10 Easy Segulos to Have All Your Sins Forgiven - Monsey Night Seder Beis Medrash

this Tower class is brought to you by torahanytime.com okay uh Brooklyn welcome everyone thank you for hosting me in this all-important week of the assetsuva thank you Baran subar for the kind introduction and if anybody wants to receive mayor McCormicks for any of the shurim please contact Oban subar um he'll be very glad to send to you so I was asked to give a brand new share something that I never gave before which I don't usually do it's against my policy the new shoe room are for the are given the show and then uh when I go if I had opportunity to speak somewhere so I use that material but uh it's a new year and all rules are meant to be broken so this uh this year I have not given before in fact I just finished preparing it so hopefully will be able to um go through the material but I offer a disclaimer that this particular Shear they're no real khadushim it's davarum admoid very simple things and uh perhaps if we see it in new light it will take on new meaning to us so we live in the generation of school life everybody's looking for a school a quick fix an easy way to get what we want and in this season of yamnaram is no different we all are looking and searching for sort of a shortcut now we all know the pathway of chuva is not short even though the Torah says that you know it's the only mitsa that the Tara says is very close it doesn't say that any other myths is very close it doesn't say tillen is very close where tsitis is very close it does say chuva is very close but nevertheless if you learn the the svarum on shuvo whether it's Chari chuva whether it's the Rama chuva is actually something which uh seems to be quite difficult I mean according to Rabino there are 20 ingredients in shuva and even according to the rambam that there are four ingredients but they don't seem to be that easy can can we say that it's easy to stop doing an Avera and commit ourselves never ever to do it again to the extent that the emotion will testify that we would never do it again but over and above everything aside from the fact that shuva itself is difficult the gamara and Yuma basically tells us that shuva alone doesn't work that's right the gemara Numa says on pavov that only if somebody violates the Mitzvah say can you do chuva and your and you could get away with it you go scot-free the gemara says there are four levels of kapara so if somebody violates and I say let's say somebody wakes up late for this man chrisma or somebody doesn't put on to fill in one day or somebody eats outside of the sukkah so okay you do chuva and you're you're free you're clear however the gemara says if somebody violates a lab let's say somebody speaks or somebody eats treyth or somebody wears shortness and they do chuva guess what chuva alone does not work doesn't work foreign in fact that is why Rabino Yono writes that we have a sudha on era of Yom Kippur because we're so happy that Yom Kippur finally came because we may have done an Avira 300 days ago and we've been waiting 300 days to finally get caparoom Kipper is here and then the Garage says if somebody violates somebody violates Shabbos doesn't work alone doesn't work the gamara says you need other ingredients uram and then the gemara says there are there's an Avera that even all the above not gonna clean it up whether it's chuva whether it's Yom Kippur even issue this form tell us Hashem so it seems like even with chuva and with everything it's not such a simple straightforward clear path and nevertheless there are shortcuts and that's what we're here tonight where I call the Shearer the 10 School eyes to have all your avaros wiped clean why not you know we live in the age of school ice if can't if you can't beat them join them 10 schools now when I say School Ice I don't mean somebody once heard that their third cousin once was at a cover and they heard a bass coil from somebody's cell phone that happened to be reading at the time no when I say schoolous I mean something that is found in the gemara okay it has to be found in riverhazal the most show that is given by the safer khareed them who wrote the safer kharidium Revelation as Kiri whereby Lazar as Kiri had the distinction of being the shamish in swas he was the janitor in the show and nobody knew who he was nobody knew his Godless until once or askiri and started dancing with him and they turned to that reason why you dancing with the shamish with the janitor and that reason said because the Rashmi himself came down from shamaim to dance with him I could also dance with him so the reason I was magala regardless of the safer harith who by the way is the author of yidenefesh of harakhaman and Revelation begins and actually this chapter the last chapter of the safer karadim is codified by the in the siparian Shamir is also codified I saw in the peleets in one paragraph he doesn't say where he's getting it from but clearly it comes from the safer kharidim so he compares the scula to the following there's once an officer of the king and he is walking with the King he's uh guarding the king and he realizes he feels a little tightness in his leg he's a little uncomfortable