Vayetzei - What’s Going On??? | Rabbi Dovid Orlofsky

this isi welcome to the para in five we're in five minutes we give you an insight into the par Yu comes to uh and right away he sees ra and he knows that this is the person he's supposed to marry and he sees her and he cries and uh you know there's this instant this instant bond and he says to love and I want to marry Ral and he says okay work for me for free for seven years and I'll give you ra and he works for seven years and then he switches ra Leia then he marries Leia and afterwards he goes to love and say why'd you switch the girls and he says up we don't marry the younger before the older you want to marry R work another seven years now now Yakov suspected that lovein was going to do something like this so he gave RL secret code and when she saw Leia getting dressed up in her wedding gown and they were putting on the veil and knew it's going to be really embarrassing when she goes down Thea and Yakov says watch the Paris sword and she goes come again goes you're not R because no I'm Leia yeah so he'll say marriage is off her sister will be embarrassed so rul gives the secret password to Leia and what happens to r as a result of this she gets her own song Mama R cry for us again dear children right okay but you know Leia doesn't get a song There Is No mamaa song and in fact if R is the hero of this story gives up her husband to her sister how come Leia is okay with this how come Leia doesn't say anything you know Leia doesn't mind being dressed up like her sister ra and going down to the K to take her sister's place on her wedding night yeah the veil concealing another and the one who it's concealing is like hey I'm okay with this so it's kind of strange I mean you got to admit that if I expected to marry RL and then you take her place and I end up marrying you well that's going to cause trouble in the marriage knowing that you tricked me to marrying you you know and yet Leia is shocked shocked that Yakov has any bad feelings towards her at all yeah she felt unloved and maybe this reaches the Crescenda so when uh R says you know you've got a bunch of children and I don't have any children um maybe I could take your son's D you know I don't have any sons to pick flowers for me and you know the D is supposed to help you have children he goes what it's not bad enough that you stole my husband now you want to steal my flowers well you know technically I didn't I didn't really steal your husband it was sort of like you told my husband you know so it seems a really surprising thing for Leia to say right so uh so the medish says an amazing thing because it says he wakes up in the morning he looks in its layer and then he goes to talk to Lin why didn't he say anything to Leia why didn't he say hey hey what's the deal with the veil gal the answer is Leia never knew when he first meets um Yakov so Yakov says don't worry I'm a bigger ramai than your father we spoke about this last year's para and she says yeah right he knows it's going to happen and therefore for the next seven years every time raal got a present from Yakov she gave it to Leia and said this is from Yakov he can't wait to marry you he knew it she knew what her father was going to do and so on the wedding night when Leia got dressed up she didn't know she thought that Yakov was courting her this whole time because everyone knows that the oldest daughter goes before the youngest daughter so she took it for granted and so before she was about to go down the he says oh by the way Yakov gave me a password to tell you to make sure that you knew it that it's really you and so she says the pass word b she had no idea she thought yakob was cting her for seven years and that's why I week later when he marries her younger sister Leia was shocked Not only was she shocked but she turns around and says I can't believe this he quits me for seven years and then turns around and marries my sister and then loves her my sister more than me you can understand Leia's shock from this experience that's why Leia did not have to go childless because the pain of feeling like yakob didn't love her as much as R was enough of a pain for to have children but R was beloved she knew the truth and so therefore she had to go through childlessness till she was able to reach the point that she was Z to have children let's be careful how we look at the Emos since at least half of clvs descended from Leia let's take that into account and remember that all of the imos Would S and great people even if they don't get a song shabas