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as other shame they're less than two
weeks we're gonna celebrate this up and
why I always not good should be yay
most people yelled and pissed on the oil
we gave of Hashem going out of Egypt but
yeah I know where you say oh because
there's a lot of cleaning to do and a
lot of expenses and I don't know what to
do so we want to talk a little bit today
about what needs to be done especially
that we know that 30 days before holiday
that's usually when the the head of the
community or the rabbi of the
congregation would start teaching all
the rules of the holiday you gotta get
ready so we started that two weeks ago
before I left but now we're continuing
we need to know what needs to be done
how to do it this month is full of full
of action so the first and most
important is that we have to understand
that since Meza has coming needless to
say we have to start cleaning everything
we're not going to talk about today
about cleaning but just as a side note
that yeah we have to clean our house
thoroughly in our belongings and we
can't have any comets in our possession
in any type of form of a way needless to
say that a lot of the cleaning is a
spiritual cleaning and emotional
cleaning I have to clean all the junk
out of my system but thirty days before
pestsof I have to start being already
very careful welcome it's because I'm
already starting to clean so you finish
eating you see now somebody left their
pita on the table then I have to start
being very careful with comments the
last one yeah and
and you know last couple weeks every
time that we eat here on Shabbat then I
say out loud please don't put the seed
or him in the prayer book on the table
because the tables full of comments and
we have and we have special prayer books
for for beer cat Amazon for benching and
that you can make it all dirty for pizza
anyways we put it away but so but the
thing is that you want to make sure that
that you're already aware of the fact
that everything is has to be not only
clean that when I'm eating already
comments not to start making even more
of a mess because usually what happens
half a year before pizza it will get
sweep it will get somehow cleaned up now
you have to be very aware now in our
house even though we try to follow a
rule in our house that we don't eat
outside of the kitchen but with a three
year old and a 5 year old and a 7 year
old it doesn't always work these rules
and they're walking around the house
with something in their mouths but now a
month before Pesach that's the rule is
there is a much stronger and no eating
come not eating anything anywhere so we
got to be very very particular that now
we have to be extra cautious with the
comments and I want to make sure that
I'm not putting more work than I need to
which means that you also have to take
the consideration that the cleaning of
comets is very important but you don't
have to go completely crazy some people
will go completely nuts with the
cleaning and it's not healthy
I mean sometimes people before pizza you
find them like hanging on the ceiling
cleaning the chandeliers and and there's
no there's no comets on the chandelier I
can guarantee to you that up there
there's no comets and no I never saw
anybody sitting with a roll and being
like so so you can clean can call it
spring cleaning : ever you want but this
price is that usually there's not going
to be comets there you have to clean
thoroughly and good and take two
consideration that's don't have to go
crazy here just is no comments
another thing that we have to be another
thing that we have to be very careful
is that we should not eat matza 30 days
before pizza
some people like killing myself because
it's tasty or Shabbat they run out of
bread and they wanna wash for a meal and
they wash on matzah
it's a disgust customary not to eat
matzah 30 days before Pesach so if you
can the whole 30 days I mean there's not
much longer when we're sunday Pesta is
next Friday so that shouldn't be another
problem now one thing that we want to do
we all want to make sure that we do that
before pizza it's called the Alpha Team
multi-team mochi team out is money and
he team is wheat and there is a custom
mean hug me cabal go holy surgical
clavicle a governmental area ot Tim
Lippe so there is a custom that every
congregation or every community they
collecting funds from the members of the
community why and it's called my Autry
team money for where the team is wheat
why to help the poor people in the city
or the congregation or the community to
help them with the purchases the
shopping for peso
other people are embarrassed they don't
want to come and ask and unfortunately
many people are in a financial stress
and they they need help so as a side
note I'm telling you that we have a
found and you know anybody who needs
help with pesos a shopping wine and
matzo and food and we have a fund that
we help people so if you know anybody
that needs helps you can tell them it's
very private nobody needs to know who's
getting and what they're getting and
and it's important that everybody
participates in this Mitzvah there
you'll give to a certain fund all you
give it directly and some people don't
