The Bar Mitzvah Series Part 13: The Drasha of the Bar Mitzvah Boy - 6 Incredible Reasons

this torah class is brought to you by torahanytime.com okay good morning everyone welcome everyone thank you so much for coming this morning to participate in the announced villain of naftali gladstein to is on a very special day by vyomi is this evening and uh everybody is invited to his uh shabbos chris satora paris vasquez i want to speak about a minogue israel that is pretty common that on the day of the bar mitzvah the bar mitzvah gives it russia so one may say okay he does it he doesn't do it this is not really a halacha it's not it's it's a customer you know at a bar mitzvah you have certain kinds of cakes and you have certain kinds of chicken and the bar mitzvah gives a draw sean he quotes over from the chaga sorry by the way it's interesting tonight is actually the best night of the whole year to give a drusha why thomas is actually the the best day to be bar mitzvahed because the minogue is to always say over torah from the shaggisharier and today is the yard side of the shagasari so when you have your bar mitzvah so you're giving torah from the shakusa area as you enter the the year of becoming bar mitzvah as is well known natalie is going to say over that requirements would say over the name revolcanon that just like elio hanovi comes to every bris the shagisarie comes to every bar mitzvah so what's the reason for this so we're going to offer a few reasons it's very interesting the zayar tells us even though one would think that when a child is born he gets the soul he gets in a shama and he's considered a jew the zaryakader says that one does not get the nishmas israel until the day of the bar mitzvah and that is expressed in the passage in tehillim says hashem omareelai god said to me to you i gave birth to you today so czar says when did hashem tell david i gave birth to you the day of his bar mitzvah so from here we learn that the neshama of nishmas israel comes the night of the bar mitzvah comes the cafe and says that if the neshama enters the bar mitsuboy on the day of his bar mitzvah so he wants to be able to access the loftiest the highest the most elevated in the shama so by darshan by saying over torah that is a way an assurance that the that the bar mitsuba will be able to access a very high level nashama so that's one reason for the minute of the bar mitzvah boy giving adrasha the night of the bar mitzvah in order to in order to access the highest level in the shama okay naftali you got that that's the first reason here's another reason by the way the sam soyfer once made a bar mitzvah for his nephew um who was a yasuoim and sofa is recorded in the safe razakar and brings the icker simchas bar mitzvah is the boy's bar mitzvah russia now if you ask most people who attend the bar mitzvah what is your greatest sensation of happiness participating at that particular bar mitzvah nine out of ten would not necessarily say that it was listening to the boy darshan but the khasam safer actually says it ain't the chicken if you answered the chicken that's not the right the icker simcha is the jurasha now here's another reason another reason is that hey natalie where are you going take a seat come sit here sit over here don't come home the we know that the yetzer hara enters somebody when they become how old four born as soon as they uh as soon as they're born in fact the bear shabbat mustafa sanhedrinas because it says that when yitzcat when asa was passing by a house of a dessert he was kicking to get out and when yaakov was passing by him comes he was kicking to get out so we see the eight sahara comes even from the time of conception so it's astira to la pesa soybeans but either way the sahara comes very early on when does the eighth certain come it's a time cup at bar mitzvah now it's interesting the gemara says the nida that amalah teaches the baby in utero kala tarakula which malach is that that's the eighth artif so what happens is the eight zertov comes in utero he teaches a baby kala terakula this is pisgah toistas i think the comes and teaches a baby called tarakula then and at birth the eight sahara comes and when the naphtali when the eight sahara comes at birth it scares away the it's a type so where does he he has nowhere to get exactly we don't know where he goes he goes but he when does he come back he comes back when the boy's bar mitzvah so you hear what happens first comes the aesthetic and he teaches a child called tarakula then the itsahara comes at birth and he shoes away the yetzera type then at 13 years old yetzer type comes back the thing is yetzahara had a big head start so there's only one way to combat the sahara borasiye zahara so at the bar mitzvah when the eight sarhara comes and when the yetzer type comes we need to boost his efforts so the bar mitzvah boy gives the russia to try to attack the harass so when naftali is going to give his russia one of his kavanaugh's will be to attack the eight sahara and that's why maybe it's such a big symbol it's like a it's like a big battle people like you know they go to a game they go to a football game and it's it's a very intense game you know people so that they at the bar mitzvah people feel the intensity of the battle that the bar mitzvah boy delivers his drusha and he's going to give this knockout punch to the sahara and maybe this is part of the great simcha that people feel at the at the environment so now comes in the safer nephesh and he says the al-shakh famously says or leo dalid guiness as you enter the 14th year meaning that when you're 13 years old in one day you got to get rid of the khmer zoham it says through what through fire through the torah that means at age 13 you need to attack the eight sahara through the torah again this is a famous drasha that rizal or leo dalid so what's the r haner that your boy dig the comets says is the drosha the bar mitsuboy gives the night of the 14th where he's giving an attack to the eighth sahara he says another idea he says the german condition tells us the torah is compared to an elixir of life it's a muscle to a person who hits his son a big hit he really gives it to him and he has a big wound and then the father bandages the wound and the father says so long as you're bad you're wearing the bandage eat what you want drink what you want you don't have to worry for infection but you take off the bandage you can't really eat too