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who embassy MercyMe by the Sembach arrival for the second annual case synapse the event sky you kept this from me escape for elephant angers and all the humans of my start designers a greater sympathy sky is around applause say I love the name it's all game I started everything from at Lawson's an of Alva days 24/7 let's live in pollution scope for my dementia summit Eagle writes out the ravishing dimensional generosity Fallon aiming for the fear of forgetting some names but one schlemiel it's men and gingi and heinous what as you can seen the the abbot's it's not loud okay better now okay unlike regular events Mata MC and cinema top out the show and order to save some time we are doing things twisted there won't be a speech I'm not talking I will allow older bounnam to basically help us out over here and give us a summary or takeaways of the Shabbos physic everybody's been I'll take home something of physic of the Chaves and they'd like to start out with Robin Shea stylish leader okay good luck okay I'm keeping to the two-minute this is the two-minute speed round louder it's a microphone they can turn off the value everyone can hear me beautiful Wow wait a second there's this cut into my two minutes oh there's no speakers by the ladies can you hear me in the back where the ladies are sitting [Music] how do you know what I asked you I'm gonna leave everybody with one the could that because it's a question that I yeah it's gonna okay obvious is put the mic in front of me and project it get ready all right it's very loud so there's a question that's often asked about the difference between TP and enabling so I just felt I should address that question it's a legitimate question and it's an important question what's the difference between what's the difference between healing your child with love and the opposite destroying them god forbid with with the wrong kind of love so I'll tell you a story there was a ye'd a soldier who was stationed in the Sinai desert and it was poured him he didn't even know it was poured him he was so removed from Yiddish kite and a group of Labov HFC them jump off of a jeep and they run around with little packages and hand them out to the soldiers and he looks at it and on the packages it says and the package it says podium Sameach a happy forum it took my time now President or Michelle or my north whatever this is what it says I'd normally Babbage from there from the Lubavitch a rabbit so he didn't eat his i I don't know who this Lubavitch a robber is but he sent me a present very nice somebody sent me a president he kept us in mind for many years eventually he left at it to throw like it happens too many Israelis they become more from when they leave at it Cicero so he ended up in Chicago - Lea there a friend of mine the Neal Moskowitz oliver Shalom brought him to to the rather he meets that oven that ever asks him a question the neighbor asks in Yiddish kite we always put the emphasis on the right side you do am its leader with the right hand everything you start you start with the right side even getting dressed you start with the right side how come when the average term made a human being seemingly he made a mistake because he took a neighbor like the heart which is vital the whole neshama depends upon it he could have put it in the center like the brain or if he had to put it off to one side he could have put it on the right which is the Iker the main side is the right why is he able to go and take the heart and put it on the left this is what that ever asks this Jew he didn't have an answer so they never told them like this the whole purpose of a heart the function of a heart for which the AVA schtor gave you the heart is to love and other it's not for you it's not for yourself your heart is for an other so when you face another year than obviously slow your heart is on the right side he is right side exactly where it belongs we were made we were built we were designed to give we are healthy when we give we never get sick from giving we get sick from taking an attitude sir all you have a Canaris and you have a yama Mela it's the same exact water the Canaris is alive and flourishing and thriving and everything around it is alive and everything in it is alive the yama mellifers the dead sea everything in it is dead it's the same drops of water they melt no melt in the mountains in the north trickles down makes rivulets it goes into the canary it swirls around it goes downhill water goes downhill that's the yardie the jordan river is the water running downhill till it gets to the Dead Sea the lowest elevation in the whole world is the Dead Sea when the water gets there it stops it has nowhere else to go the water in the canary is alive and enlivens the water in the Dead Sea is dead and it kills the same drops of water what's the difference they can narrate every drop of water it gets it gives away we were made to give we are most alive when we give the Dead Sea every drop we can only take it never gives away so this is the difference when I'm a people-pleaser when I give to you because I can't say no because I'm desperate for your approval because I'm afraid that you won't like me that's not giving that's taking codependency enabling that's the ultimate form of taking it's a sneaky form of taking I'm not giving love I'm actually taking approval and validation if they take and take approval validation from your own child is the sickest thing or even worse they're causing me so much trouble they're annoying me so I'm buying them off and just trying to get rid of them that's not giving that's taking when does the whole Titus TP work in my humble opinion and why does it work because it forces us to give in the way that they a mr. designed giving to give