Daf Yomi Bava Kama Daf 94 by R’ Eli Stefansky

[Music] good morning [Laughter] [Music] [Applause] [Music] R so B it's a tremendous tremendous SIM from the big ones for us it's my's first child a baby girl we found out M shabas and my wife was planning on going anyway she knew that my daughter-in-law is expecting any minute so since uh she's going I decided okay I'll jump on the same flight as her there's only one seat available as I said before if you didn't hear the M shash here and B in 45 minutes I I have to be out of here and Pack huh you left already yesterday I already left yesterday right if you're hearing this now I'm somewhere sling on an ambient really I'm out right now I'm out so it's a tremendous beyond words the the did with us that uh my son he's he's a wild one and he settled down and he he got a tremendous and that he has a kid it's all it's unbelievable and we have tremendous we want to show our love and our appreciation for my son and my daughter-in-law so we're flying there and I hope that the forgives me for leaving for a few days B B I'm trying to I'll try to be back within a week if not less and um doesn't believe and I believe the kid is going to be who knows what we go we're going again for the kid no [Music] so and I just asked that should stay with it if you can come toas and watch she live at least do the da wherever you are don't fall off because the mag is not here for a few days I do have to rush but I think this is extremely extremely important I see that on this table right here there's a very of youer man what's your name again sadic Goldstein from Williamsburg originally originally gives me a tremendous tremendous amount of he comes from a satar background speaks a perfect yish and he he comes in the morning he came for the last few days and he sits here for two over two hours daving daving then he pulls out a safer and he learns he's on a a tremendous Aliyah and he he has a he has a goal he doesn't he talks to to to sat and to all sorts of that are struggling with he says listen you could do it it's not all or nothing A lot of times people and I I I really feel for C certain people feel like if I if I watch a movie I have to go off the D if I if I have a SmartPhone I go it's not all over nothing there's yish kite Beyond if if sat doesn't fit exactly for you you could be a real and you don't have to go off the D and I heard people say with my own ears that they said they went off the D because they could watch movies now just certain things don't make sense that's not why I know everybody has a story and excuses and different things and they maybe I misunderstood the bottom line is if you have issues speak to Shu he has a lot of experience in this and uh he gave me a lot a lot of and his whole Han and everything was lala lala the K sponsored by schlomo Ruben in honor ofu becoming a sponsored for the unity of I just want to say again I'm not toting my own horn but sometimes you have to make sacrifices for the da this is another sacrifice I don't really it's not really smart of me to be here right now I got to pack and I gotta make sure I I put my shaver in there and my this and the that and the you know and my wife is probably not going to be very happy buta we have to make sacrifice for the last thing a person needs to do when they make a ticket last minute is to give that's the last thing but you gotta make sacrifice one of the greatest he writes that he was LIF on 1949 without children and is buried in to please go if you can I mentioned him a bunch of times in sh tremendous he was a tremendous G the B GE I have to apologize your B geen I was planning on coming how he pronoun where is he he left you see wil wil very nice send your father an apology for me I B Mis planned I'm coming you said it's here in town right here in or whatever good thing I didn't I wasn't there because I would have gotone to the wrong place with his daughter and a healthy baby all right so with that being said uh we're holding eight lines from the bottom says we just had we're going to go through it and we're talking about we're talking about what was the sh had for the here trying to see uh oh here's a very interesting sh this will Mish if a guy Loy tries to commit suicide he's such a in his life that even the suicide wasn't successful he he lands and he breaks a bunch of Bones and he's in the hospital and he survives does he say when he when he comes out it's a good child know you say I say not I mean Maybe not maybe yes okay something to think about we're going to get there in a few minutes they all in one way or another say something similar not exactly identical but they say that even if there's a Shinu even if I made a tremendous change on this item nothing happened doesn't become yours just because you made a change Let's see we just said that if somebody dyes wool makes the wool makes it from white to red red it's completely different no it's mif you could put the red dyed wool together with other undyed wool and you give it to the why nothing happened your didn't do anything now you're going to say what are you going to say that we said and that you could remove the D okay but there's a similar theme Here similar here's the interesting and this also not everybody knows if a z receives money for services she cannot bring buy something she can't buy a carbon with it the other thing is if somebody trades not a regular person has a dog let's he D want to get rid of his dog which he did he he gives his dog to somebody somebody gives him a nice sheep and he brings the Sheep to the B he cannot do that why because it's it's a trade of a dog says it then Abomination it's a disgusting thing also both of them says what if she received instead of cash she received wheat and she took it she took the wheat and she made it into fine flowers and she made it into olive oil grapes she made wine we have a contradiction says it's not a contradiction he says see that not everybody else that if you take if you take grapes and you make it into wine you cannot bring the wine to we're talking about things thank you we're talking about things you bring on the wine oil wheat for say this is not a sh so what if you made it into wine it's not a sh she got grapes she's giving to the grapes grape juice Wine Juice whatever you want to call it it's the same thing here it say it's