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Shalom everybody.
Welcome to the [clears throat] annual
seder and I want to thank a few people.
First of all, we all came most likely
right for to hear Rabbi Brightitz. So,
thank you Rabitz for coming. Um it's not
the first year. Um but also want to
we're just very grateful for all your
insights. I want to mention um Yapier. I
don't if anybody was by the shook, but
Yapier is sings Carly Bach in the shook
and u if you ever go to the shook and
see him just go over and say hello and
thank you very much for coming.
[applause]
Want to thank my wife. Of course, you
know, [applause]
>> none of this would have been possible.
There's all our seats over here.
>> There's one seat over here.
>> There's one seat over there.
>> Not anymore.
>> By the way, you know, we didn't really
advertise just through um WhatsApp and
our emails. That's it. We didn't
[clears throat] have any Facebook. Oh,
you you know, we just that's it. And you
guys are you answered the call because
we turned a lot of people away. Uh in
the past, we've had 3 400 people, you
know. So, uh we knew we were just going
to limit it to a com somewhat
comfortable uh space.
It would be nice if we could dive in and
mar afterwards.
>> So, that's at least set. Hopefully,
we'll have at least 10 men. That's
usually what we do. By the way, Rabbi
Rywood speaks here every Tuesday night
and we have Mari uh usually afterwards
and the only once we didn't cuz it was
after a fast and everyone go home and
what else did I Oh, there's a big sigula
right you know that we only charge 50
shekels. It didn't even cover the cost.
We just wanted to we wanted to tempt you
to come for a really nice dinner and a
really great seder. So there's a little
sedak, but it's also sigula andem
people already threw money into my
pocket and uh nothing can uh prevent you
except yourselves from doing so. Um
there are two sponsors for tonight and I
want to mention them first before we
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She was a friend of ours and uh this is
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The yard site is on the was on the 10th
of Shot. And without any further ado, I
hope we have if we have to move the
microphone a little bit because we're
not used to this, but let's try.
>> Okay. [clears throat] Excuse me. Hi
everybody. Nice nice to see you all. Uh
you are of course the chosen as Poston
as Rab Poston mentioned. Before Yona had
its own building uh we would make the
seder in Nitim with lot much much larger
group. So now that we have our own
building uh the space is a little
smaller. So it was first come first
serve and uh you are
so very happy that that you're here. Uh
before we actually start uh the eating
and the consumption based on the
prescribed order. I do want to talk a
little bit about uh what is tubishvat
and what is a tubishvat seder because in
the United States to be very very honest
uh the people who have tishbat seder the
most tend to be reform uh you know it
tends not to even be kept that much
among the from so you might be koshes
you might suspect us of borrowing a
reform custom uh but in point of fact
that is very very far from the case Um
now the idea that tishvat the 15th of
shvat is a roshashana tric is in the
Mishna. The Mishna says there are four
days of the year that are designated as
Roshashana. One of which is our
Roshashana tish and one of the days that
is designated as a Roshashana is the
15th of Shvat. However, the meaning of
tubes rashana lean is actually a very
technical dryic
construct that does not carry explicitly
any particular spiritual meaning and it
refers primarily to the agricultural
cycle of trumos and masos the different
tithings that you have. We know that in
Erit Israel we operate on a six-year
cycle of tithes and the seventh year is
shmita where there is no tithing that is
done on schmita even for the things that
grow by themselves. Now the hala
basically is that when you take the
truma and the maser and you give it to
the coen or the ley which we actually
don't do today because of people are
tame but in the time of the temple we
would give truma to a coain we would
give maser to a ley the is you must take
a separate maser for every single year.
So for example, let's assume you had 10
bushels of wheat of year 1 and 10
bushels of wheat of year two. You can't
just combine 20 and then give two
bushels because you might be giving two
bushels of year two on year 1. Rather
you have to make a separate calculation.
My 10 bushels of uh year 1, I take one
bushel, give it to the lady. my 10
bushels of year two I take uh one bushel
and I give it to a labor. You cannot
just combine them. This is a very
important inos
that says
you cannot take maser from old grain to
cover new grain or
aliashan.
Now for grains and for uh vegetables the
definition of the year is simply
roshashana.
So as a result I cannot combine let's
say the vegetables that were harvested
prior to
with the vegetables that are harvested
after
but elot quite literally have a
different rashashana point. The rashish
shana for trees is said to be, and we'll
discuss why in a moment, the 15th of
Shabbat. So, and by the way, and the
thing that determines what year a fruit
belongs to is not the year of
harvesting. It's the year of budding.
Budding is the stage after the flower
drops and you have a little bud. So the
rule is that a fruit that budded prior
to tubishvat
even though it's in tshin sak tshin uh
pav still belongs to the old year
because the year the tree's year does
not change until tishvat. So in that
case there is no intimation in the
Mishna or the garra that tubishvat is
some transcendental spiritual idea. It's
simply a technical construct of what is
called the new year for fruit. But once
we get to the time of the Arizal, the
great cabalist in Spat, and we're
talking about now the 1500s,
they saw and they perceived again based
on the zor, which is actually much
earlier, they perceived a deep spiritual
meaning to tubish.
uh and the idea that it's a rashan for
trees also has an implication for a
human being because a human being is
compared to a tree
and what happened was that the students
of their not their himself they
developed something called a seder for
tubishvat
that is modeled to some degree on the
peser
not exactly but you'll see you'll you'll
see there are four cups of wine you know
etc And this eventually got kind of
codified. There were different there was
no particular exact seder that was
followed but it get got codified in a
safer called preadar
which means the fruit of a beautiful
tree is actually a reference to estrog
but it's referring to all the fruits and
this was written by a tommet of
atonement of the Arizal and the standard
tubishvat follows the instructions of
the safer preadar. This is a safer that
you can get. It's even available online
uh in uh in part at least partial uh
translation [snorts] and essentially uh
what the safer develops is it gives you
just like a US income tax form there's a
short form and a long form uh 1040 104A
and so too uh there's a short form in
which you eat 12 different fruits
and there's a long form where you eat 30
different fruits
and then there's a middle form where you
eat 20 and that's kind of for whatever
reason that's the that's the one that
the makabir actually advocates without
fully explaining why but let me explain
the basis of the 12 and the 30
the 12 if you take the shame of Hashem
the four-letter name of God that uh we
don't pronounce that's yud v
uh that's four letters But two of the
letters are the same. Hey and hey, you
can actually arrange it in 12 different
combinations.
In fact, if you look at some sidedim
every roesh, every month has a different
su
different combination of the shamaya
because this represents different
spiritual energies that come into the
world every different month. There's the
yudk vvk. There's the hey yud v hey you
know different all again if you go
through it there there are only 12
permutations
uh that you have and also corresponds to
the tribes again. Once you get once you
get to number 12, 12 opens up many many
different ramaz and the says that on two
bishvat we're trying to bring into the
world the spiritual energies that are
connected to different types of fruits
and the [clears throat] like and the 12
fruits are connected the yud
seufim
seuim are combinations of the shame
havaya that's the cabalistic idea of the
12 fruits. Now the 30 fruits is very
very interesting. The safer pri says
that the 30 fruits are divided into
three groups of 10.
Three groups of 10. And one group are
fruits that are totally edible.
Meaning there's nothing that you don't
eat. basically an apple although an
apple may be a seed but by and large 99%
of the apple is eaten including the
skin. So 30 fruits have no significant
pole no significant thing that you
disregard.
Uh then the second group are those
fruits that have an edible outside but
an inedible pit.
10 of them 10 different types. A peach
would be an example. The peach is edible
on the outside but not edible on the
inside. And then the third are those
that are inedible on the outside but
edible on the inside like a pomegranate
and the like. Now therefore in the 30
you have a 10 10 10 corresponding to
these different types of solet or lack
of solet that can exist. So the
significance of this is this again this
is very deeply cabalistic. So, we're
just going over it in the simplest
possible way. There are four worlds that
God creates, four universes really. Uh,
we're in the lowest one. The highest
that is closest to God is called the
world of atilot, the world of emanation.
And then as things get more concretized
and more physical, further removed from
God, we have the world of Bria, the
world of creation. And then it goes down
another level to the world of yitsira,
the world of formation.
And then it hits this physical world
which is called the world of assa
uh of doing actual tangible action. On
each level there's a greater concealment
of divinity. This world has the greatest
concealment of divinity. Now
is not represented by any fruit because
atot is such a spiritual realm that it's
disconnected from physicality. So the
first of the worlds that is represented
by physicality to some degree is the
world of Bria. But because Bria is so
ethereal and so spiritual, those are the
fruits which are totally totally edible.
There is no kipa, there is no peel,
there is no pit, there is no impediment.
their goodness and their nutrition
bursts out.