in his leg and he comes home at night and his leg is starting to become swollen and then the next morning the swell reaches to his knee and two days later it's all the way up his thigh and the doctors take a look at him and they say you know you're a dead man so what do you mean so one doctor tries this very expensive uh operation and he gives them very expensive medicine and they try he gives him very uh complicated Elixir to drink and nothing works the guy is dying so finally they call in some kind of witch doctor and he says this this is not a big deal this is not a problem he runs out to the field and he takes this herb and this branch and this leave and he puts it in the blender and he gives it to him drink and a day later he's as good as no that's a scula school is a shortcut now it has to come from the right place because you know if this witch doctor takes a wild mushroom and he puts it in The Elixir the guy's gonna drop dead on the spot so not all not all schoolers are helpful sometimes they're even more harmful you know where the school has to come from from an asef from an herb and where does the herb have to be growing it has to be growing in the Sada the Sada refers to talmadably in other words if you could pluck that herb out of the gemara then this is something valuable this is something that could be very helpful and with that let's begin with the first scula I venture to say most of them we all know about it but this time of the year it's worthwhile to reinforce what we're ready now as we mentioned codifies these School eyes and let's see piran Shamir and simonyod and he calls them the following things are masugul for kapara and they don't cost money okay so you could breathe the sigh of relief tonight sure is not going to cost you anything the fsw like an herb what's the Godless of an herb it doesn't cost you too much money you pluck it from the field so number one is anyone who responds I mean is even if they have a shtikalapi karsus Michael and Mike [Applause] now we know what does it means so now one disclaimer here it for sure doesn't mean that someone who is and he comes into the shul and all of a sudden he belts out on with all of his kavana and then he books out of the shul and he's back to normal no it's not going to help after one time we're going to see what this means because right off the bat if you look at number four the safer kharidam says cane it's your habit you get into the custom of of answering with all your strength and all your might and all your power this is not just a one-time uh shot in the dark this is you accustom yourself this is your method this is your habit and then the safer kharidam adds one important Point Yash of lakisla you also can't do it again so then what's the school law because if you're not doing it again that means you did chuva no so nobody would say that if a person doesn't have Vera and he answers he gets any sleep the Raman says that there's something called chuva and if you don't stop doing the Avera and regret it and say vide you're not removing the Avera so what exactly is the big segula of Amen now you could challenge me on this because it doesn't say Buffet Rush when the gemara says well let's look in the gamara says the number three I'm gonna be showing lady so by the way that's very important to bear in mind these days don't forget you know you you have an easy way if there are any gaze rice on Rosh Hashanah many many many times a day where inshall we're answering them in use miraba anyway you might as well answered but then the gemara concludes foreign I personally do not think so I don't think so I don't think it could be how could the gemara say that instead of doing Shiva you can only answer amen rabba so what does the gemara mean I believe and you know I want to hear your opinion as well that what the Gomorrah means is that as the gamaran Yuma tells us you get immediate capara but if you do tuba for a love you need Yom Kippur if you do chuva for a highway Christmas you need this surim if you do chuva for kalashem you need but the gemara is saying that if you do chuva and you answer I mean then you don't need other ingredients that's what the gamara means but not that you're free you don't have to do you have to do that's what the Savior says as long as you don't go back to doing the other so it's not as easy as you would have thought it's not like okay instead of doing shuva I could just you know scream at it on my name is but as we mentioned since there are many ingredients that are involved in full capara chuva with amini rabba is uh supplants those ingredients now I want to skip number two a little for um for a short amount of time because I believe there may be a scula that obviates the need for chuva I believe that there may be one segula that actually if you do this you could get away without doing shuva and we're going to come back to number two look at number three I don't think this is so well known by the way there's something called the zimra you ever hear the zimra that's the thing when you come on time to show that you're able to say you know now everybody knows that at least according to the mishnaburra if you don't follow the mission of bura