absolutely unconditionally as real givers expecting nothing in return to give for free gratuitous kindness has stirred him and when we give that kind way we are healthy and it also works out that our recipients are healthy you will never go wrong from giving selflessly well McLouth ain'tcha may allow although I'll spell it out there are a lot of ways to go wrong if you give selfishly but you can never go wrong giving selflessly continue giving selflessly sequoias like to also take the time to thank Yankee Goldman for putting down over 120 hours and doing all the graphics for us and for been here asking for setting up our website command the ADA doing all the rights for that I bounnam - making sure everybody comes on time and being into our liaison if I was Lucifer asking man declined that jumped all the way in to help us set up receiver Sarah Bona for tomorrow thank you also somebody doesn't like his name to be named or spoken about the book of sham put another asking on to our team that helped us tremendously with guidance and physic and everything else a purseful cove tile [Applause] and those sort of hash to the Rosenberg from Muncie and now we'll have the covets to call up her out of show annoy Atlanta I get father wishes who sugar Boonen all assembled here better fifty years ago there was a year pay she'd that work very hard in the Knitting companies buy the machines most nights of the week he was not home to put his children to sleep most mornings he was not home to wake up his children that was the momma's job this one day he comes home early from work and he walks in and his wife is talking the kinder look into bed at night and light Krishna as the VIU - ah mama he hears the following how my love hug or yell oh you see me call you he ever died so she goes in he says he says vise sippy ball or whatever name is is what you just now say just a line Krishna I'm saying her mother said would you repeat that I'm out with her going oh you see me cold who you've arrived and she stops yes that's not that's not where you put the commas and they start arguing back and forth this is how my mother lines Krishna with me advices is the bills and words started flying back and forth your mother - rigor she was a Lankan a Buddhist 14 generation I'm allowed so she can't even say a per second line Krishna and it turned into a serious argument and they went to the previous calendar epicycle South Africa for an entire year back in 1965 1966 he's a kimmel around that South biggest looks at these two people could be the Milan sloth from Romania and his was guiding food and the husband starts telling the rabble you know what my wife just did to the kid she cursed them you you were like he turns around to the wife and a frank was so she says that but this is how I like fish from every night mala hog oiler you see McCall who you were like a son Unum and the rabbit stuffs and why do you like fish me like this so she says this is how my mother liked Krishna with us I remember as a child Ruslan wherever we were that's how the mama Glen Krishna splendid ever thinks for a minute turns around for the husband and he says let her continue let a continue mining Krishna's own so the II desks rebel am Aston but would you explain so he says I'll explain he says every Friday night when I eat came to hide from the smell fish we know there are two Moluccan that bug like to eat one malar is a malar toys and one mala is a mullet raah if there is harmony Jerusalem bias was Gachet the Molotov says Utzon Shakir came the shabu-shabu while coracoid the Maluku has to answer on mind what happens if they come home and there are arguments in the she'd then the molecule has to say you see Shakir kind of shabu-shabu and the Molotov has to answer o mine it's kilometer below Moses Reagan which Mallos broker which Malik answering or - ash Terriers are available the mallow guru has to say here you thirsty again the shabu-shabu the boy side of malice tells ianka the villa quisa Risa Emily came by Lucien with he fell next to frantic synapse so we are going home without distinction I'm Elijah to my look am i walking into our homes and you know what's going to happen the mouse that was here last night but see that when we were seeing as surely my life and the mallalieu had to say Utzon here came the shabu-shabu and the Molitor Eve had the sphere and said Oh mine as our guide to Samantha shams on the way it was you know why she Silesia Emelec involution everyone's sitting here she looked so pale and altered Emily Kim McNally amid the sudden value ssin the lowest level in a Moorish was pulling down our killed alert vertically you're all succeeding what's there are you that will hear this Shabbos what I walk away the existing unshakable on shame the Shabbos like this I'm humbled I'm walking away with the Shabbos looking at Eden with wish luck sir coitus a tipper Katie coitus ignition and we are fighting back our coitus like this we're coming mid Shabbos with a vulva Advil we're coming with Kim Isla tsadikim Newell ahem each area is oily local yarmulke Zaki this is the Khalif that we are coming with and this is what I'm walking away it's a listen ash right hand the Irish turn the I wish to chef Marcus renamed it's a crusade some of whom Ellucian by mulac and H look sane but vertical that's what you have to remember that goes for Abby that goes for the spoon and that goes for Gaddafi that goes for everyone that lent they shoulder to the Shabbos the I wished is only mentioned there every Shabbos when we come off a mass madness I'm a local commander on Amala I go yet oh you see me call you you too right Agata [Applause] rather it's hot love this thing I'm not going to use this opportunity to give another short drop sir Dahlia said I should two minutes what I'm taking away from this Java somewhat