Daf Yomi Nedarim Daf 64 by R’ Eli Stefansky

we have a bunch of stuff here from our Newcastle yaakov ayao here's a video here's where he wrote on the bottom he said uh this Gula to get engaged is to open up a stand and bring people to the daf but I forgot to show this part of the video check this out and this is the one and only I'm showing this picture because he needs a sugar he's in his 20s but he's a phenomenal guy and see what he looks like one of his miles says that is very very smart he's very very nice but I think one of the biggest Smiles that he has is he has a lot of free merch so if you marry him here's another video or boy's eye of his shirt brochus tonight foreign I have to find this I asked him I asked him this morning I said do you feel like they're imposing on you like they're coming to your share Brokers and they're setting up like this so this is what he answered I don't know if you could hear this I'll put it on here one of the speeches the Pirates gave at the shuttle breakfast he said that he was there with uh at my wedding with molandi and so Lorraine and usually I don't know used to talk about sports the stock market whatever but the thing that they had in common was adopt so they spoke about the dot which is a beautiful thing that we're part of a group and say what you want to say but when we get together we talk about and it's a it's a beautiful beautiful thing say what you want to say but when we get together we talk Tyra says the Hassan that's what he answered me um here it is again here he is at the Chevron Brothers go [Applause] you're right behind them no I'm you're also there you're there twice Avi all the way in the rain also okay sir give all the good stuff this I held on to for a while I didn't want to show it right away for the guy who wants to remain anonymous but I felt today's a great day to show it foreign all right dear Moreno verabino melechadaf following on from yesterday's emails regarding Bar Mitzvah boys gifts and Playstation is a great suggestion now I was kidding about the show I don't recommend it at all but I think everybody Mr boy needs a stunning standard to put the PlayStation on there's a guy in Manchester that ships worldwide and if you buy an mdy theme one ten dollars of every purchase goes to empty why your talmud self-appointed rep and standard shimmy leafman the boys say here's what it looks like when I get a bunch of emails about the same things I should I decided to show you on the screen you can show this shopsicon the famous toner abundance story every time I repeated in the evening my Maggie cheer also learned in Panama insists that the story happened with Elijah now I said and they say it's about Israel Goldstein but it does say in this message I believe there are a ton of abundant story you told him Shia was also a well-known PostScript to the story that when they told her behind can he ask you this story and Perry dubinski says just to clarify the mice you mentioned today's sheer nadarim 63. okay remind me huh there were more than that you didn't send them to me oh they've been managed nice this is only four okay the boy says somebody just uh Dr Avi Factor's daughter came back from England and somebody shipped this I don't know what this is oh La Mesa I don't know is this it is this the one it looks different but if this is it I'm gonna I'm gonna share with Islam everybody could get a keziah's eyes no no no no no no I'm not giving a whole one out there's a whole bag of these I'm gonna eat them all myself okay whatever you want to taste their taste foreign take no more than a kezius should I just go out it's uh it's a Danish from London which I might I I never had a better Danish in my life but you have to know where to get it from I'm just saying you have to speak to Dove Harris they'll tell you which place now yesterday I asked the Shiloh which month you hear no I'm you you made fun of me Norm which oh Gary what's the matter the noise there's no bags right no bags no bags we're done with the bags all those guys that used to bring bags to share with yogurts we kicked them out of here gone but this is special this will make an exception oh man there's one in the club is much better so it's not gonna stop sir you don't even have to say it I know what you're about to say I know right I took the words right out of your mouth wow [Laughter] shout out to Lewis calling from Chicago he called me up yesterday he says I loved your your piece on sarcasm it's unbelievable but what what's would you have to talk like that to knock himself so you tell him oh I Told You So that YouTube mama said oh Josh you gave me what I just did it again I just did it he's gonna call me tonight somebody told me not to build these measures that I never said YouTube okay fine all right boys I said the questions for today what month very good what excellent you guys aren't blue let's next question if a guy made another okay just explain yesterday's question what month has the least birthdays in a year that there's two others aleph and base other albums gonna have the least birthdays of the Year why because most people that are born in other in a regular year that only has one other their birthday is going to be in other Bays of that year so other Olive is kind of empty without any birthdays only the the people that had birthdays nine out of the 17 years in an other aleph in a two-year seven out of 19 years there 7 out of 19 years those people have a birthday in the house there's very few people that have birthdays announced anybody here have a birthday another hour