17th of Tammuz: Rebuilding the Holy Temple in Our Days - Rabbi Dovid Goldwasser

[Music] I'd like to point out that the main idea of Shiva Sabha Thomas the main idea of the three weeks is that we should game his look we should know what Hashem wants from us particularly here in this Cullis to learn and to be able to aspire to all of us wonder exactly what is our target in this world what's my purpose why was I sent here what could I do how could I help to build the base of me crush we know that if the base of mikdash isn't built in our days we're high if we are obligated so I want to know a Shem how do I do it how do I build the base of make dos now it's an interesting thing because the human being is full of conflicts one day I want to be at Sonic one day I don't want to be at Sabich one day I want to learn one day I'm not so interested in learning and I'm conflicted back and forth Hashem says get the direction know what we have to do where we have to accomplish keep your eye on the goal and go that way and never let it go no matter what the situation no matter what the challenge no matter what any soil however sometimes a person is back and forth it's an interesting thing just to give an example as interesting matters so manager says what happens what happens Ghana hostage LM a thief a thief is coming in from the window above my Terrace up there what do you do well I don't know if you'll do it but no Elena what you're allowed to do you allowed to take a gun you have to shoot him well my Faris you get him before he has to show them gets you that's that look that's the way it is so obviously he's not a very good person obviously I'm Tyson that maybe wants to do something bad so I'm allowed to go quickly and to take care of him and to kill him no question on the other hand fascinating menders fascinating menders there's a man and he wants to steal he's a gun of where do you want to go if you want to steal something the jewelry store so he goes on the top of the jewelry story goes on to the roof and there while he's on the roof he begins to plan how he is going to steal what he's going to take all the things that he's going to do that night and he's in there waiting on the top he wants away midnight he's going to strike when he thinks that nobody will see what does he do before he begins to drill a hole in the roof in order to be able to go in to steal and to make whatever he's going to take away from the jewelry store in his loot what's he do before kalimera midrash the major says puts on a guard tool takes oddity lame and he begins to be miss following he begins to doffing rabona shall i l'm please I'm begging you help me I should be much Lea when I'm going in and when I'm going out help me then I should be able to go down and while I'm going down not to trip off the alarm help me that no human eye should see it help me that when I get to the safe I have treats aside Arif and I'm able to crack the safe and open it up and I hit to the right numbers I talk her name love them dice and the line midlanders Mina helped me that I got the understanding of how to do get me to the right things that I'm able to find the real gold and silver and jewels help me to avoid the zirconium and all of the fake jewels and everything else their costume and that's miss Paulo he's miss following and he shuffles while he's doing he's going back and forth right and then he goes in and whatever happens happens asks them a fortune which is it is the god of the above my Terrace I can take a gun and shoot or is the gun of the person that takes out everything you need to feel afore he's this follow I shouldn't help me I'll give my sir even from it I give a gift climbing shall give twenty percent but what is it either he's one who's not it can't be both so it's an interesting idea that the Heyliger of Yaakov Galinsky said he's a very interesting thing there was a man in a hoodie and he lives next to a ye'd lives next to a Jew and the interesting thing is he sees that the Jew goes out in the morning and he comes home probably about one o'clock 1:30 not late he's got everything his children got everything he lives nicely good food has some nice things inside of his house and this ain t hood he lives next door he works an entire day Nicole mines from the early morning until late at night he can barely put on the table bread in water for his family he doesn't have enough furniture for everybody in the family he comes home he's covered with soot black he comes he's exhausted he doesn't even have the clients to schlep himself to the bed he falls asleep on the chair in the middle while he's eating his bread one day he can't take it anymore how does that Jew do it how does that ye'd come only after a few hours he has everything comes home perfect no problem and he got everything that he wants one day he worked up his gumption he got the ointments and he goes over to the Eden he says said tell me Raviv how is it that I'm going the whole day and I'm working the coal mines and I'm covered with black and I can't even have enough money from my family to eat the basic necessities that they need and you you're going out just a few hours I see it they come back they tell me early afternoon and you got everything you want Hedin are rough money been a rough morning leaden are nice he says I'm happy to tell you I'm happy to share with you I'm not the persons only for myself I'm happy to show you he says tomorrow you