I think you can all take from this Chavez it's very straightforward I think everybody here is we have one thing in common we're all struggling in one way or another each one with our pickle everyone thinks that petal is the worst petal and everybody's right but after a shambles like this no one is alone you've met many many people outside undreds of other people who are all in the same boat as you who are with you feeling it with you more Hashem you've also met a whole team of selfless rahbaniya professionals as Conan therapists and the rest my vocabulary is not that good and what we all have in common is that we're all there in order to help to be a listening ear and cuz I'll say nobody knows whether the Osher is supporting the omni or the anya supporting now here yes and Masha a gal rots olynyk a portal honey make connections with each other make connections with all the people who are there to help you we're there to help you we want to help you you've got people here from all over the world any time of day or night 24/7 keep shooting mammals take the contacts use them that's what they're for [Applause] oh yes kaya absolument other and try to wrap up such amazing messages that we took out from the Shabbos I'm thinking what could I say in two minutes I think is I learned a lesson from all of you in a house is zero there was a e that came to the ballot Anya he was working his eyelid was working at himself to grow and he asked him which one is more important I have a sachet AHA this is zero which one's our work first he answered him we said it's they're both one thing loving a sham a loving Claudius rule is I'm Zack who half the SDM Oh Madison Shem said I love you Chloe said well I care for you and I think that loving a half additional coy - we almost Lucia pan health-giving and when he give to someone you start loving them and when you feel loved and you feel that someone you feel cared for does a love the feeling of love develops in here if someone cares for you you love them and if you care for someone so I have us both ways and we know that 1/2 is 13 a lot my advice is the radisson together is 26 whence ye tonneaus asleep is the Shem avaya here Shula banish initiative and I am but we all know it's a shine avoided to be loving clothing civil people are very proud when I eat claw Lisa de Almeida dick but sometimes it's very hard to love the neighbor that sitting right now and shield that shaking the table whole time and knocking his foot in a DD is sitting named knocking the table the whole time is still loving him or your neighbor that the garbage is going into your lawn it's hard to love your next-door neighbor sometimes the one that are driving you mad the ones that are hurting you with the ones that all houses sit all is loving the person that's right mayor and sometimes it's our own children sometimes it's so hard we instinctively love our kids it's a real unconditional love but when they start repelling us and doing everything against us it's an external voyda to start loving them at the half dollar Cecile so however since it all starts at home and I think that this is a lesson that I learned this Chavez our last year of the shadows and from all of you that sometimes looking away from ourselves and putting our own interest in the side and loving someone that's betraying us and that's every less than a harvest Osito the second thing I want to say that I learned from the Shabbos is the power of one person we have a Schindler in our myths the valve official one person as our Cutlass one person decides to those Clementina team and look what happens he had no idea when he started that he's gonna have such a big so many people being helped the method it says and I'm gonna conclude with this the managed sense of a Honda coil it was making shulam between financial initiative between money he didn't know that was the oil shoot on Verizon shulam and it's by his l'viyah the man who says there was eighty thousand I think eighty thousand islands that were bug lighting is Odin he said every time there was shulam between one years and the other couple was saved their marriage by locking the next child the name de Haan there was so many hardens in the future years to come she was coming very soon there's gonna be all the mud indicating that saved so many others they're gonna be marching with hundreds of kids avi Lahav Apple is like a ship ler Schindler we all know Schindler are going for calcium asylum he was marching down with all these kids and all these people that is saved and some of the heat in this in our age it's so humble if whoever walks in over here like this Albie I got Chavez like you wouldn't even know he's the head in fact sitting over Lumina talking and taking I eat versus alligator and I think that this is the second lesson and most amazing lesson that occurs when the Shabbos is the power how each one each and one of us could really do everybody could do something so major so much more beyond ourselves I aspire and have you who deduction anybody who starts the journey of following the guidance of a V in helping their children one of their initial concerns is what about the other kids in the home and avi often quotes the nevians grab Aleta that says add araba the other children of the home have a lot to gain they get the opportunity to see the real true essence of the neshamah of a Yiddish account instead of seeing the child as a rebel as a Russia as an aversion they see a tire in neshama that's never campaign that's one of the gains for the other siblings are following this derek is their love of a bee I just want to be most of that there's something else to gain as well not just for the siblings but for us as well and now something I take away from the Shabbos that following this Derek we also see the essence of the neshamah