want to do it that maybe they get
offended but if you have the opportunity
you should give an extra dose of charity
to a family of come of couple families
they need assistance with their shoes
with their holiday shopping it's a very
expensive holiday just the wine and the
matzo and the cleaning and an extra food
and buying all the extra stuff for
Pesach and usually people like buying
something new to wear and this is a very
expensive papaya has a very expensive
holiday so we do have this meat so it's
called multi-team many people already
they have this custom and and some
people give it to a fund and some people
say I just I'm gonna give it directly to
somebody and nevertheless this money you
want it to go specifically for buying
food for the holiday so when remember
when we give stuff and I don't give
money I give bottles of wine or I'll
give matzo so I know that it goes for
the holiday some poor people will say he
take the money but I need to pay my rent
on my bill this is not going to be
considered multi-team so you want to
make sure that even if you doing that
directly then make a package and buy
matzah matzah is very expensive or
kosher wine and so forth but this is a
very big mitzvah that we do before the
holiday and needless to say that we are
very lucky that we are observant Jews
but there are many people that are known
observance and it's in our
responsibility to influence whoever we
can to do whatever they can so I can
quietly and very easily say that each
and every one of us has at least a few
family members that are not observant
but all of us coming from an observant
play world so we all have family and
friends that are not observant there are
eight meets vote that that one needs to
do in Pesach and they're very severe
mitzvahs and we're not allowed to eat I
made some pizza this is one of the most
Severus prohibitions in the Torah that
the punishment is one of the most severe
punishments in the Torah for in comments
so needless to say I want to educate
wherever I can in a nice way in a loving
way do whatever I can I know it's not
easy to influence my family but
nevertheless one way of making them do a
mitzvah is providing to people real
matzah to eat it is a mitzvah from the
Torah to eat matzah especially on the
night of peso I mean that is the time of
the mitzvah
so it's customary that a lot of people
they will buy some extra meat and they
will give to family members and tell
them maybe you can come to our little
setup if you can make sure you eat it on
the night of peso so nevertheless we
want to also make sure that the ones
were less lucky and they don't know
what's going on and with peso is that we
educate them and then we share with them
and we do invite people our families and
friends to to say the party a sitter -
it's a party a seder dinner then we I
got to make sure that people get exposed
to what we do to the meat so this is a
very very important part of our
tradition now yesterday by Hashem was
the first day of the month of Nisan very
very powerful month
I actually I gave a lecture last week in
New York it's online you can go and
watch it it's a little bit long it ended
up being like a two-hour lecture but a
very very powerful lecture explaining in
a very mystical and deep and practical
way what can be achieved in this month
all the stops in the mouth what can be
done very very important things because
the present is not about cleaning I said
before professor who said oi oi because
you're just thinking of how much you
have to mop the floor mess special is
the most is the most amazing holiday
that for myself growth is the most
powerful holiday of the year for my own
self growth to go out of my limitations
to go out of the things that pull me
down
we also battle with different emotional
problems sadness depression anxiety
fears worries and many other things that
we deal on a daily base and pestle is
the
is the day that I can go out of my
limitations needless to say everything
around piss of the preparation and and
all around it is very very important so
the whole entire month of Nisan is a
very powerful month to start with
yesterday was auscultation son and we
already celebrated or Scottish which was
amazing but we need to know if you think
that's important for this month first of
all the entire month of Nisan we don't
signal when we pray we don't say to her
noon when we pray there's a certain
parts of our prayers that we don't say
usually people don't like saying it
regardless in the morning today before
we started praying I just mentioned out
loud to the congregation just remind you
to I'm pissed off we don't I own in the
month of Nisan we don't say to her noon
so everybody was smiling and I was like
yeah that I know you that I know I don't
need to remind you everybody knows and
they're happy that I personally don't
eternal originally makes the the prayer
much much shorter 20 percent of the
prayer we don't say so there's a lot of
peace parts on the of the prayer that we
don't say most of the cdom we'll have a
a commentary what is considered that are
known what we say what we don't say but
the haneun is the part where we we add
additional parts of the prayer one of
them is when we do the confessing when
