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Chesed of Hod - Counting the Omer - "Make space for others" - Rabbi Alon Anava
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so we just concluded the the week of
Nets up now we starting a whole brand
new week of hood and last week net South
we were concentrating on being
successful and victorious and getting
the power of meets a horn and so forth
now we're starting a whole new week and
the week is called hold and I explained
already a few times that hog can be
explained in two ways hold can be Hosea
meaning that I thank a being thankful
which is an extremely important
important media to constantly be
thankful for the good and the bad but
Hosea is also can be admitting coming
from the word in Hebrew lay hotdogs and
I explained that so many times that we
wake up in the morning what do we say
modern elephant Atma so I thank a shame
for giving me back my soul but you can
take it to a completely different
direction and say modern lilifer neckla
means I admit in front of you that you
are Malachi back I am you are the king
that gives life and you give me life I'm
not doing anything I'm a balloon of air
and if a shame decides to go like this
that I'm nothing
so I admit in front of the Kailash Baku
you are the master of the universe
not me I don't do anything here I am
literally a puppet you are the master
this is called hoda yeah as one way you
have the thanking another way you have
the admitting this week we're going to
focus a lot not on the thanking rather
on the admitting thanking me please
needless to say it's a no brainer you
have to be thankful and grateful for
everything the good the bad they're not
so good they're not so bad anything that
a person does for you you have to be
thankful and needless to say how much
you have to be thankful to the Kailash
go go on a daily base that's said and
put aside but we're gonna more focus on
the admitting part we're starting the
week with message at the hall which
comes to teach me something very very
simple yet very profound and extremely
hard to do that I have to admit to your
presence that you are in my life most
people don't want to admit that most
people they say
the life I am everything you I don't
know what you're doing here you just
here to bother me so I need to admit
your presence in my life I'll explain
everything I don't know it sounds a
little bit like what now what am i
admitting exactly I have to admit what
does that mean that I admit that I make
sure that I give you your space this is
not an easy thing to do because I always
look at my needs my space my desires me
me me I don't care so much about you no
no I'm talking right now no not you why
are you pushing so this is a very bad
media I need to now completely reverse
it and to start admit wait a minute you
also exist and you also exist and you
also exist and you have your thoughts
and you have your desires and you have
feelings and you have dreams and I'm one
of the people here I'm not me and then
the world is revolving around me so we
start by admitting that you exist and
you have room in my life
I can't run your life I can't tell you
what to do I can't expect you to do
things I definitely can't take advantage
of you I have to admit that you exist
the same way that I exist and you know
that means that I have to give you the
space to operate how you need to operate
and in most cases it's not necessarily
going to be so good for me because you
have to be you I can't oppose on you my
needs and my desires I kind of pause on
you my opinions I can't oppose any or
anything I need to make sure that you
have your space and you have to shine in
New York colors and that takes a lot a
lot of effort because I have to admit
that you also exist and you say eh I
don't agree with you I'm not asking you
if you agree with me or not this is what
you think and again we're talking here
in a very very general don't start
taking it to do details we're gonna
start dissecting the whole thing
throughout the week and because I know
there's a big argument by saying wait a
minute so how do I know who's what's the
truth here and I said that many times
there's only one truth in this world and
that's called the Toa
left OA is the truth not
opinions the Torah is telling me what I
need to do and how but I'm now not
talking about that I'm talking right now
that in my life I have a wife I have
kids
my parents have siblings have neighbors
I have co-workers I have many people
around me some of them I can tolerate
some of them I love dearly and someone I
can't stand them but we still my life
and they're gonna be in my life whether
I like it or not and even the ones who
are closest to me it can be my spouse
most people don't get along with other
people because you're in my territory
you're stepping in my my area of course
we live together we live in a society we
live in a community I have to start
admitting that I'm not the only one here
you also have your space what is the
admitting means that you can operate how
you are and if you like doing the
certain things that's you you can change
another person don't try to change
