saying a lot of the
Tucanos all the denim of Musa right so
some have to worry but many late and
it's even all the brothers we make you
eat an apple you make a brother you make
a buddy pretty ain't such a hackle
British a shocker all these things it's
all tucked honest and all from antique
nuts and another from Bayou Chene he
says in the time of the base Armitage
especially the first one it was enough
with very nice a minute IRA key hoisin
and Manas a shamrock a no because our
spirit was loyal to God for Lloyd Marsh
a new have lay our voices our Visayan
Allah typhus gosh miss we were not
pulled with thick ropes of love to
material addictions and cravings for how
you burn a coleus a visage on cool
believe kalisch it was easier for a
person to experience love Hashem
entrenched in his heart
Lia's be Slava Slava the session
Vittorio's to be passionate about a
voice a shaman Tara
gamma bleach in his earlier Missa
Alvarado even without feeling and
experiencing the tremendous love Dara
had their generation after generation
came is smart to holla Vova says the
hearts became diminished
I love officer schliemann's Boveda
session the wholesome Arsenal in the
session got diminished IVA as a British
fish in the sense of not having that
intense love like a glowing fire finish
renew by Arizona we became scorched
with a alien fire but Alvis vittatus
goofily is with love and cravings and
inclinations and addictions that deal
with the material the Colca overall a no
and they're so powerful either she knows
a lava - ember other we almost cannot we
don't even know what it means to serve
God with love we just don't even
understand what it means like what does
it mean to have real a visage Shem we
know what it means to have cravings and
inclinations and addictions and all that
but then a vataj and we just don't have
that sensitivity and by the way this is
the reason why I'm biased addition the
biggest miss Sian was of a disorder
which today we don't even understand
what this ty bit of a disorder so it's
brought it's explain because clipper is
always a competitive - kaduche it's
always ello Amasa and this man hobbies
Judaism was not so much an experience of
institutionalized religion it was more
of a spiritual experience of intimacy
with Hashem and avoided Zara offered a
spiritual high without the humility and
the discipline that halakhah demands
that Jesus tried demands
so our disorder was so attractive
because it was an ability to get high
high on life like today we have some
stuff right
it was the psychedelic experience of the
time to be able to challenge what
kedusha had to offer and that is
intimacy with God and by his Shamy
with that changed in kaduche it also
changed the clip of it it's already did
it become very attractive in fact either
skite assume much more of an
institutionalized institutionalized
reality to the point that you could go
through all the motions you don't even
know what a visage MN means person
doesn't even know what it means to have
a relationship with God to have intimacy
with God have an experience with God in
fact it's even strange language so it's
a whole different situation so he says
when that happened what happens is like
new collaboration baba
we can't experience this love built in
this island mr. Ivey raba if we don't
feel his love to us if we don't have
this idris if we will not be aroused
from that his love to us I did okay so
from the Himalayan but help retire with
it his love come out and by Shaney
through
the homeless through all the Dookie
cycling through the whole mesh niacin
gomorrah all the Huaraz and all the
details of a locker this was so to speak
a shams way of saying I love you in the
most infinite infinite infinite way
possible so basically the whole game re
you know people wonder why we learned
Gomorrah so much right so now you
understand the reason we learned
Gomorrah is we're trying to basically
share with our children especially our
boys who need it for seven eight nine 12
hours a day how much we love them is
that what the bucket of my hearing in
the Gemara ah well that's what they
should be hearing in other words how
much how deep the love is how deep the
of Arab is I they the kooky seven come
Ram behold proton hey Betina samara both
in terms of going away from robber
Coahoma Shiva tomorrow poison all the
stringencies in Gomorrah and of course
all the pie scam because remember
besides Gomorrah suddenly when you get
to the world of Shikamaru you have a
whole new set of commerce right you have
this addition said this this afternoon
said this there's a homer here of homra
there that's why he adds poi skip the
hain beginners vise a tithe the same is
true in the positive but dividend
mustard shebar godless Saluda others all
the directives of MU sir of ethics and
our God there and prickly others for
example ient IVA to develop a good arch
here Escovedo betoid ayan to see your
friend with a good ivory roster aur
action bully boy don't contemplate in
your heart evil about your friend that
he's bad
you know what we call judging people the
Thane lave toy of a good hardcover to
have a good friend is giving an example
of brick Elvis so this is all to arouse
in the person the sense of the deep love
that the Reba national oil um has to
every single Jew which as a result of
that as a result of that a ver now he
could reciprocate when you can feel and
experience how much somebody loves you
and loves you uninhibitedly and loves
you with Alvarado this helps us in the
later generations to be able to
experience a visage sham so that's why
in earlier parts of Jewish history it
was enough with the mitzvos of trader
