Daf Yomi by R' Yoel Gold || Sanhedrin 110

We're in the middle towards the bottom. They died in this world and is referring to the next world. So the Gmorra says Natan is here. Oh, Mama is just starting. that that is going to take them out of the eventually. They're going to come out. Who is this? You have it. It's like 15 lines from the bottom of Yeah. that it covered the ground covered them in this world and they were lost from the congregation from they're like a lost object that the owner is constantly looking for that object and finds it after a certain period of time. That's also Hashem is looking for that those who lost their eventually brings them back since I didn't forget your mitzvah said so even though we sometimes get lost and do but please make sure that you search after us and you bring us back to so we can assume It was he was he was powerful for all those who lost their fore to find them and bring them back. He was he bought he made a bad investment. I think right now they're saying you should make the investments now. By the way, S&P 500 S&P 500 make the investment now. When there's fear in the market, you strike. Yeah, it went down. Oh yeah, but they say it's going to going to go more down when there's a good tariffs. There it is. That's the saying, right? Warren Buffett. Yeah. Yeah. Now's the time. They say it's going to go more down more. Okay. Okay. Back up eventually. Either way, is saying you know what a bad investment is made a made a bad investment. Is called because he made a bald spot in. You know why? Because a lot of people died because of him. He is the guy who was misus who angered the uh the wrath he evoked the wrath of Hashem on Israel like the sheesh baharim like the hot sun in the afternoon Benos here we go Benov I don't have a good shot in this cure of strategy we need we need you know there a few there are a few things in Judaism that it's very difficult to take at face value. Right? Number one is get drunk on it's a very nobody no translates that we have all kinds of gamatrius on it. We have all kinds of very difficult is one of those things in the most difficult passage is no problem with it. He's like, "No, no, knock his teeth out." Literally, that's the you know, we have that say like that. But we see this similar expression here that uh he was that he knocked the teeth out of his ancestors because he brought them a lot of so to speak. I'll save you. Basically he got him she got him drunk and put him to bed put him to sleep and she said outside and she opened up uncovered here opened up her braids anyone who came next to the door saw with saw that her hair was uncovered he quickly walked away and before you know it they got swallowed up to the ground you see tremendous with with delay delay delay delay delay it's not like she had a strategy forever Right? How long could she braid her hair? How long could she comb her hair here by the door? Right? Her husband is sleeping. You know, I got her got him drunk and she is braiding her hair. How long could that work for? Terrence says another minute. Another minute. Delay as much as you can. Delay the bottle. Bottled. We had this gumar before. Exactly. Um you delay the bottlina. Trying to remember where that is. What what context was the gumar saying it in? Um yeah by because he didn't conquer your shalim on that day. He said let's go to sleep told only that day the stargazer said it was only that day do you have still the because the expiration date was going to happen that night anyway so he went to sleep and was balina also you see what she's doing here she's going outside she's braiding her hair she's combing her hair and the people who wanted to come to a Ben pelis who's part of the the commission against Mashenu. So, uh, they're walking away because they don't want to come close to a woman that's uncovered. That's immest. She uncovered her purposely by the door. So, they they'll stay away. They could all get swallled up together. He couldn't they couldn't get to him. She protected [Music] him. Yeah. They were what is that? Yeah. Okay. You see nothing is black and white. Nothing is black and white. Everybody's got you know there but there were there was That's right. That's right. Even the even the correct so here it is. That's why it's said but on the other hand you have the wife of kayak did the exact opposite. Wow a woman really told you I told you behind every great man. Rabbi Wallerstein once told me I was at a pes program and he came over to our table and that was first time I met his wife. So I said to his wife, "Wow, so you are Rabbi Wallerstein's wife?" Like great man said they say behind every great man while interrupts me and he says is a woman that reminds him he's not so great just a tool. Yeah. So just it's a humbling exper marriage can be a humbling experience. Yeah. Why did why Rashi says why did Hashem create a woman? Is that connect though? No. Because the Malik were going to sing Shir to other they thought he was a god. Rashi says so he created a wife to make sure the wife brings it down a little from the pedestal. Yeah. Take out the garbage. Yeah. Anyway, so