we bang on the heart a shaman iboga know
ghazal know this whole long part and
it's a long part and not only that on
Mondays and Thursday there's a very long
edition in shahe read when we add in how
we say that on the dollar parts but the
entire month of Nisan we don't say to
her noon so you saved you saved about 20
minutes they are praying probably even
more and the parts also that we don't
say there's a verse a certainly a
chapter of telling that we say elements
Avianca we don't say that we don't say
killer app i'm and what's called me feel
at the time that we fall on our hands
and Boko Shem also on Shabbat we don't
say our I mean with socotra these are
different parts of the prayers that we
don't say
and I know most people are happy when
you tell them there's not the unknown
because it's making the prayer shorter
although it's almost like saying go to a
restaurant and don't eat so why did you
go to the restaurant if you don't eat if
you're not reading so tahun hoon is one
of the most important parts important
parts of their prayer and and it allows
us to gain forgiveness and closeness to
the Kailash boho and so whenever the
less we don't say too hard on another
thing that we don't do through the month
of Nisan as we don't fast most people
you'll tell them fast they right away
say Oy but some people take on
themselves too fast
when I became observant
I used to fast for about two years every
Monday and Thursday it was a regular
thing that I did when fasting is very
good for you and spiritually when you
want to refine yourself cleanse yourself
we know many times it's the fasting
helps with the with removing sins
removing also two blemishes on the soul
nevertheless to reach a higher level of
refinement you fast because you
segregate yourself from the physical
needs
if you don't fast and all day long the
mouth is busy you know another my
talking I'm talking about chewing and
when you adult and when you don't eat
and you fast then you you put yourself
under a control that you can't eat right
now so I did that for many reasons and
you know what I can tell you it's a very
high level of refinement because you put
yourself under control you don't even
notice that on a day-to-day basis we
don't control our urges I feel a little
bit of a hunger right away I open the
fridge I come to an event or something
there'll be some cookies on the table
right away there so so which is fine but
as long as you have one cookie no twelve
but the point is when it comes to food
then we have a very severe rectification
with food because the first sin was with
foo
Adam and Chava they ate from the tree of
knowledge so up until today we have
something with food then I received a
lot of our takuan is around food so I
found specifically the fasting that's
not that I found so I reinvented it
this is taught by our sages but fasting
is a way to get you separated from the
physical needs and needless to say
refines your elevates you is also very
healthy to clean your entire body so
nevertheless many people do fast I know
a lot of people that they take on
themself fast maybe half days or full
days in the winter it's very easy
because the fast ends at 4:00 4:30 5:00
in the afternoon
the summers a little bit harder he goes
fasting to 9:30 at night whatever the
less on the month of Nisan we do not
fast the only times that we fast is the
firstborns and their fathers fasting on
the morning of Pesach and usually what
most people do is they'll make a party
or they'll finish a track day to do a
seom and then they eat so they're kind
of cheating the system but it's fun a
system allows you and you can do it
there's no problem but this is the time
that you will fast and of course if
somebody is a bride and groom the day of
the wedding the bride and groom fast so
brides and grooms on their wedding days
do fast in the month of Nisan only time
they don't fast is Halle mode and
usually people don't really get married
on Halloween
although there's no problem to get
married on Halloween and you don't fast
also any so hug the day after the month
the holiday of Pesach it's also you
don't want to fast on that day so I
don't think you have this issue but we
still want to learn now another thing
that we continue we do also in the
beginning of the month of Nisan is that
we say every day after the prayer of
shahe it's a very short addition to the
prayer and it's called Paris at annecy
it's a little addition that we do at the
time when they were inaugurated the
tabernacle every day of
from the day of their inauguration one
head of the tribe brought a stern
sacrifice we read that on and Honoka and
the Torah
now we reading is we adding a little
portion it takes the whole thing takes
literally four minutes and we add that
it's called parsed Ratana see and every
day we read the portion of each one from
each tribe and we just read the part of
the Torah and then we read another short
prayer not a lot of people do it but
it's a very very recommended to do
mystically it's it's very powerful to
the salt the addition rectification of
the soul and for the as a nation as a
whole
and most of the sea deulim you can find
it and you would look for the it's
called parashat and a sea of coalition