can come with me and you can see my work Dana you who'd be the guy next door he thinks man I made it now I'm going to get the path a way to get all the riches and he says this is unreal he's up early in the morning and the Yeats walking down the street all of a sudden there any who D sees him he jumps out of his house he follows him and the ye'd goes to shul and any who this a little bit afraid to go inside of them no no it's ok couldn't come in we're rock money and been a rock want him you could come in it's ok right so he goes inside and the end of you who the observes how the ye'd starts going around asking for its stalker he goes to miss pauline sadaqa sadaqa sadaqa and they start to give him money and this person is watching it and he's in the soil this is unreal he doesn't have to do anything it's a white-collar job all he's got to do is ask people for a little bit of money they all seem to give him money he was very impressed and he watches it carefully watches very carefully he sees it he goes with him a couple of days he observes it Oh JT on-the-job-training and he comes out after he's done now he knows he's got the mahalo he'll open up his own franchise oh so what's he do he gets for himself a yarmulke he puts the yarmulke on his head the NAU hoodie and he goes he learned he learned how to do it he goes to one of the shoals and he starts sadaqa sadaqa sadaqa ago walks around to everybody and they start giving him money this is unbelievable right in Ramona been a rock morning so he makes money and it's going good he quit his job in the coal mine he has got a midlife change a second career Oh beautiful everything's going good for a while until one day he sees the guy come in and this guy is making more money than anybody else people run over to give him the money people want to they try to tell him a few good words and they give him more than just a small coin they give him a dollar he waits when the guy's leaving he says to him let me ask you a question yes I see that they give to you more than anybody else what's your secret what how do you get the money he says well I tell you the truth I'm mogera I'm McGarrett setec so there's a special Mitzvah to Tyra the half temas again so Yeadon want to show that the mccain Bat Mitzvah and they give extra behalf them a cigar you have to make sure they don't have a difficult time who next day Dana Yehudi comes in Yamagata said Sudoku lagarde said Sudoku LeGarrette said 'ok and people begin to give him more about after mr. Garris unbelievable and he's doing good that lasts for a couple of weeks until one day he sees a guy come in the guys collecting and they begin to throw money at him they're throwing money at him they don't have they can't even give him enough everybody starts to put their hands in the pocket he waits till after dominant doesn't to be mop sick in the middle wait till after domine runs over to the ye'd and he says tell me what is your secret how come people are rushing over running to give you money he says well I tell you the truth I don't like to say it but I'm an i nickel of the Baal Shem Tov grandson of the Baal Shem people like this loose Bill Oliver Scioscia Bunin and they say oh I am so they want to start to give me money and that's why they have a lot of Simkin doing it the next day the ami Yehudi goes to next show and he says sudoku Leggett said ech that is a nickel of the Baal Shem Tov you cannot be everything you got to be one a person has to decide in life I got it bah-wah Terrace or a sham please let me be miss Matt's Lilith and all Mya Varys a person cannot be both an individual has to choose in which way they're going during the time of the three weeks we have the school's goggle that we're able to clarify ourselves that we realize that the center of our lives the center of everybody's life is Binion based on mikdash Lea she misses and are named Alicia Coliseum Grameen we pray every day a shame you smart off let us see the return of the screener Tutsi I'm every day Volusia lie miracle Baraka meme teshuva I say to a sham help us come back to you shall I am every single day in benching of an era shall I America - that's the IKAR that a person has to keep their focus on that I am so ruthless the life of spirituality that I shall put us here into this world we all have the coif we can all do it any person here no matter who they are no matter how big or small you may think of yourselves you're great in the eyes of a sham every yield has the power in the eyes of a sham that we can't even be much higher it is impossible for us to know what is our Youkilis what's my potential because I think I can do this much I can do that much you cannot tell what you are able to accomplish in this world I had a elderly aunt and I'll say it over elderly aunt and I loved her very much and she moved at the end of her life to Florida and there she wanted to keep busy one day so she came in really elderly she came in there was an art place that offered classes she had nothing to do nothing so she came into the art place and the instructor told her to sit down and they gave everybody an easel with paper and they said everybody everybody paint whatever you think you could do if you could paint the house just a square paint that if you could paint boy a stick figure paint that whatever you can do do it my aunt went and she begins to paint and she's painting in painting the instructor came over and said to her I'm