anybody it's the worst thing to try to
change your wife your kids don't they'll
never be how you want this is only maybe
in the army works that the drill
sergeant will tell everybody what to do
and everybody stands but it doesn't work
in real life like that if you're smart
you know how to let everybody shine in
their own color or play in their own
tune then that's where you get the best
sound of everything if I oppress
somebody I get nothing now how can I
really build a real good connection with
you that's based on honesty and love is
only if I let you be you I can let
demand you to be something now again
don't don't take my words out of context
and says wait a minute if the person
let's take just example one out of many
I am living in a marriage right now the
the spouse is doing a certain act that
is not appropriate I'm allowed to tell
them listen this is not appropriate
please don't do it
it bothers me it's not what I'm talking
about of course you have to have a
conversation with somebody if somebody
bothers you you allow to tell the person
please don't do it it's it's bothering
me but what I'm saying is that I cannot
try to redefine you to fit me because I
do not and unlike what you say this is
very very dangerous to a relationship
that I'm trying to overpower another
person and try to negate your existence
your desires your feelings
your dreams so hold the hostage chipper
hood is a very very important step in
the week of a hold so first of all in
order for me to build healthy
relationship that I need to make sure
that you have your space and I accept
your space I acknowledge your space your
existence where you standing and it's
very important that everybody has their
space in my life and you whether you
like it or not that's not your business
right now but everybody has to be who
they are now when it comes to this fear
of hold like I told you it's we're gonna
concentrate this week about the meaning
not the thanking thanking we left that
already what do I need to admit I also
always have to admit on one thing to
admit the truth you can't admit
something that is not the truth what are
you mate it's wrong so hold the
admitting is always the right meet on
the truth and I know we spoke about it
so many times especially in the topic of
takuna me dot and I mentioned that so
many times that the dominating student
of the result about sakharova behind we
tally has a book coach errick Lucia
gates of holiness I saw some
translations around
I don't know how authentic or how good
they are but nevertheless it's a very
powerful book and I highly suggest
everybody to to learn it it's not a book
of Kabbalah the fourth chapter is but
the three first three chapters are not
the Kabbalistic approach it's more of a
mousse our approach taught by a
Kabbalist but nevertheless open this
book and look at the heck adam at the
introduction he says something very deep
and very profound and he says the reason
why we came down to this world is not
necessarily to perform its votin to
learn Torah that's the air and the food
for my soul I came down to this world to
do one thing this called Hakuna Matata
to refine my characteristics that's what
I came down here the Torah and the
mitzvoth will give me the tools and the
knowledge and the ability how to do it
but I came down here are not refined
diamond which is my soul now sham says
here's a Toa
here's mitzvoth start refining the
diamond and when you leave this world
after 80 years
nine years you have to give the collage
before polished beautiful shining
diamond that's what I came to do here
it's called tikkun aminos tikkun means
to refine but the cool also means to
fine-tune you take now a guitar our
piano you need to tune it this is called
tikkun it's not the corners not
necessarily just to fix the words in
Hebrew sometimes can take you to
different directions so the coulomb
adult is tuning llamado taking my anger
and tuning it I need to have anger if
the kunafa who created anger it means
that it can be used for something good
everything the kunafa who created he
created for a purpose of to use it for
something good he created anger he
created pride he created sadness why did
he create such things
Shem created anger so when the yetzer is
bothering me I should be angry dance a
lot stop but you have to be angry did
Sarah know that somebody took a parking
spot and if a person has gather pride
this is not to say I'm so great is to
have no I was able to learn something in
to fulfill it to have some what is
called a hashida consider shipwright
have gathered that I was able to do
something and a Shem gave us jealousy
jealousy is a horrible sin but
nevertheless it says in the Talmud key
not so firm tobei ohama
when you jealous of a scholar it will
make you learn harder I want to be like
him I want to know it's so much like
that that's a good jealousy there's one
thing the collage people didn't create
I'm sure you heard the famous quote from
ABI Nachman from Brezhnev and Ravi nach
one from west of says any overlap
there's no despair in the world so
people try to interpret it by saying oh
don't worry when things go bad don't
fall into despair
