Man and woman are not the same type

Your wife is not your type. Your husband is not your type. Men and women are never the same type. That's why they are men and women. The shallowest way to look for a husband, a wife, a soulmate is to look for someone who's your type. A man and a woman are created to be different. To complement each other, to complete each other. You are missing something that your wife has to fulfill. Your wife is missing something that only you can fulfill. That's what makes it a match made in heaven. And the same thing applies after marriage. A marriage will only truly thrive when you keep looking for each other's void and looking for ways to fill it. Don't look for someone who's just like you. Look for someone who has what you are missing. And even more so, look for someone who has a void that you can fill. This will make your life happy and fulfilled.