Now the second group which does have uh
an ed in an in inedible pit but edible
fruit that's already a lower level in
which there is some blockage there but
the holiness is so overwhelming that it
breaks through the blockage so to speak
and that is the world of uh yity
and then we finally reach our world
where the goodness and the holiness is
very much concealed by kipa.
by a pit and therefore the concept is uh
if you're doing the long seder which
we're not exactly going to do uh you
bring down from to Bria and then from
Bria to Yira
to AA and there is nothing that
represents the world of itself. Some say
that what represents is you should make
a bereim and smell something. smell is
ethereal and spiritual and but in terms
of ailus
has no connection to a it reminds me a
little bit of a misa that they tell
about the sons of rebi
of sons
that he was once uh kind of in a trance
he was speaking by sudashitz and he was
in a very very deep mystical way but he
also had a very bad hacking cough he
couldn't stop coughing
So his son brought him a cup of tea. So
uh Zebraim got a little upset because he
was he was in the middle of a very deep
thought. He says you're not sealless. We
don't drink tea. [laughter] And the son
said you're not sealless. You don't
cough either. He says so you know you're
not totally [laughter] you're not
totally in the but that's that celus is
removed from physicality. the most there
might be is is rayak reak the spiritual
okay so that would be the notion of the
30 now again in spite of the fact and
this I I don't really see an explanation
in spite of the fact that the makab
himself recommends either the 12 or the
30 depending on availability in the
actual book he only lists 20 things to
eat and that's the state we're going to
follow we're going to follow the actual
book as he put it and he doesn't really
explain uh the the idea of the 20.
Moreover, it's a little more complicated
because even if you're eating the
fruits, so there will be a mix of things
without peel and with peel with with
pit, but we're not following an order of
10 10 meaning we're going to be eating
it beer bouvia meaning uh we'll be
mixing the different types nevertheless.
So that's one aspect per the second
aspect is an idea of four cups of wine.
Four cups of wine or four cups of wine
of course is familiar to us from the
seder and the makubalim simply borrowed
the four cups wine. I will say that some
of these booklets make a big mistake.
They say when you drink the four cups in
the tubish drink reclining to your left
uh rest assured that there is no even
min to recline when you drink uh this
wine. Uh it's not the same thing. I mean
tubishvat was about I mean pesak is
about freedom from slavery. This is a
different thing. But the twist with
these cups of wine is the following.
It's a particular order. The first cup
of wine is totally white.
The second cup of wine is a little bit
of red mixed with a majority of white.
The third cup of wine is like a 50/50.
And the fourth cup of wine is a majority
of red. And of course, you're not going
to see the white and a majority of red.
It just gets uh dissolved. Now, what is
the significance of the progression
from white to almost 100% red? This
itself is very significant. So there are
two interpretations that are given. One
is a bit more of an environmentalist
interpretation although it's valid
within our tradition as well. And that
is the different colors represents the
seasons and that is the white wine
represents the dormcancy of the winter
when things are not growing. So if you
have snow then obviously it's white but
even if you don't have snow it's like
bleak. There's no color in the
landscape. And then the little bit of
red is the spring, the coming of of
things. And then uh so you have winter,
then you have spring, then you have
summer where there's uh fullness and
then autumn which is the maximum red. So
it's referring to the cycle that
Tubishvat is celebrating the cycle of
nature going from the dormant winter to
the lushness of the autumn sukosimo
the in gathering of the crowd. The
alternative understanding is that it
refers to the four cababalistic worlds.
White represents rakam in pure mercy in
the world of which is the first receiver
of divine emanation
from the ano
all there is is pure mercy
but as things get more and more
physicalized and as God gets more and
more concealed
the mercy is still there it's always
there but [clears throat] it has the
appearance of the red red is
representing den and punishment so in a
sense you're going from Atsilus to Bria
to Yats. Yeah. To Yira to AA
and AA is our world. And the thing to
remember is that even in our world which
looks totally red, the white wine is
still there. The rahim of Hashem is
there. And in many ways that's a greater
rack because that's a rakim that still
survives
even in the middle the middle of. So we
have uh again two features here. We have
the Akilas Perros procedure 12 30 20
although I don't have an explanation
with the 20 per se and then we have the
four kos
procedure and then there was a third
thing that actually was added a little
later and that is that appropriate
divora
were to be recited as you eat every
particular species and the safer pates
for every one of the of the 20 fruits at
least. that he enumerates. He gives you
passages from the uh either the zo zora
has a lot of prominence. Uh sometimes
the Mishna, sometimes the gamorrah
remember that the actually talks about
one of the signs of the redemption of
the Jewish people, the coming of
Mashiach is the fertility of the land of
Israel. You might remember Mark Twain
visited uh Palestine as it was called in
the 19th century. He visited Palestine
uh just traveling and
you know it was dusty, rundown, filthy,
dirty. There were there were Jews here
but not that many Jews. And Mark Twain
wrote he couldn't understand how
depressing it was, how despondent it
was, how lonely and desolate it was. He
says, "Why on earth would God choose
like an ugly city like Jerusalem?"
It was a rhetorical question to be the
place of his divine presence.
And yet
uh we haven't we don't have a B mikdash
yet. There's so much that we don't have,
but we also have to be grateful to
Hashem for what we do have. And the
Gomorrah itself said that Eric Israel
does not respond.
The fertility does not yield to anyone
but the Jewish people.
That's the nature of it. Erit Israel
shuts down
when the Jews are not here and when Jews
come. So we could talk about Israeli
ingenuity. Of course, that has a role
too, but but but the truth of the matter
is it's a spiritual phenomenon. The land
yields its fertility to Israel and the
noescal says that when Israel begins to
generate its fruit that is a sign of
gula now it doesn't mean gul is the next
day I mean we've been we've had produce
for a while already but at least we're
in the season of mashiach uh in that u
in that way so those are the kinds of
the dra Torah that that that are recited
so I just want to conclude
that I would suggest that maybe there
are four themes when we ask ourselves
what is our tangible avod
uh in tubishvat what do we think about
what do we try what idea do we want to
incorporate so I would say biker I would
basically say four four basic ideas I
number one is the meaning of a human
being being compared to a tree what
exactly is the mashal that we are like a
tree this is based on a
Although to be actually honest, the
mikra is actually making the opposite
point. The the Torah says when you wage
war, do not destroy fruit trees.
Is a fruit tree a person? Meaning it's
not. So the actually says a fruit tree
is not a person. And yet and yet kazal
have the well-known dra that it's an
affirmative statement. a tree or a
person is a tree. Why is a person a
tree? So, one explanation might be
because a tree is truly a wondrous
thing. We're an upside down tree. An
earthly tree has its roots in the ground
and it grows towards heaven.
We have our roots in heaven. We grow to
earth. But really, we belong in heaven.
Our roots are in shmayam with Hashem.
Maybe that's why we're confused a lot
because we're upside we're upside down.
But a tree is a wondrous thing because
although if any of you have trees, you
probably did not buy an apple seed and
plant it. You probably bought a sapling.
But trees grow from seeds ultimately,
right? So you look at a tiny seed. The
greatest oak, the greatest cedar, the
greatest redwood trees comes from a a
relatively small seed. I look at that
seed. The seed seems to have nothing in
it. You could chew it, you could eat it,
you could swallow it, a bird could eat
it, whatever it would be. And yet in
that seed is tremendous potential.
A human being is that way as well. We
might look at ourselves insignificant,
tiny, puny.
In fact, there's a tremendous potential
in every one of us. And we have to think
about the tree. The mightiest tree comes
from the smallest seed. So this is the
notion of recognizing the inner
greatness [snorts]
that Hashem has blessed us with. But
there's other associations with the idea
of a human being being a tree and that
is trees [clears throat] in the winter
go through a period periods of dormcancy
and apparent stagnation.
A lot of the year it looks like
nothing's happening,
but you think nothing's happening.
Inside there's a whole factory of sap
being generated, manufactured, etc. So
too in our own lives, we sometimes go
through periods of stagnation happening.
But we have to recognize that those
periods can be the seeds of very fertile
growth and productivity. Things are
happening below the surface. sometimes
that are preparing us for the challenges
of life. Trees have roots, a foundation.
A Jew has to have roots. We're rooted in
Torah, in mitzvos, in a Israel, in a
hashem. Trees grow high
self-esteem.
Recognize your importance.
Trees have fruit and shade.
You help other people. You don't just
grow high to be high. You grow high so
you can help
other people in various ways. And
therefore we look at the tree and we say
that's what I should be. I should have
firm roots and I should grow high
recognize my mileas and try to be a
person that is there to help others in
various in various ways. So that's uh
one thought that we should think about
man compared to a tree. Second thought
is hakar sat
gratitude. Gratitude in Judaism is a
very important thing. That is why we
recite braos before we eat and drink.