ok that's a good thing but you know what
really he's saying he says why falling
the dispersion I said I shouldn't even
create despair and yoshio ah it's not in
the catalogue it's not an inventory on
the inventory you'll find jealousy and
hate and anger you're not gonna find
despair I shouldn't create it it's the
invention of the etc that makes you fall
into despair my Nachman says any osha
bola because it doesn't exist why do you
why do you fall for the deception of the
etcetera he invented something that
doesn't exist
he read today
and it's an illusion it doesn't even
exist him so everything in the collage
procreate is for me to use it for
something good even anger even jealousy
even hate so when I'm looking at
refining my MoDOT is taking all the
MoDOT that I have if I have a very
strongly data cast a lot of anger then
directed this power to something
positive
sorry getting upset because somebody
spilled a cup of water on the table or
somebody did something so nevertheless
in takuna me don't when the media first
starts appearing then let me say
differently every media will start
appearing in some type of a way every
attribute will at some point will appear
but when does it start appearing when
there's a glue you present when there's
a gluey I read a violation of love and
kindness that's the way to reveal the
media if you have something now in the
depth of the ocean how do you reveal it
you need to bring it up to the surface
it can be on the ground now two
kilometers into the water how do you
bring it up you have to bring it up to
the surface and then now I can see
what's going on here
so the me notes sometimes are hidden in
the depth of my neshama I need to bring
it up to the surface how do I reveal to
me that only through question that's why
all the mid note if you see every week
starts with lesson
Hester chibok Vova tested chibin it's a
hostage abit efferent and so forth
so why present Kostas it is that says
that is the side that gives and produces
love when you give and you show love
this is how you reveal things come now
to a child scream at him all day long
you're not gonna get nothing out of this
child give the child a little bit of
love a little bit of affection suddenly
a total different person it's everything
with your spouse same thing with
everybody if you're a boss in a worker
now be mean to the worker the worker
will be a worker like a robot to give
the work a lot of love and affection I
mean that's to hug the worker just
saying give a lot some respect some of
you see it's at all different individual
so the head is the giving side the
loving side that's how you reveal the
media now
hence it should be hold now we
press it then we have hold now put them
together the easiest way to refine
message abode is making space for
somebody else this is it if you know how
to make space for somebody else you're
on the right track to be very successful
individual you're not going to be
judgmental you're not gonna be angry
you're not gonna be disappointed because
you make space for another person I need
to know when it's time for me to be
quiet when it's time for you to talk
when it's time for you to take the
microphone Hochevar has such a bond is
making space to another person has said
is the power that will so to say suck or
pump or receive energy from the sphere
above it if you're looking at this field
now imagine the structure of the spirit
how its familiar to most people so you
have kept them on the top and then Hawk
Mabini and dad
so hokhmah is the right side beam as the
left side and that is the middle so on
the right side what do you have under
hokhmah if Crescent what do you have to
under Cass it Netta right we follow on
the left side and Urbina I have grúa
then hold right and from Quetta I have
dad
different your soul and mine would be
picturing it in your mind so hazardous
underneath hokhmah which means the
thesis is drawing energy from the sphere
above it that's where Crescent gets its
energy from Hawkman what does it mean it
means as follows there is a Mishnah
there's a few mission I owed that it's
asking who is the wise person now at the
summer we have accustomed to read
mission IOT of pikia volt and you'll
find this missionary art as you ahaha
who is a wise person one Mishnah will
answer however it analyzed the one yeah
I don't made Nicola Dom exactly there's
a few missionary out one of them who's
the hub the one who sees the future
what's gonna be bird who's the up
hello made me call Adam that can learn
from any person there are many times
that the Mishnah is asking who's a wise
person there is a mission al that says
as well ha ha ha make it at mekomo that
knows his face
I know who I am I know what I'm worth
and I know when to back off and I know
sorry to say that I don't want to
shut up now who's a wise person that
knows exactly who he is Moshe Rabbeinu
exactly who's his Moshe Rabbeinu can you
argue with motion ameno there was not
one person in history of mankind that
ever spoke to him face-to-face
that's motion event no can you argue
with that you can't argue with that
lo cam cam O'Shea there will never be a
prophet like Moshe I know some people
