Feeling Other's Pain - Rabbi Yakov Zev Smith

they're considered like to thank of rum spry for sponsoring this amazing collection I am to be a source for him and for all of us it's always very hard to decide what to talk about and this year obviously it's so much more difficult we think about what happened what is still happening and obviously it's very hard to decide what to talk about and I must say I have no idea why the Rentschler him did what he did and what he wants the most for that you need to get out later there any or ADA but I'd like to say best a chemise borough what I think we have to think about now what I think is the sava show the call of the hour in these very trying times Tamara says I'm acceptable bastard of Testament days colonies and Pluto Lonnie miss bar officials broccolis if someone gives to daca he gets six brockless obviously sadaqa is greater than we imagined I'm a 5/7 volume and as taste explains he has no money to give he can't give any money but he appeases the Ani and it says nice words miss burrows beard olive Broca's he gets almost double the amount of broth ice and the more coats the pasta can you shy at the Suffolk Laroy Ivanov chef ha and the question that's so obvious is what shot double broca's for giving nothing in America they say words are cheap and what's derive from the pasta cassava Claro of naphtha huh and I personally have a different question Tamar says Misaka bhava bastard episodic days calm a vodka alchemy Mahavira boots are cool I say Dava hunan Attila if someone has in need of his own and he puts his own concerns to the side and dive into someone else hunan Attila and the Mar brings two sources for this kiddush now it's very nice to davon for someone else but why is he guaranteed Hunan Attila and why does it have to be hoot sorrowful I say double and I'd like to ask what I consider Akasha for my sir an amazing story which I think has an amazing lesson mcian cries mr. Han abraca used to say but the day happy of them he was a buckle learning in yeshiva before the Second World War in Europe and there were not enough beds for all the Barkham and he had to go to stay by someone and it was a big slap going at night and he was waiting anxiously to finally be given a bed in the quote the dormitory Shiva and finally the day came he was given a bed and the demo is a great simple have so much more time to learn you guys have to go schlep to the Estancia to sleep and wake up as he's walking to his bed the first night he sees a new baka who never was blind groping in the darkness literally and asked me where where's the best way could I sleep now Brian realized he had no idea that there's no beds for bokram and he bill as this bro this buck is in a terrible disadvantage where's he going to go and I guess in a moment of great mr. Brian decided he's been by up and he's giving the bulk of his bed and he says here you want a bed come with me and he gave his own bed and he went back to going to the place where he stayed then the war came and one fateful day of claim was in yeshiva learning with the buckram and the Nazis stormed the achievers surrounded the Shiva and systematically killed out the entire yeshiva they shot Ibaka threw him out the window and the Mama's waiting I wanted to be shot and a Brian was waiting on line and he suddenly he had a very strange feeling Akasha and he actually said we punish you Lila you know how hard it was for me to be Movado to give up my bed for that baka please please let the not see me move out on my life a very strange till there was a Nazi ever mavet on anything but sure enough when his turn came to be shot he pleaded with the Nazi don't shoot me please save my life and then I'd seen her some reason agreed so I'll shoot up in the air make believe you were shot fall to the ground I'll throw you out the window and good luck and that's what he escaped and survived the war but an unbelievable story and obviously Mamata is a superpower it's probably source that the Chimera she shouted after your zalien column about me dice of my fear now cope shove an unconditional guarantee but how do we understand cool I have will I such a great source of being Nevada I must say only a sick Minister ice I don't know how they were banished that Island runs his world but I think I could explain this because this is not this star race this is one of the basic and hug us Hashem is Barack the way he manages his world imagine try to put yourself back in time fifty years ago and you have a son and only one of one and only son and you sent him there to stroll to learn anybody my age remembers 50 years ago calling era was very difficult I mean cell phones did not exist and even making a simple phone call Terra t throw was a big hassle so basically you put it to your child on a plane and you hope then you pray that he should arrive safely and find the place to stay and get a better in yeshiva and here you are you put your child on a plane and a few days go by and you're worried and worried what's with my son what's with my Ben your kiddo and one day you get a phone call he's calling from a stranger's house were you calling from us he lets you call you wouldn't believe it he tells you a total stranger met me by the airport he saw I was lost he took me to his house he took care of me the few days he got me into your Shiva he got me a bed you wouldn't believe about festa that I met Emma's house I ask you as a father or mother what would you not do for that stranger that took care of your child now maybe the marshal the story is my own but the NIMH cell is all of us as mr. Shawn writes the end of Parekura tests in a cottage Burroughs who I hate Allah Misha are you best Israel that's the formula that's the end Haga saaphyri there's a reciprocal relationship if you love a year the branch of loves you the commercial or the Magdala foster the Israel Gama cottage Baku Magdala love it works hand in hand and then he continues ha la maza Dyneema what is this similar to love Shana oh yeh sure madam yes Emma me Surya Sharia is born of a Havana Menace the Dervish at Ewa yurid olive isn't this our muscle isn't this our story to branch solarium whose Avinu of her abdomen who's Carla Bubba's describes as loving every year more than a father loves his only child sees that you helped his son caballo who the person who sent this son into an orphan cold hostile world full of service and suffering and you took an interest in my son and you took care of my son what the brainstorm wouldn't do for that year that took care of his son and I want to say if we don't understand this if you don't appreciate this we don't know