Monthly Wedding Night - Jewish Intimacy (38)

The Jewish Intimacy Series based on the Iggeret HaKodesh of the Holy Ramban is back after a long break, and here to break some klipa that is destroying marriages today. In a generation of old men and women walking around single as if they have all the time in the world, perhaps its time to visit what happens on the wedding night, and how couples can make that special night just as special as the wedding night each month forever. “Iggeret HaKodesh” The Holy Letter of the Ramban: https://amzn.to/429g1tc As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases. 0:00:00 Introduction 0:03:49 Speak Softly at Home, Don't Be Arrogant 0:08:14 Walk Humbly, Wicked Opposite 0:08:34 Parts of Body that are Disgraceful & Parts that Bring Disgrace (e.g. Eyes, Mouth, Hands) 0:10:44 Forbidden Things at Work that Ruin Marriages 0:11:37 Each mitzvah gains an angel defender, each sin an angel prosecutor (Avos 4) 0:12:19 R. Wasserman Faces a Dybbuk in a Young Girl for Not Saying a Blessing 0:15:49 Three Cardinal Sins: Must Accept Death Rather than Violate: Idolatry, Murder, Sexual Sins 0:16:45 Forbidden Step Before Line Being Crossed 0:17:20 Monthly Wedding Night 0:18:27 Learning from the Rooster (Eruvim 100) 0:19:41 Wrong Perception of What Intimacy is Supposed to Be 0:20:24 Mikvah Night Akin to a Holiday; If No Intimacy, No Marriage 0:22:24 How to Be a Husband & Entice Your Wife to Want to Be Your Bride (Ramban) 0:23:27 Critical How You Behave Before Intimacy 0:23:55 Kimchis Achieved Ultimate Modesty and Reward (Yoma 47) 0:25:26 The More Modest, the More Beautiful (Secret to Eternal Beauty) 0:26:29 Main Causes for Marriage Problems: Immodesty & Not Knowing Role 0:27:28 Speaking to Wife with Clean Speech & Ideal Time for Intimacy (Ramban) 0:32:29 Clean Speech Matters (Pesachim 3b) 0:40:18 Why Woman Speaks with Husband (Kiddushin 49b) 0:42:38 This Baseless Conversation Turns into Mitzvah 0:45:10 Women Should Breastfeed Baby Before, Not After Intimacy 0:46:31 Forbidden to Coerce Wife Against Her Will 0:48:04 Never Argue or Beat Wife for Intimacy 0:50:16 Men Must Learn to Be Gentlemen, Women Must Stop Being Manly 0:50:49 Aging Singles Too Selective for Marriage 0:58:27 Men Have to Learn to be a Man - Gentleman 1:02:34 People Are Disgusted by Arrogant People 1:07:00 Learning from the Rooster (cont.) 1:07:28 Wives Appreciate Compliments, even if Untrue - Husband's Care 1:09:09 When Husband & Wife Know They Love Each Other – After the First Fight (R. Kachlon) 1:09:21 Knowing Your Role as a Man 1:12:17 Women Must Stop Being Manly (& Her Top Priority) 1:21:22 Know Your Role: Clarity Essential for Fulfillment 1:27:38 If anyone marries off his daughter to an Am Haaretz, it is as if he tied her up and put her before a lion" (R. Meir, Pesachim 49b) 1:29:53 Three People Whose Sins are Atoned For (Yer. Bikkurim 3) 1:33:17 Getting Married Grants a New Life 1:34:07 Custom of Bride and Groom to Fast and Do Teshuvah on Wedding Day 1:39:23 Why is There Forgiveness? 1:42:53 Drawbacks of Not Getting Married 1:44:17 Clean Enticing Speech for Wife, Not While Asleep (Think Clean) 1:48:24 Man is Prohibited to be With Wife if No Desire (Raavad) 1:49:24 Conclusion 1:55:21 Be'Ezrat Hashem Summary: Make Eternal Investments #wedding #intimacy #jewish #judaism #jewishintimacy #relationship #advise #mikveh #rabbiyaronreuven #Torah