it's a Yeah. Our wives keep us in check. I know my wife gives me check. It's a conto. Correct. That's what connect is balance them out. Yeah. You you're late to the shoe. That's it. That's right. No serious. Yeah, it's always all the time this is always correct. Everybody's unfortunate. Can I say anything? Yeah, of course. We mentioned, right? Yeah. I was remembering what I knew about this. If you take Russia minus Hakino. Yes. Right. You're trying to take the shin take the shin out of of the Russia out of the word Russia and that equals Wow. Uhhuh. Wow. Okay. We got shot. We got shot. We got a Okay, we got a remedy. What did the wife of say? Take a look at what she's doing. She instigated him. He took the Malus for himself, right? He's a melab for his cousins. He put he gave the right assistant. And if there's truma and you're a ley so whatever you get you know saysum even when you get takes a percentage and also he cut off your whole hair you look you look like a lunatic she said to him and he's making a fool out of you for sure he just wants your hair and so he told him so why do he wants you why because he doesn't want want you to be as handsome as him. He wants to make makes look look worse. Omar said, "What do you mean really?" He also cut it. He also sheared off all of his hair. Yeah. Since the whole purpose is to elevate himself. So he says, "Okay, I don't mind to do it myself." Thomas Nin pushed him. She used the expression used when he tried to kill all the pushim. I'll die together with them, but as long as I take them down. Not only that, he says you should do on your tit right if you think why don't you take your whole bag and make it out of right the famous brings his what the says will destroy a husband, a husband like um the wife of did. That means that they got the best of the best, the 250. They were able to they were famous in the whole world. And as soon as Mosha saw what was happening, he felt his face when he heard it. What did he hear? They started character assassinating. They said you are immoral. You are you are you're with other people's wives. They warned their wives not rumors. rumors even with his own wife. Yeah, he wasn't even Yeah. So that's right. That's the uh Yeah. So who who started this? What do they say? Who started this? Um doesn't say exactly who started this right away to make peace with them. Anyone who supports is So the you see that there was somebody. Okay. So Lisa the Gmorra is going to bring the story. Where's this mice over here? It's going to be soon where they they went to the midbar and they saw and they saw the me kak that over here. Yeah. Okay. We'll get there in a moment. We'll uh we'll speak out some uh some some right over there. anyone is one of David's sons and even him even though he's from still he wasn't because that time already so you see that anyone who has Now this is a very difficult Gmorra because we know is filled with between right and was rabbi right you have you have but you have all the time arguing with the rabbim how do you explain that or moinstein and the mosha and chu I just looked up here. He talks about this idea whether you're allowed to argue with your rebi and learning right you're allowed in learning he says that um um if you do it with humility then you're allowed to argue with your if you do it with humility some say you have to have arrived at the level of that had when he issued that only once you arrive at that level that's when you can argue seems to say you know even if you haven't um you could still argue as long as this is your and it's with humility. You can um you can argue by someone who wants to point out that he was doing something wrong. Oh father that's right. That's right. We had the Gomorrah. Yeah. with the Gomorrah earlier in Sanra the Gomorrah says when he brought the Rambam the Raom says way the Ramb that you if you see your father is wrong in you just quote the puk and you hint to him that uh it's wrong but that's when your father has a mistake but here you have two deas you have two logical opinions and one themed believes that the rebi is uh you know the rebi is is wrong so the sky focus. Yes. Meaning over here. That's what the Gumar is talking about. Beautiful. Yeah. Also nowadays if there's any contemporary Pisa that argues on someone from the past, there's probably another you know or there's another opinion you can find says like them. Yeah. You can argue you might be arguing against maybe the accepted opinion, but there's probably another like you. We know the by the way many times right the was a couple hundred years ago on um yeah is you know you have to be in that level but he's definitely on previous generations. Yeah. What we say there's a interesting explanation on the on the Yeah. What do they say? Okay. Uh a few of them you know you [Music] know says yes so they said ah what's he said no they said cannot be a man without a woman you know it's impossible sneaking yeah you were saying kskin right yeah and then the says Right. Yes. Everybody ran. Ah, interesting. It's unbelievable. You see what you want to see. So they it says