okay you don't follow but in order to be considered dabbing with the minion you have to starch Monastery with the seabor I'm aware that there are those who argue but uh I think the mission Brewer is uh Khazana says whatever is said in the mission Brew is like it emanated from the list he says he says the base is safe the manganav rum and the mission of fine so but you're telling me that uh if I come two minutes late then I can't say Cal get over it you know you're gonna have to skip that you'll say it later or actually come early there's such a thing it's it's possible to come early fine so that means sometimes a person won't have time to say oh yeah sure so get there on time so you'll be able to say by the way according to the rambam Oz yashir was not originally part of Suki the zimra but this man has a as Joshua in every sitter is part of the zimra but as yashir is an amazing opportunity lucky number nine says anyone who recites Aussie with joy and his Army Haim nitbull so in other words you know you have to have a good imagination in the morning even though you're all groggy and grumpy and you know you still have tainas on 100 people before you have your coffee whatever it is you're in a bad mood try to get over it for a few minutes when you say do it by simcha Imagine as if you're coming out of the sea para and his cohorts are drowning all your sins are forgiven what does the guy do well first of all he came early that happening and he actually was able to say the hopesuke the zimra which is a big madrega but still says if you say all your avoid noise three times in the siparian Shamir he says also in the maribe gimmel say the Shira yes all your sins are forgiven [Applause] now why would that be look in the safer khareed them wants to know why do we say every day most people they don't live in Louisiana so when they drive to shul they're not driving through a yam right most people don't live in a hurricane region so people drive to show what why do we need to say Shiva sayam every day devanshan performed many miracles for kalisrael and we don't sing Shira for them every day why do we sing Oz Yasha every day what's the Makar to sing us Yasha every day very interestingly the severeign if the plastic says from Lamar that this should be said rice well it says it says in the medrish after Moshe split the sea vayasa caused the people to travel away means moisha moved them away from their avirus says because when you sing Shira for a miracle that happens to you Hashem is that's also by the way that's one of the school ice mentioned in that if someone has a miracle happen to them and they sing Shira it's nice now I didn't put that on the list because that's not such an easy school on because you need to have a miracle happen to you so we're hoping we're looking for schools that we could do without having to be in some kind of miraculous situation so I didn't make it on the list but if you happen to have a miracle have until let's say on the way home I would quickly sing Shira and just so you don't have to wait for tomorrow morning as yes here but if when we sang Shira when we crossed the um because anyone who has a miracle happened to them and they think SRI rashems and the posix says Lamar which means you should sing Shira every day that means any time you recapture that original Shira and you sing Shira with the same simcha that they sang you get all of the scula of the original share namely Hashem will be machatter a person's avanos she say okay I'm not such a Sardi I'm uh I'm a mission the mission of Brewer brings us down that anyone who sings shiras Hashem is Mr Brewer and Simon on Olive oil that's pretty good that's the mission abroad number four because a year passes away they don't have to be at static they don't have to go down they don't have to be known they could be a regular Jew a kosher a Jew and you shed a tear over them because their nashama came down to this world and now their neshama left this world they're a kosher Jew you're missable over them Hashem is now if I could just go back to the last one for a moment I also do not think that if somebody does a virus when they say and they don't do chuva anything happens to the rabbinis I highly doubt again the same way if you say Amen rabba it's only if you don't go back and do the other again if you do a proper chuva I believe means that while while chuva usually needs other ingredients whether it's Yom Kippur whether it's somebody says that supplants the need for isura now that's a major segula who wouldn't want to exchange hardship for us yes here so I believe that's what it means as well so number four but again we skip number two um now why so tonight that's an illegal question don't ask why if somebody comes with herbs and takes this plant and this root and this leaf and they said take it you're going to live say uh why how does it work you don't ask you don't ask why I mean that's what the doctor says that satigamara says now that's that's the once we take that for granted once we take that presupposition so let's try to understand a little bit what's the power behind the segulla of kalamas Kata foreign such a terrible fate that their Bonham pass on so the gemara says