raise your hand one guy wow give out I'm blue is easy your wife and your daughter wow in other hours okay Nobody's Wife though so now we just made it even more less people have solinsky has his birthday now okay oh he's the one that sends the danishes yes wow so we had Solomon sending me donuts from Bay Tire now we have solisky from Bar Park so I mean Danish is from London all the way through Robert challenge unbelievable if a person made a net there that he's not going to benefit from his friend and his friend opened up a pizza shop candy or candy go into that pizza shop what is the Shiloh the Shiloh about neilad he didn't know that something is going to occur later on himself was Mata nether to some person which person was that not some a person the greatest person that ever lived and who are the four people that are considered like they're dead we know the answer basically but today we're gonna understand it I think a lot better why those four people are considered dead says the alien mission to sponsor the official mission by Alan Khan Alan Khan memory of your Heaven rebellious oh who are the guests yesterday I missed what's your name tadiq web B Bridge yeah from Columbus Ohio Columbus Ohio wow okay I'll talk about that later different time no no one time we have to get started oh no we have a minute fine I my my best usage I ever made of my playing because I used to fly to Indianapolis which is a three-hour drive but it took me about three and a half hours to fly there only because until I well not really but I had a you know you have to do the pre-check and the first drive to the airport do all the bridge the actual flying was very quick it was like less than an hour but then you get there I don't have a car now what I'm stuck in the airport but one time I had to check out properties in Columbus Ohio and in Dayton Ohio and I don't remember what and I did the whole trip and I got back it was my felt good value I'll talk about it different time anyway fine Columbus Ohio yeah there's more the story I was flying back at night it was pitch dark no moon nothing just flying back and just for fun I kept on um putting in my radio uh different airports and if you click that if you have the the the the the the number for the radio for the what is it called No the frequency for the radio for the for the airport and then you click it three times whatever the lights go on so I was like lighting up airports everywhere so good schmuck okay you want more of the story I remember yeah the FAA arrested you for that they did not that was because I once landed on the wrong Runway when I was a student pilot we'll talk about that later oh yeah yeah Oh I thought oh this thing is stuck here we go the anonymous uh sponsor for the coylo from Lakewood the sponsor themselves Sussman for Muncie when I saw this I think it's the story that this woman was killed walking home or something no they were looking for it for a long time and they found her like somebody hit her and ran away I think that was the story they found the person that was from people wow crazy story wow it's a really solution unbelievable avines our beloved Son Zachary Goldstein Heinz fee benavrum on his fourth yard site today wow mdy c-i-s-h-w-c for more information I don't know are we are we is this okay like okay whatever lit facts for mdy there's gonna be all sorts of things Spider-Man Hil Yakov and barely saidowitz who is Hashem while coming home from my river near panovich Lithuania in the early 1900s by his great grandson live in start of the month is sponsored still today's last day by Rabbi Anonymous from Lakewood fine and the CEO of course we have over 250 people signed up for Miami boys so you know we spoke about harata and a pesop there's a way to get out of another person makes another we're going to be discussing a Pathak we give him different opportunities to get out of it so here this is what Yoshi did here this is stop I'm not going to get so much to our mishna but if I would have known that this wine existed would I would I make another now what's interesting about this picture if you look at the rabbi on all the way to the right does he look familiar stick oh still now look look closely look closely to the rabbi on the right [Laughter] it's the same guy all right hi everybody I brought you mom is an amazing battle fine you go to the rabbis and you say and you say I need to get out of this so what they say what they do is poisoning according to everybody because you use your parents in other words can you say to a guy your your parents are suffering because of you people are saying you're a Russia for making another the son of a Russia Russia been Russia even though your parents are great people that Sadiq him the known in the in the in the in the status they're starting to call the parents of Russia the other thing is typically oh look at this kid he went off the dirt it has to be his parents fault they they didn't train him right they didn't give him the right you know has to be that's what people do who taught this kid to to swear like that to making the dorm like that it must have been the parents they have a loose mouth and they learned it from the parents she advised the parents so you tell the guy he had you know that people are going to speak like that would you have made the nether absolutely not okay you're off the hook It's Not Another We're Gonna Take It retroactively it's gone you can't use parents no that's not a good trick omarivity according to Iran adds to rivilizer I suppose it's not a question according to Iran it's actually