of a Yiddish a mama and a year Zapata how a parent is willing to give up everything everything that's important to them well their money all the time all their courses all their values for the ultimate value of bringing back and saving their Tyler Kent and that's something that I think we can all take away so powerfully from the Shabbos and also like others mentioned the the other phenom between people who are mannish strangers when everyone is together action bit Sora how everyone loves each other and gives each other to each other even though they're complete strangers and everyone feels Manish ke chef dorvil a valid imitation everyone together desert to the to the ultimate goal of seeing nach Hause the kedusha from all their children emits a Schemmel under the guidance of a V and B s Goyer ah I want to thank all of you I'm the deepest part of my heart they're giving me this here to participate in such utter holiness Shabbos I walk around the showers I feel like I think everyone feels Josephina our Arthas I don't know there was any periods in Jewish history a newish appearance did so much as toddlers so much Fila so much mysterious nephesh to bring the left to get children closer to Hashem mashaallah shooters we discussed a little bit a concept that Caracalla me shouldn't look at the situation as if these children aren't doing the road smash em or we are doing the road smash em with them other lava the way we act with these children is the biggest manifestation of rots in Hashem this is what our sham once we hidden know that when we speak about all said when we speak about the future we do all the stylist Fela and any establishment can do to change the situation but when we speak about AHA and every second a second later is AHA we know that this and only this was that Ultima sham just want to be moisés and we spoke at Castillo our melody watan so it had to be Messiah because he didn't sink Sheila after the nest of some caliph and the question begs of itself why indeed didn't he sing Shia and perhaps McCaskey oh ah Malik was the same day that the days of Pesach when he saw what's gonna happen Menasha are mine and all that saw us he was another massive to sing sheer so he didn't sing Shiva but to bring me Shia you need to see the massive and sink sheet attached am this is this Shabbos this is the salvation of AVI and all of the tsadikim that take part in that do that also now sham with maecenas nefesh an obscene a sham that's incomprehensible but flights are going we don't understand for whatever we were taught we don't think this is a lot smash am but if this is all a sham this this is indeed adults nutshell and we do it the simcha we do it with our we do it with Sheila this is ultimately ultimately gonna bring mushiya maybe see mushy Oz day very very soon the Swiss all that sorry Kim sitting here I gotta lock [Applause] now open this freedom few words couldn't colligative off my never avoid Sarah bulla Mahesh even my impression from this Shabbos I finally understood something that I've wanted to understand a long time we say much of Shaba Sanders mirrors Omaha Shimla yankov Althea of the Yonkers both are appearing 22 times altero of the anthem what has happened wise Yakka have to be scared this week after searching inspiring Shabbos I finally understood that there a burnished a Loyola is talking to these Heyliger parents that go through such a tremendous tests miss Eunice and after this ball hotels them our Tea Room of the young co-ed don't worry I'm with you and I'll explain we say much the sharpest ve eaten the whole the Bogdanov room brings the Rhea police took him from Brock widely eaten look who must have the connection between the youth and the Holy Mother Shabbos ah keep to the two minutes a cluster bomb okay once the eternal home why much a shambles there's a highly give heart from the more option sir America Vote Yaakov Avenal set two aces me through Chiron as before Asif Ali please sell me the Bahamas a the memory says the marriage trouble solving leave had your mmm in the door please sell me one day to the rail eager - which they did he wanna buy Shabbos dish they made a deals of the matters Olam haba is Jakov Avenal in oil masa is a sub that yak of Avena but one day I need Shabbos dish which is amateur which is a material or in the choppers or Caruso Rishabha so he made me through Karen's only valuing one day sell me this is a coil Shabbos be there Emma's since they're opposite sex Caillou I'm either Lucia thymus Killam is they they sang give me today for Killam difficult morena sharpest Isis was hungry for money souls in the player instead of it he didn't have a scold buffoon the Isle of assassin by English the you Italian once you bought the sharpest you have already all the brothers took that artifice of you austere but he loved America vehicle because they saw he took away so how much of the brokers normos good Shabbos that's why after Shabbos motors robbers well we keep the Shabbos is we saving eternal soul why didn't the Akaka vena wanna give the profits for ya for a lack of Aveeno business is Fagin he that resistant Elena Toyota as I think that the fetish Lyman but rich came mainly know that ASA will not support the actors shows he told the act of the go and take the profits Yaakov Avena was frightened the ish money sure the Evod how did ya go get the brokers while he had on the big laser t show that even Haas was a Lila when our children have big the ASA v aeneas will be with big laser we should know that within there is a yak of vino hidden and that's why matzah shoppers were saying that Aboriginal item says according to the olive bytes if she keeps the Toyota LT row of the a coil that's obvious job the mysteriousness fish catcher nafsi to reveal the Yakko that's hidden with the laser agate of off [Applause]