in order that they should have the opportunity to be Miss Abel on akashuraju Sigma says what Hashem takes away the child just to give the person the opportunity foreign what it means is because someone was not Miss Abel on an Adam kosher therefore that is the punishment why um anyone who is Hashem forgives so the martial explains as follows that's the reason why someone who cries over Adam Kasha is this way Hashem would never have to take away their upon him because Hashem explained that Hashem punish somebody because they're not miss the person had other avoid noise perhaps and if they would have cried over another and that wouldn't have had to happen the bottom line is whatever the reason is it doesn't matter what the reason is foreign no one should ever have to go to uh a sorry occasion but if somebody does it is an opportunity the gumar says if somebody is Mr Abdel even on a simple Jew it's an opportunity for all of one's avoid noise to be nascarpa again I believe that only means with chuba the next is my favorite the next is my yearly my annual drasha Friday night Friday night in Charlotte speak I don't know five minutes every single Shabba Shiva Friday night I say the following this is an amazing school I don't think this is so well known as Shabbos anyone who davins Friday night just told me by who is gamatria said 72. anyone who says Friday night the two Heavenly angels that accompany you put their hands on your head they say this all your sins are gone now I think the reason why it's not so well known is because the gamara doesn't say but gemara says the malachim come and they say your sin has been removed and your time are forgiven now this is one of my proofs that all of these schoolas obviously means with chuva so the Victor Miller wrote a book in English called Sing you righteous and then they translated into Hebrew called to put in English so I have over here so if Miller asks apusha takasha well Miller asked wait a second you're telling me so we have two ways to be happy we are very nice either Yom Kippur 25 26 hours of fasting or via Hulu 30 seconds of rattling and they're the same thing how does it make sense furthermore Astra Miller furthermore he asks even if they are the same how is it possible if let's say somebody goes to shillong yamkeeper and he fasts and he cries and by the it's called Midway appeal he gives ten thousand dollars and by the youth score appeal he gives thirty thousand dollars and by the ELO appeal he gives two hundred thousand dollars and he doesn't do chuva what has Yom Kippur done for this individual nothing nothing the show definitely benefited from his presence that day but he has accomplished Nothing Even though rebby holds that is we hold uh by the way there's an amazing of the South foreign ER who had Khalifa sadas he wasn't there and he jumped off the roof and uh Bosco said okay you're also going to what was so special about being at rabies lavaya now we know there's a concept that Mrs sadikim is mahapir khaira the Misa of Sadiq is like Yom Kippur which means according to ready without chuva and according so the zoyar says that on the death on the day of the Patera of adiq we pass can like that Sadiq so anyone who is at rebez levia was able to be the beneficiary of the sack of rebi then without chuva that's why anyone who's at Rebecca is but Astra of Miller wait a second Yom Kippur is not makhapra without chuva so how does work it must be if you're Mahar the chuva while you say by the way happens to write that before you make it this Friday night and you're saying and you can't say those if your apostolate us if somebody's a Russia so anyway that recommends to be Mahar Herbert before you make but here says with Miller it must be nobody would ever say that Yom Kippur without you only with chuva and by who is tones your sin it's together with chuva so again I think this is also another clear proof that all of these schools it's together with I'll bring you one more proof the very interesting Taz a or even number 18 Lai yeah you remember that Kamara Ashwin energy anyone who keeps Shabbos God forgives their sins so the Taz asks Apache takasha did the guy do two or the guy didn't do too long if the guy did shuva what does he need Shabbos for if the guy didn't do chuva then what shabba's gonna help so the task says the same idea we've been saying that there are certain others that shuva does not work without other ingredients without you surim so Shabbos has the capacity that if you do chuva and your Shabbos you don't need other ingredients you don't even need Yom Kippur and so on and so forth okay so that is the fifth the fifth segula although we skipped one of them and that is when you say and together now now here's where Miller kicks in what exactly are you doing when you say What's the biggest must be this is you're saying that you believe that I call this created the world in six days and he rested on the seventh day so another ask well what's the biggest cluster man everybody knows that we all believe that so what's the biggest list and saying hello so he says there must be that since we know there are infinite levels of emuna and as deeply as we believe something we could always ingrain