Respect Yourself- Respect Others

a patient is lying on his psychiatrist's couch the psychiatrist is saying to him well the trouble with you is you're paranoid ask anyone the root cause of the reason we fast on tish above is because of the sin of the spies we can see the mindset of the spies from the verse in pasture shallach it says there we saw the nephilim the sons of a giant from the nephilim we were like grasshoppers in our eyes and so we were in their eyes there is no greater slavery than the relying on the approbation of others their applause their smiles and their pats on the back your very existence proves your value hashem loves you that's why he created you you're special the world was created for you no one else can be you you are unique why would you want to be someone else you'd lose the only thing that's guaranteed to make you amazing that you are truly unique cena hate for no reason is a contradiction in terms if you hate someone it has to be because they did something terrible to you they they stole your money they killed someone you love rachmaninol at sloane hate is never for free that is unless you lose the sense of your own worth if you think you're worth nothing then everyone must be worth more than you the first step to loving other people is to have a healthy sense of your own worth a healthy respect for yourself and your uniqueness to love yourself veil to love someone else you have to love yourself to have self-respect this respect gives you the ability to respect others and to do your part in ridding yourself of sin from this perspective you're ready to grow in showing the proper kavoda brios the proper respect for others you