Daf Yomi Bava Basra Daf 129 by R’ Eli Stefansky

[Music] good morning so on porim I received this from a Yesa guy C ble unbelievable meat board that he made himself with a letter that says de no words can express my the amount of a that I can't read it so well you MD y I'm truly a different person now I'm truly different person still going strong if you happen to be in Chicago in 10:31 stop by the wedding so he's a huge part is is a huge part of this year came many many times and I just want to show you I don't my buttons are not there okay I have to do it like this Bo here goes this is the [Music] wedding it's in Chicago that's awesome this there's opposition in Chicago a guy came over him and said could you please take that down I'm serious they put I I had a little during they put me on the you know we did a video he says you know somebody asked me if we could take it down said no but I want to show you what happened his father-in-law is Yankee fer I found this picture this morning this is yane fer one of the first shum I ever gave in Chicago back in the day I don't know if it's the first year but I guess this is the beginning of Shas or something like that it looks like that's uh I gave a Shear in this place in this room in that exact room for eight years straight eight years so this is our himself during the huh how do you know one of the many amazing things about this year is how you have so many different types of flavors of Jews participating and how you so non Jud nonjudge judgmental and respect everyone's particular ideology the video showed about the two young South African boys who were accidentally mixed up at the hospital after birth reconfirmed to me to to my personal belief that most of what path we Cho in life is based on our particular circumstances upringing and not by objectives oh when did you get back now wow wow now and now by objective choices we make being raised in Atlanta Georgia over 70 years ago when there was no such things in Orthodox JW in Atlanta and growing up Orthodox home seeing an orth not even seeing Orthodox Dr until I was B mitzvah this is absolutely no fault of all my friends that grew up and Contin to live a secular lifestyle thought of being sh shabas or never entered into my mind conversely someone who grew up in a very sheltered Orthodox Community never considered living a secular life we always remember that recognizing that had we been switched up birth to different parents and brought up in different Lifestyles we would be totally different than we are today we'll be much more sympathetic and understanding to other people's Lifestyles and as I think you hit the nail on the head when you said that all the arguing we do with other people will probably not be successful changing their current Lifestyles and as I think if we always remember that be much less judgmental on other people learn to respect their Lifestyles even though we we may not agree with it think this gives a deeper meaning to what said think that we can learn from the fact that Tor points out the uniqueness of both and that did not follow the path of the people who were in their Community but they chose to go against the crowd and chose a life of righteousness we all continuously talk about the need for AK it is only if we see that in the fact we've done approve your multicolor participants thank you so much for creating building such a wonderful family we Contin D for you pray that you'll be have unlimited success and continue to grow this amazing family everyone loves Ellie referring to in parenthesis not Raymond David Gray Miami Beach proud mdy family member thank you for your amazing clear share with all the humor I immensely appreciate the tremendous preparation work put your St your staff every day of the year may to give just clarify be done by Tuesday but can't be done so any didn't do bous yet after as perel's rule they complete the current par on any given week they can go back and complete bous the is done out of order is also good as long as it's done before s t your talents is you ready said you I'm not listening it was an honor and a privilege being what did you say no I don't think so it's not to do it by to do that week what do you mean [Music] no no no no it was an honor ande being with you in the Suka shaba seeing how much goes to work and putting the sh together to the editors and of course our in the D we must be very busy on y you went B he gave a third cheer it was ah it was actually great to meet in person many of the characters of the shear we see on a daily basis he's talking about they came to the Su and are integral part of the shear there's only one the only person who's not in the shear was well there's a bunch of them who didn't come to the Su not sure why the true people of the sh they all came a few a few who didn't come even to one cheer during suus one of them was Seltzer you can imagine my surprise when arriving back in London after y I saw he was scheduled to speak in my schs start the day start but why is that alarm going off okay start the day the to way that's what it's called is right off the plane here he is I chatted with him afterwards we both agreed it would be a good idea for him to be miked up during the shear so we can actually I don't want to read this email anymore maym give you the strength to spreading to to all parts of the world for many more years to come gold green London Ah that's why he's new to this year here's SZ himself and I found shender over there so you can tell so what those are our tables no they're similar okay very