What If the Problem Isn’t the Problem? A New Way to Heal Relationships

Rabbi Josh Zebberman 38 views

One of the biggest mistakes we make in relationships—whether in marriage, parenting, or at work—is believing we need to eliminate the bad before we can embrace the good. But what if that belief is what’s actually holding us back? In this video, we explore a radically different mindset: instead of obsessing over problems, we learn to amplify what’s working. With insights from the Passover Haggadah and a deeper look at the “wicked child,” this talk invites you to find the good inside the struggle—the “shin” within the “ra.” You'll learn: Why focusing on positive connection dissolves negativity How to create environments that bring out the best in others A deeper meaning behind conflict through the lens of the four children at the Seder Why true freedom in relationships begins with what we choose to see Whether you’re married, raising kids, managing a team, or just trying to grow—this message can shift how you show up. 👉 Subscribe for more wisdom on growth, relationships, and ancient truths that still change lives today. #MarriageAdvice #PesachWisdom #EmotionalFreedom #JewishWisdom #ConflictResolution #Relationships