I Survived Inc*st Abuse Inside My Own Family — Breaking the Silence - Bassy K- S2- Ep15

Bassy is an inc*st survivor, advocate, and psychodrama co-facilitator dedicated to breaking the silence around childhood sexual abuse. Through her lived experience and professional work, she focuses on spreading awareness, supporting prevention efforts, and helping remove the stigma and taboo surrounding incest and family-based abuse. Bassy uses her voice to educate, empower survivors, and encourage open, honest conversations that promote healing, accountability, and safer communities. 0:00 Intro 4:40 How long it lasted (unclear start/end) 7:28 Secrecy, power, and why victims stay silent 8:34 Dissociation + “golden child” masking pain 10:11 Realizing the abuse (mid-20s) 11:30 Tried to hint—“we don’t talk about this” 13:28 Abusers look “normal” + grooming tactics 19:23 Not being believed + doubting your own memories 21:33 Warning signs & prevention: attunement + relationship 24:40 Marriage, struggle, and first disclosure (husband) 37:07 Speaking up as part of healing 40:00 How to respond when a child shares something 42:24 Anger/revenge vs protection 46:22 Faith/spirituality after trauma 53:45 Psychedelic intensive + therapy work 1:03:29 Medication: helped, then stopped 1:07:05 Fear, triggers, and boundaries with family events 1:11:22 Forgiveness: optional, accountability stays 1:12:49 Resilience = next right step 1:14:25 How the community should show up 1:18:41 What to say to family who won’t speak up 1:20:28 Unexpected gifts + strengths Follow us on Socials for More Content: Subscribe on YouTube -https://www.youtube.com/@Thestruggle.podcast Instagram- https://www.instagram.com/thestruggle.podcast?igsh=MTZ2cnp3dTJpYXl0cQ%3D%3D&utm_source=qr Instagram-https://www.instagram.com/narcissistic_torture/ Spotify -https://open.spotify.com/show/44tgKK9oZF2z01wwYZQBRL?si=HKGgYRG2Rm-5G8jK75UteQ Apple Podcast - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-struggle/id1796423076 To Reach Me (Joe Farkas) Phone: 845-420-7227 Email: [email protected] To Reach Bassy K Email: [email protected] Instagram: bassyksupports #SurvivorStory #BreakingTheSilence #ChildhoodAbuseAwareness #TraumaRecovery #HealingJourney #MentalHealthPodcast #AbuseSurvivor #ProtectChildren #RealStories #TheStrugglePodcast #PodcastInterview #SpeakUp