much so too the reborn gave us a clap the clap is the eight zahara he gave us a bandage the bandage is the torah hashem says so long as you engage in torah you could eat bagels you could eat chicken you don't have to worry it's gonna take you away from me but if you forsake the torah you can't even indulge in this world so therefore comes the night of the bar mitzvah and people want to have a big sudah so you say you want to have a big sudah you got to put on the bandage and the bandage naftali is the drusha of the bar mitzvah boy because rivalson gave us a makkah that's the it's a hara and then says if you have the ratia if you have the bandage then you could engage in the hanois and he says that the sudas bar mitzvah is a welcome party who do you think you're welcoming shalma who comes at bar mitzvah excellent the yates are tied the eight zero time comes at the bar mitzvah so we gotta welcome him so shalma how do we welcome the taiv we make a babriza party it's a bar mitzvah party so if you have bagels in the morning it's like even welcoming him it's like you know a special welcome so it's a welcome party for the yates archive okay so that's reason number five reason number six chuvois de vreyatsev of the cloisonne bergera the rush brings and he'll just catanos you know there were periods in his jewish history that many jews did not wear to fill in and one of the reasons were rightfully or wrongfully you can only where it's fill in if you learn taira because it says about philly le mans tia toyras hashem the purpose of fillin is to learn therefore says the claisen mergareba there's an idea ain't phil and beloy so therefore since the bar mitzvah boy is going to start wearing till in he can't wear twill in if he doesn't if he's not a bald torah so he has to first give his russia he has to establish his credentials of being about torah and then he is able to put on zvelen which indic which i think substantiates the minogue of putting on filin because you're already wearing tilland 30 days before so you haven't really established your credentials okay we'll give you one more reason and that is as follows what's the first mitzvah that a bar mitzvah boy fulfills at turning 13 years old ah this was uh a big question the very first mitzvah some sofa writes in russia that he gave by his sons bar mitzvah the first mitzvah is accepting upon yourself the yoke of mitzvos like it says others say the first the first mitzvah is krishama says why did review start message with the because krishna has the very first mitzvah that a boy is in the kayem when he becomes a bar mitzvah in fact from wrote published a safer on the occasion of him becoming a bar mitzvah and he gave the following drasha the noid has ashaila when does a boy become a bar mitzvah do you become a let's say a person was born 2 pm do you become a bar mitzvah at 2 pm 13 years later or that already counts as day one so when the night comes regardless of when a person is born you become a bar mitzvah when does the bar mitzvah start does it depend when you're born or does it not depend when you're born that the reason why rabbi began shasta with krishna is because krishna is always the first the mitzvah that you're making when you're a bar mitzvah that means that regardless of when you're born you become a bar mitzvah and the nighttime arliyada we don't go may isla ace the fact that otherwise how could rebbe uniformly begin shots with um is not always the first mitzvah if you're born in the afternoon if you're born let's say in the morning the first myths for your makayam is krishna chakras must be that you become a bar mitzvah in the night time but would say no the very first mitzvah that you're making when you become a bar mitzvah is birka satyara you hear this naphtali the first mitzvah in your makayam when you've become satire what's the satire you don't say bhagasata in the night well well i already said it in the morning yeah but you said it as a cotton see now and after you're caught on very small and tonight you're going to become very big so the british attorney made this morning is not going to cover you for tonight so what do you do so would say when you say in mahrif it's you hear that and that's the first mitzvah that a bar mitzvah boy is making but the but is that if you're going to use ahavas what do you have to do right after davening to affect to effectuate the abbas you see when a person says regular real brica satora even if you don't learn right away it's effective but if you want to use that have a rabbit you have to learn right after davening so therefore right after the very first marathon the bar mitzvah boy gives a drusha to effectuate his burkha satora of ahavas okay so these are a number of reasons for the minogue israel of the bar mitsuboy being deuresh number one the kafkaim says since and the night of the 13th you gain a neshama qadosha by giving the drusha it accessed as a very holy nishama number two in order to fight the eight sahara as rokhan falaji says aurelius is the jurash of the bar mitzvah number three rebecca and fellaini says that the evangelion gave us a makkah the magazine the ratia the bandage in order to enjoy this world is torah so that's another reason for the drasha of the bar mitzvah rabbi brahmalashi says that the reason for the drusha of the bar mitzvah is because it's a welcome party for who the eights are type the clay very good the ku klux number says number five that since the purpose of fill-in is the mantia toyras hashem in order to encourage a person to learn so the bar mitsuboy establishes that he's a bowel torah and finally number six the reason for the drasha is in order to make the satire effective one more idea it says by yaakov they were the first to turn 13 years old they're the first people in the hamish to turn 13 years old and it says they grew up and what do we know yaakov avinu yaakov ishtam yoshiva halim the ace of ish rashi tells us as soon as they turned 13 zab p raised the butte mid rashes so at the moment that a child turns 13 he charts his course immediately and he is establishes that as soon as he becomes a godol he's piresh labate midrash and he establishes his godless latira la avoida ulamasum tyvim so these are a few reasons for the minogue torah that the bar mitsuboi is direct and thank you everybody for coming this morning and have a wonderful day you've just experienced another torah class brought to you by torahanytime.com