don't like that opinion but to most
opinion Moshe lebanner will always be
greater in prophecy from any other
prophet including Michelle so all the
other prophets prophecies all the other
prophets were receiving prophecy while
they were sleeping
mashallah be no is up right so to the
majority of sources it says that
Michelle will be a great prophet but
motional banner will be greater than him
in prophecy some opinion says no it's
not true we're not gonna get into the
argument right now but we're trying to
emphasize Moshe Rabbeinu ma Sherman you
know exactly who it is you think he was
the in denial he doesn't know that he's
a prophet he doesn't know that he's
Marsha Levine oh but you think he and me
he threw it in somebody's face well you
know who I am you know I I'm motion nice
to meet you here's my card motion libero
he know exactly who is so he knew his
power when he looked in the mirror he
says I am a shaman I am the one who
received the Torah and I'm giving an I
am the famous masha'Allah be no it
didn't affect him to become a poet he
didn't affect him that he's he goes out
of control left and he made him even
more humble but the person needs to know
who you are you need to know all your
virtues you need to know all your good
Meadows it shouldn't go up to your head
that you're so great and you also need
to know all your bad sides so the when
the Mishna says let's do a ho-hum who's
a smart person I'm a kid of mekomo know
when to you need to know when to shut up
when to speak when to put effort when to
not you need to know exactly I always
teach it to my kids and I try to teach
it to my students you need to know what
you good at if Hashem gave you talents
and you know that you need to
acknowledge I am amazing here don't go
now in the street that said you know
that I'm amazing that's already sounds
like an idiot but you you need to know
what you're good at cuz then you know to
know cash em gave me a talent
I need to apply it well I think I should
give you a talent in order to do
something good with it to another person
so I need to know constantly my place
and I also need to know that sometimes
you know you greater than me that's what
I need to be quiet I can't argue not too
long ago somebody came here and we were
saying something and anyways so I shared
the hahaha in regards to that thing and
it was an individual oh he came with all
sorts of the arguments and aqui aqui
aqui no I'm not accusation excuses and
also says anyways and and then one time
when I was on one of my trips he came
here and he started making a whole a
whole egg shy out of something and then
somebody told him here you know you're
totally out of place the rabbi said this
is the challah ha
he opened the books he showed you
everything now when he's not here that's
when you're coming and making a whole
scene you're out of place first of all
it's you talking in front of the rabbit
like that
second of all Wow who are you you're a
nobody
so what are you coming with your opinion
right now so why am I saying this
example cuz the persons W at a place so
you need to know your place sometimes
you need to know when to give respect to
another person went to honor another
person when to be quiet I'm saying it in
a vulgar way saying shut up but you need
to know who you're where you are and
when you are somebody big you have to
also act upon that so again going back
the Mishna says Ezra haha my Mikael at
mekomo you'll need to know your space
when I said that s it pulls its energy
from Hama the person that knows his
space means that he knows the space of
another person the Mishna is very very
wise it's very very sad to see that most
people don't learn mission and mission a
yacht and the Mishnah is if you read it
from the original doesn't have commas
and doesn't have stops sometimes you
need to put a comma in the right place
it changes the entire Mishnah and
sometimes the Mishnah ends two words
before it should so I told you already a
couple of times that there is a Mishnah
that says
not and I should not forgot it
Ezra Ezra as oh ah she is the Samia as
the war shield a symmetrical core
so the Mishnah goes as over she'll has
symmetrical KO who's a rich person that
is happy in his own with his own loss
but it's missing a few words to read it
the right way as the war she'll Assam
Arabic hilko shall have a bow that is
happy in the portion of his friends you
know jealous that your friend is
successful
did you know jealous that he has more
money then you know jealous that he's
doing much much greater so this is a
perfect example of the Mishnah cuts it
one word two words before it should and
again as she was america caution have
evolved who's the real world the person
that he knows to value and to be happy
for somebody else that he has a good
portion that he has success and so forth
here we have the same thing
the Mishna says as the waka paama who's
the wise person a McKillip mekomo that
knows his face but add two words
sedition mission commissioner doe s de
oaxaca who's the wise person imma kill
ethnic commotion Calvillo that he knows
that his friend also has a space did you
also have a space you also have to talk