sorry ma'am this class is not for you she said I didn't see that there was a age limit I didn't see that an older person cannot also come he says no that's not what I meant but I see by the picture that you made that you are an artist so you don't belong here in the class she said I promise you I never painted before in my life kids are MYSA the picture that she never knew she could paint in her wildest dreams sold for three hundred and sixty dollars that picture the ah--this that a person has inside we don't know we don't know what a person is capable of doing what a person is capable of giving to the world what a person is capable of inventing what a person is capable of helping another individual we have Coco Chanel um in the power that we have inside we don't even know about it Avril Lavigne oh right Hashem you sprout said swear I've Rama V No so the suckage ever says why I'm Roma be know as to swear I've Rama V no he lied down in front of my sham Hashem said take your son okay to see look he Naini he's ready is taking him so why of Rama V no had to swear the answer that the Omni nazar says is because a person as Koko's an element if I swear if I make a schwa then the coitus come out because I'm forced to let those curses come out until that time they don't come out it's during this week that we have the power to see what is inside of our potential to give a good look inside and to understand who we are the mysterious nephesh that Claudius Hall has the tremendous mileage that the hosel tell us that in the town Buddha tells us all of the things that each and every one of us has everybody is special everybody is great there's not one person destined this way a destined that way everyone has the Koya interesting they always say from the word what do we call bnei yisrael you saw L right yes Ralph starts the little list letter in the olive base you'd ends with the biggest letter the biggest ice and the olive base lammott no matter where a person started from no matter person's ethos no matter what chance is a person had in life for no chances ahead in life the little you'd can become a big lammott that is our job in this world we come across an interesting puzzle it's a troubling puzzle but we'll share it together today and that pose look we have in an obvious way all the puzzle is difficult for us to understand and today I would like to try just to work up a basic understanding your - or kanae oh the Ox knows its master the Ox knows its master your Dahshur kaneo vaca more in the donkey a moose ball of it knows the feeding trough of its master okay the Ox does realize it you're not sure says the mahara you're not sure the Ox is also called in hagigah the king of the animals the king of the Behaim is why because in a Saqqara because it understands it recognizes it knows who its master is and the donkey knows the truth of its owner it goes to that trot in fact even the horse a horse knows how to get back to its owner you could take the horse many miles from it's a loners home it will find its way back many my sim have happened over the years and especially during the Holocaust of things that happen with animals however the nobody continues unfortunately yes royal lugar Don but my nation forgot me I am said somehow they got mixed up they got confused they didn't realize who they are bluntly my 10 wash em don't always act like Bonin they don't always act like children they don't always act like I'm the balla boss over the world I am the master I me though he spend on my nation they didn't think about it my nation they didn't put a little bit of thought into a sham now that's extremely interesting puzzle I don't want to ever be compared to an animal I don't want to be compared to an ox certainly not to a donkey but yet the posix says y'all got short Conejo I I mean they are my nation they didn't know me I mean Louis went on they didn't think about me so the truth is that we have an idea that Chloe's royal needs to have he spina knows he's been a nuisance thought then I should think about it I need to have a few minutes start during the day of chuva I need to have a few minutes start during the day am i doing everything that I need to do if I don't think if I don't put my mind to it I could completely slip everything but if I think for a few minutes it's very very much worthwhile how many people come over and they say you know raw ID oven the itn't the wrong shoe Montessori I said the wrong villa so I said well which one were you supposed to say well it was mousse off' it was most of rosh chodesh this happened Lucifer Scottish and I said so which mousse if they did that would I dive in most of Shabbos okay after that one another time but the he's binding this is the important part even though I sham FLP that mid sister not need to have qivana there's only a couple Mitsos otherwise even a person did a missile with outcome owner it's still okay fascinating fascinating if a person says masha barua at the time they asked for rain at a time when clay soil is not supposed to answer rain they have to be close to the rush they have to go back insatiable necessary again what's the reason so we would say they said the wrongness off they said the wrong those sons not the right thing they got to go back and say it again however it's a fascinating idea the fascinating idea is that the real reason is because when they said Mishima Rua and it was not supposed to be the reigning time we