how true and how literal and how real it is that I've asked or you know five Tondo hashem elokenu family don't livi sailor as much as you think the bunch of Lovelace via Sara it's the Hulu it's etc and now the brunch them created the world for one and only one purpose to be mated in the breeze and as I'm Hal writes in the classic potato bisque a hakama Parekh Dollard the person created a world that it should be cool I tested and we should deserve the SAS said and that's why this car varnish but it's a world of complete perfect Kosta Hashem to us look in the time at the Vera how he describes the meat if I cut this burger how much the Merstham loves Eden and once asked eleven every eat and then you can understand why that muscle is so penetrating you help my son you took an interest in my child I guess that's the formula of what the camera sees and Shabbos cooked nowadays call me Ralph came out lab rias morass mean all of Menasha Miriam pairing it unconditional cold hammer a flame morass Manolo and that's why every bit of sadaqa that we do is so valuable every bit of Damascus Arden which Tamara says Asuka dive mem test is even greater than Sadako because my Sodom a person does bigger fight he does even for a serum he could even do for Mason to Ducky's precious you know Sodom is even more precious but you know what's the highest level of a needs attitude another person that's what I but the mission refers to as nice super oil and have a ray now because the source is the Mishnah Nova is the six Parekh one of the community Tyrese I am Kaveri but you wonder what does that mean at a practical level and why do I think it's bigger than sadaqa and Willis Kassadin you know when you read a biography of a girdle so if it's written well you could discern you could pick up what's the defining feature what's the godless what's the root of the greatness of that girdle if I were to ask you what was my survey knows godless what was the did the shire ish the root of his godless that's obviously a very challenging question to answer because Myesha like um be strelka motion one of our dude gimel Ekrem is that no one's like moisture how could we define how could we reduce moistures gathers to one meter but I tell you it's very possible to there's a mattress and it's clear as day what Moises defining characteristic was and I once saw the Alta in the end of similar medallion mimosa happy agraphia shall I myesha's biography is the plastic they are bits of loiza and I guess he's referring to the Rasch eNOS and aina of the liebelei ice mates alayhim maybe Rock'em need Eskimos I'm at page 11 it's also one of the schmooze and 'cimmanon Dalit expands on this but it's so obvious read Moises biography and who was the author caviar Hall of Myesha biographies / ulam but you'll notice the recurring theme my sis godless moistures biography his biography is nice about Herrera look looking Percy Schmeiser beginning of Perak days we know we see Moises birth and his miraculous adoption into how safari and the first thing about moisture biiig demise Chevalier de la / yaroslav loiza moisture was in the lap of mouth hosts he had everything he needed but he went out to see the suffering of his brethren and that stump ah the first story he was mice in a fish to kill them it see who was hitting a Yid and the next three he saw two hidden fighting and he's in the rock Russell on the sakharova my she couldn't bear to see a pain of another yeet and at great personal cost he had everything he needed he needed nothing but he left the comfort of the palace of power by my NCLR club and that got him into big trouble Perry heard he killed someone and he was banished here I had to run away and raise a pelham the next posture yep he runs away he comes and he sees Benoist light are being harassed by your cambogia by yoshiya may she can't bear to see another person suffering story number one in the Tri mystery number two he runs away the next plastic he's saving the nice light Marcia's heart beat only to the ribbon to the rhythm of Aiyar missive Lysa and then it's even more planted the very next crossing begins Moishe's role as the machine shall you throw by yama smell miss drive a youngster Bernie's showman avoider and you're learning to be reading the hamish as a casual reader what you shouldn't but the plastic flows Story number one story number two and now moisture of a know is entering re-entering the scene but it's a clear as the Ramban and parrot based pasta club gimel points out this at least six sixty years between sixty and sixty eight years of mauritius life that's missing by a dementia the story of his mysterious never she was twelve years old now when he's meeting para he was 80 years old so Rambam exercise either at sixty between sixty and sixty eight years are not discussed at all or a smile biography up its added biography 60 years of a person's life is missing dr. Ron Banderas matter-of-factly chilena Scottish by Yamaha theorem engine sheets Tyra recursively sorry those 60 plus years there was nothing special to write about so the brush them left it out nothing special to write about I have no doubt that those 60 years were soaked and saturated with a void accession that only a moisture could produce and yet through Ambon says there's no need to mention it because there's nothing of importance because they are dovish shared eber new mauritius biography was nice to boil from day one and his transition into worrying about cloudy throw that's what's important of course much of the white desertion is unfathomable but Moishe's life was one long nicer boy and that was his credentials and that was his qualifications to be chosen as the machine shall use rel and have any doubt look at the measures in perikala posture of zion v8c alaska by Arbus employ some says the magic malva yar say ribosylation who boys oberoi him he cried from yahoo the soros Cavalia la femme me eatin mousse ela I wish I would die in your place remember he's talking in the comfort of the throttle of the Perry's palace but he goes out to seat Soros and then he in detail it's amazing how my she was so perceptive together Sarah's how we noticed every bit of suffering shame the home allaha costly malefic it he was envisioning working with tit and then he put his shoulder down on Messiah in the hall a car the ephod me hem he helped every single year now this probably is not literal to a three million years in miss Ryan they left 600 only one-fifth howden the world that he helped three million eaten you know the answer is nice but well does not mean necessarily helping it means showing I'm there for you I'm painting your