Do you know that the very word fu youd
comes from the term to be grateful? Leia
called her fourth son Yehuda
because she said hapam o desashem
I am grateful to god now and rashi
explains why was she grateful with
number four what about ruen shimon levy
answer she knew with kesh there would be
12 tribes and she knew they would come
from four women so 12 divided by four is
three so she figured she's entitled to
three When she got four, she wound up
with six, but when she got four, she
said, "I got more than I'm entitled to."
That's when you're grateful, says the
Spasmus.
Every Jew
is called the Yehudi because we have to
go through life with the sense that God
has given us more
than we're entitled to. So the term a
Jew means a thankful,
grateful
person. So we look at the diversity of
fruit, we look at the colors, we look at
the tastes, we look at the textures. You
know the points out that if God made us
that we have to eat and of course not so
clear why he made us that we have to eat
or sleep. Those are actually good
questions. Why is there sleep in the
world? Something to think about. Yeah,
we have to sleep. Uh but but God could
have made us that we didn't have to
sleep. Okay. But whatever it is, if God
simply created a need to eat, he could
have made mush, inedible mush that would
give us the calories that we need and
the even the vitamins. But God created
food of color, of texture, of taste. The
points out that God's
goes beyond what is necessary for
survival
to give you pleasure, to give you
enjoyment. to give you just joy in the
experience and therefore tishvat where
we connect to the colors and the
textures and the different types of
fruits are designed to heighten the
sense of hakoras
hat right so that's the second theme
first theme man compared to tree second
theme the sense of gratitude hakarat
in the
And that's why the tommy shami says a
strange thing. You know we sometimes
preach that ideally a righteous person
should not be connected to the pleasures
of the world. That's kind of a maybe a
standard refrain. And yet the Tom Shami
says after 120 years man will be held to
account for every pleasure of the world
he could have enjoyed that he didn't
enjoy because Hashem says I put it there
for you. Why did you turn your back on
what I put into the world? Rh used to
say first of course lived uh in Germany
near the Swiss Alps. He says, "Hashem is
going to ask everyone, every person at
least who lived around there, why didn't
you look at the Alps? Why didn't you
enjoy the Alps? I I put them there. I
put them there for you." So that I think
is theme number two. By looking at the
diversity and the poss, uh, we see God's
[snorts] loving kindness and that
generates within us Hakaratov, which is
such a fundamental mida of of being a
Jew. Uh the third theme which overlaps a
little bit is to connect us a little bit
to the cycle of the earth and to the
environment you know and this is really
a problem to the urbanized Jew. You know
you know for really until we got back to
Eric Israel and even in Aristotle most
of us are urban creatures you know the
Jew in Europe was not a farmer. The Jew
in Europe was not allowed to own land
for hundreds of years. So Jews became
petty traders. They became businessmen.
Uh they went into banking. [laughter] A
lot of the anti-semitic accusations
against Jews precisely were there
because Jews couldn't do other things
and they were kind of forced into it.
And as a result, we became really urban
creatures and we're not connected to the
physical world in any significant way.
Again, in Israel, it changes a little
bit, but but even even in most of us are
not really connected to that to that
physical world. And yet, if you look at
the Torah,
the Torah deeply wants us to be
connected to the rhythms of nature, the
idea of day and night and the change of
seasons. Now, the yumm is actually a
very good example. We tend to say that
the significance of Pesak is the exodus
from Egypt, which is of course is true.
Shivuos is matan tora and sukos are the
clouds of glory. That of course is true.
No question about it. But if you look in
the Torah, the Torah emphasizes at least
with equal number of words that this is
part of the agricultural cycle of the
year. Pesak is the ripening of the first
barley [clears throat] and shivot is the
ripening of the wheat harvest and sukkot
is the in gathering of produce that was
drying in the field. And the shalos
regum were celebrated as expressions of
gratitude for the laress within the
agricultural cycle of nature. Even the
notion of ding
right a person should dil
with the rising of the sun.
[clears throat]
Now
I'm giving you an example how we ruined
that. We pervert that. Uh I was once I
once uh at the Davinet of Aikin Minion
was my father's yard site. So I needed
to to go there and it was in a room
without windows, a basement without
windows. And they had an atomic clock
that measured exactly when sunrise was.
And I was the cousin. I was diving for
the it was my father's yard site. And I
think I was two seconds late
uh beyond that clock. They told me I
couldn't dender again. [laughter] Now,
you know, this is kind of missing the
point. The point of aikin is as the sun
is coming up and it's beginning a new
day. It's like it it's singing a song of
praise to God and you want to join in
the cosmic song of the universe as it
greets the creator at the start of a new
day. It's not like you're sitting in a
windowless room, you know, staring at a
clock. First of all, they didn't have
those types of clocks in tomudic times
anyway. That's not how they measured any
of this. So, we take something that is
very clearly supposed to link me to a
natural world
and then instead I disassociate myself
from that natural world. Right? The
world of nature is a very very
beautiful. If you look at Shirim,
much of the love imagery is describing
the fields and the mountains and the the
liies and and the flowers and the birds.
And then the book of Eve at the very end
when after the heavy debates when Hashem
appears to Eve and he shows him the
magnificence of the world you can see
very much that whoever wrote these
biblical books had a tremendous love and
attachment to the natural world. So we
are urban creatures and I certainly am
an urban creature. uh but tub is one
time when we get a little bit to connect
to the rhythms of the rhythms of nature
which is a very very important very
important idea. Uh and the final point
is that eating is a function that we
share in common with animals.
And one of the lessons of tubes is that
we sanctify not only our spiritual
activities but we can take the most
physical animalistic parts of our being
and we consecrate them through blessings
through brahos through gratitude. And
this is said to be a tik, the
rectification for the original sin of
creation, the sin of the eight sadas.
And that was a sin of eating the fruit
that you weren't supposed we were not
supposed to eat. And we used eating as
an act of rebellion
and an act of hedonistic pleasure
and tubish. We have a chance to rectify
that primeval sin by eating with
gratitude and lash shayim. So biker uh
these are the four avodos perhaps man
compared to a tree gratitude connection
to the rhythms of nature and recognizing
that we can sanctify and we must
sanctify even the physical. Uh
[clears throat] we don't create a
dichotomy between the physical and the
spiritual. For example,
there are religions that teach celibacy,
that a holy person separates from
marital relations, for example. We
reject that idea. We believe that all of
those things that on one superficial
level, we are sharing common with the
animals can in fact be elevated and
sanctified to a very very high level. So
that's kind of the the special unique
quality of tishvat. So now we can u you
know begin some of the some of the
eating. Uh again I'm I'm sorry to keep
on talking because there is there is a
lot of comparatively a lot of
information that that comes out here. Uh
and that is when you have many different
types of fruits.
So of course uh the goes into on which
one do you make your braha brioates
and the general rule is that you follow
the order of the first the first thing
you follow is the order of the seven
species that erit Israel is praised for
and this is in paras avat
land of wheat and barley
gean
the vine which is grape. Tina a figone
a pomegranate
zemen
a land of uh the olive oil or actually
olives of oil udash and honey which in
the Torah always means date honey not uh
not be banani uh per se. So the rule is
when you have a lot of foods you want to
follow the order of the shivaim
but there's one big exception. So the
first thing that you eat will be will be
wheat and that'll be a misonote which we
have. Uh now the second thing would be
barley. I don't think we have barley so
we don't have that one. Now here's where
things get tricky. You would think,
would you not, that if you're following
the order of the Shiva
Geffin, gein is number three.
Not not so. Because here's the problem.
You determine priority based on its
proximity to the word eritz. [snorts]
And the word eritz appears twice. So it
says it says what? Erits [snorts]
gean
remon. So five of them are adjacent to
the first eritz. Then it says erits
again erits
zash
six and seven are adjacent to the second
erit. So since six and seven are one and
two visav the second erits they beat out
three four five in the first. So
therefore the actual order of eating the
shivam
is
sor
[clears throat] olive date.
So you did one two of first erits one
two of second erits then you go to three
four five gan to aim right now having
said all this I have to say that it's
largely irrelevant and the reason it's
irrelevant is is for the following
reason
once you make a this is only if you have
a bunch of fruits which one do you make
your braha now once I made my braha on
the number one the order of eating can
be any order in other There's no to eat
them in an order. This is just an order
of what? If I didn't have wheat, I would
do this, right? If I had olives and and
uh and uh g and grapes, I would do it on
the olives. But once I make it on the
wheat, so the whole order becomes over
in bail. Okay, again, this is a mistake
a lot of people make. The shivaim order
simply tells you what you make on. It
does not dictate how you eat it once you
made your braha on the highest priority
that you have. Okay. All righty. So, uh
the first thing we do uh is uh pour
ourselves or some have a min they do the
pes of one person pouring for the other.