it within our minds and hearts deeper and deeper and deeper and deeper that means every time we say we're ingraining within our hearts a little bit deeper a little bit more strong that we believe that because broccol created the world so that added understanding and feeling and belief that we are declaring that because created the world that added level of emuna is such a powerful that together with chuvatsov and you don't need any other ingredient that's Howard Miller understands zigmar number six this Shabbos is a big Shabbos so some people they're not big into dresses they're not big into the Shabbos Russia so there are different ways around it either you cannot show up and you come to the rough after I didn't realize they changed the clock already or they didn't change the cut I didn't realize they changed you know the different ways to excuse yourself from or you could sit in the back and you could position the gemara in front of you you know but there are different ways around it however there's an amazing that the most important moment of the year is the moment that the rub gives the official drasha of the year what does that mean it's the most important moment of the year that is the time that Hashem is really where does it say that look at number 20. says The Meadows if you wanted to know when is Hashem at the time of the drasha this is a subject of many many essays the same is very busy with this matter so I'm sorry for in one place he wants to understand why is so at the time of the drasha and Islam says maybe because it's so long and it's painful and nobody understands it and you're sitting there and you're trapped literally that's what some sort of says and yet people sit there but I need us listening to the words by the way if you look at number 22 I put on the sheets so don't think you could sit there with cotton in your ears and they listen um who cares why not your business that's the way it is that's how it works that's what gazelle say that don't mistakenly think that it's only nice that takes place in the time of the Russia is only one of the benefits that takes place the time in the drasha all the bracha that Hashem is the whole year is that the time and there's some super writes in one place but what if I'm sorry for elsewhere right well what if the people are not like the way the people should be it doesn't matter that the time of the drasha is the Hashem Israel in fact but the safer kharidam adds one challenging aspect of this and that is how do you listen rights to listen with hayshack and without looking at your watch without fidgeting without you know when is it going to be over without nodding without motioning to listen to Hey Chef so manner with which a person listens to the riyagada is the Shah that Hashem is now again I I would believe you have to do chuva also again as we said all of these School lights are only if you do Chiva here's another one number seven even though we skip number two it's number 23 on the sheet this comes from the Zaya anyom Kippur we read about the death of nada venavio the Zaya teaches us that if at the time of Korea satara on Yom Kippur a person is Mystery foreign thank you the words God says you're free of sin you're free of sin number eight what sure anyways true so it would have to be that instead of if it doesn't take the place of usurim so in other words for a lab you need Yom Kippur for a chorus so this would that's that's what we would have to say [Music] you mean could you use it for future others investment if a person doesn't make it four doesn't make it to Yom Kippur foreign [Music] let's say somebody is an honest so he has to eat is Yom Kippur for him okay foreign I guess Autumn culture right yeah I agree yeah yeah in other words let's say a person's assistant starts crying over the misas avram avinu we don't have no such school that's gonna work it's only misabel your devices that died right and um good point yeah I'll yeah I I buy that [Music] Mississauga yeah okay number eight this one is um I think not known at all okay the other so far everything we said uh until now is in the gemara is called this uh happened to come across one of uh one of my favorite holidays I like to say over lately is uh right yeah you should say Shema with intention fine Emma or a fine rest us shaking that I'm not so comfortable why am I why do I need to shake when I say Shima sweating I mean yeah if the air conditioning's not working I'm going to be sweating but what's why do I have to sweat when I say Shima so this is how long it comes from the chief of saraswa the rajbo says on the apostles that we are killed for our colors daily this refers to the recitation of Shema because when we say Shema we need to imagine and picture that we are giving up our life al-qed Hashem which means that you could say Shema and follow all the instructions in the art scroll siddhar you could have bimicable upon yourself and you could be kind of Shema but there's still another critical Cabana and that is one should imagine that they are being put to the ultimate test and they are passing that test and giving up their life Hashem my good friend of nothing we went together to the cover of three harsh maisels