are afraid because of that one yield that made a mistake and said ma Xiu Arora that the rain may come down so the bearish al-tohra says this is an amazing thing the guy made a mistake he's not thinking about governing he's completely in a different world and he says Mishima Ruach we're afraid that that Fela could be in this guy and that maybe it's going to happen so what do we see from it that a person needs to have a person needs to have a little bit Havanna a person needs to have a little bit of thought and understanding before we do anything this is the Tavor of the shore the nature of the Oxus it remembers its owner the nature of the donkey it knows where its food came from and if a person would have that TEVAR they would also be able to do it but the individual may not have that ever that's what we're gonna argue there is at Ewa there's a fish that swims in the ocean and the fish Lowell a new cannot see does not have the gift of sight however the fish can navigate perfectly never has a problem because Hashem built into it a certain radar and it doesn't need to see a human being doesn't have it so perhaps the shore the Ox in the donkey has that TEVAR and we don't have it however the answer is no we also have the TEVAR we also have that nature but we have to develop it this sensitive the understanding the wisdom to know that this is required of us that is something that a person needs to develop that's something that we need to work on and that's what we're working on during this time fascinating fascinating piece in the Gemara in bhava Basara it's unbelievable piece that will help to explain this idea that I got to be sensitized when I see when I see things going on in the world so I realize that it is all stemming from Corbin yerushalayim it's all stemming from the time of tisha bug there was a little boy in the house yesterday and I had a safer because I was thinking about coming to this wonderful Center and I wanted to have something special so I had a safer on the table and the safer had a very interesting picture of the coastal of my Ravi and light and signifying the a veil is over you wish alignment abate some English in in the corner it had a badge that the Eden were forced to wear during the Shia during the Holocaust the yellow badge the star so the boy asked me Rebbe why do they have that isn't that from the Holocaust that's when the Shia why is that on there and I began to explain to him the macaw had varam the Shia shot for him weird that Soros in this world started we can put a lot into perspective when we come to that understanding and so this is what we work on we work on what I hear about based on meekness I pay attention when I hear a shear and they're talking about the base of meek dose in the future Binion I say well right now it's not the Gail I'll listen and I'll learn the welcome and everything as soon as it comes no no it's the game right now of it's time to learn coach Jim learned our locals learn about Binion based on making us learn what we're gonna be involved in learn what will happen in the future that's what a person has to do to dream into the future and they have to think about it and they could sit down on Tekin fat sighs I saw somewhere in Borough Park there's a minion Tekin cuts us at midnight to sit on the floor and to cry over corn based on meekness so we have an amazing piece in the Talmud that helps us clarify it ahoo Gaudreau there was a certain man this Shambala the B so the camel errata the wife was overheard she didn't know that he is listening in and she said to her daughter the following ah when he overheard it he said a mile oats Gnaeus be surah why aren't you careful when you do something wrong at least don't advertise it don't go into public and do something wrong at least be discreet do it in quiet what happened Hawk Itza asada Bonet Isla the woman had ten sons ten sons a minyan the lace Lamia Vogue Elle Akkad but she told her daughter there's only one of the sons that comes from your father Oh unfortunately this woman was not very discreet she had gone in Donna Varys she had children that were not her husband's children unfortunately that had no cyclists I don't want to say anything so before the father died he shockwave when he was ready to give us the summer back he said Oh Milo who he said to his whole family Konoha sila Cabrera all of my belongings go to my one son because don't forget she said only one son was from him okay at that moment he left this world his de chambre left the world only problem was we don't know which the Sun is no your day'll a maniacal didn't know which one of them was his real son so what could they do if a person needs to understand a problem or an answer they have to consult with the gaudily eylem Shammi p.m. on Ohio we breathe from the words of their mouth they stand burro Machel eylem and they protect us and they besieged us gem for us all the great tsadikim and ocean Sitka Neos so he realized that there's a Shiloh Kimura how could you tell who is the real son and who is not the real son so they came to the Heyliger rabinaw and they asked me but na tell us which one we want to know we wonder who gets the Arusha we want to know who gets in the custom tell us who's the real McCoy who's the faker right so rabinaw thought for a moment and he said something that is amazing he said I tell you what you do Zillow Kabuto kira davao coin all of you you go and you take sticks and you start