Um I'm not sure how um how how do you
got people get wine? I'm not sure how it
works
on the tables.
>> Oh, okay. Okay. All right.
>> Okay. So, remember that the first cup is
100% white.
>> No, we we will. We're not going to We're
not drinking the wine now. We're just
pouring it.
>> We're pouring the wine. We're not
drinking it. Just uh
>> Okay, you guys have to help yourselves
with everything.
Now,
>> after you pour the wine,
>> we don't we're not going to drink the
wine yet. Just the wine should be there
as you recite things. Uh you make a bra
on the wheat cracker.
the wheat cracker boret misonos because
that is the first of the shivas hamm
>> so I'll wait till everybody's
We need one. We need one more.
Right.
>> For what?
>> No, it's totally min not not
but the laws about the braos the order
of
the
back. Thank you.
>> Okay, great.
Thank you. Should we pass it around?
Maybe this pass it around.
Got it. It's okay.
I'm going to just Is there another cup
over there?
>> Yeah, I'll take two cups.
Okay. So, I'm going to make the braha
and the cracker and then
>> everybody should make their own braha.
Betos
on the wine first.
>> No, no, we're drink. Yeah. Yeah.
Don't think
about
Now the uh the first we're going to make
will be on the olive
because the olive is after the we don't
have barley. So after the kita we make
the hets and the zat which is number six
but it's the first one after the second
er and the olive has a
>> no not yet no
>> no no no
we we don't have olives. Is that true?
>> Oh we have
>> uh yeah yeah it's coming. It's coming.
I'll just talk until it comes. The
>> olive olives
>> uh olives are very important. Obviously
uh the moral points out
that the kaduca of the basikdash
comes by anointing that Mosher Rabenu
anointed the Mishkan and anointed the
kohanim the kings. In fact the word
mashiach
the anointed one because the kings of
Bavid were anointed with oil to this
very day. La Habdil uh the kings of king
queens of England are anointed by oil
and they took it of course as a from a
bib biblical
ceremony and the Jewish people are
compared to an olive because an olive
finest part of the olive comes when it
gets crushed and you get the oil out of
the olive. So too, the Jew becomes his
finest.
When there's adversity and struggle,
people try to destroy us. People try to
kill us. And I'm Israel, the greatness
of the Jewish people comes out precisely
in adversity.
And therefore the olive is a remesal
Israel.
Um so we're going to make a boret prio
on the olive and one has intention that
it covers all other fruits
that one is going to eat uh the rest of
the evening. Is there a
olive here?
>> Oh, thank you. Thank you.
We also have barley.
>> Oh. Oh, you have barley.
>> Oh, I didn't know that. I didn't know
that.
>> One second. We should have bar. Yeah,
actually we do have barley. So, we'll
eat the barley first. I'm sorry. I
didn't know we had it.
>> Barley first.
>> But but there's no braha on the barley
because barley is miso. You already
covered it. But
>> the barley. Yeah.
Oh, I see.
>> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Okay.
>> Yeah. Eat the barley before the olive.
Yeah.
>> No. No. the barley's mazonas. It's
covered by the wheat.
>> We don't say a br on the bar. Let's just
eat.
>> Technically, as I said, you don't have
to eat the barley now because it's it's
not no bra you're making on it. But um
we'll follow the shamina order.
>> No, no, I'll I'll announce. We're not
doing the one yet. Um okay.
>> Okay.
When when you are ready the olive is
next.
The olive is boret pre.
Olive. Olive
>> make beret po eggs on the olive.
Anybody need more
freezer and crazy
water?
Yeah,
oil.
Now the date.
>> Okay. Now we do date. The date is honey
dash. Uh let me tell you an interesting
thing about about dates.
Um when the Romans conquered [snorts]
Judea
culminating in the destruction of the
Basam Mikdash
uh they burnt they burnt miles and miles
and miles of palm trees.
uh Ericel was almost totally bereft of
palm trees and even in modern times in
the 19th century they had to appoint huh
>> no by a cheny by a chain the Romans the
Bay Cheney and in the 19th century when
Jews began to cultivate the land they
had to import date palms from California
so the the the date that was growing
here for a long time was the California
>> date
that's interesting thing
>> the what
>> at the museum of the day museum of what
they say it was a smoking system
>> yes
>> from Iraq because we have no date
>> that's correct that's correct what
happened was that they found in Msada
and other places they found date seeds
date pits that could actually still
germinate they were preserved for more
than a thousand years
>> almost 2,000 years and they were able to
produce it's still relatively small
scale but they were able to produce from
those pits the indigenous
erich Israel date and it was found that
it had a sugar content that was double
the California date.
>> So there's a very good reason why the
Torah calls the date the vash honeyash.
This is a land that flows with the milk
of goats. Goat milk is referring to and
the honey of dates. And the truth of the
matter is I'm not I'm no expert, but
they tell me that um dates can actually
be a complete food. You can actually
be relatively healthy on living on
dates. Dates has a lot of uh nutrients
and uh it's relatively complete in many
many ways. Uh now the only thing about
dates is that dates do have
unfortunately I guess the bugs like the
honey too. So there is sometimes uh
insect infestation.
So it's proper when you eat a day to
first open it up, give it a visual
inspection
and uh we don't have to make a braha on
it because we already made a braha on
the olive which will cover all the other
fruits.
>> How about has anyone ever seen a a bug
in a day?
>> Oh yeah. Oh yeah, yeah, yeah. As a
matter of fact,
>> I've seen I've seen it in um
whatever.
>> Thank you. Thank you so much.
Oh, good.
I need that more.
Okay.
>> Uh don't worry. We we are approaching
the first cup. I I'll announce I did I
didn't forget. We will be drinking the
wine but not not quite yet.
>> Next
>> following the although we don't have to
follow that order once we made the right
bra. We're up to
geen
>> which is not bio gaffin. We're talking
about the fruits and it's either grapes
or raisins which are dried grapes. We
have raisins.
Uh again, no braha is recited because
it's a fruit and we already covered the
fruits with the boret prio on the
olives. Okay. So don't do not make a
braha on this. But thank hashem for the
raisins.
>> Thank you raisins.
>> I'm sorry I took a prune instead of a
raisin. One second.
Again,
it's interesting. There are parallel mid
Russian
that the Jews are compared to olives and
the Jews are compared to grapes and both
have kind of the same meaning and that
is the best is when you crush it. You
crush the grape, you get the wine. You
crush the olive, you get the olive oil.
And therefore, the Jew flourishes under
pressure. You know, it's fascinating
that when Napoleon
was going to invade Russia and the Jews
in Russia were under the Zar were living
under horrendous conditions. There was a
mlo among the Sherebbises in Europe.
Should we pray for Napoleon's victory
because he would liberate the Jews as
indeed he did. He abolished the ghettos
and he gave Jews access to higher
education. So many rabbis said let's
pray for Napoleon to win. Thesar is so
bad. The one exception was the Balatana
the the firstbi who lived in Russia and
he said if thesar destroys our body
Napoleon's emancipation will destroy our
soul and therefore it is better better
to be in a state of oppression he said
and that creates a stronger spiritual
life than to have unlimited freedom and
the truth is even though it sounds a
little strange but in truth um the
reform movements I mean The Haskcala,
the Enlightenment, all came as a
consequence of the fall of the ghetto in
the aftermath of Napoleonic defeat uh
I'm sorry liberation where he when he
was successful that is what happened in
Russia of course he was defeated and
Russia continued to be very very strong
eventually they fell to the Huska too
but it was much later and there were
several you know many decades of
sustained spiritual growth the Baba used
to say that it's easier to be a Jew in
Siberia than suburbia. Uh he said
suburbia was a real real problem. Uh
because precisely when you have
unlimited opportunities,
you just leave. You know, you leave. If
you were in Eastern Europe and you were
a bright person, there was, you know,
you could say it's no good, but there
was no avenue except going to yeshiva. I
mean, you couldn't go to medical school,
you couldn't do anything else. So, the
bright people stayed in Torah learning.
Now granted, I'm not suggesting that
should be the main motivation because
there's nowhere else to go, but it did
have that that side effect of the most
brilliant Jewish minds being uh directed
to Torah precisely because they didn't
have the opportunities to do to do other
things. So both the grape and the olive
bring out that same symbolism because
you get the best from being crushed and
and oppressed. Okay,
>> our next one. Hashem wants to pick us to
choose him out of love, not because of
>> That's true. [clears throat] But
sometimes we need some motivations, you
know.