derisive and then later
when the ropes of love are schlepping us
we gravitate towards gluttony or
addiction in materialism
so now came out all of the Tucanos did a
Safran he tightened a deaf comedian to
be able to experience far more this love
to kanessa sister all because that's
basically beyond what is behind all of
the halacha that tremendous alvin
gazelle shackled after the parenthesis
he sees her parentheses with footnotes
references the social cost of this is
the meaning of the passage for Shama vs
need Rohini avi very heavy now we
learned in beginning of Motta's
a daughter makes a nether the father
hears about it the hey Nia via I say hey
Nia via means he Haney anybody mental
how much this week you know what key
Haney of ERISA means huh he removes it
yeah key hey Nia voic he removes the
nether he disclaims the nether says
what's the meaning of this cough may fit
is another the father our nulls undos
the promise kima kima's IV robber from
the tremendous love that a father has to
a daughter who may fur qatar Goom i'm
avital the targum says what's made fair
hey fair Novato he nullifies what does
he nullify Neda what's a nether call her
ascertain all the all the is suitable
them no no no
his sudden Vicky showed him all the
knots all the knots Vicky shoot him
entanglements very good a sickness this
is wrong via surat Shura with which
Canessa sees law the community of jewish
souls is bound up with he arose all
those knots and entanglements vain
coverage matter at smile and the
prisoner cannot extricate himself from
prison the camera says encourage my time
to mr. Vaman shame
if I'm handcuffed I can't remove it
myself I need you key him the only way
he can get out of prison as I they meet
us available only through tremendous a
ver which is Pina severe that's what a
father represents I have comes from the
word other I have a love of the word
lavash ma la casa a visa to Gila desire
love I love a spa after such a military
that's our definition of a father is
love so Rashad my vision only the
tremendous love of the father this has
the ability to remove the entanglement
and the knots of classicists our own you
take this what he says
you see you could gloss over these two
lines as many people do and I've done
and probably will do and okay fine I've
met there Easter kiss sure why what tied
up so you have a via you may fit it
here's a classic example you have two
lines here maybe address is one of the
greatest issues of our generation what's
up net there a promise what's up
literally in Allah huh I make a promise
a vow a pledge I'm not gonna do this in
this that's what it is technically for
what's the concept of another and that
is basically when I make a net there I'm
now bound I can't say I'll forget it
there's an Easter Easter from the word
ah sir base are sort of a prison when
you say something is forbidden why is it
called Easter because I cannot touch it
so to speak my hands are tied because it
saucer mutter is untied right mutter we
have another Shabbos lahat AHA Ke$ha to
untie a knot wouldthe means my hands are
not tied let's push it
technically practically allotted but go
step deeper he touches me what's another
people are often knotted they're in
shackles they're in a prison they're all
sir
they have a pseudonym Vicky showed him
that they I made a promise I can do and
that represents a certain paradigm I'm
in a position where I feel stuck I feel
lacked
I feel paralyzed I can't my hands my
feet my soul my heart my creativity my
happiness my optimism my confidence is
tied up
it's tired of that step shot on either
kanessa sister all is sometimes tied up
or individual is entangled in something
and I can't get out of it maybe trauma
maybe insecurity maybe jealousy or
whatever it is every person has the
knots that you know what is holding you
down
it's literally you're not it your hands
your feet your mind your heart your soul
your potentials your creativity your
conscious what what's the cause of them
now whatever the cause of the night is
called cloud before everyone has their
Pecola their mysoline so person is in
prison how do you take somebody out in
prison of prison do you tell them go out
won't help in coverage Marty Reisman do
you tell them why are you in prison they
know they're in prison
come out of prison won't happen so what
do you have to do ah unlock so he says
Shama vs Kneedler when the father
representing absolute love here is the
measure of his daughter in other words
he becomes sensitive to what she's
entangled in Kihei me of via ISA because
there's a father a father represents
Minnis alvorada what that does is it
automatically breaks off the nether what
does this mean in a person's life what
it means in a person's life is I think
what the ball Tanya's teaching us is as
follows
you have a plethora child you have a
child a child is in an ed there what do
we mean here by an ED there another
means metaphorically they're stuck there
tied up there ah sir their cost of the
stock I could come over to that and I
could say come on
come on let's go snap out of it come out
the problem is I can't can't it's trying
he can or sometimes you start explaining
to him how bad his situation is don't
you realize what you're doing
he knows he's in prison
so some of us are screaming don't you
realize what you don't he knows what
he's done you just can't get out some of
us we don't tell them oh don't you good
but come out come on
develop a dessert he wants them Kent so
what do you do what do you do
so we scream a little harder we scream a
little harder come on you wake up three
o'clock in the afternoon no normal
person wakes up three o'clock in the