shot he has he says why do you have to jump to parents I have much better tell a guy according to the run every brings us to free every nether is like a shavua sort of you know like you say I'm swearing the name of Hashem another has the same thing you don't you don't have to say it you don't say I'm I'm making a nether in the shame of Hashem but that's what you mean that's what you're doing when you when you make a nether you're invoking hashem's name here had you known that you're putting down Hashem would you make that nether absolutely not it's much stronger than a than a parent sometimes a person say yeah I don't care if my parent is embarrassed nobody in the right mind would say that about Hashem and remember I get him off the hook by using hashem's name now what about a rabbi you're Rob you're rough so he brings you xiaomi here either it says you have to have the same playing field so nobody if you knew that you're embarrassing you're ready so I may love okay we're gonna go we're gonna go this has a little bit to do to get more later when you could use Hashem you can't use Hashem and according to that you can't use the rebbe either stop there's a Misa and a guy comes to sees a rashiva standing outside it's like Revy why did you go inside he says I can't go inside you know what just happened one of the Rebellion well I could cheering my Yeshiva he just walked in and they played yummy no so what are you gonna play for me I'm stuck he says don't worry about it he goes in and he started playing [Music] the same playing field okay I was hoping you're gonna sing no all those all those jokes cause you're safe actual work for no reason I'm serious that's that's boring the behind can actually said he doesn't understand every time he goes to class they play the same boring song over and over again so the Rand is guard is here I'm gonna have to stick your number like just a little out of line missing here armor light and Kane in the dark look what I was gonna explain what that means if so that you're going to use that because every time so there's no such thing as a nether you think one way but the gamar goes in a different direction than you would think we'll get there says if it's a private thing between a son and a father and a mother a son got really upset at his parents and he said you can't have any benefit for me then everybody's in agreement that you could use that as a Peta if you would have known that you have to take care of your parents and you have to this what do you do no I wouldn't have done okay so it goes like this oh just to be clear right here it's not a not a big deal just put anything there's a red and a green in this case it's all certain water and they have the mclags in the center if it's covered Hashem everybody agrees that you can't use that as a as a PETA explain everybody is going to use it everybody's it's going to be it's gonna be a problem from the dorm so you can't use it from the dark you can't use Hashem when when it's the honor of a parent when it's negative when you yourself you told your parents you're not going to benefit from them then everybody's in agreement that you could use the parents in the center between is when you want to use your parents their honor when it has nothing to do with the parents he made another that is not going to do jumping jacks had you known that your parents would have been embarrassed by that would have you done it says you could use your parents as a Peta say no but different things yeah but no so not we'll see in the gamar not everybody's embarrassed to admit a better parent we have to see what the problem is when we get to the memorial and stand better nobody in the right mind at least won't even won't admit that he doesn't care about a ship if you would have known that Hashem that you're embarrassing Hashem that you're showing Hashem disrespect what if you've done it yes nobody's going to say that but sometimes you could ask a kid would you if you ever known that your mother had been really upset at you but if you made another yes I don't care about her she got me mad she did something to me to be over and one is sir it's not such a big deal to be to say I don't care about Hashem even if you don't care about Hashem you're not going to admit it in public invite all my rebellious these are all things right boys it's not scary stuff we we had this we discussed all these things Nyla something that's going to occur now more precisely as we can see in the gamara it's something that's something that that's going that's normal to happen and not normal to happen I mean this could have been a very good cash because when I learned the gamara's Mama's shot is death something that's gonna happen or not happen is death considered night lad or not an island no revoice a person had I known that so-and-so would have died I wouldn't have made the nether is that Nyla is that something that's going to happen and it's it's not included or since deaths is the most certain thing in the world so it's not an oil level which one is it oh very good very good Graham yourself says beautiful it depends when the guy died if he died or early death that wasn't expected that's a Nightline yes Death is certain but not not when the guy's 35 years old certain at the end of his life fine or at a normal age yeah that didn't make sense so as Iran explains something that shriya then he could say I made a mistake I made a steak I didn't realize it's so it's so it's so obvious had I known this thing that happens all the time I wouldn't have made my nether okay Todd what