pain and crying your cry I feel your service and look how he notices the every nuance of the cruel treatment he saw a master gotta love cotton ooh master cotton el gordo had the metrium tried ingenious ways to bring out suffering master ish Alisha Umar see Isha a leash baa Massa Matsuzaka now Bertha how they reverse roles just to increase the suffering and Mauritius saw that via mania the raga inshallah ultimately she left his mileage a doula Valhalla Omaha mayor Sheila Hamby supply some voice tequila Messiah he didn't help three million hidden but he was nice about what is nice to boil mean it means literally he shared their burden he took part in their suffering he was carrying Yanam speckle and he made a statement to all of Christ so I'm there for you I'm part of your service America this Buraku the magic continues at Enoch ahsoka but last the lyrics bits are inshallah Israel you left your comfortable life just to see the suffering of someone else when I hug Dominic action and ammonia SL uranium as Tottenham VAD abou emka dodok Siva yara sham Kasauli rice rocket is Barack Obama Sr me a shock of liras miss apply some Lathika veikko a la la Kimi Turkish man the definition of noise super oil is Hinata so Kara voila the lira is bits iron shell Israel it's not necessarily giving money or giving anything it's giving yourself becoming a partner it's becoming a opinion inside that he's not alone because the most painful part of its aura is when a person feels he's alone and noisy Sybil shows a solidarity that it's my profits not your profits our problem I remember very vividly a number of years ago I think it was this time of the year there was a tragedy and now in Brooklyn a few children were killed in a car accident there were problems last year of his life he was very weak but he insisted on going become available even though he didn't owe the family and it literally had to be carried up the few steps and the family saw him and was shocked that he made this effort and goes why did he bribe the Russian Shiva Cup and he said how could I not come and he sat down and he started crying and he cried and then he got up he said I'm welcome in Arkham and he left and the family said that was the most meaningful of karma that they got because that was Spitz know super oil it's not only your problem he didn't give money didn't give advice he didn't say why the bernstrom didn't make this tragedy which usually doesn't help anything he showed I am part of your suffering and that's nice but oil haveli it's very Arctic carry a big box but if someone shares the burden it's 50% easier but you know something there's so much more the my son in the story of moisture and thereby initialize them because it's not only that moisture Boehner was a nice herb oil I'll say a thousand cover yokels but it's the truth the brain is should item is the quintessential nice of oil it's not my finish look at their burnished like a vehicle introduces that introduces himself to my surveillant acarya sell my Yamaha cachet mailable Abbas HP Tejas snare to burn some caviar hole introduced himself in a snare track Rashi which is really a Madras in Bay's hey Valerie LaNasa mission II may annoy snippets IRA why the brainstem choose to appear to Myesha in a snap because it's nice thorns and as the Mars a bond that measures explains a snare is symbolic of Sora and Sukup and crates him and our Darden dr. Magnus again a male custody of salami the majors tied to the puss ik that we just mentioned and quotes the puss again she Reshiram we just said on Shabbos we celebrate the seder de bernalillo Narcisse a mossy dr. Magdy Somali coast vehicle AF slo-mo not to Omaha Lola twins inflatius africa asia kaveri Margus if you have twins that are close one has a problem the other one feels it comes oh my cottage boy who you are in our seesaw Marcy Chiba Yahoo or email or nightly but Sarah but hopes are awesome Lord stars of demanders like was evolved oh my oh my god is Berkeley Mischa dr. Marcus and he Shari Betar - Shane she throws Julian Betar that's my twin - I've been your kid if he's in pain I'm in pain if he's suffering I'm suffering and softimage's that's why the bernstrom chose to appear to moisture in a snare symbolic of and sorrow and Kreutzmann dare the Lord sir have you solo Itza when he eats off is the burn time is suffering but you know something it's a lot more than this because much later in Paris to me spot him when caveat ho if it's peevish I have to say this we saw there punish the oil at one point as the plastics is imperative dollop a secured by euro SLA ksrl ashes the stock louvered Sisu caviar they saw the paella an image they saw the everybody shallow they saw the quickly the Keisei I avoid the throne everyone the hell their buyers times throne looks and our King is thrown his majesty and a doctor's office is full of his his various awards is diplomas potentials house their burnished lens throne you ever wonder so the plastic describes a time a telling you solution thus a class rag la camisa witnesses a pair but under Muslims throne there was this brickwork sapphire brickwork what shot sera she quotes the Madras the person kept the bricks that Eden made in Mitzrayim that they poured their lives in to high still afoot he these bricks Hoysala fauna be Shasta she bud Liz gets a Russian shall you throw shima su boredom Kim ISIL of a Ninh Marvel marvel aha Ryan do bernstrom kept near the ships or is on his throne never to forget you the Soros I'm tired even we're getting used to the fact that burn some is noise to boil but the burn slur remembers everything the person forgets nothing does the person have to remember you this stars that he asked to keep bricks on his throne is up the out different element in Miami all of its page gimel their burnished learn was showing what nicely boils about how we have to live nicer boil because you hear it sorrow and you Krauts but you want to make it part of you to remember it to visualize it and connect to it and live with it the branch time 100 kV office doesn't forget but he had kept on his throne yeah the shits are is never to me me see a class so we're sure Langer that means nice to boil have a really do you know see some or see is suffering and I don't want to ever disconnect from that but then he adds an even more powerful of art okay I can understand the burnished lamb during the as I'm it's Ryan wanted to feel their suffering but this in parishes miss bottom is a time of similar they're getting the toy of it's our Carson a caveat with their brightness chavalla why is the brunch time still keeping the bricks of oppression now at the