afternoon get your life together be
productive to let your older brother
look at your older brother look at your
sister get your life together
right that's what we do and and we mean
well we're trying to guide them we're
trying to guard and this is what you got
to do get out of your prison so either I
want to inspire a desire do you realize
you're in a mess come out or maybe I
think you have with this out but I just
tell you this is not good come here the
problem in these situations is that
often the person is trapped he can't he
would love to but he can't he knows that
he's in prison
he doesn't know he's in prison then
you're in a good place tell him right if
he doesn't know how to what to do tell
him he knows he's in prison and he even
knows what to do but he can't do it he
knows what would be the right thing the
right way to live but he can't there's
one aid so what's the aid sir aviary
Abba ivory robbing means you have to
find within yourself that Tata you have
to become a father
father means me the sava rubber tool of
the person with tremendous Alva how does
that help how does that help push it
maybe not so portions what other rabbit
does is it makes the person feel their
dignity their value their power how is
this person loving me it's been the hash
Motta I'm a hopeless despaired loser
how are you loving me the fact that you
love me so much tells me consciously or
unconsciously that I have dignity that
I'm a Machias that I have significance
that after service you know what happens
then you allow the person to experience
that they are more patent experience
themselves and realize that they are
more powerful than their trauma they are
more powerful than their shackles they
are more powerful than their addictions
they're more powerful than their fears
they're more powerful than their Tigers
I have chains
I have addictions I've trauma this
person may have been abused or even
molested right and it's a fact that's
there you can't take it away it's dear
you can't say get out he's traumatized
this kid is traumatized get out of
trauma he can't encourage mother
announcement the only thing I can do is
one thing I could try to help her reach
a place where he should be able to look
at himself and say I am more powerful
than my trauma I am more powerful than
the abuse I am more powerful than the
two chains are there but I'm more
powerful I'm more powerful than my fears
how can I help a person do that by
telling them to get out there
traumatized by telling them what to do
they know better than you what to do
what's the right thing what's the wrong
thing what I need to do is I need to
build them up they're broken and a
broken prisoner can't get out of change
they can't go through a wall they can't
break down the door I have to give him
power how do I give him power Kihei me
of vis the mythos Avila what it does is
when I love you but Emma's genuinely
I lift you up you feel hey I'm loved
I'm not damaged goods there's something
worthy of love here there's something
worthy of love there's something special
here you allow the person to find in
themselves their goodness
their power their confidence their their
hope their sense of belonging their
sense of connection touch them and then
they ready know what to do they want to
go out of prison more than you want them
to go out of prison they want to go out
of prison and they knowledge the prison
you think they were a person likes to
wake up every day five o'clock in the
afternoon okay some of us would love to
do what I know but you think every prob
regular person loves that sometimes the
person is more bother than anybody else
but he's paralyzed he's in a state of
paralysis so you have to be very very
sensitive people often are completely
not tyfa's than a CUDA they're making
believe that the person is choosing to
be in the prison or he doesn't realize
it's a prison he knows what's right then
what's wrong
he knows he's prison he wants to get out
of it the problem is he's broken he's
broken that's what a nether is on this
level on this interpretation what you
need is you need to make him whole you
make him whole we can get out okay we
started on Friday Matos so we'll finish
it today page 169 parshas map theis page
169 as I told you the numbers repeat
themselves every Homer so make sure
you're in by mid we're 169 harsha
smartest pay hey column one closer to
the bottom closer to the bottom so there
was two year sodas there's two
fundamental ideas that the Baba Tonia
establishes here number one is the first
half of the miner and numbered
is the end of the moment number one is
to understand why suddenly and by Shanee
they became an explosion of serious and
homeless almost on every single Mitzvah
the rabbi's and the sages added a new
stringency a new fence a new parameter
and anybody who learns much niacin
tomorrow as he says call her Calma the
entire town Magan is filled with this
right and he should give me we're
learning now in the morning before this
with a massive debate sir
so constantly constantly you now let us
sweep your dining room
on Yom Tov after the meal when this
earth why because you're gonna come to
fill up a hole with earth and that would
be a concept of huayna of building right
I'm just giving one example any sugar
you're dealing with you have this you
have this constantly things that
biblically are not revision biblically
they're not forbidden but they are
rabbinical II forbidden either in the
negative things that they said you're
now letter do or things they said you
have to do by say type and this didn't
happen in the beginning of Jewish
history for a long time this didn't
exist