therefore fighting with even though fighting it is it's somebody who speaks with a with a tobi is like speaking told them you're not complaining against us you're complaining against even though they're complaining they're targeting Yeah. Um, somebody who has second thoughts about his rabbi, it's like having second thoughts about the um like the says see that the of here again we have it over and over. Oh wow. Oh wow. What a treat of a we see that um that a lot of times the garra says right it's that led them astray or like says constantly over and over that people who have a lot of money right tremendous and his got the better of him it got to his head says that The estab whatever held them under their feet that's referring to that keeps him gives them a and stat status in the world for the guild he had 300 what are brothers mules yeah 300 mules white mules that were shleing the mas the keys to his treasure houses not sure where that treasure house is in the midbar uh where they store all the treasure in the middle. I I think it means some say what it means over here is that he had these uh chests that he would slept with him, right? And uh these keys would I read that he found the treasures of very good. Next one. He wasn't the one who got swallowed up and he didn't want he wasn't the one who died in the from the he was both. He got his was burnt and the goof was and then the goof was swallowed up into the into the into the hole of the ground. The sun and the moon went up to the and they complained to if you take a side and you prove him to be right nayan will come out and shine onto the world we protest we demonstrate we make a protect a protest had to throw arrows into them to force them to go out and why every day people you don't take my side you don't protest you go out no problem you shine on the world. But all of a sudden, now you want to be a now you want to be a where were you when everybody is doing and they're they're um they're they're being they're being pag and says the took the mid from Hashem and they don't ever want to come out into the world and shine every single day. Hashem has to throw arrows into them to force them because there are people who don't believe in atheists and doesn't want to shine for that reason for the cover. If you already created use it form, create it right now. If you're gonna tell me that asked to create the right now, it's not it's impossible. We know doesn't create anything new once once the world is created. He didn't ask him to create from the beginning. He just told him to to say they should be swallowed up. It's unbelievable. The sons of Kayak never died didn't die then the sh and they are there and they said it sounds like they did go into the gan but they had a high place they had the pedestal of but they didn't die they actually ended up coming out how do we know that because we have mismar and we have in the end of talks about who wrote tom are one of them are one of the composer one of the writers and they sang shirro right was a ley they were from the who composed songs in the bdash right and why because they did chuva the last second I wanted to once that if you know before right what do we Say seven times right we say you ever thought to yourself why before do we choose a that was composed by no less the holiest moment of the year before then the ter is meant to be a person to do chuva no who could serve a better example than kak who mamesh did chu the last Second says that of they end up coming out and saying and their sons sang in the md. So that's why we use that. One of the reasons obviously also talks about you know like all these all these other elements. One day I was walking this is the famous. Yeah. Come I'll show you the place where has swallowed up in he saw two cracks on the ground and there was smoke coming out of it and he took a stick that had wrapped on it some wool on it and he soaked in water and he put on that stick on his on his spear and he put it into the like roasting a marshmallow. Put it over the crack. Yeah. And right away it was burnt. Listen. What do you What do you hear them say is right and they are liars. It's unbelievable that you see that a person even after he dies, even after he dies, they they hold on to that madrega. They stay stuck with whatever madrega they die with, that's what they stay stuck with. Big big big concept. I was telling Daniel right before this year, I was telling him that I walked into the mitzvah store here uh two days ago. I wanted to buy a certain a stock. And so I was looking around the store and I opened a different aoda that they had on display. Nakma Seltzer. I wrote a beautiful aoda and the page I opened it up to had a story that compelled me to buy a on the spot. An amazing misa. Amazing misa. He says there was a woman in London in gold is green and she was a Holocaust survivor. She survived Awitz and when she was in her 80s already and she knew that you know she has a limited amount of time to live. She sent the shim Kyfski and I think her name is Mrs. Letter even writes her name in the book. I have to call her family to move out of the