>> The carrot and the stick.
>> Okay. Next is the fig. The na
>> I didn't hear you. needs to be checked.
You need to check your day.
>> Um if if if they are seasonal, if
they're not available all year, you make
a shakyanu.
>> Um I I believe they're they're they're
available all year. I I don't think you
make shanu on the fig.
>> They're not.
>> That's true. Also on on dried or pickled
or canned fruit, you do not make a
shakyanu. Is that that would be an
answer, too? Um, okay.
>> The fresh ones are available right now.
>> I didn't hear you.
>> So, dry dry are available all year
round, but the fresh ones,
>> right? Right. But we we don't we don't
have a we have a fresh I don't think I
don't think so. Yeah. Yeah, I
understand. Um, so
>> they were hung off the string.
>> Okay.
>> Yeah.
thing.
I've heard from numerous people that you
have to be very very careful very
frequently there are bones underneath
hard
for fig.
>> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah.
>> And I I haven't eaten a fig since I came
here.
>> Okay.
>> Yeah. Yeah. I know that. Uh in fact in
in our I have another tubish tomorrow in
Orsame and I know that uh they normally
do [snorts] not serve fig but I I'm so
on visual but uh but some people are
very strict about fig. Yeah, it's hard
it's hard to check. It's hard to check.
Yeah.
>> Yeah. Do you have
>> Yeah, fig went around.
>> Oh, okay. Do I have it here on the
plate?
>> Yeah.
>> Okay. again. No, no braha because it's a
fruit.
>> I've seen a bug in a bag.
>> It's really gross.
life.
And the last of the Shiva Saminim
is number five from from the first eras
and that is the pomegranates.
the remon
and here the remon of course a lot of
this is overlaps with what we eat on the
regular rash right the different sim and
uh it's yua there's a famous statement
of rabi shiman ben lish
that even the sinners of Israel are as
filled with good deeds
>> as a remon is filled with seeds there's
an old tradition sometimes kids like to
count it that there are 613 seeds
in a remone.
>> Thank you.
>> I'm not sure if that's an average or
whatever it is.
>> And even the sinners of ami Israel
are filled with mitzvos. It's
>> true.
>> And you know, it's a beautiful thing
that the one who said that was none
other than Rabbi Shiman bin Lish.
And some understand
this is actually an autobiographical
statement. Do you know Rav Shim bin
Lesh's backgrounds? He was originally a
gladiator and a highway robber.
>> He may have murdered people. We don't
even know. And he once accosted Ravokan.
And he said to Ravokan
uh Raokan said to him, "You're so
powerful. You're so talented. Why don't
you go learn Torah?" And Rishlakkesh
said very offensively because was very
beautiful. He says why don't you give
your beauty you know to prostitution
and he said I have a sister that's even
prettier than me and if you learn Torah
you will can marry my sister. In these
stories the the woman is usually not
consulted but uh but the story goes that
Rakkesh became
uh a student of Raban but he was kind of
like an equal. He's called the Talmid of
Raan. And throughout Shash, throughout
the Talmud, you always have arguments.
Raan
and Rash is Rabi Shimon bin Lish. So,
isn't it interesting that it's Rakkesh
who observes the idea that even a sinner
of Israel
[clears throat] is filled with goodness,
filled with potential. In later it's
called the pintit
the little spark of Judaism that comes
out in all sorts of crazy times. The
balatana writes how come a Jew who
doesn't keep shabas doesn't keep kosher
doesn't do anything but when push comes
to shove is willing to give their life
for God for Hashem for the Jewish people
where does that come from? It comes from
a deep place that is so deep that the
person is normally not even aware of it
but in extraordinary situations it comes
out the pint and that's what the
pomegranate represents on one hand
there's a kipa we talked about that
there's a shell inedible unapproachable
but inside there is goodness and there
is sweetness that's a beautiful remnance
to the sinners of Israel
on the outside. This is what they used
to say about sabras, right? The the
original meaning of sabra is that desert
fruit that uh prickly prickly on the
outside but delicious on the inside. So
here we're using the pomegranate as kind
of a mushel for that idea that there's a
tremendous goodness within
[clears throat] even if there's
roughness outside. So uh we eat the
pomegranate, we think about the
tremendous goodness that exists in Ami
Israel. This should foster within us aas
Israel
as well as a self-awareness of the
goodness that's within us. So it's both
the notion of f focusing on the other
and then also focusing on yourself uh in
that way. You know, again, I don't want
to this is not the time for uh political
speeches in in any way, but we we do
know, of course, that because of so many
difficult issues that we face in our
society, there's a great deal of
polarization, a great deal of makas, a
great deal of name calling, a great deal
of demonization
of the other side, which whichever your
other side is defined as in in whatever
particular issue. And after October 7,
for a while there was a great upsurge in
unity and togetherness, which was what
you would call the silver lining to a
very dark cloud, but there was a silver
lining that we were together.
Unfortunately,
it's kind of disintegrating
right now and it's back to business as
usual. I I often think of the mush of an
elastic band, a rubber band. You pull
it, pull it, pull it and it stretches,
but then you let go, it just goes back
to its natural place. It seems to be
very unfortunately that our natural
condition is makus.
Extraordinary events can take us out of
the makus mode for a while, but after a
while, you know, the extraordinary
events become normalized
and we're not in an active state of war
right now and hope it'll continue. who
knows with Iran, you know, what's going
to be and then we simply go back to
Maklo. So eating that,
>> huh?
>> Why is that?
>> Well, you can give you can give positive
reasons for it. You could say that
people care very [clears throat] deeply
about issues on both sides of things.
And when people care, it's hard to be
tolerant. Meaning, you know, Americans
like to say, you know, I mean, I'm an
American myself, like to say, well,
Americans, we're tolerant. we understand
everybody, you know, why can't these
Israelis, you know, understand? The
question is, are we more tolerant or
just we don't care as much? You know,
[clears throat] that's the question when
you care deeply about something. So,
it's hard to be tolerant. That would be
the the nice way of describing it. Uh,
okay. There are other ways of looking at
it too. And and the point is that our
vod in life is to be passionate about
our ideals and to stand up for what is
right and what is wrong but at the same
time with a sense of respect and deritz
for those that disagree with us and
that's a difficult road uh to navigate
uh you can either feel strongly and
stand up or you can be a pushover and
just don't care and neither of them are
really the right uh the right derk. I
mean, okay, again, I don't want to get
into demonstrations and all that stuff,
but but there's a lot here to think
about that. How do you stand up for the
ideals that are important to you, which
whatever they are? I'm not taking any
sides on anything here. Uh, but how do
you stand up for your ideals and not
compromise on fundamental truths and at
the same time have love and respect for
those who don't see things exactly the
way you see them? uh you know says you
know it says by korak
uh that we should not be like korak and
his congregation
explained it this way there was only one
maklokus in history where one side was
totally right and the other side was
totally wrong and that was kak against
mosha there will never be another
maklokus where the other side is totally
wrong meaning in any maklokus there will
be some right and some wrong in both
sides. Korak versus Mosha was the last
one
>> uh in which you know totally right
totally wrong. Huh.
>> What about Eli Yahu and the Bal?
>> Uh yeah I I well yeah that's a good
that's a good question. That's a good
that's a good question. Uh yeah okay I
hear that that wasn't a mus within
within [clears throat] Judaism but okay.
Uh so this is where this is what we can
think about as we eat the remon to
remember Shima bin Laksh's statement
that uh even the sinners of Israel are
as filled with virtue as the remon again
no braha because we are it's a it's
[clears throat] a fruit we already made
the braha
>> even though we didn't think about at the
beginning we didn't plan at the
beginning say wait I'm going to have
this and that and that
>> uh Well, I think if all the fruit is
out, I think uh
>> intentions.
>> Yeah. Yeah. Intentions cover.
>> Okay. So, we finished the seven species,
which is the first segment. So, now we
can I didn't forget about the wine.
Um you can drink as much or as little as
you want. You don't you don't have to
have a raviet. You don't have to have a
shear and you don't have to recline. Uh
but the one thing to keep in mind is
this.
Since this is not an obligation, so by
the seder ashkanaz make a beret
priyaguan on each one of the four cups.
Um we will not do that. We will make one
beret priagen and that will cover all of
the wine that you will be drinking. So
only this is the only bay priyan you'll
be making. Have kabana to cover all the
wine and you need not recline and you
can drink as little as as
[clears throat] you want.
boretin.
>> Who made the first two bishvat?
>> Yeah. So it seems to be these were the
disciples theim of the z. So you're
talking about in the 1500s or early
1600s.
>> Yeah.