time of samosa took the Alta and unbelievable for it there's more simcha when you remember the pain nice cigar is not only during times of distress and syrup it's during times with simcha and the bird still wanted to magnify this sim Club look what they were look at the Yarnell that's nice of oil to be aware of here they should service the partaking in service and hopefully partake Odysseus emerges because human nature a person likes to be comfortable he doesn't want to be burdened by someone else to Sarah but then the feeling could dissipate he has something I someone has it's RIE terrible I feel so bad what's the supper that doesn't bring any results no super oil is trying to connect the nm Sura think we all know the famous story of this goggle that wanted to raise money for a family they couldn't afford the woods to keep themselves warm during the winter they had a fireplace without wood she knocked on a very wealthy persons door and the rough started talking to the Bala boss I know a family and it's so hard for them so the rep says what so the ball busters why can't the rough come in it's so cold let me finish and he starts talking about how this family is suffering and of all of us is ready seas froze and it goes please come in remikit we talk inside there's no no no I want you to feel what it means being freezing so you'll give accordingly that's a training in noise savoia if someone else is proud with an abstract concept so you don't connect you don't relate to it but if you're living with the aside the makar of noise supporting the Torah the pasta comparison is Spartan in kesef tava smes so anima you extend the loan as omits that's a fee of sacra she somewhat stabbed shot and so on the emo so tragic quoting attend human pen parrot test Vova have a mystical buttocks maja kilowatt irani the perfect shot in the process when you learned so much Rashi with your child and casts of tava Sami why answer on the email as if you're an ani now I'm giving alone I'm very generous why do I have to make believe Amon Ani but that's noisy boil because if someone needs a loan you'll give them or you I'll give him you give him a little bit provided alone and if I'm in distress I will I expect to get a lot that's nice about it because when a person feels here and observe deeply he responds accordingly now once said you know it's lady named riding and there are three types of people there are some people in I am lehem Val I know they don't see they don't care never we don't know such people but there are some people that see you - its problems and the reaction is oh it's terrible and what else is new it doesn't really have an effect but the nice boil is someone that takes someone else's problems literally and seriously it's like a berry Levine put it so beautifully it was once walking with his rabbits into the earth to the doctor and the doctor was a Talmud of herbaria Levine soreby you're coming soon ran over and says yeah but what's the problem he thought a virus be not a problem new is coming from so he pointed to his rabbits in her foot hurts us that's why he was coming because her proud was his problem none of my beats a terrier Moses hey legality page covers that Museum it's recorded that the defiant brisk and tough race noon hey 1895 limits poem and of crimes involvement with those that lost their homes in the fire the Russian is there whoever didn't see a battalions work to helping those that lost their homes like Laura mimiama of never saw what it means Cressida Brian was a going interested but what touch me it says there that even though Brian's house was unaffected he refused to sleep in his own bed he slept in the show with all the other Platon until every last home was rebuilt now though I'm dim will ask what what her crying game I not sleeping in his own bed he was working day and I ain't that enough so I guess a story about crying deserves its first of all that's nice of oil when someone is sleeping in the shul and he sees the rough next to them it's a lot easier he knows it's not my problem it's our problem that's nice of oil but it's also very practical because if someone that sleep in his own bed until someone else's home as we built he'll make sure to work harder and harder it's like something that happened a number of years ago there was someone that had a problem and someone that could have I felt could help them and he wasn't rising to the occasion so I told a nice that I think you should get involved and help the other person you could do it she's but what could I do I don't know you could do sit down and start crying for the other person sir and believe me if you'll cry the other person syrup you'll figure out what to do and that's nice to boil and then I understood the grade is the sea oil is when a person puts himself to the side and focus on someone else I miss follow about kuvira is a great meter but the hoots our employees say dubba he is involved with his own lead but he puts that to the side and he focus on someone else hunan Attila that's the greatest level of noise super oil not only is helping someone else but even though he has that needs but he focus on someone else noise he's I thought Mozilla showroom rates I could his Baroque whose love and that's certainly why Nevada it's such a superpower by the island what is Nevada you give your own bed for someone else even though you're deserving of it and you waited for it Mariama day so it's all about negating the self not just helping someone else but putting someone else before your own needs and then I understood the duck is very harsh if you give money us Kassadin you get involved but you know it's the most valuable the Suffolk the raw Eve nap shell or a person doesn't have what to give he can't give so he gives the greatest machine he gives himself he takes part in someone else's Sturm he doesn't just send the cheque he doesn't just help he comforts him I'm a fighter bit varam now what's our problem you know what the biggest Mussina is this so fake Laroy Eve knife Sheva make it this far line for enemy the union of nice herb oil particularly Schieffer's the paste as we saw ETS Mizrahim it's something that a person always has to hear about but no doubt in the times we are living in this is the call of the hour this did Sava Sher with so many Eden media sewer Sandra fools so many people are dialing that they should survive and their family their relatives should have to survive and network there were so many you same in our - I know today is hala Moya disjunctive but I don't know there's aperture of nice the boil on yom tov a calamari it and wait to spoil had a toilet