The Struggle Podcast EP2 - Rabbi Shloime Ehrlich #mentalhealth #marriage #divorce #therapy #podcast

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Shloime Ehrlich is a rabbi, educator, and community leader in the Orthodox Jewish community, recognized for supporting struggling youth. He founded Bnos NY, a program offering a nurturing environment for teenage girls facing challenges, and contributes to Kesher Nafshi, delivering talks on resilience and support for individuals and families. He also specializes in couples counseling and marriage, with a focus on blended families, helping them navigate their unique dynamics. 00:00 – Intro 00:44 – Rabbi Erlich’s Journey 07:35 – Dating vs shidduch System 12:38 – Roles in the marriage 20:45 –Are divorces disposable? 22:16 – Seeking advice from the right people 24:33 – Knowing who the kids really wanna marry 27:54 – Bias Din and Toyanim 33:50 – Family court disputes 37:10 - When do you know the marriage will not work? 41:18 - Not letting the ex have custody 45:25 - Getting out of toxic relationships 49:12 - living with the decision after a divorce 51:49 - Do tolerance levels change for second marriage? 58:23 - Children who take advantage of divorce 01:01:56 - Learning to trust again 01:06:11 - Successful second marriages 01:08:24 - The right way to get divorced 01:10:38 - Self blame and healing 01:14:52 - Gaining children’s trust in blended families 01:18:05 - Why are kids misbehaving and dropping out of schools? 01:28:11 - Who is you’re role model? 01:30:28 - Final thoughts 01:34:27 - Outro Follow us on Socials for More Content: Subscribe on YouTube -https://www.youtube.com/@Thestruggle.podcast Instagram- https://www.instagram.com/thestruggle.podcast?igsh=MTZ2cnp3dTJpYXl0cQ%3D%3D&utm_source=qr Spotify -https://open.spotify.com/show/44tgKK9oZF2z01wwYZQBRL?si=HKGgYRG2Rm-5G8jK75UteQ Apple Podcast - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-struggle/id1796423076 To Reach Rabbi Shloime Ehrlich Website - https://rabbiehrlich.org YouTube -https://www.youtube.com/user/ShloimeEhrlich Instagram -https://www.instagram.com/shloimeehrlich/