>> Rabbi.
>> Yes. Why did we do not do the wine first
like you would have?
>> Yeah. So, normally you would you would
have done the wine earlier. The thing is
that by analogy to the peser
where you you recite things and then
drink the wine. So, we have to have a
recitation section and then drink the
wine.
>> But we do that in the seder. I mean, we
do that as well.
Well, well, yeah, but that's because
kdish was your recitation. Meaning on
the first cup, you recited the kdish and
then you drank the wine. On the second
cup, you recited the hagada and then you
drank the wine. On the third cup, you
recite birkason and then you drank the
wine. On the fourth cup, you recite
hollow, then you drink the wine. So,
every one of the four cups is preceded
by a recitation. So in the tubishvat
uh every cup will be preceded by a
recitation and the eating of some
fruits. Okay. So this was part part one.
Okay. Uh now the next cup of wine which
we're not going to drink till after the
second section. Um and you don't have to
add anything now and I'll announce it
again. You'll add a little bit of red to
a predominantly white wine because we're
moving from the dormcancy of the winter
uh uh to the spring, the rejuvenation or
the cababalistic interpretation. You're
moving from the spiritual world of pure
mercy which is uh emanation to a more
physicalized world of berea in which
there's a little bit of concealment of
rakamim in the midatin but it's still a
little bit but we're not going to do
that yet. Um
I mean you have a choice I'll leave it
to you. You can either add a little red
right now or before you drink. That's up
to you. Uh, but we're back to our fruits
again. And here we have the esrogue.
>> Now, this is a candied estrogue.
So, there's no sheakyanu because
generally preserved fruits.
>> It's not preserved. It's fresh. I just
made it yesterday. I made not yesterday.
Friday.
>> Oh. Oh, that's is a pizza fresh.
>> Yeah.
>> It's it's it's boiled. That's all.
Boiled and candy.
>> No, but it was cooked. But it was cut.
It was cooked. It was cooked. Yes. So
no.
>> Uh now there's an old tradition by the
way. This is an old tradition not from
BI but later
>> that to Bishvat you should pray to be
Zoh to a beautiful esrogue in the coming
sukkot.
Now let me explain
>> your white woman
>> that that today
>> people don't think it's such a big deal
because so many arrogance
>> why why shouldn't I assume I'm going to
get a nice esro but you have to know
that in Europe
>> for really hundreds of years esroim were
extremely rare and it was very common in
a lot of the smallet
that the rav was the only one that had
the esrog and everybody came to borrow
it
>> and if that esro got puzzle
>> there was there wasn't another.
>> So the idea that you're desperately
praying that you should get a good
esrogue was a very very powerful need in
those days. The truth is we need it even
today but we're a little spoiled because
there are so many esrogenim all all over
the place. Uh but so again this is a
good time to think about
give us a beautiful beautiful esro for
the holiday of sukus and may we be able
to fulfill the mitzvah the orisa of
taking it seven days in the ba mikt
because it's interesting that outside of
the ba mikdash there's only of the orisa
of day one the other days are midan when
there's a ba mikdash in the ba mikt It's
all seven days. So that becomes a dough
risa.
>> No braha, right?
>> No braha and no shaky because it's been
boiled and cooked.
>> This is surprisingly good.
>> Very good.
>> Something cannot be exception.
>> I I I believe that even if you need to
cook it here, you don't mix your piano.
We cooked the barley. You were
>> We cooked the barley and the wheat.
>> We cooked the barley and we baked the
wheat.
>> No, I understand. So, we didn't make We
didn't make I mean Yeah.
>> No, the reason is precisely because the
normal way you would eat it is by
cooking it. Raw is too sour. It's like a
lemon.
Okay, next is apple.
>> Um, again, we're no longer with the
shivam. We're dealing with different
assortments of fruits.
>> Uh, but you'll remember, yeah, I'm just
following the order of the sheet here,
which is the order of the paor, the
safer, uh, paor
and
If you remember in Shira Shirim
>> the song of songs
which is written as a very romantic book
a love story and in fact there were
there were rabbis who didn't want to
include Shirim in the Tanakh because
they said it's romance what are you
putting romantic stories
but what do what does Rabi Rabaka is the
great savior
of Shira
because he said, "If all of these songs
are holy, Shirim is the holiest of holy
because it is a metaphor and a parable
for [snorts] the love of Hashem for the
Jewish people and the Jewish people for
Hashem." And the woman is none other
than Ami Israel. And the Melik or the
shepherd, he's in two guises, is God.
And that is the holiness of that story.
And uh it describes there the fragrance
of apples as describing an ultimate
pleasure uh the beautiful fragrance of
apples. And indeed uh Rashi brings a
medish that when Yakov was disguised as
>> and Yakov comes to Yitk and Yitk smells
a fragrance as the field which God had
blessed. So Rashi says it was
so Rashi says
and in Kabala if you if you say the and
I don't know if you know three zamiros
of the Shabas meals
many people only only say the one at
Sudashis if at all but the Arisal wrote
three poems
for each meal of Shabas.
And he talks about the revelation of
Hashem's presence as tapen, the field of
apples. Although I will tell you an
interesting thing. Some
biblical scholars actually say that
tapuak in biblical Hebrew is not apple,
but it's apricot.
I don't know the arguments on one side
or the other. The standard translation
of taponikra
is apple but some do suggest apricot.
Yeah.
>> I have a question. I have heard the
phrase the holy apple seed. Does that
appear in any of those poems?
>> Heard that phrase?
>> Yes. Yes. Yes.
>> Which poem?
>> Well well the I could if I show you in a
in one of the poems for Shabas.
>> I don't remember. It's the Friday night.
I don't know [clears throat] if it's
Friday night or Shabas day. I have to
look. It's tapadish.
That means the feet. It's in Aramaic.
Aramaic.
>> It's Aramaic
tapin
kadishin.
Now it doesn't say holy apple seeds. It
says the field of holy apples or the
holy field of apples.
>> Yeah. That lion is the tapuk and kadish.
Yeah. And [snorts] of course on rashash
shana the uh first fruit although
there's a shila because of the shaim but
many people have the min that the first
fruit that they eat on rashash shana is
the apple dipped in honey and they ask
hashem to give them a shana tova.
So we can also ask under
Hashem should bless us and all of the
Jewish people and all of the world with
the balance of a sha.
>> Okay.
>> Okay. I'm just again following the list
here.
Okay. Uh you can do these both together.
There's walnuts [snorts]
and almonds.
Almonds, very good for the heart.
Now, here,
these are tree nuts. So, hopefully no
one has an allergy here, but uh tree
nuts are. So, once again, there's no
braha because they're covered by the
fruit.
>> The apple,
>> huh?
>> Do we eat the apple?
>> Oh, I'm sorry. We didn't eat the apple
yet. I'm sorry.
>> I'm sorry. We didn't eat the apple yet.
Yeah. Um
Oh, the apple's here. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Um, I'll wait. Does everyone have an
apple? Uh,
>> okay. I apologize again. No, no bra
apple.
Okay.
We just have dreams also.
>> No, that's that's optional.
You guys back
the walnuts now.
>> Yes.
>> Now a general idea about nuts.
Now you know just just to contrast it
for a moment. You know there is a minhug
on Roshashana the regular rashashana
not to eat nuts.
And there are two different reasons that
are given for the menagnat to eat nuts.
One is that nuts sometimes get stuck in
your throat uh fleg and therefore it may
uh may uh distract you in davening etc.
And the other is the gamatria of ego. So
it goes is alf gimmel which is four and
vav uh which is six that's 10 and the
zion is 17 is the same gamatria as sin
not counting the alf [laughter] which is
a silent letter so we don't want to e
that goes because it's connected to sin
etc.
>> Never understood that because to is
>> that's correct to 17 there. That's
right. That's right. Uh I think the flem
reason was the main reason actually. Um
um because on two bishvats we do eat
nuts and [clears throat] nuts are
regarded as very positive. In Shirim
again the Jewish people compared to all
sorts of things. The Jewish people are
compared to grapes. They're compared to
olives that we already looked at. And
the pomegranate is even the sinners of
Israel are as filled with mitzvot as a
pomegranate is filled with seeds. But
nuts are also good because the the
medish tells us that a tree nut that's
in a big shell, even if you throw it in
the mud and the filth, the inside
doesn't get affected. It all goes back
to the same type of metaphor that the
pineot
remains pure and good even when the kit
is filthy and the like. So again, it's
kind of repetitive because the same
point is being made in different ways,
but it goes back because we need to we
need to remember this and therefore we
have many many different symbols that
bring this to the to the four. So you
can do the almonds and the uh the uh
walnuts together.
Orange.
