true story

As a father to a 16-year-old whose name is Edan and slowly but surely the father saw that his son is deteriorating in shm his fa wasn't the same shabis observance wasn't the same the benching it's all going downhill and his parents were so upset but what can they do 16 years old little while later calls his father dad can we talk and he sits his father down he says dad I decided that I'm no longer from the father and mother they were devastated the following day father goes goes to shu and he sees that Idan is there in shu he puts on fill and he stays longer than everybody else in shu comes time to bench he's looking at the sitter and he's benching word for word shabas he keeps and he does all the mitzvah it was so strange after 2 weeks that this has been going on he calls his son and he says can I ask you a question and he says sure I don't understand you told me you're secular you're not from anymore is this how a secular person behaves and he then says to his father it's very simple when I used to be from you used to count my aus. Now that I'm secular, you count my mitzvah. This is a great story of Kinuk, but it's not just about and it's about us. We need to start counting our achievements. We need to cherish our accomplishments. Wait to.