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a very famous story that took place a
number of years ago of
being
accepting
who's going to pay you back
there's
a hall in israel called
uh
so tamir halls they have if you've ever
been there they have two levels they
have the upper level for the upper class
and they have the lower level for the
people who can't afford it that's just
the way it is it's like somebody at one
time saw it tell her in his book he had
these cartoons so i remember seeing this
when i was 12 years old what's the
difference between the upper class and
the lower class the upper class is just
a bunch of old crumbs held together by
dough
it's a great line
but the upper the upper crust the upper
class they're just uh
they have all these beautiful things
chandeliers and windows and draperies
it's beautiful very classy and the
bottom one is also nice but it's not as
beautiful as the top one
so what happened was there was a young
girl she was going out and she found her
bachelorette and she was so excited came
from from your shalom and uh she wanted
to book her wedding in tamir so they
called up and it was just give a name
her name was goldstein so uh
her name was hindi goldstein so hindi
goldsmith was so excited that her
wedding was coming up she always dreamt
of having in the ulamet
and her parents were pretty well to do
so they were gonna rent the upper part
so they turn to the uh manager and they
say so can we rent the oh yeah we're
wide open you choose the date any date i
have all these open because you got you
come in
you saw when you're probably gonna get
married so when do you anticipate okay
fine top one dump one okay circle it
circle out there show it fine okay
two weeks before the wedding
the manager calls up the goldstein
family and goes i am so sorry i have
tested
like yeah
it's like remember you came to my office
and we circled yeah
remember i told you getting the top yeah
there seems to be an error we mean an
error it says when i circled i was so
excited and i had so much
open and available i didn't realize that
what i was circling was not the top one
i was circling the bottom one
and one of my managers a few weeks ago
unbeknownst to me saw that the top one
was open
and another family took it
i'm really so sorry i said well what's
the family's name he said the family's
name making up a name is the family
cemantov
oh we know the cementos okay we'll call
them up they call them up they explain
the situation it's quiet
hello hello yeah
we're really sorry but it really means a
lot to our daughter to have the upstairs
one and i'm sorry i mean we already told
everyone but what do you mean we also
told everyone too i'm sorry mr simmons
told mr goldstein i'm really sorry but
i we have the top one i'm really sorry
so mr goldstein takes great credit
instead of making a fight he didn't want
to do that
kadesh
so he said you know what i'm not going
to make a big deal about it i'm just
going to keep quiet fashion wants me to
get the bottom he went to his daughter
and his wife he said listen hashem
obviously wants us to have them
this is the beginning of a great
beautiful marriage that's it we're not
going to talk about it anymore we're
getting the bottom one and we're just
going to make do and that's what hashem
wants from us
listen to this story
after the wedding was over
mr goldstein comes over to the hall
manager and he pulls out his checkbook
to write out a check
the hall manager puts his hand on top of
the checkpoint says habibi
don't write anything he's like what do
you mean what are you talking about
it's like let me tell you a story mr
goldstein you're not going to believe
this
say
we have two levels we have the top level
in the bottom level
the top level is for the wealthier
people the bottom level is not
necessarily wealthier people
the night of your wedding tonight
i got a phone call from a very wealthy
american businessman who told me his
thing is
he wants to pay for katana that you
normally can't afford it she said i
remember when i was at bahrain yeshiva i
used to go to
these different events and they
sometimes had and had and uh well then
they taught me they would have in tamir
halls they had that i knew there was a
top and a bottom i knew the bottom one
was people who unfortunately couldn't
afford a wedding but they needed a place
he said i just made a tremendously
profitable business deal an unbelievable
venture that went so good
and i made another that if hashem allows
me to give taka
that's
i'm going to pay for the entire wedding
on the bottom floor
she said
your entire wedding was paid for by
someone else
mr golson couldn't believe that
unbelievable he was someone else
and because that his entire wedding
got paid for his daughter
because he didn't want to make bigger
deal when you allow shalom when you are
you keep quiet
you don't want to keep quiet
you know what shidduchim are all about
you