That's what my husband
Now here we do have the 20 uh 21st
century adaptation and improvement and
enhancement of the carob. Uh when I was
growing up uh so we got every tubish we
got this thing called bxer which is
carob dried carob and it quite literally
was eating a piece of wood and somehow
we were celebrating tubish
by eating a piece of wood
and yet and yet the garumar itself
indicates
>> oh did you like did you like it okay
[laughter]
that um the gummor itself indicates
that the karov
was the food of the very righteous
people who did not seek pleasure in the
world. The Gomorrah says about the Tana
Rabbi Khan Benisa
who lived in abject poverty.
>> The whole world gets parnasa because of
kina bendisa
and he is satisfied with a small measure
of
from shabas to next of shabas. And do
you remember the story
>> that his wife was so poor, they were so
poor, she did not have oil to light the
Shabas candles. [snorts]
>> She didn't have any oil for the Shabas
candles. So he told her, "Light the
Shabas candles with vinegar."
And she says, "Vine does not burn."
And he said, "The same God who lets oil
burn can actually let vinegar burn." And
indeed, Hashem did a miracle that
vinegar burns, which it normally doesn't
do. What [clears throat and snorts] is
his point? That everything is a miracle.
You think oil is nature
and vinegar is miracle. Everything's a
miracle. Think the thing miracles that
happen more often we call nature, but
they're still miracles. In fact, this is
to go back for Khaneka a little bit.
This is one of the answers to the famous
Kaneka question. And that is if they had
enough oil for eight uh for one day and
the miracle was it burnt for eight days,
there's only a miracle for seven days.
Why do we light the first night? There
was no miracle. There are hundreds of
answers to that question. But one of the
answers is to remind us that even the
normal burning of oil life normal life
we have to look at as a divine miracle.
And the karov connects us so to speak
with Rabbi Khan Benisa who taught that
attitude and therefore we can think in
our own lives as we say in Shimonu
because of your miracles that are with
us every single day. Now as I say though
this is a 21st century enhancement by
Rabbitson Poston in which the carob
powder was mixed. This is actually a
mison but this is covered by the wheat
mazonos that so the carob powder which
is like a cocoa is mixed with the flour
but we're still eating the carob even in
this particular form.
>> Say again.
>> Um yeah this is yeah this is [laughter]
for sure.
No, it's covered. It's covered by the
>> covered by
Would you say because you didn't eat
cow?
>> No, it's just No.
That's where we get the boxer. All
right. [laughter]
>> And our last fruit before the second
cup, we're going to have the second cup
in in a few seconds, is a pear,
a gasim,
apple. Again, no braha because it's a
fruit that's been covered. We don't have
uh do you have Okay,
>> we have mangoes.
>> No, mango is is later. We have mangoes.
That's that's the next thing.
The pairs went out with the apples. If
anybody needs
>> No, we don't have pairs. We didn't get
pairs.
Okay. Uh, second cup. Add just a little
bit of red. Again, we are moving from
the dormcancy to the of the winter to
the beginnings of the rejuvenation
of uh of spring. Remember that tubishvat
is the beginning of spring in a hidden
sense because botanically what happens
is
the sap
is rising
even though you don't see it and that's
going to enable the production of the
fruit. So in a sense we're beginning the
spring. Now whether scientifically it's
astronomically it's the date or not
makes no difference but spiritually this
is the beginning of that rejuvenation.
>> Okay. And we're also moving from the
total rakamim of the world of Atilus
to a greater concealment in the world of
Bria where the rakamim which is
represented by the white is a little
colored by the redness of den although
it's still dominantly rakamim uh there
because we're getting closer and closer
to our world.
Okay. Um, no no braha because no braha.
Just take a little sip and no reclining.
Maybe yellow.
The red one.
Okay.
>> Uh for some of these things I I frankly
do not have uh any any real explanations
and nor do the say it. Uh but again part
of the simka is the diversity of just
looking at all of the things that are
available. You know uh we've been
spoiled. This even has implications on
shakayanu. There's all sorts of laws
about shakyanu and seasonal fruits. Uh
in big cities there is almost okay is a
little different but in the United
States certainly in big cities there is
virtually no concept of seasonal fruit.
Everything is available all year round
because everything is imported from
everywhere in the world. So the truth of
the matter is the occasions for making
on fruits let's say in New York City uh
and the like are going to be
comparatively rare. Now Israel were
still hashem a little bit closer to
nature in which there are you know there
are months in which certain fruits don't
appear and the like but you know we are
getting spoiled itself is getting uh has
been getting more westernized and the
spoiled Americans are insisting you know
that everything be be available. So un I
think it's an unfortunate thing but uh
you know we might wind up like New York
at some at at some point. Um so even if
we don't have a commentary so to speak
on the fruits uh it is still a great joy
just to see the diversity of what's
going on. In fact it's brought down that
the joy is not only eating it. The joy
is looking at it. you know, I mean,
colors, textures, uh, these are things
that can inspire a person and bring them
closer to Hashem. So, the next thing on
the list is either azerole, which I have
no idea what that is, or mango.
>> Mango. We had
>> mango. I know. Okay.
This is dried mango.
>> Oh, is that mango? Okay. Thank you.
>> Does Rob have a ride home? We would love
to take
>> Oh, I appreciate it. Thank you. Thank
you so much. Thank you.
>> I don't have right now.
really good.
We're always
Heat. Heat.
dry.
Okay, here we get into uh the esoterica
of nuts. I'm not an expert in that. I I
know almonds and walnuts. I don't know
what filbert I mean I've heard of it. I
don't know what it looks like. A filbert
is hazelnut.
>> Hazelnut.
H we
>> sure
>> filbert is hazel?
>> We don't have
>> We don't have it.
>> No.
>> Okay.
>> Cherries we do not have. Right.
>> Oh, crains. Okay.
Well, crains are cranberries, but but
whatever. But um
>> craisins are next. Craisins.
Thank you very much.
Sweet.
>> Yeah. Yeah.
Okay, our next one is the dried apricot.
>> And now we uh can take the third cup.
Add a little more red.
>> We are moving into the summer
>> as more and more produce gets ripened
more red.
>> [clears throat]
>> We are also leaving
the world of Berea, entering the more
physicalized world of of of yet
where God's mercy is once again more and
more concealed
in a koi of miden. We're getting closer
to our world
again. No braha. Take a little sip.
what is apricot for
>> I don't know some of them I I don't have
any explanations
>> although some say as I say some say
apricot is a tap you know
>> is what
>> tapak so
>> so all the symbolism of apple could be
applied to apricot
Actually
I want to share with you as an aside
a very interesting thought from the
first Gabb the Kadushim.
The Tomu Shami says
that any tree that blossoms
from Tubishvat onwards
blossomed from the rain of this year.
And this year, of course, we had a lot
of rain. If a tree blossomed before
Tubishvat,
it really got its nourishment from the
rain of last year.
that one of the reasons why Tishvat is
the new year is because any tree that
blossoms from this point on is from this
year's rain. If it blossoms before
Tishvat, even in the new year, it's from
last year's reign. The says that
symbolically
gem
refers not only to rain, but gashm
refers to all of the goodness and
blessing Hashem's brings into the world.
So he says a very interesting we know
then on rashash shana regular rashashana
god decides who will live who will die
how much money you're going to make
healthy sick and know the final judgment
is on kipper but rashashana is the
initial judgment but the kaducim says
even though decides that we don't start
drawing on the new blessings
until twoish mean meaning
even though this is 5786 Six for tish
keshvan kislave tes and the first half
of we are living off the brahos that
were allocated to us the rashash shana
of 5785
and are we are able to access [snorts]
the brahos of 5786
only from tisha not tish only from
tishbat now we hope the blessings will
be
But they might even be worse. I mean,
meaning they'll be different. That's all
we're saying. We're getting it from a
different source.
>> Until tishvat, we're getting it from
last year's den.
>> After tubishvat, we're getting it from
this year's den. And he says a
spiritually sensitive person.
Not all of us are spiritually sensitive
per se or maybe not as much as we'd like
to be. Should be able to tell the
difference
in the quality of their aodas hashem
before tishbat and after tishvat. Again,
hopefully better. Hopefully better, but
maybe not better, but it'll be
different. That's what he says.
Different for sure.
>> That mean doesn't that mean we'll get
more breath?
>> Uh, yes. That that could very well be
the case once once that could actually
be a very positive message.
