Shemiras Haloshon In day To Day Life.- Rabbi Yakov Zev Smith

1. May one ask “Tell me any חסרונות that you know“ regarding a shidduch inquiry 2. When can one conceal important information until after the meeting? 3. The halachos for information being provided to one’s close relative 4. Revealing information that the inquirer can find out on their own 5. Boss asked worker about the performance of a different worker 6. Reading a poster or flyer, etc. that is critical of others 7. Reading a כתב סירוב issued by a בית דין 8. Responding with the words “I’d rather not discuss it” 9. How can one respond when someone is bad mouthing one’s business etc.? 10. Sharing everything that happens with one’s spouse or parent 11. Explaining why I don’t want to attend a speech or shiur 12. Asking business or shidduch information about a close relative 13. Talking about “how people drive aggressively” or “spend wildly” without mentioning names 14. Putting up a list of people who haven’t paid their dues or fulfilled other obligations 15. Son told father something in confidence–may father tell it to the mother?