Happy Father vs. Miserable Father - JEWISH INTIMACY (40)

We've learned about bringing precious neshamot to the world, but how do I know it will make the father happy in the end? The Ramban's Iggeret HaKodesh will provide us proofs from the Holy Torah that will show us who the happiest fathers are and whether we can become them. At the same time there are those fathers who create misery for themselves without realizing it, and being a father does not make things any better. Learn, Enjoy and Be Holy. “Iggeret HaKodesh” The Holy Letter of the Ramban: https://amzn.to/429g1tc As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases. BUILD WITH US (Who Is BeEzrat HaShem Inc) http://www.BHYESHIVA.com BeEzrat HaShem YESHIVA & BEIT MUSSAR BUILDING BUILD A JEWISH COMMUNITY THAT WILL CHANGE THE WORLD 0:00:00 Introduction 0:05:41 World's Existence Hinged on Israel Accepting Torah; Extra Heh, in the Sixth Day (Shabbat 88a) 0:06:53 Yisro Converts Upon Hearing G-d's Measure for Measure Punishment Against Egypt (Rashi, Ex. 18 v. 11) 0:07:45 Physical, Mental, & Spiritual Preparation for Intimacy 0:08:12 Holy Intimacy: Highest Level of Holiness (Ramban) 0:08:51 "You Shall be Holy, for I, the L-rd, Your G-d, Am Holy" (Levit. 19:2) 0:09:29 The Holy One, Blessed is He, Does Not Smite Israel Unless He Has Created a Remedy for Them Beforehand (Megillah 13b) 0:10:19 Happy Father vs. Miserable Father 0:11:50 Are Ladies Really First? 0:12:31 Utilizing Ramban's Analogies 0:13:55 Modesty Obligation for Both Men & Women 0:16:28 How Does One Act Modestly During Intimacy? 0:19:38 Teshuvah vs. Tikkun 0:20:49 Modest Behavior & Mind 0:21:50 Modesty Level Impacts Quality of Seed 0:24:05 Righteous Father with Righteous Son is a Double Joy 0:31:22 Righteous Father's Merits Grant Wicked Child Extended Time for Teshuvah 0:37:49 Righteous Father with Righteous Son is a Double Joy (cont.) 0:45:02 Obligation to Notify Before Giving Gift 0:46:52 Avraham's Wisdom & Preparation for Double Joy (Moses' Spiritual Ascent) 0:53:16 HKBH Brought the Torah Around to Every Nation and Tongue and They Did Not Accept it Until He Came to the Jews and They Accepted It (Avodah Zarah 2b) 0:58:03 Observing G-d's Covenant to Be Chosen Nation - What is Holy? (Ex. 19 vv. 5-6) 1:01:49 Preparing for the Treasure - Sanctifying Ourselves to Be Holy 1:05:11 G-d Speaks to Millions of Jews, Giving Ten Commandments - World Knew, Sound of Horn 1:07:27 Ten Commandments 1:09:12 Don't Commit Adultery, Don't Covet the Wife of Your Fellow to Niddah 13b 1:13:31 Whoever Grasps the Organ and Urinates is as if He Brings a Flood Upon the World (Niddah 13a) 1:14:45 One Who Arouses Himself Intentionally Shall Be in Excommunication (Niddah 13b) 1:16:35 Better a Gruesome Death than to Waste Seed One Time 1:17:10 Those Who Sport with Children Delay Arrival of the Moshiach (Niddah 13b) 1:19:53 Preparing for the Treasure - Sanctifying Ourselves to Be Holy 1:23:27 Kohen Gadol's Preparation for Yom Kippur (Mishnah Yoma 1) 1:27:29 How Does One Know He is Going to Be a Happy Father? 1:28:34 Fate of Rebels vs. Followers of G-d (Chovos Halevavos) 1:31:22 Conclusion 1:34:40 Be'Ezrat Hashem: Make Eternal Investments #Judaism #jewish #intimacy #rabbiyaronreuven #JewishIntimacy #Father #fatherhood #Happy #miserable