are three examples of a neilad um I'm not going to benefit from so and so Vanessa Cipher and he became I needed I need to go ask my shylist or he became like we think a cipher is uh uh a cipher a guy that writes all the stars how am I going to write a star if I can't the only guy in town that knows how to write nicely and to get in a star for Real Estate the only lawyer in town I'm going to be I didn't know that he's a cipher foreign they're kind of tired of it it's so like an hour in our generation those days you live in a little place people barely had children once every year once or the guy go oh I didn't realize you smack a meal I wouldn't have done it but I think we have a piece of art here this is we have this piece that's a haunted house why would I why would I want to go into this says oh check it out became became a real place I wouldn't have gone in there yeah yeah that's for you to see ice cream so in all these three cases was the wedding the the cipher the House the show because it says we go with is okay even though he wasn't anticipating this and for him say you cannot use an oilette we said ah if you're going to use Hashem as a Peta then any dark then you get rid of all the concept of the diamond then we could always use this this uh this trick what about Hashem we would have known that Hashem is upset that you would if you made another note but what's up chat minor dorm I don't know that I don't know I couldn't find anything that last mission of the round went into like each one was a step and each one was more what do we say over there the one was at the rabbanon it was a minute you know with Ezra over here I didn't uh I don't have I I wanted to look into it but I didn't I'll tell you the truth I didn't uh I'm sure somebody talks about it my in the dark of so a buyer is actually explaining the whole mishna it's the Crux of the it's the the I don't use that word for punish doesn't use that word the the the there's the Hope shot in the mishnah that a person will be embarrassed to admit that he doesn't fear Hashem that he doesn't care that he upset Hashem so every single time the Rob asks him in the business they ask him how do you know Hashem is upset every single time you're gonna get the same answer from every single individual basically everybody's gonna sit there no I wouldn't have done the neither okay no nether the guy's lying through his teeth at that point they had no yoshimaim at that point he didn't care about Hashem you're so upset he should but he's not going to say the truth he's not going to say yes I know that Hashem was upset at me and I would have done it anyway he's not gonna stand there from the best and do that you got rid of voluntar so may like get rid of this bar that's one shot a little base with the members of the HBA group and their families oh my Omar I'm Kane Ain't nidorin similar to that story I said I don't know when maybe some stuff even that a woman came to Rob and she asked him she said look I have a big problem my cat ate a mouse and a mouse is an available so what do I do with my cat so I said hold on a second he went to the bookcase he looked it up and he says cat is mother cat is Mother yeah but I don't want to discourage her from coming to ask me childless so I pretend it was a good child fine over here if you tell this guy you're asking the question had you known that was upset at you by making this nether bath jumping jacks would you make that no okay six weeks later the guy comes back Rabbi I made another I'm not gonna drink wine how do you know that because your brother was upset at you no third time he's not gonna come to the roof anymore he made a nether and he says what I don't have to go through the whole circus he's gonna ask me I wait in line for two hours finally get in there he says no so I'll tell you the answer before he even ask me the answer is no I wouldn't have made the nether uh to to say that my wife can't have enough for me but you need a rough to do it you need a Taurus and dorm you need three rabbis the same and he's passing on his own I want him to come back to business and so Mila I'm not gonna allow Ed answer now but when it comes to so here's a little bit of your Shiloh and the rhyme goes into it when it comes to Cuba Diving aim says the ran there's something called the easy nether that's easy to to be makaiyan let's say Jumping Jacks and on that the parents don't have a boost shot she goes he starts with colic now no Boucher but when it comes to parents and Mela to be soiled in a parent is different than the bishan there are certain that that uh that don't give the parents fine nah um so now we want to bring Araya tabaya we know that says that everybody's in agreement that if this nether has to do with the parents he said I'm never going to allow my parents to benefit from me and they said wait wait a minute had you known this and this would you no I wouldn't have done it so what has to do with the parents you could do a pestic with a through the the keeper diver aim Bishop according to biome it makes sense why because what was all sorry about nobody in the right mind is going to say he's not scared of Hashem you didn't care about Asha but so what's the problem the thing is is somebody going to say embezzing hey had you known that your parents would be really upset it's embarrassing your parents would you make this nether about them would you say that they can't benefit for you this guy's gonna he's gonna admit that he doesn't care about his parents why because he's a mahotsav he's he has zero of course I thought with