nice was good have a seat who came up with the mic idea you or the guy you know many people this they don't they don't say it about you though [Music] that everybody heard for some reason we don't need a mic for that good morning reelly this morning while waiting on the LA I like that a lot take it all out on him leave have to have cover he came with some new energy some new self resect is that the T way is that the T way respect for the re the this morning while waiting for the Long Island Railroad the l iir r I saw someone watching the D I wanted to share with you regards AP skorski West H New York here he is watching the D the sponsors none for the save and Speedy return of all the hostages guys on Zoom health and strength for rebell thank you family lake with New Jersey because the best from his family family in honor of the Joe Shar sharp he's been around a lot heard his name email sponsor starting a new year of you could start today it's also one of the long ones but it's all about animals and safaris and I asked this question at my shopas table you could ask this question I ask this every year what else was on the table besides people garbage and animal what else what else he got it he got it sh but he maybe was he was he a person okay I said what else besides people no he's a giant he's a separate giant separate category yeah well was outside right holding on okay very thick we're not learning Kish now very thick skin welcome what's your name you look familiar did I meet you once ah okay that's what it is from where where are you har B Harvard New York okay that's it and you brought a friend from leat Tor two what's your name isai from sh who else oh another guy another Lear guy from Seattle is it true he said he got six guys to join the fomi is it true it is true wow okay hopefully wow oh and here's he works in your school doesn't he Ashi he's a big big part of our Shear amazing also yeah the goras came in thank you very much we all got it's kind of small travel travel it's good you can see you can read okay good you'll appreciate the real gar the ones that you're learning from every day all right say we're holding all the way in the bottom so I think if we want we could do a quick this will be nice very quick of all the that mentioned that if a person says to someone you stole my slave and he says you sold it to me you gave it to me but if you want you don't trust me you could swear and take the slave back if the guy swears he gets it back and you cannot say well I was messing with you there's no such that you could swear and take the other Al that we learned is that if somebody dies and he leaves over metalin and there's he owes money that's it you can't get the money back but if he owes money and he left over real estate the guy that's owed money could take the real estate what if he left the guy that owes money left over slaves typically speaking the gamar slaves in real estate have a heish they're the same so we learned slaves in real estate are the same and therefore if he left over slaves you could take the slaves argues remember says you cannot take slaves why does anybody remember the the yesterday why slaves different because they run away it's not then we had about what is that oh Jonathan stefansky and Ellie stefansky that's but we're brothers we're brothers so you have brothers on the top the brothers had Sons those are cousins and then you have cousins once once removed a second cousin which is aishi can he testify to uh to to Shen and said yes okay now we go back to the to the chart for a second um then we had the guy guy that was he could see and then he became blind and he wants to testify about what he saw when he could see so R says posle we had three sheas that said no if it's real estate he could testify how large it is and clothing and and and gold and silver and theug that up just to remind the was this this thing he says about a small child he says this is my is he believed or not believed says believed says not believed then we had I want my wife to inherit like my sons the same amount so she gets inherit he said if by the time you divide the yusha through more Sons he had more Sons you have to divide equally with all the sons you you can take off your tie also it's fine you just got off a plane yeah you got you fly with your red tie is yeah what is that for the [Music] elections one day one day maybe you'll run you'll run here and then we have this case of a very interesting case a guy was sued for 100 he admitted that he owes 50 that's a typical he has to swear but then he produced a that he doesn't know anything so he said no nevertheless he has to swear Because by the time that he admitted when he admitted he didn't know that there was or was before they therefore he's so now we have to go through this is like this yeah nice Kar all seven Boom by the way I don't know if I showed you this this yesterday I forgot to put this in you want why not we'll start off the she with a little it made into the edit this is um if you have three guys that um that are cattle her murders they are oh some tat also okay whatever you got the idea now this is this is not to get anything but I think it's didn't see it didn't see it so this is okay next so says the like this five lines from the [Music] bottom in all seven of these things is like like said all seven father you see the second one is that you could if somebody dies and leaves over slaves the lender could go after the slaves and what's the problem with that the problem is we passing like so says theor what we have to do