asan and every day we read one so from
the first day of Nisan till the twelfth
day every day is one tribe and then the
thirteenth day there's another piece of
reason and the force in there already is
already pissed off that's something that
we read and and and the 13th part we
read this is part of the the Pasha is
called khan academy's bear this is
corresponding to the tribe of levy today
in the morning somebody asked me to a
corn and leg we still have to read it
because they know from which tribe they
are so we do corny mainly beam still
read it because they as a whole as a
nation we are all connected and even
though we're divided in tribes but
nevertheless we all have some type of a
spark from each tribe and when i read it
i arouse this spark in me and it does
affect the entire nation when we read
that come ballistically a very powerful
thing to do a very very short text
exactly three minutes now another
amazing thing that we do on pizza on a
on a nissan is that we have the
opportunity the entire month to say a
certain blessing and it's a blessing on
the trees near cattle are not and
usually doesn't matter where you are in
the world once the Sun comes in you see
spring comes and even though in some
parts of the world it's still freezing I
was now in New York last week there was
still snow so but nevertheless you still
see that stars things start sprouting so
the whole month we have the opportunity
to say Bill Cotterell or not and there
is a certain blessing you can find it in
the seed oil and the prayer broke in
many other places I'm just going to read
the blessing that you hear we can
explain it the blessing goes bokutachi
american america rom cello crystal ball
amok loom that he didn't nothing mrs. in
the world there's nothing lacking in the
world when he created the world he
didn't even miss one day excuse me one
detail evolve Abu Yahya votes and he
created the good creatures and creations
in the world and more than that he
created Allah not robot he created good
trees lay he not by umbrella Adam that
we as humans should benefit and derive
pleasure from them basically saying in
other words that we were we were created
to eat from trees not to eat anything
else
but that's a different issue right now
I'm not gonna get into this topic but
nevertheless we were originally created
to eat from trees and from the ground
not to eat animals and not to eat
chemicals and not to to consume all of
the things that has nothing to do with
our body so unfortunately now 99% of
what we eat is junk is not even edible
it's not even real food and we're also
not meant to eat food a meat I mean I
don't even know how we turned to became
carnivores our body does not even
designed to eat meat even if you look at
their structure of the jaws and the
teeth and the digesting system and for
whatever reason people have a
misconception that our religion and
unlike using the word religion rather I
would say that our faith is called the
faith of the the meat-eating faith well
it's not it doesn't say what you have to
eat meat all day long
happens to be that it is a holy temple
the priests used to eat some of the meat
not all of it and there also
we know that on holidays on festivals it
says yeah and seem highly Basava mine
there's happiness and joy when you have
wine and meat it doesn't mean you have
to eat it like a carnivore you can eat a
little piece and doesn't mean you have
to eat the meat but nevertheless very
soon mushiya is going to come we're
gonna go back to the original state when
other Beauty meat eaters when Messiah
comes and region were originally when
the world was created we weren't
designed to eat meat only after Noah
after the flood a flood at flood they
started eating meat well nevertheless
this is this is just goes to show you
how it says the condition will created
good trees when Michelle is gonna come
soon all the trees are gonna bear fruit
right now most of the trees don't bear
fruits a lot of the trees are they're
just self nice flowers or leaves not
only that the fruit that we eat
they're very stale once in a blue moon
you'll taste like a good peach or a good
orange and then you're like wow they're
there and even what we have here that is
good is not good when Michelle's gonna
come their fruit they're gonna be like
candy they're gonna be so delicious and
so yummy and we're not gonna be able to
have enough of it and needless to say
all the trees are gonna have fruit and
when Adam and have that were placed in
Grenier then it says we call a Sheboygan
mokona Sheva it's a Sheboygan but too
hot but from all the trees in the garden
that you're gonna need from it wasn't a
pizza hut and McDonald's in Canadian
there they had trees and that's it and I
weren't looking to either falafel and
other sources of other junk nevertheless
we know there is a argument in the
Talmud between two sages very yoshua and
liberalism
when was the world created one says that
the world was created on the on Tishrei
that's when we think is the beginning of
the year and the other be assure the
billion so says in the show I'll be sure
says no it was traded in his son and
really there's no argument between both
of them that result says there's no
argument there's no disagreement because