even changes very this is a massive change take grapes and making the wine takes months if you look at the word it actually says that's why I did it in red if you're wondering why it's blue and red hey only the wheat is AER only the grapes are AER but not grape juice and not wine relation to him you're allow to bring wine to the B if she if she received it as pay and she changed it into wine what are they going to do with that let's say you trade a dog for a sheep and that sheep is pregnant so and she gives birth the Vlad you could bring as a the word means no changes nothing nothing in other words it has to be the exact thing this The Grapes you can't bring but wine you could bring the animal you can't bring but the baby you could bring it's the same word it means the same thing what about that what happened to the word right I don't know what to do with the word g it's not the end of the world we'll think about it we'll come up with some shot now we're going into them say they're all saying that what doesn't mean anything I don't care about the sh I'm going to continue with the a person steals wheat and he goes through the whole process until he makes a a bread and he took the off of it how should he make a over here says how is he going to make a but you making a on something that you stole you're you're poking F you don't make a bro on something like that so now going back to the question a person commit suicide he tried to at least should he make a some say what making a bro on something you try to do the biggest a possible committing suicide is worse than killing another human being it's killing yourself you're closer to yourself so there we should never have to go to the road for such a sh you you know somebody that um that went through this I as a child Zin asked me and and a few my friends if we could go visit somebody who jumped off the third floor and he messed up his body survive so as kids we go in there we knew what he did it was very scary for me remember he in C all body cast and this and that we sing a song say no I don't know what we're singing over there gal okay I told you I lived in for 3 years as a child I I used to hear um the shabas speech from him Friday night every Friday night he speak okay so a guy came talking about um making dough guy said to his uh to his wife I wish you made uh I Wish You Made bread like my like my mother makes bread she said if you made D like my father then I'll make bread okay fine what who like that tax [Music] waiting what say doesn't count if the ghav improves the product that he stole he he wins if he wants he can take the extra if he wants to just gives it back to him as this if it's worth more he steals let's say a plain piece of wood he fashion into $10,000 table if he wants you can say you know either you take two by4 or you can have this $10,000 of course you can give it back as why not or better emal he he stole a small animal and now it's it was worth $100,000 worth $1,000 he fed it and he injected it with all the hormones all the stuff say you can't give it back of course he could says if he made it better you take the difference for yourself what if he took a thousand animal and he forgot to feed it for three weeks and now it's malnourish it's skinny and terrible even though he ruined it physically destroyed this whatever it is gives it right back to him why she knew is nothing any change you make for the better for the worst I don't care you you took something that's $1,000 that's worth $100 give it right back to him the Shino the change is the owner's problem says if is nothing if the doesn't change ownership so Remains the owners so if I took a $100 animal I made it into the $1,000 animal why do I get to keep the $900 difference it's a shin that doesn't mean anything didn't change anything give it right back to the owner as is you're 100% right this is a special we are very concerned we want people to do chuva and we're going to make it easy for them to do chuva in any way we can so if it means that they get to keep all the the prophet let them keep it okay I'm not going to go into these stories go here's the where where are you giving this from you're giving it from something that is still attached to the ground you're cutting it down so is it cut already or not cut it's not cut you're supposed to leave a corner here we have I don't know how this works oh we're leaving the corner of the field as pay for or this is the original picture that we had for the poor person pay but it's better if it's standing it's it's attached to the ground if it's already on the ground then you just take from the bundles okay if he didn't uh give pay yet mree then he takes it from the disree a big pile of the grain that's separated from the shaft means he takes this tool and he Smooths it down this is just a picture I found from two years ago before Oh here that's mine look what Yoshi threw in there oh much better okay this is actually a beautiful picture once you do it changes everything is that a poor person doesn't have to give from his he goes takes the whatever's the on the ground he picks up the little wheat that the guy left him on there and he goes home doesn't take Myer from it but this guy standing right here on the pile once he do he does me so now he should take all the Meer they talk about truma also it's not significant fine truma Meer some say no he takes whatever he has to take and then he gives to the poor person why should the poor person have to take he's not says we go all the way all the way to to to the D and from the D he should take in other words it's not a even though he did a he's still you tell me all these come out like butw is if you look at the top top line it says asks no there is no even hold that the doesn't do anything so now is going to argue on everything we just said on all the cases we have all these who else we have they all say that what sh doesn't change ownership I don't care if you did a but says each one there's a different reason why it's not a general what remember the case of dying the the wool he says big deal if you di the wo I could still put it together and and be in that's because he died because as we said he can remove it with so she receives wheat and she Chang it completely into flour don't bring it because bring to it's disgusting when a guy steals wheat and he makes