trained us how about local how living a life of a ye trains us to be nice to boil you don't just go into a poor - love you Aishwarya come honest make sure something that's what to eat you start pace up 30 days before Pacey start what's the first thing in jealous paisa looking show kumara Maurice Heaton every yum t'v the my mum says in hookers yump to pay rubble off your dress if someone just enjoys Yount haven't closed the door and forgets about the AL - and you're Simon angel simplest mitzvah a simplest Cray so you don't touch that the simpler kazoo Carlo in law it's a disgrace for a year you're only thinking about yourself dominance Magilla says ain't similar dilemma flora Ella samayal Avon EMV is Simon Valmont ice shamisen mayor flavum l'olam ha-la-lu during the lashena shanem olijavi is rua volumn lehoczky's late mid car you are years it's just simpler is when he helps someone else we prepare seven weeks to show us to become an issue escort belay their hood a person sick this emits a bigger cooler to their eyes but says the Gemara even a Benji light that that will take a 60th of the illness is Maho you have to go because you have to take part in someone sir and there are some paraffin in your - in Leimert hey postions if someone's without the oil doesn't dive in for a filer he's not my kinda Mitzvah someone passes away does emit some become available someone makes the capacitors ever design myths of a colossus callate help if he needs and every meal that we eat there's a feel of nice of oil do you know what the camera says in some legend of sonic Bay's it's kept asking and shocked on earth or high and cooked pay me Shane and me shiet pass out so hard when he bends he doesn't leave bread on the table a mats on the table and there is semen Branca he'll never see Baraka why what is bread leavin bread a table why is that synonymous with graha so Rashi says that mr. brill quotes it because you benched and it's very nice and what happens if it only comes to the door and he's hungry there's nothing to give it you're living for yourself you ate then you're benching and and someone comes you have nothing to give him Mischa ænima Shia pasta sauce on a anal Reyes swimming brothel or you know putting me the trave is if someone is thinking the venom that's the biggest broker and how much more so when does a women is a Clarence today Sarah the leader of nice super oil will be our Yeshua now practically two years ago I heard my good friend my official chef design doesn't tell me the following story one of his relatives asked him if they if he could come to the airport early morning and pick them up they have an early morning flight and he agreed she got up early in the morning he started driving towards the airport and as he's going leaving Borough Park he gets the phone call I'm sorry you know where my kids we could say but someone offered the driver song we'd have to come to the airport so he told me that you know he's in a car is heading woke up early at least you know something so he driving back home he said let me stop in the Goldbergs Rosie see what's doing four o'clock in the morning and borrow puck I mean it's open 24 hours a day what's good couldn't imagine what could be doing in a grocery for in the morning and he sees a kid that he knows buying a cinnamon Danish so if you buy medicine in Bill in the morning when you buy baby food something a cinnamon Danish 4:00 in the morning so yes then politely like you know is it that important the cinnamon Danish for in the morning so lead was officially a pasta he told me the following over eight years ago rep Shalom Abbas was sent to jail and it bothered me it's suffering now I never met him I don't know him but I wanted to take part in his desire and I decided the food I enjoy most is a cinnamon Danish I am NOT eating a cinnamon Danish until that man walks out of jail and a few hours ago he was released and I went to the celebration you know he doesn't know me and I don't know him but I was part of it and on the way home I wanted to have my first cinnamon Danish in eight plus years I heard the stories under punish love my baby Shania movie hey Myka I'm sorry throughout 3000 plus days go by and the heat is living nice to bear but then reficul said I'll say another story his makhotin astir now partially eaten up had the same reaction and she decided she can't live without coffee but she could live without sugar in the coffee and she also made a kabbalah that as long as he sits in jail she will not put sugar in her coffee too many thousand copies of my super oil and kind of been shy oh how is that helpful if you don't put sugar in your coffee cinnamon Danish but that's the superpower of noise super oil and I said this once throughout and people have told me that a number of good earlier all said the same Ryan that there was never a time in recent history that there was such a outpour of Macias oil like when Michelle rubato was thrown into jail the rallies the collection the political pressure the read the letter writings but there was such devotion to someone else's Sora that's why he was released I mean to say it was because of the president I'm sorry at the moment it's the president lame Elohim usar be Irish em but when Yeadon rose to the occasion when oyster boil that's our you sure and I'm very proud to say what we saw in the past few weeks the fabric so does Malachi Rock'em him who we defer redefined mysterious nephesh and bravery and the sea a soil this is what is going to get us out of it Sura and I want to mention something else I've heard a number of people and made fasteners in the past few weeks obviously was just a minion a backyard or in a in a basement and they pledged all the money that they saved they pledged it to give Tom Madison you Simon that's going to put an end to our suffering when this leaders to the CEO soil behind can you have ski in the letter that he wrote the beginning of the outbreak of this epidemic he says we have to be learn to bheemavaram more and more and Kedar occur he referred to a gomorrah and the end of high reyes they didn't Rob you ISIF was apparently more qualified to be a Russia Shiva to be the Mel F yes well then robber the Nazi the lead of Cairo but he deferred he was Nevada he wanted robber to do it I imagine a 24 22 years he lived being Nevada to someone else he gave up the position of melaa veero but the burst of light Michele dick says the Gemara for those 22 years even an omen even bloodletting which is very typical very standard procedure Rab Rab uses entire family was so healthy in those 22 years that nothing went wrong even bloodletting which