is look at the chart for a second we have to do this have to switch it to and therefore okay that's how you have to say in fact agrees to you so then what did you if you're saying this case that the is like ra that you could go I'm sorry said this this is a case that you could testify and R said even in this case yeah back R said this is okay sh 3 to two and then R added even a three to a one they're very far away they're Brothers it's the it's his father's father's brother versus to so says no I don't have to tell you that that like Raba when it comes to this because R is not arguing on Raba R is just adding not only is a 3 to2 but even a 3 to one they're not arguing by the way I have to pause for a second this gives me I could say the words I'll never comprehend it and I don't think anybody else will comprehend it imagine if I ask you to take a test now on 10 the last 10 in how long would you have to prepare for that 10 to do well really really tricky questions the the KY of MD yesterday took a test on 1,750 da again 1,000 7 and that's every single D from the beginning of sh till today not only that that the day before that one of the guys in the K took on all of D test and not only that that the day before that bunch of guys from the K I think four of them took the bantum test on like a thousand plot on and the day before that also the same V does two days straight over 10 hours of just answering and answering and answering through the sh and who's my re who's my made a wedding this week during the test and last night the one of the guys from the Kim he threw sh in his house and then I went over I said how do you do it he says I have to tell you don't maybe don't tell anybody but my wife had to take down the Suka seriously he's like they they it's unbelievable just mind to think about it so I'm very proud of them there is a sponsor for the co no oh there's no sponsor for the co good call this is a very very unique Kyo I'm very proud to be part of it to learn with them and they helped this year a lot they live they they learn in this room it's unbelievable okay so T I'll tell you this it's a big and uh at least one of them Jacobs has a regular memory like all of us in this room you want to say okay some of them have you know photographic and this and that but he works and works he's m a hard worker so H you see the still here I don't know how it stays available for you every day but it's here come come sit down gar is you waiting for coffee what's going on okay so that was that next oh and I need to tell the I keep forgetting I always tell that you make a special little for today you should probably be careful I don't know what is exactly not to do it too close to shabas you know that sort of thing so what do you do tomorrow tomorrow you have to add you have to add a food I don't know if everybody knows this you add a food to shabas if your wife always makes Meat and Fish add another type of meat add another something special just throwing it out what no no it's completely different two and three is is is is easier than one to three right sayu you mean Raba rababa agrees to R yeah talking about rabaab is the one that said all seven things yeah oh why didn't he say it I hear why didn't RAB if he I don't he's saying if he didn't argue good I think it's a good question yeah you hear what he's asking he's asking IFA actually agrees to that even a one3 how come he didn't say it it's a biggeri marashi said a very uh interesting thing when we when we read we saw like what is he talking about he's saying that a grandson could testify about his Grand father and that's what you're trying to say that the is like is not like that no nobody thought for a second that a grandson could could testify about a grandfather so why does the say that is like what about those great cases that a blind person who saw things when he wasn't blind he could come to B and testify that the clothing was this size according to I saw the I saw the block of gold I weighed it weigh three and a half pounds he testify what he saw so if and Raba argues on that he says no no no when you testify you have to be a seen person when you see the thing you have to be seen obviously and when you testify you have to be seen what happens in in the middle that's not important we already them up they have to be sing in the beginning and the end hell number one is to exclude which is let's see the picture again why not I love this picture person has many kids and he says oh this two-month-old is my meaning all the other kids are he's believed and says he's not believed so that's what it's coming to say that all seven that we say to say that is not in case number five and in case number seven where a person is sued for 100 he admits to 50 and then come Adam and say that you don't know anything and that what are you talking about he has aam he's a he did a big by admitting he shouldn't have to swear at all is not like him he does have to swear I have a little bit of a here similar it's kind of repetitive not very but best friends over here this is all part of it this is all part of this year little rib this way a little this that way I saw you like making up with him in the corner of my eye I saw something what was going on over there what they are brothers the no no no he's not a baldman these guys are balans next time so we said like this we said and said just this is the whole basically really these words right here and I just I just found myself doing this for a second I was I was going to come with the garbage vest today but I forgot it at