most of the sailors of Hazael come out
during the second base of mikdash
towards later points a second you have
earlier also
yeah I'm not chicken essence a very long
my second all the breakfast and all that
Phyllis which are of course a major
institution and Jewish life you have the
concept of the show that comes later in
Judaism the very concept of the mikdash
Malthus is introduced by your escolar
Navi after the horn by his tradition the
concept of the mikta smart the mobile
base are mikdash and then you have most
of the sailors and tacoma's you have
during buying a shame you buy the sugars
by the timonium and this would continue
after herman by a chain of question
would continue the time of the Gemara
which is i'm-i'm-i'm
will continue with their opponents
Ferrari the guy in there is shining and
the Harriman etc ah well if you know
Jewish culture it never stops it never
stops some people actually get very
excited on every new homra if they could
do a new homer they embrace it but you
can't compare the two and I'll explain
to you what I mean there was a time when
Isaiah of Hazael became universally
obligatory
of course well that doesn't exist
anymore all that can happen afterward
that some once the sanhedrin was sealed
once the son had written was was
dissolved and the Gemara was sealed
no bez did in the world could make at
econo that could obligate can oblige all
of the Jewish people even there is
showing them or a stirred kidney is on
pace right right on pace of Caligula's
on Pesach it could only it can only be
imposed on the Ashkenazi communities the
communities in Germany the communities
in France not the communities in Spain
and Portugal or North Africa or the East
you know Iraq Iran because now it was up
to each Bezdek in its location in its
locale the ability of Sanhedrin who were
the spiritual authority the Supreme
Court so to speak in charge on the
Constitution of Judaism Muslim ish me P
ish literally till my Strabane no
generation after generation
71 Giants in each generation that was
dissolved at some point approximately in
the 400s 500s when the Talmud Bavli was
sealed
during this similar a little before that
after by another and therefore you don't
have that level of authority anymore
ya bastard there have no Carabas to the
shmuel moreh school there but they
didn't say look arrive etcetera you know
send so it's a big difference the
question is what happened in other words
if this is what I shall want this is
what a sham wants if not what's this
idea of all these all these areas and
Haqqanis so the main point he made here
was that and this is counterintuitive
because usually most people see the
intricacies of Halawa as not very much
going on the same line like inspiration
or spirituality or ecstasy there's two
different experiences in Judaism one is
the nuanced big Dukan halacha which
really speaks to a very cerebral part of
a person and you get into the details
and reading could that be my focus and
didn't and this is Maura that's Maura
so that speak so to speak to one part of
the brain and then there is you know
spirituality emotion ecstasy Vegas
intimacy which so-to-speak addresses a
different region of the brain and I mean
even in simple not simple even in
neuroscience and it really addresses
different regions or the rain that which
you know become lights up with halakha
which is very very detailed oriented
extremely detailed and it's all about
nuances and it's a very cerebral
cerebral limit and I love it so there's
many ways of learning it but generally
you're dealing with analysis that is
often detached from the emotional life
right you're learning details and MOOCs
are you're learning details and rebus or
details and skitter or an area and you
know gets very it's interesting but it's
very technical and noise and then you
have the realm of spirituality of
transcendence of intimacy with Vegas of
inspiration and so forth but it's
fascinating in this mind read the ballot
Anya oh I guess was an interesting
person cuz he was a paisa can mister but
he was also the same place again Miglin
I love you original America and Mistral
tomorrow when you read look at the
turning you eat real tomorrow it's
always fascinating to think that it was
really the same person the truth Amara
especially in his clintus affluence he
follows completely that realm of Halawa
you know the realm of nickel and all of
its it's curious in the document for
polar romeo serves evan that determines
had led from with his rights in his one
of his smart him that in the countries
akron of south america roth he has found
the seeds for the brisk and mahalos and
learning interesting the trigger of
seven writes observant was one of the go
india dark last generation she says in
the country's a current of shocked
America Ravi found and he comes into
many examples nuggets or ideas of what
later would be attributed to the brisket
Erica for kaya a kind soul of a jerk and
the dynasty of brisk so when this mind
where it's very interesting what he says
is that at every blog can moderate every
dick look really what you're finding is
an explosion of love
it's really a ver and if you're learning
a mission or agamotto examinee not
seeing the tremendous Ivan it are you're
not in touch with it because basically
in the beginning of Jewish history was
easier for
Jewish soul to be on fire towards God it
was easier for the soul not to be
consumed by physical and material
cravings addictions appetites there was
a certain spiritual subtlety that
vibrated in the cosmos I think I once
shared
there was somebody who's very into this
idea of cook ramen psychic Eileen cook
writes about us a lot that then by his