is not even a serious procedure at all but for 22 years his family remained perfectly healthy because he was Murata I know someone told me that the government is worried about an increase in divorces because of this virus that's one of the many collateral damages people are locked into their homes with their spouses and they're nervous and they're edgy I says the government doesn't know headon powerful a traineeship runner looks like we read that the greatest alia we could have is we learn to bheemavaram and to give in and we have to tell us ms that noise simple is what we have to do in these days we know that the reformer Cardinal market is when we live with more solemn and with no devotion because that's what marriage is all about do you ever wonder the suin is from the Russian noisy boil at the magic robber in Asia gimel are you sigh for his tests toy vlog abaca Easter oil manure of the oil Asia the greatest expression of the see ourselves with one spouse I serve time before Bernie Ali sure to sauna me a sandwich we have a mind under the chuppah he says Dima Kabul Alicia this is a time to strengthen our stolen bias by being Nevada at home in every situation and Ike patiska this attitude of adapting the others needs and accepting the others needs and putting oneself to the side that's not only deep essence of noise super oil but that's the side of another Mahavira and solemn bias and kinda hub on him no I specially saw shot that blew my mind the plastic in Versailles Sbrocco describes my Saira Bano as ish Ellie Kemper Zoe Sbrocco a bear of moisture is Shelley Kim now the moisture is not to replenish lo him and his one shot in the Madras impaired acute I love the end of all his doubted that is Charlie Kings going on the very island Sheamus knows llama but says the magic no another shot Maui Shelley Kim mix at Cebu LaMotta ish machette Sabula mile away Kim my she was half human half were you island and what does that mean Sammy Sosa lanta in oral sin Malamud Emma Maskull value ASA this is an incredible shot he says a person a true girdle doesn't need much covered and food and so much oil Omaha's has no meaning to him absolutely has no interest in it but a true God all knows had a balance this meter when it comes to someone else I have to give him covered I have to feed him well look at her from Aveeno have we gave them all off him was showing this hardware every day I'd be perfect of ramazan into food but someone else that's acid and a true God was able to balance and juggle the two for me it stopped sooner Valen but the enema Scottish actor dashing doctor be Sri Lanka that's shot me sets of aloo Matar ish Methuselah my like him he was an allocation Kim Kadesh porridge McComas mod a table but Mossad civil Amata bussiness ish was Nagar to everybody else it was kinda shocking Dawson getting covered and food and satisfying their needs even though famous cousin and I would it that's the big Rafi of moisture a Bane who the is chalet Kim the nice to go oil first attitude is it's not all about me it's about Yanam and it's not coincidental that were moisture passed away who succeeded him yeah sure Parsa spin cos we find why doctor plastic is shower rock boy so grouchy she awful the highlights connect it connected relationships with vehicle the Rashi earlier says so your servo called a clogged the edge of the feet i toy godless is accepting the other person even though you're on a much higher matter ager if it's important for him it's quite a shock induction for me that's kepler kite and i was story heard from reliable source the Buncombe in this magic avoid once saw a barren Kotla playing chess with someone and Byron is every moment was crazy psycho dodging every moment was Claudius role why is he playing chess with someone I mean it was simple that person had emotional problems he didn't get excited about a block kumara but he enjoyed playing chess the bathroom saw a bizarre incident but the ghost I was so initially Ken who understood that yeah gnomes need is my needs spits get lift type is accepting the other person what they are that's nice the boil and that's the sight of sullen bias that's the assertion of have borne him which might be challenged in our times because of the situation but we understand that the other person is not like I am but I'll accept them and I'll appreciate them and respect them for what they are so much is understanding the other person I once said this muscle imagine someone has all elderly parents they're basically self-sufficient but that time they were forgetful sometimes the mother will leave on the fire the gas range it could be dangerous or sometimes the mother takes medicine a second and a third time which is not safe sometimes the father is a little disoriented will walk out to go to school three o'clock in the morning he doesn't want to stop them from living alone she has a good idea how hire an aide for one purpose you don't have to cook you don't have to clean my parents could do it just watch them make sure that the mother doesn't leave the fire on doesn't take a medicine a second time the father doesn't work I'm builder tonight I'm hiring you for one specific purpose just keep an eye on what's going on no good idea you don't have to clean it off the bake cook nothing just watch them imagine three days later this aide calls or sterically this is ridiculous your father went out to shows three o'clock in the morning you always take your medicine again so the concerned son said I don't understand you I hired you for one reason not to cook not to bake not to clean I hired you to watch for just what you discovered that's your job they burst I'm hired us and put us into this world to be there for someone else the good times the pleasure we happen someone else you know read it you don't need a mitzvah for that but the tackles our lives is be nice to go oil the difficult times and the pay is very well the Martha Doney MA love sharing her aura of Allah Misha Ori Abbess born of the castmates otto we're here to help others and put ourselves in their shoes and feel very suffering and deal and accept their mishegoss and even though for us it's unimportant but that gap look tight someone called me every octave I guess he knew my personality he mamas made my young teeth he said in the past few weeks a group of all about them wealth dibala bottom started a movement that after we get over this virus to make smaller fasteners not to make lavish weddings to make small votes and over $500 bottom already signed on this Cabala and I tell you that's going to bring the end to our suffering when we as it Seeber rise to the