his parents what which guy would make another against his parents this guy doesn't have so much according to talk to his parents he's a mahotsav kind of guy tells his parents straight out you can't benefit from it there are people like that a lot of people like that but that same person wouldn't be embarrassing from the business to say you know what they had a little boost up they deserve the busha you know what my father did to me oh what do you think I put in the Skyrim what do you think I put him in another he's a he's a Russia I asked him for a million dollars he didn't give me a million dollars took me out of the the will but so he started off with hotspot she has no problem that he that he's not that that doesn't worry him that his parents are a little embarrassed but Rob his whole problem was that if you use these saw him that are very available and very easy to use you don't have to be a big cockham to come up with that or your parents you have to be because had you known that you know by the way let's talk about Rebecca for a second before I forget because we keep on talking about it River Kiva was the story Calvin civil said he's in the nether he made a nether that his daughter can't benefit from Cowboy because she married Rebecca and then he came to me about another 25 years later so Tyson says that's not an island why because anybody that goes to Yeshiva is going to be a Tamil that's a that was very hard to understand what's easier to understand is the Run the run over there says he said brought it out when we learned this so you just recently that Iran says anybody the ghostly sheep is going to learn one Allah said he's on Mars that doesn't even know what I love him he wanted to make the nether so that's a given that's not an oil that's if you go to YouTube You're Going to learn what everybody learns one Allah that's already the Isis holds yeah if you apply yourself you go to achieve it you're going to be wow the cousin himself is here this is uh wow okay Thursday the place I'm not going to tell you where if you really want to know you'll find that foreign that what the problem is that the guy is not he's going to do his own he's going to do his own atarsenal so he's gonna do his own guitarist of Durham so what's the difference by by keep it that way also he's going to do his owner Tarzan's arm if you matter him and nether by by his parents so he's going to use this every time he has a nether every time he has his own leather instead of going to the best and he's gonna say wait a minute I'm this is is this gonna embarrass my parents yes it's gonna be as my parents so I no longer have another why should I take a bus to go to the best and ask the question I already was matching myself and that's a big problem it's not a problem why keep Nicole Ninja at the end of the day he hasn't adore him that he has to go to the to yeah he has to go to Benson to get to get answered for Emma Mela we're not concerned that he can't use his parents and the mail over here over here also we say okay we'll let him use his parents because he's not always going to use it for all the dorms that you can't use your parents MMA law even when you could use your parents we're not concerned that he's going to use that idea and you use it to other places [Music] why is neilad a problem not a problem Loyola means something that is going to happen you didn't anticipate all right this is killed two Jews and they hold on a second well say who they are soon he no he killed the mystery and the two you saw him the tutors wanted to kill him correct so he ran away he ran away a little twist he ran away and he married sipiro and he made a sword to to the whole story is he made it to Israel that he's not going to leave yes right but it seems like they're showing him say he also made a net there he made another these were made another himself he said that I'm not going to go back to me trying why because I have a problem that's right now you're out of trouble don't worry about it you don't have to be concerned to go back to Missouri because those who want to harm you they're dead and therefore what so what if they're dead so United there is no longer an effect the whole reason why I didn't go back to Mr I am because you told yourself you're not gonna go back and try because you have these people there they're dead Eminem The Nether is off so you see now according to the Run that says that means it's not anticipated well wait a minute here three things in life are certain death taxes and people getting offended by everything Benjamin Franklin brother just saw yesterday his mother's left I just saw this yesterday he's the one that came up with the attack that they found like 18 bodies in his basement like he's a Serial I just I don't know if it's a joke or not that's what I uh okay look it up anyways maybe it's one of these yeah fine so what's up shot is like the time you said that yes people die but didn't anticipate these young people they're probably younger than him to die before him oh that's what we're gonna see in a second is okay it's a good you could do a nether you could get away with a Nether and undo another with another with something that's going to happen and unanticipated they never died means a fight so here's the possible so and then the next process there's another positive in schmoy's parakeet is irony sovereign so they didn't die because of him don't ask me what about okay because you have to know how to use your head not every single time means okay so this is the famous kimara or someone loses his money he's