story. But this is a story she tells he tells over. She asked that in Awitz. She held on to one puk the entire time in her mind. She kept repeating it over and over again. And that P gave her strength to survive the war. It was after all we've been through, we didn't forget your name. No, please don't forget me. And she kept repeating it over and over and over again. She said that this is the POS that I held on to gave me, gave me strength. I want to know if when my time comes I can write it on a piece of paper and I want to be buried with that piece of paper in my hand to come to um in Shayim and show him this is what I held on to. I held on to you all those years. So who is Kyki's you know right-hand man at the time. So he he forwarded the shim hears the shila and he tears up tears up. he became very emotional and uh he said to tell her that Hashem doesn't need reminders. You don't need to come with a piece of paper. Hashem knows and uh also it might be a it's not really a but better not. Few months later, uh, the woman said, you know, she she heard of answer. She said, you know what, he's right. God, don't don't don't don't put the paper in my hand. Couple years later, she passed away. And before the kura, they quickly sent the shila again to Kyfski. I sent thinks for a moment and he says bury her with a piece of paper. So said you know they had a fash maybe you know they wanted to double check so he said you know while a while earlier said not to says I thought about it it's true that Hashem doesn't need a reminder but I want Mrs. letter. I want this woman to have it for herself as she comes up to Shamayim. She should be fortified with that piece of paper. That will give her the strength to face, you know, whatever she has to face. So, it's for her and taken a piece of paper. They put in her hand. Didn't want to bury her first with a piece of paper because they said, "What do you mean everybody's just going to decide to be buried with whatever they want? I mean, it's not you can't." They told her said, "She could put it. You could put it in And that's how they talk about buried her. So the idea that a person goes into the kev with whatever they whatever they uh they earn in this world you see the opposite is true too with not himself that until today what do they have to say um they have to say okay that's the that's says that I swore he tes the posit that I swore. We say every Friday night I swore they'll never see. That's what Hashem says. Right. I will bring them gather those and they won't get lost. I only made the out of anger. But I'm because I wasn't I wasn't um that that they are going to have because the P says if we we mentioned a few times by the way that you see that you know we're about to have a soon right and we need a minion right and where do we learn the of minion from the says double Where's appear? Right. And then you have So why would you learn from how could you learn it from people who are huh both? It's paraglam and So the answer is so that the opposite is true. Hashem placed the lim for minion for kesm directly in the par of the so that they can have with every toe that they did so many years ago to give them eventually. such a he's so optimistic. He's so empathetic. He's so uh he's such a and yet he's dashing that all those people what happened says what could he have says before says to the people who were and they were and says don't worry you're going to come back you know how I know because hashem remembers the incredible of when of the midbar who the midbar. So if the drab is enough to save people who come thousands of years later and go to that we're going to have ones right now we're going out of into a desert. If they did that, it could save future generations. Certainly could save their own skin and have says the 10. All right. Now says that Hashem will throw them out. Bless you. Just like today will never come back. Think about that for a moment. We're so lucky to come to the med today, right? We're finishing off the day in a good note because this day will never come back means they'll also just like the day doesn't come back, they'll also not come back. Just like the day when it gets dark, the sun comes up again the next morning. They will come back. If they continue wherever they are in Gulas, do we know where our today? We know there are 10 lost. What? The 10 lost tribes. The 10 lost tribes. Yeah. My next my next initiative for a film. I got to do it. The 10 tribes, you know. What is this? Kanye West is one of them. If he is, he's definitely a tremendously self-hating. Yeah. Anyway, so the Gmorra says wherever they are, wherever they might be, if they're still doing they'll never come back, then they'll come back for sure. So they'll they'll come back because it says it's referring to he was the one who exiled. So it's a they'll come back. The only two that are not is Yehuda and Yehuda and two and a half I think. you and who were in the and but the truth is the garill tells us it's not so poshill says that if you want to know if somebody's from right or somebody is from shulen anyone who's who loves the beach right