mission you see then avoided Zara was
very rampant right in his sign above a
desert even the greatest Jews they put
on tefillin and when it came to cashiers
they wouldn't eat anything but but
that's a Vedic redness but when it came
to avoid the Zahra suddenly everything
was was most mutter it was a strange
thing that the Gemara even says that the
ant recognizes a girdle an osteoma
killed the it's true dividers are in the
beginning of Maya Shaney they murder the
XRF way that we don't even understand
what the observer of a desert is so the
Gemara has a whole saga and human of
stomach the solid base that the ant
recognizes and Darla came back to build
the second base of mikdash and they took
the it's a herd of it's not a whole
story how they did it and they
obliterated it
they wanted to also kill the eastern
arias it's a horrific promiscuous
relations and what they tried they
locked it up the Gemara says and then
for three days they were looking for a
fresh egg they couldn't find a fresh egg
fabi's reasons and they said cally Alma
you're going to destroy the world so the
eight sort of it arises they colored
they they weakened it so the Gemara says
it helped at least that people are not
into their sisters like they used to be
in vice with their siblings and their
mothers promiscuity then was so insane
incest you have it you know doesn't you
don't have it but the same intense
craving for for incestuous relationships
didn't exist afterwards other forms of
promiscuity but a void is are they
obliterated completely so what does this
mean it's more you take the H over there
you put it in you put it in a bag and
then you tie it up you throw it into the
river that's what it sounds like in the
Gemara the shot of course is everything
in this world is El loro Mazda kedusha
and citraratha or compete with each
other
in this bias Eurasian intimacy with God
that was the experience of Judaism that
was the primary experience of Judaism
and that was on of a designer
representative it as other represented
an ability to get on a spiritual high
without this discipline humility and
self-worth that you described required
or in one word it was a psychedelic
experience just like today people look
for highs through various paths in life
that take you there much faster and much
easier despite of what it does to the
cells of your brain despite of what it
does to your productivity despite of
what it does to your long-term
relationships and to your sobriety but
nonetheless to ease anxiety we live in a
very anxious generation the in Messiah t
levels are red Kia dua ah through the
roof yeah through the roof so people
search for different things in the time
of bias tradition intimacy with God that
was that was the reality of Judaism and
if a deserter was and I don't know an
elegant but it was a powerful powerful
competitor an alternative will you get
very deep they had steep spiritual
states of consciousness without paying
the price of real spiritual self worth
that Judaism requires through humility
through discipline the path of tyre in
the path of mitzvahs the path of acres
with Hashem by Shamy that whole reality
was transformed so really we tie Judaism
became very institutionalized extremely
institutionalized to the point that a
person could live a very Jewish life
follow all hwacha
and not even once really feel intimacy
with Hashem they don't even know that
it's really part of it and in many ways
it becomes like a tragedy
it would be like debating as I said once
debating for years and years recipes
without ever tasting the dish
imagine we substitute the Gemara Lahav
dog for cook
books okay and we sit for 17 years with
cookbooks and we argue but if there's no
sugar
then you take maple syrup and if there's
no maple syrup then you take baking
powder or you squeeze an apple will you
juice this and if there's no and then
you can put in kale let's look over good
so and you debate and then you have my
first Ramon the cookbook and then you
have comment and what if you don't have
this then you do this but but what about
this so there's an argument this one
says you could put it into the dish and
this one says it ruins the dish and then
some people know the whole cookbook by
heart from page one to page 999 they
know by and some even though the
commentaries in the back and all the
footnotes with alternatives there's only
one problem nobody ever tasted anything
it's all talking about recipes
manipulating them arguing about them
nobody ever tasted it so it sounds very
strange right but isn't that what is
often the condition of either spects
debates arguments dick took a meticulous
precise nuances is that but the fuels
ask somebody did you taste godliness
intimacy with awesome it's even a
strange question it looks like like what
are you into you know where did you end
up you know what have you been taking or
who have you been seeing it's even a
strange question
so in this mine were actually with a
peloton you're suggesting is that when
the other session became much more
difficult
Biggs Eris and Horus which is the way
God revealed his tone and by his Shanee
was him expressing an infinite love in
order to arouse and empower the person
to be able to reciprocate that love
because through that through that
perishable path so in other words that
the whole qivana here and that's what
he's made the whole come one is an
infinite excessive flow and abundance of
love like a father who's so curious for
his child and if
he wants his body and soul to be
completely cleansed from all coxa city
and therefore he would be careful what
he eats and what he does and his regimen