hush of kimace so that's my very own War alive so what if he lost his money they lost their money because the whole problem is so what does that have to do so why everybody listen you go back to metronic because they became poor they still want to kill you the answer is they can't kill you they don't have they don't have the power they lost their power foreign huh what is it it's anticipated unanticipated so what they say is that's more anticipated than somebody dying prematurely it's like it's a known thing people lose their money at least in a person's head he goes eh loses money like he thinks that's how he thinks whether or not it's true the more people lose their money then people die young we're not going into that it has to the direham has to do with what people think and how they how they frame the nether use that to get out of it if it's anticipated that they're going to lose their money yeah no no then you could then you could it's it's because then then it's then it's and and had you thought about it when you made United oh I I it has to be something that's anticipated you didn't think about it it's like yeah it's counterintuitive I know what you're saying it's counter-intuitive okay Morrow colada kimace means I am dead if I don't have children says Rojo I'm dead not I'm going to die Mesa I'm dead right now so you see that not having children is considered dying I heard from Republican scheinberg that he says that people that don't get married they have a hard time getting married they also don't have children so the question is give him that that owner so to speak some people don't have children before they get they get married then they get married they have children it takes them 10 years to have children or some people get married early when they're young but they don't have children for 10 years it's the same it's the same kind of idea just one is one is before and one is after it's interesting way of looking at it mates honey um inside of a Suma and somebody who's blind I heard once that we we go like this in Korea to cover our eyes to be like a sumata to imagine death because when you you're blind this question mace so you're like giving over your nephews you're saying I'm being moist inevitation for you Hashem I'll be myself well Michelle Bonham is the fourth one stand is an interesting exhibition I said a long time ago that if a person said he's going to donate money to a hospital what what what uh in English what department should he give the money to to people that don't have children to to help people they don't have children help people don't see and of course maybe it goes by the first and the second that there's a whole neither in a crime in America what's what's more mace what's more hardship anyway bye [Music] Miriam uh by yeah now I have to tell you this is very very very important happens to be that I opened up this morning on the page because I wasn't sure where it was it's in if you want to look it up it's a beautiful long piece and he says this follows very very conscious of peace he says I don't understand a person that's a messiah a person that's blind he's he's like he's dead I thought that every minute a person lives he gave him crying Mitzvahs even if a person has you sue him like he or he should be happy with this surim what do you mean he's like a dead person it's a good Kasha we we try to prolong life a person is in a hospital bed he's on a respiratory prolong another man another minute this guy is living yes he has a major problem a big rahmanas he's blind but he's like he's a dead person so he says a beautiful you saw it he says the number one thing in this world and what we look for is to give others and if you notice all these four people can give Amit saira a woman who doesn't have children parents doesn't have children the biggest giving is to give your children to give and to give and to give to wake up in the middle of the night and to give your kid and to wake up with them into the battle and feed and this and that to give to give to give when a person stops giving when he's blind and he can't give or Ani can't give his DACA then he's like a mace he says I'm saying but not on day to day that's what you say no no this and yesterday somebody from the sheer left me a message he said I'm crying why he has a parent also he's not the biggest ocean in the world and he got into some sort of accident caused him a little money and the guy around a guy from this year sent him a thousand dollars so here take him down giving giving the guy was monitoring tears he said I can't believe it a guy just gave me a thousand note to give and to give the if you don't if you can't give you don't have it's not me you sent me the thing hell if I was me but sorry about him one last day I just want to tell you before chakras there was a guy who was he had three out of the four he didn't have children he's blind and very poor and he's sitting in a basement and all sudden he smells something he realizes that there's a fire so you start screaming and the rebel that on the show he was he was very excited that that this guy was there and saved the show and he was very excited the Civ retired didn't burn so he told the guy listen I'm making a Titian Chavez you come whatever you ask for me I'm gonna I'm gonna make sure that I can polarize so the whole stunt was like what is he gonna ask for he doesn't have children's he's gonna ask me but he's blind what are you gonna do no what do you do he said I wanna see my children eating from Golden Spoons have a wonderful day about a blind lady