anyone loves the ports you should know he's from shulenk right so all the guys are attracting I always I always ask people I say if you could have a house in the woods or the house in the beach which one would you choose right It reveals a lot about a person like what kind of personality is you know like is he more an introvert extrovert I it's just a soar migilla says if somebody you know is attracted to that kind of environment then you should know it's a sim he comes from what he comes from I thought he's are not here so we do have a mix even today even today we have a mixture of because there were some people who were inim that were from otherwhat as well it's not like but the majority of were exiled in the times Uh but certainly we have more than the two and a half. We have some uh some others as [Music] well who says that they're they're coming [Music] back. Yeah. [Music] Yeah. Yeah. Had a little bit. Beautiful. That's what he just said. Yeah. They have a mixed right where everybody will know when Msiah comes it'll be what shave it every person but the majority of the are okay beautiful again is not going with his usual where he's always over here also he he basically threw out and pretty much deemed them hopeless by saying he could have dashed the to give them hope I won't keep a grudge forever I will bring you back. Why doesn't use this puk to give them hope? Why does he uh basically discard them forever and say by the way where do we find we always say where do we find um in a in a in a way that's sons of they don't come says won't leave a root meaning that their children will die when they're still they won't be to even come into this world or a branch even the children that were born they also won't have don't discard a child overseas is called. Oh guards those young children from and make sure that will give them for even will always remain and just like if remains it'll be the just like the ends that if it's a for sure why it says in the a baby a baby that dies when is he wow that's a very interesting question baby didn't do any a right Let's jump over here whether it means or it means but either way only once he he's able to talk. Some say as soon as he's born he dies right away. He's and once says he's he can speak. What what could he speak? Probably right. What are the first words we teach a childh? So that's the words. If he speaks those words, then he could be right away. Yeah. Right. All my kids, mommy was first. I don't know. I just I I tried. That's the problem. I think it's easier. Ma ma, you know, there's like, yeah, there's all these psychological. Some people say dad is easier. Really? They do say from conception. Amen. From a cup that says one. Amen. It's unbelievable. [Applause] Amen. He says, "How do you know that he's just because he says amen?" It's melon. Unbelievable the power of what doesn't say that the is right that is even just says I think if you take the word you say if you take the word amen is 91 91 is the combination of the two names of hashem right is it shame and and so right. So every amen what does that mean a mean is not even and he's saying never heard that shot very nice any good stories in a you have a good story in you read the book many yeah yeah I told you I made a story many years ago about there's an abus party answering and the guy beat a kidney Freddy Batesesh name is from deal. He needed a kidney and there was this uh he was a this girl um who helped organize this a this bras party for everybody to come together and answer a and within 3 days this is before renewal this is years ago renewal today unbelievable have over a thousand kidney donors and you know it's incredible what they're doing you know you could skip the whole list United States list um you could wait years but with renewal they speed up the process for a Jew and They have saved over a thousand lives. Bottom line. So this is years ago before that and they made a bra party and within 72 hours he had a kidney and they and he became he became healthy again. The girl who organized the the bras party for him who helped his mother organizally ended up getting married to him. and his mother said, "Oh, you know, like maybe a year for my son." You know, she was impressed with and they got married and um yeah, there's a I think the end of the story was if you get a kidney from somebody who died, it has an expiration date. I think it expires after like 11 or 12 years. You need a new kidney. Oh, yeah. So, after 11 to 12 years, I think his brother was old enough to donate and his brother uh got tested and was able to donate from a living person. the kidney stays. I guess it's longer and now he's but there's every heal that does. Okay. By the way, there is an app today. There's a WhatsApp group. I have to look it up. Did you hear about this? No, I don't know. You make a and you don't have people to answer. You can do you call the WhatsApp group. You make the and you have 250 people who can pick up at the same time and answer. That's great. Says, "I don't know if it works. Right. But this is they have now for everything. Okay. This is even for that.