into bread okay over there don't make because only spoke about when something to the animal he made the animal small and then it could go back over there he only said here we go here's the you see the O what a guess unbelievable here make some room for him you know this is his father also you you know I'm going to America now before the come here ladies and gentlemen unbelievable thank you for all you do for and thanks for all the um the the sponsorships and all the and you bought me a a printer and uh I I had a a granddaughter on chabas and I don't worry oh I hope you didn't get no I'm on C you good you sure sorry I'm sorry and uh so I'm flying to America tonight rather I gave this is my second [Music] sheer that you came beautiful I'm so happy that you came let me [Music] what what a of of a son you have over here all right so as you see the says so leave it over there give it to him and we'll take care of the but if the says in one place what is that called we should for the rest of the was that called okay I find the over here by let's bring it to the whole end of the story you can't bring any R from a gift they give to now we have a new over here this this thing that we just said double here you see it on the screen why we have to understand why does say that you have to give the for the P after it's already in the the final stages does he hold that that is no doesn't become yours by by making it to bread maybe in general he holds that a does let's say by the wall you die it or whatever it is would be because it says tce okay but let's say that in general sh is not so then how come we have to understand why Sayce and even if we have to understand what this exra is either according to everybody we have to understand or at least according to ra is like this somebody says it's a trick because if you you your Vineyard even though you're doing a trick and you come back and you grab it from the he you're not however when it comes to these it doesn't work he makes his but then he goes and before anybody else was able to grab it I like to say we had this uh this WhatsApp group he just ran out Gary but I just remember it was Gary during Corona he would put on the WhatsApp group um my uh my dishes are sitting by my front porch and it's hefer and then five minutes later you say oh sorry too late I already it back from a way to to be part from when there's no back in the day so so that's what the is com that you the the um the guy that he is so let's just show what it is means these types of grapes that are barely growing and that you have to leave for the the on is like when it comes to the wheat that you drop wheat on the floor so you drop grapes you have to leave for okay says you speak English Hebrew so we have like this is that if a guy steals an Axe and the the ax dies so you don't give it back you can't give back a dead animal to the guy you stole it from that would be really bad but if you d damage somebody's animal let's you killed somebody's animal so then you could say hey take whatever this is worth and I'll pay you the [Music] difference okay so according to ra who explains they were talking about a type of animal let's say that was malnourish you feed him nicely go right back to where it was it's a that goes back so yes you know why doesn't do anything because it's not a real Shin what kind of sh is a fake Shinu it's not a real change change I give him a little food and he blows up again it's not a real change was talking about when an animal dies drops dead or lost a leg or something L you can't give that back to the to the original owner that's not fair that's never going to go back according to there's talking about you're right himself okay fine we just turned to B sponsored by Greek ESS and the safe return of our hostages for all of listen to this this is unbelievable if you came just for this first time doing listen to this you're not gonna believe it that this is not yet we're getting there is that when you have you steal something and it changed you just give it right back to the owner now even the is saying even if it became much more valuable which you think maybe the god should keep the the difference no give it right back any type whatever happens to it give it back what do we do with our Mish that says the guy stole wood and turned it into a table you don't give it back just give him back wood that's because we feel bad for people want to do CH and he doesn't have to give the whole thing back but we said this a number of times even if a person sheared wool off his animal and he by mistake or on purpose he died it he doesn't have to give it to the K so what do you see that once you do a the sh Works what are you telling me sh doesn't work yeah you're with me too fast I heard he took readymade wood from ik set put it together and now he has a table but then a you just pop it out put it right back in the box and was already pled he already did cheapy okay so that's different we're not talking about a real now Here Comes This people that are professional robbers they steal and steal and people that lone sharks they lend with high interest or any interest they come they say Hey you know I stole from you here take take this back is the sh is you hear got to hear the again somebody steals something somebody somebody takes interest from some from everybody the whole world and now he wants to do chuva because he wants yeah because he wants to do chuva we say if he offers to pay back the interest don't take it from him you're not you're not allowed to take it back from him if he offers to pay back his Gena I'm assuming it's after sh or whatever can't after like sh can't take it back from him I did see one saver that said that if he the guy the the guy that was stolen from owes a lot of money then he has the right to take it back because you can't be a on the of other people he owes people money take it and give and pay back your your loans but in general you're not allow to take back from aov so T has a whole discussion here holds that it's only the generation of rebi it wasn't said for but other they said no it's for all generations you want to be a g that did it once a g that does it all the time sorry no no no what he stole he steals your car drives around for for a year he says you know what I want to do TR the car back yeah oh we're going to see in