occasion and decide to be nice to boil money could do so much money is synonymous with trade Somalian but in our times and post Corona money is natasha a snobbish people lost jobs people or spouses people lost fathers people are breadwinners this is what we need realness see our soil someone told me also we heard from the government is they're very concerned about post corona they're gonna be mad rushes to everything don't forget the world stopped for four weeks to be made rushes to doctors and dentists and shopping and wedding holes in it people with life's basically came to an abrupt halt and it's gonna be very challenging but for us that's the rule it's an opportunity of being Nevada of stepping to the side let someone else go first look at Nate Santa and I want to mention I guess you're talking about customers and priorities to all people I cause I'll tell Jesse Fennell ethereum parents put so much effort into raising children and getting them ready for the husana dumb entirety Marsh but repair a child for the husana everything has to be perfect how much effort do we spend on preparing our children for what's really the success of marriage of noise super oil of the suin of tithe League every Easter oil Minoru Roth we live in the dark described as the competent of the door I deserve it it's coming to me you know Carson has his list or the things that he deserves the gifts a shots of course initial Honora kinda watch at a menorah and estwick pushka and the list goes on and on what he has to get and the Karla has her think that she deserves is this helpful for a marriage that marriage is all about getting kind enough to tell you the word get is the wrong word in a marriage isn't married to all about giving and then contrast that to a story that I know of another caution who's constantly connected with netting the phosphates all all ice and he told his daughter on the day of the hopup he gave his daughter a number of phone numbers of I'm on ice and he instructed the daughter call up this woman and say my father asked that you give me a break I'm I hope a day because you have so much Jamuna and the girl said every time she called another mother the mother started crying your father said to call me that's training a daughter in what life is all about of thinking of someone else I know a father had told his cousin his son by the fastener don't just grab the people that are popular and to dance with take those that are neglected because you're about cineq about similar means you control simcha you could be spent similar you could give simcha that's the last thing thinner than what met what life is all about like a behind vulajin would say Leila anivia a la jolla granita think of others and it's a lot to say but maybe most important of them all which so much of a nod maha very and Festa depends on is learned a lesson that we saw above above bastrop what it means words I'm a face a bit varam how true it is high and be at loss showing how words can be therapeutic and words are healing and words are uplifting and words are rejuvenating we should never know the pain of someone who feels alone who feels that he can't make it but words can be that pinch William I have a friend who sank isn't he's a beloved merits tire he told me the story many times that he is where he is today because of a dime now in our society we don't even know what a dime is just a belt but he told me the story it was close to 40 years ago he was struggling he's a book on yeshiva struggling with a difficult problem and he push it fell apart he decided that's it I'm leaving achiever now 40 years ago was socially acceptable to levy Shiva sabaha it was a very wise decision considering the problem that he had the night that he decided to leave the Shiva he was home at night and he got a phone call from a book on the Shiva no this before the cellphone age the buck put a diamond to the pay phone remember that still and cold if um the Shiva and says listen I noticed you don't look good I don't know what your problem is and I certainly can help if I don't get problem is but I want you to know that I'm rooting for you and I care for you and I'm hoping to get over the problem and this was the right words in the right time and he decided I'm not giving up and it came back to the sheet of the next day and it's ready close to 40 years I would say I would say 30 of the 40 he's been mired with cetera because of a dime because in the face of its volume because someone that understood that is a high in beard lotion but it's loved Afghan a struggling burqa there are people that are very alone especially now locked into their homes it couldn't be one's parents or grandparents or neighbors and now we can't visit personally but a phone call a phone call could be feels numerous SMSF that I design before Basra or have Rousseau Amy Souza in Ain they are like the autumn all of him no Elijah Hamas when a person feels alone and even death is more desirable and a phone call could be that have Russa that replaces the miserable feeling of me Sousa you know we hear about the myths of pigeons William our hearts go out for someone in jail and what we wouldn't give for a locker the sea opinions through him is very overwhelming no but I'm gonna tell you another pittance for him when a person is overwhelmed and trapped with his own sorrow and he feels alone they best describe with the words about they named who dove it Hebei German who were a only mock here all got long as me many ain't dinosaur than I've seen no one cares about me no one's worried about me any might care all that money ain't arsanov sheet and then the person is experiencing the inescapable feeling of pain rubbish mock their odds may be based on sodium and then it then all you need is a few words all you need is a nice super oil a mask you love doll that sends a vote of confidence I care about you and I'm worried about you and like a sniper writes in her letter Y Ashley sour meets our show saw how those few words of a high in the forces it's the ultimate legends William nice gain I've seen a dying saved someone how a phone call is the Caruso that replaces the masseuse sir Hamza Heinrich had an uncanny ability of saying important ideas in aniline he once coined his own brace how call omnium aitsl covert to the play on words from a lawsuit of Hazael but everybody needs covered he didn't mean she she well she she covered means recognition a person wants to feel important and that's one thing that even the most successful wealthy brilliant person can give himself you can't give yourself covered how call omnium aitsl covered or as if as an issue would