recently and in the hakadama of the safer of Sierra mouses our Chastity Hashem he says an amazing shot they said to her the Akiva where the Kiva even now you're saying Shema and Rabbi Akiva said my whole life I was waiting for this moment what did really Akiva mean his whole life he was waiting for this moment it was meant as follows where the Kiva said Shaman such a powerful way that he literally felt when he was saying Shema as if he was giving up his life I'll kill the shashem to the extent that if he would have been killed at that moment it wouldn't have added anything because he was going through it anyway so his whole life he hoped that if he ever had to give up his life Hashem he hoped it would be at the time of Shema because at least then he knew he could do it because he was doing it anyway that means when a person says Shema they should be picturing that they're giving up their life say if I'm picturing and I'm feeling that I'm giving up my life because I'm going to be shaking and sweating yeah that's what the sheikhana says to do that's the meaning of the really who says that the mission bura you ever hear there was a Jew by the name of the mission abura and he says Rabbi Joseph Carroll the code of Jewish law he he said we should say Shema shaking and the mission of bruh he's not saying saying the meaning of the he says the reason you should say it's shaking and sweating is because that is how to say Shema because you're imagining yourself as even giving up your application so there's a safer called was written by rebellious never heard of the safer actually the way I came to it I once heard the ramshaw speak and he quoted something from the safer so I went over to him I said when you speak it cost me a lot of money you said why so because I always have to have to buy his farm that I never had before so I bought the safer and he was quoting something else but I saw this he says an amazing thing he said if you need to say Shema visualizing as if you're my son ever and then we know if you want to do something Hashem considers it as if you did it that means if you say Shima properly Hashem reckons it as if you gave up your life Hashem so now that's Michael oh you're out very nice because we know that me says again if you do tuba but Shema has the ability to be much happier all of ones are very nice that's amazing it's amazing that means twice a day when your macabo Marcus to mine any way you have to be in the shore because anywhere you want to say the Shira yam the simcha to get you know so anyway you have to be there for the yam so you might as well stick around for kushma and once you're there for Shema you might as well imagine that you're being moisture Netflix and then your macapro you're having by the time you walk out of school in the morning you're you're clean as a whistle again if you did chuba is very easy all you have to do is and then he says another thing but I once saw in the writings of the Iberia he darshens the word true my true my says Trey mothers that they're two times in davening you imagine yourself you might surface and one is you say what do we say no I'm thinking Mr we say antagon [Applause] so the cavano of tahn is mysterious so you have Shema so in case you did any avoy noise in between Christmas so yeah so in case you had did anything by Krishna yeah you didn't answer a main on time or something so you have a technon you have three times in the evening so next time you think well what am I gonna be doing in show this morning you win the jackpot every time every time you come to shul if you know what to think it's it's Madness you win the lottery now this I heard from Shore this next one the ninth School the gemara tells us in the dharim Suma a blind person is a blind person is considered as if they're dead so let's make a cavacher number 29. if a blind person is considered as if they're dead then what if somebody could see and they could see well and they have 20 20 vision and they have the opportunity to look at something improper and they close their eyes and for a minute they make themselves like a Suma our ahas there if a blind person is considered like the dead what about someone who could see and makes themselves as if they're dead says the dark yachuva talmud of ramami Pano if someone is presented with an Asian and they say I'm not going to look and it should be a school of for me all of my avoid noise Hashem says all your Alvarez are forgiven that's powerful the itsahara wants to make it okay just just uh this is not a big deal you're just gonna look and then uh nobody will ever know you can do it very quickly you have to stop slow it down in real time I'm not losing out this moment this momentous occasionally right now right here even before I got the show even without Shiva sayam even without kuyashima even without tahnon just by closing one's eyes foreign number 10 is a Whopper of number 10 comes if I wouldn't have told you who said it I bet you would have guessed a different macarth to save them rights his boy did us is there's a look at this to me I didn't I didn't know this is right if somebody goes into seclusion and what do you do there you go into a designated place where nobody