and shine and you have feelings and you
also have a space but to negate
everything that is around me so the real
Siham the real smart person is
constantly looking where can I make you
be you not me overpowering you that's
very easy to do
I can overpower almost anybody you want
to be smart
let's see how I can make you shine next
to me you need to shine you need to
shine everybody needs to shine to me to
step on barrier on somebody it's the
easiest thing to do to me to move back
to now say now you you you grow you you
do good you take the mic this is a real
smart person that is constantly looking
where to first you you're more important
you know what he's smart because by
putting you in your right space
his face is being revealed
that's a motion of a no you think motion
of a Ben who was like no no I want to do
this I'm gonna do that now mashallah
many you have to be the coin you the
coin you have to be the judge you be the
judge you have to build that one code
that you build on kodesh when I know how
to make room for you to have your space
I'm a smart person because by default it
will reveal my space and that's it and
this is why we're headed is pulling
energy from hokhmah that you want to
apply the home on your their wisdom here
now to to I mean we have a whole week of
hold now we're going to go in a very
special journey because it's probably
one of the most important weeks of the
entire sphere ah is to know how to make
space for other people and the cloud
whatever what is one of the dominating
things is fill out the whole meal and
we're commemorating the death of the
24,000 students of Obi Akiva these were
giants in the Torah but still learn a
about the busy they didn't give it
respect to each other now you'd think
such scholars will that's what they
behave yeah even great scholars they can
get to a point that they don't give
respect
we don't take haircuts we don't they
make weddings we don't listen to live
music why because we're mourning the
death of these colors so even in spirit
ami what do we see here that we have to
focus on how am i giving respect to you
we have to correct what the students of
Albie akiva didn't do they didn't give
respect to each other that's what they
did long ago covered the busy so in this
period I need to start developing how am
i giving respect to another person even
though I think I'm greater ok so you
might be greater doesn't mean that you
don't need to give respect to this
person even if you're smarter if you're
more successful you're more rich who
cares I need to know how to give another
person their respect that's giving them
their space
and it can be even my kids some people
look at their kids they think they own
the kids I don't know my kids the
parents who are ignorant they try to
change their kids the parents that are
smart are letting the kids change them
this is a smart parents I look at my kid
I'm not trying to control my kid I look
at my kid and I see what is this kid
teaching me he's teaching me patience
because it's a little bit hard to
control and this kid is teaching me to
control my anger because he presses my
buttons and this kid is teaching me
patience and this kid is teaching me how
to love and how to give I'm not looking
at my kids as I have to educate them the
only thing that I'm ready to do is to
teach them to arm it's vote that's what
I'm obligated to do and a smart parent
looked as the kids I'm not talking about
kid when the kid is 15 the parent is 17
but when the kids are little young I
don't look at my kids that I have to
educate them to educate me they teach me
how to really love how to be patient how
to be fair how to play the right way and
so forth so giving respect and honor to
another person is not making me less
it's making me greater that I can look
at another person and I can be very wise
very smart very rich very successful and
and look at another person that maybe
money might be less fortunate if you're
smart you're looking at the good point
of that person this is my mind method
this is what I do in every person that I
look I right away look for where that
person is best better than mean
something I have my own healthy ego
let's put it this way me and don't with
me I have a healthy ego I know I'm good
at this I know what I'm good at
I'm not kidding myself I know I'm good
here I'm good here I'm good here like
you said before you were good is this
right I know what I'm good at
I'm not gonna throw it at somebody's
facing around so amazing but I also know
what I'm real bad at I a long time ago
came to conclusion and admitted this are
a real badass and this don't even get me
started so when I'm looking at other
people I'm not looking at where am I
better than him I'm looking where's that
person better than me oh that person is
better than me because this is this okay
that's it now we're even
you know what I used to do it for years
every time I would come to show I would
look where other people are better than
me because that's when you make it make
makes you real humble especially when
you come to pray in front over the
kadosh go home and sometimes I would sit
and show and somebody will talk on the