home seriously and then I thought to myself wait a minute this has everything to do with the p there's a b whole floor of garbage in the in the Tava and I don't know we have to tie it in somehow some anyways so makes a lot of sense all half what half most of America 50 something per of America garbage okay Matana as he's leaving so says the listen to this it's unbelievable a guy says I'm giving you a gift and I'm giving you yha he says two two words two things to one person what's the it doesn't matter the says it doesn't matter he says mat first mat last mat in the middle it doesn't matter they're all good check this out here all of them it doesn't matter if he said mat and then that's what the mishna says why because let's just this is the whole the word yusha is illegal you can't give yusha yusha the giv a person dies it goes yusha you can't say I'm giving you yusha you can say I'm giving you a gift so may if a person says a silly thing and a and a true thing I'm giving you a gift which is real and I'm giving you R which is against we ignore the yusha or we explain away the word yusha we say he meant a gift okay so let's just see inside and that's basically the whole and then we can go home what does it mean beginning end in Middle the the like says over here there's there's a gift in the beginning and then he says all the way at the end yha gift you see he did a little bow bow in the beginning yha at the end if he says the word first give second does he says the word in the beginning a sandwich he sandwiches terrible stuff with good things like in the middle this all holds true when it's one field one person the guy messes up says the wrong word he says the word of yusha no no so we ignore his word of yusha ah here we have a little bit of a picture one word one person one field he says two silly words I mean one silly one one good one so we knock away the bad word and you're left with the good word which is gift gift is good now we have three or four sheas here we have different there's different um possibilities here what permutations permutations permutations pay only someone that speaks both languages know what I just did right but if it's one person in two fields and he said something not here oh oh maybe it's over here the F the top one is one field one person and he said yusha gift F what happens if it's one person like the you see the middle line it's one person with two Fields the bottom line is two people and one field he's trying to give half a field and half a field with two different linas or two Fields with two different linas take field a as a gift take field b as ausha let's think about it for a second cuz this is tricky cuz if you look at the chart it's going to be tricky what happens if there's one person two Fields think about it the guy says I want to give you field day as a gift fi be as what's that what do you think that should be what he gets one excellent not like it says in the chart sort of it says that's what the says means the second field but you get one and we have to be clear about that what about on the bottom when there's one field and he says half the field is a gift to Ru half the field is a to shim what's only the first half goes to second half doesn't go to sh so let's see inside one person two fi it doesn't work in other words the bad L doesn't work the word of yusa doesn't work the word of works the word is so powerful to explain away the bad word of of yusa that it works that what if one if one person is getting two fields and the second field is a l of yusha we're going to explain that yusha doesn't mean yha yha means a gift now what about two fields and two people Shimon is getting a separate field Asha does agree that everything flips over no in this case no so if it's one field divided in two to two people and the story here's the problem over here he says it's good why because he used the of and everything is great so you have a little bit of a the opposite we just said a second ago here let's just see we have the next one oh here it moves guys look at this if there's one field one person obviously he's kind of one two Fields one person he gets one field two parts of a field only half goes to that guy now RI says okay that's razar says check this out it's important to remember because we just read an opposite word to all these three cases it's good we translate the word yusha to mean a gift and everything is good besides if it's two people in two Fields the problem is we just read in the name of Robin I mean in the name of it just says here everything is great you telling me what's going on here and also is a contradiction one of them I could do away with this an contradiction but one of them is a big problem so I I I did this this morning hopefully here here we go you see we have against makes no sense according to Accord toar all the you say Matana everything works according to R and they're both in the name of according to said specifically that in why does it say Raza there yeah yeah in Raza sorry yeah you sayha and so what do we do the answer is very simple take a look at the bottom the reason it works is there only one person yeah there's two fields we say both fields are beautiful look at the bottom it's not addiction Rob was repeating from his a different case two people two Fields doesn't work when you [Music] say what do we do with this let's see if I could get oh not this one [Music] sorry where's oh [Music] here is a contradiction he's saying about himself me we both heard different things argument in what said okay what happened oh the