say yeah Adam and Daffy are left fully covered yet a tug that's what the doctor prescribes a spoonful I think today it's no longer a teaspoon it's a tablespoon and we could give that necessary therapy those words and we dare not underestimate what words could do I want to be do the words of the hello granny Erina in the garrison Shuba East has a lien robbing me I didn't see of mitzvah Sadako whose carpool awesome everybody knows it's a dacha and has said follow your duty Russia stimulus kasam they don't know the real meaning of meals Kassadin this way says it ms hotdog of a yacht even offline eh Adam Hills ik yoy become us Kassadin there's a wealthy person and ask him that could be giving sadaqa to be too infested but vindaloo is poor the India they must say guess he can't afford to give anything he's barely making ends meet by awesome by young you are doing even Horace has a darker yamino he has to dip into the endless reservoir of guests said the deburr the light cast of abalone fear uber rocks versa Gilbert sadaqa cashier join he could tap into the endless reservoir of custard body bore ovm rape it how you year arrive pollen he will have in a mirror that accomplishments the Igbo v-- ad their mice and toy him could die women are idea I should've been a demon oh man I'm a father in Vannoy sin Sadako that's what we need the see us oil tested the deeper and I must mention diverting for column the bisgrove once said if someone causes someone to stop diverting for a while Allah that could be a relative because I was source our greatest weapon today is outwits Fela we have to the Kenyan thing you da Verde for Haley Amma Israel divert it with a swirl a leg that have such service but it's all just with words with the proper words pacer it's a young tip of keep a Heyliger young tiff but pace occurs also the beginning of a long process preparing for slowest to make us in its effort believer hood that's really the prerequisite of all sartorial but I always wondered I guess it bother me is the right words how can you even be an ish echoed belay their hood there's a very wise statement if you have to Jules you probably have three opinions we're different just like well faiths are different our attitudes almond hug him how could we ever live is effort believer hood so I once saw toys as a monarchist of llamas alien I think defines what it means is Shepherd believer could stasis quotes and measures that when the young twelve-year-old sleigh my mother assumed the throne ash mode I wanted to discredit him and what his attempt of becoming they loved his role so as the tracer says he created a human being there are two heads and this two-headed human being came to Schlemmer and yes to Shiloh I have brothers and the father died I say I get whf two heads but the brothers say but there's only one body what's the lavash lamer two heads one body and twice isn't that say the end of the story if you look in the sheet the Mookie Betts is on the page so slammer with his heart my boiled water and then he covered one of the heads and suddenly pour the hot water onto one head and marmosets are both had started crying on my swamis mom you know the toll the eldest a Russian there ain't need entelechy is a hood true there's two heads but they both cry out one from the others pain it's one person and to me that's such a striking penetrating lesson you could have two heads you could have two different people with two different hats or one doesn't wear a hat or one with a yarmulke one way to keep us through God or one has long pays one has no pays one has a longer one has no beard you can have two heads that look totally different but if one help cries out from the side of the other head that's one contagious Russian to shoot the Russian the Aeneid okay I heard you know what it means Ishod believe a third not that were the same okay that's the EOP that's the splendor of Yiddish guide to partager fighters you sell of you have different min Hagen but when a year cries out with someone else's sigh whether he knows him or not that's ish a fraud and like the match that we began with that he'd not to to only look at this Burroughs who in collaboration her very Margus now he's a time more than ever to live with the unanswered that's the table I sure let me conclude with one more thought someone asked me recently there's so much going on is this a sign of mushiya i told my have no idea but i could tell you one thing this could bring mushiya closer and I shared with them avert the two of them Schism both Subic a certain female human said and I think it's very appropriate to define that safa sure we find the partial value area two seemingly unrelated incidents first light is my son fs4 with four he thought were the earth him for the Malacca an incredible mysterious nephesh and the end of the passage of light was saved dr. Mishon Wolfson based on an Isaiah it's not unrelated incidents light was destined to be saved was a nephew of a rum but he didn't have sluicin he wasn't deserving of it so they're banished from engineered a situation that it could be moister nephesh professor said he'll deserve the ghoul that he was supposed to have we find them in the end the parish mice it starts spying to look good like this Akula on its way and a terrible setback he didn't have to produce more bricks they can't do it and the shy trim the police took the beating serrata CEO samozang isn't said if it's going good why why this sudden turn of events so he said it was time at the cooler but they weren't deserving otherwise are you know a lot about disorder so the branch Lam engineered the situation that ye'd were able to be moisten FS one for the other and the ultimate mysterious necklace when the police took the building for someone else and to me was amazing two incidences in tarakudo Asia that the Garuda comes from mysterious necklace for the CR soil right for them I love him even for one another in difficult times maybe that's what's going to bring our gorilla when we are moisten air fish from the sea ice oil like I told someone when you hear some of there's a problem don't just press he became what the pastas not your tech pots do something someone has its own give McCall someone is suffering send them a few dollars whatever you could do but don't just let it remain with the crafts turn it into the superpower to see us oil and if we respond if we turn soul into facet if we turn it into our god oh if we turn solvent the revolver if we turn silent thoughts Allah will result to that the brain is level can we'll be nice to buy oil and I'll send us the ghoulish lame a behavior of your main domain