phone yeah we're trying to pray here and
then a person does this and a person
does that it's very easy to be
judgmental and every time somebody
do something that right away my feelings
of being judgmental will come up I will
right away shut myself up by saying you
know he might talk loud but he came
before you
you were late five minutes he came
before you so it's very easy to look at
somebody's negative part much harder to
look at somebody says he he has a few
negative things like I don't but look
how amazing this person is here and how
amazing that person is there and my way
of looking at every person is not how
I'm better than that person that's not a
good Meena is to find that person I
might be better here but that person is
a much better singer much better dancer
much better father much better educator
much better and many other things I
don't have these qualities so to
conclude the entire message of the hood
is that I need to apply a mitzvah that
we're now focusing on Rabi Akiva is
behalf Tala hakama of course we learned
that two weeks ago in the parish ah but
hold on hold on but if you will not
respect another person you will never
learn to love them and we need to love
another person now I know there's an
argument or people say how can I love a
wicked person so you don't have to love
a wicked person I'm not talking about a
terrorists are coming to kill us and
another person I'm looking out another
person that person desecrates you're bad
so then I idolatry or whatever I don't
have to like the person's actions but
I'm still obligated in liking the person
so because the Shemp created that person
I also 20 years ago with doing horrible
things but a person can do chuva so when
I'm looking at a person and I'm pointing
a finger that person is disagreeing
Shabbat right now this person is this
this person is like this person is
Gershon Allah I am not obligated to like
the actions I actually have to despise
the actions and I have to approve the
person against his actions but I can't
not like the person's so he's been so
when it comes to behalf the logic omocha
and i have to apply that and first of
all how do you love another person first
respect the person if I don't respect
another person I will never get to have
any type of relationship and definitely
not to love him
so again hold is going to be a very
challenging week because hold is when I
have to really
mint and admitting is very hard for me
to admit when I'm wrong and when you
better and you're smarter and you're
more successful and I did something bad
admitting is when you're really humbling
yourself but now we're starting the week
with message of the hood yes it draws
the power from home ah and I've started
using my home ah and like we said as oh
haha I need to give you your place when
I let everybody shine around me their
way then by default my place is defined
I'm not suppressing anybody everybody is
able to contribute in to affect the
universe in their way it's good for me
because I'm respecting you I'm giving
yours place and this is really wrapped
in Hakka Mohan and this is exactly the
tycoon we're doing for the students
that'll be a Kira that they didn't give
respect to each other so again I need to
know where I'm good at and where I'm
strong what my place is but I need to
know also what your place is when we
need to apply that in some type of I
mean we can apply everything that I said
in the last 20 minutes and we want to do
some type of a homework I constantly
have to look around me and to see do I
know how to give room for you
that's them that you should do that on a
daily basis not once a year on the
sphere of has the j-borhood every day I
have to look around me and to know do I
know how to give space for everybody
around me and if I fail then I have to
start working on the media and if I know
how to do it good tomorrow will be a new
challenge and sometimes it's with the
person the same person over and over and
over and I'm going to be challenged to
know how can I give this person the
place that they need to shine they need
to flourish
Florist as you say florist flourish
flourish they need to grow then it will
be them they have to be then don't try
to change anybody in any type of
relationship you try to change somebody
this is already a recipe of failure you
have to let the person be who they are
and you move yourself around the person
and you will by default find your place
follow the mission either of Ahom who's
the right person in knows his space you
know you need to know when to raise your
voice went to lower your voice meant to
speak when not to speak and to back off
when to give space when to let the other
person shine when your time is to be
quiet when it's your time to stand
strong you need to know your space
and that's knowing your strengths it's
not knowing your weaknesses and also
when you know your weakness you know
when to give space to another person use
the peasant use the comma the the power
of wisdom of hama to nourish Tessa
that's when the media starts shining
because if you know how to apply this
media in your life of hidayah of
admitting in every situation then you