a second he's going to be by giving it to you here's your car and then you're supposed to give it right back then what mileage you think it's the whole car forget the mileage he gets the whole car this is rebi the who wrote the Mish it was in his generation that he instituted this and the question is does it continue for all generations what happened there's a person that wanted to do cha want to you piece of nothing even the G that you're wearing is stolen so how you going to do TR you're not going to have anything oh so sometimes the wife could give you send you to the some she put you down don't do TR because of her because of her he didn't do trva the brisk says on this because he held that it's more like a GLE he said there's sometimes people that wear gal but they big of him even the GLE is stolen so be careful don't don't be fooled by them I this places I heard in New York they have like a a reel like a like a spool of like GLE material so if you come into the sh and you forgot your GLE just walk over there snip take off a piece and go I've saw with my own eyes a guy take out the hot water machine he pulled out the cord this both sides and us it as a GLE yeah you got to be M and GLE doesn't matter nobody had tea for the next six hours whatever next re unbelievable she the way she called him the way she her attitude towards him you're nothing you're nobody now you're going to do big big give back everything what am I gonna have don't do TR if somebody tries to return don't why not happy with you if you take it from him if his father left a bunch of money that's interest money even though even though they know that it's 100% ribus they don't have to return it says the children don't if the father's not so just say much bigger that the person himself shouldn't return it why does it say that the children have to return it says no the father like Reb instituted he doesn't have to give it back I could see people thinking already it's a great business to get into steal a bunch of stuff like oh I don't have to return it said I have to return it the father left things that you could recognize like a like a cow a car a Talis let's see if we have anything over here M was uh out the door running oh this is for later okay good the Hebrew are going to get better ones yeah that's the by the way if you I'm gonna B try to soon as I get to Miami I'm G to try to put out a Hebrew she I might be a little an ambient whatever it's going to be good what Monday Monday I have of course what are you talking about why [Music] not little hospital we go there see the baby how much how much time you have to spend with the baby I'm not I'm not the mother that's right no but my wife is not going to let me okay it's fine Toleration anyways the point is we're talking about the children so we're talking about the children but 100% the father's also not to to give it back says let me ask you sh if a father is a Russ he does terrible things he he lends money that's his job you say yes yes you say no says what just to give a little honor to the father who himself didn't honor himself he didn't care about himself he used to loan with interest so for his honor we have to give back there a famous concept when it comes to even that's my biggest excuse talking people say he's he's a Russ talk ay so if a guy doesn't act as a as a Jew he's not careful with major aaras like interest loaning with interest he couldn't care less about what the Torah says about it so you don't have to you don't have to give him honor so it says over here that you don't have to honor father but okay but they go into it maybe D in thisa in this area but not in general he tells you give me a cup of tea maybe you do have to so it's a sh thing we're talking about say so why does he have the money let him give it back he he did TR you know five minutes before he died which is also good and he couldn't give it back the people that steal and lend with ribus interest oh this is interesting and is gonna explain they should give back the interest over here it says the opposite give back the interest doesn't say don't give back the interest you stole give back what you stole so says what does that mean they they they uh they collected it what does it mean to collect if you're goling either you took it or you didn't take it what does it mean oh if they collected it so what does not collecting mean you're not a g it's not a to use by so says you're right the words the beginning is not two cases it's one case he's a golin why is he a golin because he's a Mal it's one case in other words if he collected his interest he should return the interest so what do we do and this answers Benny's question yeah 100 times 200 times I don't know how many times you offer the interest you go over hey I owe you interest but the guy has to be a mention and say I don't want it take it so that he does trva so why you can't say ohed me you have to show your R to give it back he shouldn't take it from you a guy that's that's over every day in a he doesn't know where he lets his sheep graze everywhere he owes the entire city money people that take taxes they're a lot to take taxes but not too much and usually take more from the Customs it's very very difficult from they don't know return but they should give back to those they recognize the question it says give back we just learned you shouldn't give back according to Reb they should give back but you shouldn't take it why is it so hard in other words if re instituted that everybody that you don't have to give back to G so every GH is is is scar free he doesn't have to to give it back is to and if I'm not according to I'm not aov I don't I don't have to return it it says if you don't know what to do you stole from so many people what do you do you you should build this let's just see it real quickly a bar here's a bar what's going on here oh here's a sh it's elongated and is more like like a cave huh yeah uh yeah this is in Gaza exactly so you should build tunnels in Gaza that's what you're saying okay so if you don't know to do the money do something that could benefit the entire Community build roads sidewalks whatever it is for the community this is a simple answer before re instituted it that's why you should give it back then you don't give it back R have a wonderful day we'll see you bright and early 7:15 Mr