sees you he says Raise Your Eyes On High to the one king elast The Source the cause of all causes like an arrow to Target upon him if at that moment you block everything else out of your mind and you just think about the upanishad then Hashem will respond in kind and he will block everything else out of his attention and focus only on you and says so he says who who does that don't answer that question but who did that you know who did that the rambam the ramban because and he writes something Oyo inventora and I can't tell you exactly what this means in the final paragraph he says on the fourth line it helps the nashama seven times more than Lima now that's you know how can we say that that's for me that's heretical you know how tomato can I get coulomb Avada he's not saying it's a bigger Mitzvah it's not a bigger Mitzvah but in some Dimension it helps the person in some way now it doesn't mean you should spend all your time or most of your time or a lot of time but occasionally we know would lock himself up and aside from he would speak attack the safer has see them rights what do you do via daber localized however El raboy the Habana lover you just talk to the reborn Asylum I'm back in if you want to know where this is in the first paragraph of number 31 the last words there is some kind of nuclear energy that if somebody just closes themself up in a room and talks to Ibana son blocks everything else out of their mind this is a schoola of the kharid them that doing this has the capacity to be macapark again I believe it's only if you do chuva now School number 10 which is going back to number two I'm gonna suggest and I'm not a hundred percent sure it's true but let's present this and we'll think about it this mentions and it's one of the most obvious ones the most well-known writes in number five anyone who overlooks his honor he goes against his nature he doesn't stand for what he thinks he deserves Hashem will forgive all his sins this comes from says now I want to read to you the words do you think this school only works if you do chuva or even if you don't do chuva I have a strong hunch that for this school maybe even if you don't do chuva now how could that be isn't the whole way that the way that this works is that you're entitled to something you deserve something you earn something you're not allowed to do this to me and I say okay I overlook you insulted me you hurt me you owe me and I say Mojo here you don't have to pay me back you don't have to ask me mahila you would hurt me you insulted me and I'm like who you you didn't do chuva you didn't regret you didn't confess you didn't ask me for Michaela but I was Michael you well it has to be that the ibanish song works with us that even though we don't do chuva and we didn't ask for Michaela we don't regret that says how could I deal less with you than you deal with somebody else can we say that [Music] Maybe can we be madike this in the words of Jonah says and number seven needs to Humble himself and accept upon himself to act in the way that our khazal have legislated and be humble before everyone and even things that you hear that bother you your mother and your middle is writes I think these are my favorite words in the sharichova Visa this is a very honorable opening of Hope and ravino says he weeds it into the Posse if someone hurts you and insults you put your mouth in the dust maybe there'll be hope what does mean I think what he means is that it's not easy to do chuva it's very hard to do chuva sometimes a person might get into a rut or into a bad habit and there might be things that are very difficult to overcome so sometimes it seems hopeless and there have been Ariana says no here's an opening of hope you know what the opening up opening of Hope is if you forgive somebody else even though they don't deserve it that's an opening of Hope for you to get off your Ave rice otherwise what's the big opening of Hope unless you say the opening of Hope is that for many others you need chuva and yes and other ingredients and if you matter in your middle is together with chuva it's maybe there's room to say that since the way that this works is that if you overlook someone even when they don't deserve to be overlooked Hashem will do that for you I think it's certainly possible to suggest and uh we'll search for for uh Makai Roy's that this is in fact the case perhaps this would be true even if somebody did not do chuva so these are 10 segulas that have the capacity to generate and of course we always try to do chuva together with it but because chuva alone is not always the end all so these are what we call somewhat shortcuts and many of them we do daily whether Shira sayam whether it's Krishna whether it's we're doing it anyway we're in the shul anyway the leaning on Yom Kippur we're in the shul anyway every day a person is challenged with the challenges of kadushanayam and all of these things generate great opportunity for me so the bunch of them to utilize as many of these as possible and we should be able to go into the yomadin with as much as possible thank you everyone for coming all right you've just experienced another Torah class brought to you by torahanytime.com