really making space for everybody around
you you'll be the one who's benefiting
intra most a person that is sad and
suppressed and pushed your corner at
some point it releases that's what
parents don't understand when it comes
to kids you press the kid too much at
some point will release like a spring
and the more it's pressed the more it
will release strong sending in any type
of relationship and any type of
encounter if I push somebody too much at
some point it will release not
necessarily from that person but it will
be thrown into my face a smart person
says no it's ready I'll you do what you
need to do I'll work around you I'll be
dynamic around you that's a smart person
so we have a very interesting week to go
through we want to know how to apply the
entire week but how the first sphere on
the Heston Chiba hold in this case or
crested demon attack that's how we bring
the sphere out to the surface with less
it how do you do the rest how do you
play the castle bring bring the energy
from the sphere about classes which is
Hama be smart my father gave me the best
advice I could give me when I was a
teenager and he told me in this world
don't be right be smart if you're smart
you know how to deal with situations if
you constantly fight to be right even if
you're right who cares
you be smart so now we're starting this
special week it's the week in the middle
by the way where we're three weeks
behind three weeks up front
we're right in the Macondo and the week
of the middle and the peak of this week
Hajj abroad this is of course like
bombing the day that Rabbi Shimon bar
Yohai the pillar of all pillars decided
to leave this world so we see how the
entire week of hood is the middle of
everything it's
what's called a mood at average the main
pole that everything is leaning on it
to go to depth more in this week what
you need to apply life will become much
more easier to deal with challenges will
be much easier to overcome because I
know how to put things in the right
place I don't get disappointed so much I
don't get angry I don't have
expectations I learn from other people
most people don't know how to learn from
other people so I gave one example that
many how I like to learn for my kids
some people will have the talent to look
at every person and to take something
and to learn from them did you know who
has that now with the million me call me
lambdai sculpting Tara Dominic says I've
learned from everybody even from a
little fail even from a person went
against me and learned from everybody
even for my enemies that's a smart
person so we want to now get into this
week in a lot of the right energy
because this is where we can actually do
the real ultimate Tikhon for what we're
mourning for the 25 24 thousand students
of Akira
that's why too many opinions - Ken Aziz
they go all the way through outdoor mats
parties by like bomb and that's it we're
done we did the tikkun back to party why
because now we did the tikkun by the
week of hold if you didn't do it by that
by now it's not gonna work out if you
didn't were able to do it now for 33
days to be able to apply some type of
respect to another person you're lost
case but I'm joking of course nothing is
the last case we learned that yesterday
nothing is ever lost but the point is we
have an opportunity not only to refine
ourselves also to do tikkun that that's
why we're doing that this is the reason
why we commemorate their death to do a
tea kun kun is a rectification and a
refinement masada shame we should merit
to mamaj go into this week and take the
maximum out of it so I can be able to
really finally be able to get to the
point of true humility of like Moshe
Rabbeinu that he humbled himself by
humbling himself the Kenosha who took
him up to levels that nobody can reach
that's what the Rambam says her spirit
at Seneca make yourself small and humble
Venus aha McCallum the kadaj Mahal will
rise you to the level where you need to
get don't try to get to a level that you
don't belong there it so happened to
Adama Lee Sean
he tried to climb levels way too fast so
he fell that's the reason why everything
has happened like that so we can see
what happens when you try to climb to a
level that was the wrong turn you and
Hashem do that moshe of a banner was
very very calculated he humbled himself
the kailash mahal ready elevated him
when I'm trying to go way above my level
that's where I fall when I humble myself
that's where my successes and the
humility they they are Nawab is when you
admit only when you admit when you admit
model I met I admit the truth
you're becoming a clean vessel for the
kailash bajo to elevate you Masada
chambermaid we should have a successful
week and weekend mama refine ourselves
from the core so we continue because
later on we have still the net Sahana so
the man who this is the final part of
the of the polishing so we really kind
of like in the middle we had peasant
woman develop before now we we finished
nets up we're going into heart Boca Shem
we're doing well in business shame shame
should make us very successful and
everything you do
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