they're both right the physical world
was created in Tishrei and the spiritual
part of the world and a shaman
world was given any Sun so the world
actually was not even created industry
was created in a lull and the 26th day
of Elul and it started 25th day of Elul
and a lefty Shan was already after the
world was created but nevertheless
people relate to de chelly being the
first month which is a mistake the first
month is nice and this is actually
saying very clearly in the Torah that
Nissan is the first month of the
calendar and tisha is the seventh month
of the calendar this is clearly stated
in the Torah it's not that our sages
they added that so nevertheless the
creation of the world is the Sun and you
know one of the things that signified
creation is is growth you take a tree
and you bury it in the ground taking
will take a seat you'll bear it in the
ground and what do you know after months
grows a whole tree so this is the the
secret of creation taking something same
thinking nothing and making something
out of it so nevertheless this is the
man that the world about the spiritual
part of the world was created and and
this is the month where we have the
opportunity to bless the trees it's a
very big Mitzvah doesn't take much all
you need to find is a true a tree that
has fruit some places they have a few of
them here in the old city if you go in
the alley of catan Saphir next to the
issue has the regime out they have like
a little garden I think they have like
three four types of trees we were
actually thinking of maybe making a
group
no we're thinking of maybe making a
group and going to one of the most of em
here where they have a lot of trees that
are making a outing out of it but
nevertheless it's best to do it yeah or
we can go to Karen's house but their
best to do it as early as possible in
the month don't leave it to the end and
if you can do it right after the morning
prayer and all you need to do is be next
to the tree
read the baha have the intention that
that's our nourishment should come from
nature have the intention that mashiac
should come very soon that we should be
only nourishing from trees and
vegetation and then maybe some people
get a little bit common sense and stop
we're consuming food that is not edible
and so maybe just in that department
that people should get some common sense
now very important that we know that NFL
kimbo has olr Lily not Macaulay you
don't say say the blessing only on the
tree that has food you can say it on a
tree that doesn't have edible fruit this
is the most important well our little
nuts rocks sometimes there are trees and
there is fruit but the fruit is not
edible
has to be enough on a tree that you can
actually pull the fruit off and eat it
right away and you cannot say this
blessing on a tree that doesn't have any
fruit to start with now the ones who
want to do it a little bit extra more
cautious hama dr. Kim Makoi diamond a
very harsh nail out allure not imodium
for him the best is to do it on two
trees so if you have a garden you have
an orange tree and a lemon tree good and
more better but after the fact even one
tree is enough but better if you can
find two trees and also trees that they
bare also flowers are not only fruit
like cherry tree and
apple tree whatever it is so you want to
make sure that the trees they have fruit
and and the flowers but nevertheless if
you can find that you can settle with
one true one tree that doesn't even have
flowers now one more thing that is
important for us to get ready this
coming Shabbat is going to be Shabbat
agador this is the Shabbat that we
celebrate before Pesa and the reason why
it's called Shabbat occurred all because
the in on that Shabbat originally the
first Shabbat was a great miracle done
in mitzraim and the miracle was that on
the 10th of Nisan they were commanded to
take a sheep a sheep or a goat and they
had to care tie it to the to the bed and
the sheep was the idol of the Egyptians
and of course the Egyptians was like
what are you doing with our God while
tying our God to your bed and they told
him because we're going to slaughter it
in four days slaughter it well why on a
slower rate because God told us to and
then what are you gonna do with it well
we're gonna eat it heal it you're gonna
eat her God
yeah and then the remaining we're gonna
burn it to the dark to the ground and
there was a huge miracle that that they
didn't do anything to them they actually
you know you would think that they will
attack them kill them or whatever it is
rather the Egyptians went the other way
around that went to Paulo and started
fighting with Tahoe let them go they
were about to kill our gods
so there was a very big miracle that was
done there and since there it was called
Shibata God all that was a great miracle
because based on nature the Egyptians
would have killed him on the spot and
Hospice shall make a war against them
but nevertheless there was a big miracle
and up until today we call this Shabbat
Shibata Godot there are many reasons why
we call it also Shabbat egg at all and
this is just one of them and Shibata
Ghidorah halberd of pizza after limba
Vava le physica to sham of you Marcel
Albert Hotel sometimes mess of his
