Rav Ephraim Shapiro , Los Angeles for Yad L'Achim

it's a very big fuss that I'm able to speak on behalf of Yaya ahkam I just spoke a bit earlier in another part of town and I made it crystal clear that wherever the meeting is hosted that's very very special but the Ox Anya the one who's the host that makes it possible is yog Lakhan and for that we should have a deep sense of acara Satori to rabbi Cohen someone that I consider to be a very very dear you didn't F fish in a number of ways I always refer to him even though it makes him uncomfortable as my Rebbe certainly he teaches us so much by how he continues and continues he doesn't know how to stop and the rahbaniya shil island should give you rabbi Cohen the car youth to be able to be mom Shiva Vedas are Kadesh gives unto hate I mentioned earlier that I'm privileged to speak on behalf of yog alaikum in many many cities countless cities over the last many years in America and in Canada sometimes I've been back to the same city already in the rotation a few years later and it's my opportunity to tell people coming and hopefully getting physical special writing out a check for yog Wacom is also special but you'll hear if you'll give me a few minutes what it means to really really get involved and I want to begin by properly thanking the silver mesh ballclub - hon Anya and - St Silber for opening up you could certainly clap for sure for opening up their home as I say in many of the cities and Rebbie knows it there's a very very big difference between a house and a home don't anybody be impressed with a house a home that's very impressive a house do you do the right thing with it there your host parlour meetings do you always have people around your table the Michelle welcome the ambassador's of Tyra maybe people who aren't as fortunate as you from broken homes are Manas you Simon that's what makes a house into a home so I'm grateful that kanayo and St Silber or were smart enough to open up their home we have a little bit of a Montreal connection and that makes it even more special for me how colors borrow who should give you Ripken Anya and your whole family that you should always have this cycle to realize your home should continue to be open and it should bring you and your wholeness buckle only Yiddish shinnok Huskies unto hate the reason we came together tonight for yard lethen it's called off cria Rock rious as I mentioned earlier and the other part of town means if I asked you right now so how are you doing with our ayahs are you really you you really feel that you are responsible for a fellow Yid whenever I speak for you Allah come I mention you think it's rabbi cones obligation more than ours the 30 social workers in Eritrea all that go up and down the country not only rescuing the Jewish women but trying with intervention and prevention speaking is there a right that's not true it's all of us it's mine it's me it's you it's ours it's everyone's what happens to be that we live in other places we live in LA we live in Miami so one thing is to write out a generous check but it's another thing to show our crisis and to get people involved a crisis is spelt a lovefest raised you devolve solve those six letters tell you everything that you need to true show responsibility for a fellow yet now alpha bockris Aleph is one that's you you have to be responsible to yourself in your own growth your own spirituality your own roughly Asst no one could stay on the same level staying on the same level is bad the next level of levitt letter' of a crisis after the olive is olive tests that spells the word off do you take care of your brothers and sisters do you take care of your family the next letter of a crisis is a race I love pets race that spells a word out there a cure means another person you know release a we don't live in a cocoon there are oodles and oodles of people who need our help financial physical psychological emotional the next letter of our crisis are you at alpha tester a hood that spells a car I you tell someone follow after me I really love you I care about you the next letter Alif s raise you above spells the word a car of they'll see you're far less look they'll see that you care you're the real deal you walk the talk and talk to talk and they'll say you know you make me comfortable I'm gonna follow you and the last letter of arthritis is the letter soft the first letters and all of the last letters are tough I lift a tough the entire thing like soup-to-nuts a to z sometimes we're a little bit better with taking care of people that make me comfortable you know our grandmothers were from the same shtetl we dive in in the same shul for the last 40 years we even have the same have arrived we're from the same milieu and we love making the same salads that's nice but that's more clone than getting along and taking care how do you do with someone that's a bit out of your comfort zone someone that maybe not everybody else realizes it's your responsibility but it is a crisis our class ratio of sub I'll lift take care of yourself ah we're family out there there isn't a person that we have everybody should be on our radar to take care of them Fri a person will say you know let's show them that we really mean it could you give somebody a little heart as I rub they'll be willing to follow you I love the tough beginning to end and often when I speak about Yahoo I ask them I mentioned this Vaart it's really nice that there are people in every stroll on the front working but it's everybody zacharias and that's true about Yahoo Harlem and it's true about many organizations to take care of individuals and it's seaboard where does it say