What Is Real Love? - JEWISH INTIMACY (35)

Rabbi Yaron Reuven 2,867 views

"What people in the street call love, we call Karet" (Chazon Ish). The Iggeret HaKodesh Series by the Ramban has retrained our mind, body and soul thus far, and tonight it will test our hearts to see if we actually know what Real Love is. Enjoy Share and Be Holy. To Support our KIRUV and Torah Teachings work Please Donate At: http://www.BHDonate.org http://www.BHTorah.org http://www.BeEzratHaShem.org “Iggeret HaKodesh” The Holy Letter of the Ramban: https://amzn.to/429g1tc As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases. Join this channel to get access to perks: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCi-fAdFBv83gUzBgKm3PAyw/join 0:00:00 Introduction 0:05:03 Preparation for Jewish Intimacy & Tests (Ramban) 0:07:49 Any love that depends on something will not last forever, because when that thing ends, the love ends (Avos 5 16) 0:09:20 Someone with a bad wife will not see the face of Gehinnom (Eruvim 41b) 0:10:16 Rebbi Yose the Galilean's Act of Love for His Evil Ex-Wife (Yerush Ketubot 11:3) 0:17:50 What People Call Love We Call Karet (Chazon Ish) 0:18:55 How to Cleave to Hashem 0:20:46 Thoughts of Tzadikim Adhere to Upper Heavens 0:23:42 Thoughts of Average Person 0:28:33 One who mocked the words of the Sages & Future Doors of Beis Hamikdash (Bava Basra 75a) 0:36:54 R. Yose of Yukras to his beautiful daughter: 'Return to dust" (Taanis 24a) 0:40:41 The Sages' Gaze of Judgement: Death or Poverty (Chagigah 5b) 0:41:56 Extraordinary Powers of Tzadikim: R. Shimon Bar Yochai 0:48:29 The Rav of Ponevezh addresses Titus 0:49:45 Real Love: As water reflects a face back to a face, so one’s heart is reflected back to him by another (Prov. 27:19) 0:55:05 Why does above verse mention water and not a mirror? (R. Kimchi) 0:56:50 I have set Hashem before me always; because He is at my right hand I shall not falter (Ibn Ezra to Ps. 16:8) 0:59:21 The Incident of R. Yosef Karo's Tefillin (Maggid Mesharim) 1:01:53 Any love that depends on something will not last forever, because when that thing ends, the love ends (cont.) 1:03:03 What is Real Love? (Magnets) 1:08:08 Hatred arouses strife, but love covers all offenses (Prov. 10:12) 1:10:35 Only the Modest Truly Feel Love (Baal Shem Tov) 1:12:11 The will of those who fear Him He will do (Ps. 145:19) 1:14:14 Focus on Expressing Gratitude to Hashem 1:16:52 People too focused on loving themselves 1:20:25 Aligning our will with G-d's will 1:24:25 Discovering True Love Through Parenthood 1:25:56 Love is a Spiritual Status 1:27:16 Why a Wife is Called Bayit ("home") 1:27:54 Unity in Marriage: When One Hurts, Both Feel the Pain 1:29:40 No Such Thing as Love at First Sight 1:30:55 Conclusion 1:41:42 BeEzrat HaShem Inc. Donate 1:42:25 New Podcast: Returning to Hashem #Love #RealLove # Intimacy #jewishintimacy #Jewish #Judaism #RabbiYaronReuven #Ramban