Why Asking for Respect Destroys It #marriageadvice #relationshipadvice #mentalhealth #marria #shorts

The more you need respect, the less you get it. A man came to me, "Rabbi, my wife doesn't respect me. I asked her directly, she didn't answer." You know why? Because you already lost. Respect isn't requested. It's sensed. The moment you need it, you just told her you're small. כָּל הַבּוֹרֵחַ מִן הַכָּבוֹד — כָּבוֹד רוֹדֵף אַחֲרָיו Run from honor and it chases you. Chase it and you lose it. If you need her to respect you, you already gave her a reason not to. ✨Help spread light → rivnitz.com/light