that that's exclusively reserved for just that's not true that's an incorrect hagatha rious means that if we came together tonight knowing there's a threat of missionaries it's a really serious and dangerous threat we think because we live comfortably in Miami New York in LA it's not a threat and the fact that there's nebith nebith wakamono that's lon Jewish women and Jewish girls that get entrapped and ensnared by Arabs and live in Arab villages and need to be rescued it's all of our rock rious to step up may I humbly suggest or beg I'm sure that the people who came to the Silber home tonight will try to write out a check and help as much as they can what would it be of everybody from the many women and men that came everybody took upon themselves to call two or three people I can't tell you to call ten people very often that number so overwhelming a person won't do it but how about if a person up there you don't even have to tell them if you like to speech or not if you didn't like the street for sure don't tell them and if you like that you don't have to how about saying did you know put the Ottawa African on your radar and tell that to two or three people so that they can have participation in the arias as well you know that when Yaakov was telling you a safe to check on his brothers the posix says that he told a safe to check shall i mcevo and Shalom Hudson how are the sheep and brothers doing the Taira never uses an extra word a letter of vowel so why didn't the buzzer just say that he told you I say to check Shalom our katha vit Serena what's up with the word Shalom twice once for Akasha and again for sign it's a big Kasia so listen to an answer I saw many years ago I hold it's the game changer because Yaakov was telling you I safe a message but not just for yo safe he was speaking for perpetuity he was telling Claudius around the Year tough Shin AIIMS has five seven seven eight listen there Shalom had sign and there shall I'm a heffa you know what it means for sheep to have peace if my sheep have the grass to graze and eat and my sheep are content because they have water I'm at peace I'm too cool for school I'm good to go your sheep don't have the state their own what does that have to do if my sheep at what they eat I want to drink uncomfortable I'm at peace with myself yours don't have not my worry Yakko was telling Claudius roll that definition of peace is for sheep but for Claudius roll our ticket is Shalem Akaka and you know it's lame I freckle means that if one year has but another year doesn't have does the first one really have which person and Claudius throw could have something and possibly at night sleep comfortably or be at peace with themselves knowing someone else is suffering they need her for they needed Yahshua they need to do CIM they need pi know so they need shell and bias when another person needs that we truly are not at peace with ourselves Yakko was telling us Shalom HUD sign is good for sheep but it's unacceptable for Claudius role our definition of shalom othello means that if there are missionaries that are trying to rip asunder Yiddish it and the summers and if there are women and girls and families that are trapped in our villages Chalet Makaha says it's my aureus somehow argued eylem have always taught us the definition of our Christ Alif test race you'd've of Soph I met a doctor a number of years ago from New Jersey who told me that his mother had a heart condition so she would call ramesha finding an air of Pesach and inquire if the medicine could be taken and every year Ramona with his patients Ramona's patients was legend he would tell the woman why she could take the medication it's not a problem for her heart and why it's okay and wish her ago jumped off' the doctor told me my mother called her of my she Aerith they start with the same Shila for more than 20 years I'd have to imagine I don't know about you I'm sure you're wonderful people by year six or seven I would probably respond like hello the same thing the last half a dozen years I say it a little nicer but that's what I'd probably say Reb moisha with this legendary patient spoke for more than 20 years the same style of the same answer one year the son told me my mother was becoming forgetful and that error of pace after she forgot to call ramesha an hour or two before a lift bench on Aerith pays off the phone rang in her home and she picked up and the voice on the other end said this is my chef Einstein calling I didn't hear from you today are you okay I was worried and concerned and only when she reassured him that she was okay did he remind her of the pisaq why she could take the medicine it's not a problem he spent time explaining it and Vince Terron a good yard and AGGA jumped off' on an error of pay sir you didn't need me to come from Miami to tell you ever face life is the busiest day of the Jewish year and for a rug I remember somebody once saying that error of a cipher a rug is more pressure than the near nuclear explosion in Three Mile Island by Philadelphia in the early eighties there's more pressure on their face huh and for AB moisture the only thing he had on his mind was it's my Elias Shalom hat sign would say not to make the call shall i mikela says it's my responsibility when I think about the story i sometime telling myself you know maybe I shouldn't say it publicly but I will if I come home and my Rebbetzin says to me oh there's a phone call that I got out of making I don't have to return a call for a row that's exciting that's like good news you don't have to return a call that's like the joy you get finding out there's no tafflin I mean on a Monday and a Thursday