to beat on the cavern on the grave of your father take sticks and beat it a decoy or Magali little Lahaina who shot go until the father will raise from the cavern and will say which one of you is the real son which one is the real son oh now that's unbelievable when you say something out P Kabbalah when you say something like this it immediately people are going to believe it and they all got the answer to their question they went and they ran and they got sticks and they went in a cavern they started beating however there was one son huh who Debray delay Azam there was one son that didn't go he didn't go he couldn't do it he did not have it within him to do this thing on my Lihue rabinaw said ah cool o Nixon to hide all of the belongings the holy Russia goes to that one son that did go to beat under father's grave on his kefir why because somehow he had it inside the real son would never bring himself to be mezuzot in the covered to do something to be Mufasa the mace that he could not do when he felt that inside then he realized rabinaw that this was the real son the truth is when it comes to the horn base of mikdash we have the same exact idea it's a feeling inside of us it's a feeling that everybody has that we could cry over it there's the feeling inside of us that we could feel bad over it but it has to be developed the son did have that nature and he had an easier nature just had to be brought out did he know a minute before and say I'm the real son no was he able to tell no and when they were arguing over the Russa which son is it did he say no no it's me he didn't say it at all but when it came to the MYSA of hitting on top of the kefir then it came to light then in color it stood in front of him this is my father that's the reddish that's what a person has to feel when it comes to you shall I am when it comes to base amygdala it's mine that's my house that's where I get Khepera that's where I get Mithila that's what the core bonus is gonna be brought that is a house of our share that's what we talk about and we sing about all the time it comes to all the differents mirrors of obesity part a no that's when it comes to other whooping Hara at kelban a culminating in a silver car oh that's what we talk about in so many different ways the Rambam says in different base of Hira we change depending on the particular mode what we call the base um English that's what we cry about throwing your shyness wait a whole year involved in the base that make this year you shall I am the only thing is I gotta bring it out of my Tivo I have to bring it out of my nature and this is the time when I got to chance to bring it to the forefront one more interesting parcel that we have and that parcel gives that we are a nation kevin oven Kevin oven we're weighed down by sin when a person is weighed down by sin so they don't have chance to think about all the things in Ruth's Gnaeus that I need to be cognizant of that I gotta remember I have those thoughts and unfortunately there are times and I don't spend enough on it because I'm all involved in all the things the answer is happy I should be toward a whole day Yates is happy I'm involved in this and involved in that and that daigon this duygu believe me it doesn't help a person thinks about that I guess it does not help the hey legal ella ver the great lover once said there is only one worry that a person is allowed to have in this life only one worry is mutter i asking which one rabba and that is you're allowed to worry why you're worrying more than that not but Yates it tries to make us start so I'm Kevin oven it says in the Navi that we are a nation that sometimes becomes heavy with a virus I very surround the person it's easy it's simple a lot of challenges that a person has we don't even have to look to it to come to it that's why a person has to surround themselves how fortunate we are that today we have assembled the people that came from he de bruit which is an organization Shama brew Michele Elam in Torah anytime and it's unbelievable bringing Torah to millions of people each and every day on every single continent it's unbelievable through Michele Elam and hizaki Oh Kazak an organization that is Mikasa Keeton on all different fronts from the most to the least from the right to the left everyone so that's our answer for today that we are able to fight with Torah we're able to fight with mitzvahs that's what helps us in order all of the things that the world comes to tell us to do we're able to fight back because we have the one weapon and that weapon is Torah and that weapon the Sutton does not have an easy time with the Sutton didn't start up with Avraham Avinu then it start up with Yoko with Yitzhak but did start off with Yakko Yakko was a star shell Torah and a the Sutton knew when it comes to the Torah he's gonna lose and that is the beauty the Borough Park Center makes a evening afternoon when everybody comes together such an unbelievable eylem really very very special you should know the school said I have to stand here you should know the school so I have to stand in front of you that's a weapon that's what we have in this world to fight against the Sahara so it says I'm Kevin oven we're a nation that's heavy heavy with sin so what does that mean particularly in our days in our generation we have more of Eros than our Shia then maybe previous generations it's easier more things are accessible it's difficult things are