Rabbi Naftali Miller's Hesped on Rabbi Dovid Trenk ztz"l at Yeshiva Gedola and Mesivta of Carteret

when I was 13 years old my life change and then marry change I was kicked out of four elementary schools and I came to the Shabbos that Delphia thank you for Shabbos there's a lot of things that I saw I said I'm not coming here so after Shabbos I spoke to her Frank was my principal they told me go visitor I drink I come through our drinking camp monk and I still remember my mind sitting on the bench he said why don't you want to come to Adelphia she said on Chavez of sitting and there was a pirate voice that just came at a public school and he came to the room and he has four batteries for some type of device and I said I can't be in such issue he said it's not possible I said what do you mean it's not possible I just saw it so you said no it's not possible and he got very upset at me and then he said make adelphia is not for you my my him was told me that they came to my probable and they tolerate rank then there their son is the negative we make them complete influenced by an other boy in class named Shane train said why Shimon would it would do such a thing to your son it's not possible my son would never do such a thing would never be a negative influence to your son he believed that his that these kids were his kids but I was thinking it's the love that he had wasn't just a love from from them from it was something that he found from his government he soared from his balloon and he constantly showed it upon us we that that came through in the class every single day we were from all four the boys we open will be determined that his sword and he but it does every single day my friend was a waiter you can't monk he was Danny was the first Shabbos that he was a waiter and trickiest him to bring him a tea and he was so proud that it was a waiter they came running him up with teeth and a tea bag and he put it in and he gave her a drink and we all know you can't do that on chiapas my drink didn't say you know it to that but the next day he had a cedar Brunhilde Shabbos and he went through it the whole week and they came the next child is and and he asked him for a Teagan and he was so excited and he told her this waiter go tell everybody had to make a property he didn't just you didn't just teach reported with with a half my brother was in I was we needed to find the shoe my parents were divorced so I had get him into help getting with this you know I mean trained taught me what a scum is was how'd it get it done he told me how to go to write shame and keep him going through a change and get a minute my brother showed up first interview and my brother said he remembers that day I walked in from these sheep all the way to Delphine to route 9 and back and he told him over this story and he said there's over the story over 10 three times those days if you wanted to talk to help you you had to take the late bus Jersey Transit back to Delfy Road and then we do Cole bunny or a band and they would pick you up so these two boys were coming from Brooklyn and they were on the bus and they were talking about something that they had in the dormitory and someone heard this conversation I tried to tell them by train what these two boys had in the dormitory in their closet never a train if the as he was telling the story this person he said do you know what was that that the learning do you know what they're doing in the Shiva he said you're concerned about something that they have adaptive in their room and you're not concerned about something that's I was first know who what they are know where they're coming from then you could tell me about something that's private in there when I was in ninth grade main condo was nefta and everyone was talking about JBL or gone video plans they did not have gone did he did he what was he all about and everything and anyone's ready trinket to the dining room Friday night meal stands up on invention since let me tell you about the great mayor God let me tell you about what he accomplishes let me tell you and then he said he learned to meet evil and he wanted to stay in federal and he couldn't afford it so he took a newspaper run and he got up at ten o'clock at night and he used to go pick up the newspaper and he used to do his run and then he was in your Shiva learning at four o'clock in the morning with a habbo so that is what we should talk about that's when we should talk about the greatness of men kind of there was alumnus that that was the son and sitting Shiva he went out to swell same distinction for another day in Muncie in walks right ranked at nine o'clock in the morning and he's sitting along this fellow and we're training pulls up a chair a small tear and he sits down next to him and he stays not for an hour enough for two hours not for three hours not for four hours for the whole day because his Talmud his son is sitting Shiva and he felt a pain elevators had many times if there was of clay block that fight alone was was part of it and when he would see him he would against you how that fiber is a friend of mine arrow worship his white person and every single time he measured every single time he would ask you how's the wife's doing but like full name that he was moving as follows for they took a took a turn for the worst and we were thinking as friends what to do to build up their spirits they're having a very hard time so it was his birthday so we decided when to get an ice cream truck and give ice cream to the whole block and everybody should come out and make brothers so cool the cold area checked with telling the story what we're doing for this friend in Lakewood C tells us told tell me what time the truck is coming and he came her friend has the pictures Stevie on the top of his lungs screaming with all the kids shackle a receiver I'm ready to do such a thing like that but the physic that he gave to this couple they would be able to extend it I was in there of Fame in the SS notion which is 35 30 feet down tells me that's bubble baths we left off on hours and the twice was talks like that he could have he could have gave this year could have everything but he chose to take care of my sham stool he talked about the rough when he needed a principle for me she wanted to get the track the boys to come to me she gone they need a very strong English department so there was a certain principle in a public school that if he would come and be the principal who had changed the school so our train said that he went together with [Music] the fire in his eyes and all the kids split out and he walked into the Pentheus when the principal's office he couldn't even say the word principal of English properly and he won't be through office and he said he said I need you to be the principal of a human and he said that I can't do it without getting my son horde and that somewhat changed his leash evil and he also said a better story that there was a boy that was kicked out he said so buckler some human went over to ruff to tell him what was going on and he put his head on the okay cry that said we were honest that now then how can we not have ruff - on our children he also spoke about how he had a file on a human and when they came that it was not to get any more that he had a tremendous amount of information of pictures more pictures than anybody else a file of different issues and want to show one of the tongue even was worship of their hand on item and and a week later after they they captured me they brought him in he brought him in to the Father look where the pictures was before the file and he said I threw it out the whole file because it's not me anymore so we learned all different aspects of caring for other people what to do remember that when we first started trying to help her through brushes to shoe like that only said you know coming to Brooklyn for $500 $400 [Music] ready and 70 meter nice first event and then we were having a meeting how to plan the next event and then shrink droping and now I'm gonna have to come to them to thank us by this meeting and I'm sure about it itself is very hardworking everyone scheduled out together and he walks right in shrink and gives a 32nd thank you and then said well I say it's time to go home to your wife's we did your establish now it's trying to move in and each check that he got for five months elders he felt that it was his his his establishment saving another life it didn't look at whether or not together they got five hundred thousand or five thousand this was just another building block and how he changed the world I had a daughter your training he sat in the room for 45 minutes before I got back he left he wanted to me to know that he cares and that was it is a fellow when I was missing very trained he's ready today for operating and he said how it retreat changed his life his parents had shape as to to write training they were mentioning that their son was having some trouble in Denver and those days getting on a plane was not a common occurrence especially for a Rebney the cost was probably improved tremendous all of a sudden he gets a pay phone a pool on the pay phone that what time is meant for he goes he goes out didn't she go in a half-hour and it comes to the issue and he talks to the boys ready he tells them that the boys doing great Kozik this young man and then he left without him and finally he left except from that point he started a letter cover correspondence with him today he's in my Kannada that of a hundred thousands of tongue even he has changed his life from that interaction because he heard that there was a buffer in Bedford that wasn't his buffer but there was somebody that was yearning in someone that needed help I think just walking away as Curie and it's something you can't make a difference we learned from him that you can make a difference here learn to make a difference and learn to follow your customer of a machinist