that's how exciting it is but all right my son wanted to do was to remind her and see if she was okay that's a highest I love too tough Shalom mikela means pick up the phone and see how somebody's doing after the Holocaust there was a Yid that lost his family and he was so so broken he would walk the streets in Borough Park often aimlessly and there was a man who whenever he was in Borough Park would stop the Yid and give him physic we're not talking about rocket science physic who was the man that had so much time who was this man that had so much time to encourage a fellow year his name was Ribeiro and Cutler Ribera did not live in Lakewood the his Shiva was in Lakewood and that's where a baron went for Shabbos the apartment was in Barlow Park where a baron was during the week and he would always be MacIsaac the end one day he turned to the year and said you'll remarry you'll have a daughter and as I said I'll dance at her husana the man had not even been thinking like that but indeed he remarried he had a daughter and she became the apple of his eye when the daughter was about 10 Aaron was NIF there you could imagine how distraught the man was about ten years later fast forward when the girl was now at college she was at her own cassano in middle of the first dancer Byron's son Reb Shania Cutler walks in he finds the kalos father and he starts to dance with him Leba dick Leba dick when the dance ended he said to her I didn't want to bother the Russia she what brings you Arabs Maher answered before my father was an if their years ago he called me in and he told me there's a year in Borough Park that I said I would dance at his daughter's Costner but that's not to be take his name and his address and follow their life and when you hear that she's a caller go to the husana and dance at the cosna in my place Reb Aaron was before he was miffed ER he was giving people instructions thousands upon thousands of things for the future of Colliers row charting the course of Jewish history and water drip our and have on his mind there's a year in Borough Park when the girl becomes a caller he tells up Schneier dance at that counselor in my place because that's what it means our eius that's what it means Shalom alcohol it's why I admire called my reverence poker player and this is really the way I can't tell any I can only share these words with myself he happens to be recording me and men and women happen to be listening I think it's something that all of us if we would learn the of Shalimar kefla if we would learn ah crying as I said we would put an end to the godless it's interesting everybody knows that the bird that's not kosher is the cocido so why is it called Casa de so everybody is aware of raschi's shot so are you suck I see there's some cover set up in Missouri nice so what's so bad about that so most people say that the word you should accentuate in rally is in Colusa ha you only do kindness with your friend the one you carpool with the one you do the dock with that's a tray for attitude but I saw a few years ago such a powerful shot poignant straight to the heart you know which word you should accentuate accentuate the second word that will tell you why the birds not kosher what's the second word of Rashi show ELISA hace dos in caboose aa meaning the bird views helping another person as casa dos you know what Cassie this means Cassie this means like above and beyond beyond what I need to lift name is shir acid in thinking that helping a fellow Jew is classy dose thinking that helping someone is above and beyond what we're required that's traif it's why were we we were created recently I was speaking for an organization and I quoted from the beginning of nefesh higham you learn that fashion I am look at the end of the hog Dhamma rev kyon balázs and her son is telling you what he always heard from his father who rip i'm balázs honor of the vulajin yeshiva the mother of all you shivers reply Mahajan her son said my father always said the reason that a man was created was La Joya ocarina to help a fellow heed that's it so how you doing with the la jolla la Carini do i do i do enough and i want to ask myself a little while ago the vision of sir rabbie Rebbe you sir all of Bnei Brak someone approached him that he was making a Costin of the next night and he said that unfortunately his young wife had just passed away so he was making the husana on his own without his young wife he came to her Bistro the vision sir ever for Abraha there ever gave him a varma Brocklin said tomorrow night after the cosna come back to me he said beretta after the mitzvah tonsor could be three four in the morning he said I'll be waiting true to his word after the Mithra thoughts the horses came back having made the cast himself because his wife had passed away and the rebel was waiting they sit down and their ever turns them and says so tell me by the Claussen's Tish which one of the foods was the one that people enjoyed the most did the suits and the shoes that you bought the new children did they fit right how many no-shows were there how many police guards were left after the evening now for the main dish you offer chicken or meat what was more popular was dessert served on time and were you happy with how it tasted it tasted the way you wanted and many of these questions and when after the hour the man left a hostage left the gob returned to their evidence said teach me what happened and the vision sir ever looked at the Gambian said after a person makes a bar mitzvah-kah sana and they come home at 2:00 in the morning what's the first thing that they do you recycle to make up our Mitzvah you walk your