Malaysia but happened a few times in the
last couple of years
so if Shibata kadal is on the morning of
Pesa then this is not happening this
year
errotica doll this year is this Shabbat
and the following Shabbat is Pesa but we
just want to learn to know the knowledge
if Shabbat I got all falls on the
morning of pestle and we read the CERN
after a different after ah and if it
falls in the days before that then we
read a different type of Tata Shavua
different of tava that is the after of
that week now we have a custom that on
Shabbat occurred all the rabbi of the
city or the rapper of the congregation
is going to teaches and talks about the
laws of Pesach and teaches what needs to
be done what not needs to be done that
everybody is fresh in their mind so just
make sure that wherever you are you know
that in the show the rabbi should be
talking about messed up and you want to
go and listen to date to just remind
yourself what needs to be done what not
needs to be done more than that we have
a custom you should do it it's very very
important and on Shabbat occurred or
after means have Shabbat we read a
portion of the Haggadah and because
that's really when it all started so you
want to make sure that this coming
Shabbat after Mincha here we're going to
have a mint color but earlier than the
usual so we can have that extra 10 15
minutes to read and reread from the
beginning of the Haggadah which is a
body merino till the point in the gala
which is a cappella Levante know to
atone for our sins and the reason why we
will eat on Shabbat is because that was
the beginning of the redemption and the
beginning of all the miracles so we want
to relate to that we want to commemorate
that and we want to connect with that so
this is all coming in this following is
in this coming Shabbat other than that
we don't do much we we besides reading
the Haggadah
and commemorating the day we just have
to remember what happened and needless
to say when something happens in the
past it's like a birthday why do you
commemorate your birthday why you make a
party so most people make a party
because they want presents but really
it's a day of celebration so you know
some cultures they celebrated the other
around they're happy went on the deaf
day and the birthday is a sad day so
that's when you came to the world and
they commemorate death I mean they
celebrate death and actually the
birthday which kind of makes more sense
let's say they finish my job here and
I'm we're going to a better place
whenever the less this is a very
powerful time to do chuhwa it's to waken
ourselves to understand mainly when we
when we commemorate things from our past
is not necessarily to look back it's
rather to look forward it's the same
thing what we did now on face on pole
women on Hanukkah why did we finally
fast before pull him it's something that
happened 2,000 years ago you know many
times people what tried to destroy us
and we don't fast for that so Jeff Cohen
Hammond wanted to destroy us with
fasting why why aren't we fasting
wouldn't burn when power wanted to
destroy us and even whatever whoever it
was and how many people came tittles in
there and and Nebuchadnezzar and so many
people came to destroy us how come we
don't have a fast said specifically we
have a fast for that on pooling we love
doesn't podium we don't need to to
repeat now what we said but the point of
the fast and the point of commemorating
many things in the past is not to look
to the past and to cry about something
that happened is to learn from the past
and look forward to change something in
the future now we suffer from one one
problem as humans there were not
appreciative we're not appreciative to
our family
we're not appreciative to our friends
and we're not appreciative to our master
to God and this is a bad character trait
people help you people go out of their
way to to make you feel uncomfortable or
wanted or they help you financially or
whatever it is and most people aren't
appreciative they take it for granted
like as if somebody owes you anything
and more than that a Shenmue helps
they don't you don't even know us how
many miracles of shrimp does for you and
we region say of course the shame has
still feed me in bed and give me the
ability to breathe very few people
really take the time once a day to thank
a God and to thank other people I don't
know many people they turn to their wife
after dinner say honey the food was
amazing and I appreciate the fact that
you stood on your feet for half an hour
an hour and making the meal and
sometimes all it takes is a little
little appreciation you know sometimes
my kids that's what we educate them some
time my kids come I don't know her and
they thank us for something and it's so
special I came now from a trip I told
you already so many times I'm like this
leper of the family I go with no
suitcases and I come with like seven
suitcases
everybody goes shopping and I'm like
caring like somebody wants needs to take
a picture of me how I look when I come
off the plane and every time I tell my
wife it's the last time I'm doing it I
always come back with back pains and
bags I don't even know how I got
everything squashing this charm of I
