Parashat Chayei Sarah: How To Pick The Right Shidduch

Rabbi Yaron Reuven discusses the Parshat Chayei Sarah and its lessons about picking the right shidduch. He emphasizes that Sarah's death at age 127 signifies her complete righteousness. He then explains the concept of becoming a ba'al tshuvah at the age of 48, highlighting Avraham's journey to this level. Rabbi Reuven delves into the complexities of Avraham purchasing the Cave of Machpelah, highlighting the deception of the Hittites and the importance of paying a fair price. He connects this to the concept of truth in big lies. He also provides insight into the Jewish practice of cremation, emphasizing its prohibition for Jews and its allowance under certain conditions for non-Jews. Rabbi Reuven then highlights Avraham's decision to send Eliezer to find a wife for Yitzchak and the importance of seeking a righteous woman with good character over physical beauty. He emphasizes that HaShem sends Eliezer a clear sign through Rebecca's actions, demonstrating her inherent kindness and generosity. The rabbi also emphasizes that despite their difficult backgrounds, individuals are responsible for their actions. He uses the example of Eliezer's near-death experience due to La'van's plot to illustrate that HaShem does not give tests that cannot be overcome. Rabbi Reuven further addresses the misconception that shidduchim are arranged by parents. He clarifies that Judaism requires both parties' consent and emphasizes that even La'van, a crooked individual, recognized this law. He concludes by stressing the importance of mental connection over physical attraction in shidduchim, arguing that relationships built on lust are prone to failure. To Support our KIRUV and Torah Teachings work please DONATE at www.BeEzratHaShem.org If you'd like to invite Rabbi Yaron Reuven to give a lecture at your synagogue, home or office please email [email protected] Rabbi Reuven is based out of Florida but travels to give lectures to different groups. DOWNLOAD Our Torah App https://www.beezrathashem.org/getapp Available on Apple iTunes Store, Amazon App Store and Android Play Store, ROKU, itunes and all major podcast sites. Born in Netanya, Israel, Rabbi Yaron Reuven began his American Dream as a little boy, when his family immigrated to the United States. He went from a newspaper boy at the age of 10, to a well-known self-made Wall Street multimillionaire by the age of 23. During his time in Wall Street, he owned his own private brokerage firm, a hedge fund, and an international insurance agency. He was featured on CNBC, Bloomberg and Chinese NDTV due to his success in the financial industry. At age 26 he faced a 7-year battle for his life when a simple surgery went wrong. From that moment his life would never be the same. This moment marked the start of a series of miraculous events and an exciting pursuit of truth, ultimately resulting in Rabbi Reuven renouncing his lofty position and success in Wall Street, after 16 years, to become a full-time KIRUV rabbi. His Teshuva story is sure to catch the heart of every listener. Rabbi Reuven’s shiurim are in English and Hebrew. His classes are focused on spreading the truth and divinity of the Torah through MUSSAR, scientific proofs, and many other methods to reach each individual listener. Rabbi Reuven is the leading educator on the topic of wasting seed in the English language with over 100 videos about this topic published online. Rabbi Yaron Reuven is a proud member of the Igud HaRabbonim (The Rabbinical Alliance of America), a national rabbinic organization founded in 1942. Today, our 900+ members are congregational leaders, religious teachers, chaplains, heads of Jewish organizations and communal leaders united in their commitment to traditional Orthodox Judaism. For more information please visit: https://rabbinicalalliance.org/ #shidduch #JewishMarriage #marriage #parashathashavua #chayeisarah #rabbiyaronreuven #judaism #torah #Shabbat #ShabbatShalom #Shabbos #Mitzvah #Judaism #Jewish #RabbiYaronReuven #Torah #Jews #ShabbatDinner #ShabbatTable #Rest #Peace #JewishHoliday