and his exercise in a schedule more than
anybody else and you'll say come on why
are you doing all this it's because I
want to you to live in an optimal way I
want you to maximize your potentials
I want your operating system to be on
the deepest highest level I was once
invited to speak with a Russian Jew who
won the Olympic season he won a gold
medal in the Olympics in Sydney
Australia for swimming I forget his name
a young Russian Jew and we both spoke
for a community I spoke as the athlete
and he spoke as the spiritual as the
spiritual guru or at least in my dreams
so before we four so we were in the back
of the room waiting for the program to
start so I was smoothly with them and
he's just recently won recently a few
months or a year it took so I asked him
what his schedule is in terms of
swimming so he told me that he wakes up
three o'clock in the morning every day
and he gets into the pool at 4:00 in the
morning and he's in the pool for six
hours straight swimming six hours
straight so he goes from 4 or 5 6 7 8 9
10 o'clock straight ten o'clock he
finishes his swimming and then he
relaxes the rest of the day I said how
many days do we know how many days a
week he do this he says seven days a
week he followed the Dominica's fire
today you could go to a pool on Shabbos
Ashkenazim master didn't sign him but
the slightly more matted it's all I
guess he went that went according to
that so I asked him seven days a
week six hours straight
he said yeah I said what happens if you
take one day off what happens he said
there's no such a thing I said why says
the body knows and the body will not
respond the next day if I want to remain
in the Olympics I have to operate on
that level if I don't operate on that
level the body immediately knows and
it's like
soft with you and it will not produce
you know you can't either we're in it
the body study tells me the body says
either you're in we're in or we're out
don't play games with me there's no such
a thing one that said what if it's five
hours no five hours six hours I said
straight what if you want to drink in
the middle he's looking at me he says
you know you're a Brooklyn boy huh you
don't understand six hours straight four
to ten you don't stop no such a thing
those are the thing tell me once yet up
some Leviathan the family say had to
make off see he he did his swimming
later in the day it was just a very
interesting lesson about you know on one
hand you could say neba
he's a slave but in his money wasn't a
slave he was a free man because these
are his priorities and this is what he
truly wants in his life and in order to
maximize this potential this is the
regimen and this is the discipline he's
he and he knows that these limitations
are necessary for him to operate on that
level if you don't want your body to
operate on that level you don't want
your body but if you want to operate on
that level that is the discipline that's
required so when you look at it he says
I'm giving it as a muscle all the exits
and all the talk honest it was he says
like I'm his muscle was a gem a diamond
that you safeguard far more than
anything else in the world not because
you don't love it because you're so
sensitive to it then you cherish it so
much so he says when you learn all the
GS and Clackamas he says look how
they're cherishing your soul they want
to distance your mind your heart your
behavior from every last need note Kyle
of an engine of isser which they
understood what is cement they
understood the Texas attea mister now
they're safeguarding you so essentially
every line of shots is an explosion of
alpha it's an expression of Adorama
that's how you have to see it and in
bias training it became it became more
necessary now this is very I think a
very beautiful idea because very often
in our culture we don't instinctively
associate somebody who's McNamara near
shamayim necessarily with love sometimes
unfortunately in many of our instincts
it's the other way around you know you
talk about
somebody who's my friend you know it's
more of obsessive type or antisocial you
know what I'm talking about right you
know he's very Froome he's not he's not
lovey-dovey teddy bear embrace her of
humanity person whose heart is on fire
not judgmental on the contrary how could
you be so from if you're not judgmental
you know the more from you of course you
become judgment but here you see a very
different paradigm it's actually the
other way around that the true the true
here is shaman was marked with an
addictive Chi love David I saw him if
he's sensitive to the energy it only
brings out far more love from Hashem
towards him and towards the Jewish
people and therefore from him towards
our Shem and therefore by expansion from
him towards others so the deeper the
homra the deeper the Taconic means that
you're actually your love your love bugs
are more fine - not less fine-tuned
I think that's a very powerful
observation that we learned from her
then comes point number two in terms of
the father and the daughter or the
husband and the wife when the halacha
tells us the beginning of precious
matters that a father could nullify the
vows of his daughter or a husband could
nullify the vows of his wife we have it
technically how logically pragmatically
but like the whole message head is also
a deeper spiritual message and what was
the spiritual message that a nether is
more than a pledge amanda means of
course a pledge or an oath or nothing is
a shirk it is different all office with
ned their shoe fits this officer if it's
a survivor of med news on the thefts
issue is on the governor but that's
that's already details in neder Scheuer