lock button left bottom oh correct beautiful thank you how do you know this stuff just does it every day at night galdi thank [Music] you now finally we have a fourth is falling asleep what's going on here a lot of people are up I don't know what's going on here it's interesting listen to this one makes it complicated in other words he says it's not as simple as you think you use the ofha very good it doesn't help me only if you do it in a very very specific way listen to this you have to say it in this exact Lo these two Fields so he says then he says what's gift and and he sandwiches it with the says if you say if you put a sandwich you sayha and in the middle you say Matana and you say Ruben and shim and the two Fields so the word in the middle explains the two words on the sandwich and those two words become gift but if you mix it up in a different way you say Matana yusha no then it's not going to work is going to work to the person that's closest to that word to the word of Matana that's it but it's it's a complicated way of seeing it's not oh you said the word b whatever I don't care where you said it right we said it all the beginning doesn't matter where you say in the beginning of the sent end of the sentence middle of sentence you're explaining what you meant no says no when you say the word Matana has to go in middle of the sandwich it has to be the peanut butter and jelly the the bread on the side that says that that's that's y that gets explained only if the middle is the hamburger is the meat that explains to you then everything becomes one big not in this case he says I don't know and this everything we just said is a old so let's take a look let me see if I can find it here check this out here this is RI the name of so let's see if we can we see this when is it when is it green the top one is when it's one person one field like the second line who says this what is this match this match is exactly this that's on the screen okay so that's old says like this check this out you see rear here everything is good one field two people two people one field it's all good even one person to like this chart it's all who does that go according to so matches this okay [Music] it's okay they all say two Fields two people people no this is important to remember because this is the next little what say the worst worst case what's the worst case two Fields two people two different languages I'm giving you field a I'm giving you Ru field a Matana I'm giving you shim another person field B Yus even in that case everything is a big Matana the word Matana I can tell you how I know this the a guy's going out of town he says you know you could all relate to this I know you can relate to this I at least could relate to this I'm going out of town take $2 make sure you have enough food for the next two months no come on T you know what I'm saying this guy is a little bit of of a stingy guy says give my sons one shekele per week now it takes at least two shekele beer minimum takes two shekele to live thear says you need a s you need two let's see if anybody can repeat this I'm going to try to do this without messing up a guy tells his father T I need five bucks he says four why is three not enough let me give you two and he goes into his wallet and takes out one and says give me change repeat that yeah father yeah give me five bucks for the week he says four why do you need four three is enough I'll give you two okay I'll give you okay okay I'll give you two here's one and give me change it's not as simple as you think okay I mean I love my father dearly Mish love him but when we lived in benra I they were so poor B so poor you can't even imagine the the the anos and you'd send me You' say go go to Raba Street I remember specifically for what it was delus you guys have no idea but there are people that do not use Electric in Israel because it's done by Jews on chabas so they use generates today generates are very popular but before they became popular and even today I remember using this they would use these blue tanks of fuel and they put like a little um it was a blue tank of gas and then it had a little like a piece of cloth on top and they would light the cloth and it would give a little bit of a light it's called the looks and he would hang it in the dining room thing and it would flicker the entire meal it was no volume and he says I ran out of my lookes you go to RAB they didn't sell it in our neighborhood can you go so I said okay can I have money for the bus he said bus I don't have money for a bus walk it's 120° in Ben I'm not anybody been there in the summer I'm walking from to this and you know can I get a drink it wasn't even a sh no drink no I you're not going to get ices and ice cream on the way nothing you're going to go there you're going to come back you'll drink when you come back that's how it was and then he would say give me the change in you make sure didn't take anything for myself anyway happens to be a very large person when he had when he had later on whatever but in those was M he didn't learn in K he's a person that always refused to take money for learning so he learned at home and my mother whatever she did she was a teacher ner right so an American family you know what I'm saying we had a car in America with this you come to we were poorer than the Israelis Manish because the least their fathers went to and they had the 200 she that we didn't have anyway if this stingy guy says no no no oh no time out time out I missed something one a week but they need two to live on what