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Summary:Hurting Someone's Feelings. Is It Ever Permissible? Rabbi Yakov Zev Smith
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Summary:Hurting Someone's Feelings. Is It Ever Permissible? Rabbi Yakov Zev Smith 13 Sivan 5782
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we learned today based on that you saw
it but
they were besides the israelites divarum
it seemed like most of shaitan hold is
also a special love of habanes ponem
even in private
that's something that's more than a nars
divine it's more painful that a person's
face color changes
now this is even in private but problem
there's an additional
concept of english
and maybe even jericho yava but
albania's panem and i love is really i
is a higher level
now
we learned this from the fact you have
to give musa in private when the softest
way
criticize the action not the person like
the says pick up the person and just
talk disparagingly about the action that
he did it doesn't pass for this type of
ishmael
the makairis of melbourne besides
joseph and his brothers his voice
is worse than mothers and that's why the
mighty shamrock is is
faulted for lush for the tsar that he
calls up even though he wanted to bring
out
them
it's worse than with seeker we have to
shot him and they were shining one shot
is because he won't do true but he
thinks it's just a joke that's the shot
that we saw from erina and also a shot
of the taj bits that it there it's that
that
bear a bad word
a melbourne less the deeper raw is
kashiya
called the guy says
according to twice
is
now if there's no
the shiala by tom or something a little
more makeup by tumblr but in theory upon
them later
it's
when there's no asa to be my someone
so then we said the cloud of
that in every battle right
which is
six examples
myself says if there's no other aids
with goodness then you have to take a
more severe approach
in the in the chats of malbec
why is it muttered it was so mahmir
because here there's no other choice but
you have to be careful approach with
caution because a miscalculation
is a person is left with the terrible
available we saw hashem this god was
punished miriam was the mayan but if it
was a slightly
wrong heisman then you're left with the
aveira
do it right but if you need it
then even if there's no
if this
even if it's not going to help there has
to be at least a macho to register
protest when isla shanhara being said
you have to stop it and even if it means
album the
speaker berabin khazar sashats talking
is a roy divina right saya
and it has to be stopped with naimus it
doesn't work but kyphus
because the problem is the zero there's
no zero tolerance attitude and that's
the solution the same is true regarding
kriya satora
about kyrie that makes a mistake you
allowed to tell them to correct it you
suppose them to correct it but come in
the right time not later
and basically the valkyrie should know
that he has to prepare but otherwise he
will be corrected even the after because
the end of the day that's what the
people want to hear they have thorough
being laid by the valkyrie
is dining
and every childhood
or children is dean and a fascist a
rebbe or a parent to say something that
could destroy the child and i'll always
remember that so it's the dean of the
fascist
but we have to make decisions and you
have to think
not for me not for my prestige or my
position or my
mechanic i have to be in control it has
to be what's the right thing what's the
rats on hashem
talmud has to know that he can't do some
things and it has to be
addressed properly
when a mechanic a parent is angry it's
not the time to respond
delay it
it is an outburst berabim and needs a
ticket
in the most gentle painless way but
there has to be a protest
it's good to say this was wrong and i'm
sure you don't need to know why it was
wrong it's definitely wrong you
understand why it's wrong and this way
you could somehow save a little bit of
the dignity of the of the balaveda but
if that doesn't work there has to be an
explanation what's wrong because
to put up a list of those that are
punished is
lacking in as a heroes can't say it's
wrong but it's definitely not right and
better to contact each person that's
being punished but just to do it because
it's convenient it's not really a good
henna
the aloha is applied to a cotton
one's own child one's own talmud is no
special mechanic parent easy pass
with wife it has to be even more care i
say wife spouse husband to wife or vice
versa that's the school of fashion is
when there's a happy shovel
the the basic point is to think before
we talk
because sometimes we have to make the
right decision it's challenging
but basically a mistake is not there's
no room for mistakes
so like we saw some some some are choice
of
and
the heter on perm is not a heck of a
permit obviously that's wrong and
basically when a person thinks the
worshlem will see that bola thailand and
be messiah noisy