told my wife I'm so overweight I don't
even know III wasn't going to let me
through luckily I have a have a very
high status in a lot they have all these
the frequent flyer they have different
status gold platinum
I don't know bronze whatever the names
are and I fly a lot so I have a very
high status so they let me constantly so
I came all my stuff was overweight but
not a kilo over like a lot just let me
through so I told my wife you see it's
worth having a good status with a lot so
she don't mean you they let you through
because you carried things to many
people everybody says oh you're coming
from America Jim I just want to send
something small everybody told me it's
just something small you know this size
it's not so big somebody told me can I
can I send something to my son just you
know I thought that are you counting
from here to here or from here to here
with this huge baguette oh that's not
small there anyways so salvo Hashem so
my wife told me see you carry things
with people so they let you with
with the overweight but nevertheless my
kids they they I bring them a lot of
presents they suffer their father goes
away they shouldn't be suffering but
nevertheless I'm like the hero I don't
even do I don't even do anything my wife
goes on Amazon she shops for everything
and I come with the suitcases full of
presents now I'm like the hero I'm like
super dad and my and they always asked
me because they you could me they brew
the red one I'm like it's a surprise why
ruin the surprise
no no what did you get no so my wife is
the shop around the slapper nevertheless
that's how I came back everybody got
their presents and my seven-year-old
came to me the next day and he says out
of nowhere thank you for bringing me
presents so and I was like oh good you
see that the child is appreciative he
understands that it just doesn't fall
from the ceiling and we have to learn to
appreciate everything that everybody
does for us don't take anybody for
granted not your father not your father
your husband not your son not your
neighbour not anybody
technically nobody owes you anything
nobody needs to do anything for you and
we just think that the world owes us
something so you have to be very
thankful to your spouse first even say
these little things I'm not expecting
thanks for anyone but when my wife comes
and tells me thank you for working hard
or my child thank you for bringing me a
present or many other things it's a I
just that's what I need I just need a
little thank you not me a person needs
just a little bit of appreciation you
stood you slave over a hot stove for 3-4
hours to make a meal all you want is a
thank you you don't need somebody to
come in there to praise how amazing this
is just a little thank you and just a
nice comment on the food it's good it's
yummy it's amazing but nevertheless
Hashem is the same thing Shem says I
give you so much right you can say thank
you just one little thang you just
appreciate what I do for you so when we
commemorate this Shabbat agador is what
what are we commemorating a huge miracle
so yeah it's for us not to look back and
say a Shem saved us three thousand four
hundred years ago is to be able to
understand on a daily basis
is saving me oh not only under the daily
base every three seconds the Shem is
allowing me to take a breath and I don't
even realize how much I need this and
it's free and I don't even thinking of
it so it has to teach us to be
appreciative to be appreciative of
everything that our Shem does to us he
doesn't believe in miracles we don't
even notice what miracles a sham does it
seems to us like things don't work out
but they work out how is they're
supposed to work out and ashamed the way
he works when he closes one door right
away another door opens that's how a
shame works so we have to understand
that the things that happened to us it's
not a special almost shrim is punishing
us or ignoring us rather Shem is opening
a much better door for me and I have to
be appreciative I have to be
appreciating for the good things and I
have to be appreciative for the things
I'm not so good so I have to take this
Shibata Godot to commemorate not
something that happened in the past
rather something that is going to happen
in the future and to teach me that I
have to be appreciative to the kadosh go
home
another Shem we're gonna continue
learning more love hurts already next
class and we're gonna start learning
about how we're burning the comments
what we have to do with the comments how
to do it when to do it all that stuff
Masada sham selling the comments hiding
the Comets what we're going to do on the
morning of pace that we have about
Hashem a few more classes but for now we
got a little bit of information what to
do before and rosada shame you should
they start applying it and you should
start preparing already now not leaving
things to the last minute not the
cleaning of the shopping not the chew
out that you have to do masala shame a
shame should the bless us to really
experience freedom in this holiday this
is the holiday of freedom we should
happily happily go out of this exile
into the complete and final redemption
bazaar the Sham
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