then there's a hug of nausea but the
common denominator and all these things
is a person makes a promise that they
will not do something they will not
close summer they will not eat or they
will do something well yeah calvario get
how I like cynically beyond so you have
to keep them but Ned there also includes
something broader and that's the concept
and the concept is once you make a
nether you're bound by the nether you
can't do it anymore so a nether becomes
reflective of the
is that in life a person often feels
consciously or unconsciously bound if
certain things I can't this is who I am
and this is who I am not and that
includes a certain form of paralysis
this is the type of father I am this is
the type of husband I am this is the
type of human being I am and I remain
locked up into that image
this is Who I am like people often say
this is who I am
sorry you don't like it this is who I am
and the main person they tell that to
themselves more than anybody else and
this is a way that means I'm afraid of
certain things I don't go there I'm
driven by fear I'm driven by insecurity
I'm driven by a lack of confidence I'm
driven by envy by animosity by by pain
by grief by anger anger is a big one by
anxiety I'm just mr. anxiety that's it I
will die an anxious man even in other my
MS I'll be anxious as somebody once told
me in the grave I'll be anxious and my
anxiety is so deep even death won't help
he was certain about it or I am destined
to be miserable and that's to be
frustrated whatever everybody could fill
their fill out their own their own
question here that the dentist gives you
or the doctor gives you right you come
every person this is really admitted
Aneta means it's like a promise this is
who I am and I'm not changing you make a
promise to you so if you make an oath
you swear to yourself again consciously
or unconsciously verbally or in thought
in emotion articulated or emotion less
articulated well it's an oath an oath is
this is who I am this is a promise I
will not change
I will not alter and seldom do we come
and revisit that seldom do we come the
words that he uses is that every nefesh
has a suit and Viki shirt him nots
you're literally tight so if I'm tied to
a particular wall that's where I remain
I remain stuck to this place I can move
around but only in this confinement and
every person has knots that tie them to
certain situations and I can
get out of it in other words as much as
my horizons expand and as much as I meet
new people and as much as I encounter
new experiences I ultimately remain
trapped in solitary confinement
literally as he says in a prison cell
what's up but you could walk around in a
prison cell you may even have a view
they may even take a walk
but there is a confinement you don't get
out of and that's the story of a
person's life
not that what house was on them
literally in a prison cell but collage
Utley I may travel the world but I don't
get out of my orbit because this is who
I am I am the person who lacks empathy I
am the person who has an addiction to
food I am the person who is a glutton I
am the person who's angry I am the
person who doesn't know X Y Z that's yam
and therefore all of my experiences are
channeled and harnessed through that
sense of identity that's what a nether
means and he says how does one break out
of this ain't over smarty rocks one the
prisoner can't get out of prison you
can't not because you don't want to not
because even you don't know that you
need to you may know you're in prison
which is a level some people don't know
you may know you may want to get out you
may even know on some level or not but
you may even know what it could look
like on the other side we're at least
that it doesn't look like what it looks
like now so person may have a lot of
knowledge first of all they know they're
in prison and it's not good second of
all they may even want to get out the
problem is not wanting or knowing the
problem is ability in harsh material and
here probably one of the most amazing
insights the ballot Anya says there's
only one way to help a person get out
and what law says Russian is me does
Ahava robber thinness Aveda
the father and a daughter the father's
relationship to our daughter is
considered one of the one of one of the
deepest relationships in the world the
Gemara Rosa says indeed the ish material
filial at this macabre issue Mazar silly
Allah does offer a unique relationship
between father and daughter
the word I've associate with the word
other this Farva the definition of the
father especially towards the daughter
is one a very deep love and very deep
relation and I guess there's something
with the daughter more than a son
because from a son the father has
certain expectations you have to be my
Irish Dube is mine Kaddish so the moment
somebody is your Kaddish everything have
to it's really a different thing your
son got oh you know son got to carry on
the business of the family but the
daughter there's something unique about
the daughter there's something unique
about the daughter because that natural
pressure that exists from father to son
you know that his son has to do
everything that you wanted to do and you
couldn't then your son has to do it you
were supposed to be the bucket of shots
but you didn't so now your son has to
become the bucket mushafs
so they'll make sure that his son has to
become the birth of a son so he could
make sure that his son with the daughter
this doesn't exist
because being maybe they're harvested
something even this is true so with a
son but with a little ado something
special so what the titer is saying is
that who could be Movado the nether of