are they going to die the guy in chargeing the money gives two a week but the father said one no what he meant is don't don't splurt don't let them buy clothing and and cremos remember the cremos oh the cremo The Little Fudge on top and the cooking in the bottom if you behave for a full week I'll give you a crbo the this anyway so don't buy that stuff the beer minimum because he didn't mean to kill his kids he meant give him the beer minimum so give him two however he's very specific no don't give them anything give them less than they need one you only give a now makes a lot of sense fits in and if he says and if they die yeah yeah of course they're gonna die you give them one CH a week they're gonna die so pay attention to what just happened there it's very important what is he saying what's what's a gift he's mom is generous he's giving a gift to his sons half what they need and he says if they die when they die I want all the leftover money my bank account to go says the case a case of a person saying two languages and to two different people and two different fields because here's a a pouch of money that goes to his kids and here's another field another pouch of money the extras that go to another guy so we have two people two Fields two languages and what's the it works so says you see I'm right two languages two people two Fields you don't say oh it's not a yha it is it's a Matana everything is great it's it's a Matana throughout everybody everybody gets gifts the kids in the beginning get a gift a shek a week and the guy at the end gets the leftover the bank account as a gift not as yusha so you see that if a person uses two languages a gift in mat and it's two different things yeah it's a little complicated it's like it's a far-fetched um comparison but the makes a comparison there if he said whatever you have left over I have to preserve a bunch of the count so that the third guy can get money here then they only get a shekele a week as the it's like two Fields why is it like two Fields the money that goes to the kids and the leftover money that goes to the other gu it's like another field it's like another account it's like two different people it is two different people you have the sons that are getting a shekele a week and you have this other guy that's getting all this other money and you see that the of Matana helps to convert the top word of this the first word of the that says that that he said turns into says you know what I have an answer that'll say that it's not a r i have a great R usually when I have a great r i don't tell people how to contradict my R I said oh look I'm I'm smart I came up with a good R here it's the same you know what I'll do you a favor I'll tell you what the answer is here let's just so that maybe I just did a little bit of a visual here sorry did it go away here it's not a it's not a Yoshi but I'll have to do for now he says on child on child number one give him a shek a week he says on the other guy he should have a yusha after the guy on the right dies so he said two and it's two like two different fields so says the no no no you didn't what's going on here the guy on the left is not a stranger the guy on the left is actually one of the brothers he happens to hate the son on the right so he says you know so to speak he says give him one shekele a week that's it that's all he's getting one sh that's his zusha and when the guy on the right dies I want everything to go to the guy on the left we learned that you could say that holds that if you have two sons you can give everything to one son we're not talking about a gift we're talking about a yusha that's why he said yusha you can't prove to me that over here it's a everything converts to a of gift that everything is a gift why because the guy on the left has nothing to do he's just a friend is getting a gift even though he saidha no that's not what happened there what happened is the guy on the left is getting everything as yusha so it's no comparison to a is where he's giving a gift and he's giving a yusha over here this the guy on the left happens to be a yish he's not getting a gift he's getting a yusha not that the lon of gift that he said to the guy on the right converts the on the left into gift that's not what happened here I love when people give me these big eyes what just happened what are you saying I'm not repeating it again fine I will should I should I repeat you got what yeah now love sponsor this is a great break on I know I put it on the sheet let's do it off the sheets oh wow hold on ohal um if I would have known that Kobe did this he highlighted the ran I said before in in Rish the interesting L he said okay maybe maybe when I say the word Rish if you realize you'll just throw it on the screen um where's the sponsor oh cuz he put it all in the beginning oh here's the sponsors turning we could even show it the family last one thank selflessly giving up her husband for the CL for a year filled with for sponsoring the month [Music] no sorry I have no idea what say again a guy gave away two fields to two separate people and used two different one was a really bad because he said and that doesn't work and one was Matana fixes the yusha and they both become a gift and it both work and it works they both get a field I have proof I have proof if a person has a whole thing how he wants his to go here here we go the guy says after I die I want you to have this yusha and after you die it okay he died the field goes to the next guy and then he dies it goes he tells exactly how happens what