daughter down the hopper you know what you do a person is privileged to sit down with their spouse and they discuss every detail every nuance every cuticle every pitch shifter of the tsimko who was he gonna sit down with who was this man gonna discuss details about the fish and the place cards on the shoes on the Costas dish and a dessert the man may have cried himself to sleep and soaked this pillow who was he going to talk to and to share what so many people are privileged to share with a spouse at 2:00 in the morning when you come home from your daughter's castle oh that's why I called him over that's a crisis that is Shalom ah ha ha and that's what the vision said Rebbe is teaching us that being kind and taking care of another year is not casitas I'm telling this to myself I have to refrain refrain means think differently going out of my comfort zone helping another person physically psychologically emotionally financially helping them with their gaseous and the roofless is not casitas casitas means Wow think it's not it's our job it's my job and it's your job and that's why you're kind balázs and I told his son Reb behind the larger man was created la joya a Carini to help another person tonight it happens to be we have the chance to help in a gargantuan way Yad Lakhan as I said your coming here is a very very big source of physic I know Tara bicone I'm sure to the Silberman Baha and to me writing out a check I know in the other location my cone mentioned someone beforehand had one amount in mind and after the dresser he heard changed it to a different amount I hope it was a larger amount and not less it was larger he told me the amount so right at a larger check and if everybody left here are very nice showing of men and women and before don't wait a week and I could even remember you'll remember what the silber's earth was it so beautiful you're not gonna remember who spoke or what it was about pull two people and say you know what do something for yog Wacom in fact you're not even doing it for yog Wacom you're selfishly doing it for yourselves you know why and I'll conclude with this it says in Shira Shira Hashmi mes Kyle a key Kyle a our rave now literally that means that I'll listen to your voice because you have a sweet voice you note there a dumbster Deb it says you'll hear at once it'll change your life the word are a vis not just from the word sweet that's from the word holy is throw out a Ravens a Bizet the rebind asylum is saying Hashmi eeny as Kalle I'll listen to your voice but key coil a ah rave it better be a voice of our Avis coleus roller items ever there a voice of our iose a voice of chalene Akasha a voice that doesn't call it casa dos a voice that understands why reg-meister called on an air of a sauce and rub our incentives mayor a voice that knows why at four o'clock in the morning the vision Cerebus spoke about chicken and then the Radomski concludes and he says something so spectacular which one of the three of us are a musical can Yaakov best taught us our Avis one with another Yaakov the 12 shrug them there was sin and kena hatred and jealousy but after the Hebrew shoe amount musasa of Russia I'm Jakob shifter you stroll no one taught us our Avis getting long like Yaakov Aveeno so listen to what they're a dumpster says that was Morocco avinu now I get it what was the name of its Fela that of Rome established chakras what's the name of that Fela that that Yitzhak established Mincha and what's the name of its Fela that Yaakov established not mire of mire of his founding is sit on page 282 the name of it feel that Yaakov established is out of this call you sir all are atoms embers air after eius July Mustafa that's the name of the Fela he established I cannot pass him for you you have to speak to your own rub but I'd like to humbly suggest they give Morris says that for women that Fela of my rib might be richest optional I will say unabashedly and clearly Myron might be optional but Arvest is a Hiva it's obligatory no one go to sleep at night without asking did I dive in chakras men cut my rib did I dive in artists cuz the Rabbinical eylem says listen to me here's the ticket Hashmi mes kylief you want me to listen to your voice Kieko lake or Raven then dive in Arvest coleus or Allah rhythms episode maybe the will of our colors more oh ho now we do whatever we can on behalf of yad alaikum help rabbi cone and there's so many who are doing what we should be doing don't fool yourselves they're doing it and we owe them a car assertive your coming was huge writing out a generous check is tremendous and yes as we've said twice already taking my words seriously going and calling two or three people it would make a ginormous difference it should be the will of our colors borrow who that if we leave here if I leave here tonight if we leave here tonight being a little bit better in Eric Reyes I love Custer a few drops off taking Shalom a couple more to heart realizing that helping people is not casitas as a kind of a larger said it's why I and you and we were created remembering ramesha Reb Erin and the vision sir ever let us be Zartha let us be zonka because the needs of Claudius row are great so many people need nahama prefers Yeshua's hat Slava chador --them shalom bias a lot of people let's tell the Reeb initial island Hashmi mes couilles please listen to our beautiful and sweet voice key coil a Eve because it's a voice of our Avis of cholesterol are Athens Emma's air where we dive and feel us Arvest each and every day and in that's course let's hear the ultimate coil the curl of called salsa McCall simcha the who choice you shall I am Ben Hara and Bo may know Amane