the daughter who can help a person
liberate themselves extricate themselves
from the knots of life me the severe
penis Aviram
the unbundle of abundance of love that
you love this trial do you love this
person this is the only way you can help
them get out and the reason this is the
only way you can help them get out
because it's not that they're not
getting out of prison because they don't
know they're in prison they know nor is
it because they don't wanna they wanna
but they're broken they're locked up
they're in Chains so you come to this
person in prison and you say how do you
live such a stupid life you're in prison
you're locked up you're confined rights
like coming to somebody screaming at
somebody what are you going to stop
being insecure
come on get secure come on come on you
take them you shake them up put them in
a washing machine twirl them
okay maybe you'll help I don't know
maybe a washing machine actually can
help for some people if it was very fast
the person knows he's there or not oh
she knows she's there
no come on that you like this life live
another life who likes this life
what a stupid life you're living they
know that it's stupid much more than
you'll ever know you think you feel the
pain they don't feel the pain they feel
it much more the problem is some people
would call it in today's language have
trauma they're broken
they're fragmented they're shattered
they have a terrible self-image they
don't even know themselves so you could
scream from today till tomorrow
a mishmash like what's the aid sir one
ASA and that is you need to so it's not
just simple love and it says key word
love love love love love it's much
deeper the answer is to make a person
cognizant that they are more powerful
than their traumas they are more
powerful that their insecurities you are
more powerful than your chains you have
chains you have pain you have grievance
you have frustration you have anger
whatever you have anxiety but you are
more powerful than your anxiety you are
not defined by it you can define it you
are more powerful how do you give a
person that feeling for this they have
to first and foremost filled their
infinite value when I love this person
and they ask themselves consciously
unconsciously why is this person loving
a schemata like me there's nothing to
love here I'm all wasted I'm wasted
goods I'm damaged goods what's they do
love what are you loving Wow what
they're feeling through osmosis or
verbally or non-verbally what they're
experiencing is the Havas the
indispensible non-negotiable dignity and
unwavering value and power of their soul
of their identity what it allows them to
experience is that they are more
powerful than all their shackles and
that's how they can get out of the
nether the Shama Vyasa Nadira when avea
when the love here is the nether
hany of the eisah hey Nia VA say he
dissuade
he removes the power of the nether why
simply being in the presence of a via
the ability of that it's a muscle it's a
metaphor
at level of avarice so powerful that
what it does for the door to what it
does for the person who's locked up it
gives them the empowerment and the
knowledge of appreciating who they are
because of this love and then
automatically they could break out of
their shackles why can they break it
though they want to go out and they know
they have to go out but now they
suddenly discover their largeness their
greatness the awesome quality of their
life that they didn't have now people
often that can't identify this they
associate this idea with enabling you
were enabler tell the person what to do
tell them to stop behaving like a
tell them to stop behaving like an idiot
now sometimes you can do that when the
person is just behaving like an idiot
but you have to be able to identify
that's not a nether a nether means
you're bound you're locked you're
imprisoned now I could tell you stop
behaving like an idiot you're a prison
thank you I know I'm suffering more than
you know
get out thank you I can't they can't
even say I can't write because they're
in prison even to say I can't if they
would say I can't that would be half the
insurer they can't say I can understand
come on who wants to live such a life
get your life together
learn from your older brother that's the
best always look how successful is learn
from your sister learn from your father
you think I always had an easy life
never got that lecture you think I
always had an easy life I worked my way
through college for 11 years I didn't
have a penny they might have get your
life together you spoiled rotten brats
now this person thinks he's speaking
truth and maybe is speaking truth from
his perspective but he's completely not
sensitive to the experience of the
person completely not person knows
they're imprisoned they want to get at a
prison they're broken especially a
person who's been abused and their ned
there is beyond anybody with anybody can
imagine somebody who's been abused what
happens to them is
they are so locked up because the pain
of what they experienced causes them to
have a self-image that puts them
literally in Ana mental prison from
which many people can't get it and
there's one ASA the 80s Mohammed vs
the meanest I've Arab to build up
the soul and make the soul feel that as
powerful as all over the toxicity and
negativity you have that but you're
still more powerful because you're more
powerful than it therefore you can
ultimately choose your path in life the
first thing we stay in the morning but
the Tavor
unless we start today with them he's a
prisoner his own
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