happens say what happens if he dies and this guy gets it think about it now Mr Number Two dies now what where does the field go should the field go to number three or should the field stay by number one it should go to his kids what do you guys say same one kids everybody grees kids anybody say should go to number three what do you say number three stop you're saying it let's see what happens here he goes into the grave he goes to his y so says the gamar what very simple the only way it can get the three is through two and never got the two so gets stuck at one and goes to the Y of one that's normal the first one dies the second one dies the third one what if the second guy dies while the first one's alive it stays by the first one because it never got to the second one and therefore there's no way for it to get to the third one ask over here it's like two fields and two people why is it two Fields I just showed you it's one field it's one field that goes from one to one person to the next so explains I have a little bit of a difficult time understanding it 100% but he says since it's at two different times it's like two different fields okay can hear it's like two fields and certainly you see in the chart it's more than two one person it's two different people he said and he gets it maybe all three of these guys are his sons no they can't be that can't be how could it go from the second to the [Music] third who says that a father can decide where the goes to which son while he's alive as a gift we're going to have it tomorrow's when a person says I'm giving it to you I'm giving and after you it should go to so and so I'm I'm I'm letting you use it now when you when that person dies it goes to the next person that person dies it goes to the next person what if the first guy here Mr the first guy this guy what if he's a son you know what is it never goes to the second guy why because you saidha when you say works in the once it goes to Mr Number One it goes to Mr Number one's children not the two yha doesn't have any stop it doesn't stop you can't stop it it says in the so I forgot they say that is always ours the certain groups of religion I'm not going to mention them now I don't want to get thrown off YouTube they say oh was given to the Jews but it stopped at a certain point when they when they didn't accept so and so stop no a it never stops so so now it's a on everybody who argu in fact it's youth in other words um hold on a second oh so you see what does ra sayha says that when you have two Fields two people two different languages everything going wrong for you you're giving it because he said if it's one person one field there's no shil goes to him even though you use two languages but now you have two Fields the worst case scenario two fields to two different people and one person you said I'm giving you a gift one person said I'm giving you mat said it works 100% he brought a great RI from here that works 100% so that would be a contradiction to everybody that argues on [Music] that remember oh now I could show what KOB did this is that you have to say it in a very very specific way you have to say y Matana yha sandwich hamburger in the middle then the hamburger in the middle the Matana goes and spreads to the side and we call it a hamburger we don't call it a b everything becomes not a but over here you see not like you see that even if you don't say very very specific like this like this like this it still works in the worst case scenario it still works and Matana flips everything into even the bad of that can't be I could totally relate to this I've been learning with my for over eight years and I've been right and argu with him maybe two times maybe it it's a terrible feeling every time you argue argue argue and learning you're always wrong argues aru aru with with entire was only write three times and now you want to take away one of those three times and say oh this is a contradiction to what R said R said that he's right R said that it has to be in a very specific way to say that's the only way it works you know when mat flips the other word into mat when does it explain it in the amount of time that says it takes to say sorry when does when does it have to be in a certain specific order of words like said when you said you paused for a few seconds then you said the other one say here on they say that if a person is middle and he starts spacing out it doesn't happen very often but you know once start spacing out you have a little bit of a dream a so you get what a Dr a little DRL they say in a a little you get up to sh and he said you know you said in Middle I wish I was in Vegas right now this and that you always start I never said it I dreamt it no no no when you're middle of mdle it's as if you spoke there two exceptions to the rule imagine you tell your kid I hate you no no I love you you said I hate to your to the person you love that means something's wrong with you you can't tell I'm doing and also you tell somebody but that's not the reason the reason is you got to stay away from tell a woman no no no I'm messing with you it's a gift we don't we don't want real quickly I looked it up yesterday terrible news it says that I'm not joking this is not in our in our communities but in the world 72% of men regret the woman they marry this is what it says over here no no no and 54% of the women regret the man to marry and therefore if you put the two of them together 72 on this side the 54 on this it's zero marriages have any success the boai have a wonderful day very happy 0 for