That's one of the reasons we call
>> even an abundance of rain which was you
know it created difficulties. I don't
know you know we had a lot of leaks in
my house you know so [laughter] there
are there are problems but on the other
hand we call it gishme braha we call it
reigns of blessing in fact one of the
most beautiful things I remember when I
first came to I'm I'm sure you've seen
it maybe more than I have even is that
we were caught in like a flash rain a
really heavy rain and people were
dancing as people dancing in a certain
and wherever I happened to be and it was
a wonderful thing people are dancing in
the rain is such a sim if you ever learn
mak's tinus which talks about fasting
because there's no rain and you see how
lyrically the gammor describes the joy
of what rainfall was what what what a
joy it was to people as opposed to you
know at least in the kutzar it's where
most of the in America most of the time
you know it's not a drought it it rains
with a lot of frequency so people look
at rain as an inconvenience
when in fact it's one as God's greatest
greatest blessings in life and I think
here precisely because so much of the
year we don't have rain uh rain is even
heavy rain we look at it as
we we always need it and uh you know
with all [snorts] of the fancy
technology that we have you know we
ultimately still need that rain
[laughter]
we haven't managed to totally get our
get ourselves out of that
>> food we have today
>> say again
>> all the food we have today is not tubish
last year.
>> Yeah, that's correct. That's correct.
Yeah, that Well, yeah. Well, we can't
have the post. Yeah. Yeah, you're
correct. But it's it's last last two.
So, that's something to to think about.
Okay. Uh we have our Oh, did we did we
drink our third cup already? I don't
remember.
>> Okay. So, this is the third cup.
>> Uh third cup once again. We're moving
into the summer
>> and uh Huh.
>> Which one is it?
>> This is Yira.
>> Yira. It's s
okay
we are now our fourth cup uh in the pes
it would be time for halal
but the truth is the whole tubishvat is
one big hal that's what it is so
essentially everything is halal and our
next thing is one of the favorite foods
of many many people in aritis
that is the pistachio IO se the pisto
if you remember pistachios seem to be so
popular that at least according to one
commentary in Rashi when Yakov is trying
to figure out how to send a nice little
gift to the viceroy of Egypt remember he
said some of the choicest of the land so
according to Rashi's medus that Rashi
brings he sent uh
>> pistachios that was one of the things
that he sent uh now it was a famine so
probably there wasn't a lot of
pistachios, but it was more of a
symbolic gift and that was considered to
be something very very treasured.
>> The rabbi say pistachio.
>> Yeah. Pist pistachio. Yeah.
No, no, no, no.
[clears throat]
I'm not with ADHD or something
neuro diver.
You know, I tell the uh the boys in AR
that, you know, uh Jewish Vat is a
really important day because it's the
only day of the year they eat fruit. Uh
but
yeah, the guys don't don't eat fruit.
You know that that's a well-known that's
a well-known [laughter] but I assume
that the adults here eat a eat a more
balanced diet. Okay. Our next thing is
interesting because this is this will
have a braha. Pine seeds.
>> Now pine seeds on one hand come from a
pine tree. So you might assume it's a
fruit but it is not uh the normal fruit
uh that's eaten. Uh meaning it's not
normally uh eaten as a fruit. So in such
a situation you make a shahakle
on it. Now let me point out something.
There is a special rule about wine that
when you make ber priya guffin on wine
you don't just like hamotzi when you
make hamotzi you don't make a bra on the
individual foods. When you make a bur
priya on wine, that exempts you from
shahako
on any
>> drinks on any drinks,
>> but it does not exempt you from shahako
on solid foods.
On the other hand, when you actually
make a shahakle on drinks, that does
exempt you. So, I have to say that I'm
not going to make a shakle because I had
club soda. So if any of you had water or
any type of drink, you will not make a
bra on the pine seed. But if the only
thing you drank was the boret priyagen
on the wine, you will make a shahako
on the pine seed. Okay. Yeah.
Now
>> there's a very interesting comparison.
in Tahillim. This is saddic base 92
which is a very well-known chapter msir
leom a hash shabas. This is the we say
both Friday night and shabas morning and
it ends with the verse.
Look at the two comparisons that sadik
should flower
like the date paler
balvanon like a cedar in Lebanon yiske
should go high so that sadic is compared
to both a tamar a day
and an irez a cedar tree
and the gammorra explains that we have
these Two comparisons.
A cedar tree is majestic, high, strong,
powerful, but it doesn't produce edible
fruit.
The tamar produces edible fruit, but it
tends to be a relatively low tree, small
tree. Date palms are not gigantic like
cedars. So that sadik has to have these
two qualities. He has to be like an ays.
He has to be strong. He has to be so
committed to Torah and mitzvah that
nothing can move him. He's a cedar of
Lebanon,
right? Or in my neighborhood, our arab,
right, the cedars of the of the capital.
But at the same time, he can't just
think of himself. He can't just be the
cedar that doesn't produce fruit. He has
to produce fruit in the and the Torah
that he teaches and the wisdom that he
shares. And that's why the saddak has to
have the two characteristics
as strong as the cedar but as giving as
the as the tamar. So we already had the
tamar earlier the shaim
and the pine nuts remind us of the erys
tomato.
>> Our next uh we just have two more.
Our next is hackberry, which I have no
idea, or prune, which we do have.
Prune uh is here. A prune for though I'm
sure you all know that a prune is a
dried plum.
And
once again, I I don't know the exact
significance. Um I apologize that uh
there's we don't have the full
explanation for every everything
>> and part of this is just the diversity
to have sim Okay.
Good.
Heat. Heat.
And our our last
>> is Pen
[laughter]
>> at some point. I I don't know, but
that's okay. You never had we have an
orange on the plate, but we never said
anything about
>> uh Yeah, we didn't officially again, if
you enjoy it, take what you enjoy.
>> It's not officially listed, but
>> what is this?
>> What is this now?
>> You know, it's interesting that oranges
again were so rare uh in Poland that uh
you only they were so expensive because
they didn't grow they didn't grow in
that climate at all. They had to be
imported. That uh you only bought an
orange for a child that was sick.
>> Rabbi, I brought it over these pecans.
Do you have pecans?
>> Um I don't have pecans.
>> Yeah, I think. Thank you so much.
>> So they used to say what they used to
say um that oranges were only for the
sick children
>> and even chicken soup was not always
available. So they say uh if you got
chicken soup during the week uh either
the kid was sick or the chicken was
sick.
That [laughter] was the only that was
the only condition.
>> If these if this all this was written
two generations after the resol
in the 16th century
>> apparently. Yeah. Apparently they did.
Yeah. Anything
special with pecan or just
>> anything special with pe with but the
pecan
>> pecan I don't know I don't know
>> again the general the generality of the
tree nut and we ate a number of tree
nuts is the medish in shiim
that the inside of the nut never gets
dirtied by whatever is on the outside
and that that refers to the Jewish
people so all the tree nuts have that
that thing in Honey,
[clears throat]
our fourth cup.
>> Pour the red wine in. It should look
almost totally red.
>> We're moving into the fullness redine
wine.
>> The fullness of the autumn
>> is man of sucos,
>> the in gathering of all of the produce.
>> Thanks very much. But at the same time,
we're entering our world of assa in
which the mercy of God seems to be
covered up by an overabundance of red
wine.
>> It was close.
>> But we have to know that even in the red
wine of den
lies the hidden
>> mercy and compassion.
>> Oh yeah.
>> Of the white wine.
>> Oh.
>> So as we leave this tubished,
we live in a world
>> where den seems to be very very
dominant.
>> Oh good.
But in the den is ultimate rakhim and
compassion. Our prayer would be that the
white that is within this red should
become revealed and perceived by us and
that should be reame.
Amen.
>> Um in order to make a um
Corona on wine, you actually have to
drink a fair amount of wine pretty
quickly. So unless you dr if you drank
the if you drank a full cup uh all at
once, you would make the after brahan
wine, if you simply sipped a little bit
every time, even if you wound up
finishing a cup, you would not make a
bra on on the wine.
>> What are you going to do?
>> So uh I I
>> What's your drink this time?
>> One whole like this size. Uh half. No,
not the whole cup. Yeah, you have to
drink the whole cup. If you drink the
whole cup, you make Yeah. Yeah. Yeah.
Yeah. Yeah.
>> What's the time?
>> Red wine.
>> Okay. Sure. Sure. Uh
>> do you have to have
>> say what
>> how much milk do you have? If you had
like a couple of those big
>> Soonos, if you had really one one wheat
cracker, that's enough to Yeah.
>> Yeah. Yeah. So, so that's true. What
now? Once you're going to say an alamya
because of the cracker, you can then
include even the wine that you wouldn't
make your own bra for and the fruit as
well. Uh probably fruit people probably
did eat enough uh of the shaminum to
make the aloe. So I would assume based
on this
um I I'll make a I'm going to make a bra
on everything because um I ate a kazias
of misonos for sure and ate a kaz of
fruit. So even though I did not drink
the shear of wine, but once I I have
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