too accessible so it's very hard for a person to be able to keep on the straight and narrow to be a loyal Evan about Shem but we should never be discouraged no matter what a person went through they can always come back and it doesn't matter what an individual where they're holding they can always come back strong was the heat in Eretz Israel a fascinating incident that happened I even narrative thrown in this particular Jew had a difficulty he started to be influenced by certain friends he came from a nice family a family that were gore Kruschev and he went the other way he got influenced by his friends odka de Kock until the point where he decided he's going to marry somebody out of the fold terrible terrible his friends told him that he's got to tell his parents you're not marrying Iggy you got to tell your parents it's not right they find out about it any chance of ever having any connection with them is gone you never have a chance so he mustered up the strength the yin came over and he told his parents that he's going to marry someone out of the religion the parents began to cry they tried to speak with him they saw that pretty much his mind was made up and then he added in I'm already engaged hello the father after talking realized that he said as much as he could he had a sheer cavora a sheer cavora with the great rush Steinman said sonic Lavrov oh great no Steinman he told his son I want to stay together here with you but right now I have a sure cavora I have a fixed study time rush diamond is giving a shear but then the father thought at the end he said maybe you would like to come to his astonishment to his shock the son said I would like to go I will go together with you the Sun that is marrying out that did who knows what is mask him to go to a shear from the Gullah door and they both go afterwards the father asked the son would you mind if we go to rush Steinman and just get a Braco the son said ok they went the father could not hold himself back he blurted out the situation with this Roche Steinman looked at him with loving eyes Roche diamond said can I ask you a question how long have you not been sharma Shabbos how long have you not been religious the son said two years Roche diamond said to him over those two years did you ever have regret did you ever feel bad the son said yes I did could you tell me how many times you felt bad the son said there are four times that I could remember four times four times that I regretted I had charata Roche diamond said tell me those four times that you had regret how long did that last the son said approximately ten minutes Roche diamond said to him he put his hands under shoulders of that boy and he said I want you to know been welcome somali Chuba armed him in the place where a person that is about children that repents that has Hirata that regrets tsadikim gomorian complete Siddiq him are not able to stand there so because of those forty minutes that you have of chuhwa I'm mechana I'm jealous of you I'm jealous in your soilless you're bigger than me you're big an inch Steinman the Sun heard this the Sun broke down they walked out the Sun walked his father back to his house his apartment by the time he reached the Sun said I am NOT going through with this I'm calling the engagement off he did not explain himself he left some time later when the son got back together with the father the father said I have only one question for you nothing else I don't want to ask I respect you could you tell me why you agreed to go to Syria of Steinman in the situation that you are how far away you were from Turin Mitsos broach diamond he says I have to tell you I was in the class in yeshiva Kitana we have an extra Trebbia minal from yeshiva Kitana here in row Steinman came to give off a hair to give a test to the boys every boy when they did the right answer to her Steinman's question he gave to them a nice candy when it came my turn almost at the end Rosh Diamond asked me a question I didn't know the answer roofs diamond was patient he said I'll ask you a different question he asked a little bit easier question the boy tried but he said I didn't know the answer Rosh Diamond then said that's ok I'll give you another question he asked him an easier question the boy tried he didn't get the answer all the other boys left the class this little boy was the last where Steinman called him over and he said to him the following you know in our torah you do not get the reward because you know the answer you don't get the reward for specifically what you accomplish you get the award for your effort for your trying for the challenge you get that reward the other boys they only answered one question but you've worked forth effort three times therefore I'm giving you three candies so you see tactic that's the reason I agreed to go to our Steinman beza Seamus para all of us all of us we should feel the masika's the sweetness of Torah we should all gear ourselves in and try to be miscible and say ashame Apsara please take us back Hoshi Vania chamois left over no shuva kedai shamanic academ renew our days everybody should be healthy and strong reversing your shoes for everybody all families and Claudius world that need any basura service should have them par no Simon silver ever stolen